‘You like it or not, your mum is now my wife !’ Said my ex husband
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
- Every time Martha Soipan was beaten by her then husband, she would run to her mother to seek solace. And every time, her mother would urge her to go back to her husband and ‘persevere.’
What she didn’t know was that her mother was having an affair with him all along! 😥😥😥😥
Soipan decided to go public about it about a year ago. Her mum and her ex confronted her and told her that they were not going to end their relationship 😥😥😥
To all women saying she should move on ...shame on you, its her story and her life...she will heal and get sober in Gods time, until then, Martha give ur story if it makes you feel better, give it everywhere you want❤
I agree with you
What is wrong with women
Which curse
Around all this channels..stop it
She can reapet it 1000 times lf that will make her heart feel good.
That will heal her heart
This is the 1st time i am meeting with very negative comments on Metha and its really disheartening.
I do not believe Monica can re-do an already done story without doing her due diligence and for a reason.
The fact that there has never been justice for the rape even after speaking out explains why this story needs to be retold. On the other hand the mother wound is tough and especially at this level. You cant just tell someone to forgive and move on. Complecated grief cannot be explained or wished away.
Until she can get a therapist sepcialized in both complicated loss and grief and PTSD this issues will never be dealt with in her heart. She might not be "perfect" but its not fare to belittle her pain either.
I hope she gets justice.
@FaithImani-qj1ciVenting out is part of therapy
Very well said. birthing humans can be very self righteous
True may God grace locate her and give her peace
@FaithImani-qj1cipeople are different and her pain is valid .
She is allowed to tell her story again and again. Until she find peace in her heart.
Telling her story is part of healing….
I have never heard her before and I had a chance to listen to her story again.
She will be fine one day and she will speaks as you speak now
May God Grace be with you
After 14 years? The only thing she is looking for is traffic to her business and you tube channel
Hii story ya huyu dame ilifanya ni quite hio church ya huyo pasta ..
well done!
Ni church gani
This is one of the saddest stories i have ever watched on UA-cam. Stay strong Martha
This story is familiar to me. My children were in Miss Gitau. May God bless Mrs Ruhiu. She is in the US. A dear woman of God. She was a mother to many. Will forward this story to her
My headmistress,she was indeed our mother 🥰 you just reminded me how we all looked forward to morning assemblies for her warm greetings.God bless the entire Musa Gitau fraternity back in the days and now.
Wow that good kindly forward to her if you can reach out to her,what did she call her...did she have a platform she preach
Yeah the STORY I watched like an yr back
This woman aii, she has been moving around for more than an year, hajawahi heal? Gari alitoa wapi? She is attracting a curse , she needs someone to advise her kabisa. The mum is not right lakini kuna venye mtu hufika mahali ana move on.. Story yake amepeana kila mahali BBC, Afrimax, KTN , Metha, Tuko , embu add the list cuz I forgot the others.
Which curse you think healing ni rahisi.... it's a process My friend
@@sophianjenga8120 I understand but imagine healing is a decision you make. After hii kwiiturura everywhere and the tears, that should help her alot. But every time she comes for the shows,she repeats the same thing over and over again. What she needs is a counselor and to make a decision to move on. The son is now almost a teenager and there is a whole life ahead of her aiii. This is the kind of help she needs, not sympathizers . The mum moved on and made it clear, she is still young,
People heal at different times there is no time limit for us to heal. Others will go to the grave still mourning others for a week, others for a few months, etc.
I wish you would advise her to see a therapist. 😢
@@carolwangari2896 my point exactly, these interviewers now need to help her health, get a therapist so that she will not affect the life of the son who is now a grown up who will see all these sensitive content one day. She needs help to heal
@@katenjiiri232 this woman is depressed it's not easy to heal when you are depressed
Congratulations monicah. God give us the spirit to overcome ❣️💝💖💖💖
Please if you find that she's giving her story too much... don't read... again,hujawahi kupitia... healing and moving on is not easy.
This story was aired by Lynn and Monica has stated very clearly, she’s just presenting it in kikuyu. I have witnessed someone in their 70s talking about how she was treated by someone she dated and had children with. This happened when she was 18, she still remembers it like it was yesterday. This lady needs therapy and guide to forgive so she can heal .
What is disgusting is forcing tears
Its very hard for her to heal cz she always sees her son as a reminder,hugs shiku in due time God of impossibility will see u thru so stop asking oo eti hajawahi heal..inyui inyui ndinamuorota..❤ to u gal
Mimi na kiherehere yangu nimejifikisha comment section kabla niwatch. 😂😂😂😂 Kenyans yaani you people have zero chills. Mmeamua kufa dereva kufa makanga. Wee🙈🙈🤣🤣🤣
I thought she moved on when I saw her on the other side of letters, may God heal her it hurts
Yes she is on the side I also see her in ticktok
How does her sexuality erase her immense traumatic life and injustices?
Is this Martha soipan
Yeah yy ni femme
May the Lord God remember this strong lady and her dear son.
Hii story is more clear here at Metha.
God knows you Soipan . You are His workmanship. He will protect you and your son. Continue to acknowledge Him ALONE as your Helper. Forgive but DO NOT FORGET. Mürimü wa mücoka niguo üriaga mündu. Keep your distance from evildoers, you are wise. Thanks Monica.
Kwa hii interview halii saana kama interview ya kwanza, talking about this several times has helped her heal slowly slowly, this is a good progress, the first interview she cried so much
Mimi dio sijui kusoma ama nimelewa vibaya.ati mama amefanya nini aki 😭😭😭 aki wazazi tueni nahuruma kwa watoto wetu 😢😢😢.wacha nigoje dio nielewe zaidi
Tafuta part 1
@@Tmk5342 saw dear 😢😢
Mama horrible
Dunia isimame nishuke
That mother is cruel, evil , monster 👹👹👹
Is that why you decided to date your fellow woman? ,huko tiktok hatupumui malove love nimeshangaa if hakupei doo....,reke cikiume na ene
She is the advocate of all lesbian's 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄😏😏😏ajihejimu Kwanza huyu nimama mzima
imagine
Minding owns business requires no capital
@@salmamohamed909 ghai politeness costs nothing
Thanks Martha ,God is with you my dear,, you are in the right track.
Watched this story on tuko..may she find peace to move on from this..
This is one of the most traumatic story ever! How’s this woman still able to live? Since childhood! Monica you asked for the lessons we learn from here, before I continue let me say rapist pastor need face the law and I can’t imagine her ex husband is still roaming after making this woman disabled! Monica, for the lessons I would like to let all adults who faced child abuse to know that you’re not obligated to help any abuser no matter who they’re are or the problems they are facing! You were a child they abused you and it is this very early abuse that’s causing chaos in your life. Tuko pamoja hadi hapa? Realize this anyone who abuses you is either narcissistic or carries another cluster b personality disorder and an abuser will never love you or change to love you, they inherently hate you much! Their aim is to stay hurting you! That’s the case of her mom! Finally understand this, an abuser can be anyone, your parent, spouse, co worker, boss, adult child etc
Also one last bit, with helping, not unless you are helping children (next generation) don’t sell things to cater for an already older generation! Children need stability, abusers don’t matter and lazy people don’t matter! Wasteful people don’t matter so before you help, ask yourself am i wasting my hard coin? Ask yourself will I deplete my energy on a ridiculous person and most importantly am I gonna hurt a child or children (next generation) in this process of helping? Let’s be trauma cycle breakers!
Did you listen to makaika kimani story in Lynn ngugi show ..huyu sichoki kusema she's a sympathy seeker.
Uyu mama na yeye anaseek sympathy. Kwani hajai heal io.miaka yote..aiiii😏
Did she ask it from you ???
@@elizabethnjoki6186 was i addressing you? Ama mdomo mingi niya nini
Imebidi nikimbie tiktok kwanza weuuu,anyway God have mercy 🥺
Such a sad story & traumatizing 😢😢..
But God of another chance will come through for her and the son...
Hii story nimeona lyn ngugi n chungu
Yaani nimelia hivyo alafu niingie comment section napata wewe ni lele 😏i dont support LGBTQ change your ways first otherwise ata Mungu amekasirika na wewe
😲😲😲😲😲
May God come through to every lady who has gone through hell inthe hands of their mothers😢..talk it out even if its a thousand time until you heal...the pain of a mothers hate is more than a husband...
Martha Mwihaki Hinga who could be this pastor sammy kairo... pls anika yeye alee mtoto
Weh! The comments though 😮. Mambo Kwa ground Ni different
I understand you mama but secondly am against that tough decision you made of joining LGBTQ community choka magomano ma njira na Ngai niagakuhe muthuri wa kirathimo
Worry about your sex life please achana na wengine kindly! This is a woman survivor of horrific domestic violence and all you care for is lgbtq? If you can’t listen and support her please just pass. Mnaudhi nyinyi
What?....
@@mweusimrembo890I will be against this until the day I will see lovebirds of the same genders barred a fruit
Sin is sin
Some Comments Though. Let Me Keep Quiet. Monica Continue Doing Your Great Work.
This world is full of madness 😠
Total madness! Insanity is working on people. The devil is at work.
Could this be the reason made her to become unstraight lele asking for afew others
Pole jipe nguvu nauombe sana coz hayayote mungu aninjua
What do I say,Onekanira Mutumia uyu Tondu niakwihokete NGAI.
I sow this somewhere. today story sounds different again tha auntee joined tha Lfghi gag 👀
This pain is unbearable,ruo rutiguanagiruo bt dont worry martha ngai niarigucokeria ciuria icio ciothe wanamuria.have faith gal
For UA-cam dear you don’t have to hire expensive equipment, you can start with what you have your phone , you can start slowly till it grows and buy you equipments that you wish for, to be honest equipments are never enough you will always need to upgrade from time to time , for marketing, there is free marketing on tiktok , you can also use instagram ads and micro influencers , pole pole use what you have no matter how little and you will get there dear.. pole for what you have been through and praying for your healing too
But huko uko seriously, anyway
It's soo sad that women should go through hell from people who claim to be men of God.I pray that God will separate the hypocrites from the true men of God.Saipan is a very strong lady.God has a purpose for her life.
For those wanasema she needs to heal, how can you heal from the person you love kwanza your own mum the grandmother to your kids.hurts you like this 💔💔💔before ikutoke ni very hard for real
Let her talk,the more she talks the more she heals
May the Lord remember you in a mighty way. God love you so much. Shi
I have listened to this story I do not know how many times but there is no such pain. My God I know you heal hearts please heal this one.
That man is saitani ngoma i am still crying 😭😭 Ngai ririkana mutumia uyu 😭
So so true but she acted foolishly in most instances, let's just say it. Now all her life has been wasted by her mother
Strong willed woman.
This lady has gone through too much pain to bear.,However she has such a strong character and prayerful to God.
One day God will surprise you and have a through 360 degrees life turn.Keep trusting Him.
I remember Martha's story but this is too much pain for one person 😢😢
. ? ?? ? ?
Martha story i would like to see it
May God relocate her from this country to another country .this will make her heal quickly
Very sad kuri uhuro na hii u are very strong.
So Sad 😢😢.May GOD heal your heart. Only GOD can take away your pain!
Hii story imekua too much forgive her and move on
Its easy for you to say but some people are stronger than others.
Si ukuje upeane yako... ... let the lady be
You are a strong woman. Seek deliverance.Apostle Waruingi will help you mum
Girl u have a big heart may God bless you and forgive ur mum she don't know what she doing
Lakini mimi i never bought this story
Martha , it's painful but just heal.. move on uga ndukurira ringi.....
Aki move on na mama mwenzake lesbian ya kawaida
@@mamadenzel9137 Is that detail about her love life necessary?
Her mother is literally sleeping with the enemy. That's horrible!
@Joyce, healing is not just a decision issue. Let her talk till she's content. You tubers are not tired of her.
@@waridim9249 imagine a woman mocking a survivor of domestic violence
Ati bad things kagoni why you did not ask her why ako LGBTQ
Maybe alipreserve hio swali
some things are personal
Hii story nimeiskia sana kwasocial media zote
Don't judge why she is doing this iñaweza kua ajapona na vile wengine Wana hold sio vile angependa pengine ameona akija kwa metha ya kagoni atapona
Heri wewe una hiyo kasi unachukia wengine hawana ataa
Huyo Pastor Sammy Kairu ni wa church gani? He needs to be exposed as a rapist!
Afadhali pastor huyu aliamua kuolewa na mwanamke mwenza ,akachagua kuwa lesbian
@@ReyharbKamotho-qw4rz you’re shameless! Disgusting human being! Why on earth would you say a man who raped this woman is better! Jesus Christ you’re a rapist apologist! I hope upitie yale amepitia aki! How about you go back to childhood na ukue abused! How about uolewe na uchomwe na pasi alafu uzae mtoto sick akufe na uwe huna pesa? You have to throw? How about you share bwanako na mamako? You’re disgusting
You dont know what pushed her to that
@Reyharb Kamotho, it's still ok . It's her choice
@@ReyharbKamotho-qw4rz😂😂😂 huruma hamna
I've seen her in several other channels like symoh K. Afrimax, Lynn Ngugi etc.
Pliz Martha, find a servant of to pray for you. Coz there's a spirit of rejection kutoka Thogoto from the letter. Pliz break it in Jesus name.
Pia sisi tunalea watoto wetu peke yetu na tunang'ang'ana bora mtu sio msick a hustle
Imagine ati tumsaport aogezee job SI ako na bwana dere😂😂
@@mamakejane na wanashidanga vacation na huyo bwanake si hiyo doh walipie nayo mtoi school fees na waongeze stock ololo
@@mamakejane😂😂😂😂imgne mtu mwenye ameolewa na mwanamke
Achangiwe na mtoto ni mmoja nkt na sisi tuko nawanne twende wapi
Kwa Wale hamjui ni LGBTQ
Mimi mtu wa eligbtq hawezi niambia kitu
Same here. .
Woii it's sad 😔 and painful 😢 💔 sorry my gal
I know it is heartbreaking but now there is time for healing
She has to work hard to heal I heard her story 1yrs ago..
And you think healing is easy?....you will never understand.... it's always easy to advice until it's you in the same situation
And their is no time frame for healing let her be
Say it loudly dear,no justice in Kenya for poor people but remember we have God in heaven who gives justice to all,the favour of the lord is among you
Please forgive them for your peace of mind
forgiveness si kweda choo kunia. its a long journey that involves healing, closure and remorse from the person you wronged. let this woman heal in her own pace
Soipan remain strong in faith. God loves you. He will never forsake you.
Martha you're beautiful mama just don't loose hope God will open a way and you will concer all Amen
Aki the story is so painful Hadi nimelia yangu yote haki mungu give Martha peace of mind
May God strengthen your heart always shiko... Wanjiku ni za kupitia mengi. Mmi ni shiko pia and I have gone through pains also. Continue forgiving dear and all is well. You will be fine. Hugs gal
Woii I can't hold my tears 😢 😭 💔 it's sad
Better to forgive and move on
forgiveness si kweda choo kunia. its a long journey that involves healing, closure and remorse from the person you wronged. let this woman heal in her own pace
@@MyJOSE2013 we forgive to heal huwezi shindilia kwa jambo moja coz already it had happened
@@marykamau4447 I wish you never experience this I really hope you don't go through something you struggle to forgive I just wish.
@marynjenga4431 I had experience of traumatic my dad once wanted to rape me but GOD is good he didn't success 😔
@@marykamau4447 now imagine if it actually happened and probably you got pregnant gave birth and saw that kid everyday you would love the child but everytime you would see them you would always curse the act.And that's how healing would be so hard that's the case with that woman.
Monicah God blessed you for giving heart to Soipan and tell her not to hate all men's they're not all bad nivile alikutana na wrong number
Watu watumie LGBTQ pesa aogezee kazi 😂😂😂
😂😂imagine mtoi mmoja na ako na biashara yake .nahuwa anashida vacation na mumama mwenzake
Was looking for this comment
@@tabitherlucywanjiku7924wapi mnamuonaga nikaona pia mmi😅
@@tabitherlucywanjiku7924imagine nikumbeba watu unjinga akuje achugue choo
@@gracekuria9444 bwana yake anaitwa captainv mama mwenzake🤣🤣🤣
This is so heartbreaking😭
The mother part being the 'co-wife'😭 Wee😭😭
Thanks Monica for the good work & demonstrating professionalism in all your content....
There are things that are very heart breaking,may God locate her ,and give her peace, I think talking is part of healing
@@lilianwangombe3353 We pray for healing🙏Tondu ma hau niharitu😞
Most people who are In LGBTQ lucked love during childhood.They need love not insults and harsh judgement..Why insult her and forget her parents who failed to give her love?Even that rape was as a result of parental rejection..I pray for you everyday Soipan.
Imagine someone here in these comments said that the pastor who raped her is much better than her because she’s a lesbian now! This statement came from a woman, a woman telling a survivor of immense violence some of which is domestic violence that rape done to her is justified because she’s a lesbian. Kenyan women am sorry to say but we carry with us a lot of internalized misogyny and too often we justify patriarchy crimes against us because of our own faulty beliefs. Another woman here said oh mimi ata sina kucha! Like we seriously believe we should stay in pain and look like pain.
Waaaah waaaah, this is so emotional,l have no words
Martha is a beautiful lady,humble and hard working. It’s unfortunate she encountered such life. Relatives can be very unfair. I am a man but I have never imagined God has created evil men among men. At this point I ask who are men???? Are they human or animals? I do not really know. What I have realized is that there are few men who are just simply animals. There are other men who are men of honor, gentlemen and we thank God for them. Very surprising to hear the kind of mum Martha has, she is weird and shameless. This narrative is sounding like a movie!
Martha stand by your rosary and God the Father and I want to assure you there is silver lining at the end,,,.
Mungu nifunze kunyamaza tu
I love the way you've corrected her; we owe no one apology for our faith 👌🙏🏿🍎
I wish Catholics can know how important our faith is regardless of all the church scandals, The church still stands.
The evil one fights the church right, left and center because it is a threat to his kingdom.
"Muti utari matunda duikagirio mahiga ".
Amen
True. One Holy and apostolic church. I pray for healing for shiku.
Yes we owe no one an apology.
She needs counseling . She is still trying to heal..wewe Pastor Sammy Kairu.....wewe.....
It is one thing to give birth to a child,a gift from God and another thing to traumatise this God given gift.First,this mother should be apprehended for negligence and violation of this lady's existence.
Second,this man of God should also be apprehended for rape and should be made to support the illegitimate child
Ww unafaa kwenda USA.u can deal with discrimination
Hii story Niko na miaka tatu tangu niiskie
Ooh God you are so merciful...remember her
Hapo kunashida kusema ulikua umejaribu kutoa mtoto na atakuja kuwatch
The mother needs help too.
Kwanza ajihesimu lesbian yet ako na watoto
just a sinner like you
😭😭😭😭😭watu uptia makubwa tena machungu aki,,,,, wooooshieee
First time yangu kumusikia alikuwa kwa Symo k
Riuri maruo matiguanagirwo this woman has gone through much pole sana but since she started narrating her story niaracokerera Ngai muno na tuiritwo atiri kiugo ini kia Ngai aty mawega na mauru mahanikaga ni kwa wendii wa Ngai people had gone through much more pain even through the hands of their mothers and people close to them niacenjie muohere wake niatige kublame Ngai muno ni undu wa maundu maria aragerera
Story changed different from Tuko aii
huyo pastor ni mgani tutembee kwa wall yake
Eti Sammy Kairos
Monicah.. show some sympathy at times. Pass some water.. tissue or something.. a therapeutic touch 🥺
When people talk to you nikama therapy to them. Just saying
😂😂😂😂 comment section huruma ni estate kweli. After watching tiktok and listening to your story I rest my case
Its really touching n sad for Martha's story. Bt Martha dea is God in Heaven who judge. All will b well n may our kids lack nothing.