@@greenapple9477 That's true, but Kate doesn't make it sound like a one time thing for her. The actual issue is already being really drunk before meeting the date, which makes it far more likely that she will argue over even meaningless things. I disagree with the guy she met, but that wasn't a throw your wine offence either.
here's a story: had a date with a guy who was a comedian... date SUCKED wicked hard..... a month or so later, went to to see a friend at an open mike night,so i sat near the stage, and the guy was there ---- using our date as material... ---- in the middle of it, his eyes landed right on me... oof
@@antoniovazquez772 he started by riffing on my looks and calling me a snob and dragging my work to the ground(and that was before he noticed me) so after that he kinda crashed and burned... i felt both embarrassed AND vindicated at the same time.
@Toast ! lol... see above..... i seriously think dates were just 'material' , but his timing/delivery/personality? nope.. part of his riff on my looks was about my legs... something like "didn't care what this ------ had to say cuz i was just wondering how her legs would look as a necklace..." what a class act... lol
Alicia Eberle like I’m sure it’s the most paid job in certain parts of the country but this is LA. Like obv people are mostly creative and because it didn’t work for you don’t need to bring others down
@retron phil5 Too handsey probably means he kept imposing some skinship while she wasn't giving a good response. And of course wanting skinship and attractivness are related (? it's like seduction101) Why would you want someone you're not into to touch you? ^^ are you that lonely?
I once went on a date with a guy who had approached me at the train station. He said he’d noticed me and after some talking we exchanged numbers and went on a date. Date was horrible, nonetheless he couldn’t stop trying to kiss me so I was out of there. Couple of years later, I was at the train station... and that same guy approached me, said he’d noticed me, wanted to ask me out 😂 I told him we’d already done this, he was confused, didn’t remember. I remembered his name, and when I mentioned it he realized I was right and we had already met. And he still wanted to go on another date :’) I politely declined and went home 😅
my worst date was 10 years ago, we met the old-fashioned way he walked into my work. He took me out to dinner, the entire time we were at dinner we talked about two things his ex-wife and his foot fetish. I tell you I try to change the conversation so many times but it didn't work. What I learned about his ex-wife was that they broke up because she was Moody (did I forget to mention that she was eight months pregnant at the time) then he went to great lengths to tell me about his foot fetish and then he wanted to see my feet that was where I drew the line and said nope. He had the audacity to text me the next morning I had a great time. that text went unanswered
Breaking up with a PREGNANT woman would be a red flag in my book. At least try to stay around a little to take care the kids for a while. Even if they're not mine, I'd try to stay around.
I talked to this guy on a dating app who had a foot fetish. So weird. Like even if they do, it’s not something they should say like first conversation material. I don’t get it. I told him I wasn’t into it, he STILL messages me. I told him we could be friends obviously he wants more. Look dudes if you have a foot fetish don’t tell us right away. Give us a few dates to see if we like you enough to even consider it. Lmaoooo
Had one guy go on and on about how awesome it was to be an only child. He kept sharing stories about the ridiculous lengths his parents went to to spoil him. Like making him breakfast in bed every Friday and Saturday morning through COLLEGE. It didn't matter that I told him I had the brothers, loved them dearly, and was not upset to be from a "large" family. He continued, insulting people who have multiple children and talking about how horrible siblings must be. I could not get him to understand that my siblings were my friends who understand shared upbringing. Needless to say I was one and done with that date.
I dated someone who worked at Buzzfeed for three weeks and he took me out, I watched him do his laundry, he bought me a taco, then broke up with me and made me cry.
@@janiceyqwang the media manager, he's in a few videos. he tried to be nice about it i guess but it happened the day after valentines day so i was kinda butthurt.
Katie Rose i know how you feel. One time i hung out with this guy a few times and it was around Valentine's day. So on Valentine's day he got me a box of chocolates then the next day never spoke to me again!!
Same, I met my boyfriend also on tinder and can't be happier. I also think that you have to be careful also. There are still a lot of nice guys on dating apps, you just have to pick them out like raisins
I met a guy at a speech and debate tournament. Really nice guy we are still friends actually. We went on a date where he asked me to go to prom with him. I was like "cool going to prom with this dude should be fun." (I was a sophmore in highschool at the time.) So we went to prom had a good time and ended up going on a second date. At the second his older brother went with us. While waiting on my date to use the bathroom his brother said "thanks for being you. You make him so happy. I havent seen him like this in a long time." This was weird for highschool me so I just brushed it off. Before dropping me off my date kissed me. It was like a horse was trying to eat my face! Open mouth slobbering all over my mouth. He actually cut my lip with his tooth. I broke up with him a week later and told him it was because he lived an hour away. Like i said we are still friends 12 years later. It was just weird for me. I hope he got better at kissing.
I once got catfished by a dude who used photos from like, 10 years before. He was this hunky outdoorsy type in the photos and when I met him he was bald with glasses, and was so nervous that he was literally shaking. He then went on to tell me about how he got arrested for shooting off guns in the everglades. I noped right out of there and said I had an emergency.
Once got "catfished" on the other way around though "oh I should tell you, my photos are years old, I started doing sports and lost weight" Found him dorky and cute on the pictures and turned out to be extremely handsome IRL, like man you don't know how to sell yourself but I wont complain xD
Went on a date with a guy who started the conversation with ”do you like mayo?” and 5 min later asked me how many children I wanted to have (I was 18). He apparently wanted to have eight children and all of them HAD to be girls. At the end of the date I politely told him that I didn’t think we were a very good match but that I wished him the best. The next day I got a looooong text where he told me that I was his rose and that we could have had something great but I ruined it and that he would keep on dreaming about me forever. I didn’t respond to him. So he sent another text where he PROPOSED TO ME.
I don't know which one to pick; the one that harrassed me on several social medias? the one that gave my number to a bunch of unknown people? the one that was mad at me before even meeting because I wouldn't sleep at his place on a first date? the ones that turned from respectful to thinking they could talk to me like we were in a p*rn just because I said I wasn't looking for something serious? I'm so done with online dating 🤣🤣🤣
Fun fact: It is considered assault if you throw anything at anyone except for water because there’s a chance they could be allergic to it. So don’t be like the movies and throw wine/champagne/a different drink at anyone unless you’re fully prepared for the chance that they could be petty and call the law on you for assault.
dude's ex gf came home (they renewed the lease before they broke up) and he asked me to climb out the window becuase it turns out he wasn't supposed to have me over
Shorty no honey you're a little slow. lemme help you out. that was his current gf, maybe even wife. he told you the bogus lease story. to cover up for the fact that he was using you to cheat on her with. trust me guys tell these kind of lies all the time. you weren't supposed to be there because he was cheating. don't be stupid. you shouldn't see that guy anymore.
@@tryna_be_better4549 no honey, you're a little slow. I actually got to meet her and speak with her. They had broken up. Also, she had just gotten back from a date. They were broken up.
I do really agree Becky's advise at the very end of the video that not to make up an entire personality on a date to save you from embarrassment because it will come back and bite you.
I went on a date with a guy who ended up being twice my age (I was 25 at the time). He lied and said 'his friends set up his profile'. He then proceeded to get drunk and insisted that he walk me to my car in the middle of a huge city. Yikes! The bartender was watching out for me though. He cut the guy off once I told him about the age difference.
I had a guy who was doing too much too soon before we even met. I told him I wasn’t interested and I didn’t think we were compatible and I woke up the next morning to an entire short story about him breaking into my apartment and raping me. It was so crazy.
I met my husband on Tinder. He was my 4th match when I downloaded the app. He said something weird and I ghosted him for a year. Then I messaged him again after a year and now the rest is history 👬
I have better stories from friends than myself. My cousin was peeved out by a “virgin hunter” dude. Ew. And my friend was taken out for a burrito and after was like yeah I don’t want to go on a second date and he yelled at her in public that she owed him $5 for her burrito! Smh
The worst date I’ve been on was with some guy from bumble. He showed up 15 minutes late, hungover. As soon as we got in the coffee shop he went to the bathroom (I think to avoid having to pay for me as I was about to order.) He talked about himself the whole time, and interrupted me when I tried to offer something about myself. He said no to my suggestions about going in certain shops next door to the coffee shop. His profile said he was an intern at amazon, but turns out he was unemployed and wasn’t an intern anymore. He had just moved back to the area and all he did with his days was smoke weed and drink. He suggested we get chipotle after because he had a buy one get one coupon (still trying to avoid paying for me) and I made up an excuse and left. Needless to say there was no second date 😅
I had a guy take my phone and go through my messages with my 2 best friends. He got jealous and told me i cant talk to one of them because it was a guy. Asking me for advice....about his gf...
I once met a guy on Tinder, very handsome- checked all the boxes on my list. We flirted online for a bit and agreed to meet up. He chose the place....Sky Zone which is an indoor trampoline park. Of course I thought it was a bit strange but also thought it was kind of cute because he was being adventurous and fun. When I get there the guy tells me he's waiting inside for me so I go inside and I am greeted by a tall, dark and sexy man AND HIS TWO KIDS WHO ARE BOTH UNDER 5 YEARS OLD. There was no mention of this at all in the week long banter before we met up. Not that I'm opposed to dating men with kids but dammmmmn Zaddy give a girl a heads up!
I went on a date with this guy who didn't go on dates often... we snogged and then he said I was the light of his life. I never talked to him again an avoided him actively because he was really awkward..
I met a sweet guy on plenty of fish.he was way too jealous and would send me tons of selfies of him so I would remember him. The second date was a disaster before it even started. I got in the car and saw a wedding band on his finger as we were driving to go see a movie. I asked him about it and found out that it is from a woman he doesn’t know that mailed it to him. I asked him to please take off the ring but he refused to. That was the end of that guy. I also found out that he had multiple profiles on Facebook and plenty of fish. It was really strange
I met my boyfriend on tinder and almost swiped no because of 420 on his profile but I'm glad I swiped yes as he is my best friend and partner in crime now.😊
Just had a first date today with someone I met online. I suggested a coffee shop. When he pushed the time back to 12:00, I said I might get lunch there then. So he resides instead of going to the coffee shop, he was going to take me to probably the most expensive restaurant in the area we were in. At the end of meal, he came and sat near me, way to close, trying to get physical with two toddlers sitting next to us. I went to the restroom hoping he’d finally pay the tab. Nope. Didn’t touch it or show any signs of leaving, so I finally asked if we should split the bill so I could go. He actually let me pay for my lunch at this expensive restaurant he was trying to impress me with. So $28 for a lunch when I really just wanted a $7 sandwich or bowl of soup at the coffee shop.
I’ll meet my boyfriend in person next month for the first time after talking for nine months. He’s travelling from USA to Italy, hopefully all goes well, wish me luck!
Yeah, I thought that was odd. I'd have messaged her and found a way to ask about it without mentioning the DM conversation, and if her answer wasn't suspicious, meet her in person and see what's up. Cause seriously, random person you've never met and have talked to for over a month, or random person you've never met and this is the first time you're talking to them? Weird.
My story: I started dating this guy & it was going pretty great. About a month after us dating he disappeared.. like completely. 6 months later he messages me “Hey baby I’m back.” Turns out he went to prison! PRISON!!
Went on a date with a guy who was friends with my friends. College. He knew I liked to sketch for leisure. When he picked me up in his car he said the location was a surprise. He took me to Michael's and told me to pick out any supplies I liked. It made me a bit uncomfortable but i figured he was trying to be sweet so I picked up $20 sketching pencils and offered to buy us some lunch to make us even. He declined my offer. When we went to pay he handed me the cash. Which I thought was weird. I awkwardly put my hand out and he said "now what do you say?". I had already said thank you so this was very weird and I didn't know how to respond so I just said thank you again. He said "no. It's thank you, Daddy". At this point I wanted to gag. I really wanted to get out of here but didn't have a way to get home besides him. I told him I didn't want to say that and he kept asking me to say it. This was a rural area so no uber or taxis and my friends were either in class or at work. I was stuck. I just stayed quiet and paid for the pencils. On the way back to my dorm he kept saying he was my 'daddy' now. Needless to say I never talked to him ever again.
I once went out with a guy on Ok Cupid who made a living as a hypnotist, and kept reminding me he was a hypnotist the whole date. Very condescending and self absorbed. Needless to say I was too drunk by the end of the date because I couldn't get one word in our conversation and just proceeded to drink the whole time.
1. I had a guy drive 100 miles to my place of work, after I told him it wasn't gonna work out. (also never told him where I worked, or my last name) Creepy, but he didn't really do anything. 2. First and last real online date. He's looking at either the tv in the restaurant the entire time or looking at all the women who walked passed. He probably doesn't remember what I looked like. And talked about football the entire time. And anytime I'd try to ask questions, he'd give 1-5 word answers. Told him I didn't want a second date, that we didn't click. And he proceeded to text me 15 times a day for the next week until I threatened to call the cops.
I have a bad history of online dating because I had one bad experience in elementary school (2 hours to breakup, full year of emotional trauma and peer pressure to date guy with anger issues) so I just didn't date at school after that, and also I got bullied by guys in elementary and middle school, so I just sort of assumed guys didn't like me. The only times I got asked out were pranks or bets and I always said no. I knew at the time or later that they weren't real, so I'm not just assuming. I had a few guys who actually liked me but I always had a bad feeling in my gut and they creeped me out, so yeah... almost 16 and i started getting catfished by future exes. the worst one was 30 and turned out to be married to a very alive wife who i apologized to profusely once I knew she existed. There were some who weren't catfish, but were just sad or scary stories. Not all of them were assholes, but some were obsessive. Two exes I dumped at day 3 because they decided I was "the one" and I realized I couldn't handle the impending pressure cooker of affection. The first one was really the nicest, sweetest guy, big scary looking dude who was actually a complete marshmallow who would squeal for a solid 12 minutes over a cute drawing of a baby. 10/10 would recommend as boyfriend material, I was just first love to him, and he came on too strong for me at the time. Great friend too. The other one I had as like a sister for almost a year until he told me he was trans (I say he because I am very straight and even as a girl this ex had me very confused on liking them, but when I finally gave in to dating them he was the boyfriend by name, but I often acted like the boyfriend too). Basically, this ex acted like a possessive boyfriend even when I was dating other guys, and it never quite clicked to me because they weren't on my radar as obsessively crushing on me because they had labeled me as lil sis, not friend or girlfriend or crush, and they were bi and had had other crushes. Basically, within 3 days of dating, I realized that they were possessive enough to tell me i shouldn't go to work in case I got hurt in a shallow pool of water surrounded by like 20 lifeguards. It stopped being cute when another friend pointed out the serious red flags and everything clicked. Currently dating the only guy who has ever made it to/past 2 weeks with me and he's amazing. We've been dating about a month and a half now, and even though my brain keeps saying "look for the BS! it has to be there!" I can't find any. He's so patient with me it's insane. He's responsible and mature even though he's a total dork and a jerk and his brain always goes to the dirty joke in every statement. I love every part of it, and somehow he loves all of me even though I make terrible puns he hates and I'm celibate. Don't give up on love just because you had a sh*tty start or even repeatedly bad experiences. it gets better, I promise. There's someone out there for you, you just have to keep looking!
i met my boyfriend on League of Legends, we met irl in a city inbetween ours after 2 months of "online dating", the first date irl was so nice we both cried on our way back to our cities :3 we've been together for 3 years now and have plans for out future
I met my wife on the Her app. We have been married for 3yrs and been together for 4yrs in October💙 hope y'all find love,sorry to hear that you had an awful time with online dating. I did a back ground check on my wife before our first date😂👌 she was clean other than a few speeding tickets and being a stoner back in high school lol
Girls!I love your video!Imagine...I left Brazil ,I traveled 14 hours to meet my guy .Not to marry him ... to see him.I was at the most expensive site in Europe and I really was so in love with him!I Of course he didn’t meet me!!!I found after many research that he was a Eastern European scammer.. All the site !.I was devastated....but I am a Phoenix...always reborn from ashes and I am happy and laughing about that!
My hubby and I met online and we’ve been married for two and a half years 🥰❤️ We were in a long distance relationship for two years before we got married, but it was worth the trips and wait ❤️ *I lOvE mY hUbBy So0o0o MuCh!!!* 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️
I tried tinder recently for about a week. It made me feel like a piece of junk. Especially those girls that reply with 2-3 words on a question that clearly signals conversation. I just unmatch them from the 3rd-4th message or so if they are still acting prestigious or hard to get. A week later, I deleted it and sweared to never online date again
Wounderful Boy I haven’t been on in over two years since I met my boyfriend but I remember he told me (and many other guys) that there are a lot of fake “bots” trying to match and talk to men on it?
My worst on line date was someone I met on Plenty of fish. He convinced me to come meet him at a bar for drinks and food. I get there.. he orders me a drink.. complains at how much it costed! We obviously didn't eat cause he was cheap. He continues to tell me he's impotent. Then... he invited me home to play WII. I think he meant wee wee😂. I obviously didn't go!
Man, I just want Kate to be happy. Like this girl just never catches a break and she's such a sweetheart.
Getting drunk and arguing is probably not a great way to meet somebody IRL.
@@recoil53 So is telling someone to quit their job and work for the government just because ' it pays well'.
@@greenapple9477 That's true, but Kate doesn't make it sound like a one time thing for her.
The actual issue is already being really drunk before meeting the date, which makes it far more likely that she will argue over even meaningless things.
I disagree with the guy she met, but that wasn't a throw your wine offence either.
recoil53 her being drunk didn’t have anything to do with the date tho and that’s offensive either way drunk or sober I would’ve argued with him
I've had men read my stuff and ask me when I was going to write something
groups.google.com/d/forum/divorced-dating
here's a story: had a date with a guy who was a comedian... date SUCKED wicked hard..... a month or so later, went to to see a friend at an open mike night,so i sat near the stage, and the guy was there ---- using our date as material... ---- in the middle of it, his eyes landed right on me... oof
Tell us exactly what he was saying about the date
@@antoniovazquez772 he started by riffing on my looks and calling me a snob and dragging my work to the ground(and that was before he noticed me) so after that he kinda crashed and burned... i felt both embarrassed AND vindicated at the same time.
@Toast ! lol... see above..... i seriously think dates were just 'material' , but his timing/delivery/personality? nope.. part of his riff on my looks was about my legs... something like "didn't care what this ------ had to say cuz i was just wondering how her legs would look as a necklace..." what a class act... lol
Omg that sounds horrible
@@aliciaeberle7501 i think it was probably more awkward for him... at least i was sitting down....
When he said he told her to work for the gouverment because it pays well.. that aged badly😬
Alicia Eberle like I’m sure it’s the most paid job in certain parts of the country but this is LA. Like obv people are mostly creative and because it didn’t work for you don’t need to bring others down
@@melanied4161 I don't live in the usa lol
Lmao they’re not even getting paid
lmao right? I was like "oooff... good thing you're not, girl!"
When she said he said that I was like I think she’s doing okay for herself lol. Like I’m pretty sure she doesn’t need to get a government job😂😂
work for the government.. That's a laugh
“it pays so much better”
Lmao I was like I think she’s doing alright for herself. I don’t think she needs a government job😂
How dare him make suggestion that would benefit her
I work for the government...it sucks.
Tinder seems scary to me I mean you are meeting a complete stranger and you might meet a psychopath
So everyday
Breanne Doria it’s happened plenty of times that’s why I don’t online date
he could be Ted Bundy
That's why you meet in public
To be fair, meeting someone at a bad isn't much safer
Anyone here who just can't be bothered for any type of dating but low-key want an amazing boyfriend/husband
💯
Meeeee haha !!!
But seriously I shouldn't watch these videos they make me feel more scared about dating that I was before.
One time my sister went on a date with a guy, and he asked her to marry him...on the first date lmao
I suppose she said no? XD
Jasmine a guy once told me on our first date i love you and never talked to him again
Long distance relationship(6years) proposal happened before the first date..
Was he Ted Mosby?
people in the military be like
Kate reminds me soooo much of Drew Barrymore in Never Been Kissed.... 😍😍👍
even their voices match
I’ve always thought she reminded me of Drew Barrymore!
does anyone else think she reminds you of Hannah from girls a lot too?
which one is kate?
DreamBelive07 she’s a mix of both drew and Hannah
I had one bad date. The guy was too handsey and my dog absolutely hated his guts. Good doggy😊
The dogs know
Omg I love your dog lol
@@MS-nv1vu Me too! She was the absolute best pup in the world! I had seventeen wonderful years with her.
@retron phil5 r/niceguy
@retron phil5 Too handsey probably means he kept imposing some skinship while she wasn't giving a good response.
And of course wanting skinship and attractivness are related (? it's like seduction101) Why would you want someone you're not into to touch you? ^^ are you that lonely?
I once went on a date with a guy who had approached me at the train station. He said he’d noticed me and after some talking we exchanged numbers and went on a date. Date was horrible, nonetheless he couldn’t stop trying to kiss me so I was out of there.
Couple of years later, I was at the train station... and that same guy approached me, said he’d noticed me, wanted to ask me out 😂 I told him we’d already done this, he was confused, didn’t remember. I remembered his name, and when I mentioned it he realized I was right and we had already met. And he still wanted to go on another date :’) I politely declined and went home 😅
Oh my goodness
Oh my god, almost the same thing happened to me haha.
That is horrific 😱
Damn it reminds of the movie Greta 😨
two years later he was using the same approach? that's both tragic and hilarious.
Dang...I had my dating app for about a week before I met my boyfriend...so thankful I didn't have to go through a horror story
Freya Chandra you are truly lucky. There are a lot of assholes out there.
How long have you been together?
Wow you are lucky 😁
We've been together over 2 years :)
jealous!! ive been on 15 crappy tinder dates and im losing hope in the male species hahah
my worst date was 10 years ago, we met the old-fashioned way he walked into my work. He took me out to dinner, the entire time we were at dinner we talked about two things his ex-wife and his foot fetish. I tell you I try to change the conversation so many times but it didn't work. What I learned about his ex-wife was that they broke up because she was Moody (did I forget to mention that she was eight months pregnant at the time) then he went to great lengths to tell me about his foot fetish and then he wanted to see my feet that was where I drew the line and said nope. He had the audacity to text me the next morning I had a great time. that text went unanswered
Breaking up with a PREGNANT woman would be a red flag in my book. At least try to stay around a little to take care the kids for a while. Even if they're not mine, I'd try to stay around.
Oh dear 😂
I talked to this guy on a dating app who had a foot fetish. So weird. Like even if they do, it’s not something they should say like first conversation material. I don’t get it. I told him I wasn’t into it, he STILL messages me. I told him we could be friends obviously he wants more. Look dudes if you have a foot fetish don’t tell us right away. Give us a few dates to see if we like you enough to even consider it. Lmaoooo
Had one guy go on and on about how awesome it was to be an only child. He kept sharing stories about the ridiculous lengths his parents went to to spoil him. Like making him breakfast in bed every Friday and Saturday morning through COLLEGE. It didn't matter that I told him I had the brothers, loved them dearly, and was not upset to be from a "large" family. He continued, insulting people who have multiple children and talking about how horrible siblings must be. I could not get him to understand that my siblings were my friends who understand shared upbringing. Needless to say I was one and done with that date.
I wonder what he would think of a person who is the eldest of 5 kids, and wants to have more than one child herself.
nah, being an only child SUCKS xx
Kate cracks me up everytime she's in a video, we need more of her!
I dated someone who worked at Buzzfeed for three weeks and he took me out, I watched him do his laundry, he bought me a taco, then broke up with me and made me cry.
Katie Rose what for real? Who was he?
@@janiceyqwang the media manager, he's in a few videos. he tried to be nice about it i guess but it happened the day after valentines day so i was kinda butthurt.
Katie Rose i know how you feel. One time i hung out with this guy a few times and it was around Valentine's day. So on Valentine's day he got me a box of chocolates then the next day never spoke to me again!!
Aww, I'm sorry :(
I am so sorry this happened!! You deserve the best and if he didn't want to be with you, his loss!
I met my boyfriend on tinder and I couldn't be happier. Just be smart about it. There's lots of great guys tucked away in there.
Same, I met my boyfriend also on tinder and can't be happier. I also think that you have to be careful also. There are still a lot of nice guys on dating apps, you just have to pick them out like raisins
Damn y’all lucky 😭😭 my boyfriend I met on tinder dumped me on Monday, luckily he didn’t murder me haha but either way but y’alls are lucky, congrats😂
I also met my boyfriend and a now good friend actually that I briefly dated :)
heykelly yeah but they’re all taken by better people
Yeah same, i met my boyfriend on tinder about 1,5 year ago. This summer we’re going to Thailand on vacation. God bless tinder.
I met a guy at a speech and debate tournament. Really nice guy we are still friends actually. We went on a date where he asked me to go to prom with him. I was like "cool going to prom with this dude should be fun." (I was a sophmore in highschool at the time.) So we went to prom had a good time and ended up going on a second date. At the second his older brother went with us. While waiting on my date to use the bathroom his brother said "thanks for being you. You make him so happy. I havent seen him like this in a long time." This was weird for highschool me so I just brushed it off. Before dropping me off my date kissed me. It was like a horse was trying to eat my face! Open mouth slobbering all over my mouth. He actually cut my lip with his tooth. I broke up with him a week later and told him it was because he lived an hour away. Like i said we are still friends 12 years later. It was just weird for me. I hope he got better at kissing.
"You should stop doing comedy and start working for the government because it pays well" I just laughed so hard I choked
EJ Brophy why? I'm so confused Lol
Batul Raza there’s been a month no one got paid because of the shutdown
Hearing the cookie thing... my first thought was roofie‘s😂😭
Lillian Ulrich me too. Why would anyone put a cookie in someone’s mouth
What if she had allergies. Seems like a show of dominance tbh
My tinder date turned out to be a murderer... didn’t murder me but def murdered someone else, then got murdered himself
I'm--
Are you for real? Do you mind me asking what your Tinder date's name was?
Whaaaaaaaaa
oof
Natalie Whiting umm.... I don’t even know what to say!
I once got catfished by a dude who used photos from like, 10 years before. He was this hunky outdoorsy type in the photos and when I met him he was bald with glasses, and was so nervous that he was literally shaking. He then went on to tell me about how he got arrested for shooting off guns in the everglades. I noped right out of there and said I had an emergency.
"noped right out of there"😂
Ugh they always do this!!!
Once got "catfished" on the other way around though "oh I should tell you, my photos are years old, I started doing sports and lost weight"
Found him dorky and cute on the pictures and turned out to be extremely handsome IRL, like man you don't know how to sell yourself but I wont complain xD
G breeze Been there, done that.Lots of covert narcissists on those apps, and they will do anything for attention and validation.Stay away!! Lol.
That happened to me as well. The guy in the picture was probably 28. When I met him IRL he was probably 50. Lol
*Fun Fact:* UA-cam was once an online dating site during its development back in 2005. (No joke)
Went on a date with a guy who started the conversation with ”do you like mayo?” and 5 min later asked me how many children I wanted to have (I was 18). He apparently wanted to have eight children and all of them HAD to be girls. At the end of the date I politely told him that I didn’t think we were a very good match but that I wished him the best. The next day I got a looooong text where he told me that I was his rose and that we could have had something great but I ruined it and that he would keep on dreaming about me forever. I didn’t respond to him. So he sent another text where he PROPOSED TO ME.
I met my boyfriend on Tumblr and now 4 years later he lives with me. Not all online relationships are bad! Don't get discouraged.
My bumble date ended in a marriage and a baby on the way!! I would say I got pretty lucky in finding the man of my dreams
The way the first girl tells her story is so funny and so animated. It made laugh so much lmao.
I don't know which one to pick;
the one that harrassed me on several social medias?
the one that gave my number to a bunch of unknown people?
the one that was mad at me before even meeting because I wouldn't sleep at his place on a first date?
the ones that turned from respectful to thinking they could talk to me like we were in a p*rn just because I said I wasn't looking for something serious?
I'm so done with online dating 🤣🤣🤣
Fun fact: It is considered assault if you throw anything at anyone except for water because there’s a chance they could be allergic to it. So don’t be like the movies and throw wine/champagne/a different drink at anyone unless you’re fully prepared for the chance that they could be petty and call the law on you for assault.
dude's ex gf came home (they renewed the lease before they broke up) and he asked me to climb out the window becuase it turns out he wasn't supposed to have me over
Shorty no honey you're a little slow. lemme help you out. that was his current gf, maybe even wife. he told you the bogus lease story. to cover up for the fact that he was using you to cheat on her with. trust me guys tell these kind of lies all the time. you weren't supposed to be there because he was cheating. don't be stupid. you shouldn't see that guy anymore.
@@tryna_be_better4549 no honey, you're a little slow. I actually got to meet her and speak with her. They had broken up. Also, she had just gotten back from a date. They were broken up.
@@tryna_be_better4549 you're a condescending twat.
@@tryna_be_better4549 oh dear, you shouldn't have tried to put some sense in to these women!
I do really agree Becky's advise at the very end of the video that not to make up an entire personality on a date to save you from embarrassment because it will come back and bite you.
😂Jazzmyn’s story though 😂
Harry Potter Lunatic hers are ALWAYS the best!!!
You know that feeling when u look at comments and your like ‘’ damn I wish I wrote that”
I went on a date with a guy who ended up being twice my age (I was 25 at the time). He lied and said 'his friends set up his profile'. He then proceeded to get drunk and insisted that he walk me to my car in the middle of a huge city. Yikes! The bartender was watching out for me though. He cut the guy off once I told him about the age difference.
The British girl is so freaking precious
I had a guy who was doing too much too soon before we even met. I told him I wasn’t interested and I didn’t think we were compatible and I woke up the next morning to an entire short story about him breaking into my apartment and raping me. It was so crazy.
Ya know what lesson I got from ya?
*Looks into the distance while smoking a cigarette*
NEVER GO ON DATES
Yes I am gonna die alone
I met my husband on Tinder. He was my 4th match when I downloaded the app. He said something weird and I ghosted him for a year. Then I messaged him again after a year and now the rest is history 👬
I'm single and i'm proud ಥ_ಥ
@dog person, I really love your profile picture! 😊
dog person, same🙂🙁☹️😭
Cat person......
@@theresaschultz8918 nice !
Jazz's purple lipstick matches perfectly with her personality. It's different,cute,edgy,and fun. 💜
4:06 this story was HILARIOUS.
And the bartender... Lol
I have better stories from friends than myself. My cousin was peeved out by a “virgin hunter” dude. Ew. And my friend was taken out for a burrito and after was like yeah I don’t want to go on a second date and he yelled at her in public that she owed him $5 for her burrito! Smh
I’m trying to figure out why the first girl sat and waited for her late date. I would have left.
This was way to relatable😂😂
The girls story about already going on a date with the same guy reminded me that I watched this video like a year ago 😂
I was under the impression that these would be one-sided stories. I'm impressed by your candor.
"I just wanted someone to talk to"
MOOD THOUGH
Best advice if your ever gonna meet someone meet them at a fun bar in case they stand you up you can still have fun and get drunk
Yeah slurred speech puke strand hair lol
I love Jazzmyne’s (sorry for the misspelling) lipstick color! It is so dope!
The worst date I’ve been on was with some guy from bumble. He showed up 15 minutes late, hungover. As soon as we got in the coffee shop he went to the bathroom (I think to avoid having to pay for me as I was about to order.) He talked about himself the whole time, and interrupted me when I tried to offer something about myself. He said no to my suggestions about going in certain shops next door to the coffee shop. His profile said he was an intern at amazon, but turns out he was unemployed and wasn’t an intern anymore. He had just moved back to the area and all he did with his days was smoke weed and drink. He suggested we get chipotle after because he had a buy one get one coupon (still trying to avoid paying for me) and I made up an excuse and left. Needless to say there was no second date 😅
@Julia Bartlett Why should he have to pay for your stuff?
Rachel it’s not that he had to it’s just that the way he was going about it came off as cheap and not very gentlemanly
I guess he should have just told you straight that he wanted to go Dutch. Would have been more gentlemanly.
Sounds like most of my dates.
I had a guy take my phone and go through my messages with my 2 best friends. He got jealous and told me i cant talk to one of them because it was a guy. Asking me for advice....about his gf...
Best Channel EVER!!! Thanks for putting real life out there.
I once met a guy on Tinder, very handsome- checked all the boxes on my list. We flirted online for a bit and agreed to meet up. He chose the place....Sky Zone which is an indoor trampoline park. Of course I thought it was a bit strange but also thought it was kind of cute because he was being adventurous and fun. When I get there the guy tells me he's waiting inside for me so I go inside and I am greeted by a tall, dark and sexy man AND HIS TWO KIDS WHO ARE BOTH UNDER 5 YEARS OLD. There was no mention of this at all in the week long banter before we met up. Not that I'm opposed to dating men with kids but dammmmmn Zaddy give a girl a heads up!
OMG that once happened to me too!! Why wouldn't they just tell you straight up. I dated my guy for a bit so I guess it works. lol
@@lorrainelopezloves5377 Sadly enough I think we get what we settle for...sorry to tell you ladies :/
Kate peterman is hilarious, one of your absolute best, I can’t believe you’ve let her go?! You didn’t use her enough anyway ♥️
I went on a date with this guy who didn't go on dates often... we snogged and then he said I was the light of his life. I never talked to him again an avoided him actively because he was really awkward..
snogged?
@@greenapple9477 It basically means making out/kissing
I met a sweet guy on plenty of fish.he was way too jealous and would send me tons of selfies of him so I would remember him. The second date was a disaster before it even started. I got in the car and saw a wedding band on his finger as we were driving to go see a movie. I asked him about it and found out that it is from a woman he doesn’t know that mailed it to him. I asked him to please take off the ring but he refused to. That was the end of that guy. I also found out that he had multiple profiles on Facebook and plenty of fish. It was really strange
I met my boyfriend on tinder and almost swiped no because of 420 on his profile but I'm glad I swiped yes as he is my best friend and partner in crime now.😊
Nice! :D I met my bf on craigslist, back when it had a personals section lol. There are definitely good people out there!
@@micheal2458 I'm glad I'm not the only one who found someone decent online ☺️
420 isn't so bad as long as it's not too much. Better than booze
awww.. your profile pic is so cute.
The first girl is such a mood and I love her
Just had a first date today with someone I met online. I suggested a coffee shop. When he pushed the time back to 12:00, I said I might get lunch there then. So he resides instead of going to the coffee shop, he was going to take me to probably the most expensive restaurant in the area we were in. At the end of meal, he came and sat near me, way to close, trying to get physical with two toddlers sitting next to us. I went to the restroom hoping he’d finally pay the tab. Nope. Didn’t touch it or show any signs of leaving, so I finally asked if we should split the bill so I could go. He actually let me pay for my lunch at this expensive restaurant he was trying to impress me with. So $28 for a lunch when I really just wanted a $7 sandwich or bowl of soup at the coffee shop.
The empty glass 😂😂😂
Kate:
Ineffective wine thrower😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
JAZZMYN GIRL THAT LIPSTICK THOOOO
WHAT IS IT I NEED IT IN MY LIFEEEEEE
Kate is freaking hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
That bartender is amazing.
LOL you went to throw your wine at him but it was empty 😂😂😂
I’ll meet my boyfriend in person next month for the first time after talking for nine months. He’s travelling from USA to Italy, hopefully all goes well, wish me luck!
Did you guys meet yet?
S P not yet! Two more days and he’ll be here
@@nicole12648 🤞🙌 Hope everything works out great!
S P thank you!!
Nicole Maso update us?
Side note but that blue/purple lipstick colour Omg its so pretty
Jazzmyne’s makeup looks so flawless 😍
Becky’s story reminded me of Joey in Friends when he thought he had dated the girl before while it was her roommate whom he had dated 😂
DMs are out here ruining fledgling relationships? Like how do you know the DM is truthful but not your eBae? 🤔
Yeah, I thought that was odd. I'd have messaged her and found a way to ask about it without mentioning the DM conversation, and if her answer wasn't suspicious, meet her in person and see what's up.
Cause seriously, random person you've never met and have talked to for over a month, or random person you've never met and this is the first time you're talking to them? Weird.
ohmygosh the first one is very weirdly hilarious
mistakes made on both parts lmaooo
Where are from Marianna?
lesson learned....tinder seems to be a common theme here lmao
My story: I started dating this guy & it was going pretty great. About a month after us dating he disappeared.. like completely. 6 months later he messages me “Hey baby I’m back.” Turns out he went to prison! PRISON!!
Kate is my spirit animal. Also, her life could be a show.
How do you forget someone you went on a date with? Like how many dates have you gone on to forget people?
Juliana Munoz do you remember every person you met from 5 years ago? No. Okay then
Juliana Munoz if they arent worth your while then why remember them? XD
Right like how do you forget someone's face and name?
not every person i've met, but every person I went on a date on, yes, which is what this video is about... @@amandamarks1390
@@joshuaalderson8187 to avoid lol
The last story is so How I met your mother! Hahahahahahaha
Went on a date with a guy who was friends with my friends. College. He knew I liked to sketch for leisure. When he picked me up in his car he said the location was a surprise. He took me to Michael's and told me to pick out any supplies I liked. It made me a bit uncomfortable but i figured he was trying to be sweet so I picked up $20 sketching pencils and offered to buy us some lunch to make us even. He declined my offer. When we went to pay he handed me the cash. Which I thought was weird. I awkwardly put my hand out and he said "now what do you say?". I had already said thank you so this was very weird and I didn't know how to respond so I just said thank you again. He said "no. It's thank you, Daddy". At this point I wanted to gag. I really wanted to get out of here but didn't have a way to get home besides him. I told him I didn't want to say that and he kept asking me to say it. This was a rural area so no uber or taxis and my friends were either in class or at work. I was stuck. I just stayed quiet and paid for the pencils. On the way back to my dorm he kept saying he was my 'daddy' now. Needless to say I never talked to him ever again.
I once went out with a guy on Ok Cupid who made a living as a hypnotist, and kept reminding me he was a hypnotist the whole date. Very condescending and self absorbed. Needless to say I was too drunk by the end of the date because I couldn't get one word in our conversation and just proceeded to drink the whole time.
I am LIVING for this!!!
1. I had a guy drive 100 miles to my place of work, after I told him it wasn't gonna work out. (also never told him where I worked, or my last name) Creepy, but he didn't really do anything.
2. First and last real online date. He's looking at either the tv in the restaurant the entire time or looking at all the women who walked passed. He probably doesn't remember what I looked like. And talked about football the entire time. And anytime I'd try to ask questions, he'd give 1-5 word answers. Told him I didn't want a second date, that we didn't click. And he proceeded to text me 15 times a day for the next week until I threatened to call the cops.
I was on OKC for 4 months I'm glad I had no horror story.
I have a bad history of online dating because I had one bad experience in elementary school (2 hours to breakup, full year of emotional trauma and peer pressure to date guy with anger issues) so I just didn't date at school after that, and also I got bullied by guys in elementary and middle school, so I just sort of assumed guys didn't like me. The only times I got asked out were pranks or bets and I always said no. I knew at the time or later that they weren't real, so I'm not just assuming. I had a few guys who actually liked me but I always had a bad feeling in my gut and they creeped me out, so yeah... almost 16 and i started getting catfished by future exes. the worst one was 30 and turned out to be married to a very alive wife who i apologized to profusely once I knew she existed. There were some who weren't catfish, but were just sad or scary stories. Not all of them were assholes, but some were obsessive. Two exes I dumped at day 3 because they decided I was "the one" and I realized I couldn't handle the impending pressure cooker of affection. The first one was really the nicest, sweetest guy, big scary looking dude who was actually a complete marshmallow who would squeal for a solid 12 minutes over a cute drawing of a baby. 10/10 would recommend as boyfriend material, I was just first love to him, and he came on too strong for me at the time. Great friend too. The other one I had as like a sister for almost a year until he told me he was trans (I say he because I am very straight and even as a girl this ex had me very confused on liking them, but when I finally gave in to dating them he was the boyfriend by name, but I often acted like the boyfriend too). Basically, this ex acted like a possessive boyfriend even when I was dating other guys, and it never quite clicked to me because they weren't on my radar as obsessively crushing on me because they had labeled me as lil sis, not friend or girlfriend or crush, and they were bi and had had other crushes. Basically, within 3 days of dating, I realized that they were possessive enough to tell me i shouldn't go to work in case I got hurt in a shallow pool of water surrounded by like 20 lifeguards. It stopped being cute when another friend pointed out the serious red flags and everything clicked. Currently dating the only guy who has ever made it to/past 2 weeks with me and he's amazing. We've been dating about a month and a half now, and even though my brain keeps saying "look for the BS! it has to be there!" I can't find any. He's so patient with me it's insane. He's responsible and mature even though he's a total dork and a jerk and his brain always goes to the dirty joke in every statement. I love every part of it, and somehow he loves all of me even though I make terrible puns he hates and I'm celibate. Don't give up on love just because you had a sh*tty start or even repeatedly bad experiences. it gets better, I promise. There's someone out there for you, you just have to keep looking!
*may be one of a few who's never actually had a bad date...*
Oh you will one day
Same. Sometimes your just not a match.
I do wonder why some people seem to have so many bad dates.
Same
@@bsummers1386 Thanks?
@@goggler2 Likely because they focus on one type, and don't seem to understand that it won't work, until its too late.
Jazz, your lipstick is freaking gorgeous!!
i met my boyfriend on League of Legends, we met irl in a city inbetween ours after 2 months of "online dating", the first date irl was so nice we both cried on our way back to our cities :3 we've been together for 3 years now and have plans for out future
I met my wife on the Her app. We have been married for 3yrs and been together for 4yrs in October💙 hope y'all find love,sorry to hear that you had an awful time with online dating. I did a back ground check on my wife before our first date😂👌 she was clean other than a few speeding tickets and being a stoner back in high school lol
Girls!I love your video!Imagine...I left Brazil ,I traveled 14 hours to meet my guy .Not to marry him ... to see him.I was at the most expensive site in Europe and I really was so in love with him!I Of course he didn’t meet me!!!I found after many research that he was a Eastern European scammer.. All the site !.I was devastated....but I am a Phoenix...always reborn from ashes and I am happy and laughing about that!
My hubby and I met online and we’ve been married for two and a half years 🥰❤️ We were in a long distance relationship for two years before we got married, but it was worth the trips and wait ❤️
*I lOvE mY hUbBy So0o0o MuCh!!!* 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️
That first person and their bartender are my favorite humans that exist at this point tbh
Third story... literally has happened to me twice lmao
That first girl is way too funny to be working at Buzzfeed! 😁🤣
I tried tinder recently for about a week. It made me feel like a piece of junk.
Especially those girls that reply with 2-3 words on a question that clearly signals conversation. I just unmatch them from the 3rd-4th message or so if they are still acting prestigious or hard to get. A week later, I deleted it and sweared to never online date again
Wounderful Boy I haven’t been on in over two years since I met my boyfriend but I remember he told me (and many other guys) that there are a lot of fake “bots” trying to match and talk to men on it?
:/
You might give another platform a try. My experience with tinder largely sucked, but I met my husband through okc
Jazz catching the crazy internationally 😂
I have the craziest online date story but I lived these lol
Kate is a riot 🤣
I saw Kate on the thumbnail and I clicked so fast! I really miss her podcast with Kelsey... I hope both of them are doing great
Jazz and her indigo lipstick~
Kates lipstick is amazing!
My worst on line date was someone I met on Plenty of fish. He convinced me to come meet him at a bar for drinks and food. I get there.. he orders me a drink.. complains at how much it costed! We obviously didn't eat cause he was cheap. He continues to tell me he's impotent. Then... he invited me home to play WII. I think he meant wee wee😂. I obviously didn't go!
I’m intrigued as to how ladies and gentlemen who wear lipstick and glosses can put them on and their lip piercings look fabulous.
I love jazz’s lipstick