I'm gonna start shopping for INFJ - Artisan Gifts :-) ! I have infj gals in my fam. And I'm so grateful to you, you dang brilliant fUck! I luv ya too back 🔙. Thank you, sincerely ENFP-@
I am putting efforts to avoid procrastination and it’s going pretty smoothly and I also like the feelings of not having the pressure of completing all of my work in one day, we can change for better if we want to ~INFP yay!
As an INFP, I love the IDEA of doing things so much. The scene of the kitchen was too accurate. Also, I emphathize with animals more often than humans. Their condition makes me tear up so damn badly😭
The most overwhelming part about being an infp is showing WAY TOO MUCH empathy for everyone and everything. Like when I see hungry cats in the street I imagine myself as a miserable, sad street cat and I literally start tearing up
@@TL-ch1xd Great points! As an infp, I see our empathy as invasive and lacking nuance sometimes. Once a friend told me that the pain of others belong to them, not that we should not empathize or help, but that the others are entitled to their own suffering, their own processes and grief. The irony is that infps are individualists that own their emotions and wouldn't like people invading their ways even with the best intentions...
NOOO!!! Stop exposing me!! 😭🤚Literally just now my mom told me to give the left over chicken bone to the two dogs outside (we always feed them so they know us) and one of them wasn't there (probably wondering around or doing some business) and there were a lot of bones. I ask my mom what should I do and she says to just give it to the one infront me. But I felt bad for the other one who wasn't there (like I was just imagining him feeling sad or hungry and start crying and whimpering because we didn't feed him and him thinking "Why didn't they give me? Do they not care about me? *sigh* I guess it's just another day where I don't eat" 😭) and I kept on hesitating to give the whole thing but I ended up doing it!! 😭😭 I hope he actually ate already and wasn't sad!! And I hope we get more bones tomorrow!! 😭😭
I know everyone talks to themselves (at least a little bit) but as an INFP I talk to myself like 24/7 (both in my head and out loud (when I'm alone)) and sometimes when I am alone I do this thing where I actually pretend like someone else is there and I pretend like I'm talking to another person even though there is no one else there. It makes me feel like I'm going insane if I do it too much but it also keeps me sane. It helps me relax and tune in to how I am feeling. It comforts me especially when I am feeling worried or scared
I catch myself doing that in my head sometimes. Than when I realize it, I try to get my internal narration back on a single track and not be asking/answering my own questions. It HAS helped me work out a couple of problems tho, like, talk/think to myself what I would say to someone about my situation and respond as if someone came to me with same problem, and reply as such. Doing it in a meditative state helps figure things out sometimes of that makes sense
I have many conversations in my head. I may even look over and make an expression of how I would look when saying what I'm saying. Although I stop myself because I'm paranoid someone is looking at me or will be looking at me and think I'm crazy 😅. I thought it was only me doing shit like that tho 🥹
I do that but with everyone that isn't my friend. People think I hate them because I'm always distancing myself from them but when I'm with my friends I'm super cheery, which is ironic cause the reason I distant myself is so they don't have enough time to form an opinion on me cause they'll probably end up hating me if they did, but they end up hating me anyway.
Me as an INFP: every night and morning I lay in my bed thinking up story scenes and pretend to be asleep so no one disturbs me. Then I get up, sad to be in the real world, do my daily things then gladly get back into bed to continue the story line. It's a perfect endless cycle!!
My life, being an infp, basically consists of constant daydreaming (every minute of each day shfushs- and YES it’s my coping mechanism), lots of procrastination, and just lots of thinking, feeling too deeply and crying. But it’s different for me ‘cause I want to express every single emotion - like EVERY detail - in the compliments I give to my close people & make them aware of ALL the wonderfulness their action/whatever made me feel… and when people don’t reciprocate that, I’m left feeling slightly empty, lmao. also, add on that the pin of being a highly sensitive person. welp.
Holy, those last 2 sentences, I said the exact same words when I was talking to my mom about it. (we're both infp's) It's like you give every pieces of yourself, but then, there's no one who does it for you so you're left like an empty shell.
I agree w you all!! and I’m sure there are like many people who do give that back to others, but yeah, it’s just really damn difficult to find a good listener and someone who matches the energy, lol
That's the problem in us, we always thinks people will judge us infact my most of female friends told me this I am too cautious about how others form their opinion for me. Infact sometimes I don't talk to people and crosses from side just by thinking they will judge me and think a creep which mostly results people irritating. ~Infp
that's the opposite to me, I once been called by mean girls in my class who said that they thought I hate them. and other several cases when people thought I'm mad or hate them. but I'm not, I'm not either like or hate them. that's why now I trying not to judge people
@@aMereHooman I know this happens with me too that too offently, don't know why people think about us like we hate them or ignoring them whereas deep down we rarely bother what they think. ~Infp
Do any other INFPs ever just feel like they're way too affected and overwhelmed by other people's emotions? Like I was babysitting 2 kids today, and when the 7 year old started crying because his little brother kept interrupting him, I literally had tears in my eyes too because I felt bad. I'm just way too sensitive and overwhelmed when people are upset, but I still want to help them. You know?
I can totally relate to that. Be careful when/if you have kids, to not over sympathize with them. So hard to do. 5 kids, five personalities, all relying on me to make it better. I mean, I was always teary-eyed about something, and then people would call me "emotionally unbalanced". Well, yeah, of course I am. I'm an INFP. 😎
Same. I once cried seeing a preview of Top Chef on TV. The judges kept saying negative things about a cook's dish and the 2 seconds on his face were enough to make start imagining how passionate he must be with his work and how disappointing it must be to hear their critics. I can't watch those shows.
I'm an ESTJ and I relate to an extent. I feel like I would be annoyed if some random kid started crying but once me and my friend (ENFP) got into a car accident (we weren't hurt btw) and she started crying. I ended up getting tear-eyed while tapping her shoulder (Which was the only thing i could think of to make her feel better).
Yeah - the "Dreamer Type: INFP I often have what I think are not-so-bad ideas, but when it comes to physically realising them - I feel completely lost, overwhelmed, helpless and confused with no idea where to even begin and just go back to the warm fuzzy sensation of enjoying ideas as ends in themselves and feeling like a failure.
Bruh, what other INFPs out there feel like you're everyone's unpaid therapist. But then also refuse to take any of your own advice. I know i do that lol
@@JovaniaGeorge Yeah in my friend group I'm the Therapist but I never follow advice I give to other's even though it's actually very good advice I still don't follow.
By the time we’re finished processing our emotions as thoroughly as possible there’s either not enough time or not enough energy to go outside of our comfort zone to take any actions lmao
And then you become an adult. Thing is though. No other personality under the age of 20 is doing anything for anyone else either. You're just the only one who feels bad about it.
@@MoonLight-lc8qg don't be so hard on yourself. You don't have to use your own money. There's lots of ways to help without money, in fact. If you love animals then volunteer at a rescue shelter. If you want to help women or children you can help at a women's rescue center, or a teen drop-in center for peers. Take a free emergency course like First aid or CPR, you can get training to work a help line for all kinds of issues. Don't sell yourself short. And please don't use your own money. You'll see why later.
People ask me this all the time. Some kid in my class was even trying to tease me for being quiet and I looked at him and then he asked if I was ok. And it seemed like it was out of actual concern, but I'm not even sad all the time when people ask me this.
@@bruh1214, I remember one of my classmates asked me 'are you ok?' Me in my mind: no, because I was trying to take a nap and you disturb me Reality: stare at them and pretend to sleep so that they don't bother you
Talk about excessive and innapropriate empathy, like being the only one crying in a wedding when not even the relatives and closest friends are crying.
Yes, I do not control the empathy, it shows up at random and at inconvenient times. There is a time to be sad, but I am never sad at that time. I'm sad at all the other ridiculous times.
As an INFP, I can attest the reading a cookbook while saying "I don't know how to cook, but I like the idea of me knowing how to cook in the future" is SPOT ON
Last year during quarantine I watched SO MANY baking videos. I saved every single one of them in favorites because I was so sure I would start baking these beautiful cakes and goodies. That was a lot of fun to dream about lol.
From writing lyrics, to cleaning all day and creating even bigger mess, to disorganized desk, to reading recipes and dreaming of cooking, to - everything you said, 100% true about me.
@@shadowoftheday5736 Exactly! I found it eerie he explained it was specifically music lyrics, because I too have years of lyrics written down without musical score 😅
INFP: "I'm feeling a little depressed today" op: "Oh, really? Why?" INFP: "Do I need a reason?" This is a usual conversation between me and all the other living creatures I know, specially my parents.
Y E S I just hate it when I'm crying and everyone in the house is like oh lets go open the door without asking and then ask why are you crying and get angry when they don't answer because of the TEARS!
INFP: Life is an adventure, there are endless possibilities out there and I can't wait to discover them and find my place in this world! Also INFP 5 minutes later: Why are we even alive? Life is nothing but constant pain and suffering, nothing we do can make a difference...
I'm an INFP and after watching Invincible I had an existential crisis for a while 🤣. Like why are we even here doing all this stuff like it's guaranteed we're going to live to see the next 10 years
Same. I am learning Dutch since 128 days on Duolingo and I asked myself so often why I am doing this. Like, I don't want to immigrate to the Netherlands or something.
And then there's me who watched a video on how to survive the Hunger Games- I also watched several videos on how to use throwing knives and I attempted to learn morse code
@@stellafanders I mean, do you think it's fun? Not everything needs a reason! Just do what you feel like doing, as long as it isn't hurting anybody, y'know? Anyways, veel geluk met Nederlands leren :)
This vid describes me when I was 18 yo. Now I'm 36 and I feel almost nothing like this anymore. I'm hyper sensitive but I've learned to use this as a superpower. I'm extremely logic and my logic works great together with emotional intelligence. Logic and emotions don't need to fight each other at all, they just need to UNDERSTAND each other. My main goals in life are becoming a better human everyday, being an inspiration/help for others, and achieving great results. I'm nothing like lazy, instead I never relax because I'm super creative and always wanting to work on stuff. I've been severely depressed for some years but I definitely would not describe depression as my default state. I think I'm a much happier human being than the average one. INFPs have superpowers, it's a shame that most of them don't seem to be aware of it. Also, there are many successful INFPs out there right now. Many of them are incredible artists: Tyler Joseph, AURORA, Sia, Tom Odell... Fellow INFPs, do some hard work on yourselves and I promise you'll discover how incredibly good, gifted and useful you all are. Much love x
The logic part exactly! Frank needed your input 😉 to inform his subsequent clips! Logic (which we pick up in school) balances the emotional part for decision making. Allow Logic and Feelings to inform your choices each step of the way. So doing research/info is the first step before action. To counter inaction, visiting sites like these for a chuckle helps to socialise INFPs somewhat too 😂
yes I totally get this, but I also think neither of us has a fixed personality type, I think many years ago I did this personality test and I was something completely else.
Depressive thoughts, desires without actions, endless procrastination, constant anxiety and idealistic dreams... Ughhhhh it's so fun to watch it but not to live it 💔
Me, as an INFP, imagining hundred different future possibilities of me doing hundred different things while I'm doing nothing in present to make that happen. Me, as an INFP, feels like the happiest creature on Earth because it's easy to imagine a world a happy place filled with all magical things and adventures, dragons, castles, quests and treasures and feeling depressed the very same day after seeing the world as a place of suffering and pain and that's where the depression kicks in Me, as an INFP, who tend to have teary eyes only within 5 seconds of watching a death scene on TV, as if the character was my relative 😂 Me, as an INFP who hates the idea of going to work to earn money, like WHY LIVING LIFE"S GOT TO BE LIKE THAT! Me, as an INFP, where anxiety and depression could easily be said as our natural default state 😆 *hiding emotions under those smileys* 🤣
It’s not like there’s no reason just because there’s no reason. When I’m feeling down but I don’t know why, it’s not exactly because there’s no reason. I just don’t know why. There’s a triggering factor. We try to cope and avoid when we know what it is, but when we don’t, it’s usually a lot worse. Not always but usually.
@@angel_cat That's part of the reason I let all the negativity do it's run through my head when this sort of thing happens. It's like backtracking in your mind to remember where you put your house keys, only in this case it's filtering through all the possible triggers that made you sad. It's seriously unpleasant but it's an important learning experience.
No one: INFP: "I think she/he hates me" Also, When someone changed their tone a little bit, or didn't use the emoticons, My mind: "you hate me don't you" "You no longer love me" :( is it just me? 😂
hjewfluwf constantly, I'll do or say something stupid to a new person and immediately text my closest friends yelling "NOOOO THEY PROBABLY HATE ME NOW"
as an infp who wants to write a story, i like to think about specific scenes and dialogues in the story at random moments instead of the plot or characters.
As an INFP who was raised by all xxTJ’s, I’ve learned to develop my logical and planning side a bit. Now I just come off as emotional to logical people and logical to emotional people XD
INFP: "I'm feeling a little depressed today" People: "Oh, really? Why?" INFP: "Do I need a reason?" This is so true, Don't ask that please! We don't need a reason 😂 That just happens naturally 😂
Last scene is so accurate. I skip all the sad stories about sick children because I can stand them. I support financially some foundations but I try not to think about specific person and their situation because it breaks me down.
When he was like "I've been cleaning all day" I was like--wait, what???? Then he followed it with, "But I keep staring out into space" and I was like--thats more like it
I was telling someone recently, I went on a date ages ago with a guy who DID say he was tired, and he yawned & stuff but I thought OMG he's bored. Oh no he's doing this or that body language thing, he's not attracted to me. And at the end of the date he went to kiss me and I thought WHAT? He IS into this? I thought he was bored with me! Guy even TOLD me he was tired LOL. (Yes we kissed but I was surprised it even happened, I'd TOTALLY misread him!)
I love how this isn't even capturing things I usually say, but literal thoughts I use to have regularly. My outer personality vastly differs from what is portrayed here, yet this is just pure truth being spoken.
Me: I'm not sensitive Also me: Nearly crying because I'm stuck in the first aisle of the grocery store because no-one let's me by and I feel emotionally overwhelmed
@@honeybun3862 Haha I do exactly know what you mean. Sometimes it's also just like "Why are you crying?" - "I don't know. The sunlight shines on the streets at such a beautiful angle that the color of the houses makes me very emotional." It may seem a little bit weird to others, but yeah, let's say I feel VERY intense
The cashier thing so relatable. Once I cried after buying milk bc it was just too stressful. Another time 5 people cut in front of me and all I could only do was stand there. Shopping is so stressful.
I get sweaty and nervous at the self checkout when people start lining up behind but don’t want to go to the cashier bc I don’t want to interact.. that’s the hardest part
😂 I get stressed taking my stuff to the thrift store or homeless shelter cause they might reject it and then I'll have to take it all the way back home again.
Do any other INFPs write messages that are extremely long, hoping the pieces of your soul (the real message) come across and so the person you've bestowed the task of translating your poetic sense that's only sense to you understands?
I do. When some of my friends post something depressing I literally write down a whole novel on how to deal with it & that it's gonna be okay. Only application possible for others. Not me✋
Oh my god, the “why do I need to organize my desk, I know where everything is” is so relatable to me. My mom gets on me for my room being messy all the time and I’m like “but I know all the 20 spots my art supplies are, the 5 spots to find an instrument, the 3 spots with head accessories, and all the 100 spots that I have placed a book I am halfway through” XD I always think about just dumping everything out and organizing it so that there’s only 1 or 2 spots for everything (except the books, you need that many spots for books XD) but I never actually do it lol
I used to get jealous, but I don't really anymore. For me, it was because I thought poorly of myself and imagined other people were better and more attractive. Don't let that narrative rule your life ❤️ - an INFP
@@giishaw92 no it’s not that. I don’t have a problem with myself, but my girlfriend is so beautiful that I’m worried guys will try stuff on her all the time and even when they will flirt it makes me jealous
0:27 this is literally something that i told myself before about the stories that i wrote and been keeping for years, you know the "I'll wait for the right time".
Being am INFJ, the brain-on-airplane-mode is MUCH NEEDED. Believe me when I say that I'm constantly thinking about 2-3 things at the same time with a random song or two casually playing as background music.
"Do I need a reason to be depressed?" I said that yesterday 😂 "I've got a whole book of lyrics I've written over the last 15 years and one day, I'm going to set these to music, JUST WAIT" 😂 LOL I do have that notebook And I love how INFP spent the whole day cleaning the apartment but the background is still a mess 😂😂😂 that's me "I don't even cook, but I like the idea of me cooking in the future" that's me dreaming about becoming a master chef when I don't even know how to cook rice "Why do I need to organize my desk???" That's my point! Why? It's an organized mess. I'm literally sitting by my messy desk right now and I know where everything is, no need to do this organization thing people talk about 1:46 INFPs imagining themselves in the other person situation to try to understand them and feeling bad for the person while also remembering once again that INFP life is already a downward spiral
@@kiriume that's amazing they must be very great!! I usually only record some melodies I create for my lyrics so I won't forget them. I'm not good at singing hahah
OMG SNAP!!!!!!!!! I'm an INFP with an INTP boyfriend!!!!!!!!! Our arguments are mainly started when he shoots down an emotional statement I'm making about a situation with his cold hard (I call it "stupid") logic, but apart from that, we're pretty compatible xD. We also both procrastinate so it takes forever for things to get done. Like we've been meaning to clean out our garage for about the past 8 months.
I’m an INTP and honestly I love INFPs, you are like a little puzzle to be solved (not in an objectifying way). You have such a broad spectrum of feeling and I admire your ability to accept your emotions as they are.
Bro the last part was so accurate. The other day a homeless man asked me to buy him mustard, and I did. Just as I was about to leave, he told me his entire tragic life story, and I stood for an hour listening. I really had to go, yet felt extremly bad when I did so.
The part about taking things waaay to personally is very accurate. I guess it's rooted in the essence of the INFP "always trying to adapt to others" therefore, maybe, we are way to concerned with what people think / feel about us. And feel in general 😅
And then...eventually, it begins to show something. We try and become so many people, that the original person to exist has become truly lost from reality. Consumed by so many shifted identities.
I don't agree INFP's are always trying to adapt to others. INFP'S know who they are and how they feel only too well. But I agree we care too much about what others think of us, I've learnt to care a bit less about that as an older person, but still sometimes I get too upset about other people's ideas about me. I think we tune in to people really well, rather then adapt to people, we get on people's wavelength and feel their emotions but we don't lose are sense of who we are. Atleast I don't. INFP'S have a strong inner sense of themselves, especially values, that gives us strength, we are not weak people, and it's hard to deceive or fool us. We're not the sad and pathetic type that Frank portrays us as. Plus, some people say there isn't much evidence for the MB P. TYPES , maybe it's all a bit rubbish!!
INFP'S are not always trying to adapt to others, they have a strong sense of who they are and what they feel and think. INFJ are the type that are more likely to adapt to others, and more concerned with gelling with others, and concerned with how everyone else is feeling. INFP'S are concerned with how they are feeling, and less concerned with being in sync with the group.
One thing I remember from my British Literature class in high school was that reason should be in control of your emotion. I'd much rather ride a literal roller coaster than an emotional one. I do kind of an interrogation of my emotions and make them prove that they belong.
My super logical boyfriend basically Brute forced my brain the way hackers brute force passwords until I started to actually be able to use logic to review my emotions and ask myself if they actually were based in reality or not. It's helped me be a little more logical and name my feelings more. I still feel all the feels but I can break it down faster and figure it out when it's not an emotion that's too overwhelming. I get stuck on small things that happened in interactions and obsess a little. Also daydream like crazy. He still says getting me to express my emotions in words is almost as painful for him as it is for me. I just want to feel and then be done with it. Don't make me explain it. I want to be alone. But also cuddle. But also be alone. And don't watch me when I'm doing something.
Me: “I’m gonna put them to music someday, just wait.” The 30 - 40 pages of lyrics scattered on scrap papers and in my notes app: you’ve been saying that for the past 8 years
I literally have a song I wrote in my notes and it's called Permanent and I'm really proud of it, I wrote it last year but I never planned to be a singer or a song writer so....maybe I'll give it to singer in the future 🤣🤣
Me, an INFP trying to write a witty comment but is bombarded by too many ideas while battling the fear of being judged as I type this and feeling so many feelings about this video that I made 3-4 edits on this comment.
My history teacher: *yelling at me because doesn't understand why I don't want to have a better grade* Me: *mentally screaming while staring at her while wondering how can I make her understand that I'm just not interested in embarrassing myself in front of 33 classmates because I can't learn "just one topic, is it that much???" because I'm mentally tired and all I can think about are: eating, sleeping, crying, listening to MCR. Yes, it is that much because I just can't. You only see me not listening what you're talking about, but deep inside I'm proud of staying here and acting normal.*
I was like, ‘I dunno, I’m pretty good at cleaning..’, then I realized I was in the middle of cleaning when I stopped to watch this video, and spend ten minutes in the comments, seeing if anyone’s anecdotes resonate with me… 😮💨
I'm becoming so good at cleaning too...as I mainly use it as a way to procrastinate other urgent stressful stuff :D And distracting myself through cleaning escalated a lot during the pandemic, cause there was not that much to do stuck in the house. Also it feels better than wasting time on games/movies, cause at least I feel I'm doing something useful.
@@melody8369 if u are asking abt the artist, i dont really know, i took it from pinterest :( but if u are asking abt the characters, they are aesop carl and eli clark from identity v.
I wonder that too. I’m sure I’m dominantly INF but I have both J and P characteristics. I procrastinate a lot but at the same time I like being organized if that makes sense.
@@js42025 ooh uhh maybe actually looking into the functions for them can help!! infj is dom ni (ni> fe> ti > se) and infp is dom fi (fi> ne> si> te)!! by letters i would be like a ENFx (literally on tests i get 51% judging and 49% percieving or exactly 50-50) but by functions i think i’m more enfj 😵💫 i think that if you do research on these you can know more about it and other things can explain it better 😦 just look up like “ni function” and if you scroll enough on photos somethjng will describe it !
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Shout out to all INFP'S out there who spent like 20 minutes typing a comment about how relatable this is but ended up deleting it
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This is so accurate, our life is based on crying and procrastinating.
Omg that’s so true
I literally have an importat exam tomorrow, I haven't started so I've been crying the whole day
This is our purpose
I am putting efforts to avoid procrastination and it’s going pretty smoothly and I also like the feelings of not having the pressure of completing all of my work in one day, we can change for better if we want to ~INFP yay!
@@whateverfloats9 congrats, keep it up!!
"I tried" or "I've been trying"
Is the life mottos of an INFP.
Ooo yes
Esp. those with ADHD on top of everything else.
@@TheNylter YES! It can be one of the best but also one of the most annoying things ever! Speaking from experience here.
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@@TheNylter Relatable
As an INFP, I love the IDEA of doing things so much. The scene of the kitchen was too accurate. Also, I emphathize with animals more often than humans. Their condition makes me tear up so damn badly😭
As an INFP, while I want to do things I’m quite content doing nothing for 5 hours…
Oh my God.... Yesss
Me too...
I am vegan, for I cannot bring myself to pay for that cruelty.. Those poor, poor animals 😭💔
“I spent the entire day lying on the floor imaging hypothetical situations, and do I regret it?
Not really!”
-INFP
We, the INTJ's call that: preperations.
Do I regret it? Yes. Will I do it again tomorrow? Also yes.
@@bonfiliusanselmo2605 This should not be this relatable,,,
@@bonfiliusanselmo2605 this is such a mood!
Yeppp
As an INFP I really like the IDEA of doing something, but never really doing it. 🤣
Totally.
Me 1000%
Yep.
Ufffff is the whole comment section my character description??
That's me.
The most overwhelming part about being an infp is showing WAY TOO MUCH empathy for everyone and everything. Like when I see hungry cats in the street I imagine myself as a miserable, sad street cat and I literally start tearing up
I’ve gotten in the habit of when I start feeling these thought coming on just repeating nope I’m my head until they go away
Oh fricking dude.... that's exactly what even I do... like imagine myself being in their feet and stuff....
@@TL-ch1xd Great points! As an infp, I see our empathy as invasive and lacking nuance sometimes. Once a friend told me that the pain of others belong to them, not that we should not empathize or help, but that the others are entitled to their own suffering, their own processes and grief.
The irony is that infps are individualists that own their emotions and wouldn't like people invading their ways even with the best intentions...
With objects too
Example is hmm imagine a whale plushy burning in flames
That just kills me for no reason
NOOO!!! Stop exposing me!! 😭🤚Literally just now my mom told me to give the left over chicken bone to the two dogs outside (we always feed them so they know us) and one of them wasn't there (probably wondering around or doing some business) and there were a lot of bones. I ask my mom what should I do and she says to just give it to the one infront me.
But I felt bad for the other one who wasn't there (like I was just imagining him feeling sad or hungry and start crying and whimpering because we didn't feed him and him thinking "Why didn't they give me? Do they not care about me? *sigh* I guess it's just another day where I don't eat" 😭) and I kept on hesitating to give the whole thing but I ended up doing it!! 😭😭
I hope he actually ate already and wasn't sad!! And I hope we get more bones tomorrow!! 😭😭
I know everyone talks to themselves (at least a little bit) but as an INFP I talk to myself like 24/7 (both in my head and out loud (when I'm alone)) and sometimes when I am alone I do this thing where I actually pretend like someone else is there and I pretend like I'm talking to another person even though there is no one else there. It makes me feel like I'm going insane if I do it too much but it also keeps me sane. It helps me relax and tune in to how I am feeling. It comforts me especially when I am feeling worried or scared
I do this too and sometimes pretend I'm vlogging😂 It has helped me work through so many things lol.
I catch myself doing that in my head sometimes. Than when I realize it, I try to get my internal narration back on a single track and not be asking/answering my own questions. It HAS helped me work out a couple of problems tho, like, talk/think to myself what I would say to someone about my situation and respond as if someone came to me with same problem, and reply as such. Doing it in a meditative state helps figure things out sometimes of that makes sense
Me only in my head but yes, I'm with you
I do that.
I have many conversations in my head. I may even look over and make an expression of how I would look when saying what I'm saying. Although I stop myself because I'm paranoid someone is looking at me or will be looking at me and think I'm crazy 😅. I thought it was only me doing shit like that tho 🥹
As an INFP, this is aggressively accurate
Exactly!
Absolutely! I'm an INFP as well and this is right up my alley
I'm an INFP and I do and say all of these, especially the chore one🤣
I'm an INFP, and I do the last one very often as a worker in the healthcare setting.
Correct. Been in a spiral of all of this for much of my time.
Me, an INFP: pfft I’m not that sensitive
Also me: goes to gym and wonders if the trainer doesn’t like me because his vibe seemed off when he said hi
I do that but with everyone that isn't my friend. People think I hate them because I'm always distancing myself from them but when I'm with my friends I'm super cheery, which is ironic cause the reason I distant myself is so they don't have enough time to form an opinion on me cause they'll probably end up hating me if they did, but they end up hating me anyway.
OH MY GOD! Going through this right now! I had a meltdown in January because he was being hot and cold, and instantly raised my guard upto my nose.
Me yesterday at the physio, his whole vibe was off, went home convinced he hates me 😂.
Yeah now I know I'm sensitive asf and I say it openly 🤣
As kids, disposing of an inanimate object, worrying about it's feelings.
Me as an INFP: every night and morning I lay in my bed thinking up story scenes and pretend to be asleep so no one disturbs me. Then I get up, sad to be in the real world, do my daily things then gladly get back into bed to continue the story line.
It's a perfect endless cycle!!
I relate to that, It's sad but it's good at the same time k
Yes, THAT'S ME DOES SOMEONE HAVE A PROBLEM? *cries cuz I sound rude and returns to the unreal world*
same and i love it
oh my god and I thought only I did this...
bro….i do this too
why are all these comments so dang relatable lol
My life, being an infp, basically consists of constant daydreaming (every minute of each day shfushs- and YES it’s my coping mechanism), lots of procrastination, and just lots of thinking, feeling too deeply and crying. But it’s different for me ‘cause I want to express every single emotion - like EVERY detail - in the compliments I give to my close people & make them aware of ALL the wonderfulness their action/whatever made me feel… and when people don’t reciprocate that, I’m left feeling slightly empty, lmao.
also, add on that the pin of being a highly sensitive person. welp.
This are my sentences I am just like yes yes it is true
Holy, those last 2 sentences, I said the exact same words when I was talking to my mom about it. (we're both infp's) It's like you give every pieces of yourself, but then, there's no one who does it for you so you're left like an empty shell.
No one has that ability to reciprocate emotions like us and this make me sad bcz not even one friend of mine is able to do that.
I agree w you all!! and I’m sure there are like many people who do give that back to others, but yeah, it’s just really damn difficult to find a good listener and someone who matches the energy, lol
Oh and when you hurt, you cut deep because you can tell people's biggest flaw and you say it as though it was common knowledge
“i felt like she was judging me” yes i most of the time feel attacked
That's the problem in us, we always thinks people will judge us infact my most of female friends told me this I am too cautious about how others form their opinion for me. Infact sometimes I don't talk to people and crosses from side just by thinking they will judge me and think a creep which mostly results people irritating.
~Infp
that's the opposite to me, I once been called by mean girls in my class who said that they thought I hate them. and other several cases when people thought I'm mad or hate them.
but I'm not, I'm not either like or hate them. that's why now I trying not to judge people
@@aMereHooman I know this happens with me too that too offently, don't know why people think about us like we hate them or ignoring them whereas deep down we rarely bother what they think.
~Infp
Yeah, me too!! It kills me
by everyone... so accurate
Do any other INFPs ever just feel like they're way too affected and overwhelmed by other people's emotions? Like I was babysitting 2 kids today, and when the 7 year old started crying because his little brother kept interrupting him, I literally had tears in my eyes too because I felt bad. I'm just way too sensitive and overwhelmed when people are upset, but I still want to help them. You know?
I can totally relate to that. Be careful when/if you have kids, to not over sympathize with them. So hard to do. 5 kids, five personalities, all relying on me to make it better. I mean, I was always teary-eyed about something, and then people would call me "emotionally unbalanced". Well, yeah, of course I am. I'm an INFP. 😎
Same. I once cried seeing a preview of Top Chef on TV. The judges kept saying negative things about a cook's dish and the 2 seconds on his face were enough to make start imagining how passionate he must be with his work and how disappointing it must be to hear their critics. I can't watch those shows.
@@freeone77 thanks for the advice! and yeah, being “emotionally unstable” is definitely an INFP thing 😎
@@kpoctopus yeah, i’m really sensitive when seeing people be criticized for something they’re passionate about, too
I'm an ESTJ and I relate to an extent. I feel like I would be annoyed if some random kid started crying but once me and my friend (ENFP) got into a car accident (we weren't hurt btw) and she started crying. I ended up getting tear-eyed while tapping her shoulder (Which was the only thing i could think of to make her feel better).
“And one day” I’ve said that so many times with my magical plans and never done anything about it
Lol this is so true
Indeed, I make skits and would appreciate it if y'all would check them out. Thanks 👍
Lololol yeah ""plan"" 😂
Same
Yeah - the "Dreamer Type: INFP
I often have what I think are not-so-bad ideas, but when it comes to physically realising them - I feel completely lost, overwhelmed, helpless and confused with no idea where to even begin and just go back to the warm fuzzy sensation of enjoying ideas as ends in themselves and feeling like a failure.
As an INFP, i ALWAYS create scenarios about myself while listening to music and i just can still hours doing the same activity without getting bored 😂
As an INFP, this is accurate
This is so relatable it hurts 😭 I once sat in my bedroom for 3 hours listening to my favorite music and reading a book, never got bored once.
@@Brendabridges-xo7ik I do that often. More then I should lol
@@Alystra17 ikr it’s everyday 😭
@@Brendabridges-xo7ik fr
Bruh, what other INFPs out there feel like you're everyone's unpaid therapist. But then also refuse to take any of your own advice. I know i do that lol
Yeah. I'm really trying to work on taking my own advice because I don't want to be a hypocrite and maybe I could be my own unpaid therapist too
@archa ikr who the heck wants to, ya know, take care of themselves. Ha, couldn’t be me. I’ll take care of someone else thank you very much
So tru 😂😭
"taking care of myself is not in my vocabulary."
-Me, an INFP
@@JovaniaGeorge Yeah in my friend group I'm the Therapist but I never follow advice I give to other's even though it's actually very good advice I still don't follow.
That idea of putting the brain in Airplane Mode is brilliant - if only that were possible! 😭 - INFP
I have one wish. This is my one wish lol
I have dreamed of having an artificial intelligence link into my brain so that it could do all the things I hate doing/am afraid to do.
I wish That can happen to me, If so I can become really productive😊😊
~Infp
Lol i wish I could do that and then finally get some work and my studies done
It is its called meditation.
I feel like this is gonna be a very good one.
-INFP
As an Infp, i don't really say these out loud. This is just a visual representation of conversations i had in my head with myself
the fact that we show great concern and empathy to everything but don't do anything about it
By the time we’re finished processing our emotions as thoroughly as possible there’s either not enough time or not enough energy to go outside of our comfort zone to take any actions lmao
I recently watched a cartoon and learned I need to become more responsible because empathy is useless without a sense of responsibility!
And then you become an adult. Thing is though. No other personality under the age of 20 is doing anything for anyone else either. You're just the only one who feels bad about it.
@@MoonLight-lc8qg don't be so hard on yourself. You don't have to use your own money. There's lots of ways to help without money, in fact. If you love animals then volunteer at a rescue shelter. If you want to help women or children you can help at a women's rescue center, or a teen drop-in center for peers. Take a free emergency course like First aid or CPR, you can get training to work a help line for all kinds of issues. Don't sell yourself short. And please don't use your own money. You'll see why later.
@@PrincessAttorney that's really correct...
The INFJ stare makes people feel exposed.
The INFP stare makes them ask, “are you okay?” 👀
People ask me this all the time. Some kid in my class was even trying to tease me for being quiet and I looked at him and then he asked if I was ok. And it seemed like it was out of actual concern, but I'm not even sad all the time when people ask me this.
@@bruh1214, I remember one of my classmates asked me 'are you ok?'
Me in my mind: no, because I was trying to take a nap and you disturb me
Reality: stare at them and pretend to sleep so that they don't bother you
I'm proud of my soul-penetrating stare 😄
my best friend actually asked me this loll she said I always look like I’m about to cry but I look even worse this time so she’s concerned
@@auykhai.5765 my friend once told me my eyes look lifeless and devoid of emotion all the time and in reality I am just constantly tired
Talk about excessive and innapropriate empathy, like being the only one crying in a wedding when not even the relatives and closest friends are crying.
Yes, I do not control the empathy, it shows up at random and at inconvenient times. There is a time to be sad, but I am never sad at that time. I'm sad at all the other ridiculous times.
@@reveriedreamshade5669 haha! This, you just randomly empathize at the most awkward times lol!
How about crying at a funeral of someone you never met, but you feel so bad for the spouse that he ends up comforting you? Anyone? Anyone? Me...
Oh, weddings and christenings... Every time....
@@happypace9414 omg same
Lmfao I loved the “The cashier at the store was mean to me today.. I mean, they didn’t say anything…but I could just feel it!” 😭😭😭😭😂😂
My INFP self is shooked to see FJ who've created a video just for us
What’s even better is it might be the first of an upcoming series! Yaaayyyy!
Yeah, he's amazing as always.
We're honored
@@MoonLight-lc8qg we're the first? Feels amazing!
Yeahhhh
As an INFP, I can attest the reading a cookbook while saying "I don't know how to cook, but I like the idea of me knowing how to cook in the future" is SPOT ON
Last year during quarantine I watched SO MANY baking videos. I saved every single one of them in favorites because I was so sure I would start baking these beautiful cakes and goodies. That was a lot of fun to dream about lol.
You should see my list of Pinterest recipes I’m never going to make.
Yes I like the idea of me being and doing lots of things 🤣🤣
@@StreetlightM23 same and i obviously never cooked them lmao
The idea is appealing, the action is to procrastinate. ;-P
"The cashier at the store was really MEAN to me"
"I mean, he didn't SAY or DO ANYTHING...but I could just tell!"
I get it.
That one got me🤣🤣
Sometimes they don't smile and I quickly assume they hate me😂
I avoid cashiers and use self check outs when I can cos I'm so drained being an empath and working with people all day LOL
LOLLL
I get ittt too
From writing lyrics, to cleaning all day and creating even bigger mess, to disorganized desk, to reading recipes and dreaming of cooking, to - everything you said, 100% true about me.
Frank James is phenomenal at capturing the essence of each MBTI type in a comical yet true way. Love the content.
"I like the idea of me cooking.... In the future" 😂😂
Lyrics without music is just poetry. That's a journal of poetry
I disagree: there is a huge difference between lyrics with no music, but which are all the same made for music, and poetry
i always thought the same thing!
no, you see, it's very accurate. I actually intended those words as lyrics I haven't found the melody to
@@shadowoftheday5736 Exactly! I found it eerie he explained it was specifically music lyrics, because I too have years of lyrics written down without musical score 😅
But Poetry doesn't have a chorus?? I'm not gonna let a paragraph repeat may times.
Aren't all our infp brains on autopilot 80% of the time already?
-INFP
Yes
Its my goal
I am acting weird always.
I always wondered if there was a camera around me and if someone is watching me.. How embarrassed I would be
PRECISELY!
It happens a lot that I say a different word than I mean XD
Being easily distracted and every task taking unnecessarily long bc u can’t focus is the most painful thing
Other adults: made of 60% water
Me, an INFP: made of seemingly 90% water
And I say _semingly_ because I don't drink as much water as it seems I have inside.
I agree, this is a fact
@@EnabiSeira same! I mostly forget to drink water but then have to wonder what's this liquid coming out of my eyes 0_0
And 10% salt
I piss it out two minutes of gulping it down. Rinse, wash, repeat.
INFP: "I'm feeling a little depressed today"
op: "Oh, really? Why?"
INFP: "Do I need a reason?"
This is a usual conversation between me and all the other living creatures I know, specially my parents.
yah, why are they even asking why?
Same!
My mood everyday as an INFP: 😁😄😃😀🙂😐🙁😟😫
Y E S I just hate it when I'm crying and everyone in the house is like oh lets go open the door without asking and then ask why are you crying and get angry when they don't answer because of the TEARS!
YES I LITERALLY HAD THIS CONVERSATION WITH MY MOM
INFP: Life is an adventure, there are endless possibilities out there and I can't wait to discover them and find my place in this world!
Also INFP 5 minutes later: Why are we even alive? Life is nothing but constant pain and suffering, nothing we do can make a difference...
😃😭
Identifying with this ^
Yeah as an info I can confirm
INFP, another 5 minutes later: *stays inside and plays Animal Crossing*
I'm an INFP and after watching Invincible I had an existential crisis for a while 🤣. Like why are we even here doing all this stuff like it's guaranteed we're going to live to see the next 10 years
As usual, the last one hits home. We INFPs tend to be good listeners and people will tell us literally everything.
And then you forget it all in the next 5 minutes from the day dreaming 😭
Me an INFP be like, “I’m gonna read and study all this stuff but I don’t know if I’ll ever put it to use.”
Same. I am learning Dutch since 128 days on Duolingo and I asked myself so often why I am doing this. Like, I don't want to immigrate to the Netherlands or something.
@@stellafanders exactly
And then there's me who watched a video on how to survive the Hunger Games-
I also watched several videos on how to use throwing knives and I attempted to learn morse code
@@stellafanders I mean, do you think it's fun? Not everything needs a reason! Just do what you feel like doing, as long as it isn't hurting anybody, y'know? Anyways, veel geluk met Nederlands leren :)
@@ghostofthefallenvalkyrie3320 Me who watched videos on how to play Skyrim a year before I was even aloud to play it.
"If a cluttered desk is a sign of a cluttered mind, of what, then, is an empty desk a sign?" --Albert Einstein
🤣🤣🤣
When the hell did he said that??
I felt really called out by the desk one 😂
wow I've never related to a quote more XD
Oh Y'Know a DEAD mind.
Yup..... this is me to a tee..... except I took the song lyric thing in my notebook even further and actually became a musician lmao
Awesome dude! Keep going and... Well awesome dude!
Hi Nico!!!
I love ur music❤️❤️❤️
That’s honestly good for you❤️
NICOOOO 😄❤️
This vid describes me when I was 18 yo. Now I'm 36 and I feel almost nothing like this anymore. I'm hyper sensitive but I've learned to use this as a superpower. I'm extremely logic and my logic works great together with emotional intelligence. Logic and emotions don't need to fight each other at all, they just need to UNDERSTAND each other. My main goals in life are becoming a better human everyday, being an inspiration/help for others, and achieving great results. I'm nothing like lazy, instead I never relax because I'm super creative and always wanting to work on stuff. I've been severely depressed for some years but I definitely would not describe depression as my default state. I think I'm a much happier human being than the average one. INFPs have superpowers, it's a shame that most of them don't seem to be aware of it. Also, there are many successful INFPs out there right now. Many of them are incredible artists: Tyler Joseph, AURORA, Sia, Tom Odell... Fellow INFPs, do some hard work on yourselves and I promise you'll discover how incredibly good, gifted and useful you all are. Much love x
Thankyou for this ❤
I'm 45 and totally relate
The logic part exactly! Frank needed your input 😉 to inform his subsequent clips! Logic (which we pick up in school) balances the emotional part for decision making. Allow Logic and Feelings to inform your choices each step of the way. So doing research/info is the first step before action.
To counter inaction, visiting sites like these for a chuckle helps to socialise INFPs somewhat too 😂
yes I totally get this, but I also think neither of us has a fixed personality type, I think many years ago I did this personality test and I was something completely else.
you're doing such a good job
I am literally crying right now because I am an INFP and it is so true. All of it
Pls don't cry otherwise I will Also feel sad 😂😂
~Fellow Infp
I know! 😩 Let’s cry together 🥺🥲😭
real
Depressive thoughts, desires without actions, endless procrastination, constant anxiety and idealistic dreams... Ughhhhh it's so fun to watch it but not to live it 💔
That is more of a rock song than an emo song
I actually like when i feel sad out of boredom because i feel something
@@grenouillesupreme I sometimes feel so empty that I start missing the sadness but when the sadness comes back I start missing the emptiness
@@loraivanova8635 then i try to remember all the things that i think of when i am sad and i can't remember them all, being an infp in a nutshell
Why do I relate to this so much
Me, as an INFP, imagining hundred different future possibilities of me doing hundred different things while I'm doing nothing in present to make that happen.
Me, as an INFP, feels like the happiest creature on Earth because it's easy to imagine a world a happy place filled with all magical things and adventures, dragons, castles, quests and treasures and feeling depressed the very same day after seeing the world as a place of suffering and pain and that's where the depression kicks in
Me, as an INFP, who tend to have teary eyes only within 5 seconds of watching a death scene on TV, as if the character was my relative 😂
Me, as an INFP who hates the idea of going to work to earn money, like WHY LIVING LIFE"S GOT TO BE LIKE THAT!
Me, as an INFP, where anxiety and depression could easily be said as our natural default state 😆 *hiding emotions under those smileys* 🤣
This is a very relatable comment :)
That hit me when you said about character died in a movie or a tv show.
Even an extra background characters I could feel sad and get teary.
This hit right in the heart. Now I’ll be crying instead of sleeping.
Damn you just described my whole life in one comment
WHO TF ARE YOU AND HOW DO YOU KNOW ME????!!!!!!
The bit about cleaning my room all day with hours of scattered thought while staring out the window - relatable.
The line about cleaning the kitchen but stopping to stare out the window was too real lmao
"Do I need a reason to be depressed?"
My INFP friend couldn't agree more, FJ!!
That’s some nice looking butter you got there 🤤💜
It’s not like there’s no reason just because there’s no reason. When I’m feeling down but I don’t know why, it’s not exactly because there’s no reason. I just don’t know why. There’s a triggering factor. We try to cope and avoid when we know what it is, but when we don’t, it’s usually a lot worse. Not always but usually.
That awkward feeling when you watch an FJ video thinking you're an INFJ, and he starts to make you question yourself......
😅
I don't usually feel depressed, I would say. Things just kind of feel off.
@@angel_cat That's part of the reason I let all the negativity do it's run through my head when this sort of thing happens. It's like backtracking in your mind to remember where you put your house keys, only in this case it's filtering through all the possible triggers that made you sad. It's seriously unpleasant but it's an important learning experience.
No one:
INFP: "I think she/he hates me"
Also,
When someone changed their tone a little bit, or didn't use the emoticons,
My mind: "you hate me don't you"
"You no longer love me" :(
is it just me? 😂
Just use they ..
Isn't that being insecure ?
hjewfluwf constantly, I'll do or say something stupid to a new person and immediately text my closest friends yelling "NOOOO THEY PROBABLY HATE ME NOW"
Same, it's way too relatable.
It's not just you.
as an infp who wants to write a story, i like to think about specific scenes and dialogues in the story at random moments instead of the plot or characters.
"I'm gonna do this tomorrow."
"Don't overthink.... Don't overfeel..."
Hahaha this is what i tell myself everyday.
I read the "Don't overthink, don't overfeel.." as the "Don't let them in, don't let them see.." from Frozen hsjc
That made me laugh. That is our narrative if we allow it to be.
For sure i chant the 'don't overthink,' Or someone close me reminds not to overthink.
@@riyak.7393 IK THIS WAS 9 MONTHS AGO BUT I THOUGHT OF THAT TOO 😭
Oh this is me... Since my birth 😄
One day I'll put these to music...key words " one day"...
So accurate, too😂😂
I really thought he had access to my phones notepad and my books in which I write lyrics😂😂😂how does he know
For me too ✋
“But I’ve been trying”- a key statement for me as an infp
It makes me so happy to feel understood. I don’t come across very many people like me, so I feel lonely a lot. Thank you, Frank. ❤️
Me too. I am also INFP
As an INFP who was raised by all xxTJ’s, I’ve learned to develop my logical and planning side a bit. Now I just come off as emotional to logical people and logical to emotional people XD
Oh my, the accuracy!
Same!!
Same. It's an isolating super power lol...but seriously it sucks
I'm an INFJ and I'm not organised much on the outside, but I do prefer to have a plan for future events in my head. 🙂
I'm an INFJ and I'm not organised much on the outside, but I do prefer to have a plan for future events in my head. 🙂
INFP: "I'm feeling a little depressed today"
People: "Oh, really? Why?"
INFP: "Do I need a reason?"
This is so true, Don't ask that please! We don't need a reason 😂 That just happens naturally 😂
Thats so accurate :'v (sorry for my bad english)
Same this is so accurate.
INFJ: *sweats profusely as they internally scream*
not me crying because... well, i actually don't know.
come back when i found a reason ! i'll probably tell you i'm just tired anyways :)
Yep, if we are feeling depressed it's just because... We feel like being it.
Last scene is so accurate. I skip all the sad stories about sick children because I can stand them. I support financially some foundations but I try not to think about specific person and their situation because it breaks me down.
When he was like "I've been cleaning all day" I was like--wait, what???? Then he followed it with, "But I keep staring out into space" and I was like--thats more like it
"He was judging me"
Agh why do I feel this way about everyone 😂
I was telling someone recently, I went on a date ages ago with a guy who DID say he was tired, and he yawned & stuff but I thought OMG he's bored. Oh no he's doing this or that body language thing, he's not attracted to me. And at the end of the date he went to kiss me and I thought WHAT? He IS into this? I thought he was bored with me! Guy even TOLD me he was tired LOL. (Yes we kissed but I was surprised it even happened, I'd TOTALLY misread him!)
*EMPATHY INTENSIFIES*
I love how this isn't even capturing things I usually say, but literal thoughts I use to have regularly. My outer personality vastly differs from what is portrayed here, yet this is just pure truth being spoken.
Me: I'm not sensitive
Also me: Nearly crying because I'm stuck in the first aisle of the grocery store because no-one let's me by and I feel emotionally overwhelmed
Wow you really exposed me like that
That's actually so accurate! 😂
Lately I cried so much about my books for history classes and the paintings of dead people in it. :')
@@honeybun3862 Haha I do exactly know what you mean.
Sometimes it's also just like "Why are you crying?" - "I don't know. The sunlight shines on the streets at such a beautiful angle that the color of the houses makes me very emotional." It may seem a little bit weird to others, but yeah, let's say I feel VERY intense
Now Imagine doing shopping with two kids....
Wait, there is more: they are sensitive, too!
😭🤷♀️😅😅😂
@Julianne B haha thank you! Hats off to all my fellow INFPs surviving and overcoming all these overwhelming moments 😅😭😂
The cashier thing so relatable. Once I cried after buying milk bc it was just too stressful. Another time 5 people cut in front of me and all I could only do was stand there. Shopping is so stressful.
Shopping makes me unable to do anything for atleast the rest of the day. Maybe longer.
This is why I order online and pick it up. I can’t begin to face the prospect of going IN to the store. It’s been my practice since long before Covid.
I get sweaty and nervous at the self checkout when people start lining up behind but don’t want to go to the cashier bc I don’t want to interact.. that’s the hardest part
😂 I get stressed taking my stuff to the thrift store or homeless shelter cause they might reject it and then I'll have to take it all the way back home again.
Do any other INFPs write messages that are extremely long, hoping the pieces of your soul (the real message) come across and so the person you've bestowed the task of translating your poetic sense that's only sense to you understands?
Yes, then we tear them up, or delete them.
Yes😔
Yes, this is me writing a 'short' update to my therapist, hoping he will get what I mean😔
Lol yep and erase them or save in my notes much of the time afraid to push send lol 😂
I do. When some of my friends post something depressing I literally write down a whole novel on how to deal with it & that it's gonna be okay.
Only application possible for others. Not me✋
0:42 YOU DID NOT HAVE TO CALL ME OUT LIKE THAT
"Another day in the world fraught with ethical dilemmas over the smallest of choices" ahahahhaahha thats me ^ ^
Such a fine line between the INFJ and INFP .
I was thinking the same. I relate to most of this.
As an INFJ, I have heard myself say a few things in this video. Totally agree
Totally agree! I'm an INFJ and can relate to most of these
I cried at "the Minions" because Bob gave his teddybear to the villain.
I didn’t, but I relate to this 100%
Owwww
I've cried on Jurassic Park (Most recent one) on that scene where people are getting picked off by the pterodactyles.
So..... Relatable
ENTIRE LIFE MOOD x'D
Oh my god, the “why do I need to organize my desk, I know where everything is” is so relatable to me. My mom gets on me for my room being messy all the time and I’m like “but I know all the 20 spots my art supplies are, the 5 spots to find an instrument, the 3 spots with head accessories, and all the 100 spots that I have placed a book I am halfway through” XD I always think about just dumping everything out and organizing it so that there’s only 1 or 2 spots for everything (except the books, you need that many spots for books XD) but I never actually do it lol
I don't cry as much as the stereotypical INFP but boy do I think all these thoughts....
@Reveries sameee
I am an INFP.
And damm. Frank knows more about me than myself. I feel special. Lol
INFP Girlfriend: I'm not sensitive!
Also INFP Girlfriend: I'm mad because I just imagined some other girl looking at you
That’s literally me to my girlfriend. I’m an INFP and get overly jealous, and I’m pretty sure she’s like an ISFP
I used to get jealous, but I don't really anymore. For me, it was because I thought poorly of myself and imagined other people were better and more attractive. Don't let that narrative rule your life ❤️ - an INFP
@@giishaw92 Amen🙌🏻
@@giishaw92 no it’s not that. I don’t have a problem with myself, but my girlfriend is so beautiful that I’m worried guys will try stuff on her all the time and even when they will flirt it makes me jealous
Yall shut up. I'm the girlfriend. I rule. Hi bub
0:27 this is literally something that i told myself before about the stories that i wrote and been keeping for years, you know the "I'll wait for the right time".
Being am INFJ, the brain-on-airplane-mode is MUCH NEEDED. Believe me when I say that I'm constantly thinking about 2-3 things at the same time with a random song or two casually playing as background music.
Yes, same! 🙋♀️
Me too 😂 but I am INFP
And doing a test at the same time
INFJ - every time I stop and check to see if there’s a song playing in my head in the background... yep there’s a song 😅
@@kgrayston Right? Sometimes even my dreams have a background song. Like in a movie. 🤣🤣🤣
The bit about Nacho Libre was too real… I am CONSTANTLY arguing about how the dumb movies I like are actually really deep
Hahaha, I never confessed to anyone about the stupid movie I watched hundred times and love it 😊
That's me crying while talking about how deep Winnie the Pooh movies are
And my ISTJ husband just says, No, no it's not... 😆
@@gabriellagaby3675 HONESTLY
@@erinl2278 😂😂
This is why the ENFJ instinct on meeting an INFP defaults to "Must Protec"
My best friend is ENFJ who basically adopted me because of my nature, 8 years ago
INFP and best friend is also ENFJ
Both the introverted and extroverted version of the NFJ make phenomenal friends for the Infp.
So true about people just randomly dumping all of their emotional stories on INFPs! Glad I’m not the only one.
hey hey HEY I've never ONCE said "I disagree because I feel that I'm right."
(I've only thought it.... maybe several dozen times a day.. maybe...)
In my case it's more like "I disagree because I can't admit I'm wrong, even if you were able to change my mind"
"Do I need a reason to be depressed?" I said that yesterday 😂
"I've got a whole book of lyrics I've written over the last 15 years and one day, I'm going to set these to music, JUST WAIT" 😂 LOL I do have that notebook
And I love how INFP spent the whole day cleaning the apartment but the background is still a mess 😂😂😂 that's me
"I don't even cook, but I like the idea of me cooking in the future" that's me dreaming about becoming a master chef when I don't even know how to cook rice
"Why do I need to organize my desk???" That's my point! Why? It's an organized mess. I'm literally sitting by my messy desk right now and I know where everything is, no need to do this organization thing people talk about
1:46 INFPs imagining themselves in the other person situation to try to understand them and feeling bad for the person while also remembering once again that INFP life is already a downward spiral
I have the notebook with lyrics too i even recorded myself singing my own songs lol
Yep, we are awesome at cleaning the surface but don't look behind the closet door ;-P
@@kiriume that's amazing they must be very great!! I usually only record some melodies I create for my lyrics so I won't forget them. I'm not good at singing hahah
@@antoinettenovella1630 yes 😂😂😂🙈 we are the best at that
Loved your response, thank you.
I do not know how my INTP boyfriend handles my INFP. He sure is patient.
as INFP married to INTP for 10 years now ... Trust me, they slowly but surely get used to our weird :)
I love INFPs. Y'all have a big spectrum of emotions. Its like watching an artist paint - sometimes strange but usually really beautiful!
OMG SNAP!!!!!!!!! I'm an INFP with an INTP boyfriend!!!!!!!!! Our arguments are mainly started when he shoots down an emotional statement I'm making about a situation with his cold hard (I call it "stupid") logic, but apart from that, we're pretty compatible xD. We also both procrastinate so it takes forever for things to get done. Like we've been meaning to clean out our garage for about the past 8 months.
I believe in a INFP-INTP relationship supremacy
I’m an INTP and honestly I love INFPs, you are like a little puzzle to be solved (not in an objectifying way). You have such a broad spectrum of feeling and I admire your ability to accept your emotions as they are.
This is... Ridiculously accurate! 😆😂
Bro the last part was so accurate. The other day a homeless man asked me to buy him mustard, and I did. Just as I was about to leave, he told me his entire tragic life story, and I stood for an hour listening. I really had to go, yet felt extremly bad when I did so.
The part about taking things waaay to personally is very accurate. I guess it's rooted in the essence of the INFP "always trying to adapt to others" therefore, maybe, we are way to concerned with what people think / feel about us. And feel in general 😅
And then...eventually, it begins to show something. We try and become so many people, that the original person to exist has become truly lost from reality. Consumed by so many shifted identities.
I don't agree INFP's are always trying to adapt to others. INFP'S know who they are and how they feel only too well. But I agree we care too much about what others think of us, I've learnt to care a bit less about that as an older person, but still sometimes I get too upset about other people's ideas about me. I think we tune in to people really well, rather then adapt to people, we get on people's wavelength and feel their emotions but we don't lose are sense of who we are. Atleast I don't. INFP'S have a strong inner sense of themselves, especially values, that gives us strength, we are not weak people, and it's hard to deceive or fool us. We're not the sad and pathetic type that Frank portrays us as. Plus, some people say there isn't much evidence for the MB P. TYPES , maybe it's all a bit rubbish!!
To feel deeply doesn't make you sad or pathetic
It makes you alive
INFP'S are not always trying to adapt to others, they have a strong sense of who they are and what they feel and think. INFJ are the type that are more likely to adapt to others, and more concerned with gelling with others, and concerned with how everyone else is feeling. INFP'S are concerned with how they are feeling, and less concerned with being in sync with the group.
I think I’m an INFP that respects logic, I think it’s good to take into consideration your emotions and what makes sense. Perfect balance 😩
One thing I remember from my British Literature class in high school was that reason should be in control of your emotion. I'd much rather ride a literal roller coaster than an emotional one. I do kind of an interrogation of my emotions and make them prove that they belong.
Yeah, that part did not represent me at all.
100000000000000%
I'm an extremely logical INFP. There can be logic in feelings too 😅
My super logical boyfriend basically Brute forced my brain the way hackers brute force passwords until I started to actually be able to use logic to review my emotions and ask myself if they actually were based in reality or not. It's helped me be a little more logical and name my feelings more. I still feel all the feels but I can break it down faster and figure it out when it's not an emotion that's too overwhelming. I get stuck on small things that happened in interactions and obsess a little. Also daydream like crazy. He still says getting me to express my emotions in words is almost as painful for him as it is for me. I just want to feel and then be done with it. Don't make me explain it. I want to be alone. But also cuddle. But also be alone. And don't watch me when I'm doing something.
I'm an INFJ, but why are most of these so relatable..
Me: “I’m gonna put them to music someday, just wait.”
The 30 - 40 pages of lyrics scattered on scrap papers and in my notes app: you’ve been saying that for the past 8 years
I literally have a song I wrote in my notes and it's called Permanent and I'm really proud of it, I wrote it last year but I never planned to be a singer or a song writer so....maybe I'll give it to singer in the future 🤣🤣
@@snickbiordking5748 lol that would be cool too
Same 😭
This is so hard to be an INFP 😂 I always thought that I was weird but in discovering my mbti personality I feel less alone. Thanks for the video
Same I felt like I had something wrong with me now I know that it's just my personality type -INFP
Me, an INFP trying to write a witty comment but is bombarded by too many ideas while battling the fear of being judged as I type this and feeling so many feelings about this video that I made 3-4 edits on this comment.
T-T
"Life is like a dance. Movement, emotion, the rhythm always moving forward... and me sitting out by myself just watching everyone else."
"I like the idea of me [doing a hobby that I seem super interested in even though I haven't done it] in the future."
My history teacher: *yelling at me because doesn't understand why I don't want to have a better grade*
Me: *mentally screaming while staring at her while wondering how can I make her understand that I'm just not interested in embarrassing myself in front of 33 classmates because I can't learn "just one topic, is it that much???" because I'm mentally tired and all I can think about are: eating, sleeping, crying, listening to MCR. Yes, it is that much because I just can't. You only see me not listening what you're talking about, but deep inside I'm proud of staying here and acting normal.*
I love you ❤️
MCR? Sweet.
I hate modern world. Let me be born a cave occupier, collecting berries all day long, chilling through the day and befriending squirrels.
OMG😭
Lol, I’m pretty sure that scenario ends with you eaten by a Sabretooth Tiger.
@@luistoomuch Trying to befriend the Sabertooth Tiger gone wrong.
sounds dead.
I have a magnet on my fridge: I only want to live in peace and plant potatoes and dream 🙏
The cleaning one is so true. It amazes me when people can clean fast
As an enfp isolated a lot this past year, I can relate. Big hug to all the INFPs!!
Right back at you Dee.
I was like, ‘I dunno, I’m pretty good at cleaning..’, then I realized I was in the middle of cleaning when I stopped to watch this video, and spend ten minutes in the comments, seeing if anyone’s anecdotes resonate with me… 😮💨
I was starting a project lol.
@@riss803 me too! 😂 I need to finish it till morning, but I haven't even started yet. It's 1:45 :)
I'm becoming so good at cleaning too...as I mainly use it as a way to procrastinate other urgent stressful stuff :D And distracting myself through cleaning escalated a lot during the pandemic, cause there was not that much to do stuck in the house. Also it feels better than wasting time on games/movies, cause at least I feel I'm doing something useful.
I'm an ENFP and i feel that the INFP is the depressed version of me
I am an INFP and i feel like the ENFP is the energetic version of me
As an INFP, I feel like ENFP is the version of me when I’m both not depressed and have forgotten to take/run out of my ADHD meds cx
this is random but I like the fact that the comment and the first reply has the same amount of likes
INFP is the depressed version of you, ENFP. I’ve seen it happen.
I- why is that true tho-
This video helped me feel better about myself, because I'm an INFP and have actually cooked of a few of the things that I've thought about cooking.
1:24
"but i like the idea of me cooking in the future"
thats true and scary at the same time
as an INFP, this is so accurate it scares me. and hurts me
sauce for your pfp pls
@@melody8369 if u are asking abt the artist, i dont really know, i took it from pinterest :( but if u are asking abt the characters, they are aesop carl and eli clark from identity v.
@@swagjose1817 is it a comic?
@@melody8369 no! it's a game, a horror game to be exact :)) its kinda fun, you should try it
@@swagjose1817 thanks
Me, and INFJ: Maybe I am an INFP 🤔
I wonder that too. I’m sure I’m dominantly INF but I have both J and P characteristics. I procrastinate a lot but at the same time I like being organized if that makes sense.
@@VLuck. You could be INFx or INF* then. It means both J and P or neither.
I think...😅
@@VLuck. mayybe you should learn more about the cognitive functions,, it really helped me out to know my type
@@js42025 ooh uhh maybe actually looking into the functions for them can help!! infj is dom ni (ni> fe> ti > se) and infp is dom fi (fi> ne> si> te)!! by letters i would be like a ENFx (literally on tests i get 51% judging and 49% percieving or exactly 50-50) but by functions i think i’m more enfj 😵💫 i think that if you do research on these you can know more about it and other things can explain it better 😦 just look up like “ni function” and if you scroll enough on photos somethjng will describe it !
Theyre really similar
We're so creative but cannot express that creativity