I struggle with the same problem as you do, and even if people say that I’m the best person in the world I still don’t believe it. I have wisdom from the pain and yes I’ve paid the price, but look how much I’ve gained. If I had to I can do anything. I am strong I am invincible I am Woman! Helen Reddys song for every woman who doubts herself and needs to know that she is valued by so many people. Listen to her song and see what I mean. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing. It honestly feels so refreshing meeting other people who go through the same thing. I have hope that as long as you keep working on yourself and accepting the insecure parts of yourself, you'll feel a lot confident as time goes on. Thanks for the song recommendation ❤
Hey Winnie, I struggle with the same thing. I believe putting oneself more in such scenarios will lead adapting to the discomfort of social anxiety or low self confidence. Also listening to a favorite song, looking at a picture that sparks joy just before said scenario helps me. One last thing, regret is painful and human life has an end. I tell myself to ñot stack up regrets because las las time will pass. I hope I made sense!!
I’m not going to pretend like I go through the same thing but when I meet people who are shy or introverted, I make it my mission to make them feel comfortable enough to yap. Even if it’s a stranger that I might never see again, I see it as practice for the person and whether they realise it or not…they’re gradually becoming better at engaging with people. I’d love to be your practice 🫶🏾
I struggle with the same problem as you do, and even if people say that I’m the best person in the world I still don’t believe it. I have wisdom from the pain and yes I’ve paid the price, but look how much I’ve gained. If I had to I can do anything. I am strong I am invincible I am Woman! Helen Reddys song for every woman who doubts herself and needs to know that she is valued by so many people. Listen to her song and see what I mean. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing. It honestly feels so refreshing meeting other people who go through the same thing. I have hope that as long as you keep working on yourself and accepting the insecure parts of yourself, you'll feel a lot confident as time goes on. Thanks for the song recommendation ❤
Hey Winnie, I struggle with the same thing. I believe putting oneself more in such scenarios will lead adapting to the discomfort of social anxiety or low self confidence. Also listening to a favorite song, looking at a picture that sparks joy just before said scenario helps me. One last thing, regret is painful and human life has an end. I tell myself to ñot stack up regrets because las las time will pass. I hope I made sense!!
Yeah I totally get you, shame and regret can really hold you back so its best to let go. Thank you for sharing ❤
I’m not going to pretend like I go through the same thing but when I meet people who are shy or introverted, I make it my mission to make them feel comfortable enough to yap.
Even if it’s a stranger that I might never see again, I see it as practice for the person and whether they realise it or not…they’re gradually becoming better at engaging with people.
I’d love to be your practice 🫶🏾
You’re so sweet. Thank you 🙏 you can always send me an email
You’re so good at Sit Down Videos. I look forward to watching more and more of you. Aslamelekum’Ustafuwad’Iftar.
This is the sweetest comment. Thank you so much, I plan to do more videos like this in the future :)
Yeah quite soothing to watch