5 questions to tell if your relationship is good (or not) - My NT ND Marriage

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 8 гру 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 6

  • @MonaSimply
    @MonaSimply 6 місяців тому +1

    I've missed you! It's too early now I'll write more later

    • @MonaSimply
      @MonaSimply 6 місяців тому

      If someone said you're a lot like your partner would this be a compliment to you?
      I was a lot like me 25 years ago, today I'm more like him and that's not who I am. It bothers me that I've changed so much so it wouldn't be a compliment it would be more of an observation of what's become of me.

    • @MonaSimply
      @MonaSimply 6 місяців тому

      Are you truly fulfilled or just less lonely? What's that mean?😂 I'm less lonely, I told him the other day I would miss him if he were gone. He assumed the question was about his death. He then replied just stuff me, stick me on the couch and every once in a while yell.... are you listening to me? That's my marriage and he sees that as well.

    • @MonaSimply
      @MonaSimply 6 місяців тому

      Can you be who you are around your partner? I can. Much like you, he never says what's up with your hair? You're looking a little chunky. What did you do all day the house is a mess? He's never been bent about these things. That's an important part of my marriage, I'm thankful for that.

    • @MonaSimply
      @MonaSimply 6 місяців тому

      Are you in love with who your partner is right now or are you only in love with the good side?
      That's a loaded question, how long is this guys marriage? The good side, I admire several things about him. He's much more level headed than I am when it comes to addressing heated issues with people who cross boundaries. He's persistent when he wants to be. He takes on others work loads, I wouldn't be as accommodating. This is too much of a loaded question, any marriage has its problems. I want to know what love is, if everything is roses, someone is being agreeable and the other person is getting their way about everything. Just because you're silent about issues doesn't mean there isn't any.

    • @MonaSimply
      @MonaSimply 6 місяців тому

      Would you want your child to marry or date someone like your husband? I'm not sure I would want them to marry someone with certain aspects like me. I don't want them to marry someone like him for the same reason. If there was a mixture of the good aspects of both of us, that would be pretty cool. Money management, not stressed out, not a perfectionist. I would be interested in reading the comments and the amount of time each person who commented was married. I'm guessing anything over 10 years (maybe longer) would be a more realistic assessment of what a marriage is really like. You're right, none of these questions is a yes or no answer. Your answers were more realistic than his yes or no questions