My immigrant parents both beat the fuck outta me and my siblings, while I was growing up. For close to 30 years of my life, I internalized it and took it completely personally. I remember there was a point during my teenage years where I was seething mad at them for all the wrong they had done to me. Through both therapy and introspection, I learned the beatings were not personal, not at all. They were taking out all their stress and frustrations of having to deal with their families, out on us. This doesn’t mean the behaviour was ok, but, at least it wasn’t personal. What I’ve taken from this experience is just being an overly kind soul, to people that are hurting, to people that need a little extra love.
What a beautiful reflection my man. Rare to see a perspective like this nowadays. Let's all keep pushing on strong in this odd and amazing thing called life! ❤️🔥
My parents kept giving me mixed signals throughout the development of my childhood to adulthood. They kept telling me I can be whatever I want to be, while also directing me towards something they wanted me to become. Now, I am an aimless man, with no particular goals set in mind. I simply let the way of the world guide me. I have many interests, but I am not a master from any of them. I am a jack of all trades.
My dad waking up late all the time! Last min to get ready. Made me always get ready earlier. Plan an hour ahead and always be early to most events. Even as basic as lunch with friends
You know Ryan would have been someone big in the music industry if his parents didn’t get in the way 😢 some people really got all the talent and some of us got nothing 😂😂😂
nick's story about being a business major reminds me of what elon musk said about teaching to the problem, not the tool. i wish more schools realised this. there's really no application involved when you're teaching someone how something works, without first framing it as a problem-solution or making obvious the cause-and-effect links. i mean, why do we do anything? teaching to the problem builds motivation like nothing else.
I don't remember why I stopped watching you guys, but I should really enable notifications again! Edit: I remember, it was a mix of some very concerning politics and also the news just getting so incredibly depressing I couldn't bear to watch it anymore.
I'm a nervous person partly my parents let me cry it out from birth. That's just what people did in the 70s. That and The Perfection game. Lol eta I had a descent life. My parents did pretty good.
My parents did the opposite and would shame or scold me for crying or even showing that I was mad. Now I have trouble expressing my anger in healthy ways and I still cry as easily, but I also have anxiety lol
@@rybo510 it wasn't "cry it out" it was "you better turn that frown upside-down", "I can give you something to cry about" or that I wear my heart on my sleeves and should stop "wasting tears" on small things. Now when I get upset or stressed, I have the urge to numb myself with a little thc 😅
Piano Man Sing us a song, you're the piano man, Sing us a song tonight, Well, we're all in the mood for a melody, And you've got us feeling alright! Now John at the bar is a friend of mine, He gets me my drinks for free, And he's quick with a joke, or to light up your smoke, But there's some place that he'd rather be... . -- William Martin Joel (~1970)
Anthony’s parents had a laundry business and he had a job growing up? Lucky, my parents were taught to work as a physical laborer their lives and my dad got sick and passed when he reached the point where he can invest in properties.
It gave me a lot of insight on different aspects of life, my own, and how I want to move forward. I have a long way to go and roads to pave, its a slow road but I hear the difference in mindset between my friends who grew up in big cities with nice upbringings vs my friends who got it out the mud and are just trying to make it any honest means possible in this economy
Who said his life was perfect? Just because someone has talent doesn't mean there weren't obstacles to overcome along the way. They have all discussed the difficulties they have faced throughout their lives in numerous prior videos.
Colleen (not sure how it’s spelt) just does not match the energy in any episode I’ve seen her in throughout the year..s… I’ve tried to connect or see her perspective but she says 1-2 vague things and then shuts up for the rest of the episode…. It just seems like it’s just a money/gig for her, she has no interest on being part of the team or community.
At the end after Ryan said he’s schizophrenic they should’ve cut to the other tables with nobody there 😂
random existential skit on a deeper ep of jknews would have made me cum thats dope
"Hey what's that over there" - Nick 😂😂😂😭😭😭
Editing genius😂
Ryan literally has something so interesting to tell with every article lol
His life is already interesting than half of the shows on Netflix combined.
Hey thanks for being interested in it at all
@@ryanimay I’ll always be interested lol 😅👍🏼
Joe and anthony at 11:22 lookin so salty that Kaylne had supportive parents LMAO HAHAHAHA
crazy how Ryan had to go out to play, when he actually has the true gift of music and dance
My immigrant parents both beat the fuck outta me and my siblings, while I was growing up.
For close to 30 years of my life, I internalized it and took it completely personally. I remember there was a point during my teenage years where I was seething mad at them for all the wrong they had done to me.
Through both therapy and introspection, I learned the beatings were not personal, not at all. They were taking out all their stress and frustrations of having to deal with their families, out on us. This doesn’t mean the behaviour was ok, but, at least it wasn’t personal.
What I’ve taken from this experience is just being an overly kind soul, to people that are hurting, to people that need a little extra love.
Lemons to lemonade. Well done mate.
Grapes to wine, proud of you!
What a beautiful reflection my man. Rare to see a perspective like this nowadays. Let's all keep pushing on strong in this odd and amazing thing called life! ❤️🔥
Sorry to hear it was that kind of childhood; hopefully you’ve grown past it after all these years
My parents kept giving me mixed signals throughout the development of my childhood to adulthood. They kept telling me I can be whatever I want to be, while also directing me towards something they wanted me to become. Now, I am an aimless man, with no particular goals set in mind. I simply let the way of the world guide me. I have many interests, but I am not a master from any of them. I am a jack of all trades.
Go help others.
That’s the least we can do….
My dad waking up late all the time! Last min to get ready. Made me always get ready earlier. Plan an hour ahead and always be early to most events. Even as basic as lunch with friends
I still can’t believe Ryan is 40
You know Ryan would have been someone big in the music industry if his parents didn’t get in the way 😢 some people really got all the talent and some of us got nothing 😂😂😂
Haha it’s on me at the end of the day tho; but that woulda been one situation I do wish went differently
I wanted to see Bart for this episode lol
Wow really great reflection from Joe especially the point made around 8:00
Such a great conversation to have. Thank you for this. I can't really think of a time that my parents did that to me.
man no wonder he won with quest crew hahaha he was trying to get them notes out
Hearing Joe's story has inspired me to be a horrible parent so my child becomes a multi-millionaire.
nick's story about being a business major reminds me of what elon musk said about teaching to the problem, not the tool. i wish more schools realised this. there's really no application involved when you're teaching someone how something works, without first framing it as a problem-solution or making obvious the cause-and-effect links. i mean, why do we do anything? teaching to the problem builds motivation like nothing else.
I don't remember why I stopped watching you guys, but I should really enable notifications again!
Edit: I remember, it was a mix of some very concerning politics and also the news just getting so incredibly depressing I couldn't bear to watch it anymore.
I LOVE THIS TOPIC and y’all take form it 😍
Bart would have been perfect for this prompt
I love the topic ❤❤❤
Omg Nick talking about being the youngest hit me
I'm a nervous person partly my parents let me cry it out from birth. That's just what people did in the 70s. That and The Perfection game. Lol eta I had a descent life. My parents did pretty good.
My parents did the opposite and would shame or scold me for crying or even showing that I was mad. Now I have trouble expressing my anger in healthy ways and I still cry as easily, but I also have anxiety lol
@@Vincisomething wow I can see how you are also anxious. Lol
@@rybo510 it wasn't "cry it out" it was "you better turn that frown upside-down", "I can give you something to cry about" or that I wear my heart on my sleeves and should stop "wasting tears" on small things.
Now when I get upset or stressed, I have the urge to numb myself with a little thc 😅
@@Vincisomething lol 💚💚
They didn't tell me the birthday of the letter J
Try and bring on Josh from Blue’s Clues as a guest
Piano Man
Sing us a song, you're the piano man,
Sing us a song tonight,
Well, we're all in the mood for a melody,
And you've got us feeling alright!
Now John at the bar is a friend of mine,
He gets me my drinks for free,
And he's quick with a joke, or to light up your smoke,
But there's some place that he'd rather be...
.
-- William Martin Joel (~1970)
From Ryan's channel: Culture Shock LA presents "The Piano Man"
Anthony’s parents had a laundry business and he had a job growing up? Lucky, my parents were taught to work as a physical laborer their lives and my dad got sick and passed when he reached the point where he can invest in properties.
It gave me a lot of insight on different aspects of life, my own, and how I want to move forward. I have a long way to go and roads to pave, its a slow road but I hear the difference in mindset between my friends who grew up in big cities with nice upbringings vs my friends who got it out the mud and are just trying to make it any honest means possible in this economy
Pretty sure Anthony nor his sister got paid😂
@GoldKunai Keep hustling and staying on the straight and narrow path bro! ❤️🔥
He worked for his parents and didn’t get paid 😂
gang gang listen to forevermars - muneyyy
giving birth to me
hello
😂😂😂😅😅😅
There no way someone always has success or perfect life I feel like he stretched the true about the piano
Who said his life was perfect? Just because someone has talent doesn't mean there weren't obstacles to overcome along the way. They have all discussed the difficulties they have faced throughout their lives in numerous prior videos.
You should probably look at my actual life or résumé if you thought that little story was stretchy
Colleen (not sure how it’s spelt) just does not match the energy in any episode I’ve seen her in throughout the year..s… I’ve tried to connect or see her perspective but she says 1-2 vague things and then shuts up for the rest of the episode…. It just seems like it’s just a money/gig for her, she has no interest on being part of the team or community.
Cirstt
20 second intro unnecessary
Cry about it
It is to draw in the viewers attention.
@@striptalkbandit can you not see that’s exactly what I’m doing already or you got too much bean and cheese in your system
@@zuychan too much
@@striptalkbandit understood