TRICHOTILLOMANIA & COVID | BEETABEAUTY
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- Опубліковано 19 тра 2020
- Hey Hey! In 2015 I decided to publicly share my experience with Trich on my youtube Channel, from there I learned I'm not the only one and It helped me become very open about it in my own life. The best part about sharing those videos was all the people it helped. I'm sorry If I have not been responding to your emails. It's too triggering for me and I hope in uploading these new videos it will help answer any and all questions you may have. I have had years between 2015 and 2020 that I have completely stopped and my lashes have grown back, but been on the struggle bus this last year with keeping all my hairs LOL !
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I’m watching this right after I pulled a bunch of lashes out AGAIN.. now I’m almost completely bald in both eyes 😭☹️ I hate having this disorder. It makes me feel so depressed.
Same im crying
Same and my depression makes me pull more 😞 vicious cycle
Me too
Please im reading the comments and crying😭😭😭😭
Omg same like I try my best not to
The small baby stubble lashes that grow back are my weak spots... I’m incredibly focused on removing the prickly areas and loving the bald clean feeling when the hairs are gone. But, when I look in the mirror I feel so disappointed in myself as I’m sure people wonder why I have bald spots on my eyelids. Somehow I remain confident in social settings. Just need to figure out a way to stop pulling for the long term.
*i feel the exact same way* 🙏🏾
I’m the same waaaayyyy! My friends me telling me I look like a earthworm.
@@SKYYLOVE when I realized that I’m doing it, I stop and analyze how Im feeling at that moment as far as stress and anxiety. Then I tell myself this isn’t appropriate behavior. It’s helping me for the most part. But sometimes that one annoying lash must come out. It’s so weird and annoying 😒
That's my problem too! I have full length spots by my 2 tear ducts but the new growth everywhere else i can't stop!!
this is me!!!
It’s so bad for me I hate it so much I’m so confident until I relapse and then my eyes are literally bald. I don’t ever feel calm or satisfied until I do it but after I get so upset:(
This describes me so much. I had really REALLY long lashes and they were my biggest complement I get and now I have barely any
@@bebelove8391 yup me too I have to wear makeup everyday and it makes me to tired bc it’s like an extra hour before school:(
@@okay4567 me too and people ask me why does it look like you have half your lashes? And I’m embarrassed cause ppl that knew me noticed easily cause I had long lashes and now it’s either no makeup or eyeliner to cover it up (I have blonde lashes so the no makeup option is usually what I go for but I usually always wear mascara when I had lashes)
@@bebelove8391 I had dark lashes so luckily it looks natural but I would really rather not have to put lashes on every day:(
Sooo same I feel ashamed and that my family won’t support me :( x
I can't help but have my hand on my head when I lay down & I start searching and pulling any hairs I consider "weird" thick/kinky ones and then I can't stop.
bro sameee
oh my goodness I do this too
Consider this: when you teach a certain age, like me, 57, the ability for your hair to grow is almost impossible. I’ve done so much research and wish I knew years back what I know now. When you’re much older the follicles take much longer to heal and regrow. But with God all things are possible. I’ve been praying about it, asking God to give life to every pore where a flicker once was. God bless you, I know first hand how difficult dealing with trich is
I got tape in extensions and they help tremendously I haven't pulled in 64 days. I've been pulling for 12 years. Hope this helps☺️
SAME!
I don't have top lashes or eyebrows. This makes me insecure about them, and whenever I see a makeup tutorial, and someone is putting on mascara, I think the lashes are so beautiful! Anyone else?
Yeah☹️ it just natural long lashes in general
Don't worry i feel for u
I feel this!! I feel like I hyper aware of people eyelashes and eyebrows and get a surge or jealousy that they don’t have to deal with trichotillomania. I miss putting on mascara and not having to fill in my eyebrows
I feel for you too, I’ve had this disease for almost 2 years now and I pulled out all my eyebrows and eyelashes. I didn’t have them for quite a while but then eventually grew my eyebrows back. I know how you feel I cry almost every day because I see people doing mascara and I’m like I wish I could do that. I always that I was the only one, but knowing there are plenty of other people out there always makes me feel a lot better! ❤️🔥
I REALLY was convinced that I was the only one with this issue I've been struggling since I was a teenager with this 😭😭 it's comforting to know I'm not the only one and there's a way to beat it
Same but I stopped that I stopped pulling on my eyelashes and you should too and lashes keep bacteria keep stuff from getting out of your eyes
I believe in you
The problem is that i dont do it without i feel it, i check if there are any 'loose' lashes and if anyone hurt a littlw i jsut stay pulling until its out but I'm fully aware that im doing itz but if there arent any loose ones i woudlnt do it, hut the problem is if i tried pulling 1 hair i would accidentally pull more with it and they would become loose and i would had to pull it and thats how i get bald spots, but atleats im aware that im doing it :/
I’ve honestly been pulling my lashes and eyebrows out since 3rd grade. I’m 23 and it’s still a constant struggle especially with my anxiety. I’ve kept it from my family for years. To this day they have no idea I do it.
Yeah. My mom thinks they mostly just fall out, but next time she says something about it, I’m gonna tell her so I can get lash regrow that stuff or something
I love this - I feel like we all need therapy tbh
AGREED ❤️
I am so glad I found this video. I pull out my lashes since I was about 6 and now I am 22. My mom would constantly shout at me (from when I was 7 years old) and telling me that I look ugly and everyone would be making fun of me and that no one would want to be my friend etc. She has stopped the last 3-4 years talking about it thankfully. It really shuttered my confidence and still does. I can't look someone in the eyes and I don't let anyone see me without eyeliner. I am living with my boyfriend for 9 months now and I am wearing eyeliner 24/7 literally. It just feels good knowing I am not alone💕💕
you’re not alone! I have the same issue.. I jus wonder how was it when you first lived w your boyfriend? We’re you embarrassed?? How did you do it?? I really need some advice😢I’m about to move in with my boyfriend I’m just really scared & feel really insecure 😣
@@dianalovee4020 well, as I said I always have eyeliner on so it's not really different... I just had to be careful during night not to rub it off, I am used to it now... that's about it for me... I know that he loves me no matter what though but I still don't feel comfortable enough to not wear eyeliner when he is there... I hope you'll find a way to feel comfortable with him💕💕
@@dianalovee4020 I’ve done it for over 10 years and I can honestly say I’ve only told two people. I told my ex early on when living with him and told him how serious it is and how embarrassed I was and he was very understanding. Actually he always wanted me to not wear them and just feel comfortable. I’m sure your boyfriend will be the same!
@@jessiemelonas girl you’re beautiful!!
I relate so much. I started pulling my lashes around age 6 and I'm 21 now. My mom said the same things to me when I was young and it has had a lasting impact on me and also on my relationship with her. Worst thing is that she actually has trich too but she never told me what it was until I found out myself through google years later, and she would keep telling me to just stop pulling. When I was older she got a bit nicer about it but we aren't close. I also really relate to the eye contact thing, I really have trouble with that, its definitely made me more antisocial.
I have this condition. It makes me feel alone and anxious all the time. My own mother told me I look like a lizard. I’m literally 12 years old. I have not pulled in a while and I wanted to share some things I do. I have a locket that I open and close every time I feel like doing it. It doesn’t help every time but it helps enough. I understand that this won’t help everyone but I’m happy to help anyone I can because I know how it feels to be depressed about it. Just know that y’all are not alone and that you can power through this!
I used to have long, thick, full, dark eyelashes. I'm scared that they will never look like they used to...... 😓
Same condition 😭😭😭😭😭😭
You have almost 37,000 subscribers. 800 of them watched this. Only 48 liked it. I wish there were more people that are aware that this is a problem. (That was probably a badly worded sentence). Thanks for posting these videos. Just last night I pulled almost all my lashes out, but I believe these tips will help. Everyone who sees this, even comment something short like ‘Thanks’ because we need to get these videos into people’s recommended sections more.
*i completely agree!*
i have, on my left eye a space with no eye lashes, like in the middle. on the other side there’s only 2 eye lashes left in the middle and the spaces are huge
I’m the exact same on my left omg
Honestly it's satisfying plucking out your eyelashes
I thought it was because I was stretching my mascara too much and using it beyond expiration and after a bottle of wine sitting on the couch it was fun to pull my eyelashes until I had relief. Lol it always felt like one was about to fall out and it was uncomfortable... so I pulled and pulled until I felt like I got it. I’ve never pulled out my entire lash but I have been bald in little sections and then I have to rock eyeliner for like 2 weeks until they grow back lol
My 11 yo has pulled out all her lashes. I thought I heard you say you have “grow back” hacks. I’d love to see a video on that! 😘
You should try putting castor oil before sleeping
I'm 12 and I pluck my eyelashes I can't stop doing it either 💀
@@thechillonee5533 I’m 13 and I pull them and pluck them all my almost all my eyelashes on my right eye are out and I need help!!!????
@@nataliapendergrast5707 so do I I still can't stop😞
@@nataliapendergrast5707 I was literally just plucking them😭
i love pulling out my eyelashes. only after i'm bald, i regret it. funnily tho, my eyelashes grow back within 3 months and they are longer than before so i have to fight temptation not to do it again 😂 i'm gonna start vaseline on my lashes and hope for the best now lmao. my pro tip is, to get long acrylic nails so u cant grab your lashes
How did you get them to grow back so fast?
I can’t stop it’s tempting with my eyebrows I cover it up with eye brow crayon thing
don’t take this as hate it’s just my opinion.
I have trichotellamania my self, for 3 years now. I’ve tried everything possible to stop. My mom has looked up every single way possible to stop, or to help it stop. Keep in mind I’m 12.
I’ve written in journals, I’ve gone to therapy, I’ve taken medication, I’ve literally tried everything to stop. I have pulled the whole top of my head, I’ve pulled my eyelashes, my hair, eyebrows, and arm hair. I just hate it. I hate not being liked, i hate being judged, i hate not liking my self, i especially hate looking at my self in a mirror or anything. It just breaks my heart so much. I hate being stared at in public, that’s why i don’t like going to school. I always wear hoodies, i hide my face, i love being around family but i hate being in pictures because i feel like I’m ruining it, i hate being with family because i get started at, and how I’m always being looked down, or how I’m just not the person to talk to. I have a severe gaming addiction. I will play for 10 hours straight if you let me. I hate that my family thinks that all i care about is games. I HATE how i just can’t interact with my mom, my sibling, my family, my friends, because I’m so addicted to my games that i get lost in time not thinking about anything but games. It stresses me out so much. School on top of that, i make bad grades, sleep in class because I’m so stressed out that i can’t go to sleep, I’ll stay up till 2 in the morning to where i have 4 hours of sleep, the pulling addiction just gets worse and worse.
My mom leaving me at 6-7 pm at night with my two sibling that are 1/2 and 7 STRESSES ME OUT LIKE HELL. I can’t watch a two year old and a hyperactive 7 year old by my self till 2 in the morning. I don’t know where the hell she’s going or what the hell she’s doing for 6 hours straight but i think i have clue. And if she finds this well too bad. My anxiety is just so bad i can’t handle it. I cry so often and i hate being alone even though i don’t like to talk to people, i don’t like to socialize. I get gripped at because either i don’t do what I’m supposed to do, I’m rude to my brother, i don’t “seem to care” about my siblings, and how i don’t do what I’m told. ITS HARD, HAVING TO DO EVERYTHING AROUND THE HOUSE BY MY SELF. I have to sweep, i have to mop, i have to do the dishes then put them up, i have to clean my room, clean my sisters room, vacuum, etc. My mom always says “I’m not your maid pick your own stuff up” WHEN SHES THE ONE NOT PICKING HER STUFF UP AND TELLING ME TO DO IT. I feel like a maid, honestly.
I’m sorry if I waisted your time or if i got too into my feelings about this but this really matters to me and it feels better to just let it out instead of talking this out to someone.
Thank you for your time.
Have an amazing day/night to everyone
Stay safe❤️
I'm really sorry. I thought my trichotillomania was bad until I read this. I pulled out my lashes and eyebrows and I know how it feels to be judged and disliked for it. Everyone makes fun of me for it but I have red hair, so they think i just have really light brows (not lashes though). My family judges me too and they think I'm psycho for it and won't allow me to get therapy, take medication, or even use lash/brow growth products. I'm 13 and I have no support and my trich is just getting worse at this point. How are you doing by the way? Your comment is 7 months old, so Im wondering if you are doing better.
I love you, friend!!! Thanks for sharing this ❤️
LOVEE YOU ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for these videos. My eyelashes are the worst they have ever been. I am bald in the middle of my left eye. I’m looking forward to watching more of your videos.
I've been pulling my lashes out since I was 13 I'm now 18, and when I get a bald spot I get nervous that people are gonna talk to me about it and judge me
same here. i’ve been pulling my lashes since i was 6 and now i’m 16. i feel so embarrassed whenever someone starts to look into my eyes and since i’m still in high school i just don’t want the popular girls to laugh/make fun of me.
Ive been pulling hair eyelashes and eyebrows since primary and u would see BIG bald patches
I find this helpful! Self awareness is very helpful…I have been struggling with it for over 20 years… it started when I was a little girl. I not only pulled all of my lashes on both eyes I also did both my eye brows. Once had very long thick eye lashes and perfect eye brows which no longer have. I used to do it when I would fall asleep or watch tv. It end up becoming an OCD habit where if it didn’t feel right on one side to the other I had to pull it even when it was tingly…it would almost be satisfying after I finished but not satisfying when I realized there’s no hair. So using makeup everyday to cover what’s missing and would get compliments on how beautiful I would do my makeup and little did they know that I have no hair. But I am honest and do tell people yea i don’t have any eye brows or lashes and they would say wow I never even realized until you said it. I am not as bad as I used to be but I still struggle with it and have nothing but stubs here and there. Thought about getting Cosmetic permanent make up done and Micro blading. The struggle is real for sure…
What I do to not take them out is where acrylic nails because I can’t pull them with acrylic nails
Thanks for the tip!
wait this is a really good idea
Omg thats smart
I've been dealing with this problem for 4 years and I really need to stop but I can't 😭
Me to I was thinking of going to the doctor and when I went to school I felt horrible
Thanks for talking about this
What has truly helped me is not putting on mascara. I put eyeliner but no mascara and this iliminates triggers. It's been 2 years I do not pull and I agree. Self control and working on your self love helps so much. Affirmations, as " I can do it" are so very very helpful. Jog run, walk, skip, jump anything to get the heart rate going and to release those urges. YOU ALL CAN DO IT!!!!!!!! I promise you can!!!
Oh also Vaseline helps the. Grow faster and softer, that helped me so much!!!
I've been doing this for 40 years, will the lashes ever grow back? Thankyou for your honest and informative information.
Thank you for this video. I'm 16 and I just had the worst relapse last night, my lashed are thinning again. Im going to talk about fake lashes with my mom, thank you
I pull with my fingers and I have super short nails. I have times were I’m going good and don’t pull but I go back to pulling😕. I’m 18 and I’ve been pulling since a young age. I’m just great that my lashes grow back quickly
Anyone watching this while pulling?
I started at 10 and im 11 now so i have been plucking my eyelashes and by eyebrows for a about a year now, the only time i could fully stop was for about 3 days, it makes me really insecure and i do hope that i will stop for a good enough time for my eyelashes to fully grow back!
I think it is weird to a men posting here, but i ended up with no eyelashes, nothing, 0, I started one or the other before, but a 2 weeks back, I just started pulling all my lashes and I finish with none, anyway, the truth is that I do not feel bad, it even feels good not to feel anything in my eyes, the sensation of pulling my eyelashes went away and what bothered me the most was seeing stripes or hairs, that feeling that later you you pull one eyelash and you keep seeing that hair and no matter how much you try to remove that eyelash, it is still there, but now I feel free, I don't see any more hairs, and I feel happy about that.
My wife and daughters are very comprensive with me, no issues with it and I use eyeliner to cover that I don't have any eyelashes and my life goes great
Nobody should feel bad about this, just feel good about yourself and I assure you that people will not even realize that you do not have eyelashes, just use eyeliner and that's it. :)
by the way, you look great without eyelashes, really, and just using the eyeliner you look great
I struggle and this helps 💙🦋
:((
keeping my nails done also really helps
I am going to take notes so I don't forget
I haven’t done this in a long time, it’s been so long since having huge chunks of lashes missing. I don’t know how to feel.
I don't pull them as much, but play with my eyelashes and press on them just to hear the crunching noise it makes. Very weird habit but it's hard to stop
Same here expect I like scratching my eyelid where my eyelashes are bc it makes a satisfying noise 😭 its so badd
I've been pulling my lashes since I was about 6 and I'm almost 23 now. I've gave my tweezers to my mom and my therapist suggested that everytime I get the urge to pull, see if I can go 15 minutes without doing it and another 15 minutes. Everytime I do good, I relapse and pull out the lashes that are "out of place" or "don't look right"
I have been trying to stop and it is hard but i have not done it in a while and my eyelashes are growing back!!!! 💖
B4 COVID I’ve been pulling my eyelashes den start pulling my skin and have scabs on my eyelid and pick at them too🙁it’s honestly annoying but I can’t stop myself, this been gone at for 6 years 😭
I’m having the urge to pull them out right now. I’ve only ripped out 4 before I forced myself to stop which I’m proud of since I usually rip them all out. The root just feels so itchy 😣
same bestie same :(( we get through this together
I think I have Trichotillomania,my parents say pulling eyelashes and eyebrows is just a habit,which I dotn believe
You do, trust me I thought it was habit but here I am, 5 years later still pulling
@@itzash5499 Same though
I need helpppp. I’ve had trich since I was 11, pulling from my scalp. For two years, I stopped pulling and my hair was GORGEOUS. But the second quarantine happened and I had to quit school, it started again. Now it’s the ABSOLUTE WORST ITS EVER BEEN! I’ve always had a spot on the side of my head, easy to cover up. Now... easily half my hair is GONE and I’m literally broken inside
Omg my eyes look like this right now! only lashes on the outside and thats bc they wouldn’t come out! smh I stopped for almost a year and I couldn’t help it anymore.
Me too 😔
I am 45 and have been pulling out my eyebrows and eyelashes since I was about 10 or 11. When I first started I would pull out my actual hair as well, but for the most part I don't do much of that anymore. I paint on my eyebrows but I have never worn false lashes. I think I like that little tickle of pain when the hair comes out and its usually triggered more with stress however I went like a year without doing it and then relapsed. And yes acrylic nails do help...I want to get them done again and maybe have someone put false lashes on for me...hopefully that will help...who knows...I have been doing it soo long that it probably won't matter.
I pull my lashes out and it feels satisfying once Im doing it but I feel super guilty afterwards
I've had it since kindergarten it became a coping mechanism for me 15 years later and I'm still struggling.. 😞
Sometimes I wonder tho like why me? This started when I was probably like 8 and now I just do it out of bad habit. It’s scary and depressing tho
i pull, and in realised i bite my nails and then its easier for me to pull, ive been biting my nails since preschool, and pulling since 3rd grade,
my eyelashes just grew back, i just pulled them all out 😭
I start pulling because of people or waterproof mascara. I eliminated both. I love my lashes and brows more than people and mascara.
I’ve had trich for 31 years now and I haven’t had much relief since about 94 when I had a family death. Mine is usually triggered by stress and anxiety. I’m currently trying to get my CDL and I’m super stressed. Therapy never worked for me. Hopefully your will help me.
To see people going through the same thing as me makes me feel less alone. 😇
I first started picking my eyebrows because they were hurting, I started picking at my eyebrows to find the peice that was hurting and before I knew it, A whole patch of hair was gone.
I cried because my mom was angry with me and thought I was going crazy and made me take pills and Told me that I was gonna go into a crazy asylum if I didnt stop picking.
I tried but I struggled so much, I used castor oil and grew my eyebrows back in 2 weeks gladly.
but before I thought it was over…
I started to pick my eyelashes because they were itching. 😞
A whole patch of my lashes were gone in one eye.
I’m sure that this happens when you are having bad anxiety or depression, So im thinking that i may be going through something :/
My mom doesnt understand
my condition, So I havent even told her I have no lashes because If I do then ill probably be in a asylum with crazy people :(
So I watch youtube videos and do research on this condition and learned that it wasnt only me suffering this :(
I just really pray I get my lashes back :/
because I miss them.
And the comments on this video really helped :)
It made me cry but its nice to see that we arent alone! So if you have this condition dont worry you will be fine! You will grow your hair back~~
Have a good day/night!
I started pulling out my eyelashes when I was 5 of 6, and it's been and on/off thing. When I was 11 or 12, o stoped and they grew back so nicely then I started puking again then stoped then started then stopped and now I started again🤦🏼♀️. I also used to pull out my eyebrows but I haven't done that in a really long time thank God. I'm a bit depressed and stressed, so I'm guessing that's why I pull my lashes, I just started using castor oil to grow them back sk hopefully they grow back!
@@reese7916 i’m currently doing the same thing right now. whenever i am bored or stressed i like to touch my lashes and then to start to pull on them, by the time i stop i realize that i have a bald spot. of course i start to stress out even more and would have a break down. which is what i am dealing with right now. i start school in a month and i’m super nervous that my lashes won’t grow back and people will laugh at me.
@@marymai4336 I totally get that I am the same way. I used to pull my brows but thank God I stopped. And at times I'll pull my hair from my head but at least its not super bad and I kinda stoped. I will pray that both our eyelashes grow back 🙏.
I usually pull at least two hundred hairs a day, I separate the roots till I have a considerable amount then just eat them.
I have been doing this for years, too many to number.
I have no body hair fromm pulling so much and everybody thinks I'm bald.
I think that called a rapunzel syndrone
i’m a guy i’ve been pulling for about 4 years now but i won’t stop it’s so annoying
this video is super sweet! i just uploaded a video about my trichotillomania so im glad there are others out here doing the same (: good luck
How long have you had trich? Do they always regrow?? :) thx!!
I started pulling when I was 16 I am now 28. I got tape in extensions and they help me tremendously I haven't pulled in 64 days
I've had trichotillomania since forever. I've been pulling for over 50 years. It sucks, but for most of that time I've been able to hide my bald eyelids and brows with cosmetics and false lashes. Trich is classified on the obsessive compulsive disorder spectrum. www.bfrb.org/ Trich website might be helpful.
Beeta - thank you for your wonderful videos. ❤
I started doing this 1-2 months but its so bad my whole eye is hairless and im saddd
Thanks everyone in my school bullies me about it and I cants control it
Thank u
my trich started during quaratine ☹️ i still feel hopeless idk what to do
Jesus Christ please help us all , please deliver us and set us all free in Jesus name that I pray amen 🙏🏾 ❤️
Ive been having this disorder for so long. Ive been trying to stop and i think ive made a bit of a progress on that. Now looking at my right eyelashes, i felt really insecure because anybody could really see how uneven my eyelashes are. I need tips on how to fix that😢 my right eyelashes are luke ziqzaq, theres short ones and long ones i thought i just need to wait for the short ones to grow but its been 2 months and theyre still the same…and i also pluck out my left eyelashes because of it and now my left eyelashes have a bald spot. Please help😢
I hate that I always do this when I'm stressed TF 😫 out!! Also feeling paranoid because they itch at certain times of the day, and putting my mascara on, in which it might be expired or died out, then instant my brows and lashes start itching sooooo bad that I don't think about the aftermath, then I look at them and hate myself for doing it. Also my family calls me sick cause i get so upset that I pulled way, way too much and I get thoughts of burning them. I'm so embarrassed that I don't have the balls to tell my psychiatrist about it. 😪
i have Trichotillomania BAD. i need therapy
I’m going to therapy today 😭 I’m so scared 🥺🥺
i have it too, ive been doing it sense i was 7
I’ve had this issue since I was a kid, and I always hate when I relapse. Thank you for your videos!!
Ok so I am 11 and I have been pulling out my eyelashes and eyebrows for 3 years now and it’s so hard to stop and I would go for a long time then I would have none the next day me and my mom try to stop me but it’s SO HARD and now ik I am not alone
I think I was about 8 or 9 yrs old when I started pulling out my eyelashes. I also would bite my fingernails and pull off the dead skin around my cuticles on my fingers 😖😥 I have found out my issues was because of a traumatic daily/nightly horrible childhood! I have major depression and generalized anxiety disorder and also ADHD and OCD. I am now 50 yrs old and I go through periods of not pulling also. It's easy to stop when I'm happy in a loving relationship. But now I'm older and I KNOW that REAL love between a man and woman does NOT exist, it's all about what kinda shit you wanna put up with from someone!!! I've been hurt every single time I was involved with a man so I'm DONE!!!!!! Lol I'm ok alone I am not really "alone" I have kids at home still but it's not the same as having a loving relationship with a man ... All the good ones are either taken or .. dead .. or lost lol 🤣👌 I just deal with bald eyelids now. I wear eyeliner if I have to go anywhere. Sad life .. I try to make myself stop when I notice I'm doing it .. I have actually had to sit on my hands then I made myself get up and go cook or do laundry .. do something with my hands so they stay busy or otherwise if I sit down and scroll thru fb or youtube I'm gonna pull out all my lashes ... Get busy doing something around the house or go drive ...
Omggggg I’ve been pulling since 3rd grade I will be 37 soon. Thank God for micro blading and false lashes oh yeah and my hair units lol
Yes girl! Love u Beeta!
You always have these ‘no bullshit’ informative videos. And I always feel like I can trust your opinion!💗
Tell-every-body-that-you-know to subscribe, I always say that part out loud with you🤣
Sending hugs,
Aleks
@xglitzandpolishx
AWEEE THANK YOU SO MCUH XOXOXO!
Thank you soo much ❤️❤️ xoxo
Hi beeta!
Hiiii ❤️
Hi I always pull my hair .. now I don't have eyelashes and eyebrows I couldn't control .. I tried and tried but I failed.. what to do?
I’m not her, but I suffer with that exact problem. The first step is to calmly accept that you pulled your hair out. It’s okay. There’s always tomorrow, and even if you never stop, who cares? You are beautiful/handsome either way. Next, try to get a stress toy to have when you feel the urge to pull. It really helps. If you can’t do that or it doesn’t work, maybe put on gloves at times when you usually pull. There are gloves that can touch screens if you usually pull when on your phone or tablet. The last thing I can think of is to not expect to stop immediately. You’ll have days where you backtrack, but accept that you have those days and try to gain information from them. I hope that this helped.
@@kaiyanachan9273 thanks dear.. hope you are out of it now
@@MungiShravani paint your eyebrows
@@anonymousperson9733 doing the same
@@MungiShravani same but im suffering from pulling eyelashes im still pulling them even right now that im typing i tried everything but i cannot stop
I have pulled all my top out... I've had to wear fake now day's. It's horrible
Dang I thought I was the only person to do this. I thought it was my anxiety causing this problem . Removing the hair Is satisfying until my eye lids are bald 😢
I had beautiful thick lashes before
THIS IS ME
Help my eyelids are bald I look so ugly 😢 I need to stop pulling them out forever
do lashes really grow back or not? 🥺
Yes! They grow back but it takes a long time! But using castor oil can make it grow back within weeks :-)
Nothing works
I never knew there was a name for this 🤯🤯🤯
I just pulled my lashes :( 😪
It seems like pulling eyelashes is more common than pulling hair
My eyes were bald now , i started it when i was 13 and now im 15 . Its because of quarantine 🥺🥺🥺
I can’t stop pulling ughhhh
I don’t want short nails
I actually find it easy to pull with short nails and I will wear fake long nails because that makes it harder for me to pull or feel around for hairs, maybe you could try it
I started at 8 now I’m 14 and my eyelashes were so long I used to love them but there growing back fast on one eye but slow on the other eye idk I just want them back to where they were at first 🫤🫤
I pull my lashes out and it feels satisfying once Im doing it but I feel super guilty afterwards