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Mansplaining Women: KTL's Muslim Minds Podcast
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- Опубліковано 2 чер 2024
- This episode brings a discussion on women, their role, status, and nature in the perspective of Islam, and exposes the West's indoctrination of women and the push toward careerism, while also shedding light on the role of man as a leader and protector.
KeysToLife is excited to announce the launch of our monthly podcast! We will be covering a range of lifestyle topics in Islam that are relevant to our day to day lives, from relationships and finances to health and spirituality. Our team of experts will provide insights, advice and practical tips to help you navigate the challenges and opportunities that come with being a Muslim in today's world.
Selam, As a young woman who grew up in Europe and is a elhamdulillah muslim, I must admit that your words are definitely true. However, from the women's side, the big ussue nowadays is also finding the right men. Men who know their role. Men who appreciate the emotionality and dependence of women and do not exploit it. Because there are more and more men today who do not possess these values, women also tend to have a kind of backup plan. They study and try to Build a career because, unfortunately, there are more and more cases where men do not fulfill their responsibilities. Yes, they would like to completely devote themselves to the home and lean on their partner, but many women have experienced financial hardship because the man either left them or did not care for them. Unfortunately, it is more common nowadays for men to value "career" women more and take better care of them because they know these women could live on their own. As strange as it sounds, I know many men who exploit the dependence of women and make many serious mistakes because they think the woman has nothing else. This is a big problem in today's time, which is why many women want to be independent of men. I believe, however, that if the right one comes along and he fulfills his responsibilities, there is nothing more beautiful for a woman than to be protected by her husband. I pray that men and women both know their duties and rights and fulfill them. Thank you very much for the interesting podcast 🙏🏼.
Very well said. I feel that most Islamic lectures nowadays don’t take this into consideration. I too wish to completely devote myself to my household once I’m married, but will my spouse properly fulfill his obligations towards me, without abusing or taking advantage of me?
Or what if Allah SWT has not written for me to get married until I am older in age? Do I sit at home and do nothing? If I don’t have a home because my parents have passed away, how do I take care of myself? These are situations that have happened to other sisters before, yet they aren’t addressed by scholars in this day and age.
I wish the world was ideal according to Islamic standards, but this isn’t the case unfortunately. And most Islamic lectures neglect to address this topic from a realistic perspective.
Salam, thank you for making this a conversation topic. I appreciate the details and know it’s coming from a good place. If you are looking for feedback, here are some notes form a sister.
The “women don’t like women” idea is very subjective opinion. This is different from culture to culture and person to person. I don’t believe it’s a gender specific behaviour. We have many loving sisterhood friendships, and honestly speaking I believe much stronger than men. We have circles of sisters who are there for each other and love and support each other without jealousy.
Also, how do you place Khadijah (as) in this conversation, she worked and she was one of the wealthiest women in Arabia? Did this make her less feminine?
And, imagine a world where all the women just stayed at home and didn’t work, who would be the female doctor that women need to go see? Who would be the compassionate teachers that we need in our schools? I believe, we still need to empower women to strive to contribute to society or there would be no services catered to them and their perspective will be lost and undermined.
My exact thoughts thank you👍
Very interesting discussion. thank you for your effort to allow us women to let go of the pressures we have really placed on ourselves
Something I disagree with was the point mentioned when Seikh Wehwah said that women usually take custody of the children not out of love for them but other reasons, and pushes the father away from the kids,then she regrets her decision because she wants to remarry.
That might be the case sometimes, but we shouldn’t forget that a lot of men in the east take the children away from their mother and don’t allow her to see them. There has to be a highlight on the importance of keeping both man and woman in a respectful and mature relationship as 2 adults, that have responsibilities after divorce at least for the children.
Salam, I found this conversation very interesting , however I would disagree on the point that women don't like women. I think in some cases this is accurate but that is dependent on certain women, there age their upbringing and culture. In general women also support and advocate for women. I think a generalist comment like that undermines women and makes us seem as we are all against one another and that truly isn't the case. We can be each others biggest critics but also biggest supporters.
Very interesting episode! As a young woman, I agree on so many points.
I noticed tho that "women hate women" only applies to "toxic" women. I rarely saw a healthy, emotionally intelligent woman despise another woman but I understand why you said that. Would love to see some content on how to find the one :)
Salam .
What a fitting title, Very interesting .
Thank you for doing this 🙏
Next it would be interesting to do an open dialogue with some respected married sisters and see what they think of this .
Thank you! We'll give it a thought
Very interesting indeed 👌
Thank you so much.. we need these topics discussed although some women may not like it.. but it's very important!
It would also be good if you could do a podcast guiding men, how to be true men!
Always enjoy listening..bless you for your efforts 🤲🏻
Thats a good idea, thank you for your suggestions. We'll forward it to sheikh moutaz and sheikh mohammad.
@@keystolife_ Excellent. Thank you!
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Loved the discussion and the title of the episode even more
Amazing podcast, thankyou. Would have been good to see a hijabi sister in the team to see her viewpoints. Also you mention that economic development was the driver behind the first wave of feminism. If I am trying to convince secular people about this, is there anywhere I can direct them to read about this? Jazakallah
Gems of wisdom. Shaykh when are you gonna find me a good Lebanese sister
There confused because the Canadian and American schools teaching them about different gender concepts, starting from young grades and upto 12. Living in canada for 10 years I had first hand seeing this taught to my younger siblings
Salaam any Videos about Hajj ?
well said. ma2jourin
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Thank you Sarah
😂 loved this podcast
Thank you! What did you love about it?
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you're bragging about men what he do if you die in batle field he will rewards many things but women they reward simple
I totally agree, you talked about how men see women, it would be good for men to listen to women as they are and how they think... so maybe it would be clear why women react in certain ways... about “women hate women” I don’t think it’s fair to generalize, but in general I really liked the podcast 👏🏻👏🏻🤍