ok of course it's not okay to do it without asking. but I have to say they look better after that and you're really weird about your eyebrows. 🤷🏻♀️🤣❤️
@@bett13no es que sea dramática, es una falta de respeto que vayas algún lugar y solicites un servicio y el asesor haga caso omiso a tu petición eso no es ser profesional a parte el uso brillo en sus ojos ese producto no se usa en el maquillaje porque puede generar irritación es un tipo de plástico prohibido para en uso en los ojos y vamos que tampoco desinfecto los productos que uso en ella
Yeah, honestly I think you should have walked out. No one is expecting you to sit through this man doing whatever he wants to your face against your wishes. That was really hard to watch and I hope you're ok.
As an esthetician, this scares me. Consent is a big thing and the fact that he ignored it and continued to do it when you still said no?? Tinting eyebrows too, I have clients who are allergic to the dyes/chemicals in them, him just doing it without doing a patch test or anything?? I’m glad you had your brother there with you!
Litterally, in the uk it is illegal to tint eyebrows without patch test 24 hours prior. It is disgusting, and then his attitude. Wow. I would have walked straight out of there.
Yes ma'am! I'm a cosmo and I was whispering "no no no no no nooooo...." the whole time. The wax, then tinting over it, the freaking _razor blade_ (?!?!?!) and all without consent....
I LOVE your brother for standing up for you, for backing you in your stance. That guy was absolutely a jerk. Im so sorry sweet girl..i hate how badly he did you, how he made you feel..i could tell you felt like flippin out. You did great, please ALWAYS stand up for yourself. ❤
Tinting someone's eyebrows without telling them is crazy. Poor Judy. She puts up with so much to give us amazing content. Don't think I could have stayed so calm and composed.
This is not good content. You don't sit there and allow anyone to disrespect you and not say anything. She said no many times yet she still sat there. That sends a bad message to girls watching. Once you say No and the person continues LEAVE!! It's not funny and it's not cute.
@@bellaapple2166 not this video in particular no. But her previous videos have been entertaining and I've fully enjoyed watching them. But this one made me very uncomfortable for the reasons you stated above. Maybe I should have worded it differently as it wasn't meant to come across that I thought this situation was amazing it's very far from it.
@@amberslaton2819 they seem to have such a great relationship. I really wish at least ONE of my brothers were like that. lol they are both horrible and mean people. idk how I got out ok honestly.
i saw how anxious you were and felt it through the screen. the nervous breathing, looking at everything the guy put in front of you, you were terribly scared. I'm so sorry. never let someone disrespect you like this again!
Dude she’s complaining but her main purpose of going to these salons is to BASH the hell out of them and create content making sure it’s horrific as possible for that monthly check . She should be thanking him for the thumbnail . I can’t believe she’s even mad thank him Judy and stop gaslighting is all !
@@moocowcow4744 I personally don’t want her crying after a makeover instead of joking and laughing at it like she usually does (or as she should be doing cause like you said she should be bashing them for their horrible service) And maybe you should go do yourself a favor and gain some basic common knowledge on why businesses like these need to be shut down. Cause instead of Judy it could have been anyone else. Honestly, kudos to you for defending these “MUAs” like some bootlicker under every comment. So stay mad sweetheart 💗
WOW! I would have refused to pay! You should post his name & company he works for... his career would be ruined for so many reasons! So sorry you had to go through this
For those who are saying it looks good and it’ll grow out etc. The problem here is consent. Imagine going to hair salon and asking for a certain hair color only to receive the opposite, or the hair stylist giving you bangs when you’ve simply asked for a trim. Please be kind as our appearance can deeply affect our self confidence ❤
@@smarttechaddict I agree, but dont blame it on the gender just because it happend to be a man this time. Just watch some of her other videos, everything doesnt have to be so " us/them" 😊
Obviously it’s about consent. People are just trying to help her feel better. It’s really not bad, please don’t cry. Obviously we all understand consent. We’re having compassion
People arguing that the eyebrows looked good anyway in the comments are completely missing the point that he did this WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT after you explicitly told him what you didn’t want him to do, and then when he was called out for it he blamed you. That’s some awful behavior.
I completely understand your point and agree but I also think people are just trying to make Judy feel a little better. To be clear tho, that man's actions were reprehensible and her feelings about the situation are 100% valid.
Exactly, it doesn't matter how it looks, it's about a service YOU DIDN'T WANT, especially since she easily could have had an allergy on the henna or whatever he was using
All I have to say is "thank god it looks good" this could've gone so south, my anxiety was having a field trip. Edit: made it to the part where she's crying. Totally valid, if she hates it, she hates it. I'm just glad she didn't end up with a wobbly mono brow. My "end of the world" is very far away from her "end of the world" and that's okay.
I'm sorry you went through this! The fact the man didn't listen to you when you told him "no" multiple times is disgusting. Also, it's so dangerous not to do a patch test before getting a tint treatment as you never know if you're allergic! In my beauty course at college, we were also taught to tint the brows FIRST, then remove hair after so he didn't do that correctly either, not to mention prepping the skin for it first as well. When you remove hair, the area is sensitive and the follicles no longer have the hair, so it's not a good idea to add tint over it! His attitude was appalling. Well done for standing up for yourself. You really went through it!
Ikkkrrr!! Personally I wouldn't let that slide, but instead I'd leave a really bad review on that mua and salon! I'd also end up getting my whole refund back! I felt really bad for her 😭🤧
I am so angry this happened to you Judy. Please do not ever tolerate being ignored and disrespected this way. Stand up and leave. This was absolutely NOT ok! Lots of hugs 💐💐
Yes!!! It’s so uncomfortable to be forced to confront somebody like that. But she did it very decisively without getting rude. It’s great to see, how much more confidence she gained in the last years.
I am still in shock that he tinted your eyebrows without asking. There are a lot of people (myself included) that are allergic to dyes including Henna.
Exactly! It's so insane not to ask about smth like that she could've had major allergic reaction, especially around sensitive eye area, this guys just slapped it on while her eyes were closed. crazy! :/
This was my thoughts too he could have literally killed her had she been someone such as yourself This is not ok in anyway shape or form I don’t think some realize the severity of this whole situation
@@Colourmecreepy yes different product different chemicals. God I hope she lets the salon know this happened to her He could cost the salon owner their entire life saving
Oh god what an awful thing to happen to you sweetheart. I am all tearful with you. I don’t cope with change in my life and something like an unrequested wax/tint would have tipped me into a severe panic attack right there in that dirty chair!! 😢but you will be ok. The change seemed slight and suited you. For $50 I would have expected perhaps a private side room/spa chair; a whole range of products to choose from; a gown to protect clothes; hair clipped back maybe; a full consultation of wishes on the look; soothing conversation throughout etc etc. It was disgraceful and overpriced. Please Judy; make a formal complaint about him. He made you cry hun. 😢 Sending love and light 🔮🕯️💫🌙🌸
I love how protective Rebal is to her. If he doesn’t know what’s going on exactly, but sees his sister is uncomfortable and timidly expressing it OH BIG BROTHER GONE SPEAK UP AND STAND ON IT PERIODT!! 😂❤
This is the worst feeling. Reminds me about when I had my hair up to my lower back and went for a trim. I explicitly told the hair dresser I only wanted a trim and she immediately started chopping my hair off. Never asked my until she paused to cut someone else’s hair and I looked in the mirror and my hair was up to my neck. Not only that but it was all choppy. I confronted her about it and she was like oh it’s cus your hair was damaged. People need to learn to respect other peoples boundaries! Especially when it’s a paying customer. I’m sorry this happened to you.
I literally had the same experience when I was like 9 years old. I never trusted anyone else with my hair other than my mother after that. Like. For anyone that’s traumatic. For a child? That left me scarred and afraid to go into salons. Doing something that goes against what the client wishes is deplorable, ESPECIALLY when in process they are repeatedly stating what they don’t want. I’m truly sorry you had that experience. How you felt was valid and understandable.
I had exactly the same thing when I was 15. My hair was down to my mid back and I was so proud of the length. The hairdresser took it up to my shoulders in the most unflattering way and I cried for hours. No layers, no styling, just a bowl bob on my thick af hair. And you KNOW I got bullied bad for it. It's been 15 years and I still do my own hair! I've gotten really good at it and it's way cheaper!
I would be horrified if that happened to me! I wanna grow out my hair even longer than it is now and I swear to birbs, if my hair was chopped off like that, I would be mortified. And so angry.
Judy, your body language and your tone of voice are what gets you walked all over by these makeup artists. They don’t think you’ll speak up or have boundaries to walk away
I’m exactly like you, Judy; whenever I say ‘no’ and set boundaries, I smile and even giggle - not because I’m not serious, but because I’m uncomfortable and afraid of other people’s reactions towards me. And unfortunately, a LOT of people - especially cishet men - don’t understand. It’s really frustrating.
I'm watching this saying "I would have walked out!!" Actually, I probably would have just sat there, not wanting him to feel bad, and then complained about it later. We need to change this behavior, ladies.
@@tinataylor4618 it’s not always safe to change that though. That’s how we learned to behave like this in the first place. Without a brother there, I suspect it would be okay still, but there’s no promise. Women and trans people have been taught that standing our ground is dangerous. Sometimes directly from experiences, sometimes from others. But it’s not okay to just tell people to stop behaving a certain way, because behaviour evolves for a reason.
@@moocowcow4744 I understand that is how she gets paid but she doesn’t have to stay in an uncomfortable situation like this. I am going to watch her videos anyway.
Not sure why you’re “sorry” this happened to her. Her entire channel is based on finding ‘bad’ makeup artists/places and then going there to get makeup done. There’s no way she would leave. This is exactly the type of content she wants to capture because it gets her lots of views= money
As a licensed cosmetologist, makeup artist and certified eyelash/brow tech. This was wrong on not only state board levels, but every possible level. You could’ve been allergic to whatever was in the brow tint or wax, this was so dangerous and honestly needs to be reported so they don’t do this to someone else, if they are even still open.
I’m so proud of you for standing up!! As someone that has social anxiety, I’ve put up with so much shit in beauty salons, but never said anything, always with a pleasant smile. And then I would be crying the minute I was out the door. So I’ve learned how to do everything by myself. I know is avoidance behavior, but it’s the best I can do right now.
Me too! I am growing out a mushroom haircut that I thanked the stylist for profusely then burst into tears on the street. I also end up with 100 add ons I didn’t want when I attempt to get my nails done that I remove as soon as I get home. I have become very good at grooming myself.
same here. and hey i bet we've both perfected our crafts far beyond the people who butchered our hair and whatnot. and now i get exactly what i ask for every time because i'm the client and the service provider lol
Same ! At first my family was mad at me for cutting my own hair rather than going to a stylist (because they thought I was just being a cheapskate😂). But I did a much better job and was able to add multiple layers instead of the one I’ve gotten in the past. They have so many great self hair cutting tutorials now, makes it much easier!!
It's not really patience lol, it's more anxiety of confrontation. Judy always struggled with that, but she's been trying to be more assertive. I'm in a middle, I don't like confrontation either, but if I need to do it I will😂
This reminds me one time I went to a “hair stylist” and told him I wanted auburn hair. I even showed him pictures… then he dyed my hair bright clown red. I couldn’t hold it in I started balling my eyes out. He got defensive and told me “this is what you wanted”… which made me cry more. He ended up putting a dark color over it but was very rough with my hair and it was overall a terrible experience. Some people should not be in the service industry
I know the feeling..and i would never go in my life to hair stylist..im so sick of them..if i say dont cut my hair still they cut 6cm or changing my hair color in different that i ask.Last one cut my long hair in short like man style and i was asking for a long bob.:/
I love how Rebal tried his best to speak up for you and made sure to keep himself tuned in to how you were feeling. What a great brother. I really appreciate seeing that especially since I have a very strained relationship with my own brother. That is a really beautiful thing.
I have my eyebrows waxed and tinted, but I have excema, so it doesn’t flare it up but leaves it a bit swelled and red and I need moisturiser! No way would I be able to have makeup put straight on 😳 I can’t actually believe he did this! Wonder if he did it to try charge extra!!
Right shes come so far with sticking up for herself especially when it comes to these MUA’s targeting her eyebrows. It’s a shame this guy did SO much without her consent first she should never feel like she needs to stay with these people for our entertainment
This man is going to get sued one day. You absolutely cannot do this. Judy was being more than patient with him, but one day hes going to meet someone who loses their shit.
That would be just, but it seems wherever Judy goes- or at least most places- there is NO concern for hygiene and I believe that the system wherever she is is probably very different than in the US, for instance (which is kind of litigation- obsessed)
I wished, but sadly in third world countries (I live in one lol) it’s not worth it to sue someone, you spend a shitton of money on something you’re not even going to win, and even if you win it, you get no compensation and most likely nothing will happen to him😢
Definitely gonna get sued one day. Maybe for make-up but with that attitude of his where consent doesn't matter it could be worse than makeup. I'm glad Judy had Rebal with her, but it disgusts me that this MUA is out there working with clients who apparently need a bodyguard at the salon.
You can tell she really loved her eyebrows. Imagine being confident about your appearance but someone basically demands you look different because they think it's better.
@@guidedbygodsgrace6265 it matches her hair, having paler eyebrows with dark hair makes it look like you dye your hair. Of course it's just my opinion, everyone else is welcome to their own also of course, and it doesn't negate the fact that he did it without permission too,which this case makes it wrong to do.
@@tabbi888 in my opinion, her hair looks like hair and i’ve never looked at her eyebrows and assumed her hair was dyed😂 didn’t need an essay or explanation it’s “just my opinion” lol
Rebal standing up for you after seeing how upset you were, and telling the artist off was honestly the sweetest thing. He knows you probably won't say anything because you are so sweet and don't want to upset anyone... but he knew you would appreciate him standing up for you. 💕 such a wholesome and genuine relationship you guys have... I hope you always stay this close ✌️💕
@@ashleywebster7137 I thought so too!! But I think it's more the fact that the artist wasn't listening to her, and kind of bullied her when she specifically asked them not to touch her brows 😭
Well maybe she has a different opinion . The fact is , it’s not what is important there . This man didn’t listen 3 times to what his client ask him . If you go to the hairdresser and ask to be blond but instead he is putting black color , would you be happy even if the result is not that bad for other people ? And what if she was allergic to the color ?
Omg Judy I felt your pain! Wtf! The lack of professionalism, of respect! Never seen you so mad btw, I don't blame you. Were you crying? Awwwwww 😢 I cry when frustrated too
So lucky Judy that you were not allergic to the dyes he used. WOW. What disgusting behaviour. In Australia, you pay one amount, anything extra they artists choose to use will be covered in the cost. Thank you Judy, for everything that you do. You are and always be appreciated ❤️
@@noodlepoodlegirl That would have been horrific if he did that to you. You would have to be so careful with who does your makeup professionally. I hope that you never have to experience that in the future. Hugs.
I hate it when they act like you're the rude one or you're being nitpicky when this man is waxing, shaving, and tinting your brows *without your permission* not to mention burning your eyes. You handle having stuff in your eyes way better than I ever could and he's acting like you're being a baby.
Absolutely unacceptable and unbelievable! He literally violated your right to choose as a person and paying customer! And doing things to your face without telling you or showing you first??? After all we’ve seen happen to you, this is one of the worst situations by far. You’re a Queen for your patience. Wow!
You're so adorable manasita 🥰 I will say tho- it's surprising the make up (def not using the term Artists lolol) umm People don't mind your brother standing so closely with a camera lol! Honestly would expect more hostility or discomfort over it, but they're all so chill! It's astonishing they do the work they do even with a bloke standing there with a cam corder 😂 (imagine we still used those omg lol 😆) I can't believe you're up to 1 million!!! Think you were just a tiny channel when I found you. And you've stayed true to your own style-- super refreshing 💛 Stay wonderful 😊 ✌🏽🕊️
Judy, please stop putting yourself at risk with this type of content, I promise to watch, comment and like every other video you want to make, you don't need to do this anymore 😢 I love you girl ❤
she voluntarily goes to degrade herself in these videos. This content shouldnt be popular. They take a toll on her and we can tell its stressful. She should come up with new content
The fact that he was using a literal bottle of perfume to CLEAN wtf. I can tell from the shape and color that it is Body Fantasies (I used to wear this all the time as a kid and had this exact same bottle on my vanity for years lol) I knew from the moment I saw it but I was doubting myself until Judy actually said something about it smelling like perfume haha.
She might as well did the makeup herself, for all that she went through. Honey, your a pretty girl. When I was in my early twenties, I used to read, "Glamour" beauty magazine. It gave good tips on makeup, health etc.. They had a two page tutorial, on how to do good eye make up. It had tips for all eye colors and eye shapes. After that, when I learned to apply it right, I got so many nice compliments on my makeup, for years. I found what worked for me. You know what you like, and you can achieve it. I hope you will have a much better future experience. Good luck. 😉
Watching you tear up at the end made my heart break💔 Please don't push yourself to stay in an uncomfortable situation just for us. I'm glad your brother was there with you. We love you and will always support you❤
Please dont let anyone put alcohol so near your eye again. My gosh girl, you need to be more careful. It is very possible you could go blind in one of these places. Be careful.
I'm so glad Rebal was with you because I can't imagine how this man would've been if you didn't have backup. I have never been more mad at a makeup "artist"!!! We love you, Judy, and you didn't deserve this!
My advice as someone who was and sometimes is ignored when i say No the same way, i use one simple technique: i don’t smile and i look them straight in the eyes (make sure you got attention) and say firm NO. Dont have to raise your voice even, just be assertive. Some people just don’t understand that it’s a No until you really nail it in. Those experiences you are having is a great practice on how to properly set boundaries. Please, please, everyone who struggles with saying No, just practice, it gets better, don’t worry about hurting someone’s feeling, they will move on like nothing happened and you will be left with trauma🙏
They DO understand that it's a no/that you don't want it they're not dumb. They actively CHOOSE to go against your wishes and to not respect your agency
Oh god, if he acts like this in a professional setting, and doesn't care about his customer's consent in any way, imagine what this guy is like in his personal life... I'm so sorry you had to encounter something like this. You always look beautiful and are a wonderful, sweet person Judy, and we are proud of you! ❤️ You deserve the very best make up experiences, not sleezy, rude treatment like this! (Big hugs from Germany xx)
In the UK you have to have a patch test at least 24 hours before getting a tint (hair or brows/lashes). If you're a regular at the salon it has to be re-done every year. This rule should be bought in for this guy's salon!
Same in the US if she had been allergic she could have gone into anaphylactic shock He could have killed her it’s that serious and I don’t think some realize the severity of this situation I hope she at least makes the salon owner aware of his action I know as retired Cosmetologist and once salon owner Id would want to know I would have Fired him on the spot and would not have made her pay me anything also I’d stayed in contact with her to make sure she didn’t have a reaction and paid any medical bills that occurred form it had that happen then I’d sued the guy I fired for that money. This situation is NEVER OK !
People need boundaries. Seriously THE AUDACITY. I have been to amazing MUAs and as soon as I express like “I don’t like highlighter” they’re like “of course, we won’t use any then. That is how professionalssssss behave
Yep! One of the first things we learn in school is to never do anything the client does not want. There have been a lot of times where the client doesn’t want something(like highlighter) but then I show them how it looks on other people and they change their mind and end up loving it. but I would NEVER do anything without the clients permission.
The worst part is the fact that even if she did agree to a tint, they should’ve done a test patch first 😣 crazy how they’re allowed to operate a business
Late to the comment section, but this is how the Benefit Brow Bar gave me chemical burns on my eyebrows before prom back in 2014. No patch test, and I have VERY fair and sensitive skin. Just slapped the tint on, it BURNED which the girl said was normal (for the record, no it’s not) and then by the time the evening rolled around, my entire eyebrow and eyelid area had ballooned, become bright red, and there were chemical burns and blisters all over my eyebrows. I covered it pretty well on the big day, but I never should have had to.
@@gothikvnt you could’ve fully claimed something with them regarding this - it’s the entire reason insurance exists and if they aren’t doing patch tests, especially whilst being such a big business, definitely should’ve complained/taken it further. Very sorry you had to experience that
I literally yelled out “NOOO STOP!” when he kept plucking your brows after telling him to stop multiple times and then started tinting them. It was so uncomfortable. As an MUA you should NEVER make your clients feel uncomfortable or ARGUE with them! What the hell is wrong with that man… 🤬
It makes me kinda want to cry as a professional makeup artist I can’t imagen a real customer asking for a makeup for a special day and getting a service like this one 💔
Your Lipstick Is Very Bright! Im So Sorry You Had Such A Bad Time Through All This! You Look Very Beautiful Girl! Wishing You The Best From California ❤❤❤😊❤❤❤❤❤
When I had my eyebrows done (Semi-permanent makeup), I just wanted to fill in my existing eyebrows. It was very clear and the girl still removed 90% of my eyebrows to lift them. When I asked her what she was doing she replied "I'm just removing a little redefining your eyebrows". I have never cried so much in my life. I had higher eyebrows, and it was far from natural as requested.. I removed the next day the healing crust so that the color does not remain so intense. I peeled the skin 3-4 times to renew it and was very lucky to be able to remove 98% of the tattoo on the right but only 50% of the other. After 4 years I still see the trace but it decreases from year to year. No one should give themselves the right to decide for their client.
Omg, I’m glad I read this AFTER I had my brows done today. I hadn’t had them done in years. I was nervous that they’d mess them up. Luckily, they didn’t. I’m so sorry you had that experience. What a nightmare!
I’ve watch Hundreds of your makeup experiences and I usually just laugh at how bad they do it but I was having genuine anxiety watching you go through that! He was so arrogant and disrespectful and I could see the genuine fear in you and he just wasn’t listening to you! I wanted to cry for you sweetheart 😢 I’m SO glad your brother was there to stand up for you. If there’s a next time please please just say stop and walk out♥️
As a victim of SA listening to him repeatedly ignore you saying no, make excuses, and roll past what you're saying was really triggering. I never would have thought a makeup video could be triggering.
I had never felt so anxious watching a makeup video in my entire life. You literally told him not to do something and he did it anyways...that man is insaaaanee
when you were crying honestly that broke my heart cause we all know how much you love your eyebrows and you want no one to touch em that was sooo disrespectful out of him..we love you joudy thank you soo much for your efforts
Judy I watch all your videos and I have to say this one I actually feel like crying for you. What this man did was just crazy. To think he can tint your eyebrows without even discussing it with you is just insane. You told him over and over you didn't want anything done to them. He put glitter or whatever that was all over your eyes without asking. This was hard to watch. You really do go through a lot for us. ❤
As someone who shaves their brows (for makeup purposes), I’d be TERRIFIED to see someone put eyebrows on me ESPECIALLY after you refused the brow tint/trim multiple times. For the sake of all of us pls don’t ever feel like you have to STAY. Get up and walk out please 💗
As someone with dense and dark brows, it still sucks like... Doing something permanent on someone without consent???? I know these places don't care about hygiene and sometimes also little about the customer's happiness but that guy I think is a bad human not just neglectful at his job... And the way he talked when she "confronted" him...
I was so sad during the whole video..I hated that guy and felt so bad for Judy. I hope she knows that we as viewers care about her and would feel so much better if she stood up for herself and walked out. Your feelings worth more than this Judy. ♥️
Judy! First of all, don’t you cry sweet girl. They really don’t look bad. SECOND-don’t you EVER sit through something you’re uncomfortable with just for the sake of a video for us. We love you and support you no matter what! I personally wanted to turn this off after he was so rude to you but I know you struggled to sit through that whole thing so I watched it for YOU! We love you. ❤
ANY beauty service should be filled with the professional consistently asking the client "Can I do this?" "Would you like this or that?" "Which would you like?" "Does that feel okay?" These questions not only help shape the personal service, but make the client feel in control and secure about the whole experience. Asking questions ensures a better experience, rave reviews afterwards! My stomach is in knots watching this. You sweet thing, please walk out if you ever feel this compromised again, we're behind you 100%!
I think this is the first time I truly see how far can this type of situation go and this is so not okay. You’re far more important, for your safety and health leave next time, this is something that should never happen to anyone. I hope everything turned out okay and you’re feeling better now 💛
Good gravy. The lack of care and disregard for what you consent to or not are terrifying. This is a violation of your body, space, and personhood. Being in a vulnerable position with someone like that gave me feelings reminiscent of trauma. I’m so sorry you went through that.
Aside from the brow horror story, girl don't never let them put that chunky ass glitter in your eyelids. There is a story of a woman online who literally lost her entire eyeball because of a piece of glitter. The pictures she shared are absolutely horrific
As a pro MUA, you have to be careful that the glitter product is tested for the eye area specifically or you can cut your corneas.❤️ Shine on safely Lindas!
I think the story you're talking about is about the woman who was cleaning up after her daughter's craft project and she got glitter from that project in her eye that cut her cornea and eventually she lost her eye, so it wasn't because of an actual makeup product.
Girl , I have been following you for a long time and I LOVE your videos. What this man did to you was not ok in any way, shape or form. Next time something like this happens, you should hit me up and I will defend you with all my might girl. Love you !!!
Judy, you don't need to put yourself through this much. Nobody would ever blame you for walking out as soon as they do something like this without your permission. You're absolutely amazing for what you do to post great content, but it's ok to have firm boundaries. Sending love from Arizona 💖
not him sassing you and saying “& I told you they’ll go lighter.” Like….. I would’nt have paid a DIME. People that think they can do anything to ur face without permission is beyond me! So disrespectful! Judy you go through so much for us! 😭
i don’t understand how people can blatantly ignore you saying no. we wouldn’t have blamed you if you walked out, i think most of us expected you to because we would’ve done the same 😭
Don’t go through with it next time, even if it’s for your fans. We love you enough to not want you to go through mistreatment like that :( I remember how I used to be quiet and scared to speak up for myself, but now it feels so relieving to know I can say no and feels so freeing to leave bad situations that aren’t for me. We have control!
Not me thinking the tissue was a wrapper omg 🙃 I'm blind
Hope you're okay😟
ok of course it's not okay to do it without asking. but I have to say they look better after that and you're really weird about your eyebrows. 🤷🏻♀️🤣❤️
Babe the brows were amazing!! Come to Greece we need you here!!!🙏🏻
@@bett13no es que sea dramática, es una falta de respeto que vayas algún lugar y solicites un servicio y el asesor haga caso omiso a tu petición eso no es ser profesional a parte el uso brillo en sus ojos ese producto no se usa en el maquillaje porque puede generar irritación es un tipo de plástico prohibido para en uso en los ojos y vamos que tampoco desinfecto los productos que uso en ella
Okay but can I tell you that those light eyebrow tint looked so amazing on you? 😍 Doing it without permission is really disrespectful though
I CACKLED when Rebal was like “strong and permanent are different things, no?” and the “MUA” was left speechless.
Honestly tho, I love how Rebal stands up for is sis, so wholesome
Loved how she held onto her reality "I want strong, yes, but I don't want permanent"
I don’t think he’s used to people speaking back to him 😂
You know, we would never be mad if you walked out of a situation like that.
Yeah, honestly I think you should have walked out. No one is expecting you to sit through this man doing whatever he wants to your face against your wishes. That was really hard to watch and I hope you're ok.
@@HJadventures I agree 100 percent
It’s for the vlog that’s she did not walk away
For real
I wish she had. Omg plz next time walk.
As an esthetician, this scares me. Consent is a big thing and the fact that he ignored it and continued to do it when you still said no?? Tinting eyebrows too, I have clients who are allergic to the dyes/chemicals in them, him just doing it without doing a patch test or anything?? I’m glad you had your brother there with you!
Litterally, in the uk it is illegal to tint eyebrows without patch test 24 hours prior. It is disgusting, and then his attitude. Wow. I would have walked straight out of there.
I'm glad I'm not the only esty watching gripping my license 🤣🤣💀
Yes ma'am! I'm a cosmo and I was whispering "no no no no no nooooo...." the whole time. The wax, then tinting over it, the freaking _razor blade_ (?!?!?!) and all without consent....
Yeah it sucks, it's the culture there.
Like what if she was pregnant or breastfeeding the chemicals in the tint can be harmful for baby he’s so rude
I LOVE your brother for standing up for you, for backing you in your stance. That guy was absolutely a jerk. Im so sorry sweet girl..i hate how badly he did you, how he made you feel..i could tell you felt like flippin out. You did great, please ALWAYS stand up for yourself. ❤
yeahh but he just watched the guy sneeze on the stick apparently...
@@shortyt6746it could of been on camera but he didn’t see it or think anything of it
Tinting someone's eyebrows without telling them is crazy. Poor Judy. She puts up with so much to give us amazing content. Don't think I could have stayed so calm and composed.
And to think that her original problem was with plucking and shaving her eyebrows. Now she has to worry about waxing and tinting too. 🤦🏽♀️
imagine if she was allergic to the tint? omg this is so wrong in so many different ways
This is dangerous content and far from amazing.
This is not good content. You don't sit there and allow anyone to disrespect you and not say anything. She said no many times yet she still sat there. That sends a bad message to girls watching. Once you say No and the person continues LEAVE!! It's not funny and it's not cute.
@@bellaapple2166 not this video in particular no. But her previous videos have been entertaining and I've fully enjoyed watching them. But this one made me very uncomfortable for the reasons you stated above. Maybe I should have worded it differently as it wasn't meant to come across that I thought this situation was amazing it's very far from it.
The way her brother takes up for her is awesome. And I hope my kids will be this close as they get older.
I came here to say something similar! Rebal is so great about sticking up for her and always has her back.
@@amberslaton2819 they seem to have such a great relationship. I really wish at least ONE of my brothers were like that. lol they are both horrible and mean people. idk how I got out ok honestly.
My brother and I used to fight like cats and dogs growing up. Esp I’m our teen years, now since we’re both adults , you wouldn’t ever think that.
💖👑👑💖SO HAPPY HER BROTHER WAS WITH HER HE WAS GREAT HOW HE STEPPED IN TO PROTECT HIS SISTER😊
Rebal D is a real one
The way he just ignored you saying NO was so uncomfortable. I do not trust that man with anything, let alone makeup.. I would’ve walked out..
He's that kind of man that cant't take "no" as an answer.
Same
Yep. When someone doesn't take no for an answer, I'm out. No matter what kind of situation I'm in.
Exactly! He made me uncomfortable through the screen. I would've just left after the first time he made me uncomfortable. Hope yall have a great day!❤
EXACTLY, lack of respect for her boundaries SMH
i saw how anxious you were and felt it through the screen. the nervous breathing, looking at everything the guy put in front of you, you were terribly scared. I'm so sorry. never let someone disrespect you like this again!
She looks so drained after all that. Judy, please just next time walk out if it’s bad. We do not want to see you suffer 😦❤
Yeah it makes me emotional 'cause I can feel how drained she is 🙁 If it hapoens again in the future then she reallh should walk out
Then she wouldn't have content lol
Dude she’s complaining but her main purpose of going to these salons is to BASH the hell out of them and create content making sure it’s horrific as possible for that monthly check . She should be thanking him for the thumbnail . I can’t believe she’s even mad thank him Judy and stop gaslighting is all !
@@moocowcow4744 I personally don’t want her crying after a makeover instead of joking and laughing at it like she usually does (or as she should be doing cause like you said she should be bashing them for their horrible service)
And maybe you should go do yourself a favor and gain some basic common knowledge on why businesses like these need to be shut down. Cause instead of Judy it could have been anyone else. Honestly, kudos to you for defending these “MUAs” like some bootlicker under every comment. So stay mad sweetheart 💗
Girl you know well enough that some people came just to see her suffer💀💀😭😭😂😂
The way Rebel pans away immediately when he notices that you’re crying is so sweet. 🥺 he’s such a great sibling
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He really is ❤️
You dont find sibling who have this kind of relationship very often
@@otakuanimeworld8228 yeah because your community unfortunately fetishizes it
@@boodledemic6430 ???? what are you talking about
Judy: I want my eyebrows to stay natural and unchanged.
MUA: Unnaturally shaped and semi-permanently tinted it is.
😂
This comment 👏😂
I have never seen such a bad make over OMG
It really looks bad 😢
She’s such an angel like honestly she’s the sweetest we don’t deserve her struggling for us jajaja
WOW! I would have refused to pay! You should post his name & company he works for... his career would be ruined for so many reasons!
So sorry you had to go through this
For those who are saying it looks good and it’ll grow out etc. The problem here is consent. Imagine going to hair salon and asking for a certain hair color only to receive the opposite, or the hair stylist giving you bangs when you’ve simply asked for a trim. Please be kind as our appearance can deeply affect our self confidence ❤
This is the point. If you say no it means no. Men have no right to walk over women like that.
@@smarttechaddict I agree, but dont blame it on the gender just because it happend to be a man this time. Just watch some of her other videos, everything doesnt have to be so " us/them" 😊
That tint goes away in max 5 days.. it s not permanent
Obviously it’s about consent. People are just trying to help her feel better. It’s really not bad, please don’t cry. Obviously we all understand consent. We’re having compassion
@@smarttechaddict *people have no right to treat other people Ike that
People arguing that the eyebrows looked good anyway in the comments are completely missing the point that he did this WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT after you explicitly told him what you didn’t want him to do, and then when he was called out for it he blamed you. That’s some awful behavior.
I completely understand your point and agree but I also think people are just trying to make Judy feel a little better. To be clear tho, that man's actions were reprehensible and her feelings about the situation are 100% valid.
Anddddd no patch test
@@fairlyvague82 actually, seeing more of those snarky replies now. 😕
Exactly, it doesn't matter how it looks, it's about a service YOU DIDN'T WANT, especially since she easily could have had an allergy on the henna or whatever he was using
All I have to say is "thank god it looks good" this could've gone so south, my anxiety was having a field trip.
Edit: made it to the part where she's crying. Totally valid, if she hates it, she hates it. I'm just glad she didn't end up with a wobbly mono brow. My "end of the world" is very far away from her "end of the world" and that's okay.
I'm sorry you went through this! The fact the man didn't listen to you when you told him "no" multiple times is disgusting. Also, it's so dangerous not to do a patch test before getting a tint treatment as you never know if you're allergic! In my beauty course at college, we were also taught to tint the brows FIRST, then remove hair after so he didn't do that correctly either, not to mention prepping the skin for it first as well. When you remove hair, the area is sensitive and the follicles no longer have the hair, so it's not a good idea to add tint over it! His attitude was appalling. Well done for standing up for yourself. You really went through it!
i’m severally allergic to hair dye / lash dye etc so i would of been in hospital if this happened to me
That’s what I was thinking too
Ikkkrrr!! Personally I wouldn't let that slide, but instead I'd leave a really bad review on that mua and salon! I'd also end up getting my whole refund back! I felt really bad for her 😭🤧
This man should work in a circus doing clown makeup! You're so sweet & I feel bad you went through this!
I am so angry this happened to you Judy.
Please do not ever tolerate being ignored and disrespected this way.
Stand up and leave.
This was absolutely NOT ok!
Lots of hugs 💐💐
I'm proud of you for standing your ground and being more assertive!
Yes!!! It’s so uncomfortable to be forced to confront somebody like that. But she did it very decisively without getting rude. It’s great to see, how much more confidence she gained in the last years.
@@Anele8888 Exactly!
Being assertive is very hard. She did a great job asserting her boundaries.
I am still in shock that he tinted your eyebrows without asking. There are a lot of people (myself included) that are allergic to dyes including Henna.
Exactly! It's so insane not to ask about smth like that she could've had major allergic reaction, especially around sensitive eye area, this guys just slapped it on while her eyes were closed. crazy! :/
I'm 3 minutes in the video, and I can't close my mouth. I'm like (:O)... I can't belive this is happening.
I will cry he tinted my eyebrows in
Yeah that was wild smh
Yeah 5:53 but she literally said “do whatever you want”
I'm happy you stand your ground, I need more of this Judy ;)
im HEAVILY allergic to dyes/tints on my face, it's so unbelievably dangerous to do that with zero discussion or patch testing 🥴
This was my thoughts too he could have literally killed her had she been someone such as yourself
This is not ok in anyway shape or form I don’t think some realize the severity of this whole situation
This! When I tint my brows.. I have to do a sensitivity test 48 hours before.. every time as sometimes I’m allergic. Very unprofessional & dangerous.
@@Colourmecreepy yes different product different chemicals. God I hope she lets the salon know this happened to her He could cost the salon owner their entire life saving
Yes. that is horrible. I was thinking the same, what if the client has allergies. I would have walked right then!
Oh god what an awful thing to happen to you sweetheart. I am all tearful with you. I don’t cope with change in my life and something like an unrequested wax/tint would have tipped me into a severe panic attack right there in that dirty chair!! 😢but you will be ok. The change seemed slight and suited you.
For $50 I would have expected perhaps a private side room/spa chair; a whole range of products to choose from; a gown to protect clothes; hair clipped back maybe; a full consultation of wishes on the look; soothing conversation throughout etc etc.
It was disgraceful and overpriced.
Please Judy; make a formal complaint about him. He made you cry hun. 😢
Sending love and light 🔮🕯️💫🌙🌸
This made me so sad. Please walk away if this ever happens to you again. This is not okay and I feel so bad that you had to go through this...
Judy looks so emotionally drained after dealing with that MUA. Stay strong, Judy! Get yourself out of these situations when you need to. We love you ❤
Not a MUa
The fact that he didn’t have a disposable chair cover would have made me make a whole Uturn!
I love how protective Rebal is to her. If he doesn’t know what’s going on exactly, but sees his sister is uncomfortable and timidly expressing it OH BIG BROTHER GONE SPEAK UP AND STAND ON IT PERIODT!! 😂❤
Rebal is younger brother Judy is older sister but anyway their relationship is just great
@@taesoyetakim5770 big brother mentality
Yes best big brother ever!!!
This is the worst feeling. Reminds me about when I had my hair up to my lower back and went for a trim. I explicitly told the hair dresser I only wanted a trim and she immediately started chopping my hair off. Never asked my until she paused to cut someone else’s hair and I looked in the mirror and my hair was up to my neck. Not only that but it was all choppy. I confronted her about it and she was like oh it’s cus your hair was damaged. People need to learn to respect other peoples boundaries! Especially when it’s a paying customer. I’m sorry this happened to you.
I literally had the same experience when I was like 9 years old. I never trusted anyone else with my hair other than my mother after that. Like. For anyone that’s traumatic. For a child? That left me scarred and afraid to go into salons. Doing something that goes against what the client wishes is deplorable, ESPECIALLY when in process they are repeatedly stating what they don’t want. I’m truly sorry you had that experience. How you felt was valid and understandable.
probably sold the hair. same thing happened to a friend of mine
I had exactly the same thing when I was 15. My hair was down to my mid back and I was so proud of the length. The hairdresser took it up to my shoulders in the most unflattering way and I cried for hours. No layers, no styling, just a bowl bob on my thick af hair. And you KNOW I got bullied bad for it.
It's been 15 years and I still do my own hair! I've gotten really good at it and it's way cheaper!
I would be horrified if that happened to me! I wanna grow out my hair even longer than it is now and I swear to birbs, if my hair was chopped off like that, I would be mortified. And so angry.
What
I love the way your brother sticks up and speaks for you. He’s your back bone
I was about to comment the same thing, he immediately spoke up when he realized there was a problem and it wasn’t what she wanted
Judy, your body language and your tone of voice are what gets you walked all over by these makeup artists. They don’t think you’ll speak up or have boundaries to walk away
I’m exactly like you, Judy; whenever I say ‘no’ and set boundaries, I smile and even giggle - not because I’m not serious, but because I’m uncomfortable and afraid of other people’s reactions towards me. And unfortunately, a LOT of people - especially cishet men - don’t understand. It’s really frustrating.
I'm watching this saying "I would have walked out!!" Actually, I probably would have just sat there, not wanting him to feel bad, and then complained about it later. We need to change this behavior, ladies.
Yes same!
@@tinataylor4618 it’s not always safe to change that though. That’s how we learned to behave like this in the first place.
Without a brother there, I suspect it would be okay still, but there’s no promise.
Women and trans people have been taught that standing our ground is dangerous. Sometimes directly from experiences, sometimes from others. But it’s not okay to just tell people to stop behaving a certain way, because behaviour evolves for a reason.
@@tinataylor4618 agreed 👌🏾
@@terryenby2304 Ironically, real women have been taught that standing their ground against transwomen is wrong.
1 minute 26 seconds in and I’m shocked. I would have got up and walked out. This is awful behaviour for a service you’re paying for!
I literally paused at the same time... I'm so angry on your behalf. To not even ask about waxing, and then going ahead and tinting your eyebrows...
Never stay in a situation like that for us to see a video. No girl you are more important! I’m so sorry this happened.
How you think she gets paid because of situations like this
@@moocowcow4744 I understand that is how she gets paid but she doesn’t have to stay in an uncomfortable situation like this. I am going to watch her videos anyway.
@@moocowcow4744 Bad take
I agree with this.
Not sure why you’re “sorry” this happened to her. Her entire channel is based on finding ‘bad’ makeup artists/places and then going there to get makeup done. There’s no way she would leave. This is exactly the type of content she wants to capture because it gets her lots of views= money
As a licensed cosmetologist, makeup artist and certified eyelash/brow tech. This was wrong on not only state board levels, but every possible level. You could’ve been allergic to whatever was in the brow tint or wax, this was so dangerous and honestly needs to be reported so they don’t do this to someone else, if they are even still open.
I literally don’t even know how to feel with this whole situation you went through… like this is a whole new emotion that I don’t even have a word for
To be honest, i got a bit mad she didn't stick up for herself more.. it's because i used to be just like her too. I learned it the hard way.
Same
She was violated and disrespected. Those are the terms I would use. Very uncomfy feeling 😬
OP summed it up completely. I'm not sure whether it’s funny or appalling
My goodness...it’s a wonder poor Judy doesn't end up with a skin infection
I’m so proud of you for standing up!! As someone that has social anxiety, I’ve put up with so much shit in beauty salons, but never said anything, always with a pleasant smile. And then I would be crying the minute I was out the door. So I’ve learned how to do everything by myself. I know is avoidance behavior, but it’s the best I can do right now.
Me too! I am growing out a mushroom haircut that I thanked the stylist for profusely then burst into tears on the street. I also end up with 100 add ons I didn’t want when I attempt to get my nails done that I remove as soon as I get home. I have become very good at grooming myself.
same here. and hey i bet we've both perfected our crafts far beyond the people who butchered our hair and whatnot. and now i get exactly what i ask for every time because i'm the client and the service provider lol
Same i feel u :'(
Same ! At first my family was mad at me for cutting my own hair rather than going to a stylist (because they thought I was just being a cheapskate😂). But I did a much better job and was able to add multiple layers instead of the one I’ve gotten in the past. They have so many great self hair cutting tutorials now, makes it much easier!!
Exactly why I do it myself too
Judy tell me girl, WHERE do you get your patience with those kind of people???? I would have freaked out omg.. the AUDACITY
It's not really patience lol, it's more anxiety of confrontation. Judy always struggled with that, but she's been trying to be more assertive. I'm in a middle, I don't like confrontation either, but if I need to do it I will😂
Fear of confrontation. I'd go to war for someone else but defending myself is much hard.
I agree totally- discomfort with confrontation. She did a phenomenal job, though.
Me too. I don’t like confrontation because I don’t like to cause arguments. However, even non-confrontational people have their limits too.
Eyebrow tint comes off. Like it's not a big deal
He did that so you can pay for it. That chair tells me everything I need to know 😂
This reminds me one time I went to a “hair stylist” and told him I wanted auburn hair. I even showed him pictures… then he dyed my hair bright clown red. I couldn’t hold it in I started balling my eyes out. He got defensive and told me “this is what you wanted”… which made me cry more. He ended up putting a dark color over it but was very rough with my hair and it was overall a terrible experience. Some people should not be in the service industry
Now I can appreciate when stylists I go to are honest when they cannot do a color I am asking for. Sorry you went through that.
I'm sorry you went through that 🤗🥺
I’m sorry that happened to you, what color is your hair now? :o
I know the feeling..and i would never go in my life to hair stylist..im so sick of them..if i say dont cut my hair still they cut 6cm or changing my hair color in different that i ask.Last one cut my long hair in short like man style and i was asking for a long bob.:/
My old white haired relative wanted Auburn. She bought the dye, I put it on I was only a kid. She looked like a very old Ronald McDonald 😮😂
I love how Rebal tried his best to speak up for you and made sure to keep himself tuned in to how you were feeling. What a great brother. I really appreciate seeing that especially since I have a very strained relationship with my own brother. That is a really beautiful thing.
I am in shock. The audacity of that MUA. What if you had been allergic to the wax or tint? He could've really hurt you. I am so glad you are ok, Judy!
They should always do a patch test too
I have my eyebrows waxed and tinted, but I have excema, so it doesn’t flare it up but leaves it a bit swelled and red and I need moisturiser! No way would I be able to have makeup put straight on 😳 I can’t actually believe he did this! Wonder if he did it to try charge extra!!
I loveee how supportive is Rebal 😍love him
can you imagine what this guy would be like in a relationship if this is his attitude with make up?
With a stranger...
Frightening.
With your own close friends too
Yeah. No means no isn't something he seems to understand 😔
That's what i was thinking...where else can't he understand a no
On behalf of everyone, we APPLAUD you for standing your ground and standing up for yourself. If you ever need to get up and leave, DO IT 💕
Right shes come so far with sticking up for herself especially when it comes to these MUA’s targeting her eyebrows. It’s a shame this guy did SO much without her consent first she should never feel like she needs to stay with these people for our entertainment
This man is going to get sued one day. You absolutely cannot do this. Judy was being more than patient with him, but one day hes going to meet someone who loses their shit.
Seriously! And like what if someone has an allergic reaction or something or works in a place where you can not have any make up
One day he’ll do it to someone who’s allergic to it!
That would be just, but it seems wherever Judy goes- or at least most places- there is NO concern for hygiene and I believe that the system wherever she is is probably very different than in the US, for instance (which is kind of litigation- obsessed)
I wished, but sadly in third world countries (I live in one lol) it’s not worth it to sue someone, you spend a shitton of money on something you’re not even going to win, and even if you win it, you get no compensation and most likely nothing will happen to him😢
Definitely gonna get sued one day. Maybe for make-up but with that attitude of his where consent doesn't matter it could be worse than makeup. I'm glad Judy had Rebal with her, but it disgusts me that this MUA is out there working with clients who apparently need a bodyguard at the salon.
after all , how can you be so polite and so calm?? girl this is super power cause I can't...
This girl needs an Oscar for being able to maintain calm in situations where I would have COMPLETELY lost it
Oml yesss
You can tell she really loved her eyebrows. Imagine being confident about your appearance but someone basically demands you look different because they think it's better.
Sorry to say it but it does look better tinted, it fits her hair colour better, but he never should have done it without consent. That was wrong.
@@tabbi888 in your opinion it looks better tinted
@@guidedbygodsgrace6265 it matches her hair, having paler eyebrows with dark hair makes it look like you dye your hair. Of course it's just my opinion, everyone else is welcome to their own also of course, and it doesn't negate the fact that he did it without permission too,which this case makes it wrong to do.
@@tabbi888 in my opinion, her hair looks like hair and i’ve never looked at her eyebrows and assumed her hair was dyed😂 didn’t need an essay or explanation it’s “just my opinion” lol
@@guidedbygodsgrace6265 touchy much?
Rebal standing up for you after seeing how upset you were, and telling the artist off was honestly the sweetest thing. He knows you probably won't say anything because you are so sweet and don't want to upset anyone... but he knew you would appreciate him standing up for you. 💕 such a wholesome and genuine relationship you guys have... I hope you always stay this close ✌️💕
Girl I don’t think the eyebrows look bad tho
@@ashleywebster7137 not the point
@@ashleywebster7137 I thought so too!! But I think it's more the fact that the artist wasn't listening to her, and kind of bullied her when she specifically asked them not to touch her brows 😭
Well maybe she has a different opinion . The fact is , it’s not what is important there . This man didn’t listen 3 times to what his client ask him . If you go to the hairdresser and ask to be blond but instead he is putting black color , would you be happy even if the result is not that bad for other people ? And what if she was allergic to the color ?
@@ashleywebster7137doesn’t matter. He did it without consent.
Omg Judy I felt your pain! Wtf! The lack of professionalism, of respect! Never seen you so mad btw, I don't blame you.
Were you crying? Awwwwww 😢 I cry when frustrated too
So lucky Judy that you were not allergic to the dyes he used. WOW. What disgusting behaviour. In Australia, you pay one amount, anything extra they artists choose to use will be covered in the cost. Thank you Judy, for everything that you do. You are and always be appreciated ❤️
I'm allergic to dark hair dye and tint. This would have been a problem for me...I'm so mad at him!
@@noodlepoodlegirl That would have been horrific if he did that to you. You would have to be so careful with who does your makeup professionally. I hope that you never have to experience that in the future. Hugs.
I hate it when they act like you're the rude one or you're being nitpicky when this man is waxing, shaving, and tinting your brows *without your permission* not to mention burning your eyes.
You handle having stuff in your eyes way better than I ever could and he's acting like you're being a baby.
Absolutely unacceptable and unbelievable! He literally violated your right to choose as a person and paying customer! And doing things to your face without telling you or showing you first??? After all we’ve seen happen to you, this is one of the worst situations by far. You’re a Queen for your patience. Wow!
yeah, i agree... it really is the worst. She could have been allergic to the tint
@@lalayastill610 yet she stayed for the make up
You're so adorable manasita 🥰
I will say tho- it's surprising the make up (def not using the term Artists lolol) umm People don't mind your brother standing so closely with a camera lol! Honestly would expect more hostility or discomfort over it, but they're all so chill! It's astonishing they do the work they do even with a bloke standing there with a cam corder 😂 (imagine we still used those omg lol 😆)
I can't believe you're up to 1 million!!! Think you were just a tiny channel when I found you. And you've stayed true to your own style-- super refreshing 💛
Stay wonderful 😊 ✌🏽🕊️
I love that you and Rebal made sure to be firm and not give into this clown. That guy is a piece of work 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Judy, please stop putting yourself at risk with this type of content, I promise to watch, comment and like every other video you want to make, you don't need to do this anymore 😢 I love you girl ❤
Exactly!
she voluntarily goes to degrade herself in these videos. This content shouldnt be popular. They take a toll on her and we can tell its stressful. She should come up with new content
This video got over a million views. She makes bank out of this content and can easily fix the problems created.
Yeah, ran up on these vids tonight. She'll quit when she gets a serious infection of some sort.
These are the best videos. Shut up 🙄
The fact that he was using a literal bottle of perfume to CLEAN wtf. I can tell from the shape and color that it is Body Fantasies (I used to wear this all the time as a kid and had this exact same bottle on my vanity for years lol)
I knew from the moment I saw it but I was doubting myself until Judy actually said something about it smelling like perfume haha.
Not the body fantasies perfume ! Omg 😂😩 I remember this
I was going down the comments to see if people saw that 🫢🫢 girl that’s a perfume bottle 😮
She might as well did the makeup herself, for all that she went through. Honey, your a pretty girl. When I was in my early twenties, I used to read, "Glamour" beauty magazine. It gave good tips on makeup, health etc.. They had a two page tutorial, on how to do good eye make up. It had tips for all eye colors and eye shapes. After that, when I learned to apply it right, I got so many nice compliments on my makeup, for years. I found what worked for me. You know what you like, and you can achieve it. I hope you will have a much better future experience. Good luck. 😉
Watching you tear up at the end made my heart break💔 Please don't push yourself to stay in an uncomfortable situation just for us. I'm glad your brother was there with you. We love you and will always support you❤
Oof. His tone had me reaching through the screen. I’m sorry you experienced this, I’m glad to see you stood your ground 💜
Seriously girl, you do not have to put yourself through that for content. We would not hate you for walking out on people like that. Hope your ok 😘
Not sure .. why you sat through it - post eye brows 🤷♀️
Please dont let anyone put alcohol so near your eye again. My gosh girl, you need to be more careful. It is very possible you could go blind in one of these places. Be careful.
you true, imagine her mother botox treatment if this is doter with braces
I'm so glad Rebal was with you because I can't imagine how this man would've been if you didn't have backup. I have never been more mad at a makeup "artist"!!! We love you, Judy, and you didn't deserve this!
I love to hear your brother backing you up. You guys seem so sweet. This MUA should have been so apologetic, he didn’t care at all 😡
My advice as someone who was and sometimes is ignored when i say No the same way, i use one simple technique: i don’t smile and i look them straight in the eyes (make sure you got attention) and say firm NO. Dont have to raise your voice even, just be assertive. Some people just don’t understand that it’s a No until you really nail it in. Those experiences you are having is a great practice on how to properly set boundaries. Please, please, everyone who struggles with saying No, just practice, it gets better, don’t worry about hurting someone’s feeling, they will move on like nothing happened and you will be left with trauma🙏
That’s very true
You are so right. That is great advice!
As a people pleaser and borderline doormat, I really appreciate this advice, thank you.
They DO understand that it's a no/that you don't want it they're not dumb. They actively CHOOSE to go against your wishes and to not respect your agency
Brothers are the best I love that he also spoke up for you❤
Oh god, if he acts like this in a professional setting, and doesn't care about his customer's consent in any way, imagine what this guy is like in his personal life... I'm so sorry you had to encounter something like this. You always look beautiful and are a wonderful, sweet person Judy, and we are proud of you! ❤️ You deserve the very best make up experiences, not sleezy, rude treatment like this! (Big hugs from Germany xx)
In the UK you have to have a patch test at least 24 hours before getting a tint (hair or brows/lashes). If you're a regular at the salon it has to be re-done every year. This rule should be bought in for this guy's salon!
Same in the US if she had been allergic she could have gone into anaphylactic shock He could have killed her it’s that serious and I don’t think some realize the severity of this situation I hope she at least makes the salon owner aware of his action I know as retired Cosmetologist and once salon owner Id would want to know I would have Fired him on the spot and would not have made her pay me anything also I’d stayed in contact with her to make sure she didn’t have a reaction and paid any medical bills that occurred form it had that happen then I’d sued the guy I fired for that money. This situation is NEVER OK !
I think I remember Judy saying where she is MUAs don't even need a license.
People need boundaries. Seriously THE AUDACITY.
I have been to amazing MUAs and as soon as I express like “I don’t like highlighter” they’re like “of course, we won’t use any then. That is how professionalssssss behave
Yep! One of the first things we learn in school is to never do anything the client does not want. There have been a lot of times where the client doesn’t want something(like highlighter) but then I show them how it looks on other people and they change their mind and end up loving it. but I would NEVER do anything without the clients permission.
The pain in her voice 😢
The worst part is the fact that even if she did agree to a tint, they should’ve done a test patch first 😣 crazy how they’re allowed to operate a business
Late to the comment section, but this is how the Benefit Brow Bar gave me chemical burns on my eyebrows before prom back in 2014. No patch test, and I have VERY fair and sensitive skin. Just slapped the tint on, it BURNED which the girl said was normal (for the record, no it’s not) and then by the time the evening rolled around, my entire eyebrow and eyelid area had ballooned, become bright red, and there were chemical burns and blisters all over my eyebrows. I covered it pretty well on the big day, but I never should have had to.
@@gothikvnt you could’ve fully claimed something with them regarding this - it’s the entire reason insurance exists and if they aren’t doing patch tests, especially whilst being such a big business, definitely should’ve complained/taken it further.
Very sorry you had to experience that
I literally yelled out “NOOO STOP!” when he kept plucking your brows after telling him to stop multiple times and then started tinting them. It was so uncomfortable. As an MUA you should NEVER make your clients feel uncomfortable or ARGUE with them! What the hell is wrong with that man… 🤬
He told her that if he didn't do it SHE WOULD LOOK UGLY. I'm so mad...
The MUA is clearly a narcissist
@@noodlepoodlegirl MUA should never use the word 'ugly'. Way to make a woman feel unattractive.
It makes me kinda want to cry as a professional makeup artist I can’t imagen a real customer asking for a makeup for a special day and getting a service like this one 💔
Your Lipstick Is Very Bright! Im So Sorry You Had Such A Bad Time Through All This! You Look Very Beautiful Girl! Wishing You The Best From California ❤❤❤😊❤❤❤❤❤
When I had my eyebrows done (Semi-permanent makeup), I just wanted to fill in my existing eyebrows. It was very clear and the girl still removed 90% of my eyebrows to lift them. When I asked her what she was doing she replied "I'm just removing a little redefining your eyebrows". I have never cried so much in my life. I had higher eyebrows, and it was far from natural as requested.. I removed the next day the healing crust so that the color does not remain so intense. I peeled the skin 3-4 times to renew it and was very lucky to be able to remove 98% of the tattoo on the right but only 50% of the other. After 4 years I still see the trace but it decreases from year to year. No one should give themselves the right to decide for their client.
Omg, I’m glad I read this AFTER I had my brows done today. I hadn’t had them done in years. I was nervous that they’d mess them up. Luckily, they didn’t. I’m so sorry you had that experience. What a nightmare!
Do NOT ever feel bad to walk away from a situation like this Judy 🥺
I’ve watch Hundreds of your makeup experiences and I usually just laugh at how bad they do it but I was having genuine anxiety watching you go through that! He was so arrogant and disrespectful and I could see the genuine fear in you and he just wasn’t listening to you! I wanted to cry for you sweetheart 😢 I’m SO glad your brother was there to stand up for you. If there’s a next time please please just say stop and walk out♥️
My favorite part of every one of her videos is when she stands confidently outside in natural lighting, showing off her makeup in every angle 😂
As a victim of SA listening to him repeatedly ignore you saying no, make excuses, and roll past what you're saying was really triggering. I never would have thought a makeup video could be triggering.
Sending you good vibes and I hope you feel alright and safe now.
Crazy…I felt the same…it was uncomfortable to watch
I agree. I’m a SA victim, too. My ptsd is too bad to have been as nice as Judy was.
@@MissyRichmond I’m sorry it will get better…God bless you
Same. This is not okay, people really need to do better (or not work at all like wtf…)
the fact that you're CLEARLY pissed (blushing face) but you still smile through the pain. love you judy!
I had never felt so anxious watching a makeup video in my entire life. You literally told him not to do something and he did it anyways...that man is insaaaanee
when you were crying honestly that broke my heart cause we all know how much you love your eyebrows and you want no one to touch em that was sooo disrespectful out of him..we love you joudy thank you soo much for your efforts
Let's give Judi a huge hug for putting up with things for literally our enjoyment. We stan by you and would walk out right with you!!
Judy I watch all your videos and I have to say this one I actually feel like crying for you. What this man did was just crazy. To think he can tint your eyebrows without even discussing it with you is just insane. You told him over and over you didn't want anything done to them. He put glitter or whatever that was all over your eyes without asking. This was hard to watch. You really do go through a lot for us. ❤
The face you had walking out to show final results had me 😂
You should start talking back to them when they’re doing crazy things to your face girl 😊
As someone who shaves their brows (for makeup purposes), I’d be TERRIFIED to see someone put eyebrows on me ESPECIALLY after you refused the brow tint/trim multiple times. For the sake of all of us pls don’t ever feel like you have to STAY. Get up and walk out please 💗
As someone with dense and dark brows, it still sucks like... Doing something permanent on someone without consent???? I know these places don't care about hygiene and sometimes also little about the customer's happiness but that guy I think is a bad human not just neglectful at his job...
And the way he talked when she "confronted" him...
I was so sad during the whole video..I hated that guy and felt so bad for Judy. I hope she knows that we as viewers care about her and would feel so much better if she stood up for herself and walked out. Your feelings worth more than this Judy. ♥️
Judy! First of all, don’t you cry sweet girl. They really don’t look bad. SECOND-don’t you EVER sit through something you’re uncomfortable with just for the sake of a video for us. We love you and support you no matter what! I personally wanted to turn this off after he was so rude to you but I know you struggled to sit through that whole thing so I watched it for YOU! We love you. ❤
This.
Judy, you're so pretty and Rebal is so darn handsome 💗
ANY beauty service should be filled with the professional consistently asking the client "Can I do this?" "Would you like this or that?" "Which would you like?" "Does that feel okay?" These questions not only help shape the personal service, but make the client feel in control and secure about the whole experience. Asking questions ensures a better experience, rave reviews afterwards! My stomach is in knots watching this. You sweet thing, please walk out if you ever feel this compromised again, we're behind you 100%!
I think this is the first time I truly see how far can this type of situation go and this is so not okay. You’re far more important, for your safety and health leave next time, this is something that should never happen to anyone. I hope everything turned out okay and you’re feeling better now 💛
Good gravy. The lack of care and disregard for what you consent to or not are terrifying. This is a violation of your body, space, and personhood. Being in a vulnerable position with someone like that gave me feelings reminiscent of trauma. I’m so sorry you went through that.
As an esthetician and someone who is allergic to dyes and tints I’m so upset by this employee, this isn’t a makeup artist.
Aside from the brow horror story, girl don't never let them put that chunky ass glitter in your eyelids. There is a story of a woman online who literally lost her entire eyeball because of a piece of glitter. The pictures she shared are absolutely horrific
Wtf I need that story now
WHATTTTTTTTTTTT now i'm scared
Seriously?!!!
As a pro MUA, you have to be careful that the glitter product is tested for the eye area specifically or you can cut your corneas.❤️ Shine on safely Lindas!
I think the story you're talking about is about the woman who was cleaning up after her daughter's craft project and she got glitter from that project in her eye that cut her cornea and eventually she lost her eye, so it wasn't because of an actual makeup product.
I don't think i've ever seen Judy so close to crying, or i can't remember when it was this bad. i would've left though, picked up my bags and left.
Girl , I have been following you for a long time and I LOVE your videos. What this man did to you was not ok in any way, shape or form. Next time something like this happens, you should hit me up and I will defend you with all my might girl. Love you !!!
Judy, you don't need to put yourself through this much. Nobody would ever blame you for walking out as soon as they do something like this without your permission. You're absolutely amazing for what you do to post great content, but it's ok to have firm boundaries. Sending love from Arizona 💖
not him sassing you and saying “& I told you they’ll go lighter.” Like….. I would’nt have paid a DIME. People that think they can do anything to ur face without permission is beyond me! So disrespectful! Judy you go through so much for us! 😭
i don’t understand how people can blatantly ignore you saying no. we wouldn’t have blamed you if you walked out, i think most of us expected you to because we would’ve done the same 😭
You are SO beautiful. I am sorry for the disappointment you faced with this.
Don’t go through with it next time, even if it’s for your fans. We love you enough to not want you to go through mistreatment like that :( I remember how I used to be quiet and scared to speak up for myself, but now it feels so relieving to know I can say no and feels so freeing to leave bad situations that aren’t for me. We have control!