Why we live in a van?? (Our honest story)

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  • A question we have had asked numerous times in our comment section is 'Why do you live in a van?' This week we answer and give you an honest account of our story.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 765

  • @kyarichards2894
    @kyarichards2894 Рік тому +98

    Great to see a couple sticking together. This is what real love and commitment means. Good for you.

    • @Lanahunni.b
      @Lanahunni.b Рік тому +1

      Check us out! we just started the van life journey

    • @markoconnor4380
      @markoconnor4380 Рік тому

      So true...shame other people don't stick it out, it would make them stronger in the long run.

    • @freddie_mvp
      @freddie_mvp Рік тому +1

      Well said!

  • @souieappe
    @souieappe Рік тому +24

    I was a trucker in the USA, lived in the truck sleeper, I got so comfortable with that when I did get home I'd pull in the driveway and go to bed in the truck!

  • @Vandemonium4u
    @Vandemonium4u 10 місяців тому +11

    Thank you so much!
    My wife and have reached tipping point. We realistically cannot afford to keep up the mortgage anymore l, plus we don’t really like where we live. Lack of money and working ourselves to the bone has also led to cracks in our relationship.
    Watching Ame, you and others has pushed us to decide to sell up. Convert a van, see some of the world. Also try and find a plot of rural land as a base for off grid living.
    Wish us luck! Might get to shake your hand on the road one day 👍🏼

  • @nicolaholland1
    @nicolaholland1 Рік тому +56

    The thing I like most about this video is how your marriage is flourishing despite so many challenges, it is so beautiful.

  • @Shereejennifer
    @Shereejennifer Рік тому +130

    I am so sorry. I lost my mom in 2019 and I miss her so much. Life just isn't the same without our moms. Ame is blessed to have you both. ❤love from Texas

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +17

      Thank you Sheree. It really is not the same. I am sorry that you have felt that immense loss too. Much love to you in Texas ❤️

    • @guillaume6736
      @guillaume6736 Рік тому +6

      Also lost my mom in 2019, indeed live is not at all the same again….
      Thank you for your honest story, is inspiring…

    • @roschamac
      @roschamac Рік тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @praguhbis
      @praguhbis Рік тому +3

      I lost my mother in 2020 during the pandemic, she caught the virus in her dialysis center. She was not doing well even before. Her death is eating me from inside. It has been unbearable.

    • @lynns8057
      @lynns8057 Рік тому +3

      I lost my mom 18 months ago, and I lost my best friend. I'm lonely and lost.

  • @tylerboyce6502
    @tylerboyce6502 Рік тому +103

    When I watched Ame's video building out her van, I knew she was the real deal. You raised an amazing human being.

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +12

      Thank you Tyler 😀

    • @susanmccluskey2695
      @susanmccluskey2695 Рік тому +4

      I also felt that way grandmother of sex that follow your sweet Ame 💋☝️🌿🙏👣👣👣🌴 and now you🌴 Much aloha from 🌺🌴👣Kauai✌️💐 PS I have a converted van name sweet Sage it’s Leica I dream of Jeannie bottle with everything like you guys. So much fun going to kids games and husband’s senior citizen games fun fun fun in the van it’s white too💃🕺💋🙏🇺🇸

    • @susanmccluskey2695
      @susanmccluskey2695 Рік тому +6

      Six😂

  • @kayakeux
    @kayakeux Рік тому +10

    Hard times makes people stronger, more genuine and lovable. Merçi d'avoir partagé.

  • @sheilagrayman7147
    @sheilagrayman7147 10 місяців тому +5

    ❤🎉A beautiful life in France can be lived in a house or van, whatever! Just enjoy...🎉
    FREEDOM. YES!❤

  • @ByDesign1776
    @ByDesign1776 Рік тому +12

    YOU ARE SURVIVORS!!! YOU ARE BLESSED!!!!

  • @crystalfrye8554
    @crystalfrye8554 Рік тому +7

    My mother saw my father killed in an accident, developed dementia, and then had a massive stroke… which took her life. I am glad that you were able to spend that time with her, as I did with my mother, and those memories (and the knowledge that you did all that you could for her) are priceless. God bless you two as you navigate this time of life. We never know where life will take us, but I am grateful for my faith in God’s plan in the big picture. Thank you for sharing your story. Blessings to you both! 😊❤

  • @grahampitt4104
    @grahampitt4104 Рік тому +4

    Many people would not have told that story. Well done.

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +2

      People need to know that there are other ways to create a more pleasant life and that there is no shame in failure, only in not trying 😊

  • @passenger3
    @passenger3 Рік тому +81

    Thanks, guys, for being raw/human and honest xx
    So relatable but also inspirational.
    Wishing all 3 of you nothing happiness. Chucking good vibes your way ✨️

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +5

      Thank you so much Nick. Your comment is much appreciated ❤️

    • @passenger3
      @passenger3 Рік тому +2

      @midlifevanlife welcome 🙏 ❤️

  • @keithmaggioni4388
    @keithmaggioni4388 Рік тому +8

    Very relatable. Glad you are living the life you want.

  • @MrHotsnakes
    @MrHotsnakes Рік тому +13

    Thanks for sharing and being brutally honest, when you didn't need to be. More power to you all.

  • @carolyncarson1671
    @carolyncarson1671 Рік тому +5

    When life hands you lemons - make churros :) You are all inspirations. Sorry for your loss, Charlotte.

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Could have used that for marketing our business😂 Thank you Carolyn❤️

  • @juliadecadenet
    @juliadecadenet Рік тому +35

    Thanks for sharing your lives. It is so refreshing to find a channel that is authentic. It’s great you have each other.

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +4

      Thank you Julia. We do leave ourselves open to criticism by doing this but we hope that it helps people to recognise that they are not the only ones with that experience of not living up to societies expectations 😀

  • @Meandmissy
    @Meandmissy Рік тому +9

    Must have took a lot to sit and say all that your two very strong people who hold each other together you’ve obviously got a very string bond I love that keep doing what you both love doing live your lives wish you all the best

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      We try and muddle along! Thank you for watching😀

  • @infiniteray4642
    @infiniteray4642 Рік тому +8

    Really refreshing to hear open and honest chats

  • @GuyE.
    @GuyE. Рік тому +7

    Respect to you both,such candid honesty

  • @lesleykurdi873
    @lesleykurdi873 Рік тому +4

    I lost muv a year ago. I still can't believe she had to leave me. She was my best friend. I have no more family now, but I have my lovely little dog. I wish you the best. 🤧😊

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Oh Lesley, we are sorry. It must still be so fresh for you. Sending love to you and your little dog❤❤

    • @diorrybak335
      @diorrybak335 Місяць тому

      Sending you care and warmth. I lost my mom suddenly and I'm just gutted. 🌹

  • @Leilaniiiiiii
    @Leilaniiiiiii Рік тому +42

    I hope Charlotte feels closer to her mum now that you all are living in France, and it helps you all through the healing process; you're such a lovely family. The learning process you've undergone during the past 18 months really puts you at an advantage over those of us who haven't ever done van life - even if you later decide to move back into a regular house, you'll never need to worry about being homeless or getting stuck in one place paying high rents, because with your van you will always have a place to live, and the skills to live well! ❤

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +5

      Thank you Ada. We really have learnt a lot and we appreciate what we do have everyday ❤️

  • @bruceharding723
    @bruceharding723 Рік тому +10

    Much love to U2... I lost my mom in 2017.. then I lost my partner in 2022 of 21 years...ugh!!.. U2 & Ame have given me a different choice in Life... it's called "Freedom"... living the Van Life. Instead of being alone and living in a box. thank you. GodblessU... sorry for everyone's troubles..hard times. You guys❤ & Ame❤ put a smile on my face. Your family is beautiful...thank you for sharing your Life with us all. Your a blessing to us...AME too. I see Ame in u mum..much love. GodblessU2...thanks again.. Bruce...

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Bruce. We are so sorry to hear of your undoubtedly great losses. Freedom is everything and we wish you nothing but happiness on your journey ❤️

  • @kingdomcalled1403
    @kingdomcalled1403 Рік тому +6

    Jim from Ohio 🇺🇸
    Thanks for your personal disclosure.
    I dropped what I was doing in the aviation industry to take care of my mother. It was going quite well until she had a massive stroke. It was a big one and she went very quickly. That was about 6 years ago. Wow that time went by quick!
    We were very close and no one is ever ready for such a thing. Four months later, to the day, my service dog died of a heart attack, right in my arms.
    Hearing your story brought back a lot of these thoughts that I haven’t focused on for some time now…
    anyways, I wrote you a few days ago telling you guys about my ambition to do the USA in a van and live aboard boat.
    So… we shall see how all of this works out in the future. Tell Ame I said “HI”
    Thanks again,
    Stay safe…

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for sharing that. We are sorry for your losses too❤
      Hopefully you will get to your boat dreams soon and we will say hi to Ame 😊

    • @kingdomcalled1403
      @kingdomcalled1403 Рік тому

      @@midlifevanlife
      Thank you so much 👋🏼

  • @tommynikon2283
    @tommynikon2283 Рік тому +4

    67 here/Seattle, WA./USA. I started watching your daughter on her own van build; she was one of about 15-20 I was taking "notes" on- progress, design, features, considerations....and Ame did great! I can relate to your life story, hardships, and rising again....and that's all that matters. I'm glad the three of you keep a close orbit and get to enjoy things together. Because my parents NEVER went skiing w/ me! The only decisions I've made is: I must have 4x4; Not AWD, but true 4x4. And insulate the crap out of it!

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому

      Thank you Tommy. You are absolutely right… insulate and then insulate some more 😂

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou Рік тому

      I hope you are making progress in your project👍

  • @johnhbuiltnotbought4924
    @johnhbuiltnotbought4924 Рік тому +8

    ❤ love and appreciation to you all. stay safe and well and look after each other❤

  • @johnfigueira8778
    @johnfigueira8778 Рік тому +12

    Strange coincidences in life - I am a Brit with a French wife and I know the towns you visit in the Cote d'Azur really well. Like Charlotte, my dad had a huge stroke in 2013 and survived only for 3 months in hospital. I own a structural engineering consultancy in the UK and somehow managed to get through the 2008 crash, the pandemic and now with the changing economy. I pretty much have had enough. I am contemplating selling the business, our house and buying a place in Cavaliere (next to Le Lavandou). Perhaps our paths may cross one day!

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +2

      Thank you John. I am sorry to hear that you had to go through such a hard time with your dad. We know Cavalaire and have spent time there. If you have the opportunity, go for it. I know that we are consistently reminded how expensive old age is and that we have to save the maximum amount and even that won’t be enough. We absolutely have to be prepared but it cannot be at the expense of everything else. Whatever you decide will be right for you and your situation. Wishing you well for the future and thank you ❤️

  • @tammyinman1699
    @tammyinman1699 Рік тому +4

    Charlotte, I’m so sorry about your mum! I lost mine in 2017 and it’s still very difficult. I’m so glad y’all were able to achieve your goals of van life! I’m so happy I found Ame… she makes every Friday a day I look forward to. Because I found her I found y’all too😃. Prayers for your safety and I love your videos. I love that you are real and honest! Love to you both and Ame❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

  • @NtoTheM
    @NtoTheM Рік тому +8

    Everyone out there, use every chance to spend time with your parents. Your time with them is not unlimited and no matter how much time you spend with them, once they're gone you'll regret not spending more time with them regardless. But they'll have you around till the end and that's what matters. ^^
    Obviously there are exceptions where connecting with one's parents is just not possible anymore due to personal circumstances, but if you're in good standing with your family, use it to be with them a lot. ❤

  • @bullzye101
    @bullzye101 Рік тому +4

    So Sorry for the lost of your mum Charlotte . btw my mum i miss her as well past away in 2019 as well ...btw you guys rock its just awesome how you got thought it good stuff . you guys are so honest and down to earth very rear these days on youtube .. very very big thumbs up

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Sorry for your loss too❤it absolutely sucks.
      We appreciate your comment, thank you 😊

  • @susantaylor147
    @susantaylor147 Рік тому +25

    Respect to you both showing your vulnerabilities ❤ You both come across as genuinely nice people! So sorry to hear about what you all wrnt through with your mom/mom in law/ grandma 😢 I'm sure she's proud of you all following your dreams 👏👏👏❤🙏🙏🕯🕯🕯🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +2

      Thank you Susan. I hope that she really is proud. We hope that sharing our story helps others to see that there are so many different ways to try and improve things but this only happens with true support and with that we are very grateful❤️

    • @susantaylor147
      @susantaylor147 Рік тому

      @@midlifevanlife you are all very inspiring ❤🍀🍀🍀

  • @karenbaldwin3877
    @karenbaldwin3877 Рік тому +3

    Hi Guy's thanks for this video explaining how you came to do Van life! I was curious. It seems to suit you both & Ame. I really enjoy watching what you get up to I love France ( Only ever been once myself) Its a nice escapism watching your video's with a cuppa. And Ame is 😂 hilarious. Much ❤️

  • @etiennemt.fevrier
    @etiennemt.fevrier Рік тому +7

    Thank you both for sharing your story. Real people, real love.

  • @LuLuLive
    @LuLuLive Рік тому +15

    We adore you and Ame. No matter why, we enjoy what you all do. Stay safe on your journey in France and everywhere else you choose to go. 🙏 ❤❤❤

  • @FromMetayou
    @FromMetayou Рік тому +1

    I'm coming up 68yr and still dream of doing a van to live in , me and the Mrs did a van camper an ldv 400 ex post office walk thru van and did the Europe tour 20odd yrs ago and the memories are still strong and that feeling of freedom has never left us

  • @Sandilandsandy
    @Sandilandsandy Рік тому +4

    sorry for your loss👊 I follow Ame, I’m sure you’re very proud of her😊 watched her build her van and your ingenious shower😳 you’re all an inspiration!💪 after a £1300 energy bill for 3 months! It’s going to be van life for me!👍

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Andy❤ We all appreciate your support and absolutely ouch to that bill. Fast forward to van life and best of luck with it 😊

    • @Sandilandsandy
      @Sandilandsandy Рік тому

      @@midlifevanlife great video’s👍 yes the worlds gone nuts😡 it’s time to get off ! 🚐💨

  • @onetwoculinarystew
    @onetwoculinarystew Рік тому +2

    Love you guys! So glad I got to meet your mum, Charlotte. We’re both following your journey. We do miss your churros though!

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +2

      Thank you so much Pina. We really appreciate the support. We are hoping someone will be able to take on the trailer and continue to serve churros . Love to Paulo❤

    • @paulitomusica6949
      @paulitomusica6949 Рік тому +2

      Big hugs to you guys 🤗

  • @danzbeard
    @danzbeard Рік тому +3

    Genuinely appreciate your sharing this, and it’s quite commendable and courageous, for lack of better words, to discuss these vulnerable and intimate details. Cheers 🙏

  • @chrissypower1683
    @chrissypower1683 Рік тому +13

    That’s so sad about Charlottes mum , my deepest condolences.
    Things have really turned around in your life now . I would love to be able to do what you two are doing . Keep living the dream, thanks for sharing with us and being honest . Much love to you all xx❤❤❤

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому

      Thank you Chrissy. I hope that you get to experience this one day ❤️

  • @ianross04
    @ianross04 Рік тому +7

    I've been following Amee for well over a year now and her vids had occasionally included meet ups with you which (I won't lie), did intrigue me. Today was the first time I watched one of one of your own vlogs - this one.
    Going on all your major crisis', you both have my utmost respect by finding the strength to stick it out and stay together and more importantly, the fact you were grieving yourself you also got Amee through her own testing time, the death of her nanny and her A levels.
    You're bloody awesome parents and Amee is a fine product of what you both stand for and what a fantastic close family unit you are.
    Your honesty and humble reflections of lifes decisions are quite sobering and indeed inspirational. You've got a new fan as I've just subbed.

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +3

      Thank you Rossi. Your comment has humbled us. We really appreciate that you understand why we made the video and we hope that you continue to enjoy our future videos ❤️

    • @ianross04
      @ianross04 Рік тому +1

      @@midlifevanlife as they say 'it's not about the big punches you take, it's how you get uo from them' that defines one! You're all still standing tall. Truly amazing 👏 . I've just bought my first camper after 5 years of planning and are planning to go to France with my son in his groovy self-made camper for the rugby World Cup next year.
      If I meet you on the way it would be a pleasure to buy you both a drink 🍸

  • @nikkipartridge3290
    @nikkipartridge3290 Рік тому +7

    You two are amazing parents ❤

  • @janesavage5856
    @janesavage5856 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for sharing that; and as always, thank you for sharing life as an honest, kind, optimistic and absolutely lovely couple, doing something extraordinary 🌞

  • @bettyourcampervan
    @bettyourcampervan Рік тому +6

    Condolences and you are always open and honest, keeping it real xx

  • @sonjadlong7554
    @sonjadlong7554 Рік тому +3

    Lifting You Up 🙏
    Life is a winding road and we are lucky to carry our homes with us ❤️
    I love Van Life most days ✌️

  • @jamescrittenden9539
    @jamescrittenden9539 Рік тому +1

    My Mother’s name is Charlotte’s..last June at age 90 she passed away in Georgia ..i miss her..thanks for sharing together your Van Life story!!

  • @kimdefluke8249
    @kimdefluke8249 Рік тому +5

    Aw. I adore Ame and can see what a chip off the old blocks she is. You're an amazing family. Love sharing your life journeys with you all. Love your dogs. Sorry about your pain... and appreciate you sharing. Shit does happen. So do 🌈. Wishing you lots of 🌈. ❤️

  • @tonysmith5504
    @tonysmith5504 Рік тому +4

    I lost my dad @ 6mo old my mother never remarried I lost her when I was 22 it was horrible she was all I ever knew… I feel your pain I’ll be praying things get better… you two raised a amazing young lady her channel always cheers me up.. she was definitely born in the wrong decade though her spirit is late 60s early 70s… god bless you three thanks for your honesty 🙏❤️🙏

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Tony, we are sorry that you had to suffer losses at such a young age. We do hope that life is better for you now.
      Yes, we agree that Ame should have been born in a different time ❤

    • @tonysmith5504
      @tonysmith5504 Рік тому +1

      Definitely I have two beautiful daughters ❤️❤️ and two wonderful grandchildren that I love with all my heart… I work a lot 21 turn keeps me very busy .. we all develop strength of character from our hardships and losses and come out stronger in the end 🙏❤️🙏

  • @Captain_Pot
    @Captain_Pot 2 місяці тому +2

    Salt of the earth comes to mind. Amazing people!

  • @edwardmcgowan5044
    @edwardmcgowan5044 Рік тому +3

    I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for the transparency. I have a tremendous amount of respect for you both for jumping into the van life. My wife and I actually looked at a van and Class C this weekend. Even after 40 years together, a van or class C may be a bit too tight for us! 😂. Love following the three (5 with the dogs) of you. Safe travels.

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Edward. How about converting a double decker bus?😂 That could offer you the space that you both need!

    • @edwardmcgowan5044
      @edwardmcgowan5044 Рік тому

      @@midlifevanlife Love, love, love that idea. We've lived overseas for 16 years (all in the Pacific/Asia). I would 100% love to go about Europe in a van. I'm afraid I'd be solo though as my wife loves to tend to her 2K+ orchids! 🙂

  • @Karen-bt6lh
    @Karen-bt6lh Рік тому +4

    I think it’s wonderful what you are doing. I have always liked the idea of being like a turtle having your home with you wherever you go. I like that sense of freedom and not having a mortgage or paying rent. I especially love seeing videos of the three of you together. I see so much fun and banter among you but most of all a lot of love. Thank you for sharing your story and looking forward to being a part of more stories to come. 😘

  • @vinnieomahoney6359
    @vinnieomahoney6359 Рік тому +1

    What a beautiful couple you are, so sad about charlottes mum, lost my mum a year ago this month, 😢bless you both, lotsa love, stay safe and I’ll be watching every week along with Ames videos, x

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +2

      Thank you Vinnie. We are very sorry for your loss❤

  • @oldyeller6518
    @oldyeller6518 Рік тому +3

    I’ll bet your mom is watching you now and so proud and excited about your van life! If you were my daughter, I’d be thrilled for you

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      I would very much like to think that she is! Thank you ❤️

  • @misssasanka
    @misssasanka Рік тому +3

    I teared up... I am so sorry for your loss. Your love you all have for each other is so unique and beautiful. I love your hearts and minds ❤ hopefully one day I will meet you on one of a car parks and we will share a lovely glass of white together! Sending you lots of love xxx

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Sandra. Please do say hello if you ever see us😊

  • @hammersteve2746
    @hammersteve2746 Рік тому +5

    The hurt you and Ame all carry around has been obvious from just watching your videos....and the references you have always mentioned to Charlotte's mum. I wish nothing but the best for all three of you. I feel like I'm living the van life for 20 mins a week with you lot.. but without the hassle...😂❤

  • @deanburton4253
    @deanburton4253 Рік тому +9

    You guys really are down to earth .I love your honesty and we really wish you health wealth and happiness xx

  • @prettyeyes47
    @prettyeyes47 Рік тому +28

    Thank you for sharing and being so open . I cried when Charlotte cried . Beautiful family. Love from Deborah in the UK x

  • @PazmanBC
    @PazmanBC Рік тому +4

    Great video guys. Nice to hear the full story. Although not a happy one it sounds like a happy ending as you embrace your new lives. I went though a similar situation with my parents. I moved back in with them for 3.5 years as my mom slowly died of dementia / cancer & my dad of heart failure after having.a major heart attack at 75 years old. Over the last 3 years I've also taken a strong interest in doing van life but I've only been taking it super seriously since Ame randomly popped up on my UA-cam feed. I was watching a lot of van "build" videos at the time & her time lapse video popped up one day. I was so impressed by her as she basically showed her work step by step. After that I started watching her videos regularly. She is such a bright light for the van life genre but she's going to be a superstar far beyond this before she's done. I don't think van life can contain her creative energy & I imagine a lot of that she gets from you guys.

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you❤️ we are sorry to hear that you had to endure such a rough time with your parents. We really hope that your future plans take shape as quickly as possible for you and we send our best wishes.

  • @StephenOshea
    @StephenOshea Рік тому +2

    i really love your. honesty and to be able to understand why you are living in a van . it's super nice that you have always wanted to live in Paris /France. i can understand why you love Paris/France so much as i have visited this place many years ago myself . your daughter has been very supportive of van life and is hard working and that's great. all the best for your youtube channel .

  • @peterowen4456
    @peterowen4456 Рік тому +4

    An amazing story of resilience in the face of such difficulty. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @stevenhartley7659
    @stevenhartley7659 Рік тому +4

    Wow. A lot of us can relate to the struggles thank you

  • @Nebbia_affaraccimiei
    @Nebbia_affaraccimiei Рік тому +4

    Thanks for sharing this. it takes courage. I wish you nothing but happiness in your future!

  • @theogroamer
    @theogroamer Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your story. My journey parallels yours in so many ways. I lived in my Focus ST for a year after I lost my teaching job. I was able to stay with friends and now, as a middle aged nomad, I have reframed the narrative. For many of us, trust funds and privilege didn't get us into vanlife. Tragedy caused us to reevaluate what our passion is. Keep sharing your stories!!!

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you❤ we are all about reframing the narrative! Best wishes with whatever you do in the future.

  • @guyprall
    @guyprall 7 місяців тому +3

    What a beautiful story. Thanks for sharing

  • @debrandw246
    @debrandw246 Рік тому +8

    Bless you all. I am so sorry things happened the way they did but very glad it turned out well. You are now enjoying your life after so much . Very happy for you. You definitely worked hard to get where you are now. Thank you for sharing. Big hugs to you both. I really admire you. ❤

  • @carlgulliver634
    @carlgulliver634 Рік тому +9

    Sorry for the loss, I lost my mum last year its the hardest thing I've ever been through makes everything else seem like nothing in comparison. Great story and an inspiration 👍

  • @harryscat
    @harryscat Рік тому +1

    ❤OMG! I liked to watch you Guys ,coz I love watching AME. She is so strong and funny and honest and brave. But after watching this ,I feel really warmed towards you guys ❤. Life is Dam tough at times. Great Video 🎉😊❤

  • @tonyhawk123
    @tonyhawk123 Рік тому +3

    Cheers for sharing. Stay strong and stick with it.
    You mentioning watching Max and Lee videos in the early days brought back memories. RIP Lee. Horrible way to go.

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      It was so sad to see what happened to her. We really loved their content ❤

  • @darellnewsome4459
    @darellnewsome4459 Рік тому +28

    So sorry for your loss. The loss of a parent or parents is one of the hardest things we have to go through in our lives. The world works in mysterious ways sometimes and most of the time we are led to do what we are actually happiest doing. I admire both of you for sticking together as a couple through tough times, and for having the sticktuitiveness to decide to get out there and enjoy the van life and then sharing your adventures with the rest of us. I wish you both all the best!

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +3

      Thank you Darell. It really is so hard. You are right life does work on mysterious ways and we just have to keep learning on the way❤️

    • @darellnewsome4459
      @darellnewsome4459 Рік тому

      @@midlifevanlife Exactly! I am so proud of both of you!

  • @elquijote71
    @elquijote71 Рік тому +3

    We have all had ups and downs in Our lives, but the most important Thing is to stay together and you have achivied it, you have also done a very good Job with your Daughter, thank you for your sincerity

  • @KevUTM1925
    @KevUTM1925 Рік тому +10

    Thank you for sharing this with us, can't have been easy. Carry on enjoying your lives and taking us with you 🤞

  • @MOTOUK1
    @MOTOUK1 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for being so open and discussing what I can see was quit hard. Life is not so easy sometimes, I envy you guys living in a van and France, freedom, living simple has many benefits and as soon as my girls have finished school. We will be doing same similar but maybe on a boat ⛴️ 🤞 love the videos keep them coming and love what your daughter has achieved on YT you must be proud ❤

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Thanks 😀 Best wishes on your future boat plans!

    • @MOTOUK1
      @MOTOUK1 Рік тому

      @@midlifevanlife no thank you, your inspiring others 🙏

  • @jackmullett9198
    @jackmullett9198 Рік тому +1

    Good video. Most people spend the whole year saving up for a 2 or 3 week holiday. You have got it as a way of life. I like France we inherited a cottage in the Morvan National Park which is part of Burgundy. Our daughters drive all the way there and are just content to stay in the garden surrounded by nature, including red squirrels, grass snakes, adders, moles, woodpeckers , owls, deer, wild boar. One thing about France, the food is good.😎

  • @Adrian-fy7rd
    @Adrian-fy7rd Рік тому +3

    Thank you both! Really enjoy your down to earth heartfelt sharing. Hope you’re having a great time on the slopes👍

  • @leighjones6514
    @leighjones6514 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. You’re an inspiration and I love the fact that you keep it real. So sorry to hear about what you went through with your mum. You’re such a gorgeous family. My husband had a heart attack in 2017 so we decided that I would retire, we bought a big green bus and have never looked back. Out of a negative came a fantastic positive. Sending much love and positivity your way 🥰🥰🥰

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Think that you made the right decision Leigh. Thank you for your kind words and we hope that you have an amazing time with your husband in your green bus!❤️

    • @leighjones6514
      @leighjones6514 Рік тому

      @@midlifevanlife ❤❤❤

  • @ladytrader688
    @ladytrader688 Рік тому +1

    Smart people find ways to thrive in our society's traps. You are smart people. My condolences Charlotte, lost my mom years ago, it
    is hard). The Real Estate crash around 08-10 was my test. I lost my job due to an injury, i lost all of my RE holdings as tenants stopped paying rent, then my brother committed suicide, then my father died, as did my cat...all within a 2 year period. So i scrambled for an old RV and went off into the sunset. It was challenging, joyful, bouts of anxiety, exciting, and so healing. I admire you all including Amie. Smart People. Hugs to you all.

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому

      You really have had a rough ride, we are sorry❤
      Glad that you got to experience RV life and healing alongside it 😊

  • @foresterboy2011
    @foresterboy2011 Рік тому +1

    Guy, I'm sorry for your loss and glad that all has worked out in the end. Just a little advice if you haven't done this already. The plastic bump rails around the outside of your van are huge water traps as they hide holes which they clip into. These holes over time let the rain in and will rust out the bottoms of your doors and sills. Other van dwellers squirt a big doughnut of silicone sealant around each hole then clip the bump panels back on. No more issues. May you have many more adventures to come 😊 Stay safe

  • @mikecocoprint4894
    @mikecocoprint4894 Рік тому +2

    Dear Charlotte, I’m so so sorry about the loss of your mother, exactly the same thing happened to my mother in 2013 .. One year later I bought a boat with the small amount of money that she left me. I live in Brighton Marina ..it’s just little old Moi and my short legged Romanian rescue dog ..Kita .. I wish I could send you a photograph. You would love her to pieces .. anyway I’m so pleased do you have a UA-cam channel I’m sure Ame .. nudged you into it ..she is wise ..:. I’m pretty sure she got a wiseness from her mother. 😂

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Mike. We do hope that you are living a great life in your boat, along with your dog❤

  • @EllenMcDermott
    @EllenMcDermott Рік тому +3

    Wow Ame inspired you. What a girl!!! Glad it all went well for you all

  • @lesleyrowe5563
    @lesleyrowe5563 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing both. You Tube has a lot to answer for - in a good way 😊I too discovered van life while living in Istanbul. 3 years and I love it. Xx

  • @rsinuk9697
    @rsinuk9697 Рік тому +5

    I think this makes us enjoy and appreciate your midlife vanlife adventures that much more 😊
    Real life and it’s ups and downs has lead you to where you are. And it will have made you stronger as a couple, and a family. And for those no longer sadly with you, I’m certain they will be immensely proud of what you are now achieving in life. You and Amé are trying to live it, not merry survive it. Good luck to all three of you.

    • @rsinuk9697
      @rsinuk9697 Рік тому +1

      Merely survive it that was meant to be. Though Amé was merry I note 😂

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому

      They certainly have and we appreciate your comment! Ame was a little beyond merry so you were right the first time! ❤️😀

  • @seanadamson280
    @seanadamson280 Рік тому +2

    You wear your hearts on your sleeves and are honest. I love that. All the best 😊

  • @jasonsebastian2705
    @jasonsebastian2705 Рік тому +2

    I had seen Amie mentioning the beginning's of van life for her and briefly she touched on you starting it shortly after but O always felt like something had been going on behind the scenes or left unsaid on youtube anyway which was completely fine. But the fact that you two were brave enough to speak on the reasons you started and even more importantly why you stayed living the van life is the realest thing ive seen in awhile and I appreciate it. Keep cruising!

  • @simonsuddons5214
    @simonsuddons5214 Рік тому +1

    We really enjoy your videos. Love your honesty. Always the way to go. That's why you are gathering subscribers. Just being yourselves. Great to see.

  • @tonyhornback3540
    @tonyhornback3540 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this. I'm so sorry for your loss. I really enjoy your channel. You should be so proud of your daughter Ame. Keep on looking up. I'm sure so many positive things will come your way for you both are such nice and genuine People.

  • @goldiekildea2924
    @goldiekildea2924 Рік тому +3

    You guys are awesome parents and Ame is such a beautiful person I lost my mom in 2018 and I think about her everyday and I miss her Soooo much!

  • @WyleeMcGee
    @WyleeMcGee Рік тому +3

    Charlotte is one tough woman! I see a lot of that toughness in ame. I enjoy every thing about you guys and hope nabe some day I’ll see you in San Diego and meet you in person! Hope all is well and hope all goes well.
    P.S. save a churros for me😄

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому

      You never know, we may make it over the pond one day! Churros really don’t taste that good after about 6 hours- always best eaten warm😂

  • @Mfullen09
    @Mfullen09 Рік тому +13

    Thank you for sharing your story. Y’all answered everything I was wondering about and didn’t feel I should ask. Again, thanks for sharing your adventures with us.

  • @diwarburton5369
    @diwarburton5369 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your story, it goes to show there is always a silver lining. You are absolutely right to follow your dreams.

  • @bonriver9420
    @bonriver9420 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. So sorry for the loss of your sweet mother, Charlotte. I love watching your travels and adventures. I found you through your daughter's channel. Ame is so fortunate to have two wonderful parents like you.

  • @Technocrat.
    @Technocrat. Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the history of how you ended up where you are now. Life gives you lemons, but you guys made delicious lemonade out of those lemons. Cheers.
    Home is where the heart is.

  • @TheExigentex
    @TheExigentex Рік тому +2

    Life's so cruel @ tha' end/our passing, It's Relief ""Sum Wat "" now start of being in yr past ❤ Jus' recently Nov 22 LOST! My best friend @ father to Dementia @ Again wish there were a much better way of passing frm this life! So hard to find tha' care @ understanding wat only yourself can give to @ Loved-One❤ ""Anyhows "" more pleasant things, So So very much enjoy watching yours @ Ame's video's, Gives us whom r not as brave as your ( most entertaining ) Selves @n outlet to live through. THANKYOU ❤ Luv frm Surrey 🇬🇧👋

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому +1

      So sorry for your loss ❤
      We are all brave so long as we are honest and try to live the best way we can. Thank you

  • @lolagrace6683
    @lolagrace6683 Рік тому +5

    Thankyou so much Rob and Charlotte for giving us your story behind why you chose Van life, so sorry to hear of passing of your mum Charlotte 😢, I lost my dad in my early life too :( Also loves your new haircut Charlotte and I think you both have choose the right way of life now, you both seems so happy with your life with Coco and Lily and loves loves loves you guys so much , you sure makes my Monday evening 🥰 You guys are what makes me loves to watch You Tube honestly ❤❤❤

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому

      Thank you Lola. You are very kind❤️

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому

      Sorry that you had to suffer the early loss of your dad ❤️

  • @wouterswanepoel5753
    @wouterswanepoel5753 Рік тому +1

    My kind of people: unpretentious, unwoke, drop-dead honest. Real. How refreshing. No wonder I liked you from the moment I watched one of your videos for the first time. If I may quote a few lines from "Climb Every Mountain" (The Sound Of Music, 1965):
    Climb every mountain,
    Search high and low,
    Follow every byway,
    Every path you know.
    Climb every mountain,
    Ford every stream,
    Follow every rainbow,
    'Till you find your dream.
    A dream that will need
    All the love you can give,
    Every day of your life
    For as long as you live.
    Rock on chaps! Best wishes from South Africa.

  • @merlynnkoehn3971
    @merlynnkoehn3971 Рік тому +4

    Thanks for sharing your life and the difficult circumstances that you all went through! My heart goes out to you and this touched a soft spot in my heart. I lost my mom in 2000 from Leukemia, she was gone in less than two weeks and she was my best friend. Appreciate you as a family, Rob, Charlotte, and Ame, I think you are very special people! Love and prayers coming your way 💞🙏

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому

      Thank you Merlynn. We got very lucky to have our mums as our best friends too. Even though it meant their departing hurt that much more❤️

    • @merlynnkoehn3971
      @merlynnkoehn3971 Рік тому

      @@midlifevanlife 👍

  • @ZeroCool2013
    @ZeroCool2013 Рік тому +2

    Hard times bring out the best in us in which brings the good times.
    Love you two 😉
    Give my love to Ame next time you meet up.

  • @priscillachapman9145
    @priscillachapman9145 Рік тому +2

    I appreciated that you are an honest open couple and shared your story. You are strong and resealent (sp). I love your dogs and Ame and Gigi too.

  • @linajensen4476
    @linajensen4476 Рік тому +1

    The three of you, including Emmy are wonderful human beings and you are all so blessed. I really enjoy listening and watching your channel. I will pray that your channel will keep on growing people just need to turn in once and they will be hooked. That’s what happened to me? God bless.🙏🥰

  • @Rackelhane
    @Rackelhane Рік тому +4

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. You have been thrue some Hard times together..and i'm so sorry for that. Hope the future bring you guys a load of happines in every way possible. May the force be with you. I live half time in my van and I love it.❤️👍

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому

      Thank you Timo. Glad that you get to spend 50% of your time in your van!

  • @dwsnz
    @dwsnz Рік тому +1

    From a random internet stranger, proud of you all, and Charlotte's mum would be proud of you all too. Tres bien.

  • @joannajanes2781
    @joannajanes2781 Рік тому +1

    A lovely honest vid. Sending you hugs. Hard times are awful. So glad you have each other and you are now doing what you want 👍🏻❤ keep the vids coming! 😊

  • @stacem5835
    @stacem5835 Рік тому +2

    I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. I’m sure i’m not the only one who could almost feel Charlotte’s pain recalling such a heartbreaking and undeniably stressful time. My mum had a stroke in 2012 and my stepdad didn’t leave her side at the hospital. She survived but had significant damage to her brain, she is disabled, has aphasia and can no longer use her right arm/hand, but i never go a day without reminding myself how fortunate we are that she survived. Thank you for sharing your story. I love watching your journey, as well as how real you are and your banter as a family is awesome. (I am subscribed to Ame too). It’s really inspiring how you have been through hard times (understatement, i know) but committed to your goals and achieved them. I love your van build. The tiles are my favourite part… they’re so beautiful… and well, the shower is incredibly impressive! Equally my favourite. I have the people I house-share with watching your videos too. One is a joiner and said he could never figure out how to do such a good van build. Your yorkie (not sure which one was joining in to make the video) behind you was the best start to a video. I have too many little dogs to live in a van (was 5, but now 4 as one passed away at Christmas), but your yorkies are living their best lives. A new adventure (walkies) every other day! I love when they meet up with Gigi. 😂 thank you for inviting us to see a glimpse of van life with real talk and humour… and Charlotte’s cooking vlogging. I never imagined you could eat so well living in a van. It makes sense that you need a lot of counter space. Is it ever an issue not having a shortcut door to the cab like Ame? Or have you never had a problem with needing a quick exit from a location? x

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому

      Thank you for taking the time to comment Stace ❤ we really appreciate the support. It sounds as though you have all been through a very hard time with your mum.
      The tiles are my favourite part too😊
      I think the shower will forever be Rob’s proudest creation (sorry Amé 😂) I do love cooking so will put up with most inconveniences in the kitchen- but I am lucky to have a good amount of kitchen surface. We do have a way to access the front cab, I don’t think it has been shown in any video though, we will have to show it😊

    • @midlifevanlife
      @midlifevanlife  Рік тому

      Also it was Lilie peeking over Rob’s shoulder😂