For the month of June we're going to be doing a lot of webisode orbiting around men. This is our first installment of A Man Who's Interested Will! Part 2 is on the way
Don't ever call or text him first, especially if he wasn't the one that didn't reach out initially. Don't let anyone tell you more then once that they don't want you. Most men are not verbal, but them not saying anything at all is saying everything that you need to hear.
I tell you!! When I met my husband he told me to take his phone number because he didn’t have a pen and paper. I told him “ I don’t contact guys first” he switched up real quick and was like let me go get something so I can take yours. He called me that next day and made his intentions known within the first week that he was looking for a wife not just a partner. He said he was looking to date for a year then be engaged and married in 6 months. This might be so fast for some of y’all but we both had mad boundaries with each other. The biggest one being NO SEX Before the wedding. I didn’t move in until the wedding night and throughout out courtship we both made our wants and needs known and our communication skills were on point!
@@RaqMor13 This is awesome! Praise God!! This is where I stand today. And I'm still standing. There is one Father has just for me who has boundaries as well!!
I tell you!! When I met my husband he told me to take his phone number because he didn’t have a pen and paper. I told him “ I don’t contact guys first” he switched up real quick and was like let me go get something so I can take yours. He called me that next day and made his intentions known within the first week that he was looking for a wife not just a partner. He said he was looking to date for a year then be engaged and married in 6 months. This might be so fast for some of y’all but we both had mad boundaries with each other. The biggest one being NO SEX Before the wedding. I didn’t move in until the wedding night and throughout out courtship we both made our wants and needs known and our communication skills were on point!
@CO BE yes! It frustrates me to my core when people don’t discuss the difficult topics first in fear that it’ll push people away but if he really wants you and is for you he will fight the struggle of lust with you. Not only will he speak things that you want to hear, he will stick to them as well!
Listen!!!! I learned that 10 years ago while dating someone. I used to think that was the sign a man was serious (I mean, it USED to be). But it was one of the best eye-openers for me.
1. A man who's interested will pursue with a destination. A Godly man provide clarity, a carnal man spurns confusion. Clarity and confusion are both destinations. - You'll need enhanced Godly discernment. Don't catch feelings before catching prayer. 2. A man who's interested will make time. - You'll never have to beg a man to do what he really wants. 3. A man who's interested will inform those he trusts and loves about you. - Keep it private until it's permanent. 4. A man who's interested will listen and observe. - He will desire to learn you. - Godly men look for attributes, carnal men look for avenues.
🤣🤣🤣 Well not all the time... It could be he also isn't proud of you or he is cheating you or just experimenting to see if he can get into the draws and leave ASAP.
Tell them my brother you have to be a godly leader in your house first before any women to follow you respect her worth and than she will follow know body wants a carnal man or carnal woman living in these dark times in Jesus name 🙋🏽👍🏽✋🏽❤️
Here is my philosophy: If it quacks like a duck,and it looks like a duck , believe that it’s a duck .Translation: If he doesn’t call,doesn’t ask you on a date ,doesn’t try to check up on you , texts you 6 days later ,girl drop him .Cut it .Quick ! But they made some valid insightful points .The problem is that we have some individuals who don’t have discernment.Something I learned to have after my mistakes .And also knowing your self worth and your value.Now that I’m single as a Pringle I have something many people don’t have ,and that’s peace . I’m so content .Let’s go Part 2!lol
I say this all the time. Peace is more valuable than money cause your spirit is not disturbed in any way. Alot of ppl are inauthentic and like the way things look vs how they feel, and they spirit will be tore up all the time fighting the truth. There's nothing like peace in life, people don't know what they missing.
Ima gone ahead and screenshot this ! This guy I have in mind when we talk we talk for hours & HOURS about God and we relate mentally about allot. Every blue moon he’d mention something about me being his wife. And it’s weird but it’s like he sees ME, he’d mention that he sees a higher me like a me I haven’t unlocked yet. Its weird a little lol he said I’m pure & rare like rubies. I mean it’s like he can SEE ME like my best self.. even though I’m not the best me just yet. He’s even told me what attributes my future husband would need to properly care for me tailored to what I’ve been through in trauma. It’s been 5 years, & he’d disappear for months & he’s horrible with texting back I mean like getting a text back within 2 weeks or never really .. But he’d always call every so often , more on the side of every blue moon to check up on me and try to keep the connection by reassuring me that he cares about my well being. He’ll mention to me jokingly everytime that I forgot about him and that he’s always the one to call & check up on me.. and he’s right b/c when I don’t hear from you for a hot month or 2 I forget about you.. bc 1 I’m not going to chase you and if you really wanted to peruse me, why has it always been a little headache communicating .. He’d come to my photoshoots when i ask him & he’d make time to come (He’s a musical artist, a Christian music artist, performing @ shows & all) but I feel like the friendship isn’t truly going anywhere. I hve mentioned hanging out but I get a feeling he doesn’t really want to. It would spark a interest but idk. We haven’t hung out as far as a one on one “let’s catch a dinner & just talk in person” instead of over the phone for hours. He does mention that when he’s dealing with something he doesn’t like to be around people, he doesn’t want to be around individuals when he’s not his best self. So rn IDK bc I really like him & I feel like we have allot in common mentally &etc but I don’t know how to move forward with this & ask him how do we contribute to eachother even as friends when the communication feels like a one time contract sign to just communicate every 5 months.
@@TheKianaRoe Hey Sis, I'm going to be straight up with you and tell you to block this man. He is a time waster and he throws breadcrumbs. What I mean is, he'll give you just enough to keep the fantasy going. He'll pop back up when he needs an ego refueling. I've learned through trial and error not to give a man too much time on the phone. This builds false intimacy and you "think" you know him, but you really don't. Iniating contact and asking to hang out is pursuing, which is out of order. Men pursue, women choose/accept. He is in his feminine energy with you, like he's the prize. And what happens if you "catch" him? You'd spend your relationship pursuing him, which sounds exhausting. You deserve to be courted and pursued by a man who recognizes you as the gift from God that you are. You deserve to be SURE. Like Pastor Jerry said in the video, confusion is a sign that you are not being pursued by a godly man. Block him Sis so that he doesn't distract you from who God has for you. Best wishes to you.
It is not our job to fix him ! It’s so cozy with a person that makes you feel good... but he does want to make your spirit feel good ? If he has you guessing or wondering or hot and cold 🥶...
And when the Lord reveal things to you. Don't try to paint a different picture, and yes if that's the only time he say he love you. He simply mean he only love it. Women we need to stop making excuses, and stop settling. And we need to stop dating based off of society's ways of teaching us how to date, or the toxic ways we have seen our dysfunctional family members date. We get mad at the opposite sex, when we are supposed to be learning from the experience. And choosing to be better, and move and operate differently in a healthy way after that experience.
I didn’t listen to the Holy Spirit about a guy and my heart was broken this year. And while it was a lesson I didn’t need to learn through disobedience God still was good. It was a blessing in the mess. And I learned all of this and now am moving forward with only wanting to be with a man who pursues me, is intentional, clear and authentic. I learned I’ll never have to guess with an intentional man of God!
At a young age I learned the when a guy wasn't interested and now that i'm in my 20s I changed my approach. I allowed the men to pursue and even if I had to walk away and I didn't lose anything in the process. I gained wisdom and knowledge from the lessons that I learned and the actions I would or wouldn't do again. I no longer press a situation instead I go with my flow and observe. It feels good to sit back and not have to worry myself whether a guy is interested. Let him do the leading and if he isn't then you can respectfully make your exit.
THIS!! I'm divorced and currently in a season of singleness. My desire is to remarry and have children with the godly man that the Lord provides and shows me to. Because a man who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Thank you so much for posting this video. This has brought so much clarity to me. God bless you guys! 🙌🏼🌺
@Mistake Maker I've gotten used to situationships and none sense but now that I see this. I'm never going back God willing! I pray that it's everyone's portion
This why I started my UA-cam channel and help women heal from toxic relationships. There’s so much we don’t know. Just wrote a new book called: He Doesn’t Love You If...on Amazon. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you Jesus!! I’m so glad I heard this. I shot my shot and dude started talking about sex. Oh nooo not here. I’m waiting. God keep showing me. 💃🏽💃🏽
Mine too. I didn't realize I had come so close to danger and destruction. It shook me, and I'm still recovering after five years. I'm a lot better now, but I looked over my shoulder many times.
@@tasheenalewis-everhart3871 I think about God's kindness all the time. I'm surprised that I never discerned just how kind the Lord truly is. God bless. Stay safe.
So good! This is helping me strengthen my 'no' because I have to turn down a guy I think is good, but God is telling me 'no' on. I truly believe God put this video in my path so I could see this. So good!
My parents taught me, counterfeiters learn by studying REAL currency! I apply that to relationships: single people spend too much time on fake examples of love. That’s why they complain so much about past failed relationships. Start focusing on the REAL, good examples, including the positive aspects of the previous failures. This will help you “discern” frauds immediately so you don’t get involved. I also believe it will help you attract the real mate right away. Because you’ll recognize them when you see them.
Exactly why I tell people to pray for discernment - that moment you can walk into a room, and know when to walk right on out the door, and say, "No that's Okay! I'm Good! Amen?! 😊 This is exactly why I am so glad to be a highly discerning individual. The Lord God in heaven kissed me with discernment way back up in the day. That's right! 😊 You guys are totally on point with this one!
This is so true, I’ve been married for 14 yrs. Before I met my husband, I did encounter the counterfeit man and oh my goodness everything y’all said was true. I thank God for my Pastor at that time he help me discern that counterfeit man and cut him off quickly and not to long after that I met my husband, who was everything y’all described a man of God should look like and should be doing LOL amazing!!! Wow!! This I know is helping a lot of people God Bless y’all!
I love how they feed off of each other and how they look at each other ! It’s a kingdom decision to be together! I definitely love that ! As I come off of my broken relationships, I have been in prayer for discernment and definitely asked for this very thing !!! Helping to see beyond what my eyes can.
I really like the two of you working together for God’s glory, I aspire to have this one day. Not seeking it out but trusting God to bring it to pass....
The only thing that saddens me is that there aren't many godly men of maturity who help other men. And in my own experience, there is not one person I know that I really trust, because we are living in evil times. I just take everything to God because I know I can trust God! And believe me, I've searched my entire life for elders and those that would help teach me in the right way to go. I see pastors and teachers who love being praised in churches and rarely ever have time for you or really care about you. You can't have enough decrement from God in these times! I pray to have a husband that seeks God daily with his whole heart too! If you do have a good godly pastor or friend that cares and wants your best and will point you in the right direction and correct you in love, you are so truly blessed.
Can I add that there is a third kind of man? The man that has no idea what he's doing and how to do relationships? Like he isn't trying to sleep with the girl or anything, but he also has no idea how to lead. All intentions are good but never executed well.
Yea ...and he isn’t intentional ab pursuing you even though he isn’t intentionally trying to ruin the relationship ...he aint ready...or he immature...or maybe he is not where he needs to be with God to even pursue you. He aint even pursuing God as he should. But he wasn’t intentionally trying to hurt you or lead u astray
Okay, this is where I believe I find myself. He doesn't mean to lead you astray but he does. He can't pursue because he isn't exactly where he needs to be with the Lord so he can't lead me in the way I need.
Yes, I think in today's society, this also happens a lot. A man who's not a user, but also not a king... I think in that case, when we meet a man who's well-meaning but unable to provide the guidance and leadership we need in a relationship, we should gently lead him in that direction (or tell him what we need in a kind way) and simply not expect too much of him right away and continue taking care of ourselves. If he can't or won't grow into the man that he needs to be then we may need to gently let him go and simply say that we hope we'll meet again in future (or something like that).
I had to constantly pause this & take notes. I haven't started dating yet, but I definitely am ready. I've already set boundaries years ago & I've been abstinent since 2017. I'll be weeding out the carnal men quickly. My husband will find me whole & happily single. My husband is already on his way. Love you all & stay blessed. 🙏
SOOOO GOOD Y'ALL...THANK YOU PASTOR AND FIRST LADY FOR HELPING US TO BE AWARE OF COUNTERFEITS AND TEACHING US WHAT A REAL GODLY MAN IS AND WHAT HE PURSUES!!!!!!
OMG absolutely!!! This is meat! Hallelujah! I agree! I experienced the same! And now finally have been found by a KINGdom Man! Thank you guys so much for this.
Been there with counterfeit...every single word they said...and the thing is I’ve been following there ministry and the season I don’t register for wife academy....the enemy comes in with a counterfeit....and yes I was under a spiritual attack...in my sleep. The thing is I saw everything...and thank God the Holy Spirit pulled me back into his presence and told me... “no more”this season of my life is over with! I’m finally walking in my newness and seeing clearly as ever...I’ll never be the same...i so look forward to what God is doing in my life. Waiting hits different now. 🙏🙏🙏
Wow I asked God for confirmation that I made the right choice to let go of someone and this video really showed me the truth. God is amazing. He really loves his children and sends you Warnings
I PREFER counsel from someone that has BEEN where I'm trying to go...not from jealous competitors who are trying to lead me to failure...instead of to God's vision for me...so THANK YOU Pastor and 1st lady Flowers!
“Our blemishes proves our authenticity “!!! I’ve had braces twice to get rid of my gap and it came back both times , I’ve decided that I look beautiful with my gap and it defines a part of me
@@mslady312 listennnn! Them heifers Jezebel, Delilah, athaliah, lillith, and the queen of heaven (2nd) are no joke. The old testament jezebel spirit has nothing on the The New testament Jezebel in Revelation 2:20
Yeah I don’t call/text men first in dating phase. I’ve noticed men tend to think I don’t like them bc of that, but it’s just not natural to me. I focus on being warm and transparent when I’m in his presence. That’s how you know I’m interested. It won’t be because I called you first. I just move on from the men who expect that from me. Because it’s telling of who they are. As you said, Kingdom men will pursue and lead. And furthermore he will recognize the passive posture of a Kingdom woman and appreciate it.
Thank you Jesus for your word that has just delivered my soul from the darkness.Thank you Jesus for yours servants that brought the word.Bless Mr and Ms Flower and theirs children forever and always in Jesus name,Amen ❤
This is so good! I needed to hear this. It's not new but I'm in a place to really hear and put into action what you're putting forth on this. Thank you!
Ok so this video ended like a whole cliffhanger lol!! I was hanging on to your every word. Love y’all!! Keep on delivering the truth outchea, so thankful I found y’all’s channel!! ❤️
Don't ever call or text him first, especially if he wasn't the one that didn't reach out initially. Don't let anyone tell you more then once that they don't want you. Most men are not verbal, but them not saying anything at all is saying everything that you need to hear.
A'men
Correct!!
Girl!!!! Preachhhhh!
I tell you!! When I met my husband he told me to take his phone number because he didn’t have a pen and paper. I told him “ I don’t contact guys first” he switched up real quick and was like let me go get something so I can take yours. He called me that next day and made his intentions known within the first week that he was looking for a wife not just a partner. He said he was looking to date for a year then be engaged and married in 6 months. This might be so fast for some of y’all but we both had mad boundaries with each other. The biggest one being NO SEX Before the wedding. I didn’t move in until the wedding night and throughout out courtship we both made our wants and needs known and our communication skills were on point!
@@RaqMor13 This is awesome! Praise God!! This is where I stand today. And I'm still standing. There is one Father has just for me who has boundaries as well!!
“You’ll never have to beg a man to do something he really wants do.”
Amen, That's real
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NEVER📌
I tell you!! When I met my husband he told me to take his phone number because he didn’t have a pen and paper. I told him “ I don’t contact guys first” he switched up real quick and was like let me go get something so I can take yours. He called me that next day and made his intentions known within the first week that he was looking for a wife not just a partner. He said he was looking to date for a year then be engaged and married in 6 months. This might be so fast for some of y’all but we both had mad boundaries with each other. The biggest one being NO SEX Before the wedding. I didn’t move in until the wedding night and throughout out courtship we both made our wants and needs known and our communication skills were on point!
@CO BE yes! It frustrates me to my core when people don’t discuss the difficult topics first in fear that it’ll push people away but if he really wants you and is for you he will fight the struggle of lust with you. Not only will he speak things that you want to hear, he will stick to them as well!
l needed to see this. I’m experiencing something similar and it’s not what I’m used to. Thanks for your comment!
@@candican9853 oh tell me more!
well done
Beautiful!
“Godly men look for attributes, Carnal men look for avenues” this was 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Just WHEW!!! My Lord...
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He coulda stopped right there chiiiiile 🔥🔥🔥
YASS!
Sadly, I’ve learned that just because a man shares you with family and friends, as opposed to hiding you, it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s interested.
Exactly
Hi misabbelle
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Can we connect on IG
Listen!!!! I learned that 10 years ago while dating someone. I used to think that was the sign a man was serious (I mean, it USED to be). But it was one of the best eye-openers for me.
1. A man who's interested will pursue with a destination. A Godly man provide clarity, a carnal man spurns confusion. Clarity and confusion are both destinations.
- You'll need enhanced Godly discernment. Don't catch feelings before catching prayer.
2. A man who's interested will make time.
- You'll never have to beg a man to do what he really wants.
3. A man who's interested will inform those he trusts and loves about you.
- Keep it private until it's permanent.
4. A man who's interested will listen and observe.
- He will desire to learn you.
- Godly men look for attributes, carnal men look for avenues.
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Spawns* not spurns, but yes. :>
Thank you.❤
ABSOLUTELY!!! I think of it in terms of travel!!! Paris and the Pacific Ocean are both destinations!!!! But I'd rather go to Paris!!!
If it ain’t KINGDOM, I don’t want it! POINT. 👏🏾BLANK. 👏🏾PERIOD.
I agree
I say this alllll the time
Preach no thank you .No to the foolery
Ok!!!!!!!!
Come on now💯👏🏾💯👏🏾say that
I totally agree…a man who is interested will come for you…they call, text, pursue and they are persistent…if not, they are not for you!
“Countfeit men always think you owe them something” that’s so good and sadly true.
"If he hides you, he may have a whole family." So true. 💯
🤣🤣🤣 Well not all the time... It could be he also isn't proud of you or he is cheating you or just experimenting to see if he can get into the draws and leave ASAP.
@@kevinkkirimii All of the above lol.
@@kevinkkirimii 🎯🎯🎯
Now a days, men tell the girl that she's not his only one and she STILL takes the breadcrumbs he gives her.
“You’re upset over someone who just settled “ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
That's exactly what my ex soul tie did, trying to "spite" me w/ a picture of his new woman with him. May The Lord have mercy on them.
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"You'll never have to beg a man to do what he wants." 💯
So True, I totally agree with you @Miss Will
A King walks with his Queen and still leads!
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Amen and Amen to that...Esther judged her people in the presence of her king ...him being her leader
Tell them my brother you have to be a godly leader in your house first before any women to follow you respect her worth and than she will follow know body wants a carnal man or carnal woman living in these dark times in Jesus name 🙋🏽👍🏽✋🏽❤️
@@lindagailrobinson8553 Amen sista, thank you☝️🙏💪👑🔥
💯 If a man is truly interested he will make time for you, no matter how busy he is👌🏾
Facts
Amen. I learned this recently.
Exactly!
I just learned this
Y’all teach and preach more in 10 minutes then some of these pastors preach in 10 years just keeping it 💯
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And I oop- 😅
Yaaaazzzzzzzzzz
That part 💯🎯
@@acharich lmmfao
"People don't post their failures" 👏
Facts
Most people anyway.. lol
Im not gonna catch feelings before catching prayers!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
That part!
Even after prayer.. It takes Discernment
Here is my philosophy: If it quacks like a duck,and it looks like a duck , believe that it’s a duck .Translation: If he doesn’t call,doesn’t ask you on a date ,doesn’t try to check up on you , texts you 6 days later ,girl drop him .Cut it .Quick ! But they made some valid insightful points .The problem is that we have some individuals who don’t have discernment.Something I learned to have after my mistakes .And also knowing your self worth and your value.Now that I’m single as a Pringle I have something many people don’t have ,and that’s peace . I’m so content .Let’s go Part 2!lol
I say this all the time. Peace is more valuable than money cause your spirit is not disturbed in any way. Alot of ppl are inauthentic and like the way things look vs how they feel, and they spirit will be tore up all the time fighting the truth. There's nothing like peace in life, people don't know what they missing.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
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Ima gone ahead and screenshot this ! This guy I have in mind when we talk we talk for hours & HOURS about God and we relate mentally about allot. Every blue moon he’d mention something about me being his wife. And it’s weird but it’s like he sees ME, he’d mention that he sees a higher me like a me I haven’t unlocked yet. Its weird a little lol he said I’m pure & rare like rubies. I mean it’s like he can SEE ME like my best self.. even though I’m not the best me just yet. He’s even told me what attributes my future husband would need to properly care for me tailored to what I’ve been through in trauma.
It’s been 5 years, & he’d disappear for months & he’s horrible with texting back I mean like getting a text back within 2 weeks or never really .. But he’d always call every so often , more on the side of every blue moon to check up on me and try to keep the connection by reassuring me that he cares about my well being. He’ll mention to me jokingly everytime that I forgot about him and that he’s always the one to call & check up on me.. and he’s right b/c when I don’t hear from you for a hot month or 2 I forget about you.. bc 1 I’m not going to chase you and if you really wanted to peruse me, why has it always been a little headache communicating ..
He’d come to my photoshoots when i ask him & he’d make time to come (He’s a musical artist, a Christian music artist, performing @ shows & all) but I feel like the friendship isn’t truly going anywhere. I hve mentioned hanging out but I get a feeling he doesn’t really want to. It would spark a interest but idk. We haven’t hung out as far as a one on one “let’s catch a dinner & just talk in person” instead of over the phone for hours.
He does mention that when he’s dealing with something he doesn’t like to be around people, he doesn’t want to be around individuals when he’s not his best self. So rn IDK bc I really like him & I feel like we have allot in common mentally &etc but I don’t know how to move forward with this & ask him how do we contribute to eachother even as friends when the communication feels like a one time contract sign to just communicate every 5 months.
@@TheKianaRoe Hey Sis,
I'm going to be straight up with you and tell you to block this man. He is a time waster and he throws breadcrumbs. What I mean is, he'll give you just enough to keep the fantasy going. He'll pop back up when he needs an ego refueling. I've learned through trial and error not to give a man too much time on the phone. This builds false intimacy and you "think" you know him, but you really don't. Iniating contact and asking to hang out is pursuing, which is out of order. Men pursue, women choose/accept. He is in his feminine energy with you, like he's the prize. And what happens if you "catch" him? You'd spend your relationship pursuing him, which sounds exhausting. You deserve to be courted and pursued by a man who recognizes you as the gift from God that you are. You deserve to be SURE. Like Pastor Jerry said in the video, confusion is a sign that you are not being pursued by a godly man. Block him Sis so that he doesn't distract you from who God has for you. Best wishes to you.
🔥DON'T try to fix him... RUN! 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏻♀️
Trust in the LORD...In ALL your ways ACKNOWLEDGE HIM and He WILL direct your path... Prov.3:5-6. Thanks 😍💜🙏🏾🔥
It is not our job to fix him ! It’s so cozy with a person that makes you feel good... but he does want to make your spirit feel good ? If he has you guessing or wondering or hot and cold 🥶...
Yes and Amen.
"it's a spiritual attack"...Lord I hear you
Yes!! That’s what it was
And when the Lord reveal things to you. Don't try to paint a different picture, and yes if that's the only time he say he love you. He simply mean he only love it. Women we need to stop making excuses, and stop settling. And we need to stop dating based off of society's ways of teaching us how to date, or the toxic ways we have seen our dysfunctional family members date. We get mad at the opposite sex, when we are supposed to be learning from the experience. And choosing to be better, and move and operate differently in a healthy way after that experience.
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I've noticed you commenting on other videos of theirs as well. You are very insightful.
Ma'am, please talk about how that family dysfunctionality plays a key role!
Selah.. 🔥💣
I didn’t listen to the Holy Spirit about a guy and my heart was broken this year. And while it was a lesson I didn’t need to learn through disobedience God still was good. It was a blessing in the mess. And I learned all of this and now am moving forward with only wanting to be with a man who pursues me, is intentional, clear and authentic.
I learned I’ll never have to guess with an intentional man of God!
Amen sis!
When she squints her eye you know it’s 💯
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At a young age I learned the when a guy wasn't interested and now that i'm in my 20s I changed my approach. I allowed the men to pursue and even if I had to walk away and I didn't lose anything in the process. I gained wisdom and knowledge from the lessons that I learned and the actions I would or wouldn't do again. I no longer press a situation instead I go with my flow and observe. It feels good to sit back and not have to worry myself whether a guy is interested. Let him do the leading and if he isn't then you can respectfully make your exit.
Father, help me stay girded in your belt of TRUTH. Cause I refuse to rob my RUTH.
Put the ✝ in the front, woman you are the ✝RUTH
Aawwww 🤍 God Bless You! I hope you’ve find her
@@chloethemessenger my prophetic meter for wife detection is blocked in the spurit or something! Lemme call apah-suuuu 😂
I am here for the WORD and Tanesha's reactions to Jerry's analogies.
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Yes, I love how she loves him
Right! LOL
Me too,@@deshannondirance379
Lol! Yes!
The ability to see beyond presentation and conversation 🙏🏽
Absolutely and the smoke you give because you can't answer a deep question
LET DISCERNMENT BE CLEAR
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THIS!! I'm divorced and currently in a season of singleness. My desire is to remarry and have children with the godly man that the Lord provides and shows me to. Because a man who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Thank you so much for posting this video. This has brought so much clarity to me. God bless you guys! 🙌🏼🌺
Me too.
My man is extremely busy, but will call me and check up on me. He's been doing this consistently!
@Mistake Maker I've gotten used to situationships and none sense but now that I see this. I'm never going back God willing! I pray that it's everyone's portion
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This why I started my UA-cam channel and help women heal from toxic relationships. There’s so much we don’t know. Just wrote a new book called: He Doesn’t Love You If...on Amazon. Thanks for sharing.
Awesome! I just subscribed to your channel
Just subscribed!!
Subscribed!
Amazing sis
Thank you, Jesus bless you for blessing others~✨!
🔥🔥🔥a king speaks kingdom language...and acts out kingdom life...
This is why I'm still single. Lack of kingdom men around.
Thank you Jesus!! I’m so glad I heard this. I shot my shot and dude started talking about sex. Oh nooo not here. I’m waiting. God keep showing me. 💃🏽💃🏽
Amen sis me too I needed to hear this
AMEN SISTA!!!!
Been there, done that....never again. I'm waiting on the Lord for the ONE He has for me!
Facts, sis!
Amen
Water your own grass, fertilize, weed out the weeds, on a consistent basis and you will have grass that is way more green and then mow it faithfully.
Facts!
This is so good!!! My whole last relationship .....A spiritual attack
Mine too. I didn't realize I had come so close to danger and destruction. It shook me, and I'm still recovering after five years. I'm a lot better now, but I looked over my shoulder many times.
@@reginayfavors The Lord is kind!!! I'm glad he removed me!! All the honor and glory goes to our Father
@@tasheenalewis-everhart3871 I think about God's kindness all the time. I'm surprised that I never discerned just how kind the Lord truly is. God bless. Stay safe.
My whole marriage was one. This video was confirmation 💯
Same!!!
So good! This is helping me strengthen my 'no' because I have to turn down a guy I think is good, but God is telling me 'no' on. I truly believe God put this video in my path so I could see this. So good!
Ooooh Chile! Yes! I be having to turn them down too. I be so sadddddd, but I'm learning to trust in the Lord and obey those promptings!
"Counterfeit men always think you owe them something" 🙌🏽🙌🏽
My parents taught me, counterfeiters learn by studying REAL currency! I apply that to relationships: single people spend too much time on fake examples of love. That’s why they complain so much about past failed relationships. Start focusing on the REAL, good examples, including the positive aspects of the previous failures. This will help you “discern” frauds immediately so you don’t get involved. I also believe it will help you attract the real mate right away. Because you’ll recognize them when you see them.
Exactly why I tell people to pray for discernment - that moment you can walk into a room, and know when to walk right on out the door, and say, "No that's Okay! I'm Good! Amen?! 😊
This is exactly why I am so glad to be a highly discerning individual. The Lord God in heaven kissed me with discernment way back up in the day. That's right! 😊 You guys are totally on point with this one!
Discernment is the ability to see beyond the presentation beyond the conversation
This is so true, I’ve been married for 14 yrs. Before I met my husband, I did encounter the counterfeit man and oh my goodness everything y’all said was true. I thank God for my Pastor at that time he help me discern that counterfeit man and cut him off quickly and not to long after that I met my husband, who was everything y’all described a man of God should look like and should be doing LOL amazing!!! Wow!! This I know is helping a lot of people God Bless y’all!
Married people are the best at giving singles advice!!! ❤
Healthy marriages*
I love how they feed off of each other and how they look at each other ! It’s a kingdom decision to be together! I definitely love that ! As I come off of my broken relationships, I have been in prayer for discernment and definitely asked for this very thing !!! Helping to see beyond what my eyes can.
I had that kind of spiritual attack. Wooh. I had to pray my way out and not look back. Thank you for this.
I love when she's listening to him and being blessed lol. You know when it's the first time she's heard it.
I really like the two of you working together for God’s glory, I aspire to have this one day. Not seeking it out but trusting God to bring it to pass....
" There's a problem if this man wants to hide you" ...👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Say it again. The look on his wife's face was priceless 😄
The only thing that saddens me is that there aren't many godly men of maturity who help other men. And in my own experience, there is not one person I know that I really trust, because we are living in evil times. I just take everything to God because I know I can trust God! And believe me, I've searched my entire life for elders and those that would help teach me in the right way to go. I see pastors and teachers who love being praised in churches and rarely ever have time for you or really care about you. You can't have enough decrement from God in these times! I pray to have a husband that seeks God daily with his whole heart too! If you do have a good godly pastor or friend that cares and wants your best and will point you in the right direction and correct you in love, you are so truly blessed.
"GOD I need you to help me because I'm not going to catch feelings before I catch prayer."
Pineapple ponytail and curls looks good 🍍
Can I add that there is a third kind of man? The man that has no idea what he's doing and how to do relationships? Like he isn't trying to sleep with the girl or anything, but he also has no idea how to lead. All intentions are good but never executed well.
Yess!! I dated a guy like that. So sweet but didn't know how to lead. He didn't know what he wanted or how to go after what he wanted.
This is where I find myself. In between. 😔
Yea ...and he isn’t intentional ab pursuing you even though he isn’t intentionally trying to ruin the relationship ...he aint ready...or he immature...or maybe he is not where he needs to be with God to even pursue you. He aint even pursuing God as he should. But he wasn’t intentionally trying to hurt you or lead u astray
Okay, this is where I believe I find myself. He doesn't mean to lead you astray but he does. He can't pursue because he isn't exactly where he needs to be with the Lord so he can't lead me in the way I need.
Yes, I think in today's society, this also happens a lot. A man who's not a user, but also not a king... I think in that case, when we meet a man who's well-meaning but unable to provide the guidance and leadership we need in a relationship, we should gently lead him in that direction (or tell him what we need in a kind way) and simply not expect too much of him right away and continue taking care of ourselves. If he can't or won't grow into the man that he needs to be then we may need to gently let him go and simply say that we hope we'll meet again in future (or something like that).
I had to constantly pause this & take notes. I haven't started dating yet, but I definitely am ready. I've already set boundaries years ago & I've been abstinent since 2017. I'll be weeding out the carnal men quickly. My husband will find me whole & happily single. My husband is already on his way. Love you all & stay blessed. 🙏
I believe that for you and me as well! 😊
Oh okay so y’all uploading part 2 in … 15 minutes? I’ll wait !! 🤧🔥🔥🔥
Good word!!
Sis my sentiments exactly🤣
🤣🤣🤣 1st Lady 👒had me cracking up.But the whole truth.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
God protect me from the viruses 🦠 that come to attack my spirit 🙏🏾 Amen. Counterfeits desire to learn too cause they lookin for an Avenue!🙌🏾
DAAAANNNNNNNGGGGGGGGGGG, there you go again Holy Ghost!!!!
Y’all Better PREACH !!! I pursue in a Godly manner but some females don’t want that.
It’s unreal to see. Not many have been dealt with in that way. If they are it’s fake or super religious types.
This is anointed. How I know is the way it was presented.
SOOOO GOOD Y'ALL...THANK YOU PASTOR AND FIRST LADY FOR HELPING US TO BE AWARE OF COUNTERFEITS AND TEACHING US WHAT A REAL GODLY MAN IS AND WHAT HE PURSUES!!!!!!
OMG absolutely!!! This is meat! Hallelujah! I agree! I experienced the same! And now finally have been found by a KINGdom Man! Thank you guys so much for this.
I am here watching this over and over and over again!!! Father God, I am hungry for the wisdom!!! This is so good!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Been there with counterfeit...every single word they said...and the thing is I’ve been following there ministry and the season I don’t register for wife academy....the enemy comes in with a counterfeit....and yes I was under a spiritual attack...in my sleep. The thing is I saw everything...and thank God the Holy Spirit pulled me back into his presence and told me... “no more”this season of my life is over with! I’m finally walking in my newness and seeing clearly as ever...I’ll never be the same...i so look forward to what God is doing in my life. Waiting hits different now. 🙏🙏🙏
Were you losing sleep or were you having negative dreams?
Is the man looking for Avenue or Attributes! I love that! 💔❤️🩹🙏🏻
It was the “over hear” the conversation for me 😂🤣😂
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Mrs. Flowers the looks you give always make me laugh. Y'all are helping me so much. Thanks for saying yes to God!!!
This is a spiritual attack indeed❤️💯✅ What a powerful confirmation of what I am going through!
This is so good…Prayer and Discernment.
Oh... Oh OHHHH THIS IS SO FOR ME! THE LORD is ALL in my business!
LITERALLY
Wow I asked God for confirmation that I made the right choice to let go of someone and this video really showed me the truth. God is amazing. He really loves his children and sends you Warnings
I PREFER counsel from someone that has BEEN where I'm trying to go...not from jealous competitors who are trying to lead me to failure...instead of to God's vision for me...so THANK YOU Pastor and 1st lady Flowers!
OH! THIS IS SOME GOOD STUFF!!!
"You are upset over someone who just settled " yessss. 👏👏🖐️🖐️🖐️
This was for me!..Thanks y’all‼️
Y’all never disappoint. Thank you for keeping me accountable over the years
I just walked away from a marriage that was a spiritual attack. I'm glad it happened because it brought me on thus journey to seek God's Face.
“Our blemishes proves our authenticity “!!! I’ve had braces twice to get rid of my gap and it came back both times , I’ve decided that I look beautiful with my gap and it defines a part of me
I need a whole series on this topic 🙌🏽
People don't believe MEN OF GOD go thru the foolery too!
I didn’t believe it until now. My ex kept telling me this I wouldn’t believe it now I have to apologize
@@mslady312 listennnn! Them heifers Jezebel, Delilah, athaliah, lillith, and the queen of heaven (2nd) are no joke.
The old testament jezebel spirit has nothing on the The New testament Jezebel in Revelation 2:20
@@mslady312 oh and potiphars wife too!
@@bo_arrow its because of the call and grace of God on your life
@@fumsy50 straight facts! All caps! No lies detected
Ha! "You can keep scrolling...." I genuinely love them.
I don’t chase, thank God! I’m Waiting & I’m Trusting God ! ❤️ All Your Messages #SometimesItsASpiritualAttack
"Ma'am...?!...Could it be he's talking to the sex?".... Woo Lord!!! Welp!!! #TheEavesdroppingHasGotToStop 🤦🏾♀️
This is right on time!!! I needed this reminder.
This is so good 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🔥🔥🔥🔥
This is a right on time word! I needed to hear this!
Whew. That was heavy, and good.
I just love y'all!!.. Your messages are so on point.
Yeah I don’t call/text men first in dating phase. I’ve noticed men tend to think I don’t like them bc of that, but it’s just not natural to me. I focus on being warm and transparent when I’m in his presence. That’s how you know I’m interested. It won’t be because I called you first. I just move on from the men who expect that from me. Because it’s telling of who they are. As you said, Kingdom men will pursue and lead. And furthermore he will recognize the passive posture of a Kingdom woman and appreciate it.
You stay bringing the bars. I'm shook.
I appreciate this ministry. Keep addressing these issues, we need this! Please and thank you!
Oh this is soooooooo good and needed beyond measure!!!
Bless you two!!!!
Whew! 🔥🔥🔥🔥 AND MORE🔥🔥🔥🔥!. Discernment- that part! Gotta reshare this on my page ! Thank you for your labor of love and obedience. ❤️
Thank you Jesus for your word that has just delivered my soul from the darkness.Thank you Jesus for yours servants that brought the word.Bless Mr and Ms Flower and theirs children forever and always in Jesus name,Amen ❤
This is so good! I needed to hear this. It's not new but I'm in a place to really hear and put into action what you're putting forth on this. Thank you!
This was so good! Thank you both for sharing these principles with us!!
Ok so this video ended like a whole cliffhanger lol!! I was hanging on to your every word. Love y’all!! Keep on delivering the truth outchea, so thankful I found y’all’s channel!! ❤️
This was so amazing!!!
So good!! 🔥🔥🔥 beginning to end!
What!!!!! Y’all are so 💯 I’m subscribing just because of this right here…. Thank y’all 🙌🏾
Preach it 🔥🔥🔥🔥. Hallelujah . God’s timing ⏱. Not mine . God’s glory, not mine ,God’s will , no mine , God’s plan not mine.
Lol i just want my own session with these two. 😆