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There is nothing more lovely than the evolution of a woman as she grows more into herself with age.
Thank you so much!
This is a beautiful comment. I agree.
I love this comment and I agree!
So true..
Wow, love this, so powerful. Explains what I'm in the process of doing. thank you
I’m 69 years old. I got into this trip because I want more of two precious resources: time and money in my pocket. It’s taking much longer than I expected, because life happens, but I’m getting there. To all younger people out there: start yesterday! ❤️
Start yesterday - I love it!
Exactly!
I'm in my 60s so glad comment from mature age perspective regards australia
Back in 2008, my mother passed away and we had to go through her things prior to selling her apartment. I was heartbroken and there was a lot of crying however, I did get rid of 95% of her belongings. Most were donated including old kitchen supplies. My husband accused me of not being sentimental and I told him that my feelings for her went beyond pots and pans-end of discussion. Thanks again for your wonderful channel.
Pots and pans have nothing to do with how you feel about your mother!
I am going through that now and not taking much because I was a minimalist before she passed. Thank you for your affirming comments.
I swear, my blood pressure drops when I watch her videos.
So happy to hear that!
YESSS
Yes! I watch her after a long work day, doesn't matter if I've seen the video 163 times 😅
Yes!!! Just measured before and after ;))) 128/80 vs 119/75. Lol
@@Marsolan 🤣🤣🤣
An alternative pov: I was minimalist until I also married someone who felt uncomfortable in "hotel-like spaces" meaning not sort of padded with memory-provoking art, textures. I was not sentimental. But I came to understand for people without good recall, the object *facilitates* memory, which facilitates and invokes feeling. My spouse *needs* a space that has these things to be able to access memory. And as I've aged myself I understand much more fully the power of objects to help in recall. One could make an argument that if you don't readily recall something it isn't worth remembering ... but to me it's become about the energy stored in objects- the pillowcases my grandmother embroidered aren't my grandmother, but some of her art, her mind, lives on in her handiwork. My own memory has grown faulty, and I'm surprised now at how some things that have narrowly evaded being decluttered have grown more meaningful to me.
I think I understand what you're saying. I have art work and photos on my walls from people and places where I've travelled. They keep them fresh in my mind. And being on my walls, I dont mind less clutter on horizontal surfaces. Besides, with the memories on my walls, I feel surrounded by people and experiences that enriched my life.
"I don't see the point in dwelling in the past. I can't turn back time and redo things but I can make decisions now that will affect the future." Thanks for this reminder! I honestly still have difficulty letting go of things (and people).
Thank you so much for watching!
I like your comment about passing on things to your son if he wants them. I see so many people keeping things for their children without seemingly thinking that their children might not want them.
Yes,! Don’t assume that because you enjoyed it your kids will too.
Boy, so true. When my mom died, we had a house with three generationsʻ worth of stuff, plus the barns, plus the land and all the farm equipment to figure out what to do with. It took the four of us siblings who are still alive, two weeks, four times, in the space of a year, to get it all done. My mom saved (literally) **everything** . As I was growing up I was the one who said "let me clean out the cabinets for you, Mother!" -- and the last time I did that, as a teenager, was the last time it got done for 40+ years. I told her I didnʻt like how messy the house was. She told me that this was *her* house, and that someday Iʻd have *my* house, and then I could keep it the way I wanted -- but this was *her* house and *her* way. So, okay then. But WE were the ones who had to clean it all up. Two of my siblings wanted to keep everything of hers. I wanted a few things, but kept very little. We filled-to-overflowing two huge dumpsters full of stuff. Everything was so used and worn out, nothing much had any value anymore.
So true.... what use would my sons have of photos of people they never knew.
Now that I’ve hit 60 I felt it was time to let past memorabilia go..... straight to the charity shops.
My apartment feels light and fresh now without all the clutter... and so do I 😊
I don't get the types who are hardcore about minimalism and counting the number of things while depriving themselves. The whole concept seems more meaningful when it's just about having the right amount of stuff you like, use, and can easily maintain.
Wisdom in minimalism is not just “less things”, it’s a philosophy of being happy.. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you so much for watching!
This past year I had to clear out my parents house that they lived in for 50 years. It was a heartbreaking task. There was so much STUFF it was impossible to know what was really valuable to them. I don’t want my own daughter to ever have to go through that turmoil with my stuff. Thank you for being a source of inspiration. I will continue to go at my own pace , but always moving forward with less. I’m telling everyone, I don’t want THINGS ~I want experiences. ❤️
What a beautiful testimony. My mom past away a month ago, and it's been so hard for me and my sister to manage her stuffs and paper and things... and so many "touching memories". I am feeling exactly like you, I don't want no one suffering for my things when my time comes, I want to be in my family` and friend` memories, not my things.
Thanks for sharing your feelings and thoughts.
Greetings from Brazil.
@@SilviaNevesSP thank you for that nice reply. I love that Benita has a community that can see the similarities we have with each other all over the world 🌍 I’m sorry for your loss. Grief is a journey that we know is coming but are never ready to take. Be gentle with yourself.
Hugs from California
You might enjoy the book, “The gentle art of Swedish death cleaning,” by Margareta Magnusson.
The black and white photos of you and your parents you should definitely keep.
I'm keeping the album so they're staying 😀
I agree with you wholeheartedly! You don't have to have things to love or remember someone from the passed. Love is in your heart not in bins and closets 🙂
When my husband became empty nesters sold our large 3500 square foot suburban home I moved into a uptown 1300 square foot condo, we sold, gave away and donated 95% of our possession. There was no regret or unhappiness, we kept what was important and really loved, the rest was just stuff. I took photographs of some things that were wonderful memories but didn't want to keep, I have the pictures to remember. But in all honesty I rarely look at them anymore , the past is the past I live for today and look forward to our future 🙂🍁
Great content!!!
Thank you so much for sharing!
I like how you’re straightforward and choose every word you speak at a necessary level. That’s true minimalism.
Having grown up an Army brat, we were always paring down, anticipating the next move. It just seemed natural to live minimally.
My ex-husband always had too much of everything, but he became somewhat of a hoarder after retirement. The day my car sat outside in a foot of snow while his stuff sat snug and dry in the garage, I knew it was time to part. No more fighting about clutter, mice and bugs.
I can totally relate!
I love minimalism. I cannot stand clutter, I absolutely hate clutter. I don't like to have lots of things around me, cluttered places actually upset me. I do not understand why many North Americans think that decorating means filling every available space with "stuff." The most important thing in a home (besides its occupants) are space and light, and neither should be compromised imo.
"...things that bring no value to my life." I think that phrase captures my journey to downsize and declutter...whatever everyone else calls it doesn't matter as long as I am happy. Thank you, Benita!
For those minimizing on family letters, photographs or other historically valuable objects. Please check with your local (city, region, province/state, country) museums to see if they would like to add them to their databases. Even if they don't want to keep them, they might want to scan them. These personal artifacts are incredibly valuable for those studying sociology, architecture, art, history or anything else that requires a look into the past. Happy decluttering and simple living!
I agree. The journey to one's authentic self embraces the seasons of change and is therefore liberating and restorative.
When I had a garden I liked pruning the plants. They look nice and tidy and I was encouraging healthy growth. Minimalism seems like a similar process.
Yes, that’s a great comparison!
One small photobook capturing key moments from your life with some explanatory text is a good option rather than individual photos or albums. It will become a treasured item once the memories fade in old age, and will help future family members should they want to do a family tree or learn more about the people who came before them. I am forever grateful to my own mother (born in 1923) who wrote a book about her life growing up and our early family life. in her 80s and 90s, Mum spent many happy hours reading the book and also reading it aloud to her grandchildren and great grandchildren. Of course, we don’t need that book to remember our mother, grandmother and great grandmother, but when I read it her voice comes back to me along with many happy memories of a life well lived.
Hi Benita! I'm from Portugal and i've been watching your videos. The more we get rid of things we don't need, the more we live in peace and harmony. Greetings from Portugal.
Just watching your surroundings make me feel calm. I’ve been going through my things more and more re-evaluating what I own and want to keep. Strange how people can be judgemental about minimalism. Why wouldn’t it be different for everyone?! 🙂
Yes, to each their own!
I’m a minimalist living in Rio de Janeiro. Hugs from Brazil ☀️
Thank you so much for watching!
I like seeing minimalist homes, and am more and more minimal as I get older, but I am not naturally a minimalist. I love my comfort. I love pretty things. I like to decorate. But I do keep decluttering. Last year I went through all of my Christmas decor and donated a lot. My master bedroom closet is always in need of paring down :) I have some things in my kitchen cupboard I know I need to donate and will when I am able ( I fell 2 months ago and sprained my arm and leg and am still recovering) I hope you are doing well Benita. I always enjoy your videos. Thank you for sharing. 💐🌷🌹🍀🌞🏜️🌵💐🌷💐🌷🌹🍀🌞🏜️🌵💐🌷
Wishing you a speedy recovery!
I watch some American youtubers and I see the intense need of seasons decor, even buying new (and unnecessary) stuff made in china every year. I wonder why they feel obliged to set a Valentines, Easter, Spring, etc style to their houses... Kudos to Benita!!
@@mla701 We just really enjoy celebrating the seasons and holidays. Many people keep the same seasonal/holiday decor year after year, while others certainly do buy more each year. We are so very blessed to be Americans :)
@@BenitaLarsson Thank you Benita, you as well :) 💐🌷🌹🍀🌞🏜️🌵💐🌷
"If the person is worth remembering, you will." Lol. So blunt, but true--I love it. 💕
My husband and I want to travel the world more than anything, so we are constantly trying to be minimal (it's an ongoing process). Also, we hate looking around and seeing a cluttered home, when we could have used that money to travel more. There is no need to have "things" just to impress other people, we want to live for what makes us happy.
Such a good mindset!
I'm always looking forward for your videos. Great esthetics, on point and durable materials. What's not to like?
Take care dear Benita 💞🌷
Aww, thank you so much!
Hi, the photos were commended in German language :-) Like this
“I have exactly what I want and need.” 👏🏻
Minimalism is a way of life common in Scandinavia(Sweden, Denmark, Norway and North of Germany), as someone who comes from Portugal and lived in Sweden in 90s is a very simple way of decorating and dressing in a much simple and pure way. Even before Minimalism become the word du jour in the 90s with Jill Sander( by the way she comes from Hamburg but always lived in Schleswig -Holstein) which by the way used be to Denmark. As this Nordic countries are Lutheran if you go to a Lutheran church they are the exponent of Minimalism(because all is simple there is no subterfuges like in our Catholic churches. I personally love Minimalism but is my own Minimalism. I simple love your videos because it makes remember the apartment of my former Swedish in Law ( Sven & Elsa Lavermark).
So glad you enjoy my videos!
Hoping you are well Benita. I'm nowhere near a minimalist, however I play your vlogs frequently to get me moving re cleaning and sorting! Wishing you a gentle journey in your treatment.
Thank you so much!
Your whole approach to minimalism is not just practical it’s really fun and that’s what makes the difference. Plus we got to see Mini!
Thank you so much!
Thank you for your calming inspiration. It’s cold and dark here in Canada too in the winter months.
Hello! I am a minimalist, and because of that, since I moved to a smaller apartament, I have decluttered furniture, clothes, kitchen stuff, books, and everything that brings confusion to my eyes. My furniture now is clean, and I love your videos. So minimalism is inside before it is outside. Love your videos !
Bravo! Well said Benita :) Thank you... I am moving to a 1 bedroom apartment from a 3 bedroom townhouse in 2 months...I have been cleaning out my stuff...omg the stuff you accumulate....I am letting go of meaningless stuff...some of it is hard.. but i would rather concentrate on important events in my life...like the birth of a second grandson coming in May :)
Congratulations on the grandbaby!
I agree. Holding onto a few select items is much more impactful than a ton of stuff. Experiences mean more than things. And, allowing your children the choice of keeping or tossing relieves inherited "guilt" syndrome. Love your thought process. Thanks for sharing. ❤️
Thank you so much!
I have to declutter because I move into a smaller flat. I had an attempt to declutter a couple of years ago. This was such a lovely experience. I felt free. Now I have to get rid of even more stuff and I'm looking forward to it.
Thanks for your inspiration
Your flat is beautiful🥰 hope you are doing fine and gaining strength and health😊
I am, thank you!
Ohhhh your mum is German? She wrote the notes in the album in German. 😍 Ich liebe deine Videos. Alles Gute und gute Nacht!
Yes, she’s from Germany!
Greetings from the Desert! Always look forward to your videos, Benita, as your content is always thought provoking. I recently rid of a box of photos from my childhood and kept only two.
I have one photo I have is of my parents on their wedding day. What makes it even more special is that it includes both sets of immigrant grandparents. So when I feel my "American Life" is stressing me out, I look to that picture knowing that my maternal grandparents came from Madeira Island to the U.S. with nothing. My paternal grandfather came to America with his parents from Sicily with nothing and my paternal Grandmother was sent with her four siblings from Ireland to live with relatives after they had been orphaned. Usually that's enough for me to get over myself and move on! lol
Thank you for sharing!
So true about "not having things that don't bring value to my life". Used to live like that. I'm trying to get back to living with basics like I did when young. Thanks, Benita for the reminders! Stay safe and well.
Thanks so much for watching!
I love your videos. I'm looking at the older ones as well as the recent ones. I think we could be sisters: I don't like overloaded colors and environments. Long live simplicity! I am so grateful to have found you! May life be sweet with you. Thank you so much. 🖤
Long live simplicity indeed!🙌🏻
I notice the captions in your childhood photo album are in German 😊. Your mother was German?
She was!
My signal that I need to declutter an area is when I have to move something to get to something else (which is my pet peeve). The second is taking pics of an area and looking at it. That avoids "getting used to an area's clutter". Like fresh eyes on a space. The last is use. That was helpful with my nail care drawer. I realized that I just don't paint blue on my nails anymore, nor orange or sparkles. lol Just got rid of it.
Thank you Benita. Hope you are feeling ok. Love your apartment.
Another great video. Guessing your parents were German based on the handwriting in your albums? My mom was from Mainz and I spent much of my first 12 years of life living in Germany while Dad was in military and went to Vietnam. When I think of minimalism, I think of a calmness in my surroundings and in me. I love how you share your life as it encourages me to continue to reach my goals. My husband holds on to things. I am ready to get rid of things. Not him, mind you😂, but all of his clutter. So I too, organize for him and I may toss and donate things when he is not here.
Hugs from Florida❣️
My mom is German, my dad was Finnish Swedish!
I think it’s difficult to downsize photographs of the family. As I started my family in 96 , I had a lot repetitive images. So I took them out of albums and selected the best of that year and put them in time dated envelopes.This means the children can follow their childhood but neatly kept in a shoebox.
I so need to do the same .
I discovered your channel weeks ago and enjoy watching all content you created on minimalist! They are inspiring and I think I can find my own way to declutter things that I don't need and live a happier life with fewer things! Thank you!
Your videos make me feel very peaceful, I am always so excited when I see that you uploaded a new video.
Glad you like them!
Benita, you've inspired me! After watching this I got out the large plastic container of photos I've had since my mother passed and started going through them - it was surprising how many of them I was able to throw away without feeling pang! Blurry, faded, meaningless landscapes, duplicates and tons of people I don't know (from my mom) or that, frankly, don't matter to me. I aim to reduce that number until I can fit them all in a single photo album which I actually might look at once in a while - when you have a whole carton of photos you think you're saving all these memories but, at least for me, it was just overwhelming and I haven't looked at them in years (though that didn't stop me from feeling guilty that I should sort out that box 'one day'). Much better to have a small number of what is truly meaningful. And, of course, by taking responsibility, I won't be leaving it for other people sort out when I pass...as always, hugs, best wishes and thanks from cold, sunny Chicago!
I’ve been decluttering for about 5 years but I also love home decor & have way too many pillows, blankets & picture frames. I’ve made good progress though.
Hallo Benita👋, Du hast es soo schön. Ich kann leider kein Englisch, da aber im Album Deutsch geschrieben war, denke ich, dass Du das hier lesen kannst. Alles so geschmackvoll eingerichtet. Vielleicht könntest Du deutschen Untertitel einschalten. Alles Gute. Liebe Grüße Claudia 💁
I agree on everything apart from not keeping photos and memories of being a teenager. I had everything stolen (my entire house and belongings.....long story) on my 30th birthday many moons ago; I long for those lost photos and memories (wedding day, birth of my only son, etc). Essentially, my life started from scratch from that day forward, as I did not own a single item ''post theft' (apart from my car and the clothes I stood up in). Although in hindsight it was quite liberating in some ways, it saddens me so much in others.....long lost photos of my best friend and I, who was killed in a road accident when she was just 16 years old 😪 I would probably call my situation 'forced minimalism' which probably is not the same thing as choice.
I’m so sorry you had to go through that!
I've been watching soooo many of your videos whilst having a gentle weekend, your style and tone of voice are both so soothing. Keep up the amazing work!
I hope you kept those letters, photos and select family items for your son. I absolutely treasure such things that my parents left behind, far more than they did. They were minimalists--my Mother loved Danish modern and Japanese furniture and decor and her house looked a lot like your apartment!--and it surprises me that they didn't purge them, but my Dad did have a real sentimental streak, thankfully. I am roughly midway between you and my Mom and a clutterbug LOL. I don't have too much trouble getting rid of 90% of "stuff" but if I'd been able to have a child, I definitely would have given them the choice of what to do with family mementos. Photographs and letters are particularly precious. After you are gone, it might really mean something to your son to read letters you wrote when you were young.
I also believe it's important to keep such things for memory purposes. It's optimistic to say that you remember so why keep the images etc...but living with someone who has Alzheimer's as I do, I am sadly aware that memory is no more durable than the fragile organ which contains it. It's actually been very comforting and helpful to my husband to see images of people and places from his past, even if he doesn't consciously remember them anymore.
it is so nice to see somebody who has a normal approach to this topic.
Hello, Benita! I love seeing a notification that you have posted a video.
My husband and I are somewhat minimalist, and I found this video to be very inspiring. As spring comes, it is the perfect time to evaluate what I own.
I will blame the pandemic, but I find myself feeling more and more sentimental about cards and such from my parents. Pre-pandemic, I stayed with them at least once a week, and it's been nearly one year since I've spent any good amount of time with them or hugged them. Somehow, the cards are serving as a placeholder until I can give them both big hugs.
I hope that you are well.
Hopefully we can all hug soon again!
I love your apartment so always a joy to see it and hear your voice. I was born a natural minimalist but my husband is the opposite so I’ve done my best to accept it but sometimes I dream of starting over in a smaller space with only things I love. ☺️
Compromising is hard but one day!
Downsizing is great. It makes us feeling in control of life
I gotta confess... i loved Martin's boat room. And his book collection. Visually, it was so interesting and the room seemed so cozy! 😀😀
It was a nice room!
Loved seeing the photos of you as a little girl, so cute. You are an inspiration, love your nice home and how you keep it. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you so much!
Loved this, and loved the questions at the end: yes, I would like a calmer, more focused life. But I live with a semi-hoarder. Big win -- he has agreed to downsize his books and papers, so that is a start.
ALWAYS enjoy your videos. They are so calming. And I love your apartment! Missouri USA
Minimalism has always been a way of life for me since my late teens. Clutter suffocates me and I feel mentally at peace and much more comfortable owning fewer things. Chores don't take too long because I don't have cupboards and drawers overflowing with stuff. Everything has a 'home' and the feelings I have from minimalism make me feel calm and content. I'm not particularly sentimental but the photos of my children growing up are treasure to me.
I agree that less clutter equals more peace!
I am pretty much a minimalist. Always have been. I may have cleared horizontal surfaces, but I do have paintings and artwork and photos on my walls. Not a lot, I keep most of them in a storage and swap them out every few months. But my paintings, artwork and photos are either from people I care about or from travels throughout my life. This way,, I am always surrounded by wonderful experiences and love - all I have to do is look at my walls.
I have been following your channel for at least 10 years now and can relate to your matter of fact outlook on life . Thanks for posting !
Thank you so much for watching!
minimalism is individual...☺
thank you, always enjoy your videos....
Like you, Benita, I parted with items passed down through the family. I’ve got the memories. Any photos where I look bad or are of just scenery I parted with. You can accumulate a lot of ephemera in your life and I find it best to keep only what’s most meaningful. Hope your treatment is going well.
It is, thank you!
you are a cozy minimalist. its awesome! I've see some hard core minimalist rooms, and they are so cold and echo. I know that's not the way I want to live. If they don't like it ,they can stick it where sun doesn't shine.
Thank you so much! 😊
And content like this is why I enjoy your channel so much. It's more of a conversation and guide point than dogmatic pushing of a value system. You and I agree on approaching minimalism. It's really pleasant. Progress and adapting is so important! It's not supposed to be hard. It ought to be fun.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I like to hear and see how you have decided to “become “ a minimalist. I think you shows that a woman or man can be decisive with life. I also think that you have sentimental values because of the beautiful words you mentioned about your son and his girlfriend. I’m 63 year olds and I see you as a good role model.,it’s good to see you!🙏🌹🙏
Thank you so much for watching!
amazing video once again Benita! I love your recommendation of "Decide what minimalism is to you"; not many people mention this. Minimalism is different for everyone and it should be based on you wants and needs. :) cheers from Canada!
So glad you enjoyed the video!
Thanks for these reasons...very helpful even for those who are minimalist as far as reinforcing why we chose this lifestyle. I appreciate all the time and effort you put into your content and videos. When I feel rushed or overwhelmed, I’ll put on one of your videos and find them calming. Your content and voice are soothing. Thank you!
I love your apartment - those grey throws are something.
Love my grey throws!🙌🏻
Always been fond of minimalism even before it became a rage.It's an attitude that works for you..it also helps you to be organised and gives you space both in the phy realm and more so in the mind
I recently discovered your channel and I love watching your calming and inspiring videos! I am trying to apply minimalism in my own life -- but I live with someone who is the absolute opposite, just like you said in this video! He likes to collect and is constantly bringing things home because they were free, or because he thinks they might be useful "one day." It drives me crazy! I wonder if you can make a video with tips on how to compromise and live with a person like this while pursuing minimalism yourself, especially when it comes to keeping your shared spaces visually decluttered. Thank you and love the channel!
Compromise is the name of the game. I did it for 20+ years.
❤ I find it very inspiring to hear your wisdom on minimalism. I saved this video as I also watched it twice and took notes. I have researched this topic and have begun decluttering my stuff since last year. But I get in these groves when I don't physically do nothing about it. Your plain , simple wisdom has been ringing bells in my head, sort of speak. Thank You. 🤗
I think I too have always been a minimalist at heart. Well before "Minimalism" became a buzz word, I would often say, "Keep only what you need and only what you love." I still follow that doctrine.
As always beautiful, tranquil content. I have learned so many decorating tips from you and life has become simpler and clutter free. Hope you're feeling better. Thanks for another lovely video.
Thank you so much!
Hello Spoly
Hi i'm from Indonesia,thank you for sharing this !
I really can't imagine not being sentimental... It's just the way I am and yes, it's true that it can make it so hard to be a minimalist. The past is such an important part of me, of who I am, who my family is and everything that reminds me of my parents and grandparents is so precious. There are so many things I don't remember, and I suspect that it will get even harder with time. Also, I loved the book collection you showed! That's another thing I find hard to get rid of; books. As long as I love them, of course. But goo for you to be able to be a minimalist :)
I think you and I were separated at birth! Everything you were saying was me! Including my husband. He holds on to stuff and has clutter in his office. I struggle with that. Now, our daughter is the same way. Our son is more like me. I like things very tidy and organized too. Your home looks like BLISS to me!❤️
Two peas in a pod!
Hi Benita, Good to see you. I enjoyed your video. Your home looks calm and clean. All that matters is what makes you happy.
Exactly, make your home a happy place whatever that means to you!
I have a kind of boho cottage vibe going in our home so it might seem strange that I have been a subscriber of yours for a while, but equally strangely is that part of me is also a covert minimalist as well, and I just love looking at the cool, calm, white interior of your beautiful home and listening to your soothing voice. Your lovely videos make me sigh and I’m always smiling by the end...then I look around at the beamed ceiling and deep red walls of my sitting room and it’s tiny windows with chintz curtains and smile happily about that too! I don’t have clutter though, and also like you, I don’t hang onto memorabilia and things I don’t use/need. We all have our preferences and there is no right or wrong, just what’s right for us personally...but both appeal to me 😁💛💐🏴
To each their own and it’s a good thing!
@@BenitaLarsson Yes! 😁🧡💐
Ah yes, photos. Such a personal thing, is it? I did the same, just one album left. The kids have their box full and a hard disk. For them to choose what to do with it. The rest is a journey, letting go and/or love it. Nobody can decide what minimalism is for you. A bizarre thought. Thanks for the video. ;>*
Photos are tricky but every time I do a declutter I still find some that make no sense for me to keep so slowly but surely!
I am not a minimalist, by any means, but I am MESMERIZED by your lifestyle! Just watching your videos makes me feel calm and relaxed. I am a sentimental American girl with Scandinavian DNA and I cling to all our family mementos from Sweden (trunks, anything with rosemaling, dala horses, etc). I dream of living in Sweden. 🇸🇪
Hej,
would love to hear more!
What are trunks, dala horses and rosemaling?
😊
@@FrogeniusW.G. I have two of the trunks my ancestors brought with them when they immigrated here to the US. (With their name and address hand painted on) I also have a very old clock that came with them; it was probably their most valuable possession.
I have hauled this stuff with me through every move but it brings me so much happiness because stories and meaning are associated with them. That’s why I will probably never be a minimalist. 😂
@@FrogeniusW.G. P.S. you must know what dala horses are, yes??
Gorgeous video Benita ..I hope you’re well on the road to recovery . Thank you once again , for sharing a glimpse into your calm and beautiful life ❤️
Thank you so much for watching!
Thanks for being a good friend to your viewers!
Back in the 90s it used to be called simple living or voluntary simplicity, it‘s always appealed to me tho‘ perhaps not quite as strongly as current extreme minimalism; I am a lot more sentimental and my own and my family history are very important to me and my three daughters. But I have always avoided overcomplicated gadgets or large unwieldy furniture, preferring the simplest and nicest quality available to me! I enjoy your aesthetic (I used to follow your blog) even if it would be too stark and modern for me personally. I agree that things shift as we age, too, we need less and less.
You're always able to give a unique perspective on a well-worn topic. Love your videos so much
I get so excited when I see that you have posted a new video! Short but so full of useful life tips. And --- your home is so calming. All that glorious space!!!!!!
Thank you so much!
First, I find you and your videos very inspiring. Secondly, it perplexes me when others comment on the degree of minimalism someone practices. For me, I’m not really a minimalist. Keeping things simple and working smarter not harder is what I aim for. Sometimes that means having a lot of something and less of something else.
Yes, there is a saying......eliminate and concentrate.... I am no minimalist but I am eliminating things (and people) that don't add value so I can concentrate on those that do.....😊👍
Hi Benita! I hope you're doing well. Thank you for another wonderful video! I was so tickled that you highlighted Erin Boyle's class on Skillshare. I read her blog (Reading My Tea Leaves) religiously; it's one of my absolute favorites!
I loved her class and her aesthetic!
Advice from an expert, clearly. I like how your line of thinking is clean cut but not rigid. Many thanks. We are about to move and I will certainly delve into the stuff that just sits there eating rent and witholding enjoyment. Less is more. 🕊 📚 🗑
You are unique, I love your stile and for me is minimalist. I admire you very much!! Hope your ok with your health. I’m from Mexico City
Thank you, you're so sweet!
Just spotted this! Makes my day! 😁❤️👍 Contentment is a key concept for me with minimalism. Making careful choices and being content with enough.
Makes me happy that it makes you happy!
It’s always great to see your videos, dear. I’m hoping that everything is going well for you.
Love this video and the beauty of minimalism is that its is specific to a person's wants and needs! Thanks for sharing this Benita!
Thank you so much for watching!
@@BenitaLarsson I hope to share our journey like you as well! Thanks for being an inspiration! :)
Estoy de acuerdo contigo...el minimalismo es individualista, no se trata de seguir un patrón que alguien haya estructurado sino de adecuarse a los propios patrones que te hacen vivir cómoda y feliz con las pertenencias que tenemos....cierto que una vez que empiezas a desprenderte, te das cuenta de que puedes prescindir de mucho más y ya no hay vuelta atrás, sigues y sigues....pero es tan liberador sentir esa energía limpia a tu alrededor!!!.. gracias, me gustan mucho tus vídeos 🥰
Dear Madame Benita, hoping you are OK already, wish you nice days! I like your style so so much....good luck!