My dear friend,Am 33 years and have been married for 16 years but what I can tell you is look for positive things in your husband and leave the negatives aside if you want to enjoy your marriage. Learn to appreciate him not all men can enter the kitchen,You a lucky to have him,love from uganda
I totally agree with you , I use to complain when I ask my husband to do something one day I was complaining about something he said you never appreciate nothing I do when he said it I feel it to my soul because it was true that day I apologize and STOP when I asked him to do something we work together it help me to STOP complain and thank him for his help
This gal doesn't know how blessed she is. Wame hama Mara ngapi, shopping a nafanyiwa, anasaidiwa kupika, kuosha vyombo. They have bonding times na hubby. Sio kama sisi wengine tulitupwa gishagi. Anavisit holiday na tunaachwa bila pesa ya matumizi. Weuuh pple don't appreciate what they have. Smh🤔
I have been a silent follower but weuh Let us learn to appreciate the little things jameni,it doesn't cost much Vitu unaona ni mbaya kwako kwa wengine ndio wanatamani ata tone tu Be accomodative
Hello, I am really happy to see your growth but its like Men have that Hand.. of using alot of Oil. You don't have to talk to him harshly... You can Just Say it like a Light Joke " Eiii Babe Leo si Tutanona na hii Mautamu na mafuta😂"... and Appreciate his efforts but correct lovingly. Break the "My mom used to..." My 2cents😊
HI YOU ARE AN AMAZING MUM You can find ways of correcting someone in a kind way without tampering with their esteem just practice more kindness and more kindness also next time just get in the kitchen with him you put the oil yourself with time he will get. You don't have to pass the same habits from mum to your family it should end with you practicing kindness and finding ways of correcting people without shouting probably Isco learns a lot from that too,, God bless you n your fam.
From that I don't think he'll ever try to cook for the family again!!!! Correct with kindness makelele baki ukipiga when he's not around but not on social media and not with your family or friends 😂
True complaining is not good. And for the umpteenth time keep your family issues out of the public. You are a wonderful mum and hardworking girl.......
I know at times our spouses do things that are annoying and tempting to us but arguing and fighting is not a solution. When you rem the love you two share, you'll be able to tell them in a nice way so that next time they do better. To avoid such arguments you should settle any 'beef' or grudge and when your hearts are in Connection without anger, there will be no arguments. You know men are like kids at times, sometimes if you are angry, just keep quiet cz unaeza sema kitu uregret baadae. Women compromise more in marriages than men
You really love complaining coz you have spent minutes complaining about your husband it's already done hata wewe Kuna vitu unafanyanga na hapendi so learn to complain for a minute and get over it
Just be thankful to your Man and stop nagging🛑some of them they don’t even know the door to the kitchen yawa you so lucky Wandia,anyway ❤all the way you got this🙏🏾
Mungu akusaidiye sababu sifizuri kungobana namume wako tena inafaa ushikuru alikupikiya siwengi wanafanya hivyo piya yeye diye anabai so Mungu akusaidiye
Why do people struggle so hard to be a couple when clearly it ain't working is it for the kids or to maintain an outside picture coz personaly for me it's draining, stressful and unhealthy Wandia you complain a lot it's okay to be alone btw.
OR MAYBE WE'VE BEEN GETTING IT WRONG.... MAYBE WE'VE BEEN ACCUSING THE WRONG PERSON....The way she's complaining you might think she's talking about someone else..... that's why it's said don't judge....wueh!
Wandia yawa, correct your husband with love. He took his time to make the meal and the little you could have done is atleast appreciate the effort. Complaining here for minutes over yur hubby using too much oil to cook, I wonder how it was over there. Remember you have a son watching you two and he is learning from you. Massage your hubbys ego, dont crush it. None is perfect, none at all, but I will tell you again to solve your marital issues away from youtube or social media. Ukikasirika weka maji kwa mdomo, iteme hasira ikipoa!
Tell him you enjoyed his cooking and the meal was amazing but it had a bit too much oil next time aweke kidogo tu in a loving way. Ukiskia kuongea vibaya the way your mom did,Remember he is your husband not your sibling or child. Upbringing ni different kwao maybe they use too much oil. Unakua mtu understanding and move.
Hey sis,i feel some of these things,you find a married woman(one you look up to)or a marriage counselor (if you can afford one)and ask for advice on such things.I love your content but from one woman to another,please try and keep your marital affairs as private as possible and out of your content kabisa.(What people dont know they can't destroy). Doesn't matter how tiny you think the issue is,your marriage is a crucial relationship in your life,give it the privacy it needs. With love,me😊
Nasikue anjiona kama yeye malaika makosa niya bwana tu.sometimes my husband huweka food salt mob na mshow food nitamu lakini salt ndiyo imeharibu siku hizi anapika mbila salt bila salt ama amanita niweke salt na kama siko kwa hao haweki
Wueh..stop talking about the oil already ...manze he helped you and the least you can do is make him feel horrible... imagine if he complained about something you did for two days..how would you feel..poor guy
You would have appreciated and told him in a nice way but venting for 10 mins about his cooking was not so good and you are saying you want to change. Imagine if he watches the video and he sees how you are talking about him.
Hi gal all I can tell u is that it takes a lot of energy to kugombana.if ur hubby does something that u don’t like breath in and out then tell him what u don’t like .Nobody likes kugombanishwa
My dear friend,Am 33 years and have been married for 16 years but what I can tell you is look for positive things in your husband and leave the negatives aside if you want to enjoy your marriage. Learn to appreciate him not all men can enter the kitchen,You a lucky to have him,love from uganda
I totally agree with you , I use to complain when I ask my husband to do something one day I was complaining about something he said you never appreciate nothing I do when he said it I feel it to my soul because it was true that day I apologize and STOP when I asked him to do something we work together it help me to STOP complain and thank him for his help
This gal doesn't know how blessed she is. Wame hama Mara ngapi, shopping a nafanyiwa, anasaidiwa kupika, kuosha vyombo. They have bonding times na hubby. Sio kama sisi wengine tulitupwa gishagi. Anavisit holiday na tunaachwa bila pesa ya matumizi. Weuuh pple don't appreciate what they have. Smh🤔
I second you on that, I pity them
I have been a silent follower but weuh
Let us learn to appreciate the little things jameni,it doesn't cost much
Vitu unaona ni mbaya kwako kwa wengine ndio wanatamani ata tone tu
Be accomodative
When somebody has done something for you but not to your standard,first thank and conguraturate them and then correct them in a polite way
Hello, I am really happy to see your growth but its like Men have that Hand.. of using alot of Oil. You don't have to talk to him harshly... You can Just Say it like a Light Joke " Eiii Babe Leo si Tutanona na hii Mautamu na mafuta😂"... and Appreciate his efforts but correct lovingly. Break the "My mom used to..."
My 2cents😊
HI YOU ARE AN AMAZING MUM You can find ways of correcting someone in a kind way without tampering with their esteem just practice more kindness and more kindness also next time just get in the kitchen with him you put the oil yourself with time he will get. You don't have to pass the same habits from mum to your family it should end with you practicing kindness and finding ways of correcting people without shouting probably Isco learns a lot from that too,, God bless you n your fam.
The best thing about your channel is the level of honesty. You are real.. very relatable. About how to act on it,you need time.
You are lucky your husband even go to the kitchen with intentions of preparing a meal.
From that I don't think he'll ever try to cook for the family again!!!! Correct with kindness makelele baki ukipiga when he's not around but not on social media and not with your family or friends 😂
True complaining is not good. And for the umpteenth time keep your family issues out of the public. You are a wonderful mum and hardworking girl.......
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I know at times our spouses do things that are annoying and tempting to us but arguing and fighting is not a solution. When you rem the love you two share, you'll be able to tell them in a nice way so that next time they do better. To avoid such arguments you should settle any 'beef' or grudge and when your hearts are in Connection without anger, there will be no arguments. You know men are like kids at times, sometimes if you are angry, just keep quiet cz unaeza sema kitu uregret baadae. Women compromise more in marriages than men
You really love complaining coz you have spent minutes complaining about your husband it's already done hata wewe Kuna vitu unafanyanga na hapendi so learn to complain for a minute and get over it
Ama anyamaze. And talk about it when she is calm
Just be thankful to your Man and stop nagging🛑some of them they don’t even know the door to the kitchen yawa you so lucky Wandia,anyway ❤all the way you got this🙏🏾
Enjoy the meal and tell him nicely it happens with everyone . But kugombana spoils everything
Mungu akusaidiye sababu sifizuri kungobana namume wako tena inafaa ushikuru alikupikiya siwengi wanafanya hivyo piya yeye diye anabai so Mungu akusaidiye
Why do people struggle so hard to be a couple when clearly it ain't working is it for the kids or to maintain an outside picture coz personaly for me it's draining, stressful and unhealthy Wandia you complain a lot it's okay to be alone btw.
Aki true
Nothing her husband does is right
Because honestly toxic relationships and marriages are draining why can't people normalize being alone??
I feel like she's the problem
She should work on hersel
OR MAYBE WE'VE BEEN GETTING IT WRONG.... MAYBE WE'VE BEEN ACCUSING THE WRONG PERSON....The way she's complaining you might think she's talking about someone else..... that's why it's said don't judge....wueh!
Aki
She might be the problem
She is
So comfortably..😂😂
A hack mandazi hutaka unafry na mafuta mob then secondly ukiroll unga dont roll using alot of flour ndio inafanya mafuta ichafuke
I lack words gal am always motivated by your content .I just love how u advice women
Wandia yawa, correct your husband with love. He took his time to make the meal and the little you could have done is atleast appreciate the effort. Complaining here for minutes over yur hubby using too much oil to cook, I wonder how it was over there. Remember you have a son watching you two and he is learning from you. Massage your hubbys ego, dont crush it. None is perfect, none at all, but I will tell you again to solve your marital issues away from youtube or social media. Ukikasirika weka maji kwa mdomo, iteme hasira ikipoa!
Mbona unamcontrol?? Si wewe upike
Exactly 💯
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Aki you like complaining 😂😂 already you've complained for like 15min
Tell him you enjoyed his cooking and the meal was amazing but it had a bit too much oil next time aweke kidogo tu in a loving way.
Ukiskia kuongea vibaya the way your mom did,Remember he is your husband not your sibling or child.
Upbringing ni different kwao maybe they use too much oil. Unakua mtu understanding and move.
Next time! I will ❤
Wacha kurudia kitumoja
Exactly. It's getting old. Move on gal.
Try and control your temper or else you will end up been toxic. Maybe that's why he keeps running away
Girl you are glowing. you really needed this space. For Isco's tantrums he will outgrow
Am always greatful to see you here
Hey sis,i feel some of these things,you find a married woman(one you look up to)or a marriage counselor (if you can afford one)and ask for advice on such things.I love your content but from one woman to another,please try and keep your marital affairs as private as possible and out of your content kabisa.(What people dont know they can't destroy). Doesn't matter how tiny you think the issue is,your marriage is a crucial relationship in your life,give it the privacy it needs.
With love,me😊
Very true please Beatrice keep your marriage life private please
Nasikue anjiona kama yeye malaika makosa niya bwana tu.sometimes my husband huweka food salt mob na mshow food nitamu lakini salt ndiyo imeharibu siku hizi anapika mbila salt bila salt ama amanita niweke salt na kama siko kwa hao haweki
Well said
Wueh..stop talking about the oil already ...manze he helped you and the least you can do is make him feel horrible... imagine if he complained about something you did for two days..how would you feel..poor guy
Aki she's so ungrateful.
Hi Wandia, I really love these Sunday uploads. ❤️❤️ Also really loving the new house. 😍
You really motivate me to keep pushing myself on UA-cam
Isco is just mimicking what he observes. You two adults not getting along. Sorry gal, but its true😢
Exactly,I had to part ways with my baby daddy for the sake of my daughter's sanity and happiness and my baby gal is happy..
Ours is silent!! 😂 😂
You are an amazing human being l love the way you organize your place and clean, even your food look delicious bless your heart my sisrer.
Kugombana ni lazima but just make sure anything you say in the moment of anger you can take it back. Watch your words zisikuwe hurtfull
You would have appreciated and told him in a nice way but venting for 10 mins about his cooking was not so good and you are saying you want to change. Imagine if he watches the video and he sees how you are talking about him.
my thought as well
Toxicity
@@lizmwangi4058 i said about this trait in another video,,, nikaambiwa mi ni hater
@@lizmwangi4058 at its highest level
This lady is toxic and she needs therapy. Beatrice always be kind ata kama umejam kiasi gani.
You are lucky your man even tries to cook for you,instead of complaining here..correct him slowly away from the camera.
Unanibambanga tu...even when it's messy you are just the realest
Usianike mtu wako ivo,,a bit disrespectful,,,,appreciate him then teach him..😊
Wandia how you treat your husband issa no... learn how to be respectful and be submissive...Go for marriage counseling
Love the new house and watching you inspires me not to give up on UA-cam...keep it up .
Beatrice unapenda ku complain ... Wangu hakuwai pika na nikipika hangekosa makosa..I hate that😏😏
Personally kupiga kelele is my therapy so hapo siwezi kusaidia🤣🤣🤣am toxic
Mbona una deep fry mandazi na mafuta kidogo, ama mzee alimaliza mafuta yote 🤣
😂😂😂😂
😅😅
😁huku sikia ni mama ndio alimfundisha 😅
😂😂😂
Ghaai 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Amazing mama Isco you are really growing
Hi gal all I can tell u is that it takes a lot of energy to kugombana.if ur hubby does something that u don’t like breath in and out then tell him what u don’t like .Nobody likes kugombanishwa
Good improvement of food serving neat,keep it up lady❤
My beautiful I was waiting for this ❤. You go girl hard work pays ❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
Show him , mpimie mafuta when he is cooking, just try asifeel mbaya , he tried ,mimi naekanga mafuta we kwangu uwezi kula😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Food looks great.
Mimi maneno ya marriage I will never comment.I am 4 months in it but bro! I need glucose already
The food looks nice ❤
Sweetheart just take him to play group wachana n daycare
A real complainer aki wandia,ur bitter with kila kitu gal,maybe ur the problem kwa hii marriage
❤❤❤Hi Wandia
Hello Wandia
My favorite
Your food presentation is topnotch
You could cook the best food and maintain the best house if y exhibit the fruits of the spirit..it won't work.
We all have weakness, but Jesus has set us free from all our weaknesses by his death on the cross ✝️
Hi Wandia,maybe baby boy is going through a growth span that's why his throwing tantrums
Are now back together with your husband....
Fikeni qwangu pia
You really doing a very amazing job here but always you increase your bar❤❤❤
next time just tell him politely and assume/ imagine if he will watch this video
He cooked. Period. PS I don’t even like him but he cooked. Relax.
But heh .. umecomplain sana..atleast try to correct in a less harsh way..just the same way utakosea you wouldnt want kugombanishwa.
EPHESIANS 5: 22-33
Surely but you are always deep frying stuff even chicken.....stop complaining and find reason to say thanks