Uncomfortable conversations about sex btn parents and their children

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  • Опубліковано 22 жов 2023
  • #parenting #parents #parentingtips #parenthood #lovetalk #family #youth #marriage

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  • @fatmahnakazibwe5151
    @fatmahnakazibwe5151 9 місяців тому +97

    I am a very quiet person since childhood and people used to tell my mum oyo omwana yesirisa Naye ajja nakufuna olubuto kulugya yet I was innocent, and whenever I did any mistake at home nga my mum kyakulembeza ngayomba. So I never opened up to her, When I went to university people were surprised and the said kigenda kwononekera ku uni, I graduated and waited for two years, then they said nadiba and my mum could confront me about every thing bad people could say about me. After those years I got my man who understands me and when I told her nti ayagala kukyala she couldn't believe it. In fact no body believed it

    • @user-ud4ds9ne2d
      @user-ud4ds9ne2d 9 місяців тому +6

      You are just a special person which they didn't understand

    • @mukisajoankabogza2586
      @mukisajoankabogza2586 9 місяців тому +3

      ,,,😅😅thats my first born musilise naye ntua akuma nyo ekyama ohhhh

    • @fatmahnakazibwe5151
      @fatmahnakazibwe5151 9 місяців тому

      @@mukisajoankabogza2586 try to be close to he or she will be open. But my mum took people's words seriously ngabwagamba wantamya okwesirisa so I couldn't open up

    • @Amish07
      @Amish07 8 місяців тому +2

      People don't understand that there is introverts that really respect themselves

    • @beckynamubiru2095
      @beckynamubiru2095 8 місяців тому

      Bambi but parents why

  • @carolnakityo4223
    @carolnakityo4223 8 місяців тому +21

    The gift and the blessing of having a mother in this world is underrated❤

  • @nassolojauharah870
    @nassolojauharah870 9 місяців тому +48

    Namisinga binji era silina love jenafuna ku maama wange yanvuma nga buli kadde😢😢 naye kati mutabani wange he respects me and we are friends and open to each other he tells me everything wether necessary or not I direct him bambi I thank Allah 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @evelynk8092
      @evelynk8092 9 місяців тому +7

      Mwaana gwe leka I reached to the extent of ask myself oba siyanzala

    • @nayigajackie8609
      @nayigajackie8609 9 місяців тому

      ​@@evelynk8092me too,some mothers olemwa

    • @nassolojauharah870
      @nassolojauharah870 9 місяців тому

      @@evelynk8092 upto now I don't love her but I love my daddy so so much coz he was there until now may Allah bless him and protect him

    • @mukisajoankabogza2586
      @mukisajoankabogza2586 9 місяців тому +1

      Abazadde bedda bali webatyo naffe abaana tubade tukute li e eyo.nze mbulilidwa nyo ne vidoes zino zituyambye nyo.so tonenya maama wo

    • @NakiddeChristine
      @NakiddeChristine 9 місяців тому

      Nze owange namubuza Nako oba siyanzala nga emiggo ne bivumo binsuseko naye nyabo nalinga eyeyiye Amanda mumbugo😢😢

  • @lilliandaisy8109
    @lilliandaisy8109 9 місяців тому +28

    Mummy and daughter is always de best moments i wish my mother is still alive

    • @kalibbalabwanika
      @kalibbalabwanika  9 місяців тому +4

      Im so sorry for your loss muzadde munage,cyber hugs mukwano

    • @lilliandaisy8109
      @lilliandaisy8109 9 місяців тому +1

      @@kalibbalabwanika thank you mummy Ruth bt what pains me I don't have any memories abt mummy they told me we were still young

    • @glsflorahflekerntuuyozange
      @glsflorahflekerntuuyozange 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@@kalibbalabwanikamummy Ruth, I love the way you cooperate with your children and I say I wish I can ...I have 3 children 2 girls and I boy and I'm a single mum but I'm feeling disappointed with my girls I have been struggling alone from day one..but now I want to send them to their father and forget about them in my life

    • @marieannie9505
      @marieannie9505 9 місяців тому

      Ooooh so sorry kikwano 😢

    • @Debs567
      @Debs567 9 місяців тому

      @@glsflorahflekerntuuyozange Oooh this is so heart breaking💔to hear, coz one thing I know, Omuzadde yena, nadala bamama, ayagalanyo abannabe, bwebuba, obulamubwe.
      However, when it comes to single parenting, it can be quite tricky and overwhelming. As a result, a parent my be hash to raise her child in a way trying to play both roles as a mom and dad, but by doing that, the kids don’t understand that! They think they are being mistreated which is a misconception, remember this is a struggling Mom who is trying to make ends meet.
      At that point, they miss having a special relationship of parent and children which actually builds their self-esteem and confidence…
      In a long run, a child will be easily swayed away by an outsider who tells her that she is beautiful and ends up preying on her.
      Then another thing, generations differ, as much as we want to raise kinds in the olden style as we were raised, our kids are in a different era. Shouting at them may not work nor shying away from information may also not work.
      Telling them everything there is, in a friendly, respectful and balanced manner, may will yield more.
      It is so sad, that you’re letting go of your girls… but don’t close the door please. May be a change will make a difference in their lives.
      It is so painful to see a parent go through this kind of thing. Imagining her sacrifice and devotion to her kids all her life, and they can’t accept that everything she did was out of love.😢
      Take heart my dear! One day, they will come back to thank you, for your love and sacrifice when they get to taste the waters out there mukazi munange. 🤗 🤗 🤗

  • @jenniejenny2135
    @jenniejenny2135 9 місяців тому +18

    Thanks Auntie Bala and Nisha; in my opinion, It's good to talk to our children as early as possible btwn 2 and 3 years omwana aba ategera. For example, my son was around 3yrs something woke up my mind it was like two to three times: this boy could come to me, and touch on my breast just like a child I assumed but, I then noticed whenever he would do that he would stand straight that's when I sat my boys a 3 and 4 years old and had a serious conversation with them as Dad Tom teaches us. I actually started praying over them more kubanga the way the devil is targeting our kids in this era. Only prayers. Let's talk to them as early as possible and always keep bringing these conversations to them omwana abeera mwana nga ali ne muzadde we, the moment they walk away from your sight, aba wa nsi. God please keep our Children for is. 🙏most importantly PARENTS BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR CHILDREN.

  • @sylvialuutu9124
    @sylvialuutu9124 9 місяців тому +17

    Wow. She is so brilliant and her reasoning capacity is on point 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. Thanks Mum and dota

  • @noreennakazibwe1435
    @noreennakazibwe1435 9 місяців тому +14

    God bless me with grace to talk to my children 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 great thanks to Ruth and dota advise to us parents ❤

  • @birungisarah8764
    @birungisarah8764 9 місяців тому +20

    Ruth,I love it when you are with your Daughter. One of the best shows. ❤

  • @iteknologgie
    @iteknologgie 9 місяців тому +20

    There is nothing good as watching these 2 on set cheei full of vibes. Thank you Nisha for your highlights as parents we appreciate

  • @babzhellenugwakyagulanyi60
    @babzhellenugwakyagulanyi60 9 місяців тому +10

    I'm so happy to see you again with your sweet daughter ❤❤

  • @nakayiwinnie3373
    @nakayiwinnie3373 9 місяців тому

    Thanks for always teaching us Ruth you are such a blessing to us the parents

  • @aishajohannveronica1414
    @aishajohannveronica1414 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank for educating us Ruth.❤❤❤❤

  • @nakirijjamary2359
    @nakirijjamary2359 9 місяців тому +2

    The best ever,thxs for this talk. Parents it's our responsibility to talk to our children

  • @pamelanabwire7093
    @pamelanabwire7093 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for this show. Fantastic approach- parent - child. God bless you Ruth.

  • @jerrynakitende3669
    @jerrynakitende3669 9 місяців тому +1

    Great show. I always look forward to this mother and daughter talks. Thank you Ruth and Nisha

  • @sumayahabdallah1737
    @sumayahabdallah1737 9 місяців тому +16

    I love the interaction,my mother died when I was only 6yrs so I grew up without that motherly love thou I was not mistreated. Am trying to do my best as a mother and I have learnt from these conversations to always complement my children,how to control my tamper and approach to situations.
    Using words of affirmation with them thou some conversations are still uncomfortable to approach 😊

  • @mulindwajonathan3470
    @mulindwajonathan3470 9 місяців тому +3

    Thanks Ruth...show...more blessings

  • @namubirujoan2015
    @namubirujoan2015 9 місяців тому +2

    How can i like this a zillion times? thank you very much for this conversation, its been very helpful and insightful

  • @NansasiS
    @NansasiS 8 місяців тому +2

    am a 21yr old mom to a 5yr old daughter. This conversation has made me realise alot and put me in alot of fear for my girl. I've learnt alot thank you gals.

  • @namukisaphionah4963
    @namukisaphionah4963 9 місяців тому +10

    Mukama mpa family I behave like Ruth to my kids 🙏🙏🙏

  • @hanifahnamuli947
    @hanifahnamuli947 8 місяців тому

    Bambi thanks for your show, it's eye opening for especially mothers❤❤❤

  • @katusabejackie2798
    @katusabejackie2798 9 місяців тому +2

    Thanks soooo much for the insights. Bituyambye nyooo. Be blessed

  • @rachelnaigaga6634
    @rachelnaigaga6634 9 місяців тому +3

    I enjoyed this conversation.....i admire the way you interact with ur daughter freely, ur like siblings❤😂😂

  • @nabbosashamim
    @nabbosashamim 9 місяців тому

    This is so great to us parents thank you so much Mrs Bwanika and the daughter

  • @ismaeltwahassesimba4773
    @ismaeltwahassesimba4773 9 місяців тому

    Ruth thanks alot for this educative talk... I am dad who loves my 2 boys en little one gal. For sure its good advise for a parent to sit down and talk to our children at young age.

  • @prossytessy5271
    @prossytessy5271 9 місяців тому +2

    This message is Directly to me,,thank you mummy Ruth

  • @florenceflower9816
    @florenceflower9816 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank u so much mum ruth and your daughter, for this wounderfull talk u really inspire us

  • @Hamahjahans
    @Hamahjahans 9 місяців тому +16

    I was Dadz gal😢😢and i thank him coz he was very close to me to the extent of telling me everything coz he had no option since mai mother had died years later forexample “when you do sex u get pregnat and HIV so please take care” i really followed his words and now i dont regret of being agood gal😍😍😍so parents has to be so open to us

    • @nyakatoviolet860
      @nyakatoviolet860 9 місяців тому +1

      That was good of him, most parents can't do that as if they're ashamed 💕

    • @Amish07
      @Amish07 8 місяців тому +1

      We women have downgraded men but men can actually raise better children

    • @sgjjchiio7245
      @sgjjchiio7245 7 місяців тому

      Your married now even me my dad too😂

  • @Nakandimilliemaria
    @Nakandimilliemaria 9 місяців тому

    Thank you mummy Ruth this is really educative and helpful conversation to us parents

  • @dgkalisa2130
    @dgkalisa2130 8 місяців тому +2

    Ruth and daughter this is very good bambi...am a daddy with 9 and 7 yo girls....not very easy for us fathers....please mukole those specific sessions of daddy - daughter talk...keep it up both you you❤

  • @Moureensanyu
    @Moureensanyu 9 місяців тому +7

    Ilove this bond ❤ I wanna go how to start being with my girl coz she is turning 9yrs soon i really want to bond with my girls iwant to be their best friends ❤❤❤

  • @tinolizzy1167
    @tinolizzy1167 9 місяців тому +2

    Beautiful inspiring conversation btn mother and daughter. The bond is priceless ❤. Blessings kamaama 💞🙏l speak to son about bad touches and sex always and l started it last year when he was 9yrs

  • @pricytudorsdiaries3457
    @pricytudorsdiaries3457 9 місяців тому +5

    Hi Ruth this was so beautiful, we need to talk to our children as early as 4 years old

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 9 місяців тому +1

    Wow this so true thank you so much

  • @ramulahmasembe
    @ramulahmasembe 9 місяців тому +2

    For sure onjigiriza how to talk with your daughter era am on hurry to see her again

  • @sophynabukeera4736
    @sophynabukeera4736 9 місяців тому +1

    Mmy Ruth i can't thank you enough for this 👏🏼👏🏼🙏🙏

  • @rachellekandi1084
    @rachellekandi1084 9 місяців тому +4

    BEING RAISED WZ GOD FEARING PARENTS IS DA MOST BEAUTIFUL THING IN LIFE. U BE EXPOSED TO MANY THINGS AND AT TIMES KNOW HOW TO APPROACH ANY PROBLEM. Mother and Daughter much love 💜💜me ma Mom at 10 had already told me about sex. It's consquences, and how to Overcome and avoid it. Thank You mummy💜💜

  • @jacklinemujuni6223
    @jacklinemujuni6223 8 місяців тому

    God bless you bleeeeeeeeeess you ×infinity. What an educative message! And your daughter is so intelligent 🙏

  • @jacksonmusinguzi4585
    @jacksonmusinguzi4585 9 місяців тому

    Ruth you're such a DARLING mother indeed OMG ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @PrincessAnitah-gi9el
    @PrincessAnitah-gi9el 9 місяців тому +1

    Woow thx so much for the nyc program

  • @rawashia
    @rawashia 9 місяців тому

    Thanks Ruth for wonderful talk

  • @dareengift3270
    @dareengift3270 7 місяців тому

    Thanks a lot Ruth for this teaching conversation

  • @nakanjakoedith7686
    @nakanjakoedith7686 9 місяців тому +15

    Thank you mummy Ruth and Hanisha for this wonderful talk,so educative please

  • @nakamichelle8198
    @nakamichelle8198 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for that conversation with ur queen. Bambi ur really good mother. Also trying with kids and i try to show them that am there best even when i go to their school and some students think that am their sister because of the way i go down with them. I don't want them to see other new things from their classmates.

  • @kahundesylivia910
    @kahundesylivia910 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks so much for your concern madam Ruth with daughter, forsure us mum's who are hustling abroad we are worried abt our kids only God can understand our situation

  • @NabatanziHsckk
    @NabatanziHsckk 8 місяців тому

    Nice message for us thanks dear we are waiting for next time

  • @namubirujoan2015
    @namubirujoan2015 9 місяців тому

    Wow wow wow I have really enjoyed this conversation and I've learnt a lot. thanks very much.

  • @lornatwins9944
    @lornatwins9944 9 місяців тому

    This was very educative and inspiring.

  • @lydianabacwa9398
    @lydianabacwa9398 9 місяців тому

    Thank you, mum Ruth, and dota i love the sharing.

  • @RLrayan
    @RLrayan 8 місяців тому

    Thank you mum Ruth for enlightening us

  • @imeldanakityo7004
    @imeldanakityo7004 9 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for teaching us ruth and daughter.

  • @carolinebatwaawula8011
    @carolinebatwaawula8011 9 місяців тому +1

    Boy friend part she is right, it's good to first confirm someone and then nomulaga abazadde , I enjoy mother & dota conversation big up ruth

  • @rinahkayz9508
    @rinahkayz9508 9 місяців тому +14

    Mbu even on my wedding i will not dance 😂😂😂naye Ruth I like the mother nd dota talks full of fun nd positive vibes ❤❤Parents we should always make our children to be our n.1 friends see this beautiful family Mash'Allah.

  • @evajoyschorer8669
    @evajoyschorer8669 9 місяців тому +2

    She looks exactly like her mum .thanks somuch for the show

  • @florenceflower9816
    @florenceflower9816 9 місяців тому +1

    Mum ruth 😊❤bring back your daughter❤both of u your talk is so sweet😊

  • @royserunkuma118
    @royserunkuma118 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you guys, let's wake up as parents, this world is going nuts in all corners

  • @akamperezadianah9935
    @akamperezadianah9935 8 місяців тому

    This is beautiful.
    Thank you

  • @florencebangi4475
    @florencebangi4475 9 місяців тому

    Thanks so much dear mum Ruth and daugher Nisha,may the Almighty God bless you always 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @tumainigrace8696
    @tumainigrace8696 7 місяців тому

    Wow I thank God for my dad who throughout my childhood used to tell me that I am very bright and beautiful and it kept ringing in my heart till now❤

  • @mutesisylvia5304
    @mutesisylvia5304 8 місяців тому

    Thanxs for da show,, mummy and daughter we love u ❤

  • @laviniahkirungu-id2ui
    @laviniahkirungu-id2ui 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for blessed conversation btn mummy en daughter ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lydianamata7642
    @lydianamata7642 9 місяців тому +2

    I like the conversation and mummy Ruth you have a beautiful daughters like mine 😂😂😂 glory be to God

  • @nambozejosephine2656
    @nambozejosephine2656 9 місяців тому

    Mummy and daughter thanks for the good information message

  • @nailahhashim9095
    @nailahhashim9095 9 місяців тому +10

    Wow
    I just love the mum-daughter relationship 👏👏👏
    Thanks for being so educative!!

    • @shanitahshanitah5948
      @shanitahshanitah5948 8 місяців тому

      Banange nze nina omwana yasilika Banange shirat yasilika omwana tayogera omwana waliwo lwataama😢😢😢😢😢tanyumya

  • @nakkazipeaceresty650
    @nakkazipeaceresty650 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much Madam Ruth
    Owange mulenzi, bulijo mbade ntyamu okwogera naye. Kyoka bwenkikozi it was just easy and the boy looks happy and he just told me , mum thanks for being "a good mum and teach, am so Lucky to have you mum"

  • @jussynakalema2295
    @jussynakalema2295 9 місяців тому +1

    Amazima Gali nti munsomeseza . Thanks for the conversation between mun and Daughter.

  • @RizikFatia-vj2nl
    @RizikFatia-vj2nl 9 місяців тому +1

    Banaye ka Dota kali so mostive 😂😂and beautiful ❤❤

  • @ant8952
    @ant8952 9 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤waaw my inspiration person forever

  • @nambasadeborah7708
    @nambasadeborah7708 8 місяців тому

    Banage thank you so much Ruth and Nisha,you left me smiling. Bonding with our children is really important ❤❤

  • @sulainakenge6123
    @sulainakenge6123 9 місяців тому

    This is what my daughter's and son's miss ohh my God thanks it's the first time to come across your conversation but at least i have got something let me even subscribe

  • @nalubegakevin9031
    @nalubegakevin9031 9 місяців тому +7

    I am feeling happy to see this bond between mum and daughter ❤❤

  • @nabiryejustine5590
    @nabiryejustine5590 9 місяців тому +1

    Waawoo mummy nga afanana daughter eeee so so beautiful ❤❤❤❤

  • @nalungadeborah3504
    @nalungadeborah3504 8 місяців тому

    Woooow ❤, Thanks mdm Ruth and daughter 🥳

  • @kigongowinnie4014
    @kigongowinnie4014 8 місяців тому

    I love Ruth n her daughter.
    You're incredible duo

  • @prettyanitah4846
    @prettyanitah4846 9 місяців тому +4

    The way am enjoying banage thanks for the mother and daughter conversations ❤

  • @gloriagorret4120
    @gloriagorret4120 9 місяців тому

    Ruth and daughter I admire you alot especially that bond

  • @nakamogachris4601
    @nakamogachris4601 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks so much mummy and daughter more blessings 😘❤

  • @rosenantale2800
    @rosenantale2800 9 місяців тому

    I like her sound mind moreso wen she said none is safe really true and making our kids friends is more important n helps dat a child doesn't shy away from you and can easily confide in u incase of anything. Thx mom n baby Hanisha

  • @muwalawakatonda558
    @muwalawakatonda558 9 місяців тому

    This was beautiful Ruth 🥰🥰

  • @martharinebiseko1457
    @martharinebiseko1457 9 місяців тому

    Love these hearty conversations

  • @sumayyahkalyegira106
    @sumayyahkalyegira106 9 місяців тому +5

    We do really need to hear this. Oh God!Bambi so many children got spoiled in this error bcz parents don't talk to them others have no even time for their children
    Thanks alot for the show 🥰🥰

  • @aminahkisha9708
    @aminahkisha9708 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for this conversation

  • @glsflorahflekerntuuyozange
    @glsflorahflekerntuuyozange 9 місяців тому +2

    Mummy and daughter educative talk, mama Ruth I really want to talk to you

  • @scoviamasika-su2xk
    @scoviamasika-su2xk 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for this show,bannage I also met a friend's child in act these where young boys of around five to six years but the parents never minded,parents bannnage let's really be serious on this .Big up to Ruth and the daughter

  • @zeinprincess9355
    @zeinprincess9355 9 місяців тому +2

    This is the woman of all seasons imagine with your daughter 💕 but you like sisters ❤❤❤

  • @justinekissiti6489
    @justinekissiti6489 8 місяців тому +4

    Thank you, Ruth. For this opening conversation. I think we just need to agree that times have changed. Let's talk to our children. My jajja says not even a father should shower the daughter.

    • @justinekissiti6489
      @justinekissiti6489 8 місяців тому

      About the boyfriends Nisha. It's okay to tell mum. Coz when we are in love we tend to miss the red flags. Me I was in love with my.mom all the time... heart broken together. That instead of going to someone to seek wrong advise she would be the one to tell me

  • @nakamaanyahajarah3878
    @nakamaanyahajarah3878 9 місяців тому +9

    So sweet mummy and daughter ❤❤

    • @kalibbalabwanika
      @kalibbalabwanika  9 місяців тому +2

      You are so kind

    • @nakamaanyahajarah3878
      @nakamaanyahajarah3878 9 місяців тому

      @@kalibbalabwanika love u always mummy and am also inspired by ur motherhood mwaa💋💋

  • @namaaalwamary4842
    @namaaalwamary4842 9 місяців тому +2

    Wawooo l love the combination here mums love

  • @Shifah-sharifah
    @Shifah-sharifah 9 місяців тому +2

    Wawooo beautiful

  • @nakanjakkodorothy2032
    @nakanjakkodorothy2032 9 місяців тому +1

    Webaale nyo bambi Ruth ,emboozi ne muwawo nyinakyengifunyeemu

  • @kirabostella8911
    @kirabostella8911 9 місяців тому

    Bambi may God give such a connection to most parents with there children 😊. Madam Ruth well done bambi.

    • @wakoresty1343
      @wakoresty1343 8 місяців тому

      This bonding is built from childhood, it doesn't come as a miracle or from prayer, you need to struggle hard as a parent to bond freely with your kids, building confidence, keeping constant communication etc

  • @kabalokolebeatrice6521
    @kabalokolebeatrice6521 9 місяців тому +6

    I like this girl ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @timothybalusaga8708
    @timothybalusaga8708 9 місяців тому

    Yes thxs mom #always on point 😘👌👌

  • @BettyNantabaBetty
    @BettyNantabaBetty 9 місяців тому +1

    Madam Ruth thank you 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @Beyaa256
    @Beyaa256 8 місяців тому +1

    Two beautiful ladies in one video much love ba dear i think i will be a greater mum inshaallah 🙏🙏

  • @JOURNEYOFELEGANCEUG.
    @JOURNEYOFELEGANCEUG. 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Ladies ❤

  • @gloriakasirye1793
    @gloriakasirye1793 9 місяців тому

    Hello ba dear, I like your mum daughter conversation . I wish u could always have a topic on a weekly basis.

  • @stellahnicksnamakula3882
    @stellahnicksnamakula3882 6 місяців тому

    Thanks aunt Ruth ❤

  • @namulindwaprossy3515
    @namulindwaprossy3515 9 місяців тому +2

    Mom and baby mbagala nyoo mwena banange ❤❤❤watching you from Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦

  • @sharoncarol4905
    @sharoncarol4905 8 місяців тому

    Its quite educative❤️