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Abu Udhaynah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The best of your women are loving, fertile, suitable, and comforting, if they fear Allah. The worst of your women unveil their beauty, take pride in their appearance, and they are hypocrites. None of them will enter Paradise except as rarely as you see a red-beaked crow.” Source: al-Sunan al-Kubrá 12480 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani عَنْ أَبِي أُذَيْنَةَ الصَّدَفِيِّ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ خَيْرُ نِسَائِكُمُ الْوَدُودُ الْوَلُودُ الْمُوَاتِيَةُ الْمُوَاسِيَةُ إِذَا اتَّقَيْنَ اللَّهَ وَشَرُّ نِسَائِكُمُ الْمُتَبَرِّجَاتُ الْمُتَخَيِلاتُ وَهُنَّ الْمُنَافِقَاتُ لا يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ مِنْهُنَّ إِلا مِثْلُ الْغُرَابِ الأَعْصَمِ 12480 السنن الكبرى للبيهقي 1849 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث صحيح في السلسلة الصحيحة.
It was said to ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her): Which type of woman is best? She said: The one who does not know about saying bad things, and she is not crafty like men; her focus is on adorning herself for her husband and taking care of her family. Muhadarat al-Udaba by ar-Raghib al-Asfahani, 1/410. ‘Uyoon al-Akhbar by Ibn Qutaybah, 1/375.
I’m sorry sheikh but your misogynist approach towards women is very sickening. We are seeing a large percentage of young Muslim men looking up to sheikhs like this who talk of women being the property of a man with no aspiration or dreams or authority over herself in her own life. Please fix up
This brother speaks the truth! Young women be careful, your time to have a family is limited, that is a fact. Don’t waste your time on work and haram relationships. Stay chaste and make dua, you cannot lose ❤️
@@francodisposable asalamalaykum sis. I see you follow a lot of the same ppl i do. But alhamdulillah i see you watcha ssim al hakeem. I empathise with your situation but you must know that the best way is guidence from Allah having trust in Allah and seeking guidance from a knowledgeable person in you local area. Im wondering have you submitted your will to Allah Subhana'wat'ala and have you been increasing your knowldge of Muhammad s.a.w sira? Onfe i did that i had started to implement the things i was learnig from assim al hakeem and that gradually has helped me i strongly recommend looking into the rulings on hijab or at least having images on your icon. It will help you recieve more respectful interactions from people who wish to help you. Some people might not be able to understand your situation because they have a misconception of you based on your icon and after 12 tears i changed mine based on what i learned about cartoon images and images of the creation. Alhamdulillah that we are being guided by Allah and that is the relationship that will bring us the most peace in our lives. Once you submit to Allah alone you are not as easily hurt and effected by the siuation you might be in regarding your other relationships. May Allah forgive us all and strengthen our ummah and guide us all and bless you and your ex with spouses that will be a means of guidence and security and happiness and strength and the best parents for your children. Ameen
I don't care if I never get married but I'd never EVER agree to marrying a feminist. It's not much different to marrying a man. Ain't nobody got time for that.
I’m a women and I actually hate when feminists compare them selves to Khadijah. 🙄Oh please, if you met Khadijah in person, I’m sure you’d be ashamed of your self because she wasn’t anything like feminist!
So much respect for you, muslim skeptic and sajid lipman etc for not being afraid to say the Islam truth that is unfortunately problematic to muslims, that many daees never even dare to talk about
WE need internal dawa as we need external dawa. Ppl on bid'a (like sufis) divide ummah and brings in reforming on secularism (like tyt) or colonization. many on bida teach ext. taqlid & grave worship ties in, Tawhid ties to safety in Q 24 :55. So the ppl need to learn Aqida Manhaj 1st!
For Islam to grow in society Muslims need to learn Islam. Manhaj is method includes priorities & reference, to learn Islam's most important parts to the next, so never trade it for less while progressively building. Islam's 5 pillars aids society, 6 of Iman for individuals & 5 pillars shariah to protect society!
People are changing the Deen khadija was 40 and People are saying now it's not true to bash women for being ambitious. Some men are just following their own superiority complex and calling it ISLAM 😒
@@safia5002 Another hijabi femenist trying to justify her cause even after the facts being shown that khadija was nothing like how the feminist of today trying to depict her....it's actually an insult to this great women.... if "ambitious " means going out leaving the abaya,mixing with men,leaving family, depriving husband and children from thier rights then... no...Khadija (RA) wasn’t that type of ambitious....
@@safia5002 do you have the hadith Khadijah was 40? as hadith specialists say she was about 28. In Islam we unite upon truth and Islam is preserved so we follow it!
I heard from a Shiekh few days that Khadija RA had inherited her business and her wealth from her deceased husband. In all the years I've been listening to Islamic lectures, and all the talks related to this topic, why is this the first time am hearing this? Why are scholars so afraid to speak in detail about the life of Khadija.? Most muslims today all they know is "Khadija RA was businesswoman" that's pretty much it. Today's popular celebrity Daees, Sheikh's, Scholars, are blameworthy for sisters falling into the trap of feminism liberalism ideologies. I've yet to come across a lecture on this platform which is solely addressing the sisters, giving them naseeha to respect their husband, to be good obedient wives, to love their husbands, to cook for them etc. Instead you'll find a whole lot of pandering and man bashing.
@@ik5441 Well said. Happy to see more brothers waking up to this agenda. Actually to come to think it for it now it wasn't even a Shiekh who mentioned it, it was Daniel Haqiqtochu in one of his recent streams.
@@livingjoke3083 they come from a sufi culture that imitates hinduism and oppresses nisa which lead them to feminism... both the ppl of bida and ppl of liberalism , the men and nisa need to return to the balance of the sunnah! WE need internal dawa as we need external dawa.
As a woman, a wife, a mother, a businesswoman and most importantly, a muslimah, I don’t need these ignorant social media ladies to speak for me. Allaah the Almighty has already given me a lofty status. Feminism infringes on that status and any muslimah who thinks otherwise needs to study and learn. There is no society without wives and mothers. When will these toxic feminists begin to realise and acknowledge the value of that. With so much information online, how do these ignorant people not go and learn? It’s so embarrassing. If I were a single muslimah right now I’d be worried. Men must think we’re all crazy liberal feminists. Men, brothers, sons- please don’t let this put you off. Ask your daughters, sisters, and wives to learn the deen and study. Truly Islam is a cure for all societal ailments. Alhamdulillah.
Exactly,,,not all muslimahs are crazy liberal feminists,,,it's only the rich and priviledged ones who are able to, hence some brothers here harboring a superiority complex and looking down on the muslim women, assuming worst of them...so frustrating, most of these men don't understand us.
I feel sorry for the brother.He has to deal with all these people even though he does not say anything bad.He just gives nasiha based on the Quran and the Sunnah.I was really shaken by the statement of that girl.But any way,Allah has sent us people as a test.We should be patient even though it hurts or frustrates us.May Allah help you brother!Wallahi you can understand the situation in the ummah very well.May Allah accept your deeds and shade you that day.May Allah grant you and your family Jannah!
I think we sisters like whom are well minded can understand that the world has not been left a greater fitnah trial then the trials of the women . We are our good sisters advises these young sisters whom are women not girls mothers of the future etc... they are on apps trying to get married by themselves, not good My wife is of 30 years of marriage to me and if I desire another sister how could I find or any other brother ? Dawah is also a job of men Allah says but sisters have to support the brothers , not to stand on top of them . College degrees will not help them soley, riches will not help them rather firstly learn who is Allah even the basics , then school will befit Lastly , where are fathers the uncles the brothers the imams where are they as these sisters cause fitnah for us men and the world ! Where are we men are we scared to help them ?
3 categories of women: 1. Traditional women that want a man to provide for them. 2. Feminists who want absolute equality. 3. Modern day Muslim feminists who want both.
Brother you keep getting critiqued by people without knowledge, but you still do your best putting up content and educating us on our deen. May Allah bless you brother
It's okay she can be a feminist all she wants. Once she reaches her 30s, she will be ready for marriage but then only realize that all her independence, and career wealth will mean nothing because she wasted her good years. The marriage proposals will slowly die out and she will face the reality of her situation. Well congratulations, you worked all your life to prove to yourself you don't need a man. And now you reap what you sowed, Ms. Independent. What makes a woman attracted to a man isn't the same as what makes a man attracted to a woman. With age, these modern day feminists will have to face the bitter truth. And what makes it so sad is once they make these mistakes, there's really no second chance for them. See, once they hit their 30s, they are already 5 years away from geriatric pregnancy, meaning that it becomes dangerous for them at that point to be able to produce children. Men can make a mistake in their 20s, and wait till their 30s, to marry a girl in their 20s, they can also make many more mistakes, and wait till their 40s to marry another batch of young women in their 20s. Women don't have that luxury, they only have one shot and it's upto us men to make sure our daughters get it right the first time. Feminism is keeping more women single at an alarming rate. And this is why so women are dying ALONE. Single women keep women single. It's a tragedy.
@@Seaweed571 After 35, it's dangerous to have babies. It's a fact. That doesn't mean alot of 35 year olds won't have healthy babies. We are talking generally. Also, generally speaking, most men prefer younger women. That is a FACT. The same way most women are physically weaker than men. I don't care about some Olympic female in some part of the world that is stronger than a few guys. I'm talking GENERALLY, that is what you don't seem to understand. By you speaking like this, all you are doing is telling women to calm down and take their time when they are in their 30s, when the truth is, THEY ARE RUNNING OUT OF TIME, "generally"speaking! I'm not saying there is no hope, of course there is. But if they don't move fast, the window will close. That is the truth!
@@Seaweed571 Islam doesn't forbid you from marrying whenevr you want, but remember that it encourages young marriage, because the mentality of "let me become independent and focus on my careers" is being deeply perpetrated on a mass scale and is dangerous to humanity..
@@Seaweed571 Islam encourages not to delay nikah. This is the sunnah. If someone recommends to delay nikah means that person preaching against the sunnah which is an innovation. In general getting nikah early is recommended in Islam This is Our way of approach. All other feminist approaches are not encouraged in Islam.
@@Seaweed571 "So be a Muslim should not believe what’s General unless it’s really specify in Quran and Hadith at 35 is dangerous to be pregnant then don’t be pregnant 😏" the prophet mentioned in a narration to a man who asked 3 times shall he marry a particular woman and the prophet said no, he said marry woman who are loving and fertile. What is your profession ? since you have decided to talk about pregnancy ? women over their 30 are beyond their prime fertile years. you dont have to be mad about reality.
It was said to ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her): Which type of woman is best? She said: The one who does not know about saying bad things, and she is not crafty like men; her focus is on adorning herself for her husband and taking care of her family. Muhadarat al-Udaba by ar-Raghib al-Asfahani, 1/410. ‘Uyoon al-Akhbar by Ibn Qutaybah, 1/375.
May Allah bless you brother! I’m learning a lot of things from you as a muslimah and I used to think like you but then my feminist friends would argue with me whenever I told them I wanna serve my husband and take care of my kids they would be really surprised and horrified at me ( but honestly they are non Muslims so may Allah guide them and the Muslim friends that told me that too may Allah guide them and bless them, they honestly don’t know which one is better inshallah they will all change their minds ones they grow up) I then I changed my mind after we talked and I kind of started to agree with them but now Alhamdulilah I agree with you and my heart is filled with peace especially since you are talking with evidence from Islamic sources, this is my Fitrah, this is what’s true
How dare these sisters attack Brother Gabriel when he always puts his reputation on the line by defending their honour and their dignity. If you want an example, just watch his debate with Mahdi Tadjani!
Respect my brother! Speaking as it is, sick and tiered of simping prats who are fuelling this poisonous behaviour. I pray that you keep firm and continue addressing this issues with the right balance of respect and bluntness. We need this.
7:45 feminists seem to do both of hating men who dont work but let their wifes work and calling those men weak and lazy (which i would agree) then promoting the idea of men staying at some and letting their wifes work and calling it empowering etc (which i would disagree with)
“The wife’s money is her money and the husband’s money is both their money” is a lie spread by Nouman Ali Khan. As long as the husband is providing for her rights, she cannot take a single penny without his permission. She can only take it if he’s not providing for her and she must only take what is sufficient for her needs to be met. The ruling is taken from this Hadith: Hind bint ‘Utba said, Oh Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser and he does not give me what is sufficient for me and my children. Can I take of his property without his knowledge?” The prophet (ﷺ) said, “Take what is sufficient for you and your children, and the amount should be just and reasonable. And if he’s not providing for her, there’s even a difference of opinion amongst scholars about whether she needs to go to a qadhi first or she can just take the money. Muslim feminists have spread false “rights” of the wife like the husband’s money is the wife’s money, yet reject the husband’s rights which are clearly proven from the Quran and Sunnah such as the husband’s right to be obeyed.
I never took those statements as literally. If the husband isn't providing, he's sinful, but that doesn't give the wife the right to take his money by force. Such a thing would be despicable
@@sweettea1193 you may not take them literally, this is why you have the hadith explained to you by knowledgeable scholars that actually understand the Arabic of it. You can't pick and choose what you take literally and then inserting your opinion Into it like you just did. You make it seem as if those women that take the property without knowledge are sinful with your opinion alone, when the prophet clearly allowed it.
"The wife’s money is her money and the husband’s money is both their money” is a lie spread by Nouman Ali Khan. was this phrase coined by nouman ali khan ? i feel sorry for him. this is a phrase i hear used a lot. its clearly false, and it is a concept that was adopted from the disbelievers.
Brother Gabriel on spot 👌. People who would say why don't you talk about men don't know the emerging problem these days are not related to what we used to talk about . Things have changed and this time men has been abused in too many ways and too many times.
We need more men who have the baseera to look through the modern day fitna, call it out and educate people about it with hikma. Loved this video. I hope to see more good work from this channel. Today the jihad is not on the battle ground but in the mind's of people.
Mashallah, I agree with 100% of what you said but I also believe that many things apply with both men and women referencing with education that you mentioned at the end
Something interesting about Khadijah RA -- her brother was the father of Zubair ibn Al Awwam. So, she was Az-Zubair's aunt. Also, BTW as a reminder Az-Zubair's mother was Safiyyah, who was Rasool Allah's SAW maternal and paternal aunt, so Az-Zubair was Allah's Messenger's 1st cousin on both sides, and he was Khadijah's nephew. Blessed family!
It is sad some women use such language and have such issues…. I am surprised it is to this extreme…. Mutual respect and understanding are the key for a contented life between a husband and wife… as for the women who do not wish to get married and have no intention to have children out of choice… I really don’t know what to say
If a woman doesn't wish to ever marry then she's obviously free to make her own choices so long as she isn't doing anything haram. But this group is a tiny minority
@@sweettea1193 That's not entirely true. The vast majority of women who remain single WILL end up in a haram situation either zina or male friends. It's not that they are bad or evil it's just human nature.
@@taym2720 I'm not talking about women who are single by chance, I'm talking about women who deliberately want to be single for life because a husband is something they don't desire. They won't be getting boyfriends if they want to be single forever. That's why I said this group is a minority
Prophet Muhammad (SAW) is muslim before her and perhaps any of the other prophets before him. I dont know if that counts as "became muslim" since they were already muslim prophets but maybe thats why he put it that way.
You know what i find ironic there's hardly any women in the comment section whoch is what the truth does . The truth doesn't invite many but it invites those that are sincere.
'Amra, daughter of Abd al-Rahmin, reported: I heard 'A'isha, the wife of the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ). say: If the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) had seen what new things the women have introduced (in their way of life) he would have definitely prevented them from going to the mosque, as the women of BaniIsra'il were prevented. [Sahih Muslim 445a] [Sahih al-Bukhari 869] [Jami` at-Tirmidhi 540] [Sunan Abi Dawud 569]
As a girl who hasn't gone to the mosjid for years and has no plans to go in the future, because praying at home suits me better, I'm glad to hear this. Never saw the appeal anyway
@@alghurraba Imam Nuwawi Rha said: The meaning of had seen what new things the women have done, refers to beautification, perfume, accessorized clothing. Imam Azzarakani explanation: the condition of going out to the masjid is not stirring fitnah by having decorations, perfume, or freemixing and safety of travel (see Sunan Abi Dawud 565) Abu Dawud in his commentary: and the condition of going out is abiding by the limits of Islam; no perfuming, no decorated clothing, no freemixing with men, and entering the masjid from a separate entry. If these conditions are violated, then the prohibition becomes justified.
Abu Udhaynah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The best of your women are loving, fertile, suitable, and comforting, if they fear Allah. The worst of your women unveil their beauty, take pride in their appearance, and they are hypocrites. None of them will enter Paradise except as rarely as you see a red-beaked crow.” Source: al-Sunan al-Kubrá 12480 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani عَنْ أَبِي أُذَيْنَةَ الصَّدَفِيِّ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ خَيْرُ نِسَائِكُمُ الْوَدُودُ الْوَلُودُ الْمُوَاتِيَةُ الْمُوَاسِيَةُ إِذَا اتَّقَيْنَ اللَّهَ وَشَرُّ نِسَائِكُمُ الْمُتَبَرِّجَاتُ الْمُتَخَيِلاتُ وَهُنَّ الْمُنَافِقَاتُ لا يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ مِنْهُنَّ إِلا مِثْلُ الْغُرَابِ الأَعْصَمِ 12480 السنن الكبرى للبيهقي 1849 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث صحيح في السلسلة الصحيحة
It was said to ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her): Which type of woman is best? She said: The one who does not know about saying bad things, and she is not crafty like men; her focus is on adorning herself for her husband and taking care of her family. Muhadarat al-Udaba by ar-Raghib al-Asfahani, 1/410. ‘Uyoon al-Akhbar by Ibn Qutaybah, 1/375
I agree with all what the brother said except the last thing. For a Mother to be a good mother she have to be educated. She is the one who spent more time with her kids . And I have seen manny women who are not educated and I have seen how their kids turned out.
Sellam my brother! This problem attack almost our sisters and our daughters ..... In the last age they cray and 😭 but nothing to change.please Young girls be careful your time ....
سلام عليكم.. Yes.. I can certainly recognise this.. Agressive... Personally* Seerah *Prophetic Biography * Save my Life.. Context.. And Fitrah Femininity More Wholesome.. Healthy Hiyah.. Such a wonderful Role Model our Mother of Believers *Ra*.. 🥰
The narrations that say Khadija (May Allah be pleased with Her) got married at 40 come from al-Waqidi and al-Kalbi who were both Shi’i weak historians and were called liars. Ibn Ishaq who is truthful says she was 28. Mu’sab al-Zubayri who is also truthful suggests she was about 25.
Context is important , it’s called fiqh, but this issue it’s for this topic you should know each situation is depending on specific situation. That’s why Islam is a cure for this , polygamy etc....
I don't think women realize how "repulsive" it is to NOT be chaste?? It's like asking a Man to go eat out of his neighbors trash - can. EVERY Muslim Man deserves a chaste bride, marriage is the largest investment in a mans life, otherwise, invest in yourself and your business. Men do NOT need to get married, but to marry an unchaste bride? Disgusting...don't ever do it brothers.
Khadija received the ❤️ of Allah S.T.W. And RasullaAllah S.A.W❤but we don’t usually get that in today world 🌎 because no matter how much we try to be there for our husbands we are still looked down as we are nothing and sometimes be forced to take care of our children on our own, I don’t call feminists myself as I took part of taking care of over 9 siblings in which 8 were boys until today I help them take care of their wives as a men and was raised to care for my own husband and children when my time comes but ending up with wrong man distracted woman’s fitrah most of the time in these days 😢
So true, may Allah forgive us and guide us as an unified ummah Bismillah. With the topic of marriage, I am not a feminist, I am willing to be obedient to a man of his word. Not a man who follows his desires and disobeys Allah by not praying and indulging in his lusts. I am dignified and I respect myself enough to not do those things, by the will of Allah, Alhamdulillah. The man I married, took my virginity, and I am very upset with myself, it’s a trauma I will have to overcome, Allah knows exactly what I been through. Allah is my Protector, He guided me out even though I didn’t understand at first. Hasbi Allah. I just want to know if there are brothers out there who find the importance of deen over their desires.
i don't understand how it's impossible to find good men. its so easy, if a men sins it clearly shows in their action. yes there are some chameleons among men, that's very few. men aren't good at acting to hide their actions, that's just fact.
Sisters saying women turn to feminism because men treat them badly. That can be true. But who chose the man? If you make a poor choice you have to own up to it. I promise you that in everyone's life there is that one person that is the right choice but maybe he/she is not THAT high status/wealthy or that handsome/beautiful. Please choose the deen.
@@alghurraba The vast minority of people. The more common factor is people marrying for the wrong reasons. Exceptions don't make a rule. Even if they change somehow, it is still not a valid justification for turning to feminism. Then it is a test and you should have patience.
Can someone please advise me on what to do. My father does not want to take responsibility for us to get married at all as he keeps stating that it's stated by the high court of my country that fathers do not need to take responsibility for the children. He rarely prays, he's feminine and is on his phone all day long. He doesn't care about us and is unemployed now. With no intention of working or helping in the house as he chants the Muslim speakers saying that helping in the house is 'a woman's work' My mom who is a traditional wife had to leave the house for work, I don't understand why nobody talks about the rising rate of lazy and irresponsible men as a result of which women are helpless and devastated. At the same time women get bashed for being some kind of liberal feminist monster.
Sisters watch this UA-cam video, why I'm NOT a modern women by Cynthia L ..... This young non Muslim women chooses to be dependent on her husband, chooses her home and family and faith to bring her joy. Agree with her totally, why should I as a women suffer a burnout by having two jobs....I prefer to be a traditional wife alhamdulilah as taught to us by our beloved Prophets (saw) wives.
feminism according merriam webster : "the belief that women and men should have equal rights and opportunities. belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes expressed especially through organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests" I don't understand how they deviate from that textbook meaning of the words, into what we have now....it's not about woman want to become like a man, it's not about woman hating man, it's about equality of rights,
i've talked to feminists before and ive had messed up replies such as women can walk topless freely in public like some men do so im never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever going to agree with feminism
Alhamdulilah good video, & exposed kariji feminists ungrateful wives in political form in chat! Sh. Albani, bin Baz, & Rabi adviced each other & other rulers! (The cxlt brings bro kariji grave/boot licker & project who misread/lies, & yasir who lies on Tawhid & Umar, like nisa - no feminists cry but don't teach, esp. dawa Mecca)
Jabir ibn Abdullah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever has three daughters and he cares for them, he is merciful to them, and he clothes them, then Paradise is certainly required for him.” It was said, “O Messenger of Allah, what if he has only two?” The Prophet said, “Even two.” Some people thought that if they had said to him one, the Prophet would have said even one. Source: Musnad Aḥmad 13835 Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi (authentic due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani
35 year or 40 years is not old. There are women out there who pray to get married and have a husband and child. Not every woman who are not married at the age 40 are feminist.
I’m sick and tired of modern day sheikhs lecturing women on what they should and shouldn’t do. Focus on yourselves. For the women,do as you wish. Become educated. Be the best doctor lawyer or engineer or any other passionate career you wanna have. This life is short. Most of these Muslim women are angry that women have all these opportunities when they wanna just enslave them at home whilst begging them for some money. Pathetic
mate. first off calm your raging hormones. nobody's enslaving women here, women can work. but motherhood is the #1 priority, without a mother the children are incomplete. if you're a man, men have told women the lie "you can have it all" to take advantage of them. if you're a woman, yes education is a priority, if you can handle motherhood properly and a job i reccomend it, but if your relationship with your children is incomplete i suggest you fix that first. and if you're adamant women shouldn't have to get married and be mothers i have 2 options for you: 1) you're a man and you just want to take sexual advantage of women and hate islam 2) you're a woman, in that case wait a few years with your ideologies and see how lonely and miserable your life becomes.
@@adamsayid2765 stop telling women what to do. I’m sick and tired of men lecturing women on becoming mothers or married. Have you stopped to ask if women even want that instead of pushing It on them. There are so many women in unhappy marriages because of people like Gabriel pushing and pressuring women into marriages. Grow up
@@truejohnson5269 they will, let them wait about 10 years thinking they don't and they'll realise :) women will realise in those 10 years that their better off married than being sexually exploited on all sides by western men. and women being unhappy in marriages is one of the reasons this channel exists lol, to tell men how to be better. i don't see what the problem is here.
@@adamsayid2765 I don’t see him telling men how to be better? Do you? It’s always about criticising women like we don’t have enough to deal with already
@@truejohnson5269 Until you calm your feminism you will always be blind. look on his channel. don't tell me there's nothing on how men should be because i've watched countless videos that do and changed myself accordingly. why are we even fighting? feminism is a poison set by our enemies to seperate young muslim men and women and cause havoc within us. don't let it get the better of you. we should be uniting, not at each others throats. we aren't enemies, the real enemies are there in the west and israel
So true and Alhamdulillah Gabriel and the3muslims have videos teaching women how to make this differentiation ma shaa Allah and the same goes for men please because a lot of females out there are extremely toxic man
@@halalmuslimah9076 absolutely, women need to take ownership.of the choices we make, in my first marriage i picked the wrong man who wasn't fit for the role, i saw the red flags ignored it, i have to own i chose a bad husband, not all men are bad.
Using the prophet (pbuh) and his wife as examples is problematic in today’s age. We should all aspire to be like them men and women, however we are not even close to them in righteousness. Being like Kadija is hard if your husband is nothing like the Prophet (pbuh). It’s human nature to react to how you are being treated. It’s easy to be a good wife to a good man that treats you with fairness and kindness. From what I have seen a woman from a loving home where the men in her life were good and righteous do not turn to feminism. These young women need to separate the deen and the practice of the deen by a lot of men. The only way to defeat feminism is to teach our boys and men to learn and practice the deen in accordance with the Quran. Address the cause and not the reaction. All over the internet you see men demeaning the work housewives do and insinuating that all they do is Watch TV and live a life of ease. Why would anyone want to do a job which is not respected or valued.
Many men respect wives at home, its feminists who attack them. both men and nisa are responsible and help each other. the sahabas are examples, we follow to over come each problem. avoiding bida is also important because that causes confusion and as you allude they need to follow sunnah or it turns to other ideas! also side point write peace and blessings be upon him... its a dua after all!
You get the trophy for sacrificing your beauty, time and energy. Your accomplishments cannot go beyond being a mother and that's why every Sheikh will make sure to remind that Paradis is under your feet so you wouldn't even dream about becoming more than a mother. Men can be fathers but also, presidents, scientists, and successful. Now you have a Muslim men that targets the divorcee Women calling them "unpure" and un wanted and ironically they are the same men who will sell good women are submittsive " housewife"
@@safia5002 "your accomplishments can not go beyond being a mother" you've just undermined the value of being a mother! There is literally nothing greater accomplishment in this dunya for a woman to become a (righteous) mother. If there is, kindly state.. And yes, a good woman is a submissive woman as a function of her worship to Allah. A man will never have a “happy” long term relationship with a masculine woman. He is either going to be fighting with her all the time or she’s going to slowly turn him into a simp. Two masculine energies cannot exist in a relationship, one will become the beta, and more often that not, it’s the man that concedes.
@@lost_poet_ brother if redphil brainwashed to chase after superiority with this problematic rhetoric like simp what can I do for you. There is no honor in the word submittsive when its towards a human rather than Allah. Obedience that islam talks about is the must abused word I can think of because people interpreted from their own desire. Obedience became a way to obligate women in becoming MAIDS and sexuell slaves. Obedience in Islam is mentioned many times in different aspects however when it comes to husband and wife you hear all this nonsense about submissive and following someone blindly.
Getting a degree and studying is not to feed my ego or to prove anything to anyone , m honestly genuinly passionate with my studies it's my safe place. I love working hard this has nothing to do with competing with men i'm my only and unique competitor . And one other point i ve never heard a woman arguing about being physically stronger than a man when we talk about equality we talk about brains. So no m not trying to be like a man or wanting to be like a man m being myself a woman who loves what she is doing and who never ever denied the omportance of males in her life
Praise be to Allah. Shaykh Muhammad al-Saalih ibn ‘Uthaymeen said: Making herself beautiful for her husband is one of the things that a woman should do. The more beautiful a woman looks for her husband, the more that will make him love her and that will create harmony between them. This is one of the objectives of sharee’ah, so if the makeup makes her look more beautiful and does not harm her, there is nothing wrong with that. But I have heard that make-up can damage the skin of the face and change it in ways that make it look ugly and age the skin prematurely. I hope that women will ask their doctors about that, and if it is proven, then using make-up will be deemed to be either haraam or makrooh at the very least, because everything that causes deformity or makes a person ugly is either haraam or makrooh. I would like to use this opportunity to discuss nail polish, which forms a layer on the nails. It is not permissible to use this if a woman is praying, because it prevents the water from reaching the nails when doing wudoo’ or ghusl, and it is not permissible to use anything that will prevent water from reaching the skin or nails when doing wudoo’ or ghusl. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “wash your faces and your hands (forearms) up to the elbows…” [al-Maa’idah 5:6] So if a woman is wearing nail-polish which prevents water from reaching her nails, then she is not really washing her hands, which means that she has omitted one of the obligatory parts of wudoo’ and ghusl. But if she is not praying, there is nothing wrong with her using it, unless this action is one of the unique characteristics of kaafir woman, in which case it is not permissible because it involves imitating them. And Allaah knows best. islamqa.info/en/answers/20226/ruling-on-using-cosmetics
He’ll make multiple videos of the same topic when it comes to critiquing women but only one when it comes to problematic men, E.g domestic abuse. This guy has some weird obsession give it a break broski and fix the problems in your own community before attacking women.
I agree people don't talk about it that much but this guys channel is forced on thr well being of Muslims, because of feminism today and it slowly entering our Women it affects the men thus he speaks out.
😅😅😅😅 so now women should give their money to their husbands !!! Thats the problem with you . You don't have the balance you just focus on women responsibility you don't talk that much about men responsibility that's why women response to you a lot !!!
😂 😆 Gabriel’s has way more content dedicated to masculinity and how men need to step up. He also has a course on teaching men to be men and runs a dojo in Malaysia, putting his money where his mouth is instead of just crying on the internet like yall do yourselves If you’re going to come at him then say something true at least
@@RedRose-cn8ln That’s not the point lmao. Stop trying to change the subject to protect your fragile little ego The point is, he makes videos about men, way more than women. It isn’t why he needs to teach men to be men. That’s not the topic, so stop trying to change it ua-cam.com/video/HtZip3Z5Fb0/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/8cBxkpiWh2s/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/qsuVWeRLlzo/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/E9su4dVpT-s/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/9q3yVNeAk_w/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/PPf1v3iVPE8/v-deo.html This is why Islam banned women from political leadership. The brother makes hour long videos about men and we see it as a good thing that guides us. We accept the criticism and the need to take on responsibility and better ourselves But he makes one video about women and yall cry like babies 🤦🏾♂️
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Abu Udhaynah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The best of your women are loving, fertile, suitable, and comforting, if they fear Allah. The worst of your women unveil their beauty, take pride in their appearance, and they are hypocrites. None of them will enter Paradise except as rarely as you see a red-beaked crow.”
Source: al-Sunan al-Kubrá 12480
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
عَنْ أَبِي أُذَيْنَةَ الصَّدَفِيِّ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ خَيْرُ نِسَائِكُمُ الْوَدُودُ الْوَلُودُ الْمُوَاتِيَةُ الْمُوَاسِيَةُ إِذَا اتَّقَيْنَ اللَّهَ وَشَرُّ نِسَائِكُمُ الْمُتَبَرِّجَاتُ الْمُتَخَيِلاتُ وَهُنَّ الْمُنَافِقَاتُ لا يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ مِنْهُنَّ إِلا مِثْلُ الْغُرَابِ الأَعْصَمِ
12480 السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
1849 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث صحيح في السلسلة الصحيحة.
It was said to ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her): Which type of woman is best? She said: The one who does not know about saying bad things, and she is not crafty like men; her focus is on adorning herself for her husband and taking care of her family.
Muhadarat al-Udaba by ar-Raghib al-Asfahani, 1/410.
‘Uyoon al-Akhbar by Ibn Qutaybah, 1/375.
Asalaam Alaikum WRWB
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I’m sorry sheikh but your misogynist approach towards women is very sickening. We are seeing a large percentage of young Muslim men looking up to sheikhs like this who talk of women being the property of a man with no aspiration or dreams or authority over herself in her own life. Please fix up
This brother speaks the truth! Young women be careful, your time to have a family is limited, that is a fact. Don’t waste your time on work and haram relationships. Stay chaste and make dua, you cannot lose ❤️
@@francodisposable asalamalaykum sis. I see you follow a lot of the same ppl i do. But alhamdulillah i see you watcha ssim al hakeem. I empathise with your situation but you must know that the best way is guidence from Allah having trust in Allah and seeking guidance from a knowledgeable person in you local area. Im wondering have you submitted your will to Allah Subhana'wat'ala and have you been increasing your knowldge of Muhammad s.a.w sira?
Onfe i did that i had started to implement the things i was learnig from assim al hakeem and that gradually has helped me i strongly recommend looking into the rulings on hijab or at least having images on your icon. It will help you recieve more respectful interactions from people who wish to help you. Some people might not be able to understand your situation because they have a misconception of you based on your icon and after 12 tears i changed mine based on what i learned about cartoon images and images of the creation. Alhamdulillah that we are being guided by Allah and that is the relationship that will bring us the most peace in our lives. Once you submit to Allah alone you are not as easily hurt and effected by the siuation you might be in regarding your other relationships. May Allah forgive us all and strengthen our ummah and guide us all and bless you and your ex with spouses that will be a means of guidence and security and happiness and strength and the best parents for your children. Ameen
I don't care if I never get married but I'd never EVER agree to marrying a feminist. It's not much different to marrying a man. Ain't nobody got time for that.
I second you here brother
Amen to that
Anyone who marries a feminist doesn't deserve to be obeyed
in western society the push to make women equal to men (notice which way round it is) has gotten to the point where women have literally become men.
@@quranrecitation7097 trust me. Sometimes you're tempted just to say "Salaam brother" to them.
I’m a women and I actually hate when feminists compare them selves to Khadijah. 🙄Oh please, if you met Khadijah in person, I’m sure you’d be ashamed of your self because she wasn’t anything like feminist!
So much respect for you, muslim skeptic and sajid lipman etc for not being afraid to say the Islam truth that is unfortunately problematic to muslims, that many daees never even dare to talk about
WE need internal dawa as we need external dawa.
Ppl on bid'a (like sufis) divide ummah and brings in reforming on secularism (like tyt) or colonization. many on bida teach ext. taqlid & grave worship ties in, Tawhid ties to safety in Q 24 :55. So the ppl need to learn Aqida Manhaj 1st!
For Islam to grow in society Muslims need to learn Islam.
Manhaj is method includes priorities & reference, to learn Islam's most important parts to the next, so never trade it for less while progressively building. Islam's 5 pillars aids society, 6 of Iman for individuals & 5 pillars shariah to protect society!
People are changing the Deen khadija was 40 and People are saying now it's not true to bash women for being ambitious. Some men are just following their own superiority complex and calling it ISLAM 😒
@@safia5002 Another hijabi femenist trying to justify her cause even after the facts being shown that khadija was nothing like how the feminist of today trying to depict her....it's actually an insult to this great women.... if "ambitious " means going out leaving the abaya,mixing with men,leaving family, depriving husband and children from thier rights then... no...Khadija (RA) wasn’t that type of ambitious....
@@safia5002 do you have the hadith Khadijah was 40? as hadith specialists say she was about 28.
In Islam we unite upon truth and Islam is preserved so we follow it!
I heard from a Shiekh few days that Khadija RA had inherited her business and her wealth from her deceased husband. In all the years I've been listening to Islamic lectures, and all the talks related to this topic, why is this the first time am hearing this? Why are scholars so afraid to speak in detail about the life of Khadija.? Most muslims today all they know is "Khadija RA was businesswoman" that's pretty much it. Today's popular celebrity Daees, Sheikh's, Scholars, are blameworthy for sisters falling into the trap of feminism liberalism ideologies. I've yet to come across a lecture on this platform which is solely addressing the sisters, giving them naseeha to respect their husband, to be good obedient wives, to love their husbands, to cook for them etc. Instead you'll find a whole lot of pandering and man bashing.
Did khadija
رَضِيَ ٱللَّٰهُ عَنْهُ
Leave the business to prophet muhammad ﷺ after marriage I think so
So true, imams like Mufti Menk and Nouman Ali Khan too busy telling brothers not to oppress their wives, and not a single thing to the sisters.
@Abdul Hamid 100% agree with you..... He is like simping all the time and a big fitna for ummah
@@ik5441 Well said. Happy to see more brothers waking up to this agenda. Actually to come to think it for it now it wasn't even a Shiekh who mentioned it, it was Daniel Haqiqtochu in one of his recent streams.
@@livingjoke3083 they come from a sufi culture that imitates hinduism and oppresses nisa which lead them to feminism... both the ppl of bida and ppl of liberalism , the men and nisa need to return to the balance of the sunnah!
WE need internal dawa as we need external dawa.
As a woman, a wife, a mother, a businesswoman and most importantly, a muslimah, I don’t need these ignorant social media ladies to speak for me.
Allaah the Almighty has already given me a lofty status. Feminism infringes on that status and any muslimah who thinks otherwise needs to study and learn.
There is no society without wives and mothers. When will these toxic feminists begin to realise and acknowledge the value of that.
With so much information online, how do these ignorant people not go and learn? It’s so embarrassing.
If I were a single muslimah right now I’d be worried. Men must think we’re all crazy liberal feminists.
Men, brothers, sons- please don’t let this put you off. Ask your daughters, sisters, and wives to learn the deen and study. Truly Islam is a cure for all societal ailments. Alhamdulillah.
Exactly,,,not all muslimahs are crazy liberal feminists,,,it's only the rich and priviledged ones who are able to, hence some brothers here harboring a superiority complex and looking down on the muslim women, assuming worst of them...so frustrating, most of these men don't understand us.
I feel sorry for the brother.He has to deal with all these people even though he does not say anything bad.He just gives nasiha based on the Quran and the Sunnah.I was really shaken by the statement of that girl.But any way,Allah has sent us people as a test.We should be patient even though it hurts or frustrates us.May Allah help you brother!Wallahi you can understand the situation in the ummah very well.May Allah accept your deeds and shade you that day.May Allah grant you and your family Jannah!
I think we sisters like whom are well minded can understand that the world has not been left a greater fitnah trial then the trials of the women . We are our good sisters advises these young sisters whom are women not girls mothers of the future etc... they are on apps trying to get married by themselves, not good
My wife is of 30 years of marriage to me and if I desire another sister how could I find or any other brother ? Dawah is also a job of men Allah says but sisters have to support the brothers , not to stand on top of them . College degrees will not help them soley, riches will not help them rather firstly learn who is Allah even the basics , then school will befit
Lastly , where are fathers the uncles the brothers the imams where are they as these sisters cause fitnah for us men and the world ! Where are we men are we scared to help them ?
3 categories of women:
1. Traditional women that want a man to provide for them.
2. Feminists who want absolute equality.
3. Modern day Muslim feminists who want both.
Brother you keep getting critiqued by people without knowledge, but you still do your best putting up content and educating us on our deen. May Allah bless you brother
It's okay she can be a feminist all she wants. Once she reaches her 30s, she will be ready for marriage but then only realize that all her independence, and career wealth will mean nothing because she wasted her good years. The marriage proposals will slowly die out and she will face the reality of her situation. Well congratulations, you worked all your life to prove to yourself you don't need a man. And now you reap what you sowed, Ms. Independent. What makes a woman attracted to a man isn't the same as what makes a man attracted to a woman. With age, these modern day feminists will have to face the bitter truth. And what makes it so sad is once they make these mistakes, there's really no second chance for them. See, once they hit their 30s, they are already 5 years away from geriatric pregnancy, meaning that it becomes dangerous for them at that point to be able to produce children. Men can make a mistake in their 20s, and wait till their 30s, to marry a girl in their 20s, they can also make many more mistakes, and wait till their 40s to marry another batch of young women in their 20s. Women don't have that luxury, they only have one shot and it's upto us men to make sure our daughters get it right the first time. Feminism is keeping more women single at an alarming rate. And this is why so women are dying ALONE. Single women keep women single. It's a tragedy.
@@Seaweed571 After 35, it's dangerous to have babies. It's a fact. That doesn't mean alot of 35 year olds won't have healthy babies. We are talking generally.
Also, generally speaking, most men prefer younger women. That is a FACT. The same way most women are physically weaker than men. I don't care about some Olympic female in some part of the world that is stronger than a few guys. I'm talking GENERALLY, that is what you don't seem to understand. By you speaking like this, all you are doing is telling women to calm down and take their time when they are in their 30s, when the truth is, THEY ARE RUNNING OUT OF TIME, "generally"speaking! I'm not saying there is no hope, of course there is. But if they don't move fast, the window will close. That is the truth!
@@Seaweed571 Islam doesn't forbid you from marrying whenevr you want, but remember that it encourages young marriage, because the mentality of "let me become independent and focus on my careers" is being deeply perpetrated on a mass scale and is dangerous to humanity..
@@Seaweed571 Islam encourages not to delay nikah. This is the sunnah. If someone recommends to delay nikah means that person preaching against the sunnah which is an innovation. In general getting nikah early is recommended in Islam This is Our way of approach. All other feminist approaches are not encouraged in Islam.
@@Seaweed571 you speak like a disbeliever? why do you beautify that which the disbelievers hold sacred ?
@@Seaweed571 "So be a Muslim should not believe what’s General unless it’s really specify in Quran and Hadith at 35 is dangerous to be pregnant then don’t be pregnant 😏"
the prophet mentioned in a narration to a man who asked 3 times shall he marry a particular woman and the prophet said no, he said marry woman who are loving and fertile.
What is your profession ? since you have decided to talk about pregnancy ?
women over their 30 are beyond their prime fertile years. you dont have to be mad about reality.
Wait till they find out she was an obedient and modest wife, they will overlook that and take her working out of context for their own gain
True
That is what they do
Brother you are a Real man. I am sure Real woman sisters understands you. Keep doing the great work .
The archers of Uhud analogy is absolutely spot on سبحان الله
It was said to ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her): Which type of woman is best? She said: The one who does not know about saying bad things, and she is not crafty like men; her focus is on adorning herself for her husband and taking care of her family.
Muhadarat al-Udaba by ar-Raghib al-Asfahani, 1/410.
‘Uyoon al-Akhbar by Ibn Qutaybah, 1/375.
there are lot of feminist shuyukh out there, so be careful.
The greatest thing is this life is a righteous women ! As our prophet has said !
You are doing a great job brother. We need more men like you❤❤May ALLAH S.W.T protect you and add barakah to your knowledge.
Love from Pakistan.
May Allah bless you brother! I’m learning a lot of things from you as a muslimah and I used to think like you but then my feminist friends would argue with me whenever I told them I wanna serve my husband and take care of my kids they would be really surprised and horrified at me ( but honestly they are non Muslims so may Allah guide them and the Muslim friends that told me that too may Allah guide them and bless them, they honestly don’t know which one is better inshallah they will all change their minds ones they grow up) I then I changed my mind after we talked and I kind of started to agree with them but now Alhamdulilah I agree with you and my heart is filled with peace especially since you are talking with evidence from Islamic sources, this is my Fitrah, this is what’s true
How dare these sisters attack Brother Gabriel when he always puts his reputation on the line by defending their honour and their dignity. If you want an example, just watch his debate with Mahdi Tadjani!
Respect my brother! Speaking as it is, sick and tiered of simping prats who are fuelling this poisonous behaviour.
I pray that you keep firm and continue addressing this issues with the right balance of respect and bluntness. We need this.
7:45 feminists seem to do both of hating men who dont work but let their wifes work and calling those men weak and lazy (which i would agree) then promoting the idea of men staying at some and letting their wifes work and calling it empowering etc (which i would disagree with)
@@Expiringsoon i hope n pray tht u marry someone who aligns with ur mentality or y'all are compatible... In sha allah allah will help u
@@Expiringsoon thats fine if you are worling for security and still having a husband and kids
@@Expiringsoon very one dimensional thinking. But it's your "choice". You do you
Assalamu alaykum, brother . Very good insight, may Allah (swt) give you long life and benefit Ummah.
My wonderful brother Gabriel. As splendid as usual. BarakalLahu feekum
Nicely and simply replied👌
JazakAllah
Awesome intellectual Response Brother
Respect 👍🏼
May Allah reward you thousand folds.
May Allah give us the sabr, the courage, the integrity and the support to her husband. RadiyaLahu Anha.
Jazakum Allah khair 👍
“The wife’s money is her money and the husband’s money is both their money” is a lie spread by Nouman Ali Khan. As long as the husband is providing for her rights, she cannot take a single penny without his permission. She can only take it if he’s not providing for her and she must only take what is sufficient for her needs to be met. The ruling is taken from this Hadith:
Hind bint ‘Utba said, Oh Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser and he does not give me what is sufficient for me and my children. Can I take of his property without his knowledge?” The prophet (ﷺ) said, “Take what is sufficient for you and your children, and the amount should be just and reasonable.
And if he’s not providing for her, there’s even a difference of opinion amongst scholars about whether she needs to go to a qadhi first or she can just take the money.
Muslim feminists have spread false “rights” of the wife like the husband’s money is the wife’s money, yet reject the husband’s rights which are clearly proven from the Quran and Sunnah such as the husband’s right to be obeyed.
I never took those statements as literally. If the husband isn't providing, he's sinful, but that doesn't give the wife the right to take his money by force. Such a thing would be despicable
@@sweettea1193 you may not take them literally, this is why you have the hadith explained to you by knowledgeable scholars that actually understand the Arabic of it. You can't pick and choose what you take literally and then inserting your opinion Into it like you just did. You make it seem as if those women that take the property without knowledge are sinful with your opinion alone, when the prophet clearly allowed it.
@@ChErRyaVe20pK yes, I'm aware of the exception when there's a need
Pretty sure nouman Ali khan does not say that the woman must resort to taking her husband's money. Dont misquote and spread lies. Slandering is a sin.
"The wife’s money is her money and the husband’s money is both their money” is a lie spread by Nouman Ali Khan. was this phrase coined by nouman ali khan ?
i feel sorry for him. this is a phrase i hear used a lot. its clearly false, and it is a concept that was adopted from the disbelievers.
Brother Gabriel on spot 👌. People who would say why don't you talk about men don't know the emerging problem these days are not related to what we used to talk about . Things have changed and this time men has been abused in too many ways and too many times.
We need more men who have the baseera to look through the modern day fitna, call it out and educate people about it with hikma. Loved this video. I hope to see more good work from this channel. Today the jihad is not on the battle ground but in the mind's of people.
Mashallah, I agree with 100% of what you said but I also believe that many things apply with both men and women referencing with education that you mentioned at the end
Dawah and advice keep going foward
Amazing Amazing charactet i am impressed what a beautiful example i love hazat khadija R.A
She is definitely surely not today's feminist.
Best as usual 😇😇
subhanAllah, jazakum Allah Khairan. 🤍🌸🌿
MaShaAllah. May Allah bless Shaykh for speaking haqq. It's all Red Pill and from Islam.
Anyone bring out the popcorn before reading the comments?
Something interesting about Khadijah RA -- her brother was the father of Zubair ibn Al Awwam. So, she was Az-Zubair's aunt. Also, BTW as a reminder Az-Zubair's mother was Safiyyah, who was Rasool Allah's SAW maternal and paternal aunt, so Az-Zubair was Allah's Messenger's 1st cousin on both sides, and he was Khadijah's nephew. Blessed family!
It is sad some women use such language and have such issues…. I am surprised it is to this extreme…. Mutual respect and understanding are the key for a contented life between a husband and wife… as for the women who do not wish to get married and have no intention to have children out of choice… I really don’t know what to say
If a woman doesn't wish to ever marry then she's obviously free to make her own choices so long as she isn't doing anything haram. But this group is a tiny minority
@@sweettea1193 That's not entirely true. The vast majority of women who remain single WILL end up in a haram situation either zina or male friends. It's not that they are bad or evil it's just human nature.
@@taym2720 I'm not talking about women who are single by chance, I'm talking about women who deliberately want to be single for life because a husband is something they don't desire. They won't be getting boyfriends if they want to be single forever. That's why I said this group is a minority
Ustatdh this is off topic but Allahumabarik you are husband, May Allah give us this Noor to us young men as well when we are in our 40-50 🤲🏾
جزاك الله خير
PS: Khadijah (Ra) was the first person to become Muslim. *Not just first WOMEN.
Prophet Muhammad (SAW) is muslim before her and perhaps any of the other prophets before him. I dont know if that counts as "became muslim" since they were already muslim prophets but maybe thats why he put it that way.
@@said8575 no Adam from among human kind was the first muslim
@@blueboy3098 yeah well thats what i was referring to all the other prophets.
@@said8575 ahh I misread, my apologies dear brother
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Wow! SubhanAllah! Something crazy pointed out here 💯
Masha Allah brother great topics may Allah reward you great Ameen Yah Allah 🤲🏼❤️
You know what i find ironic there's hardly any women in the comment section whoch is what the truth does . The truth doesn't invite many but it invites those that are sincere.
I am a woman who sees feminism as a poison to society...it destroys men, women and families.
@@anak5183 May Allah reward you sister and may allah give you jannat firdous in the akhirah. Ameen
'Amra, daughter of Abd al-Rahmin, reported:
I heard 'A'isha, the wife of the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ). say: If the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) had seen what new things the women have introduced (in their way of life) he would have definitely prevented them from going to the mosque, as the women of BaniIsra'il were prevented. [Sahih Muslim 445a] [Sahih al-Bukhari 869] [Jami` at-Tirmidhi 540] [Sunan Abi Dawud 569]
Jazak Allahu Khayr!
As a girl who hasn't gone to the mosjid for years and has no plans to go in the future, because praying at home suits me better, I'm glad to hear this. Never saw the appeal anyway
@@alghurraba Imam Nuwawi Rha said: The meaning of had seen what new things the women have done, refers to beautification, perfume, accessorized clothing.
Imam Azzarakani explanation: the condition of going out to the masjid is not stirring fitnah by having decorations, perfume, or freemixing and safety of travel (see Sunan Abi Dawud 565)
Abu Dawud in his commentary: and the condition of going out is abiding by the limits of Islam; no perfuming, no decorated clothing, no freemixing with men, and entering the masjid from a separate entry. If these conditions are violated, then the prohibition becomes justified.
Abu Udhaynah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The best of your women are loving, fertile, suitable, and comforting, if they fear Allah. The worst of your women unveil their beauty, take pride in their appearance, and they are hypocrites. None of them will enter Paradise except as rarely as you see a red-beaked crow.”
Source: al-Sunan al-Kubrá 12480
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
عَنْ أَبِي أُذَيْنَةَ الصَّدَفِيِّ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ خَيْرُ نِسَائِكُمُ الْوَدُودُ الْوَلُودُ الْمُوَاتِيَةُ الْمُوَاسِيَةُ إِذَا اتَّقَيْنَ اللَّهَ وَشَرُّ نِسَائِكُمُ الْمُتَبَرِّجَاتُ الْمُتَخَيِلاتُ وَهُنَّ الْمُنَافِقَاتُ لا يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ مِنْهُنَّ إِلا مِثْلُ الْغُرَابِ الأَعْصَمِ
12480 السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
1849 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث صحيح في السلسلة الصحيحة
It was said to ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her): Which type of woman is best? She said: The one who does not know about saying bad things, and she is not crafty like men; her focus is on adorning herself for her husband and taking care of her family.
Muhadarat al-Udaba by ar-Raghib al-Asfahani, 1/410.
‘Uyoon al-Akhbar by Ibn Qutaybah, 1/375
Best women who don't see their family relationship as "job" rather as a investment worth while
Masha Allah
Sheikh, u look good
anyone know who the sister is?
I agree with all what the brother said except the last thing. For a Mother to be a good mother she have to be educated. She is the one who spent more time with her kids . And I have seen manny women who are not educated and I have seen how their kids turned out.
@@wanderer318 listen to what he said at the end regarding the women fitra
Lesson taken
Women gotta follow khajidah ra
Sellam my brother! This problem attack almost our sisters and our daughters ..... In the last age they cray and 😭 but nothing to change.please Young girls be careful your time ....
سلام عليكم..
Yes..
I can certainly recognise this..
Agressive...
Personally* Seerah *Prophetic Biography * Save my Life..
Context..
And Fitrah Femininity More Wholesome..
Healthy Hiyah..
Such a wonderful Role Model our Mother of Believers *Ra*..
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The narrations that say Khadija (May Allah be pleased with Her) got married at 40 come from al-Waqidi and al-Kalbi who were both Shi’i weak historians and were called liars. Ibn Ishaq who is truthful says she was 28. Mu’sab al-Zubayri who is also truthful suggests she was about 25.
Nafisa bint Munya and others however say she was 40
I wish other Muslim brothers would wear such attire
Context is important , it’s called fiqh, but this issue it’s for this topic you should know each situation is depending on specific situation. That’s why Islam is a cure for this , polygamy etc....
Mashallah well groomed and dressed smart
I don't think women realize how "repulsive" it is to NOT be chaste?? It's like asking a Man to go eat out of his neighbors trash - can. EVERY Muslim Man deserves a chaste bride, marriage is the largest investment in a mans life, otherwise, invest in yourself and your business. Men do NOT need to get married, but to marry an unchaste bride? Disgusting...don't ever do it brothers.
Khadija received the ❤️ of Allah S.T.W. And RasullaAllah S.A.W❤but we don’t usually get that in today world 🌎 because no matter how much we try to be there for our husbands we are still looked down as we are nothing and sometimes be forced to take care of our children on our own, I don’t call feminists myself as I took part of taking care of over 9 siblings in which 8 were boys until today I help them take care of their wives as a men and was raised to care for my own husband and children when my time comes but ending up with wrong man distracted woman’s fitrah most of the time in these days 😢
MashaAllah
So true, may Allah forgive us and guide us as an unified ummah
Bismillah.
With the topic of marriage, I am not a feminist, I am willing to be obedient to a man of his word. Not a man who follows his desires and disobeys Allah by not praying and indulging in his lusts.
I am dignified and I respect myself enough to not do those things, by the will of Allah, Alhamdulillah.
The man I married, took my virginity, and I am very upset with myself, it’s a trauma I will have to overcome, Allah knows exactly what I been through. Allah is my Protector, He guided me out even though I didn’t understand at first.
Hasbi Allah. I just want to know if there are brothers out there who find the importance of deen over their desires.
i don't understand how it's impossible to find good men. its so easy, if a men sins it clearly shows in their action. yes there are some chameleons among men, that's very few. men aren't good at acting to hide their actions, that's just fact.
With regards to the conversation from the feminist, who is he talking about?
12:44 ✨ Truth
Sisters saying women turn to feminism because men treat them badly. That can be true.
But who chose the man? If you make a poor choice you have to own up to it. I promise you that in everyone's life there is that one person that is the right choice but maybe he/she is not THAT high status/wealthy or that handsome/beautiful.
Please choose the deen.
@@alghurraba The vast minority of people. The more common factor is people marrying for the wrong reasons. Exceptions don't make a rule. Even if they change somehow, it is still not a valid justification for turning to feminism. Then it is a test and you should have patience.
Khadija ra couldn't be further away from what they attribute.
Can someone please advise me on what to do. My father does not want to take responsibility for us to get married at all as he keeps stating that it's stated by the high court of my country that fathers do not need to take responsibility for the children. He rarely prays, he's feminine and is on his phone all day long. He doesn't care about us and is unemployed now. With no intention of working or helping in the house as he chants the Muslim speakers saying that helping in the house is 'a woman's work' My mom who is a traditional wife had to leave the house for work, I don't understand why nobody talks about the rising rate of lazy and irresponsible men as a result of which women are helpless and devastated. At the same time women get bashed for being some kind of liberal feminist monster.
Sisters watch this UA-cam video, why I'm NOT a modern women by Cynthia L ..... This young non Muslim women chooses to be dependent on her husband, chooses her home and family and faith to bring her joy. Agree with her totally, why should I as a women suffer a burnout by having two jobs....I prefer to be a traditional wife alhamdulilah as taught to us by our beloved Prophets (saw) wives.
Assalamu alaykum
"Why do you go for Dawah" 😅😅😅
feminism according merriam webster : "the belief that women and men should have equal rights and opportunities. belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes expressed especially through organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests"
I don't understand how they deviate from that textbook meaning of the words, into what we have now....it's not about woman want to become like a man, it's not about woman hating man, it's about equality of rights,
To believe that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities you need to have certain presuppositions. Such as- men and women are equal.
i know, but have you ever heard "do as i do, not as i say?" XD
i've talked to feminists before and ive had messed up replies such as women can walk topless freely in public like some men do so im never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever going to agree with feminism
@@adamsayid2765 It's legal for women to walk topless in Canada
Alhamdulilah good video, & exposed kariji feminists ungrateful wives in political form in chat! Sh. Albani, bin Baz, & Rabi adviced each other & other rulers!
(The cxlt brings bro kariji grave/boot licker & project who misread/lies, & yasir who lies on Tawhid & Umar, like nisa - no feminists cry but don't teach, esp. dawa Mecca)
The hadith is about raising two girls not three brother Gabriel, than they said to him what about one he said and one.
Jabir ibn Abdullah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever has three daughters and he cares for them, he is merciful to them, and he clothes them, then Paradise is certainly required for him.” It was said, “O Messenger of Allah, what if he has only two?” The Prophet said, “Even two.” Some people thought that if they had said to him one, the Prophet would have said even one.
Source: Musnad Aḥmad 13835
Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi (authentic due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani
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0:00 would have been better if you said feminists
😂 The right hand comment everytime.
35 year or 40 years is not old. There are women out there who pray to get married and have a husband and child. Not every woman who are not married at the age 40 are feminist.
I’m sick and tired of modern day sheikhs lecturing women on what they should and shouldn’t do. Focus on yourselves. For the women,do as you wish. Become educated. Be the best doctor lawyer or engineer or any other passionate career you wanna have. This life is short. Most of these Muslim women are angry that women have all these opportunities when they wanna just enslave them at home whilst begging them for some money. Pathetic
mate.
first off calm your raging hormones.
nobody's enslaving women here, women can work.
but motherhood is the #1 priority, without a mother the children are incomplete.
if you're a man, men have told women the lie "you can have it all" to take advantage of them.
if you're a woman, yes education is a priority, if you can handle motherhood properly and a job i reccomend it, but if your relationship with your children is incomplete i suggest you fix that first. and if you're adamant women shouldn't have to get married and be mothers i have 2 options for you:
1) you're a man and you just want to take sexual advantage of women and hate islam
2) you're a woman, in that case wait a few years with your ideologies and see how lonely and miserable your life becomes.
@@adamsayid2765 stop telling women what to do. I’m sick and tired of men lecturing women on becoming mothers or married. Have you stopped to ask if women even want that instead of pushing It on them. There are so many women in unhappy marriages because of people like Gabriel pushing and pressuring women into marriages. Grow up
@@truejohnson5269 they will, let them wait about 10 years thinking they don't and they'll realise :) women will realise in those 10 years that their better off married than being sexually exploited on all sides by western men. and women being unhappy in marriages is one of the reasons this channel exists lol, to tell men how to be better. i don't see what the problem is here.
@@adamsayid2765 I don’t see him telling men how to be better? Do you? It’s always about criticising women like we don’t have enough to deal with already
@@truejohnson5269 Until you calm your feminism you will always be blind. look on his channel. don't tell me there's nothing on how men should be because i've watched countless videos that do and changed myself accordingly. why are we even fighting? feminism is a poison set by our enemies to seperate young muslim men and women and cause havoc within us. don't let it get the better of you. we should be uniting, not at each others throats. we aren't enemies, the real enemies are there in the west and israel
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what language is this?
There's nothing wrong with supporting a good man. But you need to diffrentiate between a wasteman and an upright man.
So true and Alhamdulillah Gabriel and the3muslims have videos teaching women how to make this differentiation ma shaa Allah and the same goes for men please because a lot of females out there are extremely toxic man
@@halalmuslimah9076 absolutely, women need to take ownership.of the choices we make, in my first marriage i picked the wrong man who wasn't fit for the role, i saw the red flags ignored it, i have to own i chose a bad husband, not all men are bad.
Anyone who starts with "there is nothing wrong with" is sus.
Using the prophet (pbuh) and his wife as examples is problematic in today’s age. We should all aspire to be like them men and women, however we are not even close to them in righteousness.
Being like Kadija is hard if your husband is nothing like the Prophet (pbuh). It’s human nature to react to how you are being treated. It’s easy to be a good wife to a good man that treats you with fairness and kindness.
From what I have seen a woman from a loving home where the men in her life were good and righteous do not turn to feminism. These young women need to separate the deen and the practice of the deen by a lot of men. The only way to defeat feminism is to teach our boys and men to learn and practice the deen in accordance with the Quran. Address the cause and not the reaction.
All over the internet you see men demeaning the work housewives do and insinuating that all they do is Watch TV and live a life of ease. Why would anyone want to do a job which is not respected or valued.
Many men respect wives at home, its feminists who attack them. both men and nisa are responsible and help each other. the sahabas are examples, we follow to over come each problem. avoiding bida is also important because that causes confusion and as you allude they need to follow sunnah or it turns to other ideas!
also side point write peace and blessings be upon him... its a dua after all!
You get the trophy for sacrificing your beauty, time and energy. Your accomplishments cannot go beyond being a mother and that's why every Sheikh will make sure to remind that Paradis is under your feet so you wouldn't even dream about becoming more than a mother. Men can be fathers but also, presidents, scientists, and successful. Now you have a Muslim men that targets the divorcee Women calling them "unpure" and un wanted and ironically they are the same men who will sell good women are submittsive " housewife"
As usual blaming men and taking no accountability. All your sisters who became feminists are apostates, deal with it
@@safia5002 "your accomplishments can not go beyond being a mother" you've just undermined the value of being a mother! There is literally nothing greater accomplishment in this dunya for a woman to become a (righteous) mother. If there is, kindly state..
And yes, a good woman is a submissive woman as a function of her worship to Allah. A man will never have a “happy” long term relationship with a masculine woman. He is either going to be fighting with her all the time or she’s going to slowly turn him into a simp. Two masculine energies cannot exist in a relationship, one will become the beta, and more often that not, it’s the man that concedes.
@@lost_poet_ brother if redphil brainwashed to chase after superiority with this problematic rhetoric like simp what can I do for you. There is no honor in the word submittsive when its towards a human rather than Allah. Obedience that islam talks about is the must abused word I can think of because people interpreted from their own desire. Obedience became a way to obligate women in becoming MAIDS and sexuell slaves. Obedience in Islam is mentioned many times in different aspects however when it comes to husband and wife you hear all this nonsense about submissive and following someone blindly.
Getting a degree and studying is not to feed my ego or to prove anything to anyone , m honestly genuinly passionate with my studies it's my safe place.
I love working hard this has nothing to do with competing with men i'm my only and unique competitor .
And one other point i ve never heard a woman arguing about being physically stronger than a man when we talk about equality we talk about brains.
So no m not trying to be like a man or wanting to be like a man m being myself a woman who loves what she is doing and who never ever denied the omportance of males in her life
@@Seaweed571 yup they get emotional and if u answer u are the one who got triggered and very sensitive 😂
U keep mentioning makeup where is ur proof Allah says makeup is haraam in the Quran or a Authentic sunnah
Hijab is to conceal a woman’s beauty makeup is to enhance a woman’s beauty, it is tabarujj. It is clearly haram and goes against the hijab
Praise be to Allah.
Shaykh Muhammad al-Saalih ibn ‘Uthaymeen said:
Making herself beautiful for her husband is one of the things that a woman should do. The more beautiful a woman looks for her husband, the more that will make him love her and that will create harmony between them. This is one of the objectives of sharee’ah, so if the makeup makes her look more beautiful and does not harm her, there is nothing wrong with that.
But I have heard that make-up can damage the skin of the face and change it in ways that make it look ugly and age the skin prematurely. I hope that women will ask their doctors about that, and if it is proven, then using make-up will be deemed to be either haraam or makrooh at the very least, because everything that causes deformity or makes a person ugly is either haraam or makrooh.
I would like to use this opportunity to discuss nail polish, which forms a layer on the nails. It is not permissible to use this if a woman is praying, because it prevents the water from reaching the nails when doing wudoo’ or ghusl, and it is not permissible to use anything that will prevent water from reaching the skin or nails when doing wudoo’ or ghusl. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“wash your faces and your hands (forearms) up to the elbows…”
[al-Maa’idah 5:6]
So if a woman is wearing nail-polish which prevents water from reaching her nails, then she is not really washing her hands, which means that she has omitted one of the obligatory parts of wudoo’ and ghusl. But if she is not praying, there is nothing wrong with her using it, unless this action is one of the unique characteristics of kaafir woman, in which case it is not permissible because it involves imitating them.
And Allaah knows best.
islamqa.info/en/answers/20226/ruling-on-using-cosmetics
Are you a child?
hijab = concealing beauty
makeup = enhancing beauty
Kind of counter productive to use makeup outside the home or infront of non mahram men
@@Seaweed571 the mica is sometimes inhumanity extracted/collected, true.
He’ll make multiple videos of the same topic when it comes to critiquing women but only one when it comes to problematic men, E.g domestic abuse. This guy has some weird obsession give it a break broski and fix the problems in your own community before attacking women.
@Abdullah Abtahee exactly
I agree people don't talk about it that much but this guys channel is forced on thr well being of Muslims, because of feminism today and it slowly entering our Women it affects the men thus he speaks out.
This channel is very conservative, like many others
Woman are part of our community
Agree with you 👍🏻
😅😅😅😅 so now women should give their money to their husbands !!! Thats the problem with you . You don't have the balance you just focus on women responsibility you don't talk that much about men responsibility that's why women response to you a lot !!!
Grow up. Feminism has ruined your ability to listen and understand.
😂 😆 Gabriel’s has way more content dedicated to masculinity and how men need to step up. He also has a course on teaching men to be men and runs a dojo in Malaysia, putting his money where his mouth is instead of just crying on the internet like yall do yourselves
If you’re going to come at him then say something true at least
@@BlackDonaldTrump499 why you need him to teach how to be a man ? 😅
@@zia-ulislam7761 again everything women say it's because feminism that shows how childish mentality you have and men like you !
@@RedRose-cn8ln That’s not the point lmao. Stop trying to change the subject to protect your fragile little ego
The point is, he makes videos about men, way more than women. It isn’t why he needs to teach men to be men. That’s not the topic, so stop trying to change it
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This is why Islam banned women from political leadership. The brother makes hour long videos about men and we see it as a good thing that guides us. We accept the criticism and the need to take on responsibility and better ourselves
But he makes one video about women and yall cry like babies 🤦🏾♂️
MashaAllah
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Mashallah