Miscarriage | A Muslim Father's Perspective
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- Опубліковано 20 бер 2022
- Our missed miscarriage experience from a Muslim father's perspective. We want to honour our baby - Emaan, and build 100 water wells to provide clean drinking water to thousands of people in six different countries. Please donate here to help make this dream come true for us: www.launchgood.com/wellsforemaan
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Im so sorry for u guys
Just so you guys know
Im praying for u ❤️ im so sorry
May Allah SWT bless u ❤️
It was because of u i found Islam
I love u for existing and being u guys. InshaAllah it gets better and Allah SWT will bless u with another baby
Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon... I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢💔
My 1 year old daughter's name is Norah Emaan.. And she's the apple of my eye. I cannot imagine what you're going through.. All the love for baby Emaan. 😢💔
I’m sorry for your family’s loss. I believe that God blessed your family with your precious baby Emaan . With that said everyone has a limited time to be here on earth, and when God calls you home you must go. God called baby Emaan home at the time that he needed to. I know that this is a loss but it is also a celebration. All baby’s are untainted so they will automatically be welcomed to paradise waiting.
Cannot emphasize the important and significance of seeing a MAN talk about miscarriage from the perspective of a father. I have never come across such a video. May Allah bless you both with sabr during this difficult time. You are helping so many parents and giving them a voice, and the gentle reminder of Allah's words regarding these situations. Sending your family love and prayers ❤
We thought it was so important to share it from both sides, may Allah bless you
Thank you for sharing your point of view. It is so important for everyone to hear this. I’m so sorry for you terrible loss. I’m sending your family so much love, light, and prayers. I love them name Emaan it’s beautiful. ❤
I have a baby boy in Heaven too. I want to tell you thank you for making this video. Nobody comforted his dad. Everyone wholly focused on me. And he was devastated. Now fathers will have someone to relate to. To help them feel not alone. We still think about little buddy 26 years later. May Allah bless you and your family. Ameen
So incredibly sorry for your loss. Please share this video with him, I hope it brings him some comfort even after all these years to know that he was not alone
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I am so sorry for your loss- We do not give fathers enough credit for the grief they may be feeling. I will admit that my husband’s cool demeanor after my miscarriages appeared that he didn’t seem to care about our loss- this has opened my Spirit and my consciousness to what he may have been going through as well- He was not a demonstrative person. Thank you for being so open. I have donated what I could in the memory of your Angel 👼
We cannot thank you enough, sending your family prayers
I had 15 miscarriage’s, and honestly it wasn’t easy. Inshallah may Allah make it easier for you and give you more children❤️🙏🏼Stay strong
Subhanallah. May Allah bless you!
15??!! Im so sorry for u
much love to you
Oh my dear, I’m heartbroken for your losses.
God bless you! I hope you are good!
I've had 3 miscarriages and my partner has never shown any emotions about it, every time I try to talk about it he just avoids the topic and it is probably his way of dealing with it, but it has always made me feel like im going through this alone, i have to hide from him to cry about it and just allow myself to crumble and then come out pretending to be ok when really it aches every second of every day.
Maybe he is trying to be strong for both of us. I just wished he would share and allow me to share.
Im sorry you are going through this, Sana is so lucky to have you as well as your girls
I dont know if it gets any better but you'll learn to live with what happened.
Thank you for sharing
My prayers are with you and your beautiful family .
You making this video and showing your emotions shows your strength. Showing your emotions isn’t weakness. I am so sorry for your loss 😢
Men who honor their feelings and emotions with honesty are STRONGER than the men denying and ignoring their God given emotions they dont acknowledge the soul of the heart Allah designed in them and its not natural to deny this. Everyone grieves differently and your family just needs loving support through this painful heart wrenching experience🦋🙏✨💞
honestly, people forget that our prophet Muhammad (saw) was an emotional man himself.
I know this wasn't easy....but THANK YOU for putting yourself out there for other Father's that are hurting. I'm grateful for you doing this.... May Allah Grant you and your family peace.
Thank you for doing this video! When i lost my 1st pregnancy, everyone was worried about me, asking me if im ok, doing things for me etc. But nobody ever asked my husband how he was feeling. We talked about things together but nobody else asked him if he was ok. It's important to remember about the father but also siblings, it is devastating for them also.
There is no right way to deal with a loss like this. We just have to do what we feel is right for us. My loss was almost 19yrs ago now, but i still feel it. It's easier now but it's never fully left.
Your son is leaving his mark on the world & is doing great things for others. His legacy is great. Emaan was loved & he will be loved for eternity. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing this. Seeing a man be vulnerable like this is so important for changing the culture of toxic masculinity, especially in religious communities. The heartbreak of miscarriage is so common and yet not talked about nearly enough, especially among men. I'm sending lots of love your way
Will, you are doing more than you know. Just by being there for your wife and children, that's enough. By coming on here and opening up about your personal experience, you are opening up doors for other fathers that may have gone through the same thing but just don't know how to cope. My heart breaks for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Never be afraid to show your emotions.
I am so sorry for your loss, but thank you for sharing and expressing your emotions. My parents lost a child before me, 8 months along, a little boy, and it greatly impacted my father. Over the years, they became far more vocal about it, and I firmly believe that people need to know they are not alone, and that it is okay to be sad. I will be donating to the wells, in the memory of all those I know who have lost a baby, and in honor of the brother I have felt my whole life, before I even knew the details.
I also think it's lovely that your daughter has a vision of unicorns in heaven, where they can all play together - thank you for sharing that sweet message.
I commented on your wife's video earlier today. I recently discovered your channel.
I realize you posted this a year ago, but I hope you see my comment !!!
I am Christian and I know your baby is waiting for you!!! I wish your family all good things. 🙏
I believe from the moment of conception, there is a new life with a unique DNA code; and a new spirit/soul.
Thank you. Thank you for being honest, for crying, for sharing a man's perspective, a religious perspective. Thank you.
Watching your videos wasn't my first introduction to the Muslim religion - I live in NZ, so I've been doing my research for a few years now....... (Since the horrible christchurch attacks..) and I'm so glad I found your channel.
Now, I'm not religious myself. I'm agnostic and I LOVE learning anything so OF COURSE I subscribed. You posting this video is devine timing or something....
Today, the 22nd of March, is my daughter's 2nd birthday. She is my angel baby born at 36 weeks gestation, stillborn. Kera Margaret 💕 complications with my health afterwards had my week or so long stay in hospital coincide with NZs first CV lockdown.. 💔
I want to share a little anecdote; my boss presented a speech to hundreds of people and cried on the video proudly, and I said in the chat "a true man cries, but only the strongest men cry on camera". Please keep expressing yourself how you need to. To help your wife in her healing as well. Don't bottle it up for anyone 💕 you are just as much a parent as you're wife. And I feel like my partner had done the same with his feelings (hid them trying to protect me) but honestly I think it made it worse for me. Not knowing if I'm hurting him, if he WANTS to talk about her, what happened, what he's going over and over and over in his head.... That's just OUR experience, so please don't take it as the only option. I just want to help others who are feeling what I am/have.
There is no true love without grief. There is no true light without darkness.
I'm so sorry for you family's loss 💕🌹🤍 Kia Kaha x
I'm sorry for your loss, I'm a father and can't imagine the pain and grief you and your wife are going though. Your baby is paradise and I'll keep your family in my prayers. May Allah help you get pass this test. Remain strong.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! Much needed 💜
All three videos have been eye opening and so vulnerable. A faith based and Muslim ☪️ perspective on this is very much needed.
May Allah bless you and send you and your family strength and comfort.
Thank you for this video it helps us and shows other people what we have been though I have a little girl waiting on me in Heaven after so many years it still brings tears. Thank you for all your family does for everyone and the videos you film. 🙏🏻 May Allah bless your family forever.
Your video only proves that the image of toxic masculinity exists. Men have emotions, crying doesn’t mean you’re weak. Every emotion is valid. If you love your family you suffer with them. Thank you ♥️
Again, I’m so sorry for your loss 🥺
Thank you for sharing this with all of us. Thank you Will for finally giving sort of a voice to all fathers. I am so sorry that the girls have to deal with pain and loss at such an early age. I am so sorry that Sana had to go through every mothers worst nightmare. Just know that you're all so strong and loved by all of us. Your faith and the fact that you are such a close family is what's gonna get you through. Every family should be like yours, filled with so much love for each other. Whatever you do, wherever you go, baby Emaan will always be there with you ♥️
I'm really glad that you're posting these types of videos, this is my first time watching something like this, and what makes it more special is that no Muslim has ever spoken about this on social media. I'm really sorry for your loss, May Allah grant you lots of barakah❤
Thank you, for sharing your emotions on this sensitive topic with us, with the world. Each woman, including myself, is thanking you for speaking up about this from a man's view. For mentioning what the man goes through, emotionally, is reassuring to know this.
Finally, my deepest and sincerest sympathies to your wife, to you and to your children. Take time to heal.💖💖💖💖💖
Mr and Mrs Saleh, first I want to send my deepest condolences to you and your family. I have a daughter and two sons waiting for me in heaven and because of that I truly can empathize with your pain and grief. I also want to thank you both for being so brave by sharing your and your babies story. Also Mr Saleh I cannot tell you,as a mother, how much it means that you allowed yourself to be vulnerable enough to share not just your pain, but your tears. People need to know that it's not just okay to cry, but that it's healthy and healing to do so. Again I am so sorry for your loss
It is so profound that you are speaking about your son and his loss, and the impact the pregnancy loss of him has had on you and your family. There are virtually no places to see a man talk about his grief, suffering, and coping. Blessings to you and your family. Thank you. So very much.
This is so important, thank you guys for sharing your story. Hearing from a dads point of view is also so important. Send you and your family love
I haven't watched it yet, but I'd like to say thank you for making these videos! We rarely ever hear the father's perspective of experiencing a miscarriage and losing a baby, and i feel like it's definitely a conversation that needs to happen. Please stay strong, and my best wishes to your family! ❤️
Thank you 🥺 We also noticed there weren’t many videos from a fathers perspective and it’s so needed as partners always experience the same grief too
the fact that you did this together, then as a mother then as a father is absolutely amazing. In a time of so much stress and sorrow, you are both still giving back in such a powerful way. The empathy you clearly feel for each other is an amazing example of how we should all strive to be like. Add to this the way the Muslim religion views this entire situation is a comfort and if possible, beautiful and hopeful. Thankful for you both and the compassion of the Muslim religion
There is nothing harder in this life than the pain and suffering of those you love most, especially when you are experiencing the deepest loss and sadness yourself. I can't imagine how hard this is for a man, husband and father, the expectation of being the strong one, the rock and support for your wife, and the leader of your family.💔 ALLAH bless you with shifa and ease
I am non denominational. Religion aside, my heart aches for you and your family. That being said, even caretakers need care. Talk to your wife often and with love and support and she will return that to you. Prayers and love to you all.
I've seen both of the videos you've put out. My heart has broken for both of you. This one hit me hard. I'm a wife with no religion. I got pregnant from my husband at the time who didn't care. He made me get rid of our baby. I've never ever gotten over it. I am now happily married with my husband now and our kids. The way my ex made me feel I cannot put into words.
I am so so sorry Will for you and Sana. So sorry if I misspelled. ❤❤❤
Wow what an epitome of a MAN!!! If every boy was raised like u Wil I thnk this world would b a very great world!!!!!!!!!!!🙏🏼❤️👏🏼
I'm so sorry!! It's beautiful to be able to hear both mother and father's perspective, but I am so sorry for your loss. May Allah grant you all ease 🤲🏻
Thank you for sharing and being so vulnerable. I pray that the men and families that need your words to heal will find this video. Your family will one day be united again in the kingdom of heaven. Blessings to your family.
It must be hard to share this on social media, thank you so much for both of you for being so open .
Thank you so much for sharing this story you as a family went through, and sharing both sides. Holds a lot of value!
Thank you for being so brave and compassionate, that you were able to share during your grief. Blessings on you and your beautiful family. 💔
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. Miscarriage is not talked about enough, especially from a father's perspective because this situation isn't any easier for you. You as a man, husband, and father are expected to be the strong one and to console and support your wife and children even though you're also grieving just as much. You have to sometimes pretend that you have it together even though you're in pain and you feel alone. I pray that Allah makes it easier for you and I pray that Allah makes it easier for your family. This video will help so many Muslim fathers who are going through this feel like they have a voice and they're not alone. I admire you as a man and as a Muslim.
I sm so sorry for your loss. I can feel ur pain as i suffered from the same 7 months ago. My husband was hiding his pain and trying to make me relax but i was seeing pain in his eyes so i called my husband, hold his hand and started talking about our little angel. After a while he started crying and demonstrated his emotions feelings ,😭😭 May Allah bless you
So sorry for your loss 💔 very important and I applaud you for being so open about this x
This is very touching, God bless yall and inshallah yall will feel better as a family soon, like you said time doesn't heal wounds, they will always be there I agree, but you can heal and become better through each other. I have kept yall in my prayers lately 🙂
Brother after 3 years of marriage i concieved we both were so hppy n so excited dt i cn't describe and previous Ramdan i gve birth to baby gir with c -section bt unfrtntly after 1 day she died still i don't undrstnd how she died she was healthy beautiful n i cn't evn tell uh hw sad n depressd i ws on dt tym my husband job is in Qatar n i live in India he will come in eidul Adha plzzzz pray fh me dt Allah grant me baby plzzzz
So sorry for your loss 💔 may Allah swt make it easy for you and grant you healthy pregnancies and children soon Ameen. 🤲
I'm honestly sorry for your loss as well, stay strong and have faith, Allah swt. has a plan for you
Thorough pain you find strength and understanding. May you continue to heal everyday.
We've been trying for a blessing for 20+ years we've dealt with IVF /IUI /Clomid fails etc and too many losses, im bless my husband loves me no matter. We are still childless. Family are lucky to have you xxx
You are blessed! Only God knows but I have a friend who was in exactly the same position, 20 years of IVF and everything possible until they finally gave up. Not long after that she got pregnant and their daughter is now 7.
So always keep hope alive but remain strong not matter what we love you!!
This video, exudes a true man’s strength and the devotion he has to shielding his family from harm. It’s hard as a young woman to grasp what healthy emotions look like from men. Thank you for sharing your deeply personal experience with losing precious Emaan. Hearing your story is heart wrenching, and I empathize deeply ❤️❤️
Thank you for talking about this from a fathers side… mens mental health matters as well - thank you for taking care of your spouse and children Mashallah may Allah grant you amongst the rest in the highest ranking spot in Jannah 💫🙏🌹
I'm sorry for your loss, InshaaAllah this will only make u stronger and in my experience anything we go through and the wisdom we gain from it Alhamdulilah will help someone else one day ,if I hadn't gone through many things in my life I wouldn't of been able to support and understand those i love today ......Allah truly puts blessing in our pain aswell ,it takes time to see this ,Alhamdulilah u will all come out of this stronger ,after both of my miscarriages I went on to have healthy children Alhamdulilah ,because they came after a loss they are more valuable to me Alhamdulilah...... May Allah bless u with peace and patience and blessings and help u heal and carry on helping people as u are doing Ameen.......
Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
I think it is silly in a way, that men "shouldn't cry". Some of the most powerful and touching moments of my life have been seeing strong men that I care for, cry... my father, my grandfather, my uncle, my husband...
No one likes crying in front of others, women included. But when it's impossible to not cry, you open yourself to the support you really need.
We are here to support you and your wife. I think the well initiative is beautiful. I will donate what I can ❤
I am so happy for Ramadan love from untied arab Emirates احبكم كثير احلى قناه اليوتيوب والله
I absolutely cannot stand the phrase "real men don't cry" ....um excuse me universe MEN ARE HUMAN ....HUMANS CRY
It’s what’s been engrained in all men growing up in the 80s and 90s. It’s unfortunate isn’t it?
@@SalehFamily Yes it is VERY.
Thank you for sharing your story it’s so important ❤️
Verily along with hardship is relief, Verily along with hardship is relief.
(Quran, 94 : 5-6)
TOUGH TIME DONT LAST BUT TOUGH PEOPLE DO!!! BEST WISHES.
A very compassionate and loving message.truly heartfelt.
May Allah give you sabr and reward you in the afterlife.
You are very caring couple
Thank you, hearing you say these thing xx
Again im so sorry for your loss. Im more sure your wife wants or needs but we've a large loss group on FB with other mommies dealing with this xxxx
Losing a kid is always so painful and hard no matter how it happens or when it happens..and I so so sorry you guys are experiencing that.. thank you for talking about this I know it must have been hard, hope for nothing but best for you guys so sorry for your lost💖💝
Bro I always had so much respect for you now u increased that....you are such an amazing person may Almighty bless all of us ameeeeen💚💚💚💚💚💚🤗🤗🤗🤗
U guys are so strong..... may Allah give u more strenght❤❤❤❤❤
Hello Saleh Family! I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through!
I wish I was there to give all four of you daughters included hugs. You two are wonderful people and parents. I’m admiring your strength for talking about this.
But I’m sure your baby in heaven is becoming an angel with wings.
Although I’m not Muslim, I’m Catholic but we’re all a part of the Religions of Abraham.
Sending you prayers🥺🙏
I pray for you and the Saleh family comfort and strength at this difficult time.
Thank you so very very much for this perspective ❤️
I am so sorry for your loss. You both will get thought this together. Lots of love and hugs for to you both xx
I’m so sorry you are going through this. I can’t imagine suffering such a devastating loss. My allah grant you the strength to heal your hearts may he ease you’re suffering. May peace be upon you. Wishing you the best. Xoxo
Man has feelings too, Alhamduliallah for just talking in the camera cause this takes courage. May Allah bless your family living and dead.
Thank you so much, wallahi brother thank you for opening up to us and stepping up as a rolemodel for other men and the next generation too ! I know u said that it might be just who u are or the way u brought up and i know it’s different for everyone, but for me personally it was the worst thing my husband did to shut himself, jumping into work and never talking about it until we ended up fighting so many times where things were said from his side against me... I felt i had to deal with everything alone and be strong too instead of taking my time and focus on my healing and ended up shutting my feelings too instead of learning to cope with it. So i hope to hear my side too might help some people, or men out there.. may Allah make it easy for all of us
I felt your emotions in this video brother.
Asalaam Alaikum & Ramadan Mubarak beautiful Ummah & @Saleh Family.
Inna Lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un
May Allāh (awj) place Emaan in the highest place in Jannat Al-Firdaus (Aameen)
Hi Saleh Family,
i am new to your channel and i am terribly sorry for what has happened to you guys. i had the same experience last January this year. Sending love and mashallah. Blessings to you guys
May Allah bless you guys with more strength.
I am so sorry for your lose and your sadness.God bless your family.
Thank you Will for sharing your perspective. It's so important for everyone to understand how a husband feels as well. May Allah swt always bless your family. Lots of duas and love to your family xoxo
As a mum to a unborn baby in heaven I can only say thank you for telling your side your story to this. So many men will be helped heating this knowing they are not alone
Im so sorry for you guys
May Allah (SWT) make things easy for you both
Stay strong brother. The patience and strength you are showing is heroic. I pray that Allah (SWT) gives you and your wife rewards beyond your imagination 🤲🏽 You’re in my duas ❤️
Time does enable us like you said...such a wise statement. Blessed be all our prophets (I am Christian).
Still praying for you guys! 💜
I sending hugs hugs prayers love peace and light 💜
I’m deeply sorry for your loss. I personally believe that no parent should ever have to bury their child 😔. I’ve had 2 miscarriages one before my 1st born and one after. They were both early in my pregnancy but still hurt so bad 😢 if you don’t mind me asking how far along we’re you guys?
I’m so sad 😞 for you and wife’s lost and grief. Beautiful baby is return to Allah. May Allah give you and your wife the strength to give the grief a place in you heart and mind.
My heart breaks for your family. I am so appreciative of you sharing a father's perspective as I feel it is a large missing piece from the conversation. Emaan is so loved ❤
With man like you by her side I'm sure she can overcome anything .MashaAllah she is so blessed to have you. May Allah give you and her sakoon AMEEN. I can't understand the pain of losing a child but I know grief all too well, I lost my dad Nov 2020 he was only 51 not a day goes by that I dont miss him many times throughout the day my heart sinks and i want to cry outloud but unfortunately I cant because I dont have a supportive husband he looks down upon me for having emotions so to avoid conflict I dont share anything with him.
May Allah swt make it easy for you and grant your father janat ul firdous Ameen 🤲
Does he do that? How about you contact sheikh Assim and ask him to advice your husband? He can help you with that Inshallah
@@programferris1018 yes he does. He Is a narcissist
I agree 1 million per cent, I lost my Angel. Doctors told me he wouldn't live 1 year, and he lived for 16 years. I prayed with every breath for his time with me, he is my first love and my only son. Bless your family with love and strength.
This was so beautiful
Stay strong u will get though this as a family
I am sooooo sorry for the loss of your sweet boy. Stay strong and know you will see him one day and will be together forever
Stay strong u guys❤❤❤❤❤❤ we as a family are with u❤❤❤❤❤
I am so sorry. Its important that you've made this video. My brother and sister in law lost a baby several years ago, and there was so little support available for him. Yes, absolutely, we as women need support in this, but father's love their children immensely, idk why it seems so odd that a good father would grieve the loss? Of course you'd grieve the loss of a child you'd already made room for in your heart.
The grief of the loss of a child no mater if it is post parturition or during the confinement or even if it is finding out you will never have any children is a grief all on its own it is a grief that never ends I know my my sister in law passed when she was 2 that is 55 years ago now and her grief is still strong now. Life is a box grief is a button in the box and you are a ball at the time of the loss the box is small the ball is big and always hitting the button as time goes on the box gets bigger and as it grows the ball hits the button less and less but when it does it is like it was at the time of the loss. Light, Love and Blessings
I am so sorry for your loss.
“Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un” (“Verily we belong to Allah, and truly to Him shall we return”). May Allah give you Sabr and strength. Sending lots of prayers and love your way ❤️ 😘.
May Allah give you strength brother and you all surely will reunite with her in jannah inshallah ❤️
Thank you for everything! Just take one day at a time to heal. True the pain will never disappear but please forgive yourself for something that wasn't your fault.
May Allah SWT bless you both. Feel really sorry for baby Emaan. 😢
God bless your lovely family I hope you pass this difficult time
My deepest sympathy you and all your family and friends
God bless you and your family during this time. I can't imagine the pain you all are feeling right now. Please take what comfort you can my prayers are with you all. 🙏 🙏🙏
Im a man and I had one in 5-31-2013
And it still hurts till today
Worst feeling in the world
I Will support you.. I am from Malaysia
Life is a journey from Allah to Allah❤️ I know you can get through this Allah is testing you with something you really care aboutstay stong for your 2 beautiful daughters💔🥺
God bless your family stay strong guys
Allah Subhanatalah bless you and all other parents brother. We r praying
Appreciate sharing your thoughts feeling on this
Thank you for sharing brother! May Allah make it easy for you all and reunite you all in jannatul ferdose!