And being a laid back nice black man is a complete turn off to them. I don’t know how many times I was told “You’re too nice” by a BW. It wasn’t until I met my Latina wife that she assured me that being myself was attractive to her. Been married to my lovely wife for 36 yrs this November. ✌🏾❤️💪🏾
@@vereen70 Everything will present as a problem to black women unless your rich or Brad and she recons she can benefit. If it wasn’t ‘your too nice it would be something else. I forgot, Pookie & Ray will always get a pass.
As a black man who has has worked with damn near every race and sex on planet Earth I can say with 10000000% confidence MOST black women I have ever worked with had the worst attitudes than anyone else.
😂 says the men that's costing every country to go bankrupt because of lack of building, working, or any other thing other men are building 😂... And you wonder why those women are angry, look who they got to procreate with....broken bucks and boot lickers. No wonder we're angry bitter and refuse to keep procreating 😂
I'm a black woamn. I agree w this sister. Sometimes I get a double take from ppl because they arent used to seeing a black woman smile at them. Its sad.
I’m always glad to see a black woman with an amazing smile just happy with life. Unfortunately I do see the majority of black woman with an unapproachable disposition. So when I see black woman 😊is a ray of sunshine to me, because I know my black woman look so amazing, gorgeous when they’re friendly it’s in their true nature !
She's not lying unfortunately. Majority of the black women I meet daily have horrible attitudes for absolutely no reason at all but I still try to ignore it.
No, they have their reasons: their upbringing, their parents don't teach them simple manners in how to treat others, and black women (some) are very angry that black men are not in their lives. They don't know how to manage their emotions very well, they blame the world for their problem, instead not looking at the mirror.
And rather than take accountability they'll make themselves the victims then turn and say black women are not protected, need to be protected and how nobody has their back. You have to actually be approachable and not have an RBF 24/7 and also lose the nasty attitudes.
@@a45williamsso, they have crappy attitudes because BM aren’t in their lives. Have they considered the possibility that BM aren’t in their lives because they have crappy attitudes?
they dont pay the taxes to fix any of this shit so what do they care. Black people are a loss on the american tax dollar by a GIGANTIC margin. They are the only group I think that take more out than they put in by a large large margin.
We've been doing that but blk women keep sleeping with black men and keeps this bs cycle going. Y'all did offer your white daughter's to blk men to try and breed each other out but it's not working quick enough...I think you guys need your daughter's to replace black women so we can end us🙏🏿🤷🏿♀️ black women approves👍🏿
But they expect a man to adapt to their behavior - to be a REAL MAN. That thinking will only lead to quick hookup, nothing substantial. No man wants to hear all that yelling.
Bad Attitudes is like an addiction to black women. Somehow they have been given the impression (by other women) that having the attitude is a sign of power and independence. And they especially love to throw that attitude towards black men no matter what situation they're in.
Bro sometimes i be walking around i see a girl and i know they think im attractive but they shoot attitude at me instead and i can tell they got too much pride to let a good nigga know they like em crazy work out here they cant even let you know they accept you its like weakness to them
I work at a manufacturing company and I see it everyday! Majority are younger ladies. I don’t even talk to them anymore I talk to the older women all day.
They wake up angry. They spend the whole day angry. And they go to sleep angry. They are angry Black Women. They don't know how to control their anger. They don't know how to shut off their attitude.
And we don't want to, now what?🤷🏿♀️ I thought y'all didn't date or care about black women so why y'all even speaking on them, should y'all be talking about if white women are good, if Mexican women are feeling okay? How are your Asian lovers🤷🏿♀️ wasp spend so much energy on women that are garbage to you guys trash😂 I think men are more of trash collectors and trash lovers 🤷🏿♀️ I know what it is, The other women ain't paying you no attention so y'all have to pay attention to women that you don't like😂
I was in a restaurant yesterday having lunch and a black woman approached the waitress with an attitude. When the waitress asked what was wrong, the black woman grabbed her hand, and counted out some change to her. Apparently, the waitress had mistaken two nickels for two quarters, and shortchanged the customer... ... by a whopping $0.40! 🤦🏽♂️ That's right! That woman was in this poor girl's face, screaming, like she wanted to fight her, over FORTY CENTS! 🤷🏽♂️😔 The owner refunded her money entirely, and told her don't ever come back!
@sambalokiizarame9439: Clowning to get "something for free" is unsustainable, because: 1. She'll keep being asked to leave and banned from ever returning, and she'll eventually run out of places where she's welcome. 2. She'll eventually put herself in a bad situation where she ends up behind bars... ...or worse!
At work, the only black woman that works there is literally always angry, loud, consistently disrespectful to customers, and always thinks someone is out to get her when anyone tries to correct her unprofessionalism. She is known just as "the stereotype" when I come home and tell my woman about her antics
Sad…I work at red lobster imma black woman and man me and my black male coworker can just notice the black ppl that come in with attitudes. It makes you not wanna take the table and I can get why we have that stereotype. I always smile and seem happy so usually customers give me compliments because I look so open to talk to. I wish one day more black people especially the women can change it
@@markbrunner7793 so it appears, I work with quite a few African nurses in England and they're nothing like American black women seem to be. Probably raised with a father in the house I guess. Some white feministas are the same to be honest😂😂always frustrated and angry at men
About 25 years ago i had friend that I asked...why dont you mess with black women? He said, look over there, and a black woman was walking, he said what do you see? I shrugged, he said her "F" ng mouth is poked out, thats all of them, they're never happy. I never forgot that, even though a generalization, its was true 90% of the time then and now.
@@jeremiahwilliams567 a ex of mine use to call me names, I left her 🤣🤣🤣 ,we didn't last no time ,respect is a must ,she thought that was cool 😎....Not !!! She was cheating on me too ....lying about everything, a part of me thought this was normal but then a part of me thought something is not right,things were getting worse...so I cut ties completely, she really scared me with some of the stuff she was doing when I wasn't around and then the lies,she was dangerous,
It is not that at all. Most Black women act like they hate Black men. And that is their general attitude. Which hasn't nothing to do with "having a bad day."
Black women do deal with a lot with being both black and a woman. Black men don’t make us feel secure in the world either. No excuses though, but that’s where the problem is
Fellow Atlantan here. 💯 % right and it's all attitude over here not just the hood either...many suburbs, too. 2 of my employees were from Bahamas & Trinidad. We'll educated veterinarians from Tuskegee who were appalled at how the majority of black girls & women acted. Not to mention their lack of speaking the English language correctly ‼️😠
She’s not lying. Most won’t even say hi or acknowledge us when we say hi at work while walking by. It bothers some people but they know they can’t say anything about it, we’re told to disregard it and to not take it personal. But if the attitude was reversed they can not only complain but if they insinuate it might be discriminative you’ll be put under the spotlight and could face disciplinary action. Who’s privileged?
Im a black man. Other than, my daughters and their mothers, I'm done dealing with bw. At the register, I have my kids check out. I don't want servers, customer service.. No interactions. I'm done with em.
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) And they wonder why the NBA players go with Rebecca instead of Keisha. Rebecca will bring you peace but Keisha will burn the house down. LMAO
Still ain’t going with Rebecca though. Even if she checks out ok, her family, friends and community will subtly, with a smile, always remind you and your children that your just a N.
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) I asked my own sister....why do you wake up angry?? She couldn't even answer me but looked at me like I was wrong for even asking her that. LOL
Some of us are here for the healing. I have sons and a loving husband for 20 years. I want my sons to have loving wife. It’s a process. I try hard to listen, be warm and giving. Some of us are ok. I did have an in tact family and a strong but adoring dad and a strong but feminine mom. These things help.
My wife and I went to Marshall’s for shopping and guess what? This black young lady checking us out was all “attitude” and my wife had to text me while we were being checked out “Babe why is she looking so upset” ? I just smiled 😊
No ones gonna pay hard earned money to be treated like crap. People shouldn't be working in service jobs unless they put on a kind face and demeanor, If they want to keep customers coming back. Otherwise, even if food, products, or ect are good, it's value goes down in the mind of the consumer. Losing too many consumers and getting a bad reputation means going bankrupt, or layoffs. This is common sense.
Are you white? Black people just automatically assume you're a racist nazi if you're white, you have to prove to every single one of them you aren't a racist. And you'll know when they don't think your a racist anymore cause they will say 'I appreciate you' at some point. I tell ya, working in an inner city urban school that was 85%+ black was an eye opening expirience.
@@lindamatus4429 I'm so sorry, I apologize on behalf of those hyenas. You don't deserve that, period. If you were to be completely done with the black female collective, I honestly wouldn't blame you.
When I approach black woman with this angry annoyed disposition in service industry I just excuse myself away from them. Asking for simple things as napkins, ketchup etc it’s met with instant attitude. I walk away and have just taking the L because I’m not lowering myself into arguments!
I walked out of an empty Taco Bell when one of the two cashier that were on their cell phones looked up at me and said “you ready?!” I simply said I change my mind. I sensed it was gonna be nerve wrecking.
Walked into a Giant on my lunch break to get some food, there was an empty bowl of Macn cheese in the display i politely asked this big black girl if there was anymore in the back I was immediately met with an attitude & a screw face , I just walked away not finna let her miserable ass ruin my day... they can be unbearable
I think it’s an overcompensation for low self-esteem, which is sad actually. It’s sad because the media and PTB are the ones who keep telling them how disadvantaged they are and how awful white people are. So you go around in the world with your defenses up and ready to fight. Which actually manifests what they **believe** is true.
It’s 9/5/24 and I LITERALLY Faced This Black Woman as a CCR & She TOO was a CCR…named “QUANNIKA” snapped on me simply because I’m asking for info that’s required and TOLD her that I’m not hearing her due to a muddled connection…She claimed I cut her off and you could HEAR the “Tude” in her voice…and mumbling under her tongue…. It’s SAD…REMEMBER when Kevin Samuels had that interview where Black Women DON’T even want to SMILE…..
I’ve gotten numb seeing that on social media. 30 and 40 something “queens living their best life” ( an actual quote) , meanwhile God only knows who’s watching their kids, only to start bitching life 24 hours later.
I do Uber and the overwhelming majority of black women who get in my car mumble "goodmorning" or "thank you" very low as if it feels weird to have manners. Its very odd
That's exactly what it is. Manners. Being polite is seen as a weakness to some people. Because they get bad advice growing up. And there is also an immaturity involved. I know a few people who will be in a bad mood and expect everyone to just deal with it. Instead of directing their anger at the thing that has made them angry, they dump it on everyone else. It's childish.
I never understood some of the excuses for the attitudes like "What does being nice ever done for me?" Look honey. If poor folks from 3rd world countries can be geniunely nice, why can't you? Also, being nice or not nice doesn't absolve you from any poor choices you made in life. That's on you.
@@Zoloft77 facts. You only see manners when they need something or selling something 😂. Be the most polite stranded mf needing a ride somewhere or trying to sell on of them plates
I tried to give a 'lady' valet directions at the hospital..she was so rude that 3 years later i still won't offer my sister's assistance...hell nah..the valet said she was talking crazy like I had did anything other than say it's over there 👉... I swear
We had one at our office, brief hire, and one of the partners even insisted we hire her simply because of her race and gender. Her gloves were off at 9:01 am her first day first minute of work, with bad attitude, offended at everything, could not be told tasks to do or to work on any project. Spent her day staring angrily off into the distance and glaring at anyone who came near her. She lasted two weeks for one reason only: the same senior partner who insisted she be hired, insisted we legally could not fire her despite this being California (surprisingly, an at-will labor state). She finally chewed his face off in front of staff and then he "suddenly saw everyone else's point of view" and fired her, but he insisted on giving her two weeks of severance pay, something no one else has ever gotten for being fired with cause. She took the pay, then wrote Yelp, Glassdoor and Google reviews on the place stating all kinds of wild accusations of things that literally have never happened there. This insanity needs to stop.
I’m 40 I can’t stand our attitude I don’t want any black female friends I’m good just one and she even has an attitude from her trauma and it’s still too much.
as a black woman myself, i approve of her message. it’s a shame how our women would have such rude, nasty disgusting behavior and would be so messy and petty, it’s pathetic!!!!
Not into bw so I dont care any more. Life is too short to worry about a group of women whose lost in the sauce. I'm just thankful that I have better options so I can move on in life.
I had a similar situation happen a few days ago at my job, I was trying to tell her she could throw her cup of frozen yogurt away if she wasn’t pleased with how it tasted, and she asked y can’t I just pour it in the drip tray?? And I said bc it will get on the floor and I’d have to clean that and she said “that’s not information she needs bc she doesn’t work here” and that I SHOULD clean it simply bc I WORK THERE. An argument occurred. Thoughts?
@calebbonds4632 pure lack of common curtesy for other humans especially employees. I've seen them torment employees knowing damn well that employee can't react or they will lose their job.
But… didn’t the frozen yogurt come in a cup… that she would’ve thrown away anyway? Because, if so, she was just being combative for the sake of it. She wanted to start a fight.
@BheeOrgh "YOUR'Z" SHE'Z A POSSESSION ECCLESIASTICUS 36:25 HE THAT GETTETH, A WIFE BEGINNETH A POSSESSION, A HELP UNLIKE UNTO HIMSELF A PILLAR OF REST.
I love ringing doctors reception where two black women work, they answer the phone and say nothing, just silence. Then after ten seconds of you saying "hello?...hello?...HELLO, IS ANYONE THERE? HEEEELLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOO??", they start shouting, "Do not take that attitude with me".
Lost my wife in death in 2019 after 24 years of marriage after seeing this video iam not in no hurry to deal with these black women that have nasty attitudes just like what this woman said
Truth to be told..I always try to find the older women or a man to check me out ..just a better experience..js.. they're tends to be more knowledgeable, helpful and courteous and most of all pleasant now matter how long their lines are.
I was the kind of black girl who stood on the principles my mother taught me and threw it right back. I tried to fix her myself and out argue and reason and it doesn’t work. Now I get why my father just shut down bc I have too now. I went to counseling for all this trauma and will remain in some kind for life. We are too proud to fix anything and that’s why we deserve zero time of day. Everyone else is supposed to change something???? But not us? Do we hear how this sounds? Here it now as I wrote it and consider getting help sistas🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I have never had a loud, aggressive confrontation with any other combination of race and sex than black women. I can go through years of life, meet all kinds of people, all with no problem. But if I so much as look too long upon a black woman, it's on. They're also consistently racist towards any other race, using racial slurs repeatedly during disagreements. They make it impossible to just get along with them as neighbors or coworkers, etc.
I was about three feet tall when I realized I had a choice: Watch the world go by or improve myself constantly. I chose the second option. Everybody else comprise the population called, "sheep".
The problem with the attitude of most black women isn't the culture as the main culprit. It's the way they were raised by their (probable single) mothers. The children learn from their mothers and ever since the 80s or so, the attitude became more and more aggressive towards anyone around them, including other black women.
Upbringing isn’t the only factor, life choices are. Please don’t make single mothers the culprit. Many white kids have single moms too , they’re not angry though. Black culture in general is divided and angry. Even the music that black men make: robbing, drugs, womanizing. It’s cultural and single moms are not to blame. These are grown ass woman who are capable of choices.
@@islip376 you just contradicted yourself in your words. If the black mothers weren't angry lime the white single mothers then their children would become peaceful children. Music has nothing to do with the attitude as well. Race has nothing to do with either. It's how the children are raised and these children keep that anger cycle going because THEY WERE RAISED like that by their mothers. The children learn this behavior and believe that it is the right thing to do as they become adults. If the white single mothers kept on being angry and raised their children that way, the children will end up the same way as their mothers. The black community isn't allowing the cycle to stop and they keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again without learning until it's too late and they're on their death beds.
I would say it started long before I that. I am a baby boomer. Born outside North America. The women I grew up amongst, were loud and aggressive. I have come to accept that it is part of our culture. If we want a change in attitude it has to be done on an individual basis and unfortunately we won't see it before the Second Coming
@@islip376The music that men make? You mean like the 8,476,941 love songs BM have made praising BW? Or are we still hyping up the few vulgar rap songs of the late 80s, early 90s as the issue? BP don't listen to lyrics. Bobby Brown sang about the attitude in 'Don't Be Cruel' and no one picked up on it.
And being a laid back nice black man is a complete turn off to them. I don’t know how many times I was told “You’re too nice” by a BW. It wasn’t until I met my Latina wife that she assured me that being myself was attractive to her. Been married to my lovely wife for 36 yrs this November. ✌🏾❤️💪🏾
Congratulations!
Congratulations brother…
They overwhelmingly consume ratchet programing from watching other blk women either on TV Videos or around them smdh it's exhausting...smdh 😢
Wow. Nice. Good job brotha!
@@vereen70 Everything will present as a problem to black women unless your rich or Brad and she recons she can benefit. If it wasn’t ‘your too nice it would be something else. I forgot, Pookie & Ray will always get a pass.
As a black man who has has worked with damn near every race and sex on planet Earth I can say with 10000000% confidence MOST black women I have ever worked with had the worst attitudes than anyone else.
I feel the same about black men
😂 says the men that's costing every country to go bankrupt because of lack of building, working, or any other thing other men are building 😂... And you wonder why those women are angry, look who they got to procreate with....broken bucks and boot lickers. No wonder we're angry bitter and refuse to keep procreating 😂
I'm a black woamn. I agree w this sister. Sometimes I get a double take from ppl because they arent used to seeing a black woman smile at them. Its sad.
Yeah they’ve messed it up for y’all frfr.
@Goldsamurai7777 unfortunately it's the majority that sets the tone for the minority
And bw wonder why bm date other races. PEACE!
I’m always glad to see a black woman with an amazing smile just happy with life. Unfortunately I do see the majority of black woman with an unapproachable disposition. So when I see black woman 😊is a ray of sunshine to me, because I know my black woman look so amazing, gorgeous when they’re friendly it’s in their true nature !
Thats facts
She's not lying unfortunately. Majority of the black women I meet daily have horrible attitudes for absolutely no reason at all but I still try to ignore it.
No, they have their reasons: their upbringing, their parents don't teach them simple manners in how to treat others, and black women (some) are very angry that black men are not in their lives. They don't know how to manage their emotions very well, they blame the world for their problem, instead not looking at the mirror.
And rather than take accountability they'll make themselves the victims then turn and say black women are not protected, need to be protected and how nobody has their back. You have to actually be approachable and not have an RBF 24/7 and also lose the nasty attitudes.
@@a45williamsso, they have crappy attitudes because BM aren’t in their lives.
Have they considered the possibility that BM aren’t in their lives because they have crappy attitudes?
I don't ignore it if it's directed at me.....I check that ish!!! The world don't care about why they mad.....whatever it is, is their problem
@@a45williamsstop making excuses
All they do is find a way to be a victim and make excuses
I just listened to Tiphany Bucker's lastest live stream. I learned that's the spirit of Leviathan.
Leviathan protects the spirit of Jezebel
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its to late to speak on it now bm have gave up and grabbed passports
Maybe explain why a black woman will cause 3000 dollars in damage to a fast food place over an 8 dollar order
lol 😆
@@Nick_NightingaleExcept it’s not funny. They do do that.
its called the blax tax.
Jesus help us!
they dont pay the taxes to fix any of this shit so what do they care. Black people are a loss on the american tax dollar by a GIGANTIC margin. They are the only group I think that take more out than they put in by a large large margin.
You know the culture is bad when the people within that culture are talking about how bad the culture is.
just another memorable moment for black culture in America...
We've been doing that but blk women keep sleeping with black men and keeps this bs cycle going. Y'all did offer your white daughter's to blk men to try and breed each other out but it's not working quick enough...I think you guys need your daughter's to replace black women so we can end us🙏🏿🤷🏿♀️ black women approves👍🏿
Just experienced yesterday black woman at the checkout with an attitude i just walked out.
BW can’t even tell you why they so mad 😂
For sure they can tell you it's not their fault.
Life decisions 😂
Sure they can. They are allergic to adulting and accountability.
But they expect a man to adapt to their behavior - to be a REAL MAN. That thinking will only lead to quick hookup, nothing substantial. No man wants to hear all that yelling.
Bingo Amigo!!!!!!!!!
PROVERBS 21:19 IT IS BETTER TO DWELL IN THE WILDERNESS, THAN WITH A CONTENTIOUS AN ANGRY WOMAN.
True dat
Double Amen
Bad Attitudes is like an addiction to black women. Somehow they have been given the impression (by other women) that having the attitude is a sign of power and independence. And they especially love to throw that attitude towards black men no matter what situation they're in.
Bro sometimes i be walking around i see a girl and i know they think im attractive but they shoot attitude at me instead and i can tell they got too much pride to let a good nigga know they like em crazy work out here they cant even let you know they accept you its like weakness to them
Exactly,,,,, spot on,,,,,bunch of self haters
They also think it's cute
@@GrantGM007 So does TV and movies. Never understood why.
The black community self-oppresses itself in every way possible.
I work at a manufacturing company and I see it everyday! Majority are younger ladies. I don’t even talk to them anymore I talk to the older women all day.
Exactly…I experience younger black women with the bad attitudes more than anyone else
They wake up angry. They spend the whole day angry. And they go to sleep angry. They are angry Black Women. They don't know how to control their anger. They don't know how to shut off their attitude.
And we don't want to, now what?🤷🏿♀️ I thought y'all didn't date or care about black women so why y'all even speaking on them, should y'all be talking about if white women are good, if Mexican women are feeling okay? How are your Asian lovers🤷🏿♀️ wasp spend so much energy on women that are garbage to you guys trash😂 I think men are more of trash collectors and trash lovers 🤷🏿♀️ I know what it is, The other women ain't paying you no attention so y'all have to pay attention to women that you don't like😂
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) Tell a black woman KINDLY that she was right about something and her response will be: I KNOW I WAS RIGHT, I TOLD YOU I WAS RIGHT
I'm a 68 year old Black Man myself.. retired 2years ago . DON'T MISS.... working with/around Black Women!!..😊😊😊.....they are always Argumentive...B1$
@@bigt1114 When around Brad they muzzle that mouth.
They wear being difficult as a badge of honor.
She ain't lying...I ignore and avoid em....
I was in a restaurant yesterday having lunch and a black woman approached the waitress with an attitude. When the waitress asked what was wrong, the black woman grabbed her hand, and counted out some change to her. Apparently, the waitress had mistaken two nickels for two quarters, and shortchanged the customer...
... by a whopping $0.40! 🤦🏽♂️
That's right! That woman was in this poor girl's face, screaming, like she wanted to fight her, over FORTY CENTS! 🤷🏽♂️😔
The owner refunded her money entirely, and told her don't ever come back!
Black women won't be happy until all businesses do this. Then they will be on Tik Tok crying and searching for sympathy.
Good on the owner!
The owner gave her exactly what she wanted something FREE
@sambalokiizarame9439:
Clowning to get "something for free" is unsustainable, because: 1. She'll keep being asked to leave and banned from ever returning, and she'll eventually run out of places where she's welcome. 2. She'll eventually put herself in a bad situation where she ends up behind bars...
...or worse!
I worked customer service for 40 years. The two customers I dreaded were men with expensive vehicles and any black woman.
lolz
At work, the only black woman that works there is literally always angry, loud, consistently disrespectful to customers, and always thinks someone is out to get her when anyone tries to correct her unprofessionalism. She is known just as "the stereotype" when I come home and tell my woman about her antics
Shameful
Absolutely shameful 😔
Sad…I work at red lobster imma black woman and man me and my black male coworker can just notice the black ppl that come in with attitudes. It makes you not wanna take the table and I can get why we have that stereotype. I always smile and seem happy so usually customers give me compliments because I look so open to talk to. I wish one day more black people especially the women can change it
African black women don't seem to be like this just American black women
@@boriscovidscamson2911 it’s the baby mama culture here in the states that have made black women the way that they are
@@markbrunner7793 so it appears, I work with quite a few African nurses in England and they're nothing like American black women seem to be. Probably raised with a father in the house I guess. Some white feministas are the same to be honest😂😂always frustrated and angry at men
I am a black man and my wife is Arab. From day one it is 100000% respect, I have peace of mind. No shouting and barking
@@asmane73 Barking! Black women need a muzzle?😂😂
Well they are raised to be quiet and not have a voice or they'd be beaten or killed
@@Spooner125 YESS!!!!!!!!
@@lynsylva-bb6ss joys of diversity eh
@@lynsylva-bb6ssoh be quiet KKKeshia.
About 25 years ago i had friend that I asked...why dont you mess with black women? He said, look over there, and a black woman was walking, he said what do you see? I shrugged, he said her "F" ng mouth is poked out, thats all of them, they're never happy.
I never forgot that, even though a generalization, its was true 90% of the time then and now.
They are angry and always think they are right. They are perfect and can't a soul tell them differently. They are not lady like.
@@shaungarrett5291they are Gargoyles Beware !!!!!
Not sure if it was true 90% of the time 25 years ago for me. But it damn sure is now!
@@DwayneABryan yeah, if you were there then you were listening to Frankie Beverly and couldn't see. You probably got nut clarity by now.
@@dogbones4592 😂 was in the south at the time so there were still a few Southern Belles, although they were few and far between even then...
Wow. I thought it was just me avoiding black women as a black male. I secretly was avoiding them at all costs.
They will literally disrespect you, then turn around and expect for you to show her respect, seen it too many times
That’s what demon is . Negative forces designed to be that way
Exactly! I had a manager just like this.
Complete facts!!! I have stopped going to certain businesses because of this right here
Black owned businesses are the worst of them all.
I can identify. I stopped going to a particular DMV in Los Angeles that had a lot of Blacks women for that very reason. Now Go to Hollywood
I know some black women like this, but I also work with a few black women that are absolute gems. 💎
Who asked the White Boy…
Haha my mom used to wake up mad at my dad calling him names etc the same with my Aunt. Daily like clock work haha it messed me up mentally.
So , what's your point? I thought that was.
Common practice in every black household.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that's funny Jeremiah, wake up calling him names? 🤣 damn
@@sidneywilder2731 it was bad haha fucked yo my whole mode throughout high school. Haha
@@Unclerucki no it’s not normal for any community.
@@jeremiahwilliams567 a ex of mine use to call me names, I left her 🤣🤣🤣 ,we didn't last no time ,respect is a must ,she thought that was cool 😎....Not !!! She was cheating on me too ....lying about everything, a part of me thought this was normal but then a part of me thought something is not right,things were getting worse...so I cut ties completely, she really scared me with some of the stuff she was doing when I wasn't around and then the lies,she was dangerous,
She is not lying..😂😂😂😂😂. They be pissed off and the day just started
Because they think that they are the only ones that go through shit.
It is not that at all. Most Black women act like they hate Black men. And that is their general attitude. Which hasn't nothing to do with "having a bad day."
@@dwaynehudspeth2073Actually his comment is correct also💯
100% Facts
Plenty of people have trauma and hardships and injustice but don’t act like that. Black women don’t have the monopoly on suffering.
Black women do deal with a lot with being both black and a woman. Black men don’t make us feel secure in the world either. No excuses though, but that’s where the problem is
I do the roulette math while waiting in line at the post office to buy a stamp…how not to land on a sista cashier.
Im a supervisor at a post office and the stereo type is true. The asian woman and white man are cool, but the black woman omg!
Sadly alot of bm do this to avoid the disrespect
@@Wgz945I never even said that I’m a bm but I am and you’re absolutely right lol. The rare times a BW is nice is a pleasant surprise, a relief.
Least Married for a reason.
I see this everyday at work and out and about. Sad but true.
"THESE MODERN WOMEN NUTTIN BUT USED UP POLLUTED SEMEN SEPTIC TANKS"
Most people won’t get your reference, but I know exactly what you mean!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😅D**n
😂😂😂😂😂
SAVAGE, I LIKE IT🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
......Damn 😂😂😂
I agree with this lady 100%. It’s real bad here in Atlanta with nasty attitudes.
Fellow Atlantan here. 💯 % right and it's all attitude over here not just the hood either...many suburbs, too. 2 of my employees were from Bahamas & Trinidad. We'll educated veterinarians from Tuskegee who were appalled at how the majority of black girls & women acted. Not to mention their lack of speaking the English language correctly ‼️😠
She’s not lying. Most won’t even say hi or acknowledge us when we say hi at work while walking by. It bothers some people but they know they can’t say anything about it, we’re told to disregard it and to not take it personal. But if the attitude was reversed they can not only complain but if they insinuate it might be discriminative you’ll be put under the spotlight and could face disciplinary action. Who’s privileged?
Black privilege. Now that’s the real thing.
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) My sister even told me one time and I quote....I AM NEVER WRONG. I just shook my head and walked out the room. LMAO
They really believe that shit
Im a black man. Other than, my daughters and their mothers, I'm done dealing with bw. At the register, I have my kids check out. I don't want servers, customer service.. No interactions. I'm done with em.
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) And they wonder why the NBA players go with Rebecca instead of Keisha. Rebecca will bring you peace but Keisha will burn the house down. LMAO
Or Left Eye 😅
Still ain’t going with Rebecca though. Even if she checks out ok, her family, friends and community will subtly, with a smile, always remind you and your children that your just a N.
black women feel like if they kids survives to 16 that they did their job full stop. Even if he gets arrested on his 17th birthday lol
This was personal
(͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) I asked my own sister....why do you wake up angry?? She couldn't even answer me but looked at me like I was wrong for even asking her that. LOL
That's the exact reply I'd expect lmao
She’s right. As a black man, I’m now wary of black women. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy every day.
Some of us are here for the healing. I have sons and a loving husband for 20 years. I want my sons to have loving wife. It’s a process. I try hard to listen, be warm and giving. Some of us are ok. I did have an in tact family and a strong but adoring dad and a strong but feminine mom. These things help.
My wife and I went to Marshall’s for shopping and guess what? This black young lady checking us out was all “attitude” and my wife had to text me while we were being checked out “Babe why is she looking so upset” ? I just smiled 😊
PROVERBS 21:9 IT IS BETTER TO DWELL IN THE CORNER OF THE HOUSETOP, THAN WITH A BRAWLING WOMAN IN A WIDE HOUSE.
That's The WORD‼️
True dat
No ones gonna pay hard earned money to be treated like crap.
People shouldn't be working in service jobs unless they put on a kind face and demeanor, If they want to keep customers coming back.
Otherwise, even if food, products, or ect are good, it's value goes down in the mind of the consumer. Losing too many consumers and getting a bad reputation means going bankrupt, or layoffs.
This is common sense.
Got called a misogynist the last time I tried to advise a black woman. That was the last time…
If being a "weak man" means I can work a good paying job I enjoy and live a happy life devoid of unnecessary drama, then I'm perfectly fine with that.
Still trying to figure out why Black women hate me. I’ve had so many be hateful for absolutely no reason😳
its called racism, black women invented it
Are you white? Black people just automatically assume you're a racist nazi if you're white, you have to prove to every single one of them you aren't a racist. And you'll know when they don't think your a racist anymore cause they will say 'I appreciate you' at some point.
I tell ya, working in an inner city urban school that was 85%+ black was an eye opening expirience.
@@lindamatus4429 I'm so sorry, I apologize on behalf of those hyenas. You don't deserve that, period. If you were to be completely done with the black female collective, I honestly wouldn't blame you.
👀😂 me watching and laughing from 8000 miles away - thanking god I don’t have to deal with them anymore.
When I approach black woman with this angry annoyed disposition in service industry I just excuse myself away from them. Asking for simple things as napkins, ketchup etc it’s met with instant attitude. I walk away and have just taking the L because I’m not lowering myself into arguments!
I feel the same way!
I walked out of an empty Taco Bell when one of the two cashier that were on their cell phones looked up at me and said “you ready?!” I simply said I change my mind. I sensed it was gonna be nerve wrecking.
@@Gboogie22 Good on you! Maybe they'll learn one day but I'll be dead long before that happens.
Walked into a Giant on my lunch break to get some food, there was an empty bowl of Macn cheese in the display i politely asked this big black girl if there was anymore in the back I was immediately met with an attitude & a screw face , I just walked away not finna let her miserable ass ruin my day... they can be unbearable
Everybody is struggling. Nobody wants to deal with someone nasty in 2024.
It's a lacking of humility, and sense of entitlement.
I think it’s an overcompensation for low self-esteem, which is sad actually. It’s sad because the media and PTB are the ones who keep telling them how disadvantaged they are and how awful white people are. So you go around in the world with your defenses up and ready to fight. Which actually manifests what they **believe** is true.
Been trying to avoid them since birth.
@@Hjsdppcww same.
Makes me feel safer
I don't use check out counters manned by black women and I am black.
I don't either self check out was the best thing invented!
I do the same... I have had nothing but nasty ness and rudeness with black women at the registor...
Same here.... I have had nothing but bad experiences with black women at the registers...
Same here... They are often nasty.... and never say Thank you..
Nobody wanna deal with it at home either
They wake up F'd up!
I busted up laughing when I read that. You are a true comic
@@dwaynehudspeth2073 😂 Man I've seen it too many times.
It’s 9/5/24 and I LITERALLY Faced This Black Woman as a CCR & She TOO was a CCR…named “QUANNIKA” snapped on me simply because I’m asking for info that’s required and TOLD her that I’m not hearing her due to a muddled connection…She claimed I cut her off and you could HEAR the “Tude” in her voice…and mumbling under her tongue…. It’s SAD…REMEMBER when Kevin Samuels had that interview where Black Women DON’T even want to SMILE…..
That's why no one wants to deal with them.
She explains the problem while displaying the problem. Sad sad. Must be avoided!
I’m a black woman and I see the same thing at businesses and it’s sad. But there’s definitely nobody mad at the club.
I’ve gotten numb seeing that on social media. 30 and 40 something “queens living their best life” ( an actual quote) , meanwhile God only knows who’s watching their kids, only to start bitching life 24 hours later.
And its still a shock that us guys are fed up with them?!
Yes, for some women, it seems that way.😕
The problem gets worse when you are trying to have an honest conversation about politics or religion.
I do Uber and the overwhelming majority of black women who get in my car mumble "goodmorning" or "thank you" very low as if it feels weird to have manners. Its very odd
@@tronwalker3908 Being pleasant is a chore for black women. Invite her to cuss and she comes alive.
I understand this fully it's sad bt unfortunately the majority rules the minority
That's exactly what it is. Manners. Being polite is seen as a weakness to some people. Because they get bad advice growing up. And there is also an immaturity involved. I know a few people who will be in a bad mood and expect everyone to just deal with it. Instead of directing their anger at the thing that has made them angry, they dump it on everyone else. It's childish.
I never understood some of the excuses for the attitudes like "What does being nice ever done for me?" Look honey. If poor folks from 3rd world countries can be geniunely nice, why can't you? Also, being nice or not nice doesn't absolve you from any poor choices you made in life. That's on you.
@@Zoloft77 facts. You only see manners when they need something or selling something 😂. Be the most polite stranded mf needing a ride somewhere or trying to sell on of them plates
Stay away from Popeyes....everytime i go in a arguement is going...plus NEVER ask for anything extra...
my EX wife still wakes up everyday angry at the world, she remains focused on findings new ways to become a victim of anything 🤣🤣
I stay Way from Popeyes, Walmart, quick stops where people gamble on lottery etc.
I tried to give a 'lady' valet directions at the hospital..she was so rude that 3 years later i still won't offer my sister's assistance...hell nah..the valet said she was talking crazy like I had did anything other than say it's over there 👉... I swear
We had one at our office, brief hire, and one of the partners even insisted we hire her simply because of her race and gender. Her gloves were off at 9:01 am her first day first minute of work, with bad attitude, offended at everything, could not be told tasks to do or to work on any project. Spent her day staring angrily off into the distance and glaring at anyone who came near her. She lasted two weeks for one reason only: the same senior partner who insisted she be hired, insisted we legally could not fire her despite this being California (surprisingly, an at-will labor state). She finally chewed his face off in front of staff and then he "suddenly saw everyone else's point of view" and fired her, but he insisted on giving her two weeks of severance pay, something no one else has ever gotten for being fired with cause. She took the pay, then wrote Yelp, Glassdoor and Google reviews on the place stating all kinds of wild accusations of things that literally have never happened there.
This insanity needs to stop.
Serves them right for hiring her.
Simple answer, they hate themselves, they hate their lives, they hate everyone that loves their lives. Jealousy X 1000
AMEN!!! I been pointing this fact out for over 30 years now!
I’m 40 I can’t stand our attitude I don’t want any black female friends I’m good just one and she even has an attitude from her trauma and it’s still too much.
PROVERBS 9:13 A FOOLISH WOMAN IS CLAMOROUS:SHE IS SIMPLE AND KNOWETH NOTHING.
Ecclesiasticus 25:19
👉🏾“All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.”👈🏾
as a black woman myself, i approve of her message. it’s a shame how our women would have such rude, nasty disgusting behavior and would be so messy and petty, it’s pathetic!!!!
And because of such attitudes is why many of them remain unmarried. I'm embarrassed by my demographic, to say the least.
The wake up part with a attitude is on point.. ready to argue not even 20 minutes up from waking an ready to go to war..
The reason.....LOW SELF ESTEEM! Nappy hair insecurity no daddy and no men in there lives!
It's culture.. and black women have never been loved or respected black men a big problem
Past or present
2024 they're just figuring this out? BM were saying this back 1995.
Not into bw so I dont care any more. Life is too short to worry about a group of women whose lost in the sauce. I'm just thankful that I have better options so I can move on in life.
Pleasant, cooperative, kind black women are EXTREMELY FEW AND FAR BETWEEN.
2:22 🤣🤣🤣She Said It, So We Don't Have to . . (Anymore)!!!
😆😆😆😆😆😆👍👍👍👍🏆🏆🏆🏆🏅🏅🏅🏅👑👑👑👑🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
I had a similar situation happen a few days ago at my job, I was trying to tell her she could throw her cup of frozen yogurt away if she wasn’t pleased with how it tasted, and she asked y can’t I just pour it in the drip tray?? And I said bc it will get on the floor and I’d have to clean that and she said “that’s not information she needs bc she doesn’t work here” and that I SHOULD clean it simply bc I WORK THERE. An argument occurred. Thoughts?
@calebbonds4632 pure lack of common curtesy for other humans especially employees. I've seen them torment employees knowing damn well that employee can't react or they will lose their job.
But… didn’t the frozen yogurt come in a cup… that she would’ve thrown away anyway?
Because, if so, she was just being combative for the sake of it. She wanted to start a fight.
@@ViralAgent1 no, it’s self serve, so she dispensed it, tried the flavor, didn’t like it, then essentially was upset.
"SHE'Z NOT YOUR'Z IT'Z JUZT YOUR TURN"
Define "Yours" General question, not specific to you.
@BheeOrgh "YOUR'Z" SHE'Z A POSSESSION
ECCLESIASTICUS 36:25 HE THAT GETTETH, A WIFE BEGINNETH A POSSESSION, A HELP UNLIKE UNTO HIMSELF A PILLAR OF REST.
The way society treats them particularly the media I’d be angry also…
I love ringing doctors reception where two black women work, they answer the phone and say nothing, just silence. Then after ten seconds of you saying "hello?...hello?...HELLO, IS ANYONE THERE? HEEEELLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOO??", they start shouting, "Do not take that attitude with me".
Christ please make plantations great again
8.55. They love those stupid hats don’t they?
They having that NBA youngboy energy from dust til dawn
Pro tip; Sorry, It's too late. They grew up that way. It starts with a family. Mom & dad teaching their children. No more single mothers.
Exactly Black men are a big part of the problem they don't take responsibility
I am fully retired and one thing I don’t miss about work is working with black women
The post office is gotta be the worst.
I am a black women I can’t stand bad attitudes black women or men who act them.
I don't blame you. I am one, and if you don't fit the stereotypes they make your life a living hell.
why do they go into customer service if they hate doing customer service?! if you have a bad attitude you should not be in customer service!
Seriously I’m a black women our attitude in cs is a mess
Because they are plentiful and easy jobs to get. They hire pretty much anybody for CS positions because the turnover rate is so high.
Lost my wife in death in 2019 after 24 years of marriage after seeing this video iam not in no hurry to deal with these black women that have nasty attitudes just like what this woman said
Condolences!
Damn she said 99.999%!! 😂😂
Truth to be told..I always try to find the older women or a man to check me out ..just a better experience..js.. they're tends to be more knowledgeable, helpful and courteous and most of all pleasant now matter how long their lines are.
They even have mean pictures on dating apps. 😂
...with
"You can't handle me!"
...as their profile title
🤣😂😅😂🤣😂😅
I was the kind of black girl who stood on the principles my mother taught me and threw it right back. I tried to fix her myself and out argue and reason and it doesn’t work. Now I get why my father just shut down bc I have too now. I went to counseling for all this trauma and will remain in some kind for life. We are too proud to fix anything and that’s why we deserve zero time of day. Everyone else is supposed to change something???? But not us? Do we hear how this sounds? Here it now as I wrote it and consider getting help sistas🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I have never had a loud, aggressive confrontation with any other combination of race and sex than black women. I can go through years of life, meet all kinds of people, all with no problem. But if I so much as look too long upon a black woman, it's on. They're also consistently racist towards any other race, using racial slurs repeatedly during disagreements. They make it impossible to just get along with them as neighbors or coworkers, etc.
She hit the middle of the bullseye 🎯 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
She's right. But not all. We have a black women working at my place and they are hard working kind people. 🙏
I will never date another one 😅 I'm good
I was about three feet tall when I realized I had a choice: Watch the world go by or improve myself constantly. I chose the second option. Everybody else comprise the population called, "sheep".
I avoid them like the racist they claim everyone else is 😂
True. They're just like the racist mofos they claimed to hate.
Me too I’m a black women someone has to say something it’s time for a change
This woman in the video is a perfect example ..... Black American women to be exact
She ain't lying...
The problem with the attitude of most black women isn't the culture as the main culprit. It's the way they were raised by their (probable single) mothers. The children learn from their mothers and ever since the 80s or so, the attitude became more and more aggressive towards anyone around them, including other black women.
Upbringing isn’t the only factor, life choices are. Please don’t make single mothers the culprit. Many white kids have single moms too , they’re not angry though. Black culture in general is divided and angry. Even the music that black men make: robbing, drugs, womanizing. It’s cultural and single moms are not to blame. These are grown ass woman who are capable of choices.
@@islip376 you just contradicted yourself in your words. If the black mothers weren't angry lime the white single mothers then their children would become peaceful children. Music has nothing to do with the attitude as well. Race has nothing to do with either. It's how the children are raised and these children keep that anger cycle going because THEY WERE RAISED like that by their mothers. The children learn this behavior and believe that it is the right thing to do as they become adults.
If the white single mothers kept on being angry and raised their children that way, the children will end up the same way as their mothers. The black community isn't allowing the cycle to stop and they keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again without learning until it's too late and they're on their death beds.
I would say it started long before I that. I am a baby boomer. Born outside North America. The women I grew up amongst, were loud and aggressive. I have come to accept that it is part of our culture. If we want a change in attitude it has to be done on an individual basis and unfortunately we won't see it before the Second Coming
@@islip376The music that men make? You mean like the 8,476,941 love songs BM have made praising BW? Or are we still hyping up the few vulgar rap songs of the late 80s, early 90s as the issue? BP don't listen to lyrics. Bobby Brown sang about the attitude in 'Don't Be Cruel' and no one picked up on it.
@@branfordmonticello853so do you agree with the person whose comment I’m replying to? Or you just want to argue about what I said ?