“ I’m Done With Dating…Save Yourself! It’s Not Worth It Anymore! ”

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 104

  • @MrDee001
    @MrDee001 14 годин тому +24

    As I get older, I realize that being in a relationship feels like taking care of an expensive and temperamental pet. Short-term noncommittal seems to be the move to keep sane and focused on being productive.

  • @Ace-gj3sj
    @Ace-gj3sj 11 годин тому +10

    This is happening to even men in thier 20’s we are all fed up

  • @sneakybidder4584
    @sneakybidder4584 13 годин тому +15

    Dating past 40 years old is like dumpster diving. You might find something good, but it's mostly trash.

  • @shawnblack4442
    @shawnblack4442 14 годин тому +16

    I'm 59 have a good career and successful in life, dating is tough!
    Men and Women aren't on the same page anymore!

    • @al-bsure4284
      @al-bsure4284 14 годин тому +1

      Men tend to be realistic; where as Women are delusional with there expectations

    • @evos469
      @evos469 9 годин тому +1

      We haven't been in a long time

  • @IzzysCuisines
    @IzzysCuisines 15 годин тому +18

    But ONE thing he has to recognize is that he AS A MAN can still find someone to MARRY and to HAVE CHILDREN WITH than a woman his age CAN'T!!!!

  • @commandericeman8588
    @commandericeman8588 11 годин тому +6

    Divorced black male, 53, no kids, checked out of dating market.

    • @yeroc717
      @yeroc717 9 годин тому +2

      DITTO CONGRATS MAN......ME 2...

  • @angelrobison2434
    @angelrobison2434 11 годин тому +4

    I’m 35 single & childless in Houston TX..
    It’s too much of a gamble to have a child that can possible taken away and get out on child support..
    I’d rather just have lady friends..

  • @Voltron21
    @Voltron21 14 годин тому +3

    This is exactly my head space now. Same age group too.

  • @dthomasX01
    @dthomasX01 11 годин тому +2

    Soon as I turned 40, it seems like having peace and protecting it is more important than being in a relationship, especially now when I'm living in a country where a black man like myself is being blamed for everything that's going wrong with our country. I'm constantly seeing Instagram and TikTok videos of women of my complexion calling me a bullet bag because I didn't vote with my feelings and I didn't vote for a woman who pretended to be black. I can't lie I am lonely sometimes, but what I see out here to choose from, is definitely not worth it.

  • @jai-one2691
    @jai-one2691 13 годин тому +3

    The difficulties of relationships, from year to year, have made it not as hard to be alone. Not lonely, but not having a desperate need to have a romantic relationship. If you have good friends and family, you're still doing good.

  • @fyoutube9410
    @fyoutube9410 14 годин тому +5

    Yup, that's me, i"m 42, and i refuse to sacrifice anything.

  • @masculinemillennialtv7566
    @masculinemillennialtv7566 13 годин тому +4

    I’m 31 leaning in that direction no lie … last dated when I was 18

  • @ezeljenkins6088
    @ezeljenkins6088 14 годин тому +7

    I’m 44 in Texas……it’s better to have a friend with benefits! Have a chick to go eat with or go to movies etc! Make sure she has her tubes tubes too…….marriage in amerikkka is pointless 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @commandericeman8588
      @commandericeman8588 11 годин тому +1

      All that is fine and dandy but how are you going to justify having sex outside of marriage when you're standing before God.
      This is why I stopped. I fear God and His righteous wrath.

    • @robertcrawford3037
      @robertcrawford3037 11 годин тому

      @@commandericeman8588why are you here this isn’t that type forum my guy

    • @ezeljenkins6088
      @ezeljenkins6088 11 годин тому

      @ you worry about yourself ho 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @WilliamBennett-jd9rd
    @WilliamBennett-jd9rd 14 годин тому +2

    It really isn’t worth it anymore and the older I get the more set in my ways I am and now at 43 I’m unwilling to compromise. I’ve found inner peace and I want to experience this life alone.

  • @fellberrysans
    @fellberrysans 10 годин тому +2

    Shit I’m 43 and I’ve learn over time I’m better off committing to myself. I look good eat good and live good. With options. And still I like to not be bother with. I don’t care what a woman going through I really don’t. I have no tolerance for a female who doesn’t listen. If I can’t control you I can for sure control my pockets and my life without the problems

    • @chillbrah1010
      @chillbrah1010 6 годин тому

      That's the only reason I'm in a relationship. 😂😂 Exactly wat u mentioned

  • @tronwalker3908
    @tronwalker3908 12 годин тому +3

    Its womens fault and im not playing the blame game. The average women doesnt want the avergae man. Thats the only issue. Most of us are average and regular everyday women are saying no to most of us.

    • @Mrs.DanielsIRL
      @Mrs.DanielsIRL 2 години тому

      But they will want you when they ran through and older. Really not fair…

  • @cwavygaming6615
    @cwavygaming6615 15 годин тому +7

    The average woman gets 5x the amount of matches of an ABOVE average man. Let that sink in. An average woman get WAY more options than a top 10% man 😂 it’s a joke

    • @RandomMotoThings
      @RandomMotoThings 14 годин тому

      And what percentage of that is just men wanting sex and that’s it though lol

    • @shawnblack4442
      @shawnblack4442 13 годин тому +2

      @@cwavygaming6615 Exactly

    • @zericclark2404
      @zericclark2404 12 годин тому +2

      This point is not talked about enough!

    • @cwavygaming6615
      @cwavygaming6615 10 годин тому

      @@zericclark2404 man… and they want you to chase them 😂 whole time they’re literally picking through an endless sea of men choosing who they want to entertain and smash at a moments notice.. I’m good. These women today are beyond cooked and they have themselves to blame

  • @vision176
    @vision176 13 годин тому +3

    I swear that was Havoc from Mob Deep

  • @warrengreen8711
    @warrengreen8711 11 годин тому

    Great narrative. Yes just be happy within yourself. Be open and positive about interactions and engagements but do not accept drama or unfairness or anything which contrast your spiritual journey. I am a passport bro and found beautiful interactions and engagements in Mother Africa but not the exact one yet.

  • @sptsfn1219
    @sptsfn1219 10 годин тому +1

    Part of the problem is that men go after all the hoochie-mamas, and then nice girls get left behind. My sis is so kind, sweet, smart, and just a pleasure to be around, but she is plump, and has few date offers. She definitely could lose 25 lbs, wears minimum make up, no long nails, no tattoos, no fake hair, and men just look her over. My wife has tried to hook her up, as have I, and the guys say she easy going and pleasant, but they want a hottie. Just sad. Then they wonder when the babe wants expensive dinners, and for them to pay for things. I'm at a loss.

    • @BheeOrgh
      @BheeOrgh 8 годин тому

      Happens same for guys

    • @averagejoehere9126
      @averagejoehere9126 6 годин тому

      Here’s the thing. If she we’re to get in shape her options increase and now she’s looking down on the same men who will now be interested in her. Monkey branching HYPERGAMY is real and it’s a by product of living in Babylon the great/America.

  • @flawlessvictorygaming
    @flawlessvictorygaming 11 годин тому +1

    After visiting the Phillipines during covid for a year, i have decided to move there in 2.5 years from now. Right now im doing 3 jobs as security to get a nice house there. These American wom3n aint crap

  • @montreyharris8676
    @montreyharris8676 12 годин тому +2

    He's going to have to go to East Africa to find a wife.

  • @BheeOrgh
    @BheeOrgh 8 годин тому

    I have NEVER wanted a family, I'm way too selfish + I never had the working capital for a family + I wanted to travel.

  • @KingDanny9
    @KingDanny9 11 годин тому

    Definitely not worth having kids anymore. Women get extra expensive after childbirth, most marriages end due to financial problems.

  • @jasongold708
    @jasongold708 Годину тому

    At 52, I've not attempted to get involved with a female for a decade. It just isn't a priority. Every now and then my mom will say something about a girlfriend or grandchildren and I say to her that my brother has provided that for you and that ship has sailed for me. I'm alone, but not lonely. It isn't that I'm unable to be considerate of someone else, but I'm not going to tolerate much nonsense at all.

  • @TheArenaRevised
    @TheArenaRevised 5 годин тому

    Women are primarily transactional now for me. I enjoy chatting with them, but it's rare to find the opportunity to do so because they're buried in their phones. I commission content that I pay for and sometimes monetize, and leave it at that for my fix. In other words, if I'm gonna pay, it's for something only I'm getting and I can use. But yeah, the risk/reward calculus isn't the same

  • @rtwo4570
    @rtwo4570 13 годин тому

    It’s EXPOUNDING not EXPANDING.

  • @jbga.6178
    @jbga.6178 8 годин тому

    We get set in our ways apart from the opposite sex by design working in a 'compartmentalized' way. She does this here, you, as a man do this there. It's about overcoming that designed and segregated socialization.

  • @krookrock
    @krookrock 9 годин тому

    he needs to keep working on himself to attract what he wants. Try leaving the country and see what's out there too

  • @ell6074
    @ell6074 12 годин тому +1

    Dating isn't worth while, it's just a waste of time 9 times outta 10, my first choice is tu have a wife and family, but if yu want me tu be 100% honest, i wld feel much more secure, if i have 2 wives, i have ma passport, and ma experiences are much more better abroad, i actually get respect as a man in east afrika, im from michigan,
    But he is correct

  • @Honesty69
    @Honesty69 7 годин тому

    Dating in the west is a total waste of time & resources 😕.
    My bros.
    Get your passport,
    Get your $
    Clean up any negative ways you got
    And let nature guide
    Up up

  • @Smily411
    @Smily411 4 години тому

    Get this man a passport

  • @MaestroMephisto
    @MaestroMephisto 14 годин тому

    Sounds like he was expecting to find a woman near his age that would “acclimate” to his life and how he’s set in HIS ways. A man SHOULD be set in his ways. The PROBLEM is that if he’s been seeking older women simply because SoCiEtY brainwashed him into believing he HAS TO DATE IN HIS AGE RANGE, then it’s really the OLDER WOMAN that will not acclimate to him. She’ll be set in HER ways with all her previous relationship baggage and how they always say “I did this and that for an ex and I’ll never do that again for no other man”.
    He needs to date YOUNGER. Let the world be mad about it but if he wants to be a LEADER, he needs to date women in their 20’s but not above age 25. That’s when they get stuck in their ways.

  • @Mrs.DanielsIRL
    @Mrs.DanielsIRL 2 години тому

    Well this is happening because people are farther from God than ever. Reading the Bible you will learn that all these things are mentioned. The Lord gave us instructions on how to live righteous but everyone wants to do to what they want to do…

  • @Jabba2702
    @Jabba2702 14 годин тому +1

    The world is going down anyway. It is at the end. Better to be ready, and put your trust in God.
    To meet a negativ woman, wrong focus etc. Can get you on the wrong path.
    So easy for me, double reason to stay alone.
    My wish is to meet a woman with similar values, away from the world tough

    • @Voltron21
      @Voltron21 14 годин тому

      You know how many people and how many times someone has said the world is coming to an end? Countless 😂

    • @Jabba2702
      @Jabba2702 12 годин тому

      @@Voltron21 Maybee some, but now the prophesies are fullfilled. The soceity is destroyed with electronics, people put shitt i in the body, making robots etc etc. This hasnt happen before. Even if some have said it... Also all major religions are ready to fill the en of bible prophesy. They are waiting for the fake one...
      The en is near for sure.

  • @rizzo8879
    @rizzo8879 2 години тому

    Sooo the girl in the thumbnail?🤔

  • @kset718
    @kset718 13 годин тому

    I don't know. All of this stuff is starting to sound real weak sauce. Get outside and just look. Accepting defeat without even trying is corny to me

  • @francinequeeniciahairston2352
    @francinequeeniciahairston2352 15 годин тому +1

    Don't give up. I'm still hopeful

  • @hospitaladministrator3359
    @hospitaladministrator3359 14 годин тому

    Ol girl on the thumbnail was stacked. Y’all red pill dudes sound real 💅 these days. I need and love women. 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @BMSreacts
      @BMSreacts  14 годин тому +2

      Did you watch the full video, fam?
      Few takeaways from my reaction, but not limited to:
      - We need each other
      - We weren't designed to be alone
      - If you have a good woman, hold on to her

    • @hospitaladministrator3359
      @hospitaladministrator3359 13 годин тому

      @bmsreacts that comment wasn’t for you, brody. It was for the first clip in the compilation

    • @robertcrawford3037
      @robertcrawford3037 11 годин тому

      @@hospitaladministrator3359 why you even here?

    • @hospitaladministrator3359
      @hospitaladministrator3359 11 годин тому

      @@robertcrawford3037 because I can be pussy nigga, any other questions, butt boy

  • @ChadShmoe
    @ChadShmoe 7 годин тому +17

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      @ChadShmoe 7 годин тому +1

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      @EvelynT.Collins 7 годин тому

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