pakistani doctor poori dunya ma badnam hai. sab dunya jante hai ka pakistani doctor selfish or lalchi hai. uk ma tu kafi arsa sa pakistani doctors ko hire nahi keya jaa raha . or America ma ya itna kamyab nahi bas wahan ziyadater ya entry level doctor hai jo ya wahan aik truck driver ka barabar kamata hai. pakistan ma in ki moojh hai govt sa wage leta hai lakin govt hospital ma imanatdari sa kam nahi kerta or sara din apni private clinics ma rehta hai. private clinic ma patient sa heavy feed leta hai phir bhi wahan patient ko sahi check nahi kerta or commisoned medicine or test likhta hai. foreign countries ma pakistani doctor ka diagnose ko mana nahi jata .
Professor Dr. Javed - I was Assistant professor in Pakistan and left the country in 2000 and came to Australia because of same reasons. I know it is very hard to leave your country and loved one. I am encouraging young people if they have opportunities to come overseas please do so for yourself and your coming generations. Most of you would be contributing for humanity. DO NOT LIMIT YOUR TALENT.
I have to add my two cents here. Btw, I'm a second gen Pakistani from Khi whose grand parents immigrated from India. I myself was a true patriotic Pakistani and when I immigrated to Canada back in 2008, when I was 23 years old. I went with a plan to study and become financially stable and then return to Pakistan as parents and siblings were there. I was living with my aunt's family and I used to argue with my cousins in favour of Pakistan and how Pakistan is better in certain ways from Canada. My cousins came to Canada as kids so it was home for them and they used to degrade Pakistan and Pakistanis. Things didn't go as planned and I came back in 2010 with no intention to return even though, I was a PR back then. I resumed my studies and started looking for jobs. I was unable to find any job and I was continuously advised by my elders and other people to return to Canada. People used to call me crazy that being a PR, I don't want to live in Canada and here people are dying to move to Canada. In late 2012, I finally decided to return to Canada half heartedly as I was unable to find a job and my PR was also going to expire. This time, I decided to live on my own and since then, I'm still there and Alhamdulillah, married and have couple of kids now. Whatever I have earned is from Canada, so I have utmost respect for that country. In all those years, I always sailed in two ships as my mind stayed in Canada and heart in Pakistan which didn't help me to grow as I was not focused. I always though about returning to Pakistan and start some kind of small business there. While I'm writing this, I'm in Khi for more than four months now and my plan to ever move to Pakistan has completely changed. Why? Because I couldn't find a single reason except personal ones like parents and siblings, to stay in this country. There is never ending list of issues. There would be no other city like Khi but sadly, it was ruined by politicial parties and army altogether. This city has became a victim of hatred and discrimination. Even if I try to look past these issues, I can't tolerate our people. Everybody is corrupt in their own way. It's worse than a jungle right now. I feel ashamed that we even call ourselves Muslims because there is no sight of Islam in our country. I always advise people if they can afford, go and visit any developed western country and I'm sure you'll feel ashamed being a Pakistani Muslim and where we stand as a nation. Forget being a Muslim, we shouldn't even be called humans. People who're against moving to western countries. I have to tell you that those non Muslims are actually following Islam, where even a cat killed is investigated and killer gets apprehended. Where people have respect for each other. Employers look after their employees and treats them with respect. Everybody has equal rights whether you live there for generations or few years. Police treats us as they're our servants. These countries actually follow the correct meaning of public servants unlike Pakistan. Politicians and high rank govt. employees don't get any protocols or any kind of benefits like we get here for e.g, govt. number plates, fuel, cars etc. We have freedom of speech. People can swear on PM's face and not get arrested but in Pakistan, you criticize army being an Urdu speaking and you'll get abducted but you can get away if you're from any other ethnicity. We're slaves in our own country. Anyways, there is a long list I can present about pros of living in west. Even if I talk about Islam, I have seen better Muslims there. It all depends on your upbringing. I have seen an Imam who was born there and his wife wears a veil and I have seen people moved from Pakistan and started drinking and committing zina so in the end, it all depends on you. Even in Pakistan, people are doing everything under the table. Sadly, this country is not livable anymore if you're honest, truthful and wants to live with dignity.
Thank you for sharing. Agree with most of what you said except for Islamic points. In Western countries, people follow a very strange kind of Islam, so much so that it is not even Islam. Western Islam is big on rituals but is devoid of its soul. Mostly I blame English-speaking scholars in those countries who have corrupted Islam there. For example, pick top 10 most popular English-speaking scholars living in those countries and most likely they will all be themselves living in a house bought using mortgage, even mosques in those countries are bought with similar haram means. In Pakistan most people indeed do not follow Islam as well, that is true. But Pakistan is blessed with thousands of righteous Islamic scholars who have preserved the true spirit along with rituals of Islam. No other country, even no other Islamic country, has more freedom of speech for Islamic scholars than Pakistan.
agreed but when a cat gets killed it's investigated but when thousands are killed in afg, and Iraq by these western countries, there is no investigation lol...just do criticism brother..accept it... moreover, neither pak nor any western country is truly suitable for Muslims..that's my pt of view..well all should move to Africa..haha
@@silenthill1035 I agree with you. There is a place where an Self proclaimed imam is a Gay, a Mosque where A Female leads prayer for men and women. There are either very good Muslims in west or people are in risk of loosing Deen (their Kids) altogether. That is something which is unaffordable. This debate should end with Dr. Sahib’s second video about hindsight of living. Take advise from elders and not young people. Come here, earn while u r young and go to Pakistan.
Didn’t realise how situation has deteriorated so much in Pakistan. If you have the opportunity just go for it! Allah bless you to make the best choices
I moved to the U.S. some 30 years ago when I was 18. Alhamdolillah monetarily I have done well but I could say with 99% certainty that it’s extremely difficult to protect your deen beyond the first generation after you. If you want to earn dunya, moving might not be a bad idea especially if your family is struggling financially but deen will always be in danger if your children grow up here.
Brother from USA. Sir you have really honest opinion about it. I am living here for last 38 years and I have same feeling like you do. Allah may bless us. Love your efforts.
The way our politicians, beurocrates, Judges and Generals are behaving and selling our country cheaply for little benefits, the disappointment and frustration in youth is understandable.
if the youth pass exams without cheating, we will have youth to replace spoiled politicians like nawaz or zardari... the problem is the youth is ejaculating 5 times a day instead of preparing for exams.
I worked as a general physcian in pakistan for almost 10 years from soust pak china border gilgit baltistan to aga khan hospital karachi and getting a pay range between 140k to 150k.with this pay I was unable to manage my family financial issues and was struggling for almost 10 long years. Few years back I shifted to kuwait as a registrar and getting a pay 20 times more than what I was getting in pakistan. Personally I advise doctors community to leave pakistan because this country doesn't deserve us rather it deserve corroup bureaucracy,politicians and dictators.
Dr sabh, I also had that question in back of my mind? Thanks for your answer. You should participate in politics, we need people like you in the top administration.
Al hamdulillah, being a dr. My thoughs are same as dr javed said so far , Before this i didn't know that we can go there and can come back to serve our nation, When dr sahab said that i went there just becoz of learning purpose at this point a thought the same , that yessss i'll go outof country and will come back to serve my country! In sha Allah.. may Allah blesss and gives long life ,, dr javed iqbal.
The way sir said thank you in the end felt like he was literally crying in the inside. I can feel that. I also got my visa yesterday and am leaving today. Feeling like crying. Didn't wanted to go but situation hi asi ho chuka ha k or koi option nazar ni ata. Dukh hota ha dekh k k hmra mulk kya ban skta tha or kya ban gya ha. Leaving family and friends behind is very hard. Alot of my friends have either left or is applying to leave. All of them are educated and skillful.
We live in UK and i feel more safe here than Pakistan Alhamdolilah my kids are learning best of deen and getting education. I have kids from age 17-6 and I always tell them one thing no matter what, never make Allah angry or naraaz with you or you will have to success in duni or akhirah.Pakistan is very hard place to live as there is no rules and regulations. May Allah make it easy for people who live there Ameen
''جو لوگ اپنی جانوں پر ظلم کررہے تھے ( کفار کے ممالک میں رہ رہے تھے) ، ان کی روحیں جب فرشتوں نے قبض کیں ، تو ان سے پوچھا کہ یہ تم کس حال میں مبتلاتھے، اُنہوں نے جواب دیا کہ زمین میں کمزور اور مجبور تھے۔ فرشتوں نے کہا: کیا اللہ (تعالیٰ) کی زمین وسیع نہ تھی کہ تم اس میں ہجرت کرتے؟ یہ وہ لوگ ہیں ، جن کا ٹھکانہ دوزخ ہے اور وہ بڑا ہی برا ٹھکانا ہے۔ ہاں جو مرد ، عورتیں اوربچے واقعی بے بس ہیں اور نکلنے کاکوئی راستہ اور ذریعہ نہیں پاتے، بعید نہیں کہ اللہ انہیں معاف کردے اور اللہ بڑا معاف کرنے والا اور درگزر فرمانے والا ہے ۔( سورہ نساء 99) الھِجرَة لغوی طورپرالھَجرسے ماخوذ ہے جس کا مطلب 'چھوڑ دینا'ہے۔ اور شریعت کی اصطلاح میں الھِجرَة سے مراد یہ ہے : ''الانْتِقَالُ مِنْ بَلَدِ الشَِّرْکِ إلیٰ بَلَدِ الإسْلَامِ'' '' کفر و شرک والے علاقے سے 'بلد ِاسلام' کی طرف منتقل ہونا۔ ''
Prof sahab you have won my heart. I can see the internal conflict you are having. Many professionals of your generation who returned to Pakistan despite having chances to settle abroad have similar sentiments. However, with time the gap between opportunities a professional could find in Pakistan versus abroad has widened to a great extent. I was among the lower 10% in my class when I graduated, in Pakistan if I apply for a job in 2022 I don't think I will earn more than Rs.50,000/= per month in my field. But since I am living abroad, I can afford a decent lifestyle with the job I have. So for people who are not among the top 1% of their class, such decisions are not as difficult as they used to be.
Dr Sahib I agree the doctors now should take the opportunity to come abroad in order to illuminate Pakistans reputation and name in the world. Also the remittance sent back will help the Pakistan economy in shaa Allah. I appreciate very much your decision in your time when there weren’t as many doctors as now, you chose to stay in Pakistan and serve the nation. H Mahmood from UK.
You think bringing some more Docs will change the reputation of Pakistan? Dont we have enough Docs working in the field Pakistan's reputation has not been improving
Sir m highly impressed by ur knowledge n love fr this land...u r wrking on a big cause...MA My husbnd n my kids r eu nationals..bt v returned back to pak in 2016...i did fcps in radiology.n MA v r settled here..bt smtimes i feel v shud go back fr better quality of life fr our kids...bt i wd like to share few things dat stops me.. 1st if any of my generations is deviated from islam...i feel i wl b questioned first on day of judgemnt...as m the one who took this decision. N 2ndly sir i feel if rizk is written by Allah even before our birth...then y v r alws after this...if he cn give us in Uk...y nt in pakistan... N last bt nt da least...this wrld is nt permanant...v all hv to leav..whether its uk...us or australia.. I feel patriotism wl b given few marks on day of judgment...hopefly...n may b they wl help us in future
pakistan meh bachy palna hindu palny k barabar hain. uk k bachy asli islam seekh rahy hain. immigration ka yeh faida hota hain. lekin zina aam daram hai pakistan meh. married aurty har ek ko deh rahi hain aur nasal ka kuch pata hi nai jaisy sitara yaseen. yeh hi haal uk meh bhi hain har mulq meh hain lekin logo ko apni nasal ka pata hain.
Appreciating your sincere love and affection for the land which I duly endorse. Having some knowledge and understanding about environment and climate change, I feel so scary about the quality of environment, food, health services and climate change impacts our children are exposed to. This make me to think that my generation has totally destroyed the living environment and my next generation has to face the consequences. I am accountable for this damage. Therefore, with heavy heart, under the circumstances my next generation may leave this country if possible. May Allah forgive me.
I believe it's a best advice, even if you go for short term getting foreign exposure is essential to be on top of your game (applicable to almost all professions). I am currently working with a UK based company and have been a part of gaint Desi company the real difference is mindset, professional approach and apportunities to learn and grow.
I did my FCPS in 2018... after that I have to serve in a BHU for a year... nobody even can understand the difference between MO and a specialist... After too much struggle I was transferred to a THQ as MO... for the last year I am a consultant in a THQ which is 83km from my home..... in addition to my salary I have to borrow some more for travelling cost.... this is the story of almost every specialist in Pakistan...
Very sorry to hear that. I have great respect for doctors like yourself who work in Pakistan despite abject conditions. I know my thanks and respect won't pay your bills, still wanted to say that anyway.
There is always two sides of the story. While there are stories of prejudice and discrimination against us in these countries, I for one have progressed very well along with many of my friends and fellow Pakistani community members here in Canada. The way life has changed for so many of us would not have been possible for us in Pakistan. I was called out being a Shia or Urdu speaking openly at work places in Pakistan whereas here I lead a couple of hundred people most of whom are white or locals.
I thank Allah for having people like Dr Javed for his guidance and his knowledge here in Pakistan....these are times of confusion,lies and desparity that we are living in....we need all the help n guidance in the world! Thank u Sir!! Utmost respect for u!!!
No doubt,we have good and sincere teachers/ mentors like Dr prof .Javed sahab ,the only need is to take practical approach for resolving these highlighted issues,so that our existing and future generations ll be benefitted from our side
There is an Italian proverb " if there is gold and diamond raining in foreign country and blood and draggers raining in your country......it is still better to remain in your own country"...BTW I am also a doctor and I have worked in foreign...but at the end they don't treat you well and you remain a third degree citizen...this is a bitter truth.
I am a third-rate citizen in my own country (Pakistan). I have to do 7 people's jobs while getting 1 person's salary. In the govt building Where I work, there is no electricity, water, facilities, or even most of the staff. I am forced to spend my salary on doing various repairs on govt buildings, pay various bills, buy equipment, etc. If I refuse or ask for any of these things by saying that I can't keep spending my salary on these things because I have to feed my family, I am labeled a traitor and threatened to be terminated from my job. I can't get a leave without going through a tedious and painful process even when I am sick. If I report corruption, I am the one who is mistreated and punished. The inflation is causing me to not even be able to buy new clothes for 3,4 years. So many things which happen here that make you think that how pathetic it is to be treated like a dog in your own country. Meanwhile the corrupt rulers, army officers, bureaucrats, etc keep increasing their benefits, tax relaxations, salaries, lands etc.
Salam Sir. Hum as a student aap se ittefaq karte hai aur aapke philosophy ka respect karte. You have an played an fatherly role in the lives of many medical/non medical students/postgraduates. ALLAH(S.W.T) aapko apni hifz o aman may hameesha rake aur aapko lambi aur sehatmand zindagi ata farmaye. Ameen
Anyone who can settle abroad should act immediately. In Pakistan, there is no rule of law, system, or security, and above all, we have a power sector that never thinks about the people of Pakistan but for their own benefit. I don't believe that there is any chance of correction.
Dear Dr. Javed, i am an avid listener to your advices on various topics especially parenting. You remained truthful on this topic which i appreciate but please also guide us that if someone does want to come back, how can he/she survive in this ungrateful place? Many people are earning a reasonable lifestyle in Pakistan but they also lack security, education, health, justice and peace in general. Musalman ki fitrat m nahi mayus hona laikin apna ghar jab khatry m ho tu log ghar ko bachaty hain na k ghar sy bahgty hain. Unfortunately i am among those who just fled after giving my best to my country in my youthful years but the reward is not there at all monetary or compassion wise.
There is nothing to be guilty about. Think of yourself as a global citizen, learn about people’s backgrounds and their cultures and travel to different places every now and then. Borders are made by humans and it was merely a coincidence that you were born in a certain place at a certain time.
Very logical and well said especially your last words. I have observed in 2022, Pakistani system has lost faith in millions of it's citizens including me. And we are extremely concerned regarding our next generations and financial situation.
The best way to resolve this situation in my opinion is to go abroad, live there for some time, and then decide if you should stay there or come back home. At least, the experience in a foreign country will be highly beneficial for your future.
Life is too short to experiment. Few years of living if with permanent residency would make one habitual. Disrupting everything and coming back to Pakistan would be impossible. Things change.
It’s also not that much easy to experiment, lots of money, time and sacrifice involves. If some1 is bachelor then ok but with family it’s quiet risky. One thinks that kuch aur time, kuch aur time then we will be settled here(abroad) after 4’5 years of living but who has to come back to country their kids face lots of difficulties in settelment.
You become unfit for Pakistani society once you are treated as a human being in the West. So very few people return to the feudal and army generals run Pakistan. There are few exceptions though
Go abroad, learn about your field and their system, then come back and try to correct the problems in your system and help the next generations to come.
I left Pakistan for good 3 years back and I'm pretty satisfied. Lots of opportunities, and lots of areas for your growth and success. The challenges that we face here don't affect your mental health however in Pakistan every challenge affects your mental health pretty badly. That's the main difference that I have observed.
Dr Sahib You are so true and thank you for being so straightforward. Very few people have the courage so speak like you did. Stay blessed. Unfortunately, the corrupt mafia has taken control of Pakistan at every critical position including army, judiciary, bureaucracy and government.
Alhumdulillah Sir main Pakistan nhi chor sakti Ha yae baat sach hai k halat achay nahi meray watn k laykin hr mushkil k baad asani hai bayshak Allah meray mulk ko sambhal lain Ameen koi is sy wafadar nahi dil dukhta hai 😭😭😭
Biggest challenge abroad is staying firm on your Deen and teach your generation. I have seen people get into bad habits and they lost themselves and their kids are lost as well.
Unfortunately pak mey bhi apko apny apko deen dar introduced karany mey sharam ati or yahan bhi har degree ka fitna aam horaha 😥😳 Han kuch countries mey zada hy but yeah kuch counties mey pak sey zada islam bhi follow kara ja raha so ye to ap pr depend krta ab kis type ki country choose krty!!
JazakAllah for sharing your thoughts with all of us. It's an irony that In Pakistan young professionals can't change the corrupt system rather system makes them corrupt eventually in just few months! Sad reality 😢
Mere watan e Azeez Hindustan ke aakhri kone se ye Guftagu sunkar Faiz Sahab ki nazm yaad aayi یہ داغ داغ اجالا یہ شب گزیدہ سحر وہ انتظار تھا جس کا یہ وہ سحر تو نہیں یہ وہ سحر تو نہیں جس کی آرزو لے کر چلے تھے یار کہ مل جائے گی کہیں نہ کہیں فلک کے دشت میں تاروں کی آخری منزل
In the name of Allah the most high the most merciful i have been in such a big dilemma regarding which country I should live in I was born in Pakistan and came to the UK in 1994 then went back and stayed in Pakistan around 8 years then came back now I im.34 and I have 4 children I haven't got a house in England because of mortgage and nor do I have a house in Pakistan my son has autism and he does not speak much I really want to come back as I belong to a village and.want to help people but I feel so scared of what happens to young children also the spread of lgbtq is on the rise i have never felt so confused in my life doing istikara as only my maker knows whats best for me. Please everyone I request all of you to keep me in your duas. The last thing All that glitters is not gold 🇬🇧
i have noticed that the ratio of abnormal children born in western countries is more as compared to Islamic countries, Why ?? Also, I have many relatives in UK and they also have Abnormal children ! Any specific reason ?
@@AabaBeel It can be many reasons but main are mother is stressed in early pregnancy when the child brain is developing the food the mother eats during pregnancy and the injections that are given to babies the environment the child is born in also it can be passed on from parents. They haven't managed to pin point the actual reason.
kharab tareen halat ko avoid karna aur apni dunya alihda karna akalmandi zaroor ha ... lakin allaha par yaqeen rakh kar inn halaat ma apney survival ki aik koshish zaroor karni chahian ... your staimna towards struggle make you successfull .. musalman mushkil ma ghabrata nahi ha ...
every person has its own opinion. mental stability ka taulaq spirtual and relegious attachment se ha kuch loog jaldi temparament loose kar jatey ha kuch loog continous failures, opposition, leg pooling, lack of resources ke bawajood apni nerves ko loose nahi kartey.. every one has its own point veiw plz do not mind musibat ma namaz aur sabar se kam lena chainey ...
Thank you for sharing an insightful conversation with daughter. I greatly respect that you chose to stay in Pakistan and fully agree with your advice for people to leave to progress and develop themselves.
I am in visa consultancy business for last 2 decades...never preferred to move abroad..but Never experienced such urgency and hopelessness in this country..educated people want to move abroad for better future..those who can't, want their children to get settled abroad..especially these days Pak Doctors are applying for PLAB 2 exam for UK, once they succeed in PLAB 2, they get well paid jobs in the UK by NHS..also many doctors are applying for USMLE to settle in USA...here these extremely talented doctors are paid mere 45k to 50K monthly by the hospitals..what would they do
pakistani doctor poori dunya ma badnam hai. sab dunya jante hai ka pakistani doctor selfish or lalchi hai. uk ma tu kafi arsa sa pakistani doctors ko hire nahi keya jaa raha . or America ma ya itna kamyab nahi bas wahan ziyadater ya entry level doctor hai jo ya wahan aik truck driver ka barabar kamata hai. pakistan ma in ki moojh hai govt sa wage leta hai lakin govt hospital ma imanatdari sa kam nahi kerta or sara din apni private clinics ma rehta hai. private clinic ma patient sa heavy feed leta hai phir bhi wahan patient ko sahi check nahi kerta or commisoned medicine or test likhta hai. foreign countries ma pakistani doctor ka diagnose ko mana nahi jata .
I've recently moved back to Karachi after living in UK and middle East for 20+ years. ALLHAMDULILAH. My advice is if you're struggling here go abroad, get a good experience, learn how to make money and then come back. Don't make abroad your permanent home. For those blessed ones who're doing well, this is still the best place to live. You just have to do something meaningful here . Allah knows best.
Totally agree w/u. I always advise others if ur dying in pakistan, then go abroad n comeback. EU,US,CA arent a place 4 muslims. U got chance 2 make money, make some money then comeback.
I am planning to come back from Australia early next year INSHALLAH. I spent 9 years here and feel like I lost my golden age to this Land. Hopefully it turns out good for me.
You are a legend for our country...Gems of Pakistan....Those woh not just think of their selves but for the country and Nation are few of them...Hats off to Mr. Iqbal sahab
My dear dr sirs I'm from mewat haryana india I'm neet ug medical aspirant i love u both here i wanna to say on this topic here ki hum ko ane mulk ko pahle great banana h because jab hum hi waha chle gye to humaare mulk ko kon manage karega hm ko esa Banna h apne mulk jo humaare mulk k liye public wait kare🤝💫🤝
Well said, dr. sb. The absolute failure of all institutions responsible for developing a Pakistan, where citizens can live respectfully and see their future generations flourishing is forcing every individual to ask this question.
Sir You are a very good person and doctor. No doubt that you have a very good relationship with the senior doctors of this country who have the capability to change this system and give the students the great opportunities they deserve. The government shoudl also do efforts yo chabge the systen so no student thinks about leaving this beautiful country. Injustice starts from mdcat and does not end even after completing the degree. Then the people say that doctors are rude and go after money That is not the case everyime but unfortunately,it is true . A person alone cannot change the system We must think about the future of doctors. Government should build more medical 🏥 colleges and hospitals across the country. May Allah help us
Better to leave aisy mulk mai reh Kia ho ga jahan military establishment ne mulk ko yargamal bnaya hua hy . Na qanon na insaf. Or chorrrooo ko khul e amm qanon relief de raha hy . Allah pak hamari any wali nasloo per reham farmaye
True but zardaris or sharifs sa asha hi hain... Military establishment ka hospitals, schools, universities, housing societies and even the companies they own are the best in country.
Sir i have felt the pain in your answer, i know the level of patriotism you are having. And Sir this is what Dr Tahir ul Qadri Sahab always talking about Brain Drain. All the good Brains are living Pakistan, because of the corrupted system.
@@native5647 Dr Qadri has given his 70 years to Pakistan and still his organisations are serving the Pakistanis in Pakistan, in current flood relief activities His organisation has spend billions of rupees. Once a person become religious leader, then he cannot stick to one nation, he has to travel across the world, wherever Muslims and humans are living.
@@syedraheel4543 Traveling and giving Dawah as a religious leader is one thing but moving into a non Muslim land permanently is another his country and his organization needs him till his last day he has a responsibility for his own people and his own nation first or every religious leader will move to a non Muslim country in the name of spreading Islam leaving his own people behind
I spent over 11 years in Uk, trained and worked at Consultant Surgeon level in the NHS, then came back to my country. I have 3 daughters, a wonderful wife and there is not a day when I say Shukr Alhamdolillah for my decision. The key thing is to get a level of education so that you are in demand in Pakistan, so you get a good job and can have a reasonable standard of living. If your prime motive is saving your deen and your children’s deen then it is my iman that Allah will bless you more than you can imagine. Saying that I would urge every young man and woman to get an education or work for some years in the west (or east) to see where the world stands and experience what justice is.
I moved to USA 25 years ago. Lived ok life but raising kids here is challenging. Nearly impossible to save them from American culture. It feels like I’m tied with wires of gold . I am stuck … even if I want to leave these gold wires don’t let me leave …
im 19 and this is one of the biggest reasons that i dont wana go to canada for undergrad because i know ill setlle there. And in the future i would never ever want my children to adopt their culture etc especially forget their religious values.
The closeness of blood relations binds us together, Like a chain. To give whole chain the strength in collective approach, but only within capacity of sincerity. Not the unjustified declared rules for loyalty, faithfulness and values.
Going abroad should be an aim to become citizen of the global village to get exposure to more advanced tools, technologies and practices. And after some 5/10 years you would be at a level to make better choices and coming back to your original country would be one of them and you'll be making much informed decision.
Sir mera jawab aur aur aim hi kuch aur hai pakistan main yeh haqeeqat hai keh hum ziyada pay nahin kar sakte magar in ka aur in jaison ka abroad jana zaroori hai jab yeh financially strong hon gay tou kisi aur ki help kar saken gay wo education ho ya illaj ki ho aur sub say bari baat jo foreign money pakistan main inject karen gay phir in ko hammari fees ki bhi zaroorat nahin ho gi tou main strongly motivate karoon ga yeh zaroor jayen Thanks for anticipation
Really very bitter reality. We become shock when we think about the situations, facilitations, environment which is full of hypocrisy, nepotism, revenge, unethical behaviors and harassment issues etc etc. Actually we are byself responsible for all these kind of situations and we don't think that tomorrow our own children will face these situations which are our own creation today. So actually we are creating unethical and unfavourable situations for our own children in future.
Thanku so much sir, I respect you even more for your honestly mashallah I live in the US and I feel very disheartened to see the current state of my beloved country Pakistan.
Masha ALLAH Very very excellent and honest advice but Sir , جس ملک کے جج جنرل اور بیوروکریسی ساری عمر پاکستان کو کھانے کہ بعد اپنی اور اپنے بچوں کی باقی زندگی گزارنے کیلئے یورپ کو منتخب کریں اس ملک کے حالات بدقسمتی سے ایسے ھی ھوں گے اللہ تعالٰی ھمارے ملک کی حفاظت فرمائے آمین
O those who travel to the West... The Western environment will not have mercy on your children and grandchildren (Translated from Arabic) Written by Mu’minah Al-A'zam Granddaughter of the late Sheikh Ali Al Tantawi (may Allah have mercy on him). My grandfather, Ali Al Tantawi, was wise enough to prevent us from going through with our immigration process to Canada, when it was proposed and available to us at the time. Our children were still young back then. I was skeptical about his reasoning, whilst my ego as a young parent made me jump to the assertion that he was too strict and only wanted to control his children’s life... May Allah have mercy on him... Now I tend to agree with him and recall his wise decision whenever I come across a story of people whose children have lost their Deen, in the midst of the busy life in the West. His reasoning was: “To choose to live in the land of kufr leads to losing your offspring. If you are able to protect your children, you can never guarantee to protect their children and their grandchildren. Do not carry the responsibility [of their losing their Deen].” I remembered all of that when I came across a post by a friend: A precautionary tale “Someone told me today, “If I had enough money I would immigrate to America instead of Turkey. It will never affect me or my family where I immigrate, what’s important is how I raise my children and not where I raise them.” I had to warn him that the choice of the place is considered one of the fundamentals of raising (tarbiyya). It is said, ask the experienced over the wise. So here is my experience: Nine years ago I was tasked to investigate the family history of the Ramadan family (a Beirut family). I began with the family tree and searched (online) for all the family members all over the world. I found 5000 members and the statistics were staggering. Here’s a list of those in the family that migrated to the West: Those who migrated - 100 years ago: 96% of their offspring are NOT Muslim - 80 years ago: 75% of their grandchildren are not Muslim - 60 years ago: 40% of their grandchildren are Christian - 40 years ago: 25% of their grandchildren left Islam Around 80 years ago a ‘Sheikh’ migrated to the Ecuador and built the first masjid there. He insisted on raising his children upon Islam. Today none of his grandchildren is Muslim. This is the case of most families. Personally, among the 48 of my grandfather’s grandchildren, 16 are not Muslim. We live in the United States, and I have been an American Citizen for 40 years. In Ecuador, there are 98 of the Beirut’s Ramadan family. The Ramadan forefathers migrated there in 1923. Now all of the 98 grandchildren are Christian. I met George, Christian and Emilio Ramadan. I managed to convince Emilio to come to the family union in Adana, Turkey after I offered him financial assistance only for him to learn about the Muslim history of his family. It was really heartbreaking. These statistics are not the same among the families that migrated to an Islamic country such as Turkey.
That's why I am not thinking about immigration to UK .I have a chance .If my child loses his Deen I will be responsible .how can I face Allah on the day of judgement .
I left Pakistan many years ago, got foreign specialization and I am well settled economically Alhamdulillah but I must say that all is not good outside Pakistan. There are many issues in countries outside Pakistan. Raising children in the West is a major issue. میرے خیال میں یہ بہت بڑا فیصلہ ہے اور اس کے لیے استخارہ کرنا چاہیے اور اللہ تعالیٰ سے مانگتے رہنا چاہیے ۔ اور جو لوگ مغرب کو جنت سمجھتے ہیں یہ ان کی بہت بڑی غلط فہمی ہے ۔
Many peoples leave pakistan With family for good future ( dollars) but at last they loast Diamond 💎 I am Europe passport holder ( sorry this is my personal opinion) if any effect this
Living abroad after leaving Pakistan can only be understood when you come abroad . So every one should come abroad and see it yourself... if it fits to your mental circumstances...by the way Money is not every thing but yes its a necessity which even my country is offering.... we cannot understand the value of home until we leave it, for some time... to earn , to get strong experiences.. literally you I'll start loving your country in true sense when you ill leave it... Yes foreign remittance is important to get ahead in the race of live,, but you can't subtract every relationship just for a life standard.... sorry if someone don't like my POW...
I had made a great decision to move to UK 10 years ago and now earning well as a full fledged Heart Surgeon. My wife my children they have a fabulous lives here. Thanks to ALLAH who has given me this opportunity. No prejudice culture here at all.
میں پچھلے پچیس سال سے سعودی عرب کی وزارت صحت میں بطور طبیب عام کام کر رہا ہوں ۔ میرا تجربہ یہ ھے کہ ہمیں اپنے ملک میں جو عزت ملتی ھے وہ کہیں اور نہیں ملتی ۔
It is better to say that the disrespect Pakistanis face in Arab countries is not faced anywhere else in the world. In western world they are respected as per their profession and as a human being.
I'm doing MS here in Chicago but after spending 1.5 year here and after critically observing all the pros and cons , my opinion is that foreign country cannot be your home. There are many things that you have to compromise but when it come to religion somethings can't be compromised.
I left Pakistan 6 years ago and this is the best decision that I made for myself, my family and my coming generations. I would urge everybody who get opportunity to settle abroad to not miss the chance. You cannot fight with the Pakistani army which is the main culprit for the destruction of Pakistan, corrupt politicians and corrupt government. So, better to leave Pakistan and spend a peaceful life abroad. Here in the West there are challenges but there is social justice and you have all basic human rights. You can overcome challenges with hard work but you cannot beat a Pakistani corrupt system with hard work.
@@ibraheemq7859 People have many misconceptions about the west but believe me it is not what you think sitting in Pakistan. Here we have mosques, we offer juma prayer, eid prayers, we fast etc. Here Muslims are far more better than the Muslims in Pakistan the reason is that here nobody can dare to mess with the law. I'd they do they will be either in jail or will be sent back to Pakistan. So, everybody tries their best to fulfil their duties as a resident or citizen and exactly the same is required by Islam. Here we have more freedom than Pakistan to practice Islam. Mosque is far from my office so on Friday I pray in a church where other Muslims also come for prayers. They have allocated us a hall for prayers. Can you expect this in Pakistan?
@@jamshan5208 Islamic Republic of Canada. When we Pakistani friends sit together here we often discuss that we are not living in Canada but in Islamic Republic of Canada.
The turmoils and instability your country is going through from past 75 years is because all the educated elite thought running away was and still do, the only solution. And you expected illiterate people who were and are left behind would fight your battles in your absence.? It was and is nothing but sheer selfishness. If you don't like foreign interference then Stay put and bring about changes that you would want to see in your country. It's pay back time to your community. John F. Kennedy "Ask not what your country can do for you - ask what you can do for your country,”.
Lots of respect for Dr Sahib, always listen to his lectures like a student. But here I am finding it very difficult to agree with Dr Sahib's suggestion. It cannot be so easy/quick.Once you leave Pakistan with young kids you are almost risking them to change their genes. However, this is done in a very non-destructive rather peaceful way 😐so very difficult to notice the change - no matter whatever you do they will be going to an alien education system for 6-7 hours every day while you will be at work to step up the ladder of MHoNs. I wish I could have understood the value of having born in a free country where I could work hard to help develop an environment/culture according to our own world view. Maslow's Hierarchy of needs is too linear, mechanical and materialistic approach (more relevant to other world view). But thanks again at least I got a chance to speak my heart here🙁.
ظلم جب حد سے بڑھتا ہے تو مٹ جاتا ہے۔ ان شا اللہ اب ہمارے ملک میں بھی اس ظلم کےخاتمے کا وقت آن پہنچا۔ ان شااللہ طالبان مجاہدین آٸیں گے اور ہند کے حکمران کو قید کر کے لے جاٸیں گے۔ حدیث شریف کے مفہوم کے مطابق یہ حکمران اس وقت کے بدترین لوگ ہوں گے۔ اور امام مہدی کی قیادت میں پوری دنیا میں انصاف کو قاٸم کر دیں گے۔
ڈاکٹر صاحب ،بہت اچھا مشورہ دیا ہے آ پ نے ۔میں اپنی نوجوان نسل کو کہوں گا کہ اگر موقع ملے کسی اچھے ملک جانے کا تو ضرور جایں لیکن لیگل طریقہ سے۔پاکستان اب صرف چوروں لٹیروں کی جنت بنا دیا گیا ہے۔شریف لوگوں کے رہنے کی جگہ نہیں ہے اس معاشرہ میں۔۔یہاں برطانیہ میں اس وقت ڈاکٹرز کی پچھلے تیس سال کی رکارڈ کمی ہے اور ان کو اشد ضرورت ہے ڈاکٹرز کی ۔
اسلام علیکم ! جیسے سوات ، کاغان یا ناران کے پودے پنجاب کی آب و ہوا میں مرجھا جاتے ہیں ، اسی طرح پاکستان کے لوگ بیرونِ ملک مرجھائے مرجھائے رہتے ہیں۔ پیسہ سب کچھ نہیں ہوتا۔ اسلام پر اچھے طریقے سے چلنے کے لئے بھی ایک مطمئن اور خوشی سے بھرے دل کی ضرورت ہوتی ہے ۔ مرجھائے ہوئے دل کے ساتھ عبادت بھی نہیں ہو سکتی۔
If we leave our country then who will make our country developed we all should live here and work together as a one nation and try to make our country that much best so that foreign wants to earn in Pakistan
Good advice. We should not misguide youth rather encourage them to make their life and go abroad. One thing if one goes abroad he should make that country his country. No roots make roots there. No dialogues be practical.
Sir we are so blessed to have mentor like you in our youtube community, JazakALLAH for sincere guidance.
pakistani doctor poori dunya ma badnam hai. sab dunya jante hai ka pakistani doctor selfish or lalchi hai. uk ma tu kafi arsa sa pakistani doctors ko hire nahi keya jaa raha . or America ma ya itna kamyab nahi bas wahan ziyadater ya entry level doctor hai jo ya wahan aik truck driver ka barabar kamata hai. pakistan ma in ki moojh hai govt sa wage leta hai lakin govt hospital ma imanatdari sa kam nahi kerta or sara din apni private clinics ma rehta hai. private clinic ma patient sa heavy feed leta hai phir bhi wahan patient ko sahi check nahi kerta or commisoned medicine or test likhta hai. foreign countries ma pakistani doctor ka diagnose ko mana nahi jata .
"Every" decision has a opportunity cost.. everything has pros and cons.. so nothing is 100% perfect. Think twice 🙌🏼❤️ From Chittagong 🇧🇩
I like this sentence. Every decision has opportunity cost.
Well said respected sir. True words. But future of next generations is serious question mark
Professor Dr. Javed - I was Assistant professor in Pakistan and left the country in 2000 and came to Australia because of same reasons. I know it is very hard to leave your country and loved one. I am encouraging young people if they have opportunities to come overseas please do so for yourself and your coming generations. Most of you would be contributing for humanity. DO NOT LIMIT YOUR TALENT.
I have to add my two cents here. Btw, I'm a second gen Pakistani from Khi whose grand parents immigrated from India. I myself was a true patriotic Pakistani and when I immigrated to Canada back in 2008, when I was 23 years old. I went with a plan to study and become financially stable and then return to Pakistan as parents and siblings were there. I was living with my aunt's family and I used to argue with my cousins in favour of Pakistan and how Pakistan is better in certain ways from Canada. My cousins came to Canada as kids so it was home for them and they used to degrade Pakistan and Pakistanis.
Things didn't go as planned and I came back in 2010 with no intention to return even though, I was a PR back then. I resumed my studies and started looking for jobs. I was unable to find any job and I was continuously advised by my elders and other people to return to Canada. People used to call me crazy that being a PR, I don't want to live in Canada and here people are dying to move to Canada.
In late 2012, I finally decided to return to Canada half heartedly as I was unable to find a job and my PR was also going to expire. This time, I decided to live on my own and since then, I'm still there and Alhamdulillah, married and have couple of kids now. Whatever I have earned is from Canada, so I have utmost respect for that country. In all those years, I always sailed in two ships as my mind stayed in Canada and heart in Pakistan which didn't help me to grow as I was not focused. I always though about returning to Pakistan and start some kind of small business there.
While I'm writing this, I'm in Khi for more than four months now and my plan to ever move to Pakistan has completely changed. Why? Because I couldn't find a single reason except personal ones like parents and siblings, to stay in this country. There is never ending list of issues. There would be no other city like Khi but sadly, it was ruined by politicial parties and army altogether. This city has became a victim of hatred and discrimination. Even if I try to look past these issues, I can't tolerate our people. Everybody is corrupt in their own way. It's worse than a jungle right now. I feel ashamed that we even call ourselves Muslims because there is no sight of Islam in our country. I always advise people if they can afford, go and visit any developed western country and I'm sure you'll feel ashamed being a Pakistani Muslim and where we stand as a nation. Forget being a Muslim, we shouldn't even be called humans.
People who're against moving to western countries. I have to tell you that those non Muslims are actually following Islam, where even a cat killed is investigated and killer gets apprehended. Where people have respect for each other. Employers look after their employees and treats them with respect. Everybody has equal rights whether you live there for generations or few years. Police treats us as they're our servants. These countries actually follow the correct meaning of public servants unlike Pakistan. Politicians and high rank govt. employees don't get any protocols or any kind of benefits like we get here for e.g, govt. number plates, fuel, cars etc. We have freedom of speech. People can swear on PM's face and not get arrested but in Pakistan, you criticize army being an Urdu speaking and you'll get abducted but you can get away if you're from any other ethnicity. We're slaves in our own country. Anyways, there is a long list I can present about pros of living in west.
Even if I talk about Islam, I have seen better Muslims there. It all depends on your upbringing. I have seen an Imam who was born there and his wife wears a veil and I have seen people moved from Pakistan and started drinking and committing zina so in the end, it all depends on you. Even in Pakistan, people are doing everything under the table.
Sadly, this country is not livable anymore if you're honest, truthful and wants to live with dignity.
Thank you for sharing. Agree with most of what you said except for Islamic points. In Western countries, people follow a very strange kind of Islam, so much so that it is not even Islam. Western Islam is big on rituals but is devoid of its soul. Mostly I blame English-speaking scholars in those countries who have corrupted Islam there. For example, pick top 10 most popular English-speaking scholars living in those countries and most likely they will all be themselves living in a house bought using mortgage, even mosques in those countries are bought with similar haram means. In Pakistan most people indeed do not follow Islam as well, that is true. But Pakistan is blessed with thousands of righteous Islamic scholars who have preserved the true spirit along with rituals of Islam. No other country, even no other Islamic country, has more freedom of speech for Islamic scholars than Pakistan.
agreed but when a cat gets killed it's investigated but when thousands are killed in afg, and Iraq by these western countries, there is no investigation lol...just do criticism brother..accept it... moreover, neither pak nor any western country is truly suitable for Muslims..that's my pt of view..well all should move to Africa..haha
You can move to an area in KPK if you sacrifice some lifestyle changes?
@@silenthill1035 I agree with you. There is a place where an Self proclaimed imam is a Gay, a Mosque where A Female leads prayer for men and women. There are either very good Muslims in west or people are in risk of loosing Deen (their Kids) altogether. That is something which is unaffordable. This debate should end with Dr. Sahib’s second video about hindsight of living. Take advise from elders and not young people. Come here, earn while u r young and go to Pakistan.
@@silenthill1035 keep on licking the true sprit and the scholars you have! Do you ever wonder why the country is in the abyss?
Didn’t realise how situation has deteriorated so much in Pakistan. If you have the opportunity just go for it! Allah bless you to make the best choices
I moved to the U.S. some 30 years ago when I was 18. Alhamdolillah monetarily I have done well but I could say with 99% certainty that it’s extremely difficult to protect your deen beyond the first generation after you. If you want to earn dunya, moving might not be a bad idea especially if your family is struggling financially but deen will always be in danger if your children grow up here.
Right
Then move to a muslim country
But there is no deen left in Pakistan. They're the biggest hypocrite in the world.
Beautiful and honest advice. I stayed in USA for 3 years for PhD, and practically saw this happening.
Deen is in danger in pakistan as well
Brother from USA. Sir you have really honest opinion about it. I am living here for last 38 years and I have same feeling like you do. Allah may bless us. Love your efforts.
Respect for our overseas ❤️
Kidher ho USA mai ?
@@native5647 ohio
@@g4golf786 I am in NC.
The way our politicians, beurocrates, Judges and Generals are behaving and selling our country cheaply for little benefits, the disappointment and frustration in youth is understandable.
Sir you are true our nation is far behind than srilankans in morality. At least they expelled corrupt regime from their country.
Rightly said. I also choosed my country but now feeling that I should take nationality abroad because of system collapsed.
if the youth pass exams without cheating, we will have youth to replace spoiled politicians like nawaz or zardari... the problem is the youth is ejaculating 5 times a day instead of preparing for exams.
Understandable
I worked as a general physcian in pakistan for almost 10 years from soust pak china border gilgit baltistan to aga khan hospital karachi and getting a pay range between 140k to 150k.with this pay I was unable to manage my family financial issues and was struggling for almost 10 long years. Few years back I shifted to kuwait as a registrar and getting a pay 20 times more than what I was getting in pakistan.
Personally I advise doctors community to leave pakistan because this country doesn't deserve us rather it deserve corroup bureaucracy,politicians and dictators.
Dr sabh, I also had that question in back of my mind?
Thanks for your answer.
You should participate in politics, we need people like you in the top administration.
Great saying by you
Al hamdulillah, being a dr. My thoughs are same as dr javed said so far ,
Before this i didn't know that we can go there and can come back to serve our nation,
When dr sahab said that i went there just becoz of learning purpose at this point a thought the same , that yessss i'll go outof country and will come back to serve my country! In sha Allah.. may Allah blesss and gives long life ,, dr javed iqbal.
Dr Sahib, you're a true gentleman and a great father figure. It was so inspiring listening to your advice
The way sir said thank you in the end felt like he was literally crying in the inside.
I can feel that. I also got my visa yesterday and am leaving today. Feeling like crying. Didn't wanted to go but situation hi asi ho chuka ha k or koi option nazar ni ata. Dukh hota ha dekh k k hmra mulk kya ban skta tha or kya ban gya ha. Leaving family and friends behind is very hard. Alot of my friends have either left or is applying to leave. All of them are educated and skillful.
Where are you going ?
@Canpak Can i dont but its really hard. Moving abroad and starting again from zero. Life is hard here too.
@@native5647 uk
@@bilalahmadkhan1032 Good luck.
Allah aapke hifazat kare hamesha...
We live in UK and i feel more safe here than Pakistan Alhamdolilah my kids are learning best of deen and getting education. I have kids from age 17-6 and I always tell them one thing no matter what, never make Allah angry or naraaz with you or you will have to success in duni or akhirah.Pakistan is very hard place to live as there is no rules and regulations. May Allah make it easy for people who live there Ameen
maadarsaa chhap tu khud to UK baitha h chutiya kaat r h logon ka
Good decision, if you want to live in a muslim country, UAE, KSA and other countries are still there. No need to return to Pakistan
Phir tum log dual kro Pakistan khtm ho Jaye .itna hate Pakistan ky liye.jaisy log Hoty hy waisy hi hukmran Hoty hy
''جو لوگ اپنی جانوں پر ظلم کررہے تھے ( کفار کے ممالک میں رہ رہے تھے) ، ان کی روحیں جب فرشتوں نے قبض کیں ، تو ان سے پوچھا کہ یہ تم کس حال میں مبتلاتھے، اُنہوں نے جواب دیا کہ زمین میں کمزور اور مجبور تھے۔ فرشتوں نے کہا: کیا اللہ (تعالیٰ) کی زمین وسیع نہ تھی کہ تم اس میں ہجرت کرتے؟ یہ وہ لوگ ہیں ، جن کا ٹھکانہ دوزخ ہے اور وہ بڑا ہی برا ٹھکانا ہے۔ ہاں جو مرد ، عورتیں اوربچے واقعی بے بس ہیں اور نکلنے کاکوئی راستہ اور ذریعہ نہیں پاتے، بعید نہیں کہ اللہ انہیں معاف کردے اور اللہ بڑا معاف کرنے والا اور درگزر فرمانے والا ہے ۔( سورہ نساء 99)
الھِجرَة لغوی طورپرالھَجرسے ماخوذ ہے جس کا مطلب 'چھوڑ دینا'ہے۔ اور شریعت کی اصطلاح میں الھِجرَة سے مراد یہ ہے :
''الانْتِقَالُ مِنْ بَلَدِ الشَِّرْکِ إلیٰ بَلَدِ الإسْلَامِ''
'' کفر و شرک والے علاقے سے 'بلد ِاسلام' کی طرف منتقل ہونا۔ ''
@@sumbulkhan7843 that's why I am thinking 1000 time about immigration .
Prof sahab you have won my heart. I can see the internal conflict you are having. Many professionals of your generation who returned to Pakistan despite having chances to settle abroad have similar sentiments. However, with time the gap between opportunities a professional could find in Pakistan versus abroad has widened to a great extent. I was among the lower 10% in my class when I graduated, in Pakistan if I apply for a job in 2022 I don't think I will earn more than Rs.50,000/= per month in my field. But since I am living abroad, I can afford a decent lifestyle with the job I have. So for people who are not among the top 1% of their class, such decisions are not as difficult as they used to be.
Good Comments
Dr Sahib I agree the doctors now should take the opportunity to come abroad in order to illuminate Pakistans reputation and name in the world. Also the remittance sent back will help the Pakistan economy in shaa Allah. I appreciate very much your decision in your time when there weren’t as many doctors as now, you chose to stay in Pakistan and serve the nation. H Mahmood from UK.
You think bringing some more Docs will change the reputation of Pakistan? Dont we have enough Docs working in the field Pakistan's reputation has not been improving
MASHA ALLAH SHUKERULHAMDULILLAH THIS IS MERCY OF ALLAH ON PAKISTAN
JAZAK ALLAH for your support and efforts.
Sir m highly impressed by ur knowledge n love fr this land...u r wrking on a big cause...MA
My husbnd n my kids r eu nationals..bt v returned back to pak in 2016...i did fcps in radiology.n MA v r settled here..bt smtimes i feel v shud go back fr better quality of life fr our kids...bt i wd like to share few things dat stops me..
1st if any of my generations is deviated from islam...i feel i wl b questioned first on day of judgemnt...as m the one who took this decision.
N 2ndly sir i feel if rizk is written by Allah even before our birth...then y v r alws after this...if he cn give us in Uk...y nt in pakistan...
N last bt nt da least...this wrld is nt permanant...v all hv to leav..whether its uk...us or australia..
I feel patriotism wl b given few marks on day of judgment...hopefly...n may b they wl help us in future
Sir these r my feelings..bt still i wnt ur mature opnion
Rizaq is written in your destiny but quality of Rizaq with dignity is at your own hand
pakistan meh bachy palna hindu palny k barabar hain. uk k bachy asli islam seekh rahy hain. immigration ka yeh faida hota hain. lekin zina aam daram hai pakistan meh. married aurty har ek ko deh rahi hain aur nasal ka kuch pata hi nai jaisy sitara yaseen. yeh hi haal uk meh bhi hain har mulq meh hain lekin logo ko apni nasal ka pata hain.
Appreciating your sincere love and affection for the land which I duly endorse. Having some knowledge and understanding about environment and climate change, I feel so scary about the quality of environment, food, health services and climate change impacts our children are exposed to. This make me to think that my generation has totally destroyed the living environment and my next generation has to face the consequences. I am accountable for this damage. Therefore, with heavy heart, under the circumstances my next generation may leave this country if possible. May Allah forgive me.
@@razamughal9095 Jahil insaan sab ko apni maa behn jaisa samja hai married aunty sab ko dai rahi hain lolz
I believe it's a best advice, even if you go for short term getting foreign exposure is essential to be on top of your game (applicable to almost all professions). I am currently working with a UK based company and have been a part of gaint Desi company the real difference is mindset, professional approach and apportunities to learn and grow.
I did my FCPS in 2018... after that I have to serve in a BHU for a year... nobody even can understand the difference between MO and a specialist... After too much struggle I was transferred to a THQ as MO... for the last year I am a consultant in a THQ which is 83km from my home..... in addition to my salary I have to borrow some more for travelling cost.... this is the story of almost every specialist in Pakistan...
This is what our country is paying to highly qualified community....
Very sorry to hear that. I have great respect for doctors like yourself who work in Pakistan despite abject conditions. I know my thanks and respect won't pay your bills, still wanted to say that anyway.
Ys,zainab same here
Doctors are most respected persons but sorry sir you are facing many problems in this country
Dili Dua Apke Liye Allah Apko Duniya Or Akherat Me Behtar Ajr Wa Muqam Ata kre Ameen
There is always two sides of the story. While there are stories of prejudice and discrimination against us in these countries, I for one have progressed very well along with many of my friends and fellow Pakistani community members here in Canada. The way life has changed for so many of us would not have been possible for us in Pakistan. I was called out being a Shia or Urdu speaking openly at work places in Pakistan whereas here I lead a couple of hundred people most of whom are white or locals.
Hey. Can you share your contact info?
There is more economical issue in Pakistan due to corruption.
ALL TIME SUGGESTION : Jis jaga bhe chalay jao par wapsey aesay time par aana keh apnay mulk may aa kar kuch karnay kay qabil ho
I thank Allah for having people like Dr Javed for his guidance and his knowledge here in Pakistan....these are times of confusion,lies and desparity that we are living in....we need all the help n guidance in the world!
Thank u Sir!!
Utmost respect for u!!!
Never giveup
Guidance and practicality
No doubt,we have good and sincere teachers/ mentors like Dr prof .Javed sahab ,the only need is to take practical approach for resolving these highlighted issues,so that our existing and future generations ll be benefitted from our side
MashaAllah۔Good saying۔
May all the Doctors sincere to own country۔Dr Should Try to create Development in own countries,Cities,Town etc
There is an Italian proverb " if there is gold and diamond raining in foreign country and blood and draggers raining in your country......it is still better to remain in your own country"...BTW I am also a doctor and I have worked in foreign...but at the end they don't treat you well and you remain a third degree citizen...this is a bitter truth.
Not in Canada
I am a third-rate citizen in my own country (Pakistan). I have to do 7 people's jobs while getting 1 person's salary. In the govt building Where I work, there is no electricity, water, facilities, or even most of the staff. I am forced to spend my salary on doing various repairs on govt buildings, pay various bills, buy equipment, etc. If I refuse or ask for any of these things by saying that I can't keep spending my salary on these things because I have to feed my family, I am labeled a traitor and threatened to be terminated from my job. I can't get a leave without going through a tedious and painful process even when I am sick. If I report corruption, I am the one who is mistreated and punished.
The inflation is causing me to not even be able to buy new clothes for 3,4 years. So many things which happen here that make you think that how pathetic it is to be treated like a dog in your own country.
Meanwhile the corrupt rulers, army officers, bureaucrats, etc keep increasing their benefits, tax relaxations, salaries, lands etc.
@@AbsolAhm other people in your position, apply for jobs in the meantime. use common sense.
@@razamughal9095 thank you. I never even thought about it. You're such a genius.
@@AbsolAhm well do it then paindoo
Salam Sir. Hum as a student aap se ittefaq karte hai aur aapke philosophy ka respect karte. You have an played an fatherly role in the lives of many medical/non medical students/postgraduates. ALLAH(S.W.T) aapko apni hifz o aman may hameesha rake aur aapko lambi aur sehatmand zindagi ata farmaye. Ameen
Anyone who can settle abroad should act immediately. In Pakistan, there is no rule of law, system, or security, and above all, we have a power sector that never thinks about the people of Pakistan but for their own benefit. I don't believe that there is any chance of correction.
U r very right
Honest truth here.
Dear Dr. Javed, i am an avid listener to your advices on various topics especially parenting. You remained truthful on this topic which i appreciate but please also guide us that if someone does want to come back, how can he/she survive in this ungrateful place? Many people are earning a reasonable lifestyle in Pakistan but they also lack security, education, health, justice and peace in general. Musalman ki fitrat m nahi mayus hona laikin apna ghar jab khatry m ho tu log ghar ko bachaty hain na k ghar sy bahgty hain. Unfortunately i am among those who just fled after giving my best to my country in my youthful years but the reward is not there at all monetary or compassion wise.
There is nothing to be guilty about. Think of yourself as a global citizen, learn about people’s backgrounds and their cultures and travel to different places every now and then. Borders are made by humans and it was merely a coincidence that you were born in a certain place at a certain time.
Very logical and well said especially your last words.
I have observed in 2022, Pakistani system has lost faith in millions of it's citizens including me. And we are extremely concerned regarding our next generations and financial situation.
Excellent analysis Dr sub you made my thoughts clear. Always learn something from you. JazakAllah
The best way to resolve this situation in my opinion is to go abroad, live there for some time, and then decide if you should stay there or come back home. At least, the experience in a foreign country will be highly beneficial for your future.
Good
Our future is in grave.
Life is too short to experiment. Few years of living if with permanent residency would make one habitual. Disrupting everything and coming back to Pakistan would be impossible. Things change.
It’s also not that much easy to experiment, lots of money, time and sacrifice involves. If some1 is bachelor then ok but with family it’s quiet risky. One thinks that kuch aur time, kuch aur time then we will be settled here(abroad) after 4’5 years of living but who has to come back to country their kids face lots of difficulties in settelment.
You become unfit for Pakistani society once you are treated as a human being in the West. So very few people return to the feudal and army generals run Pakistan. There are few exceptions though
This man should be true role model for everyone.
He is Just pure by heart.
Go abroad, learn about your field and their system, then come back and try to correct the problems in your system and help the next generations to come.
Sir You are one of the Best and Renowned Surgeon And UA-camr of Pakistan .... MashALLAH
I left Pakistan for good 3 years back and I'm pretty satisfied. Lots of opportunities, and lots of areas for your growth and success. The challenges that we face here don't affect your mental health however in Pakistan every challenge affects your mental health pretty badly. That's the main difference that I have observed.
Kahan ho jee
Please help me too. I willl pay what ever it takes
@@otn7196 Australia
Struggle and struggle and....................,...........,
20 saal baad ehsas ho ga kia khoya. You will earn money and loose everything else Im telling after a long experience. Go back to Pakistan if you can
Dr Sahib You are so true and thank you for being so straightforward. Very few people have the courage so speak like you did. Stay blessed. Unfortunately, the corrupt mafia has taken control of Pakistan at every critical position including army, judiciary, bureaucracy and government.
Never ask this question. It's something you need to "research" and take your "own" decision based on your research!
Alhumdulillah Sir main Pakistan nhi chor sakti
Ha yae baat sach hai k halat achay nahi meray watn k laykin hr mushkil k baad asani hai bayshak
Allah meray mulk ko sambhal lain Ameen koi is sy wafadar nahi dil dukhta hai 😭😭😭
Biggest challenge abroad is staying firm on your Deen and teach your generation. I have seen people get into bad habits and they lost themselves and their kids are lost as well.
O mere bhai/behan. Bahar zyada seen follow hota.
totally disagree. Typically sound like "angoor kathay hn". Jinho ne ultay kam krne hn Pakistan mein sb hota hy...
Unfortunately pak mey bhi apko apny apko deen dar introduced karany mey sharam ati or yahan bhi har degree ka fitna aam horaha 😥😳
Han kuch countries mey zada hy but yeah kuch counties mey pak sey zada islam bhi follow kara ja raha so ye to ap pr depend krta ab kis type ki country choose krty!!
Why Pakistan is sinking if everybody follow religion!?
@@r4rehan Pakistan mein ultey kaam karna mushkil hai, Bahir bht asan hai.
Masha Allah Salaam o Duaa to you my Sweet Friend ❤.
Please help to the Poor Peoples in Pakistan ❤
sir nice,and best advice in current circumstantiall.
JazakAllah for sharing your thoughts with all of us.
It's an irony that In Pakistan young professionals can't change the corrupt system rather system makes them corrupt eventually in just few months! Sad reality 😢
Mere watan e Azeez Hindustan ke aakhri kone se ye Guftagu sunkar Faiz Sahab ki nazm yaad aayi
یہ داغ داغ اجالا یہ شب گزیدہ سحر
وہ انتظار تھا جس کا یہ وہ سحر تو نہیں
یہ وہ سحر تو نہیں جس کی آرزو لے کر
چلے تھے یار کہ مل جائے گی کہیں نہ کہیں
فلک کے دشت میں تاروں کی آخری منزل
Mujhe ap aj ka pora taruf pata chala main bohat arsee se ap ka bohat bara madah hon
In the name of Allah the most high the most merciful i have been in such a big dilemma regarding which country I should live in I was born in Pakistan and came to the UK in 1994 then went back and stayed in Pakistan around 8 years then came back now I im.34 and I have 4 children I haven't got a house in England because of mortgage and nor do I have a house in Pakistan my son has autism and he does not speak much I really want to come back as I belong to a village and.want to help people but I feel so scared of what happens to young children also the spread of lgbtq is on the rise i have never felt so confused in my life doing istikara as only my maker knows whats best for me. Please everyone I request all of you to keep me in your duas. The last thing All that glitters is not gold 🇬🇧
i hope you make a right decision ! indeed this is the end times we are living..
i have noticed that the ratio of abnormal children born in western countries is more as compared to Islamic countries, Why ?? Also, I have many relatives in UK and they also have Abnormal children ! Any specific reason ?
@@AabaBeel It can be many reasons but main are mother is stressed in early pregnancy when the child brain is developing the food the mother eats during pregnancy and the injections that are given to babies the environment the child is born in also it can be passed on from parents. They haven't managed to pin point the actual reason.
Masha Allah Salaam o Duaa o Love o Salute to you my Sweet Friend ❤.
Please help to the Poor Peoples in Pakistan ❤
kharab tareen halat ko avoid karna aur apni dunya alihda karna akalmandi zaroor ha ...
lakin allaha par yaqeen rakh kar inn halaat ma apney survival ki aik koshish zaroor karni chahian ...
your staimna towards struggle make you successfull ..
musalman mushkil ma ghabrata nahi ha ...
Chahy mental health barbaad ho jae tb b koshish krtay rhein. Haina?
every person has its own opinion.
mental stability ka taulaq spirtual and relegious attachment se ha
kuch loog jaldi temparament loose kar jatey ha
kuch loog continous failures, opposition, leg pooling, lack of resources ke bawajood apni nerves ko loose nahi kartey..
every one has its own point veiw
plz do not mind
musibat ma namaz aur sabar se kam lena chainey ...
@@anasrabbani4399 lgta hai abhi mental health wali situation nhi ai. Mental health can't be cured spirituality. It needs medical treatment baita.
Thank you for sharing an insightful conversation with daughter. I greatly respect that you chose to stay in Pakistan and fully agree with your advice for people to leave to progress and develop themselves.
I am in visa consultancy business for last 2 decades...never preferred to move abroad..but Never experienced such urgency and hopelessness in this country..educated people want to move abroad for better future..those who can't, want their children to get settled abroad..especially these days Pak Doctors are applying for PLAB 2 exam for UK, once they succeed in PLAB 2, they get well paid jobs in the UK by NHS..also many doctors are applying for USMLE to settle in USA...here these extremely talented doctors are paid mere 45k to 50K monthly by the hospitals..what would they do
Nice to see you on youtube shah sahab! Dr Minto here
@@mhm1444 Thank Dr sb
How can i have your consultancy dear .. kindly drop your contact details
@@AapkisehatDrGM share your details on this email..I ll get back to you soon.
pakistani doctor poori dunya ma badnam hai. sab dunya jante hai ka pakistani doctor selfish or lalchi hai. uk ma tu kafi arsa sa pakistani doctors ko hire nahi keya jaa raha . or America ma ya itna kamyab nahi bas wahan ziyadater ya entry level doctor hai jo ya wahan aik truck driver ka barabar kamata hai. pakistan ma in ki moojh hai govt sa wage leta hai lakin govt hospital ma imanatdari sa kam nahi kerta or sara din apni private clinics ma rehta hai. private clinic ma patient sa heavy feed leta hai phir bhi wahan patient ko sahi check nahi kerta or commisoned medicine or test likhta hai. foreign countries ma pakistani doctor ka diagnose ko mana nahi jata .
Baro baro na chor diya aap kay chorne say inshAllah koi faraq nahi pare ga Pakistan zindabad. inshAllah for ever and ever.
I've recently moved back to Karachi after living in UK and middle East for 20+ years.
ALLHAMDULILAH. My advice is if you're struggling here go abroad, get a good experience, learn how to make money and then come back. Don't make abroad your permanent home.
For those blessed ones who're doing well, this is still the best place to live. You just have to do something meaningful here . Allah knows best.
Totally agree w/u. I always advise others if ur dying in pakistan, then go abroad n comeback. EU,US,CA arent a place 4 muslims. U got chance 2 make money, make some money then comeback.
I am planning to come back from Australia early next year INSHALLAH. I spent 9 years here and feel like I lost my golden age to this Land. Hopefully it turns out good for me.
You probably didn’t get the passport
@@farhan4068 not desperate to get one.
@@farhan4068 I got the US passport still coming back.
You are a legend for our country...Gems of Pakistan....Those woh not just think of their selves but for the country and Nation are few of them...Hats off to Mr. Iqbal sahab
My dear dr sirs I'm from mewat haryana india I'm neet ug medical aspirant i love u both here i wanna to say on this topic here ki hum ko ane mulk ko pahle great banana h because jab hum hi waha chle gye to humaare mulk ko kon manage karega hm ko esa Banna h apne mulk jo humaare mulk k liye public wait kare🤝💫🤝
Great thoughts
You are the best dr and a wonderful human being gem of Pakistan 🙏
Well said, dr. sb. The absolute failure of all institutions responsible for developing a Pakistan, where citizens can live respectfully and see their future generations flourishing is forcing every individual to ask this question.
If everyone in Pakistan stop lying from top to bottom then this country will flourish with leaps and bounds
Sir
You are a very good person and doctor. No doubt that you have a very good relationship with the senior doctors of this country who have the capability to change this system and give the students the great opportunities they deserve.
The government shoudl also do efforts yo chabge the systen so no student thinks about leaving this beautiful country.
Injustice starts from mdcat and does not end even after completing the degree.
Then the people say that doctors are rude and go after money
That is not the case everyime but unfortunately,it is true .
A person alone cannot change the system
We must think about the future of doctors.
Government should build more medical 🏥 colleges and hospitals across the country.
May Allah help us
Dr Saab I left my beloved Pakistan in 2013 and want to comeback but still could not find a way to comeback due to many challenges.
Bhai kity o tusi
How realistic is Prof Javed Iqbal ?
May God bless him long-life.
Better to leave aisy mulk mai reh Kia ho ga jahan military establishment ne mulk ko yargamal bnaya hua hy . Na qanon na insaf. Or chorrrooo ko khul e amm qanon relief de raha hy . Allah pak hamari any wali nasloo per reham farmaye
More than 100% right
True but zardaris or sharifs sa asha hi hain... Military establishment ka hospitals, schools, universities, housing societies and even the companies they own are the best in country.
Always Aameen
reham ki sakht zaroorat hain jab se lgbtq ka bill pass hua hain.
Ustad muhtaram Aj first time apki baton sy dil dukha.
Sir i have felt the pain in your answer, i know the level of patriotism you are having. And Sir this is what Dr Tahir ul Qadri Sahab always talking about Brain Drain. All the good Brains are living Pakistan, because of the corrupted system.
While he himself spends most of the time in Canada lolz.
@@native5647 Dr Qadri has given his 70 years to Pakistan and still his organisations are serving the Pakistanis in Pakistan, in current flood relief activities His organisation has spend billions of rupees.
Once a person become religious leader, then he cannot stick to one nation, he has to travel across the world, wherever Muslims and humans are living.
@@syedraheel4543 indeed.
@@syedraheel4543 Traveling and giving Dawah as a religious leader is one thing but moving into a non Muslim land permanently is another his country and his organization needs him till his last day he has a responsibility for his own people and his own nation first or every religious leader will move to a non Muslim country in the name of spreading Islam leaving his own people behind
ماشااللہ۔ ڈاکٹر صاحب اللہ تعالی آپ کو سلامت رکھے۔
Sir proud of you.
I spent over 11 years in Uk, trained and worked at Consultant Surgeon level in the NHS, then came back to my country. I have 3 daughters, a wonderful wife and there is not a day when I say Shukr Alhamdolillah for my decision. The key thing is to get a level of education so that you are in demand in Pakistan, so you get a good job and can have a reasonable standard of living. If your prime motive is saving your deen and your children’s deen then it is my iman that Allah will bless you more than you can imagine.
Saying that I would urge every young man and woman to get an education or work for some years in the west (or east) to see where the world stands and experience what justice is.
Great sir jee you have made the right choice.
I moved to USA 25 years ago. Lived ok life but raising kids here is challenging. Nearly impossible to save them from American culture. It feels like I’m tied with wires of gold . I am stuck … even if I want to leave these gold wires don’t let me leave …
Apple doesnt fall too far away from the tree. Values that you want to see in your kids must first be adopted by yourself.
Thats why I don't like foreign countries.
@@pakzindabad7572 This is true . Insan doost ka deen pur hoota ha. My kids have American friends.
im 19 and this is one of the biggest reasons that i dont wana go to canada for undergrad because i know ill setlle there. And in the future i would never ever want my children to adopt their culture etc especially forget their religious values.
@@cookiesandcream3953 maro phir corrupt pakistan mai chor pakistanio
The closeness of blood relations binds us together, Like a chain. To give whole chain the strength in collective approach, but only within capacity of sincerity. Not the unjustified declared rules for loyalty, faithfulness and values.
Going abroad should be an aim to become citizen of the global village to get exposure to more advanced tools, technologies and practices. And after some 5/10 years you would be at a level to make better choices and coming back to your original country would be one of them and you'll be making much informed decision.
That’s if you don’t have kids
Then it’s becomes impossible to
I do agree with a lot of what you said
Sir mera jawab aur aur aim hi kuch aur hai pakistan main yeh haqeeqat hai keh hum ziyada pay nahin kar sakte magar in ka aur in jaison ka abroad jana zaroori hai jab yeh financially strong hon gay tou kisi aur ki help kar saken gay wo education ho ya illaj ki ho aur sub say bari baat jo foreign money pakistan main inject karen gay phir in ko hammari fees ki bhi zaroorat nahin ho gi tou main strongly motivate karoon ga yeh zaroor jayen Thanks for anticipation
The way he showed his emotional facial expressions tells his whole story (Patriotism)
God bless you sir 💗💗💗💗
We need good HR,our talented people must serve here for changing our country and make secure our kids future
Really very bitter reality. We become shock when we think about the situations, facilitations, environment which is full of hypocrisy, nepotism, revenge, unethical behaviors and harassment issues etc etc. Actually we are byself responsible for all these kind of situations and we don't think that tomorrow our own children will face these situations which are our own creation today. So actually we are creating unethical and unfavourable situations for our own children in future.
Thanku so much sir, I respect you even more for your honestly mashallah
I live in the US and I feel very disheartened to see the current state of my beloved country Pakistan.
Where are you in USA ?
Mere dil k dard ko lafzon ki shakl de ha ap ny
Allah hme is system sy fight krne ki himat or tofeeq dy or hm sy is mulk or qoum k liye kam ly
Amin
In sha allah
Masha ALLAH
Very very excellent and honest advice but Sir ,
جس ملک کے جج جنرل اور بیوروکریسی ساری عمر پاکستان کو کھانے کہ بعد اپنی اور اپنے بچوں کی باقی زندگی گزارنے کیلئے یورپ کو منتخب کریں اس ملک کے حالات بدقسمتی سے ایسے ھی ھوں گے
اللہ تعالٰی ھمارے ملک کی حفاظت فرمائے آمین
O those who travel to the West... The Western environment will not have mercy on your children and grandchildren
(Translated from Arabic)
Written by Mu’minah Al-A'zam
Granddaughter of the late Sheikh Ali Al Tantawi (may Allah have mercy on him).
My grandfather, Ali Al Tantawi, was wise enough to prevent us from going through with our immigration process to Canada, when it was proposed and available to us at the time. Our children were still young back then. I was skeptical about his reasoning, whilst my ego as a young parent made me jump to the assertion that he was too strict and only wanted to control his children’s life... May Allah have mercy on him...
Now I tend to agree with him and recall his wise decision whenever I come across a story of people whose children have lost their Deen, in the midst of the busy life in the West. His reasoning was: “To choose to live in the land of kufr leads to losing your offspring. If you are able to protect your children, you can never guarantee to protect their children and their grandchildren. Do not carry the responsibility [of their losing their Deen].”
I remembered all of that when I came across a post by a friend:
A precautionary tale
“Someone told me today, “If I had enough money I would immigrate to America instead of Turkey. It will never affect me or my family where I immigrate, what’s important is how I raise my children and not where I raise them.”
I had to warn him that the choice of the place is considered one of the fundamentals of raising (tarbiyya).
It is said, ask the experienced over the wise. So here is my experience:
Nine years ago I was tasked to investigate the family history of the Ramadan family (a Beirut family). I began with the family tree and searched (online) for all the family members all over the world. I found 5000 members and the statistics were staggering. Here’s a list of those in the family that migrated to the West:
Those who migrated
- 100 years ago: 96% of their offspring are NOT Muslim
- 80 years ago: 75% of their grandchildren are not Muslim
- 60 years ago: 40% of their grandchildren are Christian
- 40 years ago: 25% of their grandchildren left Islam
Around 80 years ago a ‘Sheikh’ migrated to the Ecuador and built the first masjid there. He insisted on raising his children upon Islam. Today none of his grandchildren is Muslim. This is the case of most families.
Personally, among the 48 of my grandfather’s grandchildren, 16 are not Muslim. We live in the United States, and I have been an American Citizen for 40 years.
In Ecuador, there are 98 of the Beirut’s Ramadan family. The Ramadan forefathers migrated there in 1923. Now all of the 98 grandchildren are Christian. I met George, Christian and Emilio Ramadan. I managed to convince Emilio to come to the family union in Adana, Turkey after I offered him financial assistance only for him to learn about the Muslim history of his family. It was really heartbreaking.
These statistics are not the same among the families that migrated to an Islamic country such as Turkey.
That's why I am not thinking about immigration to UK .I have a chance .If my child loses his Deen I will be responsible .how can I face Allah on the day of judgement .
I left Pakistan many years ago, got foreign specialization and I am well settled economically Alhamdulillah but I must say that all is not good outside Pakistan.
There are many issues in countries outside Pakistan. Raising children in the West is a major issue.
میرے خیال میں یہ بہت بڑا فیصلہ ہے اور اس کے لیے استخارہ کرنا چاہیے اور اللہ تعالیٰ سے مانگتے رہنا چاہیے ۔ اور جو لوگ مغرب کو جنت سمجھتے ہیں یہ ان کی بہت بڑی غلط فہمی ہے ۔
Many peoples leave pakistan
With family for good future ( dollars) but at last they loast
Diamond 💎 I am Europe passport holder ( sorry this is my personal opinion) if any effect this
But many people don't leave Pakistan at the expense of their self respect
Asslamo Alykum Warahmatullahi Wabaraqatuhu I m Mohammad Juned Uddin From India I will dua for u
Living abroad after leaving Pakistan can only be understood when you come abroad . So every one should come abroad and see it yourself... if it fits to your mental circumstances...by the way Money is not every thing but yes its a necessity which even my country is offering.... we cannot understand the value of home until we leave it, for some time... to earn , to get strong experiences.. literally you I'll start loving your country in true sense when you ill leave it... Yes foreign remittance is important to get ahead in the race of live,, but you can't subtract every relationship just for a life standard.... sorry if someone don't like my POW...
For Pakistanis Money is everything and at the top of everything.
I had made a great decision to move to UK 10 years ago and now earning well as a full fledged Heart Surgeon. My wife my children they have a fabulous lives here. Thanks to ALLAH who has given me this opportunity. No prejudice culture here at all.
میں پچھلے پچیس سال سے سعودی عرب کی وزارت صحت میں بطور طبیب عام کام کر رہا ہوں ۔ میرا تجربہ یہ ھے کہ ہمیں اپنے ملک میں جو عزت ملتی ھے وہ کہیں اور نہیں ملتی ۔
To phr aap wapas akar wo izat Le lein Jo bahir miss kar rhe Hain. Doosron ko goli Dena bhot asaan hai khud goli nigalna bhot mushkil kaam hai.
It is better to say that the disrespect Pakistanis face in Arab countries is not faced anywhere else in the world. In western world they are respected as per their profession and as a human being.
Tu bhai ap kisi acha jagah chalay jao jahan apki izzat ho. You earn respect for yourself. It us not bound by countries
Sir mujhy bhi wahan bulalo please koi job dilwaden
ڈاکٹر صاحب عزت برابر ھی ھے وہ لوگ ھماری طرح over یاعزت کانشس نہیں ھیں
I'm doing MS here in Chicago but after spending 1.5 year here and after critically observing all the pros and cons , my opinion is that foreign country cannot be your home. There are many things that you have to compromise but when it come to religion somethings can't be compromised.
Thank you! Finally an educated answer
Everything in bloody America has to do with interest and haraam
You simply can’t avoid it
Hi brother, where are you in Chicago, main bhi yaha hn
I would like to leave Pakistan as there is no good government and demonstrate system.
Asalamualaikum dr shab heart health care pr lecture dn thank you
I left Pakistan 6 years ago and this is the best decision that I made for myself, my family and my coming generations. I would urge everybody who get opportunity to settle abroad to not miss the chance. You cannot fight with the Pakistani army which is the main culprit for the destruction of Pakistan, corrupt politicians and corrupt government. So, better to leave Pakistan and spend a peaceful life abroad. Here in the West there are challenges but there is social justice and you have all basic human rights. You can overcome challenges with hard work but you cannot beat a Pakistani corrupt system with hard work.
Are you following Islam in the west?
@@ibraheemq7859 People have many misconceptions about the west but believe me it is not what you think sitting in Pakistan. Here we have mosques, we offer juma prayer, eid prayers, we fast etc. Here Muslims are far more better than the Muslims in Pakistan the reason is that here nobody can dare to mess with the law. I'd they do they will be either in jail or will be sent back to Pakistan. So, everybody tries their best to fulfil their duties as a resident or citizen and exactly the same is required by Islam. Here we have more freedom than Pakistan to practice Islam. Mosque is far from my office so on Friday I pray in a church where other Muslims also come for prayers. They have allocated us a hall for prayers. Can you expect this in Pakistan?
@@faisal892 thanks for clarification
such an inspiring experience and information. Thank you for your sharing this dear brother. which country you choose for your family then?
@@jamshan5208 Islamic Republic of Canada. When we Pakistani friends sit together here we often discuss that we are not living in Canada but in Islamic Republic of Canada.
In my point of view should go and learn and come back. We hope that Pakistan will be better. InshaAllah.
Degrees walay Uber chala raye hain
Fake degree walay Jahaz Urra raye hain
Baghair degree walay mulk chala raye hain 😂
Lol
Absolutely right sir... Golden words.. May Almighty bless you sir..
The turmoils and instability your country is going through from past 75 years is because all the educated elite thought running away was and still do, the only solution. And you expected illiterate people who were and are left behind would fight your battles in your absence.? It was and is nothing but sheer selfishness.
If you don't like foreign interference then Stay put and bring about changes that you would want to see in your country. It's pay back time to your community.
John F. Kennedy "Ask not what your country can do for you - ask what you can do for your country,”.
💯 jiss ko Allah n iss qabal banya hai k kuch kary . Vo bss Pakistan ko ach taraqy s lanat malamat kr k jaty hai
I am curious... after reading your opinion... what is the point of state than... If we have to save it...
@@omyrco sorry I am unable to comprehend
So nice of you Sir! you are very true with your profession and attitude
Aoa
G ap bhee chor dn Pakistan....
O bhai kis cheez ke kami hy is mulk mn
Hr jagah apny naseeb sy milta hy
Naseeb agr Pakistan se bhar ho tu?
Rule of law.
Think more about mental health than money
Lots of respect for Dr Sahib, always listen to his lectures like a student. But here I am finding it very difficult to agree with Dr Sahib's suggestion. It cannot be so easy/quick.Once you leave Pakistan with young kids you are almost risking them to change their genes. However, this is done in a very non-destructive rather peaceful way 😐so very difficult to notice the change - no matter whatever you do they will be going to an alien education system for 6-7 hours every day while you will be at work to step up the ladder of MHoNs. I wish I could have understood the value of having born in a free country where I could work hard to help develop an environment/culture according to our own world view. Maslow's Hierarchy of needs is too linear, mechanical and materialistic approach (more relevant to other world view). But thanks again at least I got a chance to speak my heart here🙁.
ظلم جب حد سے بڑھتا ہے تو مٹ جاتا ہے۔ ان شا اللہ اب ہمارے ملک میں بھی اس ظلم کےخاتمے کا وقت آن پہنچا۔ ان شااللہ طالبان مجاہدین آٸیں گے اور ہند کے حکمران کو قید کر کے لے جاٸیں گے۔ حدیث شریف کے مفہوم کے مطابق یہ حکمران اس وقت کے بدترین لوگ ہوں گے۔ اور امام مہدی کی قیادت میں پوری دنیا میں انصاف کو قاٸم کر دیں گے۔
اللہ ھم پر رحم کرے اور ھمیں روشنی دے
ڈاکٹر صاحب ،بہت اچھا مشورہ دیا ہے آ پ نے ۔میں اپنی نوجوان نسل کو کہوں گا کہ اگر موقع ملے کسی اچھے ملک جانے کا تو ضرور جایں لیکن لیگل طریقہ سے۔پاکستان اب صرف چوروں لٹیروں کی جنت بنا دیا گیا ہے۔شریف لوگوں کے رہنے کی جگہ نہیں ہے اس معاشرہ میں۔۔یہاں برطانیہ میں اس وقت ڈاکٹرز کی پچھلے تیس سال کی رکارڈ کمی ہے اور ان کو اشد ضرورت ہے ڈاکٹرز کی ۔
اسلام علیکم ! جیسے سوات ، کاغان یا ناران کے پودے پنجاب کی آب و ہوا میں مرجھا جاتے ہیں ، اسی طرح پاکستان کے لوگ بیرونِ ملک مرجھائے مرجھائے رہتے ہیں۔
پیسہ سب کچھ نہیں ہوتا۔
اسلام پر اچھے طریقے سے چلنے کے لئے بھی ایک مطمئن اور خوشی سے بھرے دل کی ضرورت ہوتی ہے ۔ مرجھائے ہوئے دل کے ساتھ عبادت بھی نہیں ہو سکتی۔
If we leave our country then who will make our country developed we all should live here and work together as a one nation and try to make our country that much best so that foreign wants to earn in Pakistan
Good advice. We should not misguide youth rather encourage them to make their life and go abroad. One thing if one goes abroad he should make that country his country. No roots make roots there. No dialogues be practical.
The world is yours and there is no limit to your abilities to grow