This so one of the most Empowering messages I have ever listened too…both for men and women…my heart thanks you…deep understanding and Wisdom…♥️…Shalom, shalom…💙
i am writing to say thankyou, & to hope that others like myself are able to step out of their comforts and dogmas beleifs to truly be able to hear and absorb the spiritual growth messages within your messages, no matter their religion, spirituality, culture, gender. I love being open to messengers from all walks of life... my intuition and listening to a higher something is a gift i treasure with gratitude every day.. thankyou for falling into my synchronicity of life teachings.. 🙏✌🙌
Thank you, thank you, thank ypu!!! This is the most important video I have seen on UA-cam! Thank you for posting it, for your kindess and generosity of sharing with everybody and for your patient demeninor - I could see this has not been an easy talk for you and had a great charge - in you wanting to help in a such of painful topic for most!!!
Very informative perspectives shared. I think it's often laughable at times as a man to consider how much there is a general idea that men are insecure about so many things that I as a man never felt insecure about. Sometimes it's like who are the under developed men?
beautiful, truthful, scientific, Godly, intuitive, real, natural message from a traditionally unexpected source!! I'm a Christian and a long-time subscriber of this Teacher who loves God on a deep level BUT ALSO A PRACTICAL ONE. Continual blessings and deep thanks for what you are teaching.
Scientific before G-dly? Wow. How is teaching from a Torah based perspective, which includes G-d in every element of our existence, a traditionally unexpected source? Or are you referring to that source being a rabbi, a traditionally expected source for us? Torah is all about the practical, G-dly, the un-G-dly, the mystical and so much more.
Thank you. I found this to be very helpful. I’m happy to see that my husband and I are already doing much of this. I’ve also become aware of how to more effectively express some personal boundaries.
Rabbi Taub, this is what the world needs to hear now. All the information shared here helped a lot of confusion get cleared away. This might be a big ask but here it goes. Can you pleeeaaase do a video about being married to a narcissist??? I know so many are struggling with this. We need a Torah based perspective. Thank you for all you do!
I did a video about narcissistic families. ua-cam.com/video/QDkXpUiSwVM/v-deo.html Have you see this yet. It’s not specifically about marriage but it may help.
Excellent! Thank you! My husband of 24 years and I are trying to overcome his 5-year mid-life crisis. We both feel like failures and find ourselves in a stalemate. We're both so tired. It's hard to put my guard down and receive if I'm just going to be let down *again*. I have understood this concept, we're just so far down the road. But we have hope.
Yes we are dealing with the same, since just before our 20th anniversary. Unfortunately I learned just before our 22nd anniversary that while I was suffering from a medical issue, dealing with my father's death, and managing our eldest son's emotional crisis that he had betrayed me, our marriage, and our entire family again. I wish I had not attempted to be there for him, as it has always been my giving, his taking, and my suffering. He ensures that he meets his own needs while the rest of us go without. I now know that with him there will not ever be a partnership, just an avenue for him to steal what is not his to take.
Rabbi I have more of a speritual question regarding the “depositing energy topic”, should it not be that you deposit it first even as a woman or have it without the man depositing in you, because actually you’ve got all that from the time you spend with God, in His presence, reading the Word etc? Like it should flow from us because God is the source, not ourselves?! Please do explain if my argument is wrong and pink glasses kind of unrealistic vision on this 😂Thank you so much for your content. I am Christian, and find your videos depositing lots of practical wisdom 😍🙏🏻
Yes the boundaries that I created for myself early on in our relationship were disregarded and trampled on. I told him I would not remain in a relationship that included the sexual perversion of pornography. I told him this prior to seriously dating, again while engaged, and again upon marriage. I learned after the birth of our second son, the day I brought him home, that he had ignored my boundary and betrayed me since the very beginning of our relationship. Since then I tried my best to find him help for his perversion and made it clear that I could not be with a man who engaged in that sort of abuse of women and girls. He pretended to go along with it, for nearly 20 years. I learned just before our 20th anniversary that he had been lying all along, then on our 22nd anniversary that our entire relationship had been nothing but one long drawn out lie, as he was making porn of my sister and myself using photoshop. It disgusts me on such a deep level that I had children with such a horrific man and predator.
If emotions are masculine isn’t it ironic that men have a harder time with emotions? Also, I love Robert Johnson’s books “He” and “she” the psychology of masculine and feminine. Great insight especially on the 2 values that females posses their “virginity” aka innocence, modesty, gentleness and their boldness like being a mother in law. Also, Rabbi I think there is an opportunity to take this distinction to the next level. I believe the thing that men provide that women can never level up to, is security. More than financial security it’s emotional, physical, psychological. Locking the doors at night, being a protector, think about past generations… being the “fighter with the gun” I think 2 women in a relationship can never give each other the security that a man brings in the relationship.
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This so one of the most Empowering messages I have ever listened too…both for men and women…my heart thanks you…deep understanding and Wisdom…♥️…Shalom, shalom…💙
Rabbi this is life changing wisdom. My words are meant to express deepest Gratitude for these intricate teachings.
Thank you. It’s so helpful to learn about this.
i am writing to say thankyou,
& to hope that others like myself are able to step out of their comforts and dogmas beleifs to truly be able to hear and absorb the spiritual growth messages within your messages, no matter their religion, spirituality, culture, gender. I love being open to messengers from all walks of life... my intuition and listening to a higher something is a gift i treasure with gratitude every day.. thankyou for falling into my synchronicity of life teachings.. 🙏✌🙌
Thank you, thank you, thank ypu!!! This is the most important video I have seen on UA-cam! Thank you for posting it, for your kindess and generosity of sharing with everybody and for your patient demeninor - I could see this has not been an easy talk for you and had a great charge - in you wanting to help in a such of painful topic for most!!!
This is such an empathetic comment. I’m blown away. Thank you.
Very informative perspectives shared. I think it's often laughable at times as a man to consider how much there is a general idea that men are insecure about so many things that I as a man never felt insecure about. Sometimes it's like who are the under developed men?
I mean they are everywhere. I've never met one that wasn't.
This teaching is fantastic. A truely G-dly and Jewish appreciation of women, shabbos and the interconnectedness of masculinity and femininity.
Wow, this message is so powerful! We need to get it out there, because it can literally save marriages 💫
@@englishpuresimple8255 yes!!
beautiful, truthful, scientific, Godly, intuitive, real, natural message from a traditionally unexpected source!! I'm a Christian and a long-time subscriber of this Teacher who loves God on a deep level BUT ALSO A PRACTICAL ONE. Continual blessings and deep thanks for what you are teaching.
Scientific before G-dly? Wow. How is teaching from a Torah based perspective, which includes G-d in every element of our existence, a traditionally unexpected source? Or are you referring to that source being a rabbi, a traditionally expected source for us? Torah is all about the practical, G-dly, the un-G-dly, the mystical and so much more.
I am humbled by the truths you share, Rabbi, and I pray that I can course-correct with the man I love. Thank you.
Thank you Rabi on your Efforts to help Men and Woman
I am just overwhelmed with excitement about finding all of this information. What I have heard so far is amazing. Thank you.
Came across this and was glued to the whole video. I appreciate all I've listened to and learned. A much needed lesson for all homes. Thsnk you Rabbi.
Communication 🗝️
Thank you. I found this to be very helpful. I’m happy to see that my husband and I are already doing much of this. I’ve also become aware of how to more effectively express some personal boundaries.
I'm listening to this on a Saturday Morning, which is the Sabbath.
Thank you, Rabbi Taub. 🎉🙏🏽
Rabbi Taub, this is what the world needs to hear now. All the information shared here helped a lot of confusion get cleared away.
This might be a big ask but here it goes. Can you pleeeaaase do a video about being married to a narcissist??? I know so many are struggling with this. We need a Torah based perspective.
Thank you for all you do!
I did a video about narcissistic families. ua-cam.com/video/QDkXpUiSwVM/v-deo.html Have you see this yet. It’s not specifically about marriage but it may help.
Thank you, Rabbi!
Excellent! Thank you! My husband of 24 years and I are trying to overcome his 5-year mid-life crisis. We both feel like failures and find ourselves in a stalemate. We're both so tired. It's hard to put my guard down and receive if I'm just going to be let down *again*. I have understood this concept, we're just so far down the road. But we have hope.
Yes we are dealing with the same, since just before our 20th anniversary. Unfortunately I learned just before our 22nd anniversary that while I was suffering from a medical issue, dealing with my father's death, and managing our eldest son's emotional crisis that he had betrayed me, our marriage, and our entire family again. I wish I had not attempted to be there for him, as it has always been my giving, his taking, and my suffering. He ensures that he meets his own needs while the rest of us go without. I now know that with him there will not ever be a partnership, just an avenue for him to steal what is not his to take.
Great point about "just being", without productivity, creating discomfort. It can indeed, be painful for some folks.
My ex-husband was furious about anything I did well. You just explained why. He couldn't see that I was doing it all for US.
Gratitude for this teaching/sharing
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Thank you for this vital and practical information! I wish you would go more specifically what it looks like to recieve deeply on a practical level
O’ this is fantastic !!!! rabbi
תודה רבה ❤
Thank you for all the words of wisdom. 🇮🇱
Thank you
The feminine invites reciprocation. Without her the opportunity to give does not exist.
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Do you have an alternate video speaking primarily to men? I think it'll be very useful for men like myself
This is speaking to both men and women. However from what I can tell this is primarily for men, as women already know all of this intuitively.
Rabbi I have more of a speritual question regarding the “depositing energy topic”, should it not be that you deposit it first even as a woman or have it without the man depositing in you, because actually you’ve got all that from the time you spend with God, in His presence, reading the Word etc? Like it should flow from us because God is the source, not ourselves?! Please do explain if my argument is wrong and pink glasses kind of unrealistic vision on this 😂Thank you so much for your content. I am Christian, and find your videos depositing lots of practical wisdom 😍🙏🏻
Yes the boundaries that I created for myself early on in our relationship were disregarded and trampled on. I told him I would not remain in a relationship that included the sexual perversion of pornography. I told him this prior to seriously dating, again while engaged, and again upon marriage. I learned after the birth of our second son, the day I brought him home, that he had ignored my boundary and betrayed me since the very beginning of our relationship. Since then I tried my best to find him help for his perversion and made it clear that I could not be with a man who engaged in that sort of abuse of women and girls. He pretended to go along with it, for nearly 20 years. I learned just before our 20th anniversary that he had been lying all along, then on our 22nd anniversary that our entire relationship had been nothing but one long drawn out lie, as he was making porn of my sister and myself using photoshop. It disgusts me on such a deep level that I had children with such a horrific man and predator.
If emotions are masculine isn’t it ironic that men have a harder time with emotions?
Also, I love Robert Johnson’s books “He” and “she” the psychology of masculine and feminine. Great insight especially on the 2 values that females posses their “virginity” aka innocence, modesty, gentleness and their boldness like being a mother in law.
Also, Rabbi I think there is an opportunity to take this distinction to the next level. I believe the thing that men provide that women can never level up to, is security. More than financial security it’s emotional, physical, psychological. Locking the doors at night, being a protector, think about past generations… being the “fighter with the gun” I think 2 women in a relationship can never give each other the security that a man brings in the relationship.
A man will become depressed or feel less valuable as a person if they have nothing to do.
Every person becomes depressed and feels less valuable as a person if they have nothing to do. That isn't something men alone experience.
@@Sara-x6t3s True!
Thank you, Rabbi🎉❤