D.C. Black Women Are Struggling to Get Dates Because of This

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  • @JRWisdom
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  • @chapchapman8225
    @chapchapman8225 28 днів тому +444

    I have never seen so many Black women work so hard to stay single. 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @PrivateMail-c8m
      @PrivateMail-c8m 27 днів тому +25

      I know, you think they would look at the bad results and change

    • @dustymcdust825
      @dustymcdust825 27 днів тому +22

      @@PrivateMail-c8mA black woman? Never, double down and never settle. lol

    • @chapchapman8225
      @chapchapman8225 27 днів тому +11

      @@PrivateMail-c8m , you have a valid point! But a lot of black women will not make the changes in order to be found. My sistas is letting me down.

    • @chapchapman8225
      @chapchapman8225 27 днів тому +7

      @@dustymcdust825 , no lies detected in what you said!

    • @ceeze9923
      @ceeze9923 27 днів тому +6

      I like that statement. can I borrow it?

  • @brandonhanner5525
    @brandonhanner5525 28 днів тому +344

    I lived in DC. The sister will definitely get attention. These days, men are just turned off by snobbish women.

    • @ttvmikrowave
      @ttvmikrowave 27 днів тому

      LMFAO! I know exactly who this sista is & exactly how everything went down because I was there. The "energy convention" she's alluding too was the Nvidia AI Summit here in Washington, DC - that covered all (3) of my industries being cybersecurity, healthcare, & manufacturing. The hotel she thinks "was nice" was just a JW Marriott.
      ● I was one of the brothas who told her about the difference between women in Washington, DC vs women in San Diego, Los Angeles, Miami, etc. 😂
      ● I was there, my colleagues were there, we definitely peeped her & her friend. I already knew she was entitled simply because she radiated the vibe & has entitled crazy eyes. 😂
      ● I was one of the brothas in a suit there with money, a career network, & an established reputation for I was invited to attend, due to my veteran colleagues in the defense sector. 😂
      Yes, "TTVMikrowave" infuriates entitled females in the DC Area. Some even resort to stalking me in my neighborhood, moving into the luxury apartment building I reside in here in the Bethesda, MD-Potomac, MD area; only to move out after 3 months if not be evicted because they can't afford $2800 a month here in Bethesda, MD. ROFL! She was about to say "loaded with money" at 1:18 only to switch up to saying "very comfortable." Yes, we are. I so know who she is and her peers. Whereas, the guy who approached her was an out-of-towner. We straight up told him how females in DC move & operate. He thought differently. Well, when she tried to finesse him into paying her bill? That's when he remembered what we told him, with him telling her "no." The other men commented telling her "a man should pay the bill" weren't serious. They were mocking her because early on before they arrived is how my guys & I joked around how "the sistas" were going to attend looking for simps after they order their drinks & edamame. 😂
      But seriously, we're tired of entitled pretty women. They're around us every day at (1) conferences, (2) lounges, (3) bars, (4) brunches, (5) our neighborhood, (6) our grocery stores, and (7) at work. We're high value men we get it. We want a genuine connection vs a transactional connection. LMFAO! I am so sending this video to the guy & to my fellow brothas on Linkedln right now. LITERALLY! The first video I see after waking up is this. I am so creating a group chat on Linkedln with them as soon as I get done showering! I knew she was basic when she arrived in search for "pickings." The same type who look for "winter season cuffing partners" during the winter; which is approaching. Seriously, she is your typical sista who hangs out in Georgtown & Adams Morgan. 🤣💀⚰#NotUniqueAtAll

    • @l.t.3857
      @l.t.3857 27 днів тому +17

      I agree. I’m a beautiful, darker tone Black woman who has lived and worked in the DC region for years, and I’ve never had a shortage of men in DC approaching me, just to tell me I’m beautiful. Many say they are attracted to my spirit/energy. Some even offer to take me out to nice places for dinner during our first meeting. She sounds annoying, which likely turns those men off. I’m friendly, down-to-earth, and approachable. I also do well for myself, but I never tell people what I do for a living, or where I work, unless they specifically ask. I mentioned that, because it’s well known in DC that people love to lead with their job titles and places of employment.
      By the way, I have a very personal, serious relationship with Christ, which is probably why they often say they are attracted to my spirit. I give credit to God for that… I am not perfect, but I try my best to practice what I preach.

    • @ttvmikrowave
      @ttvmikrowave 27 днів тому +5

      @@l.t.3857 Yep you're a rare breed in our area. Have yet to cross your path for you probably stay super low-key like myself and only pop out for conferences, brunch here and there, and grocery shopping vs doing the whole "DC Club Nightlife" like most of our peers with or without money. Respect!

    • @frenchy2410
      @frenchy2410 27 днів тому

      She talking about DC but she’s aiming for the white people.

    • @youngw1ze
      @youngw1ze 27 днів тому +6

      @@brandonhanner5525 I'm from the D.C. area...there is no shortage of BM approaching her ....

  • @ActionNoJackson
    @ActionNoJackson 28 днів тому +547

    PSA TO MEN: A woman that is interested in you will NEVER placed conditions on getting to know you

    • @laurayarbrough4646
      @laurayarbrough4646 28 днів тому +9

      @@ActionNoJackson true.

    • @rebitedon
      @rebitedon 28 днів тому +65

      FACTS! On top of that, if they really like you. They will break their own rules just to be with you.

    • @EverMostGemini
      @EverMostGemini 28 днів тому +4

      🙌🏾

    • @OGUNWARRIOR
      @OGUNWARRIOR 28 днів тому +4

      Real Talk

    • @broco6608
      @broco6608 28 днів тому +3

      This only applies if the "relationship" stays platonic.

  • @alysiagould8986
    @alysiagould8986 28 днів тому +452

    A woman drinking at a “high end” hotel bar that she’s not a guest of……Asks stranger to pay her entire bill……It’s giving Lady of the Night‼️

    • @brandonj7458
      @brandonj7458 28 днів тому +46

      I thought the same....instant thought would be ESCORT 🤣😂

    • @637doggie
      @637doggie 28 днів тому +24

      😂😂😂 you're not lying at all, and very delusional.

    • @rahdiezel2339
      @rahdiezel2339 28 днів тому +10

      Exactly

    • @LastActionNgro
      @LastActionNgro 28 днів тому +38

      That's what it is. It's soft-core 'lady-of-the-night' aesthetic that a lot of these ladies are embracing and trying to pass it off as knowing their own worth...

    • @m.l4620
      @m.l4620 28 днів тому +6

      💯💯

  • @psykill2000
    @psykill2000 28 днів тому +388

    Guys aren't paying just to talk anymore

    • @ElevationAllah
      @ElevationAllah 28 днів тому +12

      Good.

    • @wendellsmalls637
      @wendellsmalls637 28 днів тому

      Yep, The Hub is free i'll let it loose on their.

    • @brothaleft8514
      @brothaleft8514 27 днів тому +16

      Lames and simps do that. It became a standard unfortunately

    • @bigcraig79
      @bigcraig79 27 днів тому +8

      Therapists are cheaper

    • @azzurextra9944
      @azzurextra9944 27 днів тому +4

      You can't say guys simps are guys too that's the problem we are all looked at the same sort of because good looking men never have to pay NEVER

  • @NCGNTO202
    @NCGNTO202 28 днів тому +153

    I'm from D.C. Trust me, us fellas with a little bread ain't trying to trick off on entitled, annoying and broke women. If you are a black woman and can't manage to find a man in D.C. or get treated well, then you just ain't that woman. Please move.

    • @broco6608
      @broco6608 28 днів тому

      Exactly. Women need to leave dudes alone.

    • @jermdukes2007
      @jermdukes2007 27 днів тому +9

      “Please move.” 😂

    • @wandak1889
      @wandak1889 27 днів тому +8

      😂😂 Real Talk!! They probably was wasted and was behaving like Jezebel

    • @azzurextra9944
      @azzurextra9944 27 днів тому +3

      It's deeper than that but I agree

    • @raythomas5090
      @raythomas5090 25 днів тому +2

      Exit stage left

  • @TheprophetDJ
    @TheprophetDJ 28 днів тому +331

    I am from Washington DC airheads like these are to common

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 28 днів тому

      They really do sound like airheads.

    • @GregoryAristilde
      @GregoryAristilde 28 днів тому +30

      Noted. Now I won't waste my time to visit DC thanks you saved me a trip.

    • @aykazielenokk4022
      @aykazielenokk4022 28 днів тому

      Same also from SE DC. It use to be chocolate city now it's Gentrified to the Max^. This is a prostitute in modern woman clothing disguise.

    • @rosehampton2901
      @rosehampton2901 28 днів тому +39

      I am from DC and a bw! Successful women NEVER to an establishment looking for a free meal/drink!

    • @kotijohnson2429
      @kotijohnson2429 28 днів тому +3

      😂😂😂😂 factssss tho

  • @camc8879
    @camc8879 28 днів тому +99

    When prostitution becomes normative in a society, SMH.

    • @joshmakeitrite
      @joshmakeitrite 27 днів тому +9

      its one thing to pay for some booty but paying for convo is ridiculous.

    • @thewiseone6049
      @thewiseone6049 26 днів тому

      Make no mistake about this video. It's simply blk wmn putting themselves in Yt spaces trying to get chose. You're not that desired ma'am

    • @pleasedonttemptme5963
      @pleasedonttemptme5963 26 днів тому +1

      It’s for the simps, and that’s ok. It’s like the food chain of the animal kingdom..
      They’re are necessary to make things flow naturally for all lol

    • @jerel2119
      @jerel2119 10 днів тому +1

      lol, good one

  • @spencerreese3915
    @spencerreese3915 28 днів тому +417

    These broads be looking for lames.

    • @HolyGhostBabyTV1
      @HolyGhostBabyTV1 28 днів тому +21

      While still fn on a P.

    • @gamechanger114
      @gamechanger114 28 днів тому +55

      Looking for *simps and their wallets. *These women are the lames tbh🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️

    • @jayjay7978
      @jayjay7978 28 днів тому +3

      Exactly

    • @marshawnbooker8317
      @marshawnbooker8317 28 днів тому +2

      Right

    • @Jp-be9xx
      @Jp-be9xx 28 днів тому +19

      Traveling escorts. That's all it is.

  • @qcityfly
    @qcityfly 28 днів тому +139

    Man, I'm glad I found my wife when I did. It's rough out here!! Paying for your time is definitely prostitute/stripper behavior.

    • @marlynbannister7048
      @marlynbannister7048 26 днів тому +2

      You and me both bro I have a wonderful wife for 10 years now I feel sorry for these Men dating right now in this date in time because these women are dum and selfish

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 19 днів тому

      Most modern women lol

  • @upactive1365
    @upactive1365 28 днів тому +251

    Asking a man to pay a tab that he didn’t add to is just pathetic 😂

    • @kechpoly6569
      @kechpoly6569 27 днів тому

      she so stupid doesn't realize she is panhandling begging for charity

    • @sman14GTA
      @sman14GTA 27 днів тому +14

      They are truly the beggar class.

    • @WolfamongSheep626
      @WolfamongSheep626 27 днів тому +9

      Are you surprised? I mean single moms want you to pay another man’s tab.

    • @wildinjun7686
      @wildinjun7686 27 днів тому

      These women are retawded😂😂

    • @hotward2000
      @hotward2000 27 днів тому +2

      Facts! But he also was trying to score too 😂😂😂

  • @sonnyqsoul
    @sonnyqsoul 28 днів тому +78

    Funny thing is that he offered to buy them a drink, just not pay their tab. That's not what they wanted...

  • @rodericklewis5600
    @rodericklewis5600 28 днів тому +303

    She has a big mouth and it's aggravating

    • @patricblack1
      @patricblack1 28 днів тому +5

      Yes, I agree. She needs to find a husband.

    • @laurayarbrough4646
      @laurayarbrough4646 28 днів тому

      Yup

    • @leftydrizel1842
      @leftydrizel1842 28 днів тому

      ​@patricblack1 . She is too irritating to find one. The eye rolling & dismissive attitude are huge turn offs for most men.

    • @jondo3817
      @jondo3817 28 днів тому

      yep

    • @mikes6994
      @mikes6994 28 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂

  • @brandonj7458
    @brandonj7458 28 днів тому +77

    These are called ESCORTS

    • @wj00312
      @wj00312 28 днів тому +4

      That's what I'm wondering. They're giving off those vibes in this video imo.

    • @brandonj7458
      @brandonj7458 27 днів тому +4

      @@wj00312 I've known a few from working clubs in NY and Miami and THIS is 100% the Black Girl Escort.....always the Valley voice and THIS look

  • @JackDazey
    @JackDazey 28 днів тому +245

    Pay for conversation? Damn I've been macking too long ..... this is outrageous? Sorry for the simps that fall for this.

    • @ElevationAllah
      @ElevationAllah 28 днів тому

      Blackman, I would NEVER pay a female's tab in order to start a conversation.

    • @wendellsmalls637
      @wendellsmalls637 28 днів тому +18

      lmao i got no game but atleast i am not stupid enough to do this. I would never pay for her and her friends tab.

    • @joshuaguerrier7392
      @joshuaguerrier7392 27 днів тому

      Don’t say sorry for the simps, they deserve it.

    • @brothaleft8514
      @brothaleft8514 27 днів тому +4

      Agreed.

    • @CJ2k-312
      @CJ2k-312 27 днів тому +10

      We don't here, that's why they mad

  • @itsnunu101
    @itsnunu101 28 днів тому +27

    57 year old woman, grandmother of 8. This dating scene is crazy. When I was young, we dated the boys we went to school and church with. We saw black guys as our friends and future husbands. We didn't want to fight with them or make unreasonable, selfish demands on them. The Black community was more familial in those days. Ya'll young folks don't know how to treat each other or communicate with each other. That's why your children are misbehaving.

    • @smithnwesson9586
      @smithnwesson9586 27 днів тому +2

      Amen!

    • @birdybea2208
      @birdybea2208 27 днів тому +1

      Preach. Im so sad for my son i may never see him wed or grands from him.

    • @amariantiquity8543
      @amariantiquity8543 27 днів тому

      54% of Black Men are Childless
      Meanwhile 70% of Black Women are single mothers.
      These women have babies by the same pool of men. (Pookies & Tyrones) Its not Black mens' children misbehaving, majority don't have any.

    • @monagreen8488
      @monagreen8488 26 днів тому +1

      Right it’s so sad because men think us older women are like that too

  • @sincereburden3
    @sincereburden3 28 днів тому +223

    She asked him to cover the bill. Thats insane

    • @Laoriginal718
      @Laoriginal718 28 днів тому +32

      Facts. Asking a complete stranger to cover the bill is crazy.

    • @psykill2000
      @psykill2000 28 днів тому +21

      @@sincereburden3 she didn't ask, she demanded

    • @keeppressing1760
      @keeppressing1760 28 днів тому +4

      Exactly 💯

    • @ericbrown275
      @ericbrown275 28 днів тому +15

      The nerve of bozo women. Entitled to nothing from us at all.

    • @ElevationAllah
      @ElevationAllah 28 днів тому

      She's delusional

  • @hospicenursingab
    @hospicenursingab 28 днів тому +176

    She's mad that her p power isn't working 😅

    • @theblacklexluthor11
      @theblacklexluthor11 28 днів тому +4

      Yep!!🤣🤣🤣

    • @LastActionNgro
      @LastActionNgro 28 днів тому +9

      It only has power if someone is trying to get in it.

    • @Kingstevedaboss
      @Kingstevedaboss 28 днів тому +7

      Hoe-flation will have that P on the shelf well after it's expiration Date

    • @adambarney1137
      @adambarney1137 27 днів тому +3

      ​@Kingstevedaboss You aint never lied. On this situation.. ridiculous out here. But I do have to hold myself accountable. I need to have or get more resources to pin the tail on a donkey 🫏

    • @ThrillSmith
      @ThrillSmith 27 днів тому +2

      @@LastActionNgro SUPER FACTS

  • @joemomma3208
    @joemomma3208 28 днів тому +150

    DC now means “Don’t Care!” 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @JamesL.Wilson-pb1ry
    @JamesL.Wilson-pb1ry 26 днів тому +106

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      @beverlystephens6 26 днів тому +1

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      @JamesL.Wilson-pb1ry 26 днів тому +2

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    • @beverlystephens6
      @beverlystephens6 26 днів тому

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      @JamesL.Wilson-pb1ry 26 днів тому

      You won't regret it

    • @SmoggyFroggy
      @SmoggyFroggy 24 дні тому

      "In sickness and in health, for better or worse" - where in that does it say "happily ever after with no issues ever again, pampered like a queen"?

  • @Laoriginal718
    @Laoriginal718 28 днів тому +88

    Her makeup is giving Michael Jackson.

  • @Eanaj9
    @Eanaj9 28 днів тому +17

    Being a black woman, whether I’m single or not, never experience this issue. Asking for a guy to pay your tab is filthy work.

  • @andalus1229
    @andalus1229 28 днів тому +91

    Definition of delusional... Wow.

    • @lexluther9631
      @lexluther9631 28 днів тому +2

      Agreed Definitely DELUSIONAL 💔☠️🤦🏾‍♂️👎🏾✅️🫡🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @youngw1ze
    @youngw1ze 27 днів тому +36

    $1000 says she "doesn't date BM."...

    • @jfkmydad69
      @jfkmydad69 27 днів тому +1

      You read my mind. She expected Zaddy to bow down to her. Zaddy will smash you, but mainly dash on you. Lol.

    • @juicearibe
      @juicearibe 26 днів тому

      Wrong

  • @moniquec8675
    @moniquec8675 28 днів тому +33

    I'm a woman and I'm confused on how a woman should feel a man must pay your tab and even a tab along with friends just to have a conversation. Who does that? It's like walking outside and paying for air. hmm that may come in the future. But dag, have a conversation and get to know him. If the vibes are right, he may buy you a drink and then ask you on a date. She is a pretty girl and I don't think she will have a problem with a man wanting to pay for a date. But hey what do I know. I'm just your regular schmegular female. Different games these days. Wishing everyone the best. Much ❤

    • @tashlaine
      @tashlaine 27 днів тому +2

      She's pretty and expects the treatment because she's pretty

  • @charlesmerchant4762
    @charlesmerchant4762 28 днів тому +30

    Who's going to tell her?
    It will only get worse for her kind.

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 28 днів тому +10

      her gay best male friend. No one can tell a BW anything

    • @BJ-sb9rk
      @BJ-sb9rk 28 днів тому

      @@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp🎯‼️

  • @504enarcisse
    @504enarcisse 28 днів тому +122

    A pimp told me this story along time ago "broke hoes go where the rich men hang out " and why is that i said " because their minds is cheap". New Orleans style baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @ElevationAllah
      @ElevationAllah 28 днів тому +3

      You're right

    • @MoreThanGameZ17
      @MoreThanGameZ17 28 днів тому +6

      Chuuuch!

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      @silvabackgorealla6251 28 днів тому +4

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    • @miochan6414
      @miochan6414 28 днів тому

      OK OK, it makes since to me. Why would the broke "h" hang out with broke dudes? Most "H" are broke anyway. The only way they are going to come up is to hang with the wealthy. They can't logically be cheap if they are hanging around men of substance.

    • @miochan6414
      @miochan6414 28 днів тому

      How could their mind be cheap if they are trying to be with a wealthy man? It make no sense? Are they supposed to be with broke men?

  • @christopherowens9593
    @christopherowens9593 28 днів тому +60

    So, because men don’t kiss your ass and simp for in DC like they do in Miami something is wrong with them.

    • @christianhcevallos
      @christianhcevallos 28 днів тому +5

      Please don't think we are simping in Miami, cause I sure as hell AM NOT going to simp. Don't spread that rumor about us please.

    • @mowtivatedmechanic1172
      @mowtivatedmechanic1172 28 днів тому +3

      I’m in Miami. No ones simping on these two. They’re mids at best here.

    • @pleasedonttemptme5963
      @pleasedonttemptme5963 26 днів тому

      @@christianhcevallos Lol y’all totally do. Not all, but it’s Miami bruh

    • @christianhcevallos
      @christianhcevallos 26 днів тому

      @@pleasedonttemptme5963 I think you mean the rich simps bringing girls to yacht parties, yea as much as I would like to say it's true for all of us, it's not. Don't believe everything you see in the movies.

  • @Laoriginal718
    @Laoriginal718 28 днів тому +184

    Broke men are cringy but I think broke begging women might be worse 🤦🏽‍♀️😖

    • @omegaruth1764
      @omegaruth1764 28 днів тому +62

      Broke men are cringy, but they over whelmingly have the most children…hmmm…

    • @asdfxcvbn746
      @asdfxcvbn746 28 днів тому +69

      broke men are cringy, but black women stay getting pregnant by them. make it make sense smh

    • @omegaruth1764
      @omegaruth1764 28 днів тому

      @@asdfxcvbn746 my point exactly

    • @Bravefit
      @Bravefit 28 днів тому +57

      One good way to go broke for sure is paying random women’s tab

    • @ByrdMan37
      @ByrdMan37 28 днів тому

      But women steady getting pregnant by broke men make it make sense

  • @Dr1vePr0
    @Dr1vePr0 28 днів тому +47

    Not a couple of 304s that think they should be paid for conversation 😂😂😂😂

  • @iamdjgwiz
    @iamdjgwiz 28 днів тому +10

    I’m so proud of us men…so much has changed since 2020 🙌🏽

    • @o.m.a.4670
      @o.m.a.4670 26 днів тому

      Simping is dying off, but still not fast enough. Once men of value stop simping, it'll trickle down further to regular men.

  • @frandlyalexander3946
    @frandlyalexander3946 28 днів тому +27

    She is just a gold digger period. Everything about her comes with a price including a simple conversation.

  • @patricblack1
    @patricblack1 28 днів тому +51

    BTW. Isn't this the same woman who suggested BW to go to a Korean church to find a husband? Weird!

    • @laurayarbrough4646
      @laurayarbrough4646 28 днів тому +9

      @@patricblack1 lol. That IS weird!

    • @patricblack1
      @patricblack1 28 днів тому +10

      @@laurayarbrough4646 Yeah very weird. It's also weird she always says BW aren't the beauty standard when in fact their beauty is most mimicked.

    • @CascadeProxima
      @CascadeProxima 28 днів тому +6

      Chaos agent

    • @laurayarbrough4646
      @laurayarbrough4646 28 днів тому +2

      @@patricblack1 I didn’t know that.

    • @keeppressing1760
      @keeppressing1760 28 днів тому +9

      Even foreign men don't want them

  • @craig6t
    @craig6t 28 днів тому +18

    The fact that they base a man's attractiveness on whether or not he pays for a few drinks is very immature. This is how young women miss out on the ideal husband--by creating standards that have nothing to do with a lasting relationship. Sounds like they need to age a little more. And even then, they may not want to change this shallow mindset.

  • @dondattaford5593
    @dondattaford5593 28 днів тому +41

    These keashas attitudes are ridiculous they come off as nineteen year old kids who wants to approach a grown child

  • @emperorcesar8208
    @emperorcesar8208 28 днів тому +16

    Women need to understand that simps online aren’t options

  • @prattspits
    @prattspits 28 днів тому +35

    Damn, conversation not free now?

  • @manny6049
    @manny6049 28 днів тому +27

    Smh the arrogance that you expect a stranger to pay for your drink before talking to you. And that equates to broke lol delusional

  • @rond5379
    @rond5379 28 днів тому +20

    A man's absence is when he is valued soon as you start showing up you'll become devalued

    • @broco6608
      @broco6608 28 днів тому

      Exactly. Men need to stay away from women. Period.

  • @Iam2000s
    @Iam2000s 27 днів тому +10

    As someone who lives in D.C. the women like her are absolutely terrible to be around. If you're not making that D.C. diplomat money and dont have that michael b jordan look, they treat you horribly.

  • @monicacheeks9235
    @monicacheeks9235 28 днів тому +16

    Well I'm from SE
    DC and Im the type of woman that after a nice conversation I will offer to buy him a drink and pay my own tab to show him for one I'm intelligent, for two, I can pay my own way if I choose but if he choose to buy me a drink thats fine too but not a must I enjoy a good conversation not just for a drink or someone to pay my tab and these are the type of women that come to DC and snatch our men up and take care of them Girl bye, I luv my DC men 💋

    • @ashaistarks3208
      @ashaistarks3208 28 днів тому +1

      Same

    • @mrsam1084
      @mrsam1084 27 днів тому +2

      I'm also from se,though I haven't lived there in many years. That woman is embarrassing herself and she doesn't seem to care.

    • @MCfact1827
      @MCfact1827 26 днів тому +1

      @Monica...so where can I find you 🙂

    • @hiphopbusinessdaily
      @hiphopbusinessdaily 26 днів тому +1

      IG

    • @dbig48d
      @dbig48d 25 днів тому

      Sis, real DC dudes aint messing with these tricks. I remember back in the day at the mirage, Zansabar, DC live these types of chicks getting passed over left and right while guys were literally fighting over yall. The only guys that talked to these types was the Howard students or military guys not from here

  • @tupactargaryen
    @tupactargaryen 27 днів тому +11

    🤣🤣 Woman like her is what has ruined dating for the rest of you women.

  • @R.E.A.L_T.V.
    @R.E.A.L_T.V. 28 днів тому +32

    She wanted him to pay the tab and they ass leave anyway GTFOOH
    This is not free conversation? I'm not paying to talk to you, WTF you're nit a therapist LLS

  • @monicaking7793
    @monicaking7793 27 днів тому +6

    Those two strike me as working girls. Dang shame that you're treated accordingly. 😂😂

  • @dundiggy9355
    @dundiggy9355 28 днів тому +117

    New generation ain’t got no shame in begging 🤣😂🤣😂

  • @bob11002009
    @bob11002009 27 днів тому +7

    If I’m paying your entire tab you’re coming out them clothes. Expecting a tab paid for conversation is next level crazy.

  • @curtismims1530
    @curtismims1530 28 днів тому +14

    I live in DC and the men are getting smart

    • @brandonm4754
      @brandonm4754 28 днів тому +7

      They been smart. I remember seeing beautiful women with guys waiting outside a club. In DC. The bouncer said it will be this much to get all of you in, the guys laughed and walked away. Wasn’t a large amount either. They have options. In good ole Indianapolis where I work at, dudes would have been breaking their necks to pay. In certain cities guys operate out of a scarcity mindset.

  • @alphagorillathug9793
    @alphagorillathug9793 28 днів тому +20

    Dating women in 2024 is for suckers and squares. just pay for the box and move on. it's less money, less stress

    • @CaucasianWhiteFemale33
      @CaucasianWhiteFemale33 27 днів тому +4

      You don't have 2pay 4the box ~ They Throwing it at you 😂

    • @LeetStack
      @LeetStack 27 днів тому

      @@CaucasianWhiteFemale33 lie you always pay for it somehow whether time, money, liquor, intoxicants, craziness, STD/I, you have to play prince charming, therapist, gas to get to her house, hotel, dates, charm, etc.

    • @dominiqueh6790
      @dominiqueh6790 26 днів тому

      And this right here is why we are all single.

    • @Raquib25
      @Raquib25 26 днів тому

      @@CaucasianWhiteFemale33not the ones most guys want tho

  • @pantherinparadise9686
    @pantherinparadise9686 28 днів тому +11

    So that Korean church she went to to find a man didn't work?

  • @tangelajones8029
    @tangelajones8029 28 днів тому +9

    Bless their heart!!!!

  • @MCthespeaker
    @MCthespeaker 28 днів тому +6

    I'm a woman. These are birds. I have always had my own tab even offered for a man that approach me if they want to get a drink on me. Then, the drink offer is reciprocated on his tab. Who in they're right mind sitting around waiting on someone else to buy them drinks and dinner in 2024. If I go out I have money to pay for my entertainment

    • @reggiestockton8166
      @reggiestockton8166 27 днів тому +3

      Its getting wild. I was at a bar a year or 2 ago, and this random girl I don't even know walked up to me and asked me to buy her the same beer I was drinking. I obviously ignored her, and then she started pouting and told the bartender I was being rude to her 😂 Its getting absolutely ridiculous. The worst part is that her behavior is common, I see stuff like this all the time... the girl couldn't even ask me what my name was before she demanded a drink 😂 more women nowadays are becoming like this

  • @RickTurner4454
    @RickTurner4454 28 днів тому +11

    She mentioned that it was ALL kinds of Men white men, Black Men, and other ethnicities so basically it wasn't any discrimination at play so they ALL sound like they were very SMART🤓 Men if you ask Me? They absolutely was lucky in dodging the headache that girl would have turned into I estimate 3 to 6 mos in dating, because that entitled, narcissistic attitude and approach to meeting someone knew and establishinging an interest, and getting to know that individual on a more personal and private relationship. You should learn to be more HUMBLE Ladies and learn to appreciate even the things you DON'T have because it helps to shape your character and strengthen your discipline in order to obtain certain luxuries and be able to enjoy them with one another!! Peace! 👑✊🏿💪🏿🤟🏿💯

  • @mysticmohawkLLC
    @mysticmohawkLLC 28 днів тому +12

    I’m from SE DC these do dirty’s are common here. But this Chocolate City girl don’t think like that. Girl you coming off as Booshghetto.

  • @dmfwlr264
    @dmfwlr264 28 днів тому +13

    Love your channel bruh. But being from DC, I would love to have seen a real black girl and really from DC. Also it's changing slowly but real indigenous DC people don't even mess with clubs, for goofy chicks like that would've got got!😂

    • @Raquib25
      @Raquib25 26 днів тому +1

      That would be an even worse video

    • @dmfwlr264
      @dmfwlr264 25 днів тому

      @@Raquib25 🤣

  • @avordshaw6244
    @avordshaw6244 28 днів тому +10

    She sounds like she’s pay for play which is a lady of the evening.

  • @petersouthernboy6327
    @petersouthernboy6327 26 днів тому +3

    “Getting you something” is completely different than covering an entire tab for a group where the man wasn’t involved at all with the table. Insane entitlement

  • @edhorseman2237
    @edhorseman2237 28 днів тому +6

    Guy agreed and said that a guy should pay the tab if he wants a woman to stay but didn't pay your tab? That indicates that no one there wanted them to stay. Read the room ladies, you were not welcome there for whatever reason/s.

  • @amglife634
    @amglife634 28 днів тому +3

    I don't think these women ever heard of the saying, "A woman that wants everything gets nothing but a woman that wants nothing gets everything."

  • @ajrod441
    @ajrod441 28 днів тому +34

    The men probably didn't want to be rejected or humiliated.

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 28 днів тому +11

      imagine having to PAY for a conversation! hahahahhah these birds are gonna KEEP getting run thru

    • @broco6608
      @broco6608 28 днів тому +1

      ​@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kpHow are they run through if they left without the guys?

    • @broco6608
      @broco6608 28 днів тому

      How would the men have been rejected or humiliated in this scenario? According to the women, there was only conversation.

    • @erikthe10man
      @erikthe10man 28 днів тому +4

      ​@broco6608 who in their right mind would pay someone for casual conversations? Men are not going to invest money in something with no return value.

    • @johndasilva2686
      @johndasilva2686 28 днів тому +4

      I agree so therefore the women should do the approaching. The woman should take the lead , step up take the bull by the horns . They should also buy the man they approach a drink. After all men and women are equal.

  • @donnasissoko8289
    @donnasissoko8289 27 днів тому +3

    D.C. IS like no other City in the U.S., lots of visitors from other places. Natives see B.S. miles away! Therefore, be sincere for better results!

  • @jesus1stconstitution2nd68
    @jesus1stconstitution2nd68 28 днів тому +5

    I agree. Why is dude obligated to cover your tab when literally all of your drinks were purchased BEFORE he approached? I could kinda understand if he came up in the middle & started vibing with you while yall ordered more drinks after his arrival. But for him to approach when you were done & expect him to pay just to keep your attention. Bye!!!

    • @123pb
      @123pb 19 днів тому

      Thats simping

  • @whateverman2674
    @whateverman2674 28 днів тому +3

    that is wild.
    it's almost as if they are telling her," you're not worth me wooing you." if a man isn't paying, he's either cheap or not interested.

  • @kyleconnor9391
    @kyleconnor9391 28 днів тому +13

    What's very telling is that you "pretty" girls were in a room full of well-to-do men and got no tricks, even from a man that agreed a man should pay the tab😂😅

  • @teflondonii9298
    @teflondonii9298 27 днів тому +3

    Pay to Play sounds like the "OLDEST PROFESSION" in the world, but they don't want to be treated as such🖕🏾

  • @Laoriginal718
    @Laoriginal718 28 днів тому +31

    If people would focus more on building a relationship with God instead of out here hunting for other humans out of desperation they’d be better off.

    • @patricblack1
      @patricblack1 28 днів тому +8

      Very true. Great words.

    • @nosugarcoatreal6134
      @nosugarcoatreal6134 28 днів тому +1

      Amen 🙏🏼! You are ABSOLUTELY right 🫵🏼

    • @Ruthmarahill
      @Ruthmarahill 28 днів тому +2

      I found my true love after allowing God to be my first.

    • @shannonshark84
      @shannonshark84 28 днів тому +4

      Yes!! 👏👏Or even focusing on building a better relationship with THEMSELVES! Being a better human! Because if they were doing that, they wouldn't feel so entitled.

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 28 днів тому +3

      people? WOMEN

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 28 днів тому +3

    I'm 47 yrs old.
    Young men never pay another adults bills.
    If she is of legal age never pay her bills. She is a grown up. Not your child..

  • @patricblack1
    @patricblack1 28 днів тому +22

    Most of the men could've been married. 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @barrythompson7651
    @barrythompson7651 28 днів тому +8

    Guys have wised up. About time. These pretty women have been playing the pretty privilege game for too long. Just like the stock market, when a stock is overvalued, a market correction takes place to bring the stocks value down to its real intrinsic value. These women have been living in a false market bubble for so long ,they think it's real. The market is making a dramatic correction in real time and some of these " stocks" are finding out they're close to worthless. I love it. Let the Free Market Reign!!!! It's a Global Economy Ladies!! Gotta compete against those foreign "stocks" that the Passport Bros are buying up and leaving these overvalued commodities on the domestic shelf. Love it.

  • @frankiegunnz8066
    @frankiegunnz8066 27 днів тому +5

    Let's be honest people, she didn't really like him. Plain and simple!

  • @jack.b1747
    @jack.b1747 27 днів тому +4

    Plus most guys is not going be at high end hotels or bars.😂😂most guys is at home relaxing and not trying to deal with anyone nowdays.

  • @summaryjudgment
    @summaryjudgment 28 днів тому +4

    I'll give it to her, she's gorgeous. HOWEVER, she has a lot to earn about black men with money in DC. In DC, we ignore women like her because we know the type. Lots of guys in DC are six figure earners, but we see absolutely no value in paying for your lifestyle (even if it is 1 drink). Why would I buy you a $40 drink to sit and TALK? If I wanted to pay to talk to someone, I would hire a therapist. If she had walked into the bar like a normal person, said hello, and maybe even struck up a conversation instead of trying to be seen and waiting to be chosen, that tab would have been paid before she even asked for the check. Here in DC, we think ignore women like her is fun; its basically a sport.

  • @harpersworld6549
    @harpersworld6549 27 днів тому +2

    Growing up in Miami, I noticed that the rest of the United States is not as vain. Women from Miami or who visit Miami often in certain social groups are probably used to a certain treatment. They have to understand they’re probably not gonna get that treatment everywhere they go.

  • @nattydreadlocks1973
    @nattydreadlocks1973 28 днів тому +23

    Meet me at the Mayflower. I'm in the Marion Berry suite. 😂😂😂 I'm from D.C.. Historically, those highend hotel lounges are where the callgirls hang out. Those guys thought you two were prostitutes. They just didn't know how to approach you.

    • @diegomagellan
      @diegomagellan 27 днів тому +1

      Yea they didn’t know how to game

  • @user-ZacBey
    @user-ZacBey 28 днів тому +5

    These types of entitled women make men not want to do anything for them. Gross attitude

  • @MeMyselfandEye127
    @MeMyselfandEye127 28 днів тому +4

    The best and worst thing in the world has been social media… these 304s be exposing themselves in these videos now no one is going to want you all because you want to vent online..

  • @iamroxx7595
    @iamroxx7595 27 днів тому +5

    she said first thing out of your mouth should be how much......bruh if anyone buys this girl anything from this day forward should be clowned by all his friends and family

  • @QueenAnaya-x7b
    @QueenAnaya-x7b 28 днів тому +6

    Theses men groups are educating other men , trust me I’m glad my son is particular

  • @snake991231
    @snake991231 28 днів тому +3

    lol, I live in the area & she sounds crazy!
    I’ve never had this issue & I’m much older than her and still get hit on EVERY TIME I GO OUT!
    Anywhere in the area 😂😂😂😂

  • @GoatReactz
    @GoatReactz 28 днів тому +5

    304 behavior. " it's not free conversation?" You're at a bar/lounge. That's what you go for...to socialize

  • @dougroyce5784
    @dougroyce5784 28 днів тому +3

    5:19 Pay to talk??!!?😂😂😂

  • @Crimson_Skull52
    @Crimson_Skull52 27 днів тому +4

    This crazy work out here. Pay the tab these liquor hustlers ran up? Man it’s getting worse by the day out there. That’s why there’s no point in going out anymore.

  • @smithnwesson9586
    @smithnwesson9586 27 днів тому +2

    I live in the DC area, I’m married but when I was single, trying to get a man with money and use his money was not my motive. The women out here and it seems in general are not very realistic when it comes to men. I’m not saying they should settle for anything, however when you show that you are about more than money, you get a better quality man. You show a man that you are more than something to do.

  • @Soulj33
    @Soulj33 27 днів тому +3

    Tell me you’re a bum without telling me you’re a bum..
    “Pickings are great, we’re not gonna have to really PAY for anything”

  • @JollyJoker369
    @JollyJoker369 28 днів тому

    You are 💯% correct, Mr. Wisdom.

  • @hysongreen
    @hysongreen 28 днів тому +4

    as a non American I’m shocked, is this really the standard

    • @wj00312
      @wj00312 27 днів тому

      It's trending that way, yes. Unfortunately, our dating culture has become increasingly corrupted.

    • @wisdommasterreviews4712
      @wisdommasterreviews4712 27 днів тому

      These are most women now who follow the liberal Agenda. Even many African and German women are after Just money, and they don't look good!

    • @TheDumontShow
      @TheDumontShow 26 днів тому

      Let me put it this way....stay a non-American. For my sake

  • @shakeraxdien
    @shakeraxdien 23 дні тому +1

    Yooo the fact that these women have no options is crazy! I’m going to need them to humble themselves bc as a black woman I can say that there are PLENTY of eligible men out here.

  • @l.a.f.8555
    @l.a.f.8555 27 днів тому +2

    Watching this from Spain. Here in conventions (where I work as a translator) men do not approach women with the purpose of paying their drinks... unless they are looking for prost%&$/.

  • @Mitalayeka
    @Mitalayeka 28 днів тому +6

    Those are some smart men in D.C.

  • @IamKingFace1
    @IamKingFace1 27 днів тому +2

    I’m in a nice part of the city in dc. I’m in sw near the warf staying in a new condo building. I see beautiful women everyday but I pay them no mind whatsoever. I down play myself cause I know people go off looks. I’m no simp and babygirl you gonna have to do something other then just be present. And I’m not just spending money cause you want me to, tf!?

    • @dbig48d
      @dbig48d 25 днів тому +1

      I dont live too far from you. I CANT WAIT for that Fogo to open up. Me and the wife may be the first to walk in that door

  • @nda42831
    @nda42831 28 днів тому +18

    Only thing I’m thinking about is one day this could be somebody wife. The headache brought on by the nagging is going to be unbelievable. Could you imagine that?😂😂😂

    • @itsyaboyced9456
      @itsyaboyced9456 28 днів тому +4

      He gone hate her guts 😂

    • @RicardoValentin-i2d
      @RicardoValentin-i2d 28 днів тому +4

      I was tuning her out just watching this short video 😂😂😂, Like, oh wait, what. I didn't even replay it 😂😂

    • @Routetherapy10
      @Routetherapy10 28 днів тому +9

      She's not getting married..

    • @ItsChristie
      @ItsChristie 27 днів тому +4

      Ain't no man in his right mind taking on that challenge. 😂😂😂

  • @howardbonds5106
    @howardbonds5106 27 днів тому

    high end, upscale bars...that says everything I needed to hear.

  • @rosehampton2901
    @rosehampton2901 28 днів тому +2

    There was a song that stated, her body was by Fisher byt her mind was by Mattel!😮

  • @phillyrich3249
    @phillyrich3249 27 днів тому +1

    These women stated they are in high in bars, restaurants, etc. they’re looking for athletes, or somehow high in person that can get them the bag. That’s all good night everybody

  • @BoogieShoogie
    @BoogieShoogie 28 днів тому +27

    Drinks in DC are too damn expensive. A margarita is $18. A shot is $20. It’s pricey here. Ladies you have to have your own bread these days here.
    PS, she does meet the beauty standard here. It’s probably the attitude like you said.😊

    • @freshlyfe4400
      @freshlyfe4400 28 днів тому

      Facts brought a rum and coke and a beer at the Park in DC. Damn $32.00

    • @thedon0516
      @thedon0516 27 днів тому +2

      ​@@freshlyfe4400 Hell No, that's a whole bottle of liquor from the ABC 🤣

  • @lebrandodouglass4923
    @lebrandodouglass4923 27 днів тому +2

    Who walks into an establishment and starts paying the tab for random people? Worse, they expect it!

    • @Raquib25
      @Raquib25 26 днів тому

      And it made so much sense to them 🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @marcofalzone6469
    @marcofalzone6469 28 днів тому +6

    Those are not their real faces. Filters. One and all.

  • @JollyJoker369
    @JollyJoker369 28 днів тому

    Well done, Mr. Wisdom.

  • @Jaime_Lee_733
    @Jaime_Lee_733 28 днів тому +4

    Wrong I just went to the seafood hook and reel bar and a man made it his business to say he is paying for
    Whatever I wanted we had a good conversation he then took me to a boat on water restaurant
    I met another man at Fridays same deal I don’t think it’s about where you are it’s what energy you have on you yes I’m in DC

    • @123pb
      @123pb 19 днів тому

      All you did was use 2 simp guys for dinner and drinks -

  • @diegomagellan
    @diegomagellan 27 днів тому

    Love the hoodie