Ostomy Friendly(ish) Swimwear for 2024! | Let's Talk IBD

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  • @mamofoneteen5178
    @mamofoneteen5178 5 місяців тому +46

    As a 51 year old ostomate I’m encouraging you to enjoy your beautiful young body shape!!! You looked incredible in all the swimsuits. It’s definitely true our bodies change shape as we get older. I’m learning to love my new body shape but it’s not always easy. Enjoy the sun Maggie. 😊

  • @nadineevans5195
    @nadineevans5195 5 місяців тому +12

    Double sided body tape for fashion will be your friend for that first suit. It's beautiful!!

  • @iSheree
    @iSheree 5 місяців тому +5

    Thank you so much for doing this swimsuit series! I have learned that doctors have no idea about stomas/ostomies. I have been watching you for years so when the gynaecologist said that I will likely wake up with a stoma after my hysterectomy (for adenomyosis) + bowel resection (for endometriosis) and that it could be permanent, I was okay with that… until she told me I can’t swim with it. Swimming is the only exercise I can do with my disabilities and health issues and its one of the main reasons why I need a hysterectomy (non stop bleeding from adenomyosis). Now I know this is not true, am going ahead with my surgery with less fear after the help of the lovely ostomate community. ❤

  • @geab.2182
    @geab.2182 5 місяців тому +3

    You are so beautiful.
    9:52 I like this one especially,
    but all the other ones as well.
    I liked how you said that the world didn't blow up, you wearing the leopard pink (somewhat smallish) swimwear.
    Also how you explained how when younger you were braver or more carefree about certain things and how you feel about swimwear matters and people's belly stares nowadays. I think you're good at exploring and explaining your feelings.

  • @michellebridges2604
    @michellebridges2604 5 місяців тому +30

    These suits all look so adorable ❤ I swear they need to hire you as a model ❤️

  • @sbur4914
    @sbur4914 5 місяців тому +15

    You are amazing. Thank you for your courage to help all of us.

  • @michelle3830
    @michelle3830 5 місяців тому +1

    You are breaking so many barriers in your open approach to ostomies! Good for you and the bikinis look great on you!

  • @blanchard5312
    @blanchard5312 5 місяців тому +4

    Maggie, not only are you beautiful in every way but these suits all look great on you. You go girl!

  • @sharontisherman7619
    @sharontisherman7619 5 місяців тому +1

    They all look great on you but the last one is my favorite. Its very flattering on you!❤❤❤

  • @robinsmanatee
    @robinsmanatee 5 місяців тому +1

    Maggie, you look beautiful in all of them! Your confidence is inspiring and motivating! ❤

  • @rheniumosmium7790
    @rheniumosmium7790 5 місяців тому +2

    You look astonishing in the Siil. My favourite by far, exactly as you are. Here's to that private beach adventure you're dreaming of.

  • @nadinecooper8709
    @nadinecooper8709 5 місяців тому +3

    The Spanish one is so chic. I also love the last one on you as well but they all look great.

  • @lceec7012
    @lceec7012 5 місяців тому +3

    You look gorgeous in all the suits! The only thing anyone will notice is a lovely young woman. My daughter has the same color features as you. She looks great in pink as well. Have fun in the sun! Love your videos. They are so helpful. I like all the suits but my favorite is the last one!

  • @josephferrante713
    @josephferrante713 5 місяців тому +1

    I have watched a good amount of your videos and I want to convey to you that at least from my point of view you are a true and genuine honest, caring, compassionate, understanding, loving, giving, intelligent, informed and talented young lady. It is obvious that the depth and the strength of your honesty comes from the heart and makes your videos what they are, direct, honest and right to the point. Keep up the good work

  • @helengarrett6378
    @helengarrett6378 5 місяців тому +4

    Your Zack is such a keeper. He's a grown up!

  • @jasonuren3479
    @jasonuren3479 5 місяців тому +7

    The two you chose, I chose. Definitely the best

  • @juliemiller4288
    @juliemiller4288 5 місяців тому +10

    I think you look absolutely gorgeous!! Good for you for going out of your comfort zone. That is extremely hard to do. Proud of you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @oceanluvngal
    @oceanluvngal 5 місяців тому +2

    Love that you reference Fran from the Nanny! I think the cut of the aqua top was most flattering on you. The cut of the bottoms from the last suit is awesome with the dip in the waist band. It elegates the torso, and draws attention to your flat tummy, while also supporting where it's needed.

  • @shirleylewis3490
    @shirleylewis3490 5 місяців тому +4

    I loved the blue one the best, but honestly you looked amazing in all of them!

  • @susanfleming496
    @susanfleming496 5 місяців тому +2

    Super cute suits! Good choices ❤

  • @sherriwalker8019
    @sherriwalker8019 3 місяці тому

    Maggie, you look, great in the swimsuits. IMO, when your bag shows over the top it looks like a bag you would have your cell phone or cash in. So no biggie on it showing! Love your confidence! You go girl!!

  • @jenniferstein4630
    @jenniferstein4630 2 місяці тому

    Hi Maggie, I'm sure you don't remember me but we met at a CCFA Day on the Hill when you were still in high school! I've followed your blog off and on ever since that time and have had a permanent ileostomy since 2009 due to rectal cancer. You are so incredibly inspiring and speaking as an ostomate at age 57, I am in awe of your bravery and willingness to share with 1000s of people so many intimate details about your life with and without your husband. Clearly, you have developed a devoted following and now that you are an adult I find many of these more recent videos somehow even more relatable and applicable to my own life. I've also recommended your channel to others. It's all about raising awareness for something that has been shrouded in secrecy and shame for far too long. In 1984, I needed an ileostomy on a temporary basis after being diagnosed with CD in my senior year of high school. That was in the dark ages of IBD in all senses of the term. The thing that saved me at the time was the acceptance of a boyfriend. I'm just really happy that you found a guy like Zack to share your life with. You are both so lucky to have each other!

    • @LetsTalkIBD
      @LetsTalkIBD  2 місяці тому

      Jennifer! I do remember you! I think we are facebook friends so I checked to make sure the face I was picturing was right :) thank you so much! I'm so glad the IBD world has come such a long way and there are so many more resources available to those with ostomies, although there still remains work to be done! I hope you are doing well today!!

  • @hammettgirl
    @hammettgirl 5 місяців тому +4

    You are AMAZING!!💕 The last one is so cute!! You look good in all of them!

  • @janineonejanine
    @janineonejanine 5 місяців тому +4

    Pink leopard is my favorite
    It looks great on you!
    Oh wait, I love the lavender dream on you too! And btw, You have a great "body shape" girlie!

  • @laura6796
    @laura6796 5 місяців тому +3

    The turquoise one is my favorite! I also really like the last one. So cute on you. ❤

  • @zb2363
    @zb2363 5 місяців тому +1

    Love the pink leopard one and you looked fabulous in all of them!

  • @wondertwin13
    @wondertwin13 5 місяців тому +1

    They all look amazing on you, but yes I agree on your 2 top picks and add the one you said would be good for swimming (looked great too) I’m so happy for you that the weight gain hasn’t been an effort to keep on. I know some of us dislike hearing “you look so healthy” BUT you really do🫶

  • @elizabethb3769
    @elizabethb3769 5 місяців тому +6

    I think you look great in all the bathing suits!

  • @natashaw401
    @natashaw401 5 місяців тому +1

    Yes sharing how u feel in each is great

  • @karenshepler7128
    @karenshepler7128 5 місяців тому +5

    Beautiful suits and thank you for sharing with us enjoy your summer 😊😊

  • @emilykaten
    @emilykaten 5 місяців тому +1

    The mint one is super cute on you! 💖

  • @sued1116
    @sued1116 5 місяців тому +1

    I think the last one is my favorite too! You look great. 😊💕

  • @jenny_rice
    @jenny_rice 5 місяців тому +1

    You look beautiful in all of them! Thanks for sharing! And it's nice to see that they weren't very expensive. ☺

  • @SB-xw8fr
    @SB-xw8fr 5 місяців тому

    Let's make this a series! I love looking at different swimsuit options.👙

  • @slarson8044
    @slarson8044 5 місяців тому +2

    I think both the first and last suits are the best, especially the teal green one. You look great in all of the suits. Thank you for sharing. I love your videos?😀

  • @jackielong9927
    @jackielong9927 5 місяців тому +2

    I love your choice of suits. You looked really cute in all of them. My favorite was the pink one.❤❤❤

  • @KimfromMichigan-x2u
    @KimfromMichigan-x2u 3 місяці тому

    I would try fashion tape for the first suit. I just met you today and you are an inspiration. My father in law (RIH, DAD) had an ostomy bag. I wish he could of seen you live your best life. Ty for being you. Kim

  • @Marie.b
    @Marie.b 5 місяців тому +2

    You have a fab figure and that's why I love the pink one on you, the shape suits you. I'd have a light scarf fashioned into a short sarong for when I'd want to be a bit more covered.

  • @judyr783
    @judyr783 5 місяців тому +1

    maggie you are adorable girl your body is perfect enjoy the summer the swim suits are so cute

  • @lesleyharris525
    @lesleyharris525 5 місяців тому +1

    Wish this came out last month as we've already been away on holiday, not thinking packed my swimwear, got to Greece and realised I'm 2st heaver and the stoma was out there. Mine is at the high waistline and bikini was low cut 😂, got me a one piece with gathering at the sides and i was in the pool, enjoy your time at the beach. ❤

  • @annegreenwood3624
    @annegreenwood3624 5 місяців тому +1

    i love the last one so
    pretty plus navy blue a great colour

  • @tatersinger
    @tatersinger 5 місяців тому +2

    LOVE the navy blue suit on you! You're petite like I am, and that suit lengthens your legs, in addition to giving you great coverage.

  • @katherinebritt5672
    @katherinebritt5672 5 місяців тому +2

    Stitch a little hook and eye at the top to keep from "popping out". I love the suit

  • @beverlywinter7625
    @beverlywinter7625 5 місяців тому +4

    You look absolutely stunning in all of them ❤

  • @andreamcfeeley9363
    @andreamcfeeley9363 5 місяців тому +6

    They are all beautiful on you💖

  • @lydiadale7024
    @lydiadale7024 5 місяців тому +1

    You look super cute in all the new swimwear.

  • @wendyy__6893
    @wendyy__6893 5 місяців тому +1

    I loved the first & the last ones! They look nice on you. I usually stick with high waisted bottoms after my abdominal surgeries 😅 makes me feel more confident when it comes to wearing swimsuits 😄

  • @missyme2673
    @missyme2673 5 місяців тому +5

    You look amazing, Maggie! I especially love the two that you picked out as your favourites! They are so flattering on you! I wish that I had the confidence to wear swin suits.. in my younger days before the health issues started, I always loved the confidence that I'd get from wearing a two-piece. But now, I'm so much bigger (thank you, Mr Steroids) and the thought of going on the beach, which is my love, brings on a panic attack. I don't have an issue showing my pouch off. it's more so the big fat wobbly thing that the pouch is stuck to that I need to keep well-hidden! Thank you for this video. You have provided me with some confidence to just go for it and you look so perfect! Please could you do a follow-up video with what to do when things go wrong, please? As this is something else that keeps me awake at night!
    Thanks for all you do, sending you lots of love from me in the UK 🇬🇧 ❤️

  • @melaniethies379
    @melaniethies379 5 місяців тому +1

    Hi Maggie you look amazing in all the suits I like the Pink one and the navy blue one, but they all look great on you i know it's hard to choose but you look great in all of them

  • @meghan2802
    @meghan2802 5 місяців тому +1

    Okay, you have found some really cute suits. Bathing suit shopping is so difficult. Also, they do make tape for swimsuits if you want to wear them with a one piece. ❤

  • @pamela-gw7xo
    @pamela-gw7xo 5 місяців тому +2

    I really love the first swimsuit! Of course I understand how risqué it might be...it is so pretty though!! You look great in all of them !!😍

  • @lisatracy2914
    @lisatracy2914 5 місяців тому +2

    I vote for the first and last one!

  • @susiecrisp1041
    @susiecrisp1041 5 місяців тому +3

    You look great in all of them!

  • @aubnwa01
    @aubnwa01 5 місяців тому +1

    The top to the one with the lavender & pink bands would look really cute worn with a pair of white shorts. All the suits look great on you, though. I burn so bad in the sun, I need a long sleeved rash guard & a biker short type bottom!

  • @LeighMerrydayPorch
    @LeighMerrydayPorch 5 місяців тому +1

    How I wish I looked like you in swimsuits! LOL Seriously, you give to so many. Today, you courageously did it by modeling a swimsuit haul before 215K people. You're fierce! Have fun at the beach. :)

  • @geab.2182
    @geab.2182 5 місяців тому +1

    13:44 I'm glad that you have an attic.

  • @stefbolton2266
    @stefbolton2266 5 місяців тому +4

    Enjoy your blossoming girlish bottom - its coming with health and looks stunning on you! All of these suits look fantastic on you! Have fun!!!

  • @parkerren
    @parkerren 5 місяців тому +4

    Last one looks the best.

  • @LenaS-j5y
    @LenaS-j5y 5 місяців тому +2

    You look beautiful in all of them!❤

  • @erin6381
    @erin6381 5 місяців тому +3

    Last suit is my fave. But all of them are quite attractive. My ostomy sits low, so I wear surfer board shorts with a bikini top. I grew up on the beach so I miss wearing a full bikini but the shorts make me feel more confident & comfortable. Whatever works, right? I love your channel. ❤

  • @karencull9518
    @karencull9518 5 місяців тому +1

    You look great Maggie! And love all the bathing suits. 😊❤

  • @maggiezemanek9656
    @maggiezemanek9656 5 місяців тому +1

    You are adorable, Maggie! I don't have an osteomyelitis, but enjoy your channel, and share the same name!🙂

  • @sarasolis9734
    @sarasolis9734 5 місяців тому +2

    Yeah the last one looks much better on you. ❤❤❤❤

  • @kristiwetsel9531
    @kristiwetsel9531 5 місяців тому +2

    You know throw a few stitches in the first one to close the front a little since you feel it's to open and it'd be as cute as can be !!

  • @jessicasteiner7298
    @jessicasteiner7298 5 місяців тому +2

    The swimsuits look great on you, I am going to order the pink leopard and white leopard ones going to Jamaica next year, I hope they fit my top half I am busty.

  • @sherridonati
    @sherridonati 5 місяців тому

    #2/turquoise/teal is by far the best all around. It's the most flattering on your body, and it has invisible coverage.

  • @rudynewman2040
    @rudynewman2040 Місяць тому

    All look really good on you. The last one is totally flattering. Maggie, you are just developing a more womanly figure, that's all!
    Have fun in the ocean!!

  • @kristiwetsel9531
    @kristiwetsel9531 5 місяців тому +1

    You look amazing in every single one of them !! ❤

  • @cgomez77
    @cgomez77 5 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful swimsuits! They look great!

  • @becks3302
    @becks3302 5 місяців тому +2

    You look lovely in all of them, could your Hips may have changed due to IVF? You look amazing in all of them

  • @audreyrubino3523
    @audreyrubino3523 5 місяців тому +1

    Hi maggie
    Wow you look awesome. U r so beautiful and that blue suit rocks on you. Way to go maggie 🎉❤ Audrey

  • @elekay312
    @elekay312 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤ thanks, I’ve been looking at cupshe, wondering if it’s worth it!

  • @nancys2275
    @nancys2275 5 місяців тому +1

    Maybe I’ll see you on the beach in Sea Isle City!

    • @LetsTalkIBD
      @LetsTalkIBD  5 місяців тому +1

      We are trying to try different beaches so possibly! Tomorrow's trip is Island State Park! :)

  • @maricormier121
    @maricormier121 5 місяців тому +1

    You look great...osteomy, scars and all!!!

  • @jameskramer6901
    @jameskramer6901 4 місяці тому

    If I had seen you on the beach with any of the suits …. Including the bikini ….. I personally wouldn’t think much of it as far as what shows ….. I did not know anything about this ….. until I found out that my niece in the Philippines has this situation ….. but because of lack of funding and no insurance …. Things went very wrong with her surgery . Thank god she is alive and is such an amazing and brave person .
    I have been wanting to bring her to the States for a while now to see if something like what you have can be done . But would probably never be smooth like your stomach do to botched operations and lack of modern surgeries like here in the States . I love her very much and often watch your videos for any type of advice .
    Again , I am very thankful for sharing your experiences with myself and others . I have told her about your channel…. I don’t know if she tunes in or not …. But because of your videos ….. I have learned a lot more than I did before ….. Thank you for that .
    None of us are perfect in this world …. We all have our own type of scars and imperfections …. Some are noticeable and some aren’t ….. regardless , that should not affect relationships or feel embarrassed to be with someone with their imperfections .
    You are very lucky to have someone in your life that sees you only for who you are . That doesn’t judge you .
    My niece has someone very nice that is going to marry her …. They are just waiting for me to be able to join them for their wedding .
    I wouldn’t worry so much about how others see you in bathing suits or anything els that you wear . If they don’t appreciate you the way that you are …. Then they are not worth waisting your time with . You are a beautiful person….. obviously with a beautiful heart and soul also . Your true friends will see that too . I think that is all that really matters .
    By the way , When I’m in the States …. I live in Chester County PA .
    We might even be neighbors for all I know 🤣🤣
    God bless you , your love and your family . 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @lorileewalters2018
    @lorileewalters2018 5 місяців тому +3

    That is a super cute bathing suit, you could always have it sewn up a bit so it wasn’t cut so low and the risk of a wardrobe malfunction would be less, I can’t type lol,just a suggestion it is a beautiful suit❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @annegariepy3823
    @annegariepy3823 5 місяців тому +1

    I like the first one and the last one 🙂

  • @williamquinn7768
    @williamquinn7768 5 місяців тому +1

    Maggie, your as gorgeous as always ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jodil1209
    @jodil1209 5 місяців тому +1

    The two of them who you liked the best, I thought were the cutest on you. The others were nice though, too.

  • @angelairvine3091
    @angelairvine3091 5 місяців тому +2

    ❤you look fabulous , nothing wrong with you new body shape ❤

  • @natashaw401
    @natashaw401 5 місяців тому +1

    Brave sharing u trying on swim suits

  • @pixie706
    @pixie706 5 місяців тому +1

    You are a beautiful person through and through. You give us all confidence thank you so much.
    Is there a chance that you could tell about various foods and effects on your health and output. That subject can be a minefield for some of us. ❤
    Possibly the hormones you had recently have had an effect on weight ?

  • @samsam8603
    @samsam8603 5 місяців тому +1

    All are beautiful on you ❤️

  • @melsattitude8668
    @melsattitude8668 5 місяців тому +1

    I need this. Thank you.

  • @DunoonVanRijn-dx1hr
    @DunoonVanRijn-dx1hr 5 місяців тому +1

    Good choices.

  • @DesAMowadeng
    @DesAMowadeng 5 місяців тому +5

    Totally random question, does saltwater burn your stoma. I would think it would when your bag gets ripped off by a wave!

    • @LetsTalkIBD
      @LetsTalkIBD  5 місяців тому +4

      I don't remember it burning it but I imagine if I had any open skin, it would burn that! I can't feel anything on my stoma

    • @DesAMowadeng
      @DesAMowadeng 5 місяців тому +3

      @@LetsTalkIBD Oh... That makes sense. Since it's an internal organ pulled outside I always seem to think of it as open all the time and tender/ouchie!

  • @KarenHedge-ku7lo
    @KarenHedge-ku7lo 4 місяці тому

    You look beautiful in all of the swim suits.

  • @jangibson1401
    @jangibson1401 5 місяців тому

    I liked your bathing suits from last year much better !!

    • @LetsTalkIBD
      @LetsTalkIBD  5 місяців тому

      I wish I had upped the bottom sizes so they still fit!!

  • @AdAstra870
    @AdAstra870 5 місяців тому +1

    Lands End has some cute tankinis with good coverage on the bottoms

  • @elizabethter-sahakyan6692
    @elizabethter-sahakyan6692 5 місяців тому +5

    Yes, dear. Hormones, pregnancy change the hip size!!!

  • @andreamcfeeley9363
    @andreamcfeeley9363 5 місяців тому +4

    Just sew a button on the front of the first suit😊

  • @AnnetteCarolanFourie
    @AnnetteCarolanFourie 3 місяці тому

    Maggie you look super nothing wrong with your body you really look so nice

  • @TheKrazysinner
    @TheKrazysinner Місяць тому

    5:13 you could try criss crossing the top so that its not a deep V

  • @Kattaz0309
    @Kattaz0309 5 місяців тому

    I like the first (if you could close the front somewhat, lol) and the last suit on you.

  • @Brvfan2012
    @Brvfan2012 5 місяців тому +2

    You look great. Ostomy bag showing or not.

  • @missyme2673
    @missyme2673 5 місяців тому +1

    When swimming on in a pool or the sea, does it cause the pouch to expand/explode/leak?

    • @LetsTalkIBD
      @LetsTalkIBD  5 місяців тому +2

      I haven't had any issues with that!

    • @missyme2673
      @missyme2673 5 місяців тому

      @@LetsTalkIBD Phew!

  • @malinnesse3876
    @malinnesse3876 5 місяців тому +1

    ☀️🌼

  • @scillataylor3883
    @scillataylor3883 5 місяців тому +2

    You look great - but prepare yourself for more changes at 81!

  • @SalmaAkter-zl8jr
    @SalmaAkter-zl8jr 5 місяців тому

    Dear sister how are you? My father also uses a colostomy bag. His age 73. His stool loose Its for cholera. Usually he faces difficulties at the time of loose motion.

  • @mimigrabner4486
    @mimigrabner4486 5 місяців тому

    My Mom has a C-section scar and hers is a bit higher.