Superb interview, Scott. At age 69, I have the benefit of hindsight, & so much of this discussion is pertinent to people of all ages! I wish I had been more attentive to this broad spectrum for happiness at a younger age. But…my wife has kept me around for 50 years, & we’re pretty happy! Thank you for your concise interview questions, as well as allowing your guest to fully respond. You set the high bar for UA-cam/podcast content!
It’s not just about men losing something (or everything) in their 50s or 60s. It’s the monumental task of starting over and rebuilding in a society that’s not particularly suited to men in their 50s and 60s starting over. It’s the destruction of their identity and the judgement of others. It’s about finding the will and the energy to do it all over again with a tired mind and worn out body that can’t do what they did in their 20s and 30s. It’s about justifying why it’s worth it to rebuild if by the time you get there, if you can get there, you’re bumping up against your 70s or 80s in a best case scenario.
I'll be 70 this year and have been retired for the pas five, so I do have some life experience. Contrary to Scott's advice, I did "follow my passion" and I did follow love, not always with a great success, but it paid off. Money was never my goal, enjoying what I do, was. I worked for over 40 years in the entertainment business (Behind the scene). I had some terrible years of professional struggle, and I lost a wife of 25 years to cancer, so it wasn't all fun and roses, but I came out financially secure, I found a new love and I'm having the time of my life... Always follow you gut...
@@henrytep8884 Every experience is "anecdotal", no two experiences are alike. Sure, you can find some common thread, but mostly people have different upbringing, different approach to experiences, and different ways of being effected by them.
@@henrytep8884 And I assume you have those that contradict my post? For years it was belief that getting an academic degree, would provide you a higher income. The country is full of Baristas with BA & MA degrees. Meantime Plumbers, electricians and other vocational grads are killing it...
@@ziv2liv you do realize the numbers are still towards people with degree making more money than people without degrees right? Yeah those numbers exist, are one of the most explored metrics, measured both by the government and private company that shows people with a degree will outpace those without even after accounting for the student debt. You’re talking about a subset of the non degree professionals, but in no way shape or form does it change the overall statistical likelihood of degree versus non degree earning over a lifetime in a significant way. But yes that’s why we measure outcomes through research and study, and the numbers are still clear even for your profession, those numbers exist. BLS.
I saw another video from this channel before this, i gotta say that in this one you look so depressed, which is both funny and fitting for interviewing someone about happiness. It helps the viewer. This was great.
Great watch, I agree with everything Dr. Brooks was saying except the Religion part. It's very depressing to live your life knowing your going to be judged at the end of it, and it's liberating to let go of these stone aged beliefs written by an ancient man who couldn't make sense of the world. It's hard to forgive your self for any life mistake you make, if you feel there is a deity judging your mistakes.
You’re missing the point of transcendent. Do you believe that you should be a better version of yourself tomorrow than you are today? That’s transcendence. Do you believe that life is good, beautiful and true? That’s transcendence. Do you want to live in a way that embodies these things? That’s all it means to be religious. You don’t need a body of dogmatic belief that says the meaning of life is, rather live a life where the meaning in life is defined by you and oriented towards the good, true and beautiful. Bit if you want to live in hedonic, and nihilism that’s also your choice, just don’t hurt anyone in the process or pay the consequences. At least that’s first principles of a liberal society.
Yes. I let go of the concept of a judgemental God some time ago. This isn't to say that I don't believe in some form of energy that comprises the effect of the experience of a god or higher power.
@@henrytep8884Great points. Our culture - specifically our American one - pushes us in the direction of consumerism and that acquisition equals happiness.
Valuable advice about philosophy! Stoicism and Objectivism can focus you on the need to apply rationality Put another wan, as Spinoza observed, "He alone is free who lives with Free-Consent under the entire guidance of Reason".
I think this is a great talk. Thank you!!! I disagree with mother nature not caring about happiness. Mother nature rewards happiness, and punishes unhappiness.
Lots of great discussion and concepts. I know it doesn’t fit well in this structure but I would love to see cited sources for many of the statements of facts. It’s hard to know which are opinions versus statistically probable.
It's difficult to argue with a man as well-versed as Dr. Brooks. Really, there are a multitude of people like Brooks doing fine work at Universities as well as government, and we would be wise to listen to authority rather than the stuff that know-nothings make up on podcasts.
real wave of unhappiness is only about to hit , when AI starts replacing people that have spend decade or even decades on honing their craft , worst even if they actually love their job , its gonna get really ugly unless theres some kind of world wide UBI system
Internet porn and a twelve pack of beer is totally me. I'm about a year younger than Prof G. I think getting off the gold standard destroyed everything. It certainly destroyed the fine art world.
Sort of the same here but trying to understand my sexuality now. However, I find myself drawn more and more to wanting to love someone and give of myself. Was super selfish and self focused for many years that helped to destroy a marriage.
Organized religion is one of the single worst things that has ever happened to humanity. Fictional stories that require a doorman to access their God has no place in our happiness.
Talk as fast as possible. Jam as much information into a short period of time as you can. String as many cliches together as you can. Ah, happiness... I almost forgot. Be obsessive compulsive with ideas. Live completely above your neck.
2:17. I blame political pundits as well as politicians. "Are you angry? Well you should be!" "If you're not angry then you're not paying attention!" I try not to watch cable news networks because it's politics 24/7 and the pundits are trying to make the viewers mad.
Mate, I'm a 56 yr old bloke aAustralian. I love your stuff, I get what this bloke is about. But Holy fuck hes about himself.I'm glad he's not teaching too many souls. As a good "Strayan" get over yaself . Happiness is love Just don't say anything else.
Being antifragile is never be exposed of losing something you care. E.g. Anthony Bourdain is such a loser: applying a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
True neurobabble is still neurobabble for all that. What help to his audience does citing the relevant neurotransmitters/hormones do? If forging a meaningful 'metaphysical' relationship with your partner is what leads to long term happiness, then give further concrete interventions that contribute to that. Don't just cite oxytocin.
22: No, humans do not naturally live in pairs, humans naturally have multiple concurrent partners, not having such is devastating for happiness, especially for women.
I hate content like this! Do I really want somebody that’s been fed a silver spoon there whole life tell me what happiness is? Real happiness comes from accomplishment of dreams and lots of psychedelics. It’s hard to be depressed when ya have 5ht2a receptor psyches. I even watched a guy dieing of cancer find peace and love happiness and understanding.
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Superb interview, Scott. At age 69, I have the benefit of hindsight, & so much of this discussion is pertinent to people of all ages! I wish I had been more attentive to this broad spectrum for happiness at a younger age. But…my wife has kept me around for 50 years, & we’re pretty happy! Thank you for your concise interview questions, as well as allowing your guest to fully respond. You set the high bar for UA-cam/podcast content!
It’s not just about men losing something (or everything) in their 50s or 60s. It’s the monumental task of starting over and rebuilding in a society that’s not particularly suited to men in their 50s and 60s starting over.
It’s the destruction of their identity and the judgement of others. It’s about finding the will and the energy to do it all over again with a tired mind and worn out body that can’t do what they did in their 20s and 30s.
It’s about justifying why it’s worth it to rebuild if by the time you get there, if you can get there, you’re bumping up against your 70s or 80s in a best case scenario.
Best episode of all, by far
I'll be 70 this year and have been retired for the pas five, so I do have some life experience. Contrary to Scott's advice, I did "follow my passion" and I did follow love, not always with a great success, but it paid off. Money was never my goal, enjoying what I do, was. I worked for over 40 years in the entertainment business (Behind the scene). I had some terrible years of professional struggle, and I lost a wife of 25 years to cancer, so it wasn't all fun and roses, but I came out financially secure, I found a new love and I'm having the time of my life... Always follow you gut...
Not the best advice not the worst advice. Anecdotal at best, but it is what it is.
@@henrytep8884 Every experience is "anecdotal", no two experiences are alike. Sure, you can find some common thread, but mostly people have different upbringing, different approach to experiences, and different ways of being effected by them.
@@ziv2liv yes everything is anecdotal until you bump it up against numbers and statistics. Then it doesn’t become anecdotal
@@henrytep8884 And I assume you have those that contradict my post? For years it was belief that getting an academic degree, would provide you a higher income. The country is full of Baristas with BA & MA degrees. Meantime Plumbers, electricians and other vocational grads are killing it...
@@ziv2liv you do realize the numbers are still towards people with degree making more money than people without degrees right? Yeah those numbers exist, are one of the most explored metrics, measured both by the government and private company that shows people with a degree will outpace those without even after accounting for the student debt. You’re talking about a subset of the non degree professionals, but in no way shape or form does it change the overall statistical likelihood of degree versus non degree earning over a lifetime in a significant way. But yes that’s why we measure outcomes through research and study, and the numbers are still clear even for your profession, those numbers exist. BLS.
Excellent, intriguing, beneficiary conversation. Thank U.
I saw another video from this channel before this, i gotta say that in this one you look so depressed, which is both funny and fitting for interviewing someone about happiness. It helps the viewer. This was great.
Great watch, I agree with everything Dr. Brooks was saying except the Religion part. It's very depressing to live your life knowing your going to be judged at the end of it, and it's liberating to let go of these stone aged beliefs written by an ancient man who couldn't make sense of the world. It's hard to forgive your self for any life mistake you make, if you feel there is a deity judging your mistakes.
You’re missing the point of transcendent. Do you believe that you should be a better version of yourself tomorrow than you are today? That’s transcendence. Do you believe that life is good, beautiful and true? That’s transcendence. Do you want to live in a way that embodies these things? That’s all it means to be religious. You don’t need a body of dogmatic belief that says the meaning of life is, rather live a life where the meaning in life is defined by you and oriented towards the good, true and beautiful.
Bit if you want to live in hedonic, and nihilism that’s also your choice, just don’t hurt anyone in the process or pay the consequences. At least that’s first principles of a liberal society.
Yes. I let go of the concept of a judgemental God some time ago. This isn't to say that I don't believe in some form of energy that comprises the effect of the experience of a god or higher power.
@@henrytep8884Great points. Our culture - specifically our American one - pushes us in the direction of consumerism and that acquisition equals happiness.
Heaven and hell are within you. You judge yourself. Then move on, and focus on how you address the other.
Valuable advice about philosophy! Stoicism and Objectivism can focus you on the need to apply rationality Put another wan, as Spinoza observed, "He alone is free who lives with Free-Consent under the entire guidance of Reason".
I think happiness is blinders. If you can tune out all the negative information and keep focused on the positive, then you might find happiness.
Thanks Prof. G. you have motivated me to have a plan with your intelligent insights and pragmatic sense of self-mastery!
I think this is a great talk. Thank you!!!
I disagree with mother nature not caring about happiness.
Mother nature rewards happiness, and punishes unhappiness.
Lots of great discussion and concepts. I know it doesn’t fit well in this structure but I would love to see cited sources for many of the statements of facts. It’s hard to know which are opinions versus statistically probable.
Very insightful guest! Faith and physical exercise are so important for a happy life!
great show! saved to watch again
Thank you!
Great discussion,this was awesome Mr. Galloway!
This was not a conversation. This was a high-speed lecture with a few interruptions
Incredible show, as always
What a great conversation. Thank you
Thank you Scott!
That was incredible (and SO useful) Information, Great talk!!!
Really appreciate you - KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!!! 😍
Dog rescue work is a great religion alternative!
Edibles are great! THC helps expand consciousness which is a good thing.
It's difficult to argue with a man as well-versed as Dr. Brooks. Really, there are a multitude of people like Brooks doing fine work at Universities as well as government, and we would be wise to listen to authority rather than the stuff that know-nothings make up on podcasts.
real wave of unhappiness is only about to hit , when AI starts replacing people that have spend decade or even decades on honing their craft , worst even if they actually love their job , its gonna get really ugly unless theres some kind of world wide UBI system
Great advice
Great talk
"Money doesn't make you happy. Money doesn't give you joy. It makes it so close that you don't know the difference." - Kountry Wayne
This is an entertaining comment section
Internet porn and a twelve pack of beer is totally me. I'm about a year younger than Prof G. I think getting off the gold standard destroyed everything. It certainly destroyed the fine art world.
Sort of the same here but trying to understand my sexuality now. However, I find myself drawn more and more to wanting to love someone and give of myself. Was super selfish and self focused for many years that helped to destroy a marriage.
Ok PSG I love this content man. This guy dropping 💎. I have to look him up more .
Organized religion is one of the single worst things that has ever happened to humanity. Fictional stories that require a doorman to access their God has no place in our happiness.
Thanks for this Scott. Stay black ✊
Talk as fast as possible. Jam as much information into a short period of time as you can. String as many cliches together as you can. Ah, happiness...
I almost forgot. Be obsessive compulsive with ideas. Live completely above your neck.
9: No, that is not how humans naturally live and think, being embedded in the tribe plays a vastly bigger role.
My 2 fav bold guys.
2:17. I blame political pundits as well as politicians. "Are you angry? Well you should be!" "If you're not angry then you're not paying attention!" I try not to watch cable news networks because it's politics 24/7 and the pundits are trying to make the viewers mad.
Mate, I'm a 56 yr old bloke aAustralian. I love your stuff, I get what this bloke is about. But Holy fuck hes about himself.I'm glad he's not teaching too many souls. As a good "Strayan" get over yaself . Happiness is love
Just don't say anything else.
Being antifragile is never be exposed of losing something you care. E.g. Anthony Bourdain is such a loser: applying a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
so..... assuming you're NOT addicted to it.... WHY is porn BAD for the BRAIN??? What is the evidence for that?
They look like twins
34:30 The wife needs additional partner(s) for when that husband is on the road.
True neurobabble is still neurobabble for all that. What help to his audience does citing the relevant neurotransmitters/hormones do? If forging a meaningful 'metaphysical' relationship with your partner is what leads to long term happiness, then give further concrete interventions that contribute to that. Don't just cite oxytocin.
22: No, humans do not naturally live in pairs, humans naturally have multiple concurrent partners, not having such is devastating for happiness, especially for women.
I hate content like this! Do I really want somebody that’s been fed a silver spoon there whole life tell me what happiness is? Real happiness comes from accomplishment of dreams and lots of psychedelics. It’s hard to be depressed when ya have 5ht2a receptor psyches. I even watched a guy dieing of cancer find peace and love happiness and understanding.
A lot of neuroscience he gave is not that spot on…. “Norepinephrine giving you euphoria” uhhhh…… ask AI if this one is correct….
GREAT CONTENT..Do you know Bitcoin is on its way to breaking records, getting closer to hitting new high prices, showing that it's gaining more value and could go even higher than we've seen before. This could mean great things for people looking to invest, suggesting now might be a good time to get involved before it jumps even higher. It's an exciting moment that could change the game in general...managed to grow a nest egg of around 1.2Biitcoin to a decent 6.4Biitcoin. At the heart of this evolution is indeko Glenn, whose deep understanding of both cryptocurrency and traditional trading has been instrumental. Her holistic approach to investment and commitment to staying abreast of market trends make her an invaluable ally in navigating this new era in cryptocurrency investment....
Bitcoin is moving crazy these few days but if you are smart then you should know the best thing to do is exchange especially with the right guidance.
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Find her online with her name.
Okay I will google her, thank you
I have seen so many recommendations about indeko glenn, her strategy must be good for people to talk about her…
Well folks haven’t figured out the power of psychedelics yet obviously
36:30: Keep. Adding. Partners.