I just decided to put myself out there and download Bumble to try and meet some girls. Your video made me laugh so much. You seem like a great person and I hope you are making it through your life challenges in the times.
Yeah being friends with females is a lot different than dudes... I’m glad you decided to push yourself out of your comfort zone! Hopefully you have the courage to actually message them (unlike myself) lol
Making friends is hard, no doubt, but sometimes it's easier than you think. Sometimes it's more about accepting friendship being offered than finding friendship. I mean, you're on UA-cam with a bunch of subscribers and you're probably subscribed to a bunch of channels, so why not reach out to those people? It's the scariest, but most necessary part when building connections is putting yourself in vulnerable positions
Yeah I do think that is true, but also I feel like in the past I have been in friendships out of convenience and ones being offered to me and they haven’t been the healthiest... I think that you also need to have enough self worth to not let toxic people walk all over you , but at the same time is it better to experience toxic friendships or no friendships at all? And, yes being vulnerable for most people can be difficult for sure, and I definitely struggle with that... In regard to reaching out to other UA-camrs I can try because I really don’t have anything to lose 🤷♀️
@@JessWyse I see this and I want to reply to it, but I am not sure how without rambling for 1000 words. I think most people are decent people; most relationships are somewhere between toxic and empty and the law of averages mean you're going to find people that will prioritize you above other friends. And I think that's what we all want. Any relationship we engage in we're doing so because we get something out of it and I think that's just the imperfection of human nature; it's when we're not willing to reciprocate that becomes the problem. I guess for me it just seems like there are a lot of lonely people in the world , so why not be friends with each other?
Yeah that is definitely true. We all definitely want to have some sort of relationship with others, whether it be platonic or romantic. I think I simply don’t see as much good in people as I should due to some of my past experiences. I am thankful for these experiences because they helped me grow, however I feel like they also held me back from making as much of an effort with others. And, friendship is a two-way street, so how can I expect others to put in effort, when I don’t put in effort? I can’t expect that of anyone. My trouble really just stems from how I’ve interpreted my experiences and how I’ve let them condition me into having an avoidant attachment style. I don’t let people get too close because I expect them to leave. And since I expect them to leave, they do (since I push them away before they can leave). By pushing them away, I hurt them while using this coping mechanism to “protect myself” when it really just hurts me too... then it gets to a point where I don’t want to try to develop friendships or relationships with anyone, because I know that I will just push them away and leave us both hurt... (Sorry about the tangent... I should be saving this for therapy 😅)
@@JessWyse Well, you might not be wrong about people, but life involves risk. Ii think if you can post what you posted on a public forum, which this is, then that's pretty brave. I find change is best in increments and I am sure you can think of small things you choose not to do that you could try doing to connect with people more. In the past, I would say hello to people that worked in the same building as me but a different department. It's a small act, but it was out of character for me at the time and that's what mattered. Most importantly you shouldn't feel like you're failing, just refining your approach.
Neither I’m from New Jersey... if I was from NYC I would have anxiety from all the people and if I was from Australia the kangaroos would get me (yes I have an irrational fear of kangaroos 😅)
Your lovely and you are doing it on UA-cam keep smiling keep on trucking don't live in the future anxiety and don't live in the past depression, you are beautiful don't beat yourself up love you stay safe and take care xxxx
I think you brilliant I have suffered with anxiety for a long time it's nice see you sharing your stuff, with faith your message will get out there!!! Don't forget you are beautiful xxx in every single way xxx
Hey, i just wanted to tell you that Jesus died for you on the cross and came back in three days after his death. He loves you very much and is coming back soon (:
I just decided to put myself out there and download Bumble to try and meet some girls. Your video made me laugh so much. You seem like a great person and I hope you are making it through your life challenges in the times.
Thank you! And yes I’m trying to hold myself together during these times. I wish you luck on your Bumble endeavors :)
I downloaded it because I have a hard time with making friends with women. I'm kind of afriad of them lol I'm trying to get out of my shell
Yeah being friends with females is a lot different than dudes... I’m glad you decided to push yourself out of your comfort zone! Hopefully you have the courage to actually message them (unlike myself) lol
@@JessWyse I realized quickly that I would have to do the heavy lifting. Nobody has kept up the conversation so far. I got one snapchat 🤷
Damn you are so underrated, keep it up!!
Thank you so much:)
Wowwwww you are sooo funny - love your content :-D you deserve much more subscribers :)
Thank you so much ! I try to be funny so I’m glad I’m not the only one amused by my jokes 😅
@@JessWyse 😂. Keep up the great content! Much love from the UK :)
Making friends is hard, no doubt, but sometimes it's easier than you think. Sometimes it's more about accepting friendship being offered than finding friendship. I mean, you're on UA-cam with a bunch of subscribers and you're probably subscribed to a bunch of channels, so why not reach out to those people? It's the scariest, but most necessary part when building connections is putting yourself in vulnerable positions
Yeah I do think that is true, but also I feel like in the past I have been in friendships out of convenience and ones being offered to me and they haven’t been the healthiest... I think that you also need to have enough self worth to not let toxic people walk all over you , but at the same time is it better to experience toxic friendships or no friendships at all? And, yes being vulnerable for most people can be difficult for sure, and I definitely struggle with that... In regard to reaching out to other UA-camrs I can try because I really don’t have anything to lose 🤷♀️
@@JessWyse I see this and I want to reply to it, but I am not sure how without rambling for 1000 words. I think most people are decent people; most relationships are somewhere between toxic and empty and the law of averages mean you're going to find people that will prioritize you above other friends. And I think that's what we all want.
Any relationship we engage in we're doing so because we get something out of it and I think that's just the imperfection of human nature; it's when we're not willing to reciprocate that becomes the problem. I guess for me it just seems like there are a lot of lonely people in the world , so why not be friends with each other?
Yeah that is definitely true. We all definitely want to have some sort of relationship with others, whether it be platonic or romantic. I think I simply don’t see as much good in people as I should due to some of my past experiences. I am thankful for these experiences because they helped me grow, however I feel like they also held me back from making as much of an effort with others. And, friendship is a two-way street, so how can I expect others to put in effort, when I don’t put in effort? I can’t expect that of anyone.
My trouble really just stems from how I’ve interpreted my experiences and how I’ve let them condition me into having an avoidant attachment style. I don’t let people get too close because I expect them to leave. And since I expect them to leave, they do (since I push them away before they can leave). By pushing them away, I hurt them while using this coping mechanism to “protect myself” when it really just hurts me too... then it gets to a point where I don’t want to try to develop friendships or relationships with anyone, because I know that I will just push them away and leave us both hurt...
(Sorry about the tangent... I should be saving this for therapy 😅)
@@JessWyse Well, you might not be wrong about people, but life involves risk. Ii think if you can post what you posted on a public forum, which this is, then that's pretty brave. I find change is best in increments and I am sure you can think of small things you choose not to do that you could try doing to connect with people more. In the past, I would say hello to people that worked in the same building as me but a different department. It's a small act, but it was out of character for me at the time and that's what mattered. Most importantly you shouldn't feel like you're failing, just refining your approach.
Why ur bedroom feels like ur in a hospital
Maybe it is 😂
I clicked (cliqued) because of the hoodie ||-// ;) 😂
YES! My hoodie and the clique are iconic 😅
I’m trying this app out hoping it works out I have no friends and would be nice to be more social but I also get anxiety or very shy/introverted
Honestly I’m the same way and it’s difficult to make friends and overcome that anxiety… hopefully it works out for you 😊
Hahah about to try the app
Btw I would totally be your friend you’re funny
Good luck with the app! And thank you I really do try to amuse the masses 😅
Where are you from? Nyc or Australia?
Neither I’m from New Jersey... if I was from NYC I would have anxiety from all the people and if I was from Australia the kangaroos would get me (yes I have an irrational fear of kangaroos 😅)
I might try app,I need new friends
Honestly it doesn’t hurt to try:)
you are so fuckin funny i’m shocked that you aren’t even at 1k yet omg
Thank you! I’m glad you think so :)
I’m being isolated too😂 Can you post a new reaction video to hypnosis?
I’m glad you enjoy the hypnosis videos and I’m considering posting one more...
Please love GOD 😇🙏👼
Don't live in the future that should stop your anxiety thanks for the vlog xxx
Yeah I definitely need to live more in the present, so thank you for your friendly reminder:)
Your lovely and you are doing it on UA-cam keep smiling keep on trucking don't live in the future anxiety and don't live in the past depression, you are beautiful don't beat yourself up love you stay safe and take care xxxx
@@joshinawoods-mubmub2600 Thanks again! ☺️
I think you brilliant I have suffered with anxiety for a long time it's nice see you sharing your stuff, with faith your message will get out there!!!
Don't forget you are beautiful xxx in every single way xxx
Malibu’s least wanted
Honestly true though 😅
Hey, i just wanted to tell you that Jesus died for you on the cross and came back in three days after his death. He loves you very much and is coming back soon (:
Dope
She has masculine behavior