I want y’all to remember that THIS is the village that parents are lamenting the disappearance of. These are family members and close family friends that do this stuff.
Its always a family member. This is why I dont only talk to mines about stranger danger bc you can find them in your family circle. I have disowned my mother whole bloodline and I say it to her face.
This is y these parents and family members are getting cut off and called out now, but they’ll get on here acting like the child is so called “grown” for calling out their b.s. These children are not lying on them because majority of these parents know they toxic, will let family member molest them, be envious of their youth, sell them for drugs, don’t teach them hygiene and other life lessons, choose men over their children, keep up drama etc. These children know they are being harmed and are not being done right, so when family members get cut off, they wanna pretend they don’t know why. Have this combative attitude and try to sweep stuff under the rug.
Destiny, thank you for using your platform to raise awareness of the trauma children experience. Gone are the days of sweeping this BS under the rug. We are not our elders. If you had parents who protected you count your blessings.
She said her uncle is 6, 7 years older than her. This is why I truly fuckin' hate when people INFANTILIZE teenagers! Teens need to be charged as ADULTS!
As someone who teaches teens that age I just want to let you know that rehabilitation is the only chance for them to maybe become peaceful members of society again. And of course victim protection needs to be the focus as well.
Some offenses they are charged as adults. This would definitely be a contender. But along with charging the teen, the parents or legal guardians should be charged as well.
Kudos to this young woman for speaking up and out. I wish parents would not be afraid to talk to their children (both boys and girls) about their bodies and teach their kids that no one has any right to your body (no matter who they are) and you have every right to protect yourself.
Good gawd! They call me a helicopter mom and I shall hoover the rest of my child's days. Again, you can't be everywhere... School, I pop tf up. Overnight visits, NO. Playtime fully monitored. My 5-10 year old having an interaction this long without me interrupting is slim to none. My heart was breaking every minute, hoping she'd say an adult checked on them and they got caught. Sending healing and prayers.
I'm sooo sorry she went through so much at such a young age. I really hope she is going to therapy and working on herself, know that she was not at fault for anything that happened to her.
I hate hearing this in a family because you're supposed to be able to trust your family. I'm so glad I didn't have purves for uncles. There were a couple who married into our family, but they were cut off or shunned.
The story/experience she lived through is disgusting, and I hope and pray there will be a time when this no longer happens to any child (boy or girl). Stop stealing children's innocence and childhood. These scars last their whole life.
Unfortunately, there are SICK individuals who've come across children that have developed faster than others and cannot contain themselves. That's my guess as to why she felt the need to mention it.
Maybe it's a trauma response to make it easier for her to tell her story? I'm only a few seconds into the video, but I do it all the time. It's a common thing amongst trauma victims to joke about stuff like this as a coping mechanism. (Edit.) Its not that we don't see how serious it is, most of us do, but it makes it a lot easier to tell our story without bursting into tears and re-traumatizing ourselves if that makes sense
@@Miss_Patron No you misheard she didn't say "I had a bubble butt" she said 'yeah I had a little brother but' Because she was explaining why even though she had a little bro she had no idea what a penis was as she was so young.
That’s sad and I wonder who exposed the uncle to that for him to know all that at 14. I pray she’s doing so much better and seeks true healing. I also hope he is still not around because we know a lot of families love to keep the predators safe.
Why is it that whenever a woman/girl speaks of their trauma someone has to come and show more concern to the men/boys that harmed them? I promise you I wasn’t concerned about where those disgusting boys were exposed to make them act like that. I’m only concerned with those poor unprotected girls. Your black male worship is showing and it’s disgusting. What about all the young girls that are SA’d but don’t go on to cause harm to others? My heart aches for young black girls, this sick community is going to always be more concerned with the predators and abusers than the victims. Please divest and get as far away from this community if you are a black woman that actually loves and respects yourself.
These things happen alot and are swept under the rug. The uncle was also a child and was most likely molested/raped as well. When "nasty games" start it means that either the child was molested or someone near them was and started experimenting on others. Happened in my fam too.
I was eating when I was first starting to watch this not entirely sure of the context but had to turn it off then come back to it later it be able to finish eating because that is so vile. The bit I had watched until had me shaking & feeling so disgusted & angry. Those boys at the time it occurred are disgusting & I hope karma gas gotten them
When my niece and nephew were small children my mother, sisters, and I talked to them about good touch and bad touch. We told them that if anyone touches them inappropriately tell us; so we can beat their ace. I told them I don't care if they threaten you, you better tell us any way. It is important to talk to children and make them aware. 6-4-2024(Tues)
As soon as your babies can talk, teach them that NOONE should touch them and they should NOT touch anyone else. While the uncle and friends ARE sick and degenerate, the problem really started when the little girls DID NOT KNOW that what they were doing is wrong. The predators took advantage of them not knowing what they were doing. I know that we as parents think we can wait for these conversations, but we can’t.
My heart goes out to this beautiful soul of a woman and her sister and her friend at that time😭 May she find healing and never ending support. May justice be served. She will remain in my thoughts and prayers🙏🏿
It sounds like generational trauma. Rape unfortunately gets passed down until someone breaks the cycle. Yes, they were young, but they should do jail time. I do hope that the lady and the other two involved are in therapy.
I’m not going to listen to the video because I don’t want my day ruined. But please stop leaving your kids around teenage boys. There is something that happens to the xys around the age of 10-12 where you need to be wary of them being left alone with other children just in case. That goes for other boys same age. They need to be supervised at all times. At. All. Times!!!! Yes it’s sad you can’t let kids to be kids but we have to face realities. A lot of kids are being exposed to corn.. do not leave any child unsupervised around any xy starting around 10ish I would say. That’s for their protection as much as the other child’s. Children abuse other kids too and it’s better to keep an eye on the children rather than something untoward happen. Boy moms do not @ me either. I said what I said.
I think it's important that she states the Uncle's age, because boys and men of all age do this, and some girls and women do this too. Protect your kids. Don't just leave them with anyone. Don't assume that another person's age, sex, gender, profession, or relationship to you or your child will keep your child safe from them.
To be honest I wouldn’t leave my youngest with my son to avoid things like this never allowed sleep overs for very good reasons there are things I knew at 4 but don’t remember how I knew but have speculations as to whom.
The fact that she is trying to justify and explain is so sad. My cousin r'd me, my sister and my cousin. We didn't even understand. I was the youngest, we didn't understood that it was wrong. Maybe we were too sheltered. I was around 7.
I had some things similar like this happen to me. They manipulated me and made me think it was something that I wanted and made me feel guilty for. If I tell my parents I would think they would blame me because I did it for something I thought I wanted…. It is very hard for me to place was it my fault I let it go on for multiple times and with different men or young boys in my family. I just label myself as the family whore because that’s what they used me for.
I am going to keep saying it until all women start doing it. Report them to the police. You know who did this and you have witnesses that will testify. Press charges. You will not heal unless you report them.
But at the end of the day those boys were violated at some point but by who was it an uncle, aunt, pastor heck the list can go on but someone close vicious cycle.
A 15 years old boy that should have known better, asked six and seven years old girls to performed unspeakable acts on him and his friends. And your response is "she's is a bit too competitive". Please explain your statement that you are coming with logic. Does that mean it is okay for a 15 years old girl could ask your son to perform this act on her and you would be perfectly fine with it if your son has a competitive nature?
I can't lie she is cringy How she is describing things. Than she ends with being competitive. That shii weird af. But on another note males can be really creepy. I've had many experiences but I'll tell you about one. Which is kinda funny. I let this lil boy see my phone and when I got it back somehow I get to my photos. This fool on there making the weirdest faces . Like he was on that type time. I'm like this mf weird af.He ain't touching my phone again. Why me. Lol, I was in my early 20's and he was between 10 n 12. Shaking my head. That's something light compared to other stuff.
I don't see anything cringy about what she is saying. It is a 2 part storytime destiny only uploaded this part. She was a little girl and always wanted to do her best many kids develop a competitive spirit that is what sees people pursue sporting careers etc. I personally think it abominable and egregious that an ab*ser would not only do this but take advantage of that part of her and taint it. It is indescribably traumatic and not to be taken lightly no matter how the delivery of it comes across!
To clarify further it was almost like innuendos. Like a perversion. Most women have distain when they speak about it and she was eerily calm about it. And somewhat expressing discomfort. As an Scorpio I analyze everything. To see what I mean maybe watch it again. But to double down women have been victims from young and sometimes we don’t have voices or confidence to speak up. I commend any woman who stands up for our justice and also find the path of true healing.😔
I want y’all to remember that THIS is the village that parents are lamenting the disappearance of. These are family members and close family friends that do this stuff.
This was brutal. But it's necessary for women like her to speak out.
I agree
Its always a family member. This is why I dont only talk to mines about stranger danger bc you can find them in your family circle. I have disowned my mother whole bloodline and I say it to her face.
This is y these parents and family members are getting cut off and called out now, but they’ll get on here acting like the child is so called “grown” for calling out their b.s. These children are not lying on them because majority of these parents know they toxic, will let family member molest them, be envious of their youth, sell them for drugs, don’t teach them hygiene and other life lessons, choose men over their children, keep up drama etc. These children know they are being harmed and are not being done right, so when family members get cut off, they wanna pretend they don’t know why. Have this combative attitude and try to sweep stuff under the rug.
This brought tears to my eyes. So many innocent little children are so unprotected. This world is WICKED!
Destiny, thank you for using your platform to raise awareness of the trauma children experience. Gone are the days of sweeping this BS under the rug. We are not our elders. If you had parents who protected you count your blessings.
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I hope this young lady gets counseling. This is only one of several horrible things that have happened to her.
Yes. I guarantee it.
The most sad thing is that she is not alone and there are many of us who can relate. I just feel for her so much. Gosh.
She said her uncle is 6, 7 years older than her.
This is why I truly fuckin' hate when people INFANTILIZE teenagers! Teens need to be charged as ADULTS!
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Exactly
Exactly. He knew what he was doing.
As someone who teaches teens that age I just want to let you know that rehabilitation is the only chance for them to maybe become peaceful members of society again. And of course victim protection needs to be the focus as well.
Some offenses they are charged as adults. This would definitely be a contender. But along with charging the teen, the parents or legal guardians should be charged as well.
That is so fucked up. Omg. She so brave for coming out with this. Sick sick sick sick!
People don't understand how insidious grooming is, more stories need to come out even if it's hard.
Absolutely Horrible!!! My prayers go out for the children who went through this! It will probably haunt them forever. I pray they get counseling.
Kudos to this young woman for speaking up and out. I wish parents would not be afraid to talk to their children (both boys and girls) about their bodies and teach their kids that no one has any right to your body (no matter who they are) and you have every right to protect yourself.
Is this the same girl as the mothers not protecting video? Geesh I hope sis is okay and getting counseling
Yes she's the one . I hope she's getting the help she needs 🙏
My prayers are with her, her sister, and that friend. I hope the three of them heal from this trauma.
My heart breaks for her. 😢
Good gawd! They call me a helicopter mom and I shall hoover the rest of my child's days. Again, you can't be everywhere... School, I pop tf up. Overnight visits, NO. Playtime fully monitored. My 5-10 year old having an interaction this long without me interrupting is slim to none.
My heart was breaking every minute, hoping she'd say an adult checked on them and they got caught. Sending healing and prayers.
I am so sorry that happened to her.
This is sick 🤢🤢🤢
I'm sooo sorry she went through so much at such a young age. I really hope she is going to therapy and working on herself, know that she was not at fault for anything that happened to her.
I hate hearing this in a family because you're supposed to be able to trust your family. I'm so glad I didn't have purves for uncles. There were a couple who married into our family, but they were cut off or shunned.
The story/experience she lived through is disgusting, and I hope and pray there will be a time when this no longer happens to any child (boy or girl). Stop stealing children's innocence and childhood. These scars last their whole life.
Unfortunately, there are SICK individuals who've come across children that have developed faster than others and cannot contain themselves. That's my guess as to why she felt the need to mention it.
Maybe it's a trauma response to make it easier for her to tell her story? I'm only a few seconds into the video, but I do it all the time. It's a common thing amongst trauma victims to joke about stuff like this as a coping mechanism. (Edit.) Its not that we don't see how serious it is, most of us do, but it makes it a lot easier to tell our story without bursting into tears and re-traumatizing ourselves if that makes sense
Ok, fair enough. It just felt a little braggy so I wanted to hear other perspectives
@@Miss_Patron No you misheard she didn't say "I had a bubble butt" she said 'yeah I had a little brother but'
Because she was explaining why even though she had a little bro she had no idea what a penis was as she was so young.
@rosiecheeks.k oh doodoo you're right!! She said it so fast and I wasn't looking at the words on screen. It was very hard to even listen to
That’s sad and I wonder who exposed the uncle to that for him to know all that at 14. I pray she’s doing so much better and seeks true healing. I also hope he is still not around because we know a lot of families love to keep the predators safe.
Why is it that whenever a woman/girl speaks of their trauma someone has to come and show more concern to the men/boys that harmed them? I promise you I wasn’t concerned about where those disgusting boys were exposed to make them act like that. I’m only concerned with those poor unprotected girls. Your black male worship is showing and it’s disgusting. What about all the young girls that are SA’d but don’t go on to cause harm to others? My heart aches for young black girls, this sick community is going to always be more concerned with the predators and abusers than the victims. Please divest and get as far away from this community if you are a black woman that actually loves and respects yourself.
porn. period
This is why women choose the bear in the woods over a man. 6-4-2024(Tues)
These things happen alot and are swept under the rug. The uncle was also a child and was most likely molested/raped as well. When "nasty games" start it means that either the child was molested or someone near them was and started experimenting on others. Happened in my fam too.
This makes me so heated . Had to rethink my comment.
Trigger Warning ladies / gents 🚨🚨🚨 Sensitive topic at hand here
Thank you for sharing this. As raw as it was, it needed to be said.
Let’s stop our daughters from also having this story to share.
I've heard a lot of f'd up stories throughout my life, but THIS.........makes my blood boil!
Sorry, I couldn't listen to the whole thing that was doing something to my spirit
Same I stopped halfway through
Yeah, I wish I didn’t see it.
This is happening all too commonly but behind closed doors. Hu man ity ain’t sh:t.
I was eating when I was first starting to watch this not entirely sure of the context but had to turn it off then come back to it later it be able to finish eating because that is so vile. The bit I had watched until had me shaking & feeling so disgusted & angry. Those boys at the time it occurred are disgusting & I hope karma gas gotten them
Looking glamorous as usual Miss Lady.
The weird thing is the parents were violated and don't warn the kids. 🤦🏿♀️
When my niece and nephew were small children my mother, sisters, and I talked to them about good touch and bad touch. We told them that if anyone touches them inappropriately tell us; so we can beat their ace. I told them I don't care if they threaten you, you better tell us any way. It is important to talk to children and make them aware. 6-4-2024(Tues)
As soon as your babies can talk, teach them that NOONE should touch them and they should NOT touch anyone else. While the uncle and friends ARE sick and degenerate, the problem really started when the little girls DID NOT KNOW that what they were doing is wrong. The predators took advantage of them not knowing what they were doing. I know that we as parents think we can wait for these conversations, but we can’t.
My heart goes out to this beautiful soul of a woman and her sister and her friend at that time😭 May she find healing and never ending support. May justice be served. She will remain in my thoughts and prayers🙏🏿
I shuddered in disgust.
It sounds like generational trauma. Rape unfortunately gets passed down until someone breaks the cycle. Yes, they were young, but they should do jail time. I do hope that the lady and the other two involved are in therapy.
I’m not going to listen to the video because I don’t want my day ruined. But please stop leaving your kids around teenage boys.
There is something that happens to the xys around the age of 10-12 where you need to be wary of them being left alone with other children just in case. That goes for other boys same age. They need to be supervised at all times. At. All. Times!!!!
Yes it’s sad you can’t let kids to be kids but we have to face realities. A lot of kids are being exposed to corn.. do not leave any child unsupervised around any xy starting around 10ish I would say. That’s for their protection as much as the other child’s. Children abuse other kids too and it’s better to keep an eye on the children rather than something untoward happen.
Boy moms do not @ me either. I said what I said.
You can’t leave 3 underage children with a 14 year old boy?
no
Because the 14 year old is underaged too. They’re all minors. You don’t leave minors unsupervised.
I think it's important that she states the Uncle's age, because boys and men of all age do this, and some girls and women do this too. Protect your kids. Don't just leave them with anyone. Don't assume that another person's age, sex, gender, profession, or relationship to you or your child will keep your child safe from them.
My question is, is he in jail or not? Is he in jail!
To be honest I wouldn’t leave my youngest with my son to avoid things like this never allowed sleep overs for very good reasons there are things I knew at 4 but don’t remember how I knew but have speculations as to whom.
The fact that she is trying to justify and explain is so sad. My cousin r'd me, my sister and my cousin. We didn't even understand. I was the youngest, we didn't understood that it was wrong. Maybe we were too sheltered. I was around 7.
I lost sleep hearing her stories on her TikTok channel 😪
I have a male cousin who I love dearly and has never harmed anyone. We’re very close and I trust him but not enough to look after my daughter.
It's so sad but good on you for keeping your kids safe ❤️
I had some things similar like this happen to me. They manipulated me and made me think it was something that I wanted and made me feel guilty for. If I tell my parents I would think they would blame me because I did it for something I thought I wanted…. It is very hard for me to place was it my fault I let it go on for multiple times and with different men or young boys in my family. I just label myself as the family whore because that’s what they used me for.
😢😢😢 Please find a therapist. You aren’t a whore, you are a victim. God bless you.
Your hair is pretty
Thank you 🫶🫶🫶🫶
I am going to keep saying it until all women start doing it. Report them to the police. You know who did this and you have witnesses that will testify. Press charges. You will not heal unless you report them.
XY's are dangerous! That's why we choose the bear 🐻
WOW
But at the end of the day those boys were violated at some point but by who was it an uncle, aunt, pastor heck the list can go on but someone close vicious cycle.
My nephew was sa’d by his neighbors kid when he was 5 and the boy was 15
Sorry, didn’t make it past four minutes, I just Can’t 😮💨
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How to protect your kids? simply stop making them!
She's a bit too competitive 😐 and I hear nothing about police 🤷🏾♂️
She was a CHILD. I’m reporting you.
@@LoveK1 They were both kids.
@LoveK1 I'm coming with logic you're coming with emotions .
@@africaisking7817what is it with you red pilled men who believe men are the only ones capable of logic and that men are devoid of emotions?
A 15 years old boy that should have known better, asked six and seven years old girls to performed unspeakable acts on him and his friends. And your response is "she's is a bit too competitive". Please explain your statement that you are coming with logic. Does that mean it is okay for a 15 years old girl could ask your son to perform this act on her and you would be perfectly fine with it if your son has a competitive nature?
I'm sorry but her makeup is distracting because I'm not sure if she has vitiligo
That's what you're concerned about? After everything she said, that's what you're concerned about....
😮 really!
@@notgoodatonlinenames9943 riiiight!!!!🤦🏾♀️
I can't lie she is cringy How she is describing things. Than she ends with being competitive. That shii weird af. But on another note males can be really creepy. I've had many experiences but I'll tell you about one. Which is kinda funny. I let this lil boy see my phone and when I got it back somehow I get to my photos. This fool on there making the weirdest faces . Like he was on that type time. I'm like this mf weird af.He ain't touching my phone again. Why me. Lol, I was in my early 20's and he was between 10 n 12. Shaking my head. That's something light compared to other stuff.
I don't see anything cringy about what she is saying.
It is a 2 part storytime destiny only uploaded this part.
She was a little girl and always wanted to do her best many kids develop a competitive spirit that is what sees people pursue sporting careers etc.
I personally think it abominable and egregious that an ab*ser would not only do this but take advantage of that part of her and taint it. It is indescribably traumatic and not to be taken lightly no matter how the delivery of it comes across!
@@rosiecheeks.k it’s not the acts I was talking about. I was a in similar situations so I know first hand. It was the senses stuff and the ending
@BubzBScorpio Is she cringy, or is what happened to 3 little girls in that room that day (and subsequent days for her) cringy?
@@CallMeErie I have nothing left to say
To clarify further it was almost like innuendos. Like a perversion. Most women have distain when they speak about it and she was eerily calm about it. And somewhat expressing discomfort. As an Scorpio I analyze everything. To see what I mean maybe watch it again. But to double down women have been victims from young and sometimes we don’t have voices or confidence to speak up. I commend any woman who stands up for our justice and also find the path of true healing.😔
Wow.