autism child struggle live with meltdown || communication with limited language

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    information provided in this vedio is based on my personal experience with my autistic son and should not be taken as professional

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  • @harshit4092
    @harshit4092 Місяць тому +20

    Kaun bolta hai ki she's smile all the time,here's the answer to everyone
    It'd so much pain ND difficult to watch his son in so much pain but even she smile and making him to calm down from the situation.....hatts off dear u r the power maa

  • @sairads
    @sairads Місяць тому +6

    Tears rolled down when I saw him cry..what wrong have these children done to suffer this helplessness..hats off to all of the mother's..may God give us all the strength and patience to make every day count..Arnav is lucky to have such good parents

  • @nandininarayan5210
    @nandininarayan5210 Місяць тому +2

    It is so difficult for a parent to handle their big emotions, get them out and make them feel better..hats off to you… I have seen this in my son too.. goes for hours and very difficult to distract them.. watching this video I can learn how much patience and strengthwe should show.. that smile at the last which is what every parent wants comes with lot of struggle with a challenging kid..

  • @MissionUPPSCwithMeenakshi
    @MissionUPPSCwithMeenakshi 16 днів тому +1

    हर हंसते चेहरे के पीछे ढेर सारा दर्द छिपा🎉 होता है पर इक मां कभी हार नही मानती

  • @AromaticRasoi_3341
    @AromaticRasoi_3341 Місяць тому +1

    Bhagwanji aapko sari khushiya de Arnav beta....aap bahot achche karoge aage ❤ Komalji hats off to you❤ God bless your family.

  • @seriesofmylife5799
    @seriesofmylife5799 28 днів тому +1

    Not seen daring mom like you ever...it needs lot of bravery to show your kid's meltdown to the world for helping others how to deal with it❤

  • @kavitatandon2859
    @kavitatandon2859 Місяць тому +2

    Fantastic! GOD Bless You!! Keep Smiling! Positivity is Key!! Keep Up The Great Work!!

  • @drsancharidasvlogs
    @drsancharidasvlogs Місяць тому +1

    God bless you Arnav, aap bohot bahadur bachhe ho, ek din aap bohot happy, successful banoge ❤

  • @phari468
    @phari468 Місяць тому +1

    God cannot be everywhere so he created mother. One day your efforts will make Arnav a brilliant personality. Apki smile lakhon logon ko motivate krti ha. Essae asa hi bnaye rkhna.❤.❤❤

  • @mayankgupta155
    @mayankgupta155 22 дні тому

    You are a great Mother. Wish your son a speedy recovery and blessings from God

  • @manjulayadav7527
    @manjulayadav7527 Місяць тому

    Bhut pyara beta h bhgwan use sari khushiyan dena aankho m aashu aa gye

  • @yamunas5912
    @yamunas5912 Місяць тому

    U r inspiring .. truly.. n Arnav plzzz don’t cry.. I cried with him… my kid also autistic.. can understand.. it’s so painful to see them like that with overwhelming emotions..

  • @manigarg8125
    @manigarg8125 Місяць тому +1

    My heart melts while watching Arnav like this. I would suggest change the topic , not sure if m right..lots of strength to you.

  • @puneetajha2365
    @puneetajha2365 Місяць тому

    Strong parents n brave aarav......u r my inspiration. Life is full of challenges n you r rocking it. Proud of u all❤......lots n lots of strength and happiness to you

  • @user-mt2wn8lh1f
    @user-mt2wn8lh1f Місяць тому +2

    Thanks for sharing information mogar kabhi journey time keise manage karne. Aapki positive attitude motivation milti hai ❤

  • @santhoshs9287
    @santhoshs9287 Місяць тому +1

    Be strong ma'am 😊

  • @nus786
    @nus786 Місяць тому +1

    I can't explain the pain i felt watching this video. God help such kids. I am very sad today

  • @jaswindersinghdhaliwal3927
    @jaswindersinghdhaliwal3927 Місяць тому

    You are very good parents hats off to you

  • @nadia71462abc
    @nadia71462abc Місяць тому +1

    May God bless your family

  • @vidhi10
    @vidhi10 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you mam for sharing this video

  • @vandanasharma1761
    @vandanasharma1761 Місяць тому

    Pyara beta,god bless

  • @Gharkirasoineerajtiwari9910
    @Gharkirasoineerajtiwari9910 Місяць тому +8

    Silent dukh hai jise samjhne wala koi nahi samaj bhi nahi aur ghar wale bhi nahi maa ko hi ladna hai bus 😢

  • @shobhikakashyap1304
    @shobhikakashyap1304 29 днів тому

    These children need love and affection and that's all he need. Always hug him try to understand him. Love is only this thing he need.

  • @shikhapanigrahi6006
    @shikhapanigrahi6006 Місяць тому +1

    😊O Mera Beta God bless you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @aninditacnath3094
    @aninditacnath3094 Місяць тому +1

    Pahle mujhe v lagta tha kiyu hasu. ।lekinmain nahi hasungi then mera beta v nahi hase ga so hSiye komal ji. Bohot bohot good wishes

  • @seriesofmylife5799
    @seriesofmylife5799 28 днів тому

    I could feel each and every word you trying to tell with lots of pain inside 😢

  • @haiyajabeen6738
    @haiyajabeen6738 Місяць тому

    Ma'am arnav ko bhut sara pyar ❤❤

  • @ruchiskitchen5898
    @ruchiskitchen5898 28 днів тому

    God bless you🎉

  • @Rozi565
    @Rozi565 23 дні тому

    God bless you beta

  • @jigyasa6112
    @jigyasa6112 Місяць тому

    I am proud of u didi

  • @monikamirwani6030
    @monikamirwani6030 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @yashaswiniballal9832
    @yashaswiniballal9832 Місяць тому +3

    Hats off to your effort and patience madam..... Even I have a daughter who will sometimes have meltdown like arnav.... She too have limited speech... I know at that point how hard it is to make them relax.... Keep smiling madam... It not only brings a ray of hope but also spreads positivity and strength......

  • @brarv1990
    @brarv1990 6 днів тому

    ❤❤

  • @nilakshisingh8636
    @nilakshisingh8636 28 днів тому

    Arnav beta bhagwaan se yahi prarthana hai ki wo aapko aur aapke mummy, papa ko bahut si khushiyaan aur strength den

  • @pratibhamalhotra4814
    @pratibhamalhotra4814 Місяць тому

    Hi Mam, aapko jisne b aisa bola ki smile mat kia kro hum pareshn wo bht hi negative person hga infact aapki smile b ek motivation h aap haste to prob choti lgne lgti h...isly aap negative comments ko ignore karo n keep smiling n motivating us..jaise ho waise hi raho..❤

  • @NeelamSingh-cx9mn
    @NeelamSingh-cx9mn Місяць тому

    Arnav ko bahut acchi mom mili h👌

  • @jasbirkaur7290
    @jasbirkaur7290 Місяць тому

    Mere daughter be same here very difficult situation ho jati he .

  • @harshilparmar505
    @harshilparmar505 Місяць тому

    Bohat mhuskil hai sab ye Yrrr sach mai

  • @cutiesunshine3868
    @cutiesunshine3868 Місяць тому

    😢😢

  • @anoop9878
    @anoop9878 Місяць тому +2

    my first child is autistic he doesnt speech aapka beta to kafi normal he he is not autistic ❤

  • @yesminkhan713
    @yesminkhan713 Місяць тому

    Salute to all autistic moms

  • @drmamtatyagi4504
    @drmamtatyagi4504 Місяць тому

    Dekh kar aasu nahi ruke bhagwan jaldi sab accha kar do

  • @yangcham9400
    @yangcham9400 Місяць тому

    😢😢😢

  • @arunabajantri
    @arunabajantri 24 дні тому

    Aap bahut bahut accha effort laga rahe ho. Arnav bilkul har bacche ki tarah kisi ko yaad kar raha he. Uska meltdown apne uncle ke jaane ki wajah se ho raha tha. Kya woh ye keh Paya ki usko unki yaad aa rahi hai?

  • @rsms1231
    @rsms1231 Місяць тому

    It was really very difficult to watch him cry and sumtimes self controlling his feelings

  • @swatigarg9912
    @swatigarg9912 Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤❤mujhe bhi rona aa gya arnav ka dekhkar

  • @Shivachivlog
    @Shivachivlog 19 днів тому

    Aapke bache ki age kya h abhi... Or kb se aapne usko bolna start kraya ..kis age me...

  • @simpipaul7996
    @simpipaul7996 Місяць тому

    Mai bhi gana ga k apne bachha ka meltdown sant karti hu

  • @YogitaSinghBais
    @YogitaSinghBais Місяць тому

    Hello komal meltdown kya understanding badhane k baad aati hai

  • @Shivachivlog
    @Shivachivlog 19 днів тому

    Mera beta 4.5 year ka h bahut hi chilata h or rota h.. Bol sb lega pr apne mn se.. Sentence pr nhi h.. Ek word ya do words hi bol pta h.. Plz kuch bataye jisse thek ho jaye... Bahut jyada paresan ho gai h.. 1 year ka ek or baby bhi h....

  • @anitapandit1952
    @anitapandit1952 2 дні тому

    My son is 6.5yr old .. with the same symptoms...

  • @sujaandhakane487
    @sujaandhakane487 Місяць тому

    Aaj Arnav ko aise dekh nahi pa rahi hun..it's hearts 😢

  • @neerajpandey5282
    @neerajpandey5282 Місяць тому

    Aaj mujhe Arnav main apna beta priyum dikha hai .main khud hi ro di

  • @sujaandhakane487
    @sujaandhakane487 Місяць тому

    Veer ke papa jub bhi office jate hai..tab thoda meltdown start hota hai..but use controlling aagayi hai..1 min me normal ho jata hai

  • @shipratiwari7162
    @shipratiwari7162 Місяць тому

    Mam mera beta bhot flapping krta h .... Har cheez ko alag tarah se dekh k fllaping krta h ...kya kru phot preshan hu mai

    • @autismandmusicArnavThakur
      @autismandmusicArnavThakur  Місяць тому

      Agar aap jyada time free chodoge to hand flaping ya stimming behavior bdte jate hai so use engage kijiye

  • @preetitomar4933
    @preetitomar4933 Місяць тому

    Apne arnav ki therapy centre par li ya khud karayi ....agar centre par li to kitne sal li

  • @JituNayak-vm2sh
    @JituNayak-vm2sh Місяць тому

    अंकल जाने वाली बात ट्रिगर कर गई मेल्टडाउन बिहेवियर को 😢(बच्चे के साथ में, रोने से कन्ट्रोल किया हुआ मां ओर पापा का मन भी दिखाई दिया हमे ❤)

    • @JituNayak-vm2sh
      @JituNayak-vm2sh 29 днів тому

      आप के जो डबल दांत है ना उसकी वजह से सबको आप का नेचरली ही अपने आप ही स्माइली चेहरा लगेगा -दिखेगा ☺️

  • @aartikushal1166
    @aartikushal1166 Місяць тому

    Hi ma'am mera beta 5 yr old hai wo bahut zyada shouting karta hai.. Usne shouting ko jaise apni habit bna li hai.. Jb bhi usse kuch pucho toh answer shouting mei karta hai.. Mera ek chota beta hai , uss pr iss shouting ka bahut asar ho rha hai.. Hmne apni trf sei hr tarika use kr liya jo bhi hamari smjh mei tha but kuch frk nhi pda.. Pyar sei punishment sei kosish ki..bt shouting hr din bdti ja rhi hai..public place bahut difficult hota hai hamare liye iss situation ko handle krna..please kuch bta skte hai kya ap ki kya kiya jaye..

    • @autismandmusicArnavThakur
      @autismandmusicArnavThakur  Місяць тому +1

      It can be verbal stimming. Or jab bo attention seeking k liye kr rha hai to koi reaction mat do . Sath me aapko use khali nhi bathne dena hai sensory activities or educational activities kraye

    • @aartikushal1166
      @aartikushal1166 Місяць тому

      Thank you ma'am❤

  • @monikamirwani6030
    @monikamirwani6030 Місяць тому +2

    Kitne saal ka h beta

  • @jyotisharma7492
    @jyotisharma7492 Місяць тому

    Please batayi aap ka beta konsi age main bolna sikha tha..meri sister in law ka beta 4 years ka ho gya kuch nahi bolta hai ..😢

    • @autismandmusicArnavThakur
      @autismandmusicArnavThakur  Місяць тому

      Speech nhi hai ya language nhi hai I mean bo verbal hai ya nonverbal

    • @jyotisharma7492
      @jyotisharma7492 Місяць тому

      Speech nahi hai bas papa bolta hai kabhi bhi husne lagta hai apne kam ki chij he karta hai baki kuch bhi matlab nahi hota hai 😢khana nahi khata hai..uski therapy chal rahi hai

    • @autismandmusicArnavThakur
      @autismandmusicArnavThakur  Місяць тому

      @@jyotisharma7492 arnav ka speech tha 3 years k bad words repeat krna start kiya or 5 years tak phrase speech pe aaya .

  • @queenvictoria2897
    @queenvictoria2897 Місяць тому

    Aapse dobara ek aur sawaal puch rahi hun.lagta hai ki aap hi bata paoge.
    Hamare ghar mein guest aaye the .stay kia.obviously autistic bache ke saath khelne mein normal bacho mein utna patience nahi hota.
    Per jo guest the,I mean bache ki mummy,wo mere bache aur mujh per chilla padi.jhagda ho gaya.
    Kehne lage bache ko tameez nahi sikhayi.hyper to hai hi Mera beta.
    Baat kaafi bigad gayi.
    Ab unke jaane ke baad bhi mera beta wo sab bhool nahin pa raha hai.har waqt us bache aur uski mummy ko yaad karke gusse mein rehta hai.ppore din bolta nahin.poocha to kehta hai ki mujhe un per gussa aa raha hai.
    How to help him??
    Please reply 🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @autismandmusicArnavThakur
      @autismandmusicArnavThakur  Місяць тому

      Relative ho ya koi or hum kisi ko nhi bol skte ki hmare bcche ki problem smje . It's better ki hmare bcche hi khud smje . I mean aapke bcche k liye ye ak lesson bhi to hai ki society me kuch log ache hote hai or kuch Bure bhi . Agar bo smjta hai to aap bol k smja skti hai . Ghar pe ye concept smjao . Like Arnav ko bhi me scold krti hu jab bo guest k sath bad behavior krta hai but unke jane k bad . Phir kuch time me usse bat nhi krti to bo bolta hai mummy ko gussa aaya hai . Thoda time mera silent behavior dekhke bo bar bar muje approach krta hai mummy kam kr rhi hai . So dear logo ko hum control nhi kr skte but apne bccho ko sikha skte hai unko control kr skte hai . Ye lesson se bo khud sikhega . Bar bar usse bat krne ki try kro .

    • @queenvictoria2897
      @queenvictoria2897 Місяць тому

      Thanx for your help
      Bolta to hai.per samajh nahin hai.
      Per phir bhi main koshish karti hu use rokne ki.
      Aur koshish karungi samjhane ki

  • @monikamirwani6030
    @monikamirwani6030 Місяць тому

    Konse school Mai bejte ho app

  • @somyasrivastava2210
    @somyasrivastava2210 Місяць тому

    Mera beta abhi 3.5 yrs ka h... Wo b jb rone lagta h to... Mai jo bolti hu whi repeat krne lgte h.... Abhi wo zyada bolta nhi h... Pr jb mere words repeat krta h to sun k acha lgta h mjhe....

    • @avigatkabir8032
      @avigatkabir8032 Місяць тому

      Apka beta school jaane laga ???? Starts writing or not

  • @aditikashiv7174
    @aditikashiv7174 25 днів тому

    Kitne saal ka h ye arnav..... ????

  • @Shivi7830
    @Shivi7830 22 дні тому

    Mam apke kitne bacche hai

  • @kalyanivenkatesh5335
    @kalyanivenkatesh5335 Місяць тому

    Does he sit in school for 5hrs without any shadow teacher or you.
    Can he do his work in school all by himself

    • @autismandmusicArnavThakur
      @autismandmusicArnavThakur  Місяць тому

      We send him only for half day ...as per cbse relaxation. He need one to one for his academic. So I need enough time for his academic syllabus. That's why we decided half day for him

    • @swetasingh7859
      @swetasingh7859 Місяць тому

      But ma'am how you manage the left out work,as arnav goes school for half day,syllabus is also so much,you get any help from the school?? Please if possible make any separate video your journey ad a shadow teacher and now when you are not going with him..I am also going with my ten year son as a shadow teacher,I have also kept his school half day only. Please share your experience it will be helpful 🙏

    • @autismandmusicArnavThakur
      @autismandmusicArnavThakur  Місяць тому

      @@swetasingh7859 I click school work from other kids books . And then arnav complete all leftover work at home . No special help from school. I only care of his studies . As I am well educated so I can teach him at home ..I will try to make a video

    • @swetasingh7859
      @swetasingh7859 Місяць тому

      Yes..ma'am in my case also school has told that I have to take care of his studies.

  • @priyankachaturvedi2136
    @priyankachaturvedi2136 29 днів тому

    Mam ap aurveda ka tretment kyu nahi letey

    • @autismandmusicArnavThakur
      @autismandmusicArnavThakur  28 днів тому

      Autism is not an disease which we can cure with medicine. I think parents should acquire knowledge to understand this different life . But kuch parents hmesha treatment k piche hi bhagte rhte hai . Or jab different treatment or medicine k bad results shi nhi milte to depression me chle jate hai or time bhi waste hota hai . Spend more and more time with your child so that bccha aapke sath connect kre or khud ki feelings ko express krna sikhe.

    • @priyankachaturvedi2136
      @priyankachaturvedi2136 28 днів тому

      @@autismandmusicArnavThakur . Mam but aurveda sey brain ko kafi help milti hey. Mey esliye apko bol rahi hu. Kyu ke mey try kare hu. Kafi nahi but thodi tho help ho chuke hey . Mey bhe belive nahi karti the. But abhi bacchey chotey hey. Pehley inka mind develop hoga tabhi tho yeh sikhegey. Wesey ap bhe bahut accha sikha rahi hey. But agar sath mey aurveda bhe add karegi tho jaldi theek hoga

  • @karnakarna4490
    @karnakarna4490 25 днів тому

    Try to give him good bacteria tablets , with doctors consultation, to improve his gut . That will increase his neurons in brain .

    • @autismandmusicArnavThakur
      @autismandmusicArnavThakur  25 днів тому

      Using curd as probiotic..also we give him tablet for worms in stomach in every 6 months. Now he has no gut health issues . He is not a picky eater so he eats every nutritional food items. Our pediatrician also advised us to use natural food items instead of supplements or probiotic that are available in market .

  • @queenvictoria2897
    @queenvictoria2897 Місяць тому +1

    Camera per to smile karna hi padta hai
    Komal Mera beta apna rona poore ji jaan se rokta hai ,hamesha.kya karna chahiye
    Kya usko rulaane ki koshish karun?

    • @autismandmusicArnavThakur
      @autismandmusicArnavThakur  Місяць тому

      Anjane me hum kbhi kbhi bccho ko bina problem jane hi scold kr dete hai like arnav early age me jump krta or use chot lag jati to hum dant date the or phir usne chupana start kr diya ki chot lgi hai . So use lgta ki btaunga to dant pdegi . So check this in your case . Also check if he is comfortable to share his feelings with you . Don't take it in wrong way . Hmne ye situation bhut close se dekhi hai arnav me aaj bhi bo father se jyada mujse comfortable hota hai pain share krne me because mere husband khud panic krne lag jate hai jab arnav ko kuch hota hai or arnav ye dekhke dar jata hai . So now his father is also understanding all this and changed himself according to arnav

    • @queenvictoria2897
      @queenvictoria2897 Місяць тому

      @@autismandmusicArnavThakur 🙏🏻

  • @sujaandhakane487
    @sujaandhakane487 Місяць тому

    Arnav ko kabhi school me meltdown hota hai?

  • @rajanipathak7343
    @rajanipathak7343 Місяць тому

    Kitne years ka hai

  • @aninditacnath3094
    @aninditacnath3094 Місяць тому

    Komal ji kaise baccha k dirty n saram ka concept sikhayu?

    • @autismandmusicArnavThakur
      @autismandmusicArnavThakur  Місяць тому

      Ghar se start kro like kuch bhi hand me lge to bar bar hand wash krne bolo . Cloth dirty ho rha hai khud change krne bolo . Bahr se aate ho to khud hand or feet wash krne bolo phir habit ho jati hai .

  • @swathinm1224
    @swathinm1224 Місяць тому

    Hello Komal ji, i want to connect with you. We Wanted to come back to India and want to talk about schooling in India.