Exactly. I have a guy friend who does a little bit of this and all he needed to do was tell me at the beginning of this that he was planning on a very quiet holiday season. I understand words. He does not have to ignore me. I will be better if I hear the simple words. So now that he told me this thing. He will not be getting any texts, comments or updates of any kind.
Ladies trust me you don’t want such a man back when he dicided to give up on you in the first place. Giving him another chance means that he will do it again in the future.
I mirrored him and it was too much and pushed him away. I think women need to show less interest than him because men fall so hard during infatuation. At least with my experiences.
Ladies my man started ignoring me so I ignored him back and now he came back and I said move on stranger as I've found a man who just loves being with me... His lost not mine....
So true! I have the same problems too! My ex husband and my ex boyfriend were those losers. I gave them many chances they never changed. Now I am free and peaceful! I go anywhere I want and no more headaches!
Mee Ruby Vue how u exactly did it ?... i m going thru similar things nd have given him another chance ... he is saying he will improve but i m afraid he wont idk wat maybe love but it just always brings me back to him giving another chance.... I wanna know how u get enough courage to walk in peace without having some sort of other thoughts that maybe another chance would work cuz it again continues the cycle
Yolanda all men test women this way, all do. They test to see if you are high value or low value. So you will next every guy that is over the age of 16 and under the age of 80 or 90. Family may be different, but I see my own father do this.
Alex this works like a charm. I ignored him and he looked so confused! Then he got frustrated and he came to me! I pretended I didn't have the time for him.
I was at a party and he was ignoring me and he sat next to another woman, after awhile I went to the family room, and 10 mins later he went to the family room and he put on my favorite song, I was still ignoring him lol
how long you ignored him ? because I wanna learn how to get him back and not ignore anymore, how can make him be interested and be like the first time.?
You might win the guy's attention after a few days/weeks of ignoring him, but then he'll go back to ignoring you again. The right guy will treat you with respect consistently. Consistently. Consistently. If he doesn't, he's showing you ....1) that he doesn't value you.........2) he's showing you who he is and how he's going to treat you in the future.
Exactly...actually he is showing his true character..No lover will ever ignore you for unaccepitable reasons except that if he is immature and no confidence to continue the relationship.He is not meant for you.
Truth! Dint be afraid to lose him. Set ur mind on ur value and dont allow him to be more important than urself. As soon as you change ur mindset and release that tense energy he will come to you. They are like cats . If you call a cat it turns its back on u. If you ignore a cat it suddenly wants ur attention. Never approach a cat. Always let it come to you and reward it with love and affection. They will keep coming back for more.
This is why most people have been blocked and/or deleted from my phone. I don't want to put energy and time into things and people that don't have time for me. Thanks for sharing. Have a blessed day.
I am literally in this situation. And am trying all my best not to think about him😩 Right now I have a feeling that he is with another women. The wort feeling ever...I need that strength right now
I know how u feeling me and my son's daddy's been off and on for 20 years he started F...the girl who live next store when i went to work she was coming in and he cook breakfast for her and the be in bed together til right before i and her old man got off work now 7 months later i guess they got in a fight so he. Came to my job wanted to talk like a fool w i went with him got back together and 3 weeks later he's doing the same thing
Omg. I just sent yesterday an email braking up with him as he has been talking about future but in the same time he keeps hot and cold or has taken me for granted, I don't know. I'm struggling to move on getting relief on my own tears. I couldn't even study in the last weeks as I can't focuse but after reading all the comments and know that I'm not the only one broken heart, I feel much better. Blessings for our hearts 😖 Thank you for your advice 😁
So if the woman starts ignoring the man, he may use Alex's technique also and ignore her, thinking she'll come to him. So now they are both ignoring each other.
A man that did that to me was not interested in me he found someone else but i didn't know until i found him with someone else holding hands and seemly happy.. My opinion he's not interested someone easier came along but I don't care anymore because she will be in my shoes one day i don't blame myself
If someone takes you for granted they’re not sincere and they don’t value you. That’s not a person to invest your time and energy in. It’s also not someone worth trying to impress.
Alex, implementing your advice 'never doing the first step when he's ignoring me'.... God! Your advices are soo true! Thanks a lot Alex....Your suggestions are helping me alot... 😄
Untill he decides to contact you, here comes a true guy and show you attention, intention and pretection! And you are always going to remember how he ignored you because it was the last part of your relationship! So be careful when you play “the game” of ignorance!
@0:34 I was suffering but YOUR FRENCH ACCENT MAKES EVERYTHING BETTER!!!!! I SWEAR!!!!! I AM SWOONING!!! LOL HE IS SO FAR REMOVED FROM MY MIND AS SOON AS I HIT PLAY ON ONE OF UR VIDEOS! LOL THANKS SO MUCH FOR BEING THE SOURCE OF HEALING THAT U ARE🥰💯
Alex please make a video on how or when to appreciate men, because the more I learn to have my own life, my own solutions, love myself, support myself then people's company in general becomes a bit of a drag and I have a hard time seeing their value because no one really adds to my life
Thank you. You just slapped me with reality. I recently lost my boyfriend in February. We had a common friend, that I hooked up with, even though I was going to change myself, this time. However, this man is very particular and I was flattered that he liked me for more than just friends. So I gave in. You have made me aware, that I am only a booty call AND being taking advantage of. Uggh! Is there a rock I can crawl under? I want more, for ME, this time.
Relationships are way to complicated to begin with. My relationship ended on a terrible note. He just wanted a temporary escape then left for the women he actually wanted. I had to cut him loose or he cut me off. Unfortunately wasted time and draining energy. It was back and forth misery. Never again will I let someone hurt me. No value and no respect for himself and myself. I became emotionally damaged after years of trying. Sometimes I wish I could move on. I had to struggle with this for over a year. I was used then he disappeared. His loss.
Guys..they never understand what we go through..first they want someone to live them...when we do, they run away ripping us apart into broken pieces for us to gather them, damaging ourselves emotionally, mentally, and leave us to just die😭😭😭
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert hei Alex,please help me out! He was the one usually who used to view my statuses ..(we haven't blocked each other on WhatsApp)I was in no contact for 11-12 days ,but one day after getting so many calls and texts continuously throughout,I just replied to him with two emojis...from that day he is not at all messaging me, calling me or viewing my statuses(don't know whether he's doing it secretly)..what should I do?please help me out.. We are in ldr!
No its not i dont care because you love that person..maybe nothing to do only to step back right?and he return to you if it is yours..God bless everyone.
Mr Alex you spoke the truth! That's the exact thing that happened to my relationship and at the end it ended up humiliating for me. He will come back and then leave again and again because I showed him too much love but no more. He's also emotionally unstable he doesn't know what he wants. I didn't know ghosting existed. I don't need games in my life. I still love him though but this was the most painful experience of my lifetime. I will never speak to him again! Merci beaucoup Mr Alex pour tes conseils. Que dieu te bénisse.
Julienne, Keep up the good work of not contacting him and do Not allow him to get back with you. If you do, this hot/cold and push/pull thing with him will never end. When a really good guy find you, he will not want to play these games.
He was giving me attention from the beginning of the relationship and he suddenly changed, been a month n I’ve been asking him why he has changed almost everyday n he doesn’t give me a reply, I think I finally found my answer, Tnx
When a man ignores a woman then he has issues...He's spoiled..He's self centered..That's harsh...and arrogant...It hurts to be ignored...it causes problems...If I ignore the man I'm dating it means I am moving on..
You about to get yourself gone when you start ignoring me, life is too damn short to play games.....men that do this are childish, you have an issue ....tell me....just like a man, I'm not a mind reader....in the time a man ignores someone he claims to love....what if she died? He could have used that time to spend with her and love her but he chose to play games.....my motto is...come straight or go one side....all the way on your side with your games.....same goes for women too, life is too short and too beautiful to waste it🙌
How can I show that my life is amazing... Without him even I can't keep myself happy or even I lost my smile .. when I hear is name my eyes will fill with tears and I'm suffering from kind of depression I lost myself..
AMBALLA. READ WHAT I SAY - YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPEY. EVERYBODY IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR OWN HAPPINESS. Do Not get back with him. Find other guys who want you. If you get back with this one, the patter is already set for more hot/cold and push/pull thing with him will never end. When a really good guy find you, he will not want to play these games.
Honestly this is happening to me right now...maybe because i gave him too much love .. now he's taking me for granted ..he's now dating someone else without considering what would i feel...and it hurts a lot...
Since one year I have been chasing him but he kept breaking my heart.he did a lot of bad things to me.he took me for granted.but here I am after all the pain I learned not to show any care even though deep inside I do care alot.i can’t even count how many times I went no contact and breaking up.but finally I stopped replying any of his msgs.now it’s his turn to Make effort or m gonna leave forever..I will not die for him👍🏻he doesn’t deserve if he have nerves to leave me in pain🥰all those lies and hurtfull words makes me sick.right now I feel like I don’t feel bad from loosing him but I feel angry at myself how the hell I was tolerating all the shit..I wish you all goodluck..stop chasing them..I mean like totally dissapear👍🏻then you will see the magic
Taking you for granted..amen. Knew that but good to hear it out loud. Well the tables have turned. Now I’m ignoring him. We will see how this goes. Btw: my guy is French lol!
Dear Alex, hello from Wisconsin. Thank you for the book. As I am reading, tears began to fall and I could see myself in Anna. I was dating a truck driver and as you well know, things just because a drain on me. I appreciate your wisdom and will begin to practice setting boundaries, raising my standards by not calling him anymore. I'm on page 25. Wow! What an eye opener. Thank you so very much. Sincerely, Cynthia
This issue, Alex, is that this is making me feel so resentful and angry, that he knows he's taking me for granted and has those beliefs that I'll always be there etc. I want a man more evolved than that... Wow, I'm SO angry that now I just want to block my ex, because I've reached out too many times now. I want to be done with it!!
after i'm watching your video , slowly i can move on ,, now is already a month he haven't call me back but i feel its ok if he doesn't want me anymore because i just want to be happy person ,, i'll show him that i could stand without him
I think one should be authentic/real. There is no games in love. Love is respect and attention. But I think Most men or women are afraid being rejected. I love is also taking risk to be vulnurable. Most people want love, in the bottom of their heart real love Butter at the same time they are Afrika of losing the love they want. It's crazy...if you showed interest to him firstly and then he ignors you, even though you knew he likes you. Then ignor him, too. And keep going. If a man is real he will take the next step. And be proud of yourself not to be a coward. Life is beautiful do not waste your precious time!
@@hopewilson5359 yes we do, most men are not to blame that you choose that whom hurts you, neither men can blame they select women whom prey on them...
I never considered that he's ignoring me. I know he's a very busy man, and I'm just as busy. I don't need to be in touch every day, and don't expect an immediately reply to text. He knows my life is amazing, and I know he's in love with me. Sometimes he just needs his time and space and I'm good with that because I need it too. That being said, I decided to dial back initiating contact because I'm extremely busy right now. And also, that's giving him the space he needs to miss me, wonder, and reach out.
Mr. Alex..i relate your vedio ..i felt now he's taking me for granted..what I did is that I let him do the first step..he call me and message me first..thank you for your advice..love it
We didn't talk for 7 months it was very new so it wasn't a relationship. When I reached out after 7 months of no contact then he replied and then again same ..so am letting him go !
Yes coach.. i am undergoing this situation. He often ignores my messages.. left unread and i hate it. Worst when i broke up with him 3 mnths ago because i found him on social media dating with another girl.
Sir you are true.All the time he ignores me whenever he needs me he will contact after that no contact. he knows that I am always available for him.so today onwards I will keep distant with him.i told him if you don't want me leave me I will go you must tell first but no answer.
Desi laug itnay jazbaati kyun hotay hain? If someone has imprisoned you, are you going to wait for them to be the first to say that you should go? Or are going to do your best to be the first one to leave? Naturally, you will try to leave first because you value your life instead of waiting for the other person to let you go. Point is........you should be the one to ignore him first if you see that he doesn't care about you. You should prioritize your life, your sanity, your emotional and mental well-being over his behavior. Khud ko pehlay rakho.
your explanation about being taken for granted must be right because this guy keeps coming and going I’m surrending to the situation and focusing in myself again... won’t be texting him first anymore plus taking a little break posting on IG I’m reading your free ebook thank you Alex
My man of two years has not answered my message I sent him 5 weeks. I gone a head and send him another message today before I saw your message I will just block him.
So many women celebrate the day they met the man, the first date, the first kiss, every kind of anniversary they can imagine. Why? Most men don't care about those things. Why should he mean so much to you? I've learned if he ignores me he doesn't care about me , that's okay, he means no more to me than I do to him. I just work myself out of his life. Once he's gone he's gone for good. Can they come back into my life? NO!
Hello Alex , thank you for this video. It was very insightful. I was talking to this guy I liked for a while now, it was nice at the beginning, but then he became cold towards me, then he just disappeared one day out of the blue. But now I understand why .
I have learned something. Actually my man ignores me. I always text him but he don't reply my texts. Thank you so much. I'll keep a distance from now onwards.
Thank you for that information now I know I'm doing the right way by him knowing I stopped his mail from coming from 2 the house cuz I filed divorce when he called and said on the voicemail I was only calling to see if I had any mail and then said oh well you probably sent it back well I never respond it so I'll show him what he's taken for granted cuz all he's got coming as a divorce
Alex grateful for all ur valuable advise.It’s so comforting to hear from u when we are so vulnerable n loss. U have indeed wake us up n make us do the right way. U speak with conviction too. Hope u can create a session for guys on how to understand a women. U are a legend to all the women. Singapore
Yea, I totally agree with you. In my case, he said some harsh statements to me that made me feel very bad and I told him I wasnt6going to contact him anymore. For 3 months I never call ND he didn't. I woke up 6 days back to see his missed call 2am. I became worried if all was well. After two days I texted ND he didn't respond. The 2nd night I call by not going tru by he later replied he didn't hear d phone ring by he'll be home in 20mins time ND it was 12midnight. He stays in UK ND I'm in Nigeria. I never cals back.
Every single comment below says, “Drop him. Why are you putting up with him? Ignore him.” Why are you watching this video if you have all the answers? It’s because this is either happening to you now or has happened and you want to know what to do. So, get off your self righteous soapbox and listen to what he’s saying. He has great advice. Take it and say thank you.
When somebody ignores you ignore him back you will be free and have peace
For Sir my twin sister you can say it again😝😝
Well I already messed up (made the first move) & more or less got rejected 😬
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Exactly. I have a guy friend who does a little bit of this and all he needed to do was tell me at the beginning of this that he was planning on a very quiet holiday season. I understand words. He does not have to ignore me. I will be better if I hear the simple words. So now that he told me this thing. He will not be getting any texts, comments or updates of any kind.
TQ sir Alex
Ladies trust me you don’t want such a man back when he dicided to give up on you in the first place. Giving him another chance means that he will do it again in the future.
With man you have to play a game. Other ways he will play a game. It's sad that there like that.
Exactly facts thank you
Fact
YES I don't want that crap. I am not someone who needs or wants crumbs. I can make my own bread.
True
If he ignores me , he is the one who is going to lose.💖
That's a game we will never lose.
That’s right
True
So true
Needing nothing attracts everything 💯
No expectations- no suffering 💯✔️
Mirror him . Walk away 👍😜
Yes 🙌
I mirrored him and it was too much and pushed him away.
I think women need to show less interest than him because men fall so hard during infatuation. At least with my experiences.
Ladies my man started ignoring me so I ignored him back and now he came back and I said move on stranger as I've found a man who just loves being with me... His lost not mine....
Lisa le fleur 💖
❤
Bcs u hert his ego.
Did the next guy do the same?
Am married for 7 years and it is just like we meet.he has never changed. He cares more each years goes by.😊
Nima hassen allah sabko asa husbnd de ameen
Awesome
How beautiful!!!
Stay blessed.. Love him more for he is good man.
You are lucky...
This is a child's behavior not a man's behavior.
Men lose interest in what is too easy. They want adventure, not sameness.
Sometimes it takes us being mistreated For us to realize how we treat others.. 'Be distant' is the right thing to do..
Sometimes people fell in love with psychopaths with problems!
Truth !
I ignored him once and he promised to change, he actually improved for a while but later on went back to being the same
So true! I have the same problems too! My ex husband and my ex boyfriend were those losers. I gave them many chances they never changed. Now I am free and peaceful! I go anywhere I want and no more headaches!
Mee Ruby Vue how u exactly did it ?... i m going thru similar things nd have given him another chance ... he is saying he will improve but i m afraid he wont idk wat maybe love but it just always brings me back to him giving another chance.... I wanna know how u get enough courage to walk in peace without having some sort of other thoughts that maybe another chance would work cuz it again continues the cycle
Sounds familiar, like my ex.
i feel you. and it hurts a lot.
If a man ignores a woman. She should say next. More fishes in the sea..who cares, Whatever!
He's gay
Yolanda all men test women this way, all do. They test to see if you are high value or low value. So you will next every guy that is over the age of 16 and under the age of 80 or 90. Family may be different, but I see my own father do this.
If he ignores me ,i ll do the same and continue with my life..There is no turning back...
I just love this concept of no contact. It just works so well in a relationship.
Alex this works like a charm. I ignored him and he looked so confused! Then he got frustrated and he came to me! I pretended I didn't have the time for him.
Same here i did it and he was like afraid to lose me even we still getting to know each other . So thank you coach Alex
I was at a party and he was ignoring me and he sat next to another woman, after awhile I went to the family room, and 10 mins later he went to the family room and he put on my favorite song, I was still ignoring him lol
Simi 615 what if he never contacts even after no contact for 9 mths.
N J Then theres your answer!
NO answer IS your answer!!
how long you ignored him ? because I wanna learn how to get him back and not ignore anymore, how can make him be interested and be like the first time.?
You might win the guy's attention after a few days/weeks of ignoring him, but then he'll go back to ignoring you again. The right guy will treat you with respect consistently. Consistently. Consistently. If he doesn't, he's showing you ....1) that he doesn't value you.........2) he's showing you who he is and how he's going to treat you in the future.
Exactly...actually he is showing his true character..No lover will ever ignore you for unaccepitable reasons except that if he is immature and no confidence to continue the relationship.He is not meant for you.
This is actually very accurate info for me. I do not want to be involved with a guy that does this kind of stuff.... but its spot on. His loss.
Truth! Dint be afraid to lose him. Set ur mind on ur value and dont allow him to be more important than urself. As soon as you change ur mindset and release that tense energy he will come to you. They are like cats . If you call a cat it turns its back on u. If you ignore a cat it suddenly wants ur attention. Never approach a cat. Always let it come to you and reward it with love and affection. They will keep coming back for more.
Well since you talking about cats come get my son’s cat cause I can’t stand the damn thing!
@@Michellemybell739 you are so funny 🤣
This is why most people have been blocked and/or deleted from my phone. I don't want to put energy and time into things and people that don't have time for me. Thanks for sharing. Have a blessed day.
Thanks for sharing
I am literally in this situation. And am trying all my best not to think about him😩
Right now I have a feeling that he is with another women. The wort feeling ever...I need that strength right now
How are you now?
I know how u feeling me and my son's daddy's been off and on for 20 years he started F...the girl who live next store when i went to work she was coming in and he cook breakfast for her and the be in bed together til right before i and her old man got off work now 7 months later i guess they got in a fight so he. Came to my job wanted to talk like a fool w i went with him got back together and 3 weeks later he's doing the same thing
My boyfriend ghosted me for some good months, at first I was trying to reach out but I got tired and also kept quiet.
Omg. I just sent yesterday an email braking up with him as he has been talking about future but in the same time he keeps hot and cold or has taken me for granted, I don't know. I'm struggling to move on getting relief on my own tears. I couldn't even study in the last weeks as I can't focuse but after reading all the comments and know that I'm not the only one broken heart, I feel much better. Blessings for our hearts 😖
Thank you for your advice 😁
So if the woman starts ignoring the man, he may use Alex's technique also and ignore her, thinking she'll come to him. So now they are both ignoring each other.
Very funny Ha! Ha! 😂😂😂😂Haaa!!
o horrible so much pain then what
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Ignoring u means a blessing that it happend immedately and not later. Move on wasnt meant to be. Save yourself a lot of toxic hours.
Exactly what you have said he is taking for granted and he is not at all interested in me less contact less caring and trying to ignore me.
A man that did that to me was not interested in me he found someone else but i didn't know until i found him with someone else holding hands and seemly happy..
My opinion he's not interested someone easier came along but I don't care anymore because she will be in my shoes one day i don't blame myself
If someone takes you for granted they’re not sincere and they don’t value you. That’s not a person to invest your time and energy in. It’s also not someone worth trying to impress.
Narcissistic Abuse Rehab So true
Exactly!
Truth!!
Alex, implementing your advice 'never doing the first step when he's ignoring me'.... God! Your advices are soo true! Thanks a lot Alex....Your suggestions are helping me alot... 😄
Untill he decides to contact you, here comes a true guy and show you attention, intention and pretection!
And you are always going to remember how he ignored you because it was the last part of your relationship!
So be careful when you play “the game” of ignorance!
Paparuda Ruda very true. My husband takes me for granted but he doesn’t know the attention i get and still stick to him
thank you for giving light to my confusions..i just ignored him after weeks..he was the 1st to chat again..thats a good reality..
@0:34 I was suffering but YOUR FRENCH ACCENT MAKES EVERYTHING BETTER!!!!! I SWEAR!!!!! I AM SWOONING!!! LOL HE IS SO FAR REMOVED FROM MY MIND AS SOON AS I HIT PLAY ON ONE OF UR VIDEOS! LOL THANKS SO MUCH FOR BEING THE SOURCE OF HEALING THAT U ARE🥰💯
@5:07 OH HE IS JUST SO BEAUTIFUL! WHAT A BEAUTIFUL MAN INSIDE AND OUT! THANK U ALEX! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Alex please make a video on how or when to appreciate men, because the more I learn to have my own life, my own solutions, love myself, support myself then people's company in general becomes a bit of a drag and I have a hard time seeing their value because no one really adds to my life
Thank you. You just slapped me with reality. I recently lost my boyfriend in February. We had a common friend, that I hooked up with, even though I was going to change myself, this time. However, this man is very particular and I was flattered that he liked me for more than just friends. So I gave in. You have made me aware, that I am only a booty call AND being taking advantage of. Uggh! Is there a rock I can crawl under? I want more, for ME, this time.
Your advice is so helpful and gives me emotional strength. You're excellent. Thanks. You're doing a great job 👏 👍
Relationships are way to complicated to begin with. My relationship ended on a terrible note. He just wanted a temporary escape then left for the women he actually wanted. I had to cut him loose or he cut me off. Unfortunately wasted time and draining energy. It was back and forth misery. Never again will I let someone hurt me. No value and no respect for himself and myself. I became emotionally damaged after years of trying. Sometimes I wish I could move on. I had to struggle with this for over a year. I was used then he disappeared. His loss.
Guys..they never understand what we go through..first they want someone to live them...when we do, they run away ripping us apart into broken pieces for us to gather them, damaging ourselves emotionally, mentally, and leave us to just die😭😭😭
Am not even listening to what you are saying am just admiring you!
I don’t care😂🤣😂🤣
I have my life and it’s amazing
This is very special!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert hei Alex,please help me out! He was the one usually who used to view my statuses ..(we haven't blocked each other on WhatsApp)I was in no contact for 11-12 days ,but one day after getting so many calls and texts continuously throughout,I just replied to him with two emojis...from that day he is not at all messaging me, calling me or viewing my statuses(don't know whether he's doing it secretly)..what should I do?please help me out.. We are in ldr!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert hi Alex, will need your help!!! As my case is unique
No its not i dont care because you love that person..maybe nothing to do only to step back right?and he return to you if it is yours..God bless everyone.
Mr Alex you spoke the truth! That's the exact thing that happened to my relationship and at the end it ended up humiliating for me. He will come back and then leave again and again because I showed him too much love but no more. He's also emotionally unstable he doesn't know what he wants. I didn't know ghosting existed. I don't need games in my life. I still love him though but this was the most painful experience of my lifetime. I will never speak to him again!
Merci beaucoup Mr Alex pour tes conseils. Que dieu te bénisse.
Julienne, Keep up the good work of not contacting him and do Not allow him to get back with you. If you do, this hot/cold and push/pull thing with him will never end. When a really good guy find you, he will not want to play these games.
He was giving me attention from the beginning of the relationship and he suddenly changed, been a month n I’ve been asking him why he has changed almost everyday n he doesn’t give me a reply, I think I finally found my answer, Tnx
Don't even ask ...move on and live your best life!
When a man ignores a woman then he has issues...He's spoiled..He's self centered..That's harsh...and arrogant...It hurts to be ignored...it causes problems...If I ignore the man I'm dating it means I am moving on..
His advice soo genuine and relatable .
Your advices were amazing. It takes a strong women to do both 💚 I'm into this process right now. ❤
Dats so so so true...I'm living proof of dis...all the times...sad but true
Great advice. You know what you’re talking about.
I'm in love with ur accent Alex thanks for this video it really helped me . Bravo 👏 thanks
Oh man, men are so complicated .
Most men are mentally sick!
No, we aren't, most men are not to blame that you choose that whom hurts you, neither men can blame they select women whom prey on them...
You about to get yourself gone when you start ignoring me, life is too damn short to play games.....men that do this are childish, you have an issue ....tell me....just like a man, I'm not a mind reader....in the time a man ignores someone he claims to love....what if she died? He could have used that time to spend with her and love her but he chose to play games.....my motto is...come straight or go one side....all the way on your side with your games.....same goes for women too, life is too short and too beautiful to waste it🙌
🙌🏻 I totally agree with you
Right be honest about ur feelings don't play games. Its life not some play.
Just ask straight if he doesn't love you anymore,you will find someone else.,rather than wasting your time.
Your right.. We do not like it and we think its childish.. he's doing now.. We've already known each for 5 years. So he's wasting both our time..
Maybe you should move on!
His voice is so relaxing 😌
:)
absolutely right!
that's why I dont give 100% of my attention to him.
This is extremely truth my boy f did tht to me,taking for granted
How can I show that my life is amazing... Without him even I can't keep myself happy or even I lost my smile .. when I hear is name my eyes will fill with tears and I'm suffering from kind of depression I lost myself..
Take this time to do some personal self development. You deserve a happy and healthy relationship.
AMBALLA. READ WHAT I SAY - YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPEY. EVERYBODY IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR OWN HAPPINESS. Do Not get back with him. Find other guys who want you. If you get back with this one, the patter is already set for more hot/cold and push/pull thing with him will never end. When a really good guy find you, he will not want to play these games.
Honestly this is happening to me right now...maybe because i gave him too much love .. now he's taking me for granted ..he's now dating someone else without considering what would i feel...and it hurts a lot...
Since one year I have been chasing him but he kept breaking my heart.he did a lot of bad things to me.he took me for granted.but here I am after all the pain I learned not to show any care even though deep inside I do care alot.i can’t even count how many times I went no contact and breaking up.but finally I stopped replying any of his msgs.now it’s his turn to Make effort or m gonna leave forever..I will not die for him👍🏻he doesn’t deserve if he have nerves to leave me in pain🥰all those lies and hurtfull words makes me sick.right now I feel like I don’t feel bad from loosing him but I feel angry at myself how the hell I was tolerating all the shit..I wish you all goodluck..stop chasing them..I mean like totally dissapear👍🏻then you will see the magic
Thank you so much for your advice . it’s really touching and empowering me. you’re amazing coach for me. 👍
Taking you for granted..amen. Knew that but good to hear it out loud. Well the tables have turned. Now I’m ignoring him. We will see how this goes. Btw: my guy is French lol!
Thank you for keeping it real 💯 and you right I’m too much woman for him 😊
He's ignored me for 5 months/ no contact. Looks like he forgot me ☹️. We were together 6 months, he left 2xs. I was " the Love of his Life" 💔
Alex you are my favourite relationship coach. Thanks a lot..
Love from Mauritius 💐💯❤❤❤
Thank you so much for your support!
Dear Alex, hello from Wisconsin. Thank you for the book.
As I am reading, tears began to fall and I could see myself in Anna.
I was dating a truck driver and as you well know, things just because a drain on me.
I appreciate your wisdom and will begin to practice setting boundaries, raising my standards by not calling him anymore.
I'm on page 25.
Wow!
What an eye opener.
Thank you so very much.
Sincerely,
Cynthia
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Thanks for the video, am going through this situation, now I know how I'll cope with the situation... thanks Alex
So glad to hear that this video has helped you.
This issue, Alex, is that this is making me feel so resentful and angry, that he knows he's taking me for granted and has those beliefs that I'll always be there etc. I want a man more evolved than that... Wow, I'm SO angry that now I just want to block my ex, because I've reached out too many times now. I want to be done with it!!
Tried your advice and never contacted him first when he started ignoring me. Result? He forgot about me completely and never messaged me again.
Well, you have your answer, he was never truly interested.
Trust me they always return.
Good riddance why running after someone who doesn’t want you to start with? Love yourself
You are so correct
This relieves love stresses.
after i'm watching your video , slowly i can move on ,, now is already a month he haven't call me back but i feel its ok if he doesn't want me anymore because i just want to be happy person ,, i'll show him that i could stand without him
I think one should be authentic/real. There is no games in love. Love is respect and attention. But I think Most men or women are afraid being rejected. I love is also taking risk to be vulnurable. Most people want love, in the bottom of their heart real love Butter at the same time they are Afrika of losing the love they want. It's crazy...if you showed interest to him firstly and then he ignors you, even though you knew he likes you. Then ignor him, too. And keep going. If a man is real he will take the next step. And be proud of yourself not to be a coward. Life is beautiful do not waste your precious time!
💯 right I'm facing the same thing so I have stop the calls and texts
Plz tell what's going on now
A man isn’t thinking anything when he ignores you.
Do they even think?!?!
Hope Wilson YEAH WITH HIS BALLS .
@@hopewilson5359 yes we do, most men are not to blame that you choose that whom hurts you, neither men can blame they select women whom prey on them...
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I never considered that he's ignoring me. I know he's a very busy man, and I'm just as busy. I don't need to be in touch every day, and don't expect an immediately reply to text. He knows my life is amazing, and I know he's in love with me. Sometimes he just needs his time and space and I'm good with that because I need it too. That being said, I decided to dial back initiating contact because I'm extremely busy right now. And also, that's giving him the space he needs to miss me, wonder, and reach out.
Mr. Alex..i relate your vedio ..i felt now he's taking me for granted..what I did is that I let him do the first step..he call me and message me first..thank you for your advice..love it
We didn't talk for 7 months it was very new so it wasn't a relationship. When I reached out after 7 months of no contact then he replied and then again same ..so am letting him go !
His not interested
Same here
His not interested, don't waste your time
He didn’t really like u
Pal Makeuplooks inspired he didn’t really know you tho. So that’s why he didn’t care
Yes coach.. i am undergoing this situation. He often ignores my messages.. left unread and i hate it. Worst when i broke up with him 3 mnths ago because i found him on social media dating with another girl.
True , I've been no contact for 8 months
Sir you are true.All the time he ignores me whenever he needs me he will contact after that no contact. he knows that I am always available for him.so today onwards I will keep distant with him.i told him if you don't want me leave me I will go you must tell first but no answer.
Desi laug itnay jazbaati kyun hotay hain? If someone has imprisoned you, are you going to wait for them to be the first to say that you should go? Or are going to do your best to be the first one to leave? Naturally, you will try to leave first because you value your life instead of waiting for the other person to let you go. Point is........you should be the one to ignore him first if you see that he doesn't care about you. You should prioritize your life, your sanity, your emotional and mental well-being over his behavior. Khud ko pehlay rakho.
The same is true for a when a woman is ignoring a man.
I cant believe I had to wait over 4 minutes due to an ad before I could see your video! Turn off the youtube ads!
You are talking to me - on point!! I love your French accent! Mine is Texas... ! Thank you!
Thank you for being here!
why do people love to play games in relationship..why cant they let be love to be love?otherwise this is not love its just childish games...
Aam truly in love he not plays games ,he just takes and chases without asking anything from woman .
Yeah ..it's disgusting ...
Your points are highly effective
your explanation about being taken for granted must be right because this guy keeps coming and going
I’m surrending to the situation and focusing in myself again... won’t be texting him first anymore plus taking a little break posting on IG
I’m reading your free ebook thank you Alex
My man of two years has not answered my message I sent him 5 weeks. I gone a head and send him another message today before I saw your message I will just block him.
The hide and seek game is so hurting but now not anymore 😭
I’m starting Nc I won’t do the 1st step I’ll show him my life is amazing
I love this message...... And is really true.
So many women celebrate the day they met the man, the first date, the first kiss, every kind of anniversary they can imagine. Why? Most men don't care about those things. Why should he mean so much to you? I've learned if he ignores me he doesn't care about me , that's okay, he means no more to me than I do to him. I just work myself out of his life. Once he's gone he's gone for good. Can they come back into my life? NO!
Hello Alex , thank you for this video. It was very insightful. I was talking to this guy I liked for a while now, it was nice at the beginning, but then he became cold towards me, then he just disappeared one day out of the blue. But now I understand why .
Thank you soo much....I find answers to your videos...
Alex's voice is such a turn on lol
Thank u, this is what I have been asking for 4 days today. Am heal..... thank u Sir
I have learned something. Actually my man ignores me. I always text him but he don't reply my texts. Thank you so much. I'll keep a distance from now onwards.
Thank you for that information now I know I'm doing the right way by him knowing I stopped his mail from coming from 2 the house cuz I filed divorce when he called and said on the voicemail I was only calling to see if I had any mail and then said oh well you probably sent it back well I never respond it so I'll show him what he's taken for granted cuz all he's got coming as a divorce
What a lovely man
Great video i have learned a lot from u Alex thank u very much 🙏getting stronger every day
Alex grateful for all ur valuable advise.It’s so comforting to hear from u when we are so vulnerable n loss. U have indeed wake us up n make us do the right way.
U speak with conviction too. Hope u can create a session for guys on how to understand a women.
U are a legend to all the women.
Singapore
Thank you sir.I got this tonight.You are right.
All the best
Good afternoon Sir Alex thanks for you advice I learn about the man how love the woman
Thank you so much for teaching us relationship tips as for l really appreciate
Yea, I totally agree with you. In my case, he said some harsh statements to me that made me feel very bad and I told him I wasnt6going to contact him anymore. For 3 months I never call ND he didn't. I woke up 6 days back to see his missed call 2am. I became worried if all was well. After two days I texted ND he didn't respond. The 2nd night I call by not going tru by he later replied he didn't hear d phone ring by he'll be home in 20mins time ND it was 12midnight. He stays in UK ND I'm in Nigeria. I never cals back.
Your words are Absolutely true sir..thank you so much
Every single comment below says, “Drop him. Why are you putting up with him? Ignore him.” Why are you watching this video if you have all the answers? It’s because this is either happening to you now or has happened and you want to know what to do. So, get off your self righteous soapbox and listen to what he’s saying. He has great advice. Take it and say thank you.