I have bad social anxiety for sure man, but as I get older it seems to be getting less intense. I’m a major home body and it can be exhausting trying to socialize. Thanks for posting!
chris, thank you for posting this video. As someone who also has to deal with anxiety this makes me feel better that I'm not that alone in this. I would have never thought that my role model would have to deal with this as well. I definitely look up to you even more now.
Lmao “act like normal people”, bruh the only reason I’ve been watching Chris for as long as I have is because he’s one of the only people on this app who shows his human side in almost every video
How hilarious was it when he explained that dudes who are just obsessed with hooking up and bragging about it, usually have ego problems, and deep down, are actually very insecure with themselves. He was pretty much calling out Shaun and 90% of Chris’s douchebag buddies right to their face.
@@asdsfasf3636 He actually said that people who brag about hooking up are insecure. Shaun’s channel is literally built upon showcasing getting drunk and banging chicks. He objectifies the shit out of women. His channel is just “look at me, I get loaded and have sex!”
8:42 that look around and seeing all the cars passing by really helped capture the atmosphere of everything being okay after Chris said that comment to those girls. The anxiety that spikes in moments of being social can feel like an uncontrolled fire.
You want to get better at something, practice it. Want to get better at push ups, do push up. Want to get better at talking to girls, talk to girls. I believe in you chris. You're the moistest man alive. ❤
It feels very honest and humble of you Chris, honestly not a lot of people would be able to share the way you did. It's very badass ! (Also, do english-speakers still use the term "badass" or is it too 2010's ? Asking for a friend)
I have had social anxiety for most of my life and I just got into dating at 23. It’s been an uphill battle so far, but I know that I’m learning and I’ll eventually get to a point where it comes more naturally. Thanks for keeping it real and inspiring others, Chris. We got this!
this deadass validates so many feelings i’ve had for so long. i find it so easy to make friends in social situations, but when it comes to actually talking to a complete stranger, especially when I’m on my own & I’m not being enabled by any friends, it’s so much harder.. and idk why but i’ve realized, yeah, literally literally just have to start talking to strangers, just, more more in general
That coach seems like the real deal - coming from someone who’s been deep into the “pickup artist community” and seen all the goods and bads of it (mostly bad). Very cool hearing his perspective.
Anthony is completely right man, putting this video out is definitely going to help people like myself to try and normalize socializing for ourselves. I've had really bad social anxiety since like middle school, but hopefully I can push myself to try and get used to just talking to people more often. Thank you Chris, and thank you Anthony for inspiring me.
The part where he said to just stop and look around and see that everything is normal when you feel like the whole world is looking at you makes sense. I've been so aware of every decision I make in public and I feel like this advice is gonna help me alot.
Honestly yeah, usually if I did something that makes me feel awkward or anxious I'll just try to keep low escape the environment thinking everyone was watching. I'm sure if I was to just stop and look around, I would of realized that no one probably even cared.
It’s cool seeing someone you look up to deal with the same shit you do. It’s definitely about putting yourself in uncomfortable situations and learning to adapt, it’s helped me a lot and I’m sure you’ll be just fine chris! Super sick video !
I hope you get better at this, and constantly talking to people will help you, I use to be like you as a kid but my dad noticed and told me to just always say high to people and always introduce yourself to anyone u wanna talk to , it really helps
Great video!! Anthony is so great at making scary complicated things the most simple normal things in the entire world. He was making me squirm so much when he coached me for his UA-cam show haha but he always has your back the whole time and I’m glad he pushed me out of comfort zone. Never gonna forget it. Would love to see you collab again!
Im 22 years old and I can completely relate to this video. Thanks for posting this Chris, I'd love to see more videos on your social journey to better yourself. Very inspiring. 🙂
Chris this is awesome Everyone has this perception just because your on camera or on youtube with some fame that your not shy or socially awkward so its awesome to see you open up and you honestly inspired me not to feel like I'm the most socially awkward person on planet earth Love your content bro keep it up!
I deadass feel the exact same way and this made me feel more comfortable with it and okay with being awkward when trying to talk to new people. The honesty and bravery is not unnoticed bro keep it up
I'm proud of you man!. I am the same way and it's so annoying to be so shy I hate it but i just keep working at it. I hang out with girls from work as just friends and I'm not shy but when I am one on one with girl I like I can juggle the convo for a little bit before hitting a wall and reverting back to group chat smoothly without out being too awkward lmao
Thanks for the video. Brightened my day knowing I’m not the only one. I spent a semester in high school where these three pretty girls were sat all around me and it gave me the craziest anxiety and I wouldn’t say anything almost ever. They never actually bullied me, but they made it clear they didn’t really care for me being there. Just pain dude.
Let's start with i stopped watching you years ago but in a comment in a random video i seen someone talking about Chris Chan but apparently he wasnt talking about you... I searched if you were still uploading and this is the first video i clicked, yeah i got so much social anxiety and this kinda gave me something, not sure what but thanks :)
Great video dude! Definitely cool to hear the perspective from the dating coach. I agree, you have an awesome personality and all that. So you keep your head up bro! Keep the awesome content coming :)!
Chris my boy I’m in the same boat got bad social anxiety use to be 250 pounds lost 70 but still feel the sameway towards girls but I learned you gotta start small in order to get somewhere. Take small little progressional steps to your goal. This helped me relate a lot my guy. You my ni- my dude your the fkin man. And in no means am I even close to make a full convo but maybe I am it’s just all future anxiety but we got this
this type of video is real he isn't faking like he has girls or whatever other youtubers do, just making an honest video! that's why Chris is my favorite
Not trying to be rude but a couple years ago I'd only click on of your videos sometimes when I saw them in my sub box but recently I've always been clicking on them. Great content man, keep it up. every video of yours recently has been a banger. This video (anthony) definitely helped me in some ways ngl
HAHA that was amazing. yeah man that feeling never gos away. . . ever. I have tried to talk to a tun of girls either at bars (Drunk) At malls (Drunk. . JK I was sober) and I still feel a slight feeling of there's no way this girl will want to talk to me. lol But the best thing that iv noticed that helps with talking to woman is being in the moment with that person you are trying to strike a conversations with. The thought that they are Pretty or that you want to hook up with them should only be a slight thought before you talk to them. Just because a woman is beautiful makes it so much harder to talk to them. BUT remember Chris. . .we are all pink on the inside. lol I loved this video.
Boy if you don’t let me give you a hug!! I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with all of that for so long, you come off as the type that can make any girl laugh. This video makes me want to put in work on my own self improvement. Thank you!!!
Calm sees never made a skilled sailor man You're doing very well. Pressure makes diamonds one day you'll look back and see how far you've gotten. Anthony rosenello just wants you to be your authentic self everywhere you go I've vouch for that man.
This is so relatable omg 😂❤ it helps when you realize that most people have some for of anxiety. If I'm scared, they'd be scared to, so who's gonna speak up first?
Chris you are inspiring a lot of people, I for sure have been getting more and more inspired by you. This is really not easy and it took me a while to even step forward, I would get cold sweats and would pace back and forth debating an action. After doing and gaining momentum I did end up doing it more fluidly and not thinking so much about rejection.. So thank you for sharing your story~ And I hope you the best w all the girls you talk to
I am a girl who have (or have had) mild social anxiety, it’s so much better now and I’m doing totally fine but this makes me want to socialise more :) Fun video.
This helped me realize that I'm not the only one like this
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I'm shyyyy
Also Chris: picks up a boquet on the ground and give it to a random girl
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he didnt talk to her tho haha
Honestly that’s literally how a lot of us are. This is a sick video
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Ngl when anthony said that you were gonna inspire people to get over social anxiety, i realized that this did help
I have bad social anxiety for sure man, but as I get older it seems to be getting less intense. I’m a major home body and it can be exhausting trying to socialize. Thanks for posting!
How did u help ur social anxiety ?
Saaaame
@@alexissiliezar2345 get uncomfortable more
love how he's lowk trying to help you and shauns just joking lmao
chris: hires a dating coach to talk to girls
also chris: ignores my DMs that tell him hes cute
Lmaooo
Mood
@audrey b simp on me ;3
he doesn't know how to talk to u
He doesn’t want to date a fan. That’s the last thing someone would want.
I want a part two this guy is great , totally agree about the Sydney thing
I was that guy you talked too for like an hour playing runescape, now I know what you went to go film lmao
LETS GO CHRIS BOTTOM OF THE DESCRIPTION SOCIETY
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jesus christ get out of here black boy
Dude, I know you may think this is lame, but honestly, it's really refreshing to see you be honest and open and trying to do better in life.
chris, thank you for posting this video. As someone who also has to deal with anxiety this makes me feel better that I'm not that alone in this. I would have never thought that my role model would have to deal with this as well. I definitely look up to you even more now.
same here
Interesting to see famous people act like normal people. Keep showing your human side, I think we all really love it.
this comment is everthing
Lmao “act like normal people”, bruh the only reason I’ve been watching Chris for as long as I have is because he’s one of the only people on this app who shows his human side in almost every video
@@BOYHAWK Act as in "do something" not act as in "pretend".
Gabriel Stephens huh? Chris doesn’t “pretend” tho
@@BOYHAWK Are you joking? That's exactly what I was just saying. I was not using the word "act" as in "pretending". Read the comment again.
How hilarious was it when he explained that dudes who are just obsessed with hooking up and bragging about it, usually have ego problems, and deep down, are actually very insecure with themselves. He was pretty much calling out Shaun and 90% of Chris’s douchebag buddies right to their face.
Not really because if you listened the coach said hooking up isnt a bad thing. Sharney doesnt objectify women lol. You gotta learn to listen
@@asdsfasf3636 He actually said that people who brag about hooking up are insecure. Shaun’s channel is literally built upon showcasing getting drunk and banging chicks. He objectifies the shit out of women. His channel is just “look at me, I get loaded and have sex!”
@@mirraco323 theres nothing wrong with sex dude chilll
@@mirraco323 so true
8:42 that look around and seeing all the cars passing by really helped capture the atmosphere of everything being okay after Chris said that comment to those girls. The anxiety that spikes in moments of being social can feel like an uncontrolled fire.
You want to get better at something, practice it. Want to get better at push ups, do push up. Want to get better at talking to girls, talk to girls. I believe in you chris. You're the moistest man alive. ❤
It feels very honest and humble of you Chris, honestly not a lot of people would be able to share the way you did.
It's very badass ! (Also, do english-speakers still use the term "badass" or is it too 2010's ? Asking for a friend)
I have had social anxiety for most of my life and I just got into dating at 23. It’s been an uphill battle so far, but I know that I’m learning and I’ll eventually get to a point where it comes more naturally. Thanks for keeping it real and inspiring others, Chris. We got this!
this deadass validates so many feelings i’ve had for so long. i find it so easy to make friends in social situations, but when it comes to actually talking to a complete stranger, especially when I’m on my own & I’m not being enabled by any friends, it’s so much harder..
and idk why
but i’ve realized, yeah, literally
literally just have to start talking to strangers, just, more
more in general
Chris the girls love you just be yourself, everyone gets anxious, even they do. Plus what girl doesn't like guys with a solar flare??
That coach seems like the real deal - coming from someone who’s been deep into the “pickup artist community” and seen all the goods and bads of it (mostly bad).
Very cool hearing his perspective.
Anthony is completely right man, putting this video out is definitely going to help people like myself to try and normalize socializing for ourselves. I've had really bad social anxiety since like middle school, but hopefully I can push myself to try and get used to just talking to people more often. Thank you Chris, and thank you Anthony for inspiring me.
The part where he said to just stop and look around and see that everything is normal when you feel like the whole world is looking at you makes sense. I've been so aware of every decision I make in public and I feel like this advice is gonna help me alot.
Honestly yeah, usually if I did something that makes me feel awkward or anxious I'll just try to keep low escape the environment thinking everyone was watching. I'm sure if I was to just stop and look around, I would of realized that no one probably even cared.
I dont have social anxiety. I just dont like people.
I’m kind of a loner.
I love this dude so much, Chris you don’t have to feel self conscious about girls opinions because who cares, ur gnarly.
It’s about himself, not girls
It’s cool seeing someone you look up to deal with the same shit you do. It’s definitely about putting yourself in uncomfortable situations and learning to adapt, it’s helped me a lot and I’m sure you’ll be just fine chris! Super sick video !
I hope you get better at this, and constantly talking to people will help you, I use to be like you as a kid but my dad noticed and told me to just always say high to people and always introduce yourself to anyone u wanna talk to , it really helps
Great video!! Anthony is so great at making scary complicated things the most simple normal things in the entire world.
He was making me squirm so much when he coached me for his UA-cam show haha but he always has your back the whole time and I’m glad he pushed me out of comfort zone. Never gonna forget it. Would love to see you collab again!
Im 22 years old and I can completely relate to this video. Thanks for posting this Chris, I'd love to see more videos on your social journey to better yourself. Very inspiring. 🙂
Damn, this made me realize how normal I am. I always get insecure about my shyness, but I guess it's pretty common.
Inspirational for sure! Thanks for being vulnerable around this! It's just like skating; make a little progress, try something a little harder!
This whole entire video was amazing Man. I honestly needed to see this because it’s rough going through it all and I’m so glad u made this video.
Bro you don't need a dating coach You the sexiest man alive
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I’m awkward as hell I feel for you. It’s hard to imagine there’s people out there that has social anxiety too.
Literally one of the best videos I've seen in a while, Love Bro
Chris this is awesome
Everyone has this perception just because your on camera or on youtube with some fame that your not shy or socially awkward so its awesome to see you open up and you honestly inspired me not to feel like I'm the most socially awkward person on planet earth
Love your content bro keep it up!
I deadass feel the exact same way and this made me feel more comfortable with it and okay with being awkward when trying to talk to new people. The honesty and bravery is not unnoticed bro keep it up
I'm proud of you man!. I am the same way and it's so annoying to be so shy I hate it but i just keep working at it. I hang out with girls from work as just friends and I'm not shy but when I am one on one with girl I like I can juggle the convo for a little bit before hitting a wall and reverting back to group chat smoothly without out being too awkward lmao
Bro big props for being open about this. Happens to more guys than not, we all learn eventually
Thanks for the video. Brightened my day knowing I’m not the only one. I spent a semester in high school where these three pretty girls were sat all around me and it gave me the craziest anxiety and I wouldn’t say anything almost ever. They never actually bullied me, but they made it clear they didn’t really care for me being there. Just pain dude.
Chris keep going with these love them. And also I’m the kid that tried to kickflip the double set at volcom Costa Mesa. Never landed it but I will
oh shit
u were the one who did it in that FLIP video?
@@miguelcaric wdym?
yo this really hit home, I totally feel that too when like the whole world is watching you, u should collab with yes theory
I love this guy. That “not run after being rejected thing” is super powerful. And super relatable.
Thank you being vulnerable because we do feel the same as you!!!!
i love how practical and down-to-earth his advice is
Mad respect man. Brave of you and inspiring for lots of the awkies out there.
Mad respect for being so vulnerable and inspiring others
Thanks for the help Chris
Literally felt the same way and felt like no one could relate, glad to see Chris growing
Let's start with i stopped watching you years ago but in a comment in a random video i seen someone talking about Chris Chan but apparently he wasnt talking about you... I searched if you were still uploading and this is the first video i clicked, yeah i got so much social anxiety and this kinda gave me something, not sure what but thanks :)
If any girls you're trying to talk to see this video they're gonna be 1000x more into you.. vulnerability and honesty are adorable as fuck.
Great video dude! Definitely cool to hear the perspective from the dating coach. I agree, you have an awesome personality and all that. So you keep your head up bro! Keep the awesome content coming :)!
I love this video because we all go through this and to some of us this advice really does help, you got this !!
Chris has the most relatable content on UA-cam, i literally never talk to anyone or girls especially
I struggle big time with social anxity this helped alot thanks chris much love from ireland
shaun filming people’s faces like this is incredibly jarring
damn that bullying story is sad, fudge them girls, look at you now.
Bro those small tips he gave to Chris are so useful to me. Thx
Man honestly I’m glad u posted this it helps show that others are going through what I am to keep it up man!
I friggen love the first conversation he had with the dating coach
ME and my homies love chris Chann
All of my homies love Chris chann
Chann, All my homies love Chann
Chris my boy I’m in the same boat got bad social anxiety use to be 250 pounds lost 70 but still feel the sameway towards girls but I learned you gotta start small in order to get somewhere. Take small little progressional steps to your goal. This helped me relate a lot my guy. You my ni- my dude your the fkin man. And in no means am I even close to make a full convo but maybe I am it’s just all future anxiety but we got this
this type of video is real he isn't faking like he has girls or whatever other youtubers do, just making an honest video! that's why Chris is my favorite
Love all this advice honestly needed this
This video was so nice I’m glad you’re trying to become better at talking to people I fuck with this shit bro ❤️
I feel the same bro exactly the same and all the symptoms
Finally someone I can relate too! Thanks Chris appreciate you bro!
Not trying to be rude but a couple years ago I'd only click on of your videos sometimes when I saw them in my sub box but recently I've always been clicking on them. Great content man, keep it up. every video of yours recently has been a banger. This video (anthony) definitely helped me in some ways ngl
HAHA that was amazing. yeah man that feeling never gos away. . . ever. I have tried to talk to a tun of girls either at bars (Drunk) At malls (Drunk. . JK I was sober) and I still feel a slight feeling of there's no way this girl will want to talk to me. lol But the best thing that iv noticed that helps with talking to woman is being in the moment with that person you are trying to strike a conversations with. The thought that they are Pretty or that you want to hook up with them should only be a slight thought before you talk to them. Just because a woman is beautiful makes it so much harder to talk to them. BUT remember Chris. . .we are all pink on the inside. lol I loved this video.
I’m glad you had the balls to post this vid, i appreciate it fam💪🏼
Great advice. I definitely have similar issues. I feel like this will help me and alot of others.
Talking about what makes you weak makes you so much stronger. You lookin swole rn bro💪 definitely inspired me
Boy if you don’t let me give you a hug!! I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with all of that for so long, you come off as the type that can make any girl laugh. This video makes me want to put in work on my own self improvement. Thank you!!!
damn i thought you were slick with the ladies. It's reassuring that someone like you is someone like me. Thanks for sharing.
respect this big time bro!! takes a lot to do something like this, inspired me too tbh
Yo this lowkey inspired me cus it really do be like that and you just got to go out there and be open, love you chris ❤
Chris your such a g bruh, much love to you bro🤘🏼
Straight up this shit slapped. I really want you to keep including videos of your progress
We need more of this coach forreal !!
Calm sees never made a skilled sailor man You're doing very well. Pressure makes diamonds one day you'll look back and see how far you've gotten. Anthony rosenello just wants you to be your authentic self everywhere you go I've vouch for that man.
I needed this dawg🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thanks for this Video bro.Nice to know one’s not alone in social anxiety.🥋🙏🏾
This is so relatable omg 😂❤ it helps when you realize that most people have some for of anxiety. If I'm scared, they'd be scared to, so who's gonna speak up first?
Bro 100%, just depends on my mental state at the time, and that goes for talking to people in general tbh, shit just isn’t easy for some people.
I Love the video bro, the outro had me dying brk kmg pure laughter fr
I feel its more normal to feel this way then to be comfortable talking to strangers.
Great video Chris.
this actually helped me, love you for this❤️👏
I appreciate you posting this .
This video spoke volumes 🔥❤️ thank you for inspiring people 🙏
This was really helpful actually thank you i needed this
Was just thinking about watching you and then boom new video haha
This is the most relatable video I have ever watched on this platform
Chris you are inspiring a lot of people, I for sure have been getting more and more inspired by you. This is really not easy and it took me a while to even step forward, I would get cold sweats and would pace back and forth debating an action. After doing and gaining momentum I did end up doing it more fluidly and not thinking so much about rejection.. So thank you for sharing your story~ And I hope you the best w all the girls you talk to
I needed to see this thank you
I am a girl who have (or have had) mild social anxiety, it’s so much better now and I’m doing totally fine but this makes me want to socialise more :) Fun video.
needed this chris! Your awesome
Thank you for posting this, Chris.
It's okay to be yourself though. Being shy is also who you are and there are a ton of people who love it.
This video makes so much sense. From start to end. Thank you