Reading to your baby or toddler? 5 questions to ask yourself

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  • Опубліковано 14 вер 2020
  • Here are some things to think about if you want to read to your baby or toddler, but have no idea how and where to begin!
    Reading to a baby can be strange, they can barely hold up a book and you don't know whether they even understand what you're reading. I get a lot of comments on how to get the baby or toddler to be actually interested in the books you're trying to read.
    Some links to info on the benefits of reading during early childhood:
    Reading to Children benefits neurosciencenews.com/mri-earl...
    The Magic of Reading Aloud to Babies www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
    What are Schemas in Children’s Play? www.goodplayguide.com/2018/03...
    A 'million word gap' for children who aren't read to at home www.sciencedaily.com/releases...
    Timestamps:
    1. Are you expecting too much? 00:52
    2. Are you choosing a good time to read? 3:10
    Avoiding times when they are in a different schema. Good times to read for us were at bedtime, naptime and when waiting for a burp in the first few months.
    3. Are you putting books out of sight? 6:15
    It is tempting to be really tidy when it comes to a baby's toys and books, but leave some around where they can see and naturally gravitate towards. Keep books in a basket or an open shelf where they can see the covers. We used a cart from Ikea, because we had that on hand, and we had a lot of books!
    4. How do you feel about reading? 7:34
    5. Are you really reading the book? 9:00
    Wondering what books to start with? You'll find a ton of recommendations in the following videos. But remember to take your baby/toddler's interests and cues into consideration, these are just what we enjoyed in our home!
    Best books for babies - Tips and recommendations for newborn to 6 months olds
    • Best books for babies ...
    Books for toddlers: Starting a book collection for your toddler
    • Books for toddlers: St...
    Meaningful books for children
    • Meaningful books for c...
    Bedtime books for babies and toddlers: 6 favorites • Bedtime books for babi...
    Happy reading!
    A little about me:
    I'm Vidya, a mom to a newly turned 4 year old little boy. When I'm not stepping on legos and answering a gazillion questions (often at the same time), I make videos about pregnancy and new mommyhood. I would love for you to join me on this journey!
    Do LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to my channel if you enjoy videos like these.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 94

  • @agastya-vvs
    @agastya-vvs 3 роки тому

    I would read books to my son and he enjoys listening... I learnt new ways in reading to him. Thank u very much.

  • @preityk.chauhan7240
    @preityk.chauhan7240 3 роки тому +3

    Hey Vidya! It’s always really insightful to watch your videos and even your Instagram posts. I loved the way you are connecting your little one with nature through books and practically implementing the same through actually planting and sprouting! Although my son is just 5 months but I enjoy his expressions whenever I flip through the pages of the books for him. He loves watching pictures and graphics. I will thank you for this as I picked up this particular activity from you and introduced him to books in his very 1st month ❤️❤️

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому +1

      That's amazing Preity, you have a little bookworm too. Many fun times lay ahead! Thank you, I grew up in cities, not very rooted in nature, and wanted to make a conscious effort to do otherwise with Vik.

  • @himanikapoor6854
    @himanikapoor6854 3 роки тому +5

    It's quite a pleasant surprise to see one of your videos premiered! Had been awaiting them. 🙂

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      Thank you, this was quite a big gap, even by my standards 😂😂

    • @harshada257
      @harshada257 3 роки тому

      I m also

  • @littleamithings8315
    @littleamithings8315 3 роки тому

    Happy to see u back vidya❤️
    That too with a wonderful video😍

  • @KyuriousKids
    @KyuriousKids 3 роки тому

    All you said reflects back to my experiences. I am still very dicey about investing into books. I have bought 4-5 Board books for my toddler till now which he usually loves to read after massage. We go one by one on each page and touch the textures, make the sounds etc. BUt during the day he hardly picks up the book and even if we try to read something to him, he runs off to play something else. Will surely check on the books link. Thanks for sharing your experience.

  • @Ismartaruna
    @Ismartaruna 3 роки тому

    Amazing!!! It's really great. Thanks for sharing wonderful tips vidhya

  • @Lily_and_River
    @Lily_and_River 3 роки тому

    Great video! You have a new subscriber! Just to add: I also think it can be an option to read a loud to a child who is playing and not necessarily sitting down next to you. Especially when they don't like sitting still. That way they're still hearing the parents voice and intonation and all the vocabulary, and they can also see that the parent is enjoying reading books themselves. Also when a baby turns away it's face, it's not always because they're not interested... they may still be listening.

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому +1

      Absolutely true, thanks for adding this!

  • @paritapatel8414
    @paritapatel8414 2 роки тому

    Very well explained !👍

  • @nishm6169
    @nishm6169 3 роки тому

    Thanks vidya for posting such amazing videos. Our collection of books for my 22 month old toddler are mostly your recommendations. I am a huge fan of all of your videos. Keep them coming 😀👍

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much, that means a lot!

  • @ashwiniranganath6252
    @ashwiniranganath6252 3 роки тому

    Soo good to see you and hear from u vidya❤️
    Loads of love for wonderful content ❤️❤️

  • @ramakrishnanp4888
    @ramakrishnanp4888 3 роки тому

    Thanks a lot for posting such wonderful and informative video. Your book recommendations are too good.

  • @jyoti173
    @jyoti173 3 роки тому

    I had came across your video when I was searching for “what’s is my diaper bag” and then I saw your other books videos. I started reading to her when she was 4 months old, n now at 11 months as soon as i finish the content on a page, she would turn the page and also lift the flap for book “where is baby’s belly button”. Thank you again Vidya😊

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      That's amazing! Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @chahalran
    @chahalran 3 роки тому

    Hey good to se u after such a long time I love your videos thanks

  • @pradnyagaonkar1662
    @pradnyagaonkar1662 3 роки тому +1

    a great video like always!

  • @swatisingh91
    @swatisingh91 3 роки тому

    Amazing content like always❤️

  • @sneham7010
    @sneham7010 3 роки тому

    Hi didi plz give me a suggesion of choicing books wheather in our language or english was better? My daughter was 4months old and jst grassping our language so which language books are best in dis stage?

  • @afsharoohi4244
    @afsharoohi4244 3 роки тому

    So good to see your video Vidya.. Thank you for the tips ❤

  • @rupalitaori5041
    @rupalitaori5041 3 роки тому

    Awesome video..was waiting for video from so long...♡♡

  • @kushi2020
    @kushi2020 3 роки тому

    Heyyy hurrrrey ,🤗😇 was waiting for ur videos... long time... happy to hear u mam

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      Yay I know Pallavi, it's been so long!

  • @aansh5267
    @aansh5267 3 роки тому

    Hey dear did you use saffron during pregnancy.. If yes can you please share the brand name.. I'm not finding any authentic saffron brands in India

  • @shaziaanjum1
    @shaziaanjum1 3 роки тому

    Can't wait

  • @veenawilson979
    @veenawilson979 3 роки тому +3

    Hi Vidya di, beautiful content , now as I'm a new mom to my one month old son , I can understand how much efforts you put in to teach wonderful sustainable habits to baby Vikrant . Hope he had a wonderful Birthday amidst Corona . Love your videos ! Have a great day .

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much as always Veena, you never forget his birthday, especially when you have a newborn now! Many congratulations to you and your family!

    • @veenawilson979
      @veenawilson979 3 роки тому

      @@Feelgoodmama Thank you di.. Loads of love

  • @ibs2879
    @ibs2879 3 роки тому

    Hi Vidhya. I have been following your videos from my pregnancy and I cant thank you enough for the level of information each one of them has given. I followed most of them starting from pregnancy exercises, packing bag, baby essentials, activities, books, tantrums and what not.. Thank you!!! My baby is now 1.5 years and I am planning to stop BF. Panicked when I couldnt find your video on that topic. Please share your experience and tips on how to stop BF. Thanks again, much love.

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much for writing! I weaned at 2 years old, and as with everything else, it was a slow gradual process, will talk about it sometime.

  • @shazshaz9417
    @shazshaz9417 3 роки тому

    Hi Vidya:)
    Informative video thanks :)
    Do u hav any video on 2 letter phonic sounds?? If u hav any idea pls can u share
    Thank you

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому +1

      I haven't used any phonics methods yet!

  • @littlehiya9763
    @littlehiya9763 3 роки тому

    My baby is going to turn 3 next month. We are struggling to make her draw lines or colour simple figures. She has no interest in even holding the pencil. Can you please make a video of how to teach them or encourage them to draw lines or circles or anything before teaching them proper writing. And also what is your experience in this? At what age your child has learned these things or whether he is in the process? Kindly reply.

  • @chetananaik7458
    @chetananaik7458 Місяць тому

    Miss u Vidya n ur videos

  • @firsttimeparentst6085
    @firsttimeparentst6085 3 роки тому +1

    Hi. I love your videos. I wanted to ask a random question. I see that your sofa is always white and clean. Can you please tell which sofa covers you use. Thanks a lot.

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      Haha they are washable covers from amazon ;)

  • @mahisheikh7624
    @mahisheikh7624 3 роки тому

    You are my favourite I mostly buy everything u suggest.

  • @zoharabegum6430
    @zoharabegum6430 3 роки тому

    Can you please let me know how to wean my 14 months old baby from feeding bottle.. he is been taking his milk from from his 4th month.. but from past few weeks he wants his bottle only when he goes to bed .. doesn't matter the bottle is filled with water or milk.. he just wants that feeding bottle nipple.. and keeps his bottle in his mouth even after he slept.. dont know how to wean this habit:(

  • @mansiarora7490
    @mansiarora7490 3 роки тому

    Nice one,keep posting more videos Vidya.

  • @nicolamichael6857
    @nicolamichael6857 3 роки тому

    Wow awesome content Vidya 😊 Your videos really educate 😊👏🏻👍

  • @ramyar.s6795
    @ramyar.s6795 3 роки тому

    Waiting for a video on books for kids above 3 years of age. Please make a video on that.

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      Yes coming soon Ramya, I'm glad you are interested because I have 2 on the way :)

  • @sujatharaju3096
    @sujatharaju3096 3 роки тому

    Liked your video very much.Make more frequently dear Vidya

  • @malalmosem796
    @malalmosem796 3 роки тому

    Hi new subscriber here, I live in uk and at home we don't speak English so the million dollar (pound😉) question is do I read the books in English or my language specially when I'm explaining things for my baby. Would appreciate your answer.

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      You could do both, they pick up multiple languages very easily at a young age!

  • @divya.rpatel1887
    @divya.rpatel1887 3 роки тому +2

    Hello mam....am following all ur videos since i was pregnant....i love ur perspective towards parenting....u r doing a great job....
    Am struggling with sleep time of my five month old daughter...as soon as i keep her down she tends to wake up n hv to start the whole process again...we indians don't do sleep training...could u plz make a video on sleep issues of babies n toddlers...it would be highly helpful for all moms like me❤️

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому +1

      We had sleep struggles too, after the 2 year mark it started getting better, I didn't do any sleep training as well. It's so different for every child!

    • @divya.rpatel1887
      @divya.rpatel1887 3 роки тому

      @@Feelgoodmama thanks for the reply....🙏

  • @akshayagurumurthy6046
    @akshayagurumurthy6046 3 роки тому +2

    I have one year old girl baby .love from hybd. Useful content vidhya thank u

  • @ankikitchen7455
    @ankikitchen7455 3 роки тому

    Hi,, my baby is 6 months old as she is completely on Breastfeed. She does potty 3 to 4 days since birth,, is thr any problem? Also when exactly to start solid for my baby n wat to give her first food? Please reply

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      I have a series on baby led weaning, and solid foods on my channel. You might find those useful! If you're worried about constipation, you can increase water intake since you're breastfeeding. You need extra water to produce breastmilk. As always check with your doctor if you're worried.

  • @aizinmuhammed5054
    @aizinmuhammed5054 3 роки тому

    Mam how to message you in personal.. I need a help please

  • @priyankak9454
    @priyankak9454 3 роки тому

    Hi Vidya... I would like to know if you have gone through checkup before pregnancy.... Plz help

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому +1

      Yes I did, I got a general health check up and blood tests done.

    • @priyankak9454
      @priyankak9454 3 роки тому

      @@Feelgoodmama thank yu

  • @APKSRAN
    @APKSRAN 2 роки тому

    My baby tears all the flaps on her books... 😢

  • @zeeslifestylevlogs5885
    @zeeslifestylevlogs5885 3 роки тому

    Make more videos vidya oftn missed u

  • @shaystaperween5996
    @shaystaperween5996 3 роки тому

    Hey vidya! When u started giving Vikrant trainers cup instead of sipper

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      Around 12 months I started introducing a straw cup, between 1.5 to 2 years he got used to a regular cup as well.

  • @naazkhanrazviya95
    @naazkhanrazviya95 3 роки тому

    Hey Vidya! can you please help me out with some pregnancy apps...so i can track...

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      I have a video on pregnancy apps I used ua-cam.com/video/NtYeb-x2MVg/v-deo.html

    • @naazkhanrazviya95
      @naazkhanrazviya95 3 роки тому

      ohh thnk u so much..love❤️

  • @mahisheikh7624
    @mahisheikh7624 3 роки тому

    Please suggest baby food maker

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      I did not use any, just cooked it with regular food, and pureed if necessary with a hand blender

  • @sushibar004
    @sushibar004 3 роки тому

    HELLLOOOOOOO

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      Heylo Sushmi!! Hope you are doing well :)

    • @sushibar004
      @sushibar004 3 роки тому

      @@Feelgoodmama Totally am! I'm not even planning for a baby but I am absolutely loving your videos, especially the one with the open-ended play!

    • @Feelgoodmama
      @Feelgoodmama  3 роки тому

      @@sushibar004 Haha you're too nice! And I'm obsessed with kids toys too ;)