The MOST DANGEROUS Personality Type | Gaslighting Emotional Abuse | खतरनाक है इनके साथ रहना

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  • This video reveals the characteristics of people who are known as 'Gaslighters'. These people are known as emotional manipulators to control their victims. It is generally seen that the gaslighters are the masters of blaming and playing victims & shaming & demeaning others, playing victims & mixing truth with lies to confuse others.
    Also, this video reveals how the victim experiences various limiting emotions like self-doubt, loss of identity & poor boundaries. Also, the video suggests some tips as to how to handle a person suffering from this disorder.
    Ram Verma is the top NLP Mind and wellness coach in India.
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  • @ramvermanlp
    @ramvermanlp  Рік тому +27

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    • @newmobileuser-up1yp
      @newmobileuser-up1yp Рік тому +1

      sir i am suffering dur to narsicist person. i am in depression anxiety. is any course for it

    • @Gurmeet_kaur_khalsa
      @Gurmeet_kaur_khalsa Рік тому +2

      Hahahaha sir you are great 👍 100/ ryt 👌👌👌

    • @aakritiyaanshita
      @aakritiyaanshita Рік тому

      Sir...I have been suffering very badly for 10 years because of my elder siblings ..I am extremely hurt💔💔💔💔...thanks for guiding us in all ways possible 🙏

    • @chandrikanair
      @chandrikanair Рік тому

      @@Gurmeet_kaur_khalsa exactly true gurmeet ji what is said

    • @crazyoart7053
      @crazyoart7053 Рік тому

      Yes sir ,I am facing all this problem ,thank you for this video this is very useful for me

  • @gulnaaz7625
    @gulnaaz7625 Рік тому +73

    how to protect yourself frome Gaslighting
    Use DEEP tool to protect your peace.
    D- Don't Defend
    E-Don't Engage
    E- Don't Explain
    P- Don't personalize

    • @winnieamar9368
      @winnieamar9368 Рік тому

      Looks like someone listens to Dr Ramani 😊

    • @minakshichandel9764
      @minakshichandel9764 10 місяців тому +2

      Mere sas sasur ese hai mujhe har jagah bura bana Diya hai mujhe logo se Milne ko dar lagta hai Mera beta bhi esa ho gaya hai mujhe disease lag gayi kya karu

    • @suhotro1
      @suhotro1 9 місяців тому

      Good tool

    • @PrincessAnisha2
      @PrincessAnisha2 2 місяці тому

      Same here 😢​@@minakshichandel9764

    • @PrincessAnisha2
      @PrincessAnisha2 2 місяці тому

      ​@@minakshichandel9764bhagwan ka naam japo jab wo dikhe jab b unpe feelings aaye

  • @chachchaji7094
    @chachchaji7094 Рік тому +31

    सर मैं ये दुःख 20 साल से भोग रहा हूँ हमारे घर में ऐसे जंगली लोग है जो न सुनते हैं न मानते है व्यवस्था खराब करके काम में फसाते है।हमें अपनी बुध्दि कौशल का सही उपयोग नही करने देते। आपकी एक एक बात सटीक है। नमन है आपको। 🙏🙏

    • @nirajshukla6819
      @nirajshukla6819 Рік тому

      Mai bhi eska shikar ho chuka hu or aaj bhi mara sath asa ho raha hai ab thoda samjha hu thoda duri manten kiya hu

    • @tom_tom272
      @tom_tom272 5 місяців тому

      Hamare bhi esi ek mahila hai jo hame pareshan krti hai game khelti hai hame badati hai sirf apna naam apna hi sabkuch krti hai

    • @nirajshukla6819
      @nirajshukla6819 4 місяці тому

      🎉mai bhi fansa hu ab mai sanyas ki tayyari kar raha hu jald hi safal ho jaunga

    • @subhashreedhal4051
      @subhashreedhal4051 2 місяці тому

      Ladies bhi yese hote hey?​@@nirajshukla6819

    • @chingariapkaapnaraju
      @chingariapkaapnaraju Місяць тому

      Ghar se nikalkar kahin dusre shahar me raho job karo

  • @pavanarora3538
    @pavanarora3538 Рік тому +38

    Better late than never " this video came late for us Indian people, because in western society this topic of narcissistism is well addressed for a long time. That's the reason people are more sorted with their relationships. Certainly we need Life coaching here in India as you said. Thank you sir for putting so much efforts to educate ua all. Hope many people will identify themselves and not suffer at the hands of a narcissistic personality anymore.

  • @prasoonsingh7376
    @prasoonsingh7376 Рік тому +34

    ये बहुत ही महत्वपूर्ण विषय है, इस तरह के विषय पर समाज मे खुलकर चर्चा होनी चाहिए क्योंकि कितने ही लोग इसके बारे में नही जानते हैं और पीड़ा सहते रहते हैं। अपने बहुत ही अच्छेसे समझाया है।धन्यवाद सर्🙏

    • @sushmachaudhary7989
      @sushmachaudhary7989 Рік тому +3

      सर ऐसे लोग बहुत धूर्त और चालाक होते हैं।
      🙏

  • @ranjanahegde2518
    @ranjanahegde2518 Рік тому +121

    my husband is this personality type....well am super proud of myself as I Consider ppl who like to put u down as a step to level up self....i hv made him & his games powerless by my silence.....I love proving ppl wrong so I use him as a challenge & better myself every moment ....i didnt know they were called gaslighters....being aware is the only way to bring light wuthin

    • @RN-ij6fd
      @RN-ij6fd Рік тому +10

      This is me,it took yeaaars to understand until I was taken to therapist and put in medicine.god was with me and and everyday I leveled up myself. Now I enjoy without responding and behave like deaf and love myself. My priority my health.

    • @rg1563
      @rg1563 Рік тому +8

      Same thing here... I think thrse people also have inferiority complex... nearly 90 percent fitting as you say :(

    • @monu25m
      @monu25m Рік тому +2

      Every wife thiks similar about her husband😂😂😂

    • @monu25m
      @monu25m Рік тому +3

      Meri wife gas lighter h.

    • @mindblowingmamta4760
      @mindblowingmamta4760 Рік тому +3

      Same here..mere husband ese hi h.. bahot depression me aa gyi thi...abhi bhi hu kya kru kuch samajh nahi aata

  • @AshaAsha-lt8nv
    @AshaAsha-lt8nv Рік тому +12

    अब हम उम्र के आखिरी पड़ाव मे हैं पर आपने जितनी बातें बतायी वह सब मेरे जीवन मे घटित हुई है अब बस ईश्वर स्मरण ही रह गया हमारे पास जिन्होने हमे प्रभावित किया वे सब अपने आप दूर हो ग ए है .पर आपका विश्लेषण पूर्णत: सत्य है काश बहुत पहले इन बातों की जानकारी मिली होती शायद जीवन और अच्छा हो जाता

  • @vallip3657
    @vallip3657 Рік тому +46

    This topic really needs awareness. Because people only know physical and verbal abuse. The society is rarely aware of this kind of mental abuse. Thank you Sir, for bring up this topic. It's well explained.

    • @jaiprakashagrawal3580
      @jaiprakashagrawal3580 Рік тому

      😊

    • @shantitanna8033
      @shantitanna8033 Рік тому +3

      My husband was a narcissist and a gaslighter. I survived my 56 yrs of marriage by sheer will power to be my own person. I had good paying job , enjoyed and excelled in my work and he liked my money to enjoyed his addictions. Once you marry such person , you are caught in a web of guilt , love , sense duty , raising children , social conditioning & expectation , in Indian culture in my time . Everything you mentioned in your lecture had happened to me , I wonder how I survived.
      After his death , I feel calm , at peace and our children are happier .
      God bless you Dr Verma , to raise awareness in our society.

    • @vallip3657
      @vallip3657 Рік тому

      @@shantitanna8033 more power and respect to you. 🙏❤️

  • @jurivlog3496
    @jurivlog3496 Рік тому +119

    Mera husband asa hai. Mujhe pagal banane ki koshish kiya apne dost aur doctor ke sath milkar. Lekin me aaj tak khud ko thik karne ke koshish kar rahi hu.

    • @dr.asharma4715
      @dr.asharma4715 Рік тому +2

      Correct

    • @rekhaverma1799
      @rekhaverma1799 Рік тому +15

      Samjh sakti hu dear narak se kam nhi he aesi jindgi pr bhi has ke jina padta h
      Pr aese logo se umeed karna band karo or khud se piyar karna sikho

    • @epicartsstudio2225
      @epicartsstudio2225 Рік тому +2

      Really ??? 😮

    • @loveissalvation7268
      @loveissalvation7268 Рік тому +7

      My real sibling (sister) is like that ! She is as evil as it gets !

    • @shibkhan5870
      @shibkhan5870 Рік тому +4

      Stay strong...be confident and don't be afraid of anyone...u ll Come out of it soon inshaAllah.

  • @Alarippu
    @Alarippu Рік тому +27

    I broke all ties with my inlaws especially my sister in law and my mother in law. Also my husband. I was extremely smart, outgoing and a very happy girl when I got married. Every attempt was made to destroy my self-esteem. After 18 months of living alone I am healing. But it was a very painful process. Such gaslighters are evil people.

    • @MsDESTINY999
      @MsDESTINY999 Рік тому

      I m with you on this.. my in laws influenced my husband and destroying my confidence and independence.. I have to live with them as I’m in oman but I have stopped talking with in laws and talking with husband only when in laws are not there as they have to say something on anything that we are talking between husband wife… but I’m planning to move to India or stay separately once I get a job

    • @hhhhh9639
      @hhhhh9639 Рік тому

      This happens so true

    • @mindblowingmamta4760
      @mindblowingmamta4760 8 місяців тому

      Same here😢

  • @rajatarya1869
    @rajatarya1869 3 місяці тому +5

    बिल्कुल सही है , सभी लक्षण मिल रहे है। मेरे पार्टनर में।

  • @sushmachaudhary7989
    @sushmachaudhary7989 Рік тому +4

    सर थैंक्स
    ये सब से मेरे साथ खराब से खराब व्यवहार
    मनोवैज्ञानिक तरीको का इस्तेमाल करते हुए २० वर्ष गुजर गये
    अब असलियत समझ पाई हूँ
    टूटी इसलिए नही कि अपने पैरों पर खड़ी हूँ
    मै एक्शन में पूरी तरह से हूँ
    अलग इस लिए नही हुई बच्चे बडे होरहे है।
    अब आप मोटी वेट कर रहे है.
    मैं खुश हू
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @Coach_saritajha
    @Coach_saritajha Рік тому +55

    Awesome content sir je 👏🙏
    I was a sufferer . I was a very bold and confident girl of my father. My father always Introduced me to every one ….” ये है मेरी झाँसी की रानी” 😁 but a GAS LIGHTER was spoiled my 15 years . Now he is not with me , and I am working on my self to achieve my career and spiritual goals .
    I know many families are suffering from these GAS LIGHTERS. 😁
    Thank you sir for educating us 🙏

    • @markets8825
      @markets8825 Рік тому +1

      Bless you

    • @artianvisingh6386
      @artianvisingh6386 Рік тому +5

      Yes actually same condition with me also my father also called me always same but my husband family in which I m living made me what I don't,,,i m highly educated but now dump,shy, foolish

    • @mixtureoflifestyle-soniyas8057
      @mixtureoflifestyle-soniyas8057 Рік тому

      U r age?

    • @Bkumar-ps3lr
      @Bkumar-ps3lr Рік тому

      I suffer 8 years too...now I am also free

    • @architapatnaik687
      @architapatnaik687 10 місяців тому +1

      Suffered for 7 years...Free bird now. All due to Mahadev bholenath, he saved me.I know your pain, giving you lots of peace, warm hugs.

  • @MP-lb1bv
    @MP-lb1bv Рік тому +9

    Blessings to all such people who have to face such people in their lives..

  • @ganeshsharma4305
    @ganeshsharma4305 Рік тому +3

    Aapne bahot sah baat kahi sir ....meri life me bhi bikul same behaviour wala ek person hai ...jiske sath mai deal kar raha hu ....aapka bahot bahot dhanyawad sir ....apki jo ye video hai ye sach bahot se logo ki zindagi badal sakti hai..... ishwar hamesha aapko ashirwad de .
    Ek baar fir aapka bahot bahot dhanyawad

  • @sanjeevininj3079
    @sanjeevininj3079 Рік тому +34

    Sir, husband was exactly same..i suffered for 11 months..he died 25 yrs back..then onwards I'm living a peaceful life with my two daughters,son in law's n grand children 😃

  • @shaleshgautam9
    @shaleshgautam9 Рік тому +11

    Every family and relatives have such people .. very important topic .. thanks for exploring it . 👍

  • @captainblood8095
    @captainblood8095 Рік тому +6

    Thanks for this video 🙏 yes,everything is right about them.. many times I experienced being with these" gaslighters"...Thank God I understood their intentions and got victory..May all victims get rid of gaslighters..very helpful video

  • @ramonanegbiker6650
    @ramonanegbiker6650 Рік тому +15

    Completely agree with you sir,I am dealing with such person,41 years of married life with such person,I feel like waste of my most beautiful years,his alcohol has destroyed not only his life mine too.Thank you for your advices.

  • @mangalchandsingalkar1210
    @mangalchandsingalkar1210 Рік тому +15

    अनजाने में मेरे साथ उम्र की 30 साल तक ये होता रहा। मैं समझता हूं ये मेरे पिछले जन्म के बुरे कर्मो का फल है।

  • @abduljamilshaikh7907
    @abduljamilshaikh7907 Рік тому +2

    Sir,
    perfect. Gone through all these.
    Mann or dill ki baat kehdi.
    Thank you.

  • @jaishreetiwari3059
    @jaishreetiwari3059 Рік тому +16

    My sister is like this. It's all my life story...200% true. God gave me the strength to walk out of my house...although a bit too late. If I were not suppressed so much in early life I could've achieved much more in life. Now I'm at peace . No complaints. Thank God 🙏🙏

  • @preetisarojssecretsofsucce4791

    Apki asi vedio Lakho logo ki life ko improve krne me bahut help kregi..
    Thank u sir with heart..

  • @ajithapradeep9293
    @ajithapradeep9293 Рік тому +73

    Thanks a lot sir for taking up this very important topic. In Indian families it is the "Bahu" who usually become the victim of gaslighting. Because of their children they suffer silently and in most cases it's a life long suffering for them which leads to mental illness. With time ...from the immediate family members to the extended family members all learn to use her to their advantage and treat her like a door mat. This becomes a normal behaviour in the family. As their is no support system in the family, the Bahu becomes a lifelong victim. Only if her children grow to understand her ...or if she gets a strong support either within or outside family...she will be able to come out of the traumatic situation.

  • @BHOPALseMaya
    @BHOPALseMaya Рік тому +2

    Shi bat khi..Or dekhne wali bat ye है कि सबी अपने जीवन साथी से परेशान. बी हैऔर मजबूर.(फिर बी साथ निभाना साथिया)😢☺️🥰🤣😀😄😍😘

  • @AhmedAli-fr8kr
    @AhmedAli-fr8kr 6 місяців тому +2

    Yeh sari baten waqt k sath main sekh chuka hun han main andar se bht barbad hogya hun magr thek b horaha hun. Bs itna kahunga jitna hoske toxic logon se door rahen ya boundaries smjha dain unhn bht ache se

  • @diljeetx8027
    @diljeetx8027 Рік тому +2

    Respected Sir you are right because I'm facing all these things. Sir asa logo ki ager ham baat Manta jaata hai to yeh or torture karta hai ager nahi maanta to drama karta hai yaha tak ki boundations ka level or jyada kar data hai . Salute you Sir Jo aaj tak mai nahi samaj payi vo aapna aaj mujha bata diya . Thank you so much sir for giving us different types of knowledge. God bless you & ur family. ❤️ You are a messenger of God 🙏🌹🌹🙏

  • @apnahunar
    @apnahunar Рік тому +23

    My Parents are ditto this personality specially my mother. I have been facing this concern for last 20 years. My life has become hell. My social image has been spoiled to this level I prefer to avoid every common known people to them as well as known to me. There was a time I was known for being a studious kid sincere guy among all relative's kids.
    Every single trait Sir has mentioned here about gaslighter's ditto matches with gaslighters present in my life. Every neighbor, every single relative who visits to my parents has changed their views for me.

    • @pradnyartofficial4322
      @pradnyartofficial4322 Рік тому +1

      I can feel u... More power to u.. Stay strong.

    • @amol9616113945
      @amol9616113945 Рік тому +1

      My mother is like this only.

    • @nandasingh2200
      @nandasingh2200 Рік тому

      True

    • @siddharyam9682
      @siddharyam9682 Рік тому

      Can understand your pain and anger as I have also gone through same situation. But time changes. Trust on your God and in yourself.never take wrong decision in anger. Never ruin your personality for them.

    • @nandisarbo8071
      @nandisarbo8071 Рік тому

      Ya this is very important topic
      Igot trapped by mother in law
      My marriage life got ruined

  • @moonstars4382
    @moonstars4382 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much sir for clarifying this gaslighting. Yes we are surrounded by such gaslighters in the form of father, sister's husband and some friends. 🙏🙏

  • @renusaini294
    @renusaini294 Рік тому +2

    Same type of my living partner.....thank u so much......raasta dikhane ke liye 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @aniruddhbadnikar6739
    @aniruddhbadnikar6739 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for details and support and cooperation and nice councelling and motivation 👌

  • @shreesales6417
    @shreesales6417 Рік тому +1

    May God bless you Sir.... Resolved mystery of many people's life ... Giving a new light path 🙏🙏

  • @shailjatripathi5869
    @shailjatripathi5869 Рік тому +5

    I am indebted to you for educating me in such a beautiful manner 🙏 . Guru ji

  • @kb-jo3ti
    @kb-jo3ti Рік тому

    Bahut badhiya aur bilkul teek kaha aapney. Thanks for the affirmation.

  • @aartisharma9917
    @aartisharma9917 Рік тому +2

    Thanks a lot sir,meri is vedio se bhut help hone vali h,me last 1.5 years se victim bn k rh rhi hu,muje to ab tk pta bhi nhi tha, ki mere sath kya ho rha h ,meri life me meri elder sister in law gaslighter h🥺

  • @anjuasher9700
    @anjuasher9700 Рік тому +5

    Thnx for guiding.
    My maid had been doing it fr many months with me and disturbing me. She used to shout and spk pricking words whenever she was checked fr something.thr was a pattern which was happening evry 5th month. I had been tolerating her coz she's been honest and a good worker.
    After a recent incident I have asked her to leave aftr eight yrs of association.

  • @SeemaAbhilash
    @SeemaAbhilash Рік тому +1

    Mera 20 saal ka experience hai... Aj bhi bahar nhi nikal sakti dependency itni kharaab hai... Sirf ek change hai is vdo mein ki main main chillaaati roti hun aur samaan fenkti hun frustration se...
    Aapki har baat perfect hai jo aapne bataya har ek incident hua hai mere saath

  • @pamsund9712
    @pamsund9712 Рік тому +5

    God bless you sir for such enlightening session🙏

  • @Tira24tinavaid
    @Tira24tinavaid Рік тому +1

    Bahut hi badhiya video banai aapne sir thank you so much ❤🙏

  • @kantasharma3235
    @kantasharma3235 Рік тому +2

    It is very rare topic .Very Useful for related people . Thanku very much

  • @kalpanamishra3026
    @kalpanamishra3026 5 місяців тому

    Each and every sentence said here is true for the narcissist and the sufferer.I think a larger population is suffering silently. Thanks for guidance..

  • @zubintamboli7212
    @zubintamboli7212 Рік тому +2

    Surprised, u have awakens me about gas lighter and attracted me to ur knowledge. Thank u.

  • @amrita221
    @amrita221 Рік тому +3

    Excellent, true same case I saw my friend s husband. Every line is true 👍

  • @ghufranahmed1816
    @ghufranahmed1816 Рік тому +13

    Thank you for educating us about the threats and disadvantages of a "Gas lighter" persona. Mostly people face such a scenario but don't know how to safeguard themselves. 👌

    • @vivekpuri-08
      @vivekpuri-08 Рік тому

      We all have such people in our life.

    • @aniruddhchhabra8602
      @aniruddhchhabra8602 Рік тому

      Very good topic ..I always suffer with my relative.how to avoid such situation .

  • @madhurisharma2238
    @madhurisharma2238 Рік тому +2

    Ur single word is true .. as it's my true story. But as u say I m doing my best and the circumstances are better now frm my side . Gratitude 🙏🙏

  • @meenanegi2679
    @meenanegi2679 Рік тому

    Sir aapki video bahoot achchi hai. Ese personality kay mere ghar may two person hain. Main bhi ese hi apney aap say lad rahi thee. Aapki video nay mujhey shakti di, samaj di. Bahoot bahoot dhanyawad.

  • @renusharma1309
    @renusharma1309 Рік тому +2

    Very gud information sir. I have lost my golden time due to these gas lighters but now understand them very well

  • @fareehazubair8624
    @fareehazubair8624 Рік тому +5

    Thank you so much for insightful session.
    I've been through a lot all n everything you pointed out.

  • @vidyatamrakar25
    @vidyatamrakar25 Рік тому

    बहुत बढ़िया तरीके से भावनाओ को भी शब्दो मे एक्सप्लेन किया गया है।

  • @priyakumari672
    @priyakumari672 Рік тому +5

    I think silence, no contacts with gaslighters is best one.
    Victims explore their new areas of growth and be in constant support system of loved ones. Regularly exercise, take good nutrition and feed their mind by reading great books. Block him to every places social media, call, texts and also break your circle with their toxic supportes and information givers to gaslighters individual. And also doesn't not recive or accepted unknown calls and messages from. Anyone for life long. Beacause they try to disturb you by very tactics when they are bored.

  • @shivshakti33699
    @shivshakti33699 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for this video..its really life changing for many....
    i have also faced this situation ... although it was a love marriage 18 years ago...lmy life after marriage was full of criticism and blaming etc .. although he is good ,loves me too.... but his narcissistic traits were killing me inside...i lost my worth... felt worthless.... developed many health issues.....
    But the story started changing since few years... somehow with gods blessings.... i removed all expectations... I accepted the fact that his nature can't be changed...i started making myself distant from him from inside...
    started doing regular prayer and breathing meditation.... and started focusing on becoming financially independent...
    Now i am in much much much better position...all my health issues has resolved...i m emotionally much balanced and strong....i feel good from inside....his behaviour has become better than before ...... but I don't care much....i try to not react on anything... neither interfere in his business........

  • @Blessings54123
    @Blessings54123 6 місяців тому

    Thank You Very Much Ram Verma Sir 🙏🙏Grateful to You and Family🙏🌈

  • @manoharlal1141
    @manoharlal1141 Рік тому +1

    Aapki baat bilkul hamaari aapbiti hai. Par Bhagwan hi mukti dilate hai. Kabhi saamne wala kuch badalta hai. Kabhi hamko Bhagwan dusri raah pakara dete hai aur long run me jakar realise hota hai ki ham chah kar bhi iss sthiti ko nahi paa sakte the. Par Bhagwan ki daya se mould hue aur rasta bann gaya.
    Aapne jo bhi 10 points bataye hai woh bilkul practical hai
    Hamko is bure dour ka khub anubhav hua hai. Ab ja kar Shanti mili jab saksham Guru mile.(Mentor) mile🙏🌹

  • @sumedhavaish532
    @sumedhavaish532 Рік тому +1

    You are absolutely right.
    Thanks for advice 💐

  • @balrajkaur8159
    @balrajkaur8159 Рік тому +5

    Every family has such persons. Very informative. Please also share some firm and legal help

  • @mohinisaxena3226
    @mohinisaxena3226 Рік тому +7

    My mother in law was like dis.... She destroyed my confidence n personality completely. She died last year. I have suffered for 12long years n i ve become mentally n physically weak.

    • @chandrikanair
      @chandrikanair Рік тому

      mohini ji aap ek baar phir muskurayiyee be a brave women now

  • @giankaurphatoea8120
    @giankaurphatoea8120 Рік тому +2

    Thanks❤ sir. Same me 💯. Sural wale, mere pati unki sunte the. Aaj khud me hi khush hu. Mere bache Or Rab te believe ne jinda rakha. Aapne karna khrab nahi kitte. Jai shree krishna Radhe Radhe..... 🌷💖🙏

  • @shalinisharma4732
    @shalinisharma4732 Рік тому +1

    Sir bilkul Shi btaa aapne.
    Aise log bolne hi big dete. Jyada bolte Insult krte.
    Yes drate hai.
    Threat krte

  • @StudyTalkWithAshima
    @StudyTalkWithAshima Рік тому +3

    thank you sir.. my mother did this to me for 40 YEARS.

  • @chachchaji7094
    @chachchaji7094 Рік тому +1

    शानदार जानकारी दी आपने नमन है आपको। 🙏🌹🌹❤

  • @user-ld8nr9ju2c
    @user-ld8nr9ju2c Рік тому +3

    Apni family pr trust kro logo ko jb mn kre tb mana bolo ignore kro jyada time tk . Aur apne pr kaam kro is the best option ................ Aur kisi ko hd se jyada pyaar mt kro

  • @rahimakhan5058
    @rahimakhan5058 Рік тому +1

    Very true ,rare topic ,thanks a lot ,eye opening video

  • @geetamehra902
    @geetamehra902 Рік тому +3

    Yes doc.I have always been a v.happy and charged person but God has been v.kind to me that I am a v.positive person so she didn't effect much.

  • @ramanpreetkaur5142
    @ramanpreetkaur5142 Рік тому

    bilkul sahi ek ek chiz sach our starting se end tak ek ek baat puri sach hai

  • @straightfromtimbakto8623
    @straightfromtimbakto8623 Рік тому +3

    Ram Ji, I would call you Shri Ram Ji, i wouldn't know how this video came in front of my view, for me you are Shri Ram, that's what I learned that God helps through regular normal people. You to the point. Luckily, I had seen it for a long time in my last life and today I am able to enable not just my wife, team members,but all those who have been part of my life for a certain time of life. In fact my VP in the office understood and tried to change when I confronted him and explained to him his personality trait, luckily he understood.

  • @vinodsingh-gr1xj
    @vinodsingh-gr1xj Рік тому +3

    Excellent explanation of how people manipulate emotionally they often key changing their statements before we could talk they switch on to another topic and it becomes very difficult for us to deal with the personality you have made certain things very clear to be that we should be from the groundnut on our position and not to
    Divate from that position, thanks a great helpful.

  • @siddharyam9682
    @siddharyam9682 Рік тому +6

    My parents same personality. They destroyed my friends circle my social circle only because I did not bend as they wished. They too much egoist. My mother was a teacher who thinls each and every person is her student and everyine should obey her. My mother used to beat me because I was very close to grand mother.mother and grandmother had issue in which mother was gulity. They made life saffocated same as you described now. They asked me to pay rent to live in the house as I was not not marrying as their wish. I did love marriage and now I am happily married 15 years and have two sons 13 years and 10 uears and never visited my house . They never invited me my husband and my children i last 15 years. But I chose my own life as I wished and I am happiest.

  • @mangalchandsingalkar1210
    @mangalchandsingalkar1210 Рік тому +3

    मैने यह जाना के मेरे साथ ये हुआ है। मैने मेरे संपर्क में आनेवाले लोगोको ऐसे टॉर्चर से बचाने की कोशिश की।मेरा स्वभाव बन गया के मैं किसी को भी प्रेरणा ही देता रहता हू।

  • @roshnigalani2662
    @roshnigalani2662 Рік тому

    great sir today you change my life and I will start new beginning . stay blessed stay happy live long healthy happy and fit

  • @aryanpatel647
    @aryanpatel647 Рік тому +1

    Excellent content...everyone must watch it...👍👍👍👍

  • @saniyasoge2001
    @saniyasoge2001 Рік тому +5

    My mother is this kind of person she used to trouble my dad but after his death she makes me troubeful
    Thank you sir for making this video mostly log bs toxic toxic person pe video banate hai aapke is video ne mujhe ek nayi life ka realization diya hai god bless you sir ....
    Jab main actually share krti hu logo se ki meri mom kaisa behave krto hai mere sath and thats completly different with other people toh logo mujhe smjte nhi hai unko yakeen nhi hota hai ki aisa koi kr shkta hai and at the end main jhuthi kehlayi jati hu mujhe lagta tha problem mujhe mein hai meri hi galati hai is video ne mujhe new life di hai sach mejn iam very thankful to you for helping me and guiding me

    • @sheetalfulmare2071
      @sheetalfulmare2071 4 місяці тому

      Meri maa ne mujhe bahut pareshan kiya hai , ghar ke kaam ko lekar , tu kali hai tere se kaun shadi karega ..... Chuttiya kahi ki...

  • @anilavasaya7265
    @anilavasaya7265 Рік тому

    Golden speech and all golden words each and every words u said that verytrue… they all energy vempire ppl r sourrounding me since 65 years they mad me mad and they totaly destroyed my telent and so I feel so helpless …
    your speech gave me strength thanku very much U sir stay bleesed always 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 u r great 🙏🙏🙏

  • @mamtakamlakargaikwad3721
    @mamtakamlakargaikwad3721 Рік тому +1

    Very true Sir mein aise hi situation se gujar rhi hu, I am not in any relationship but I am going through this from the place were I am staying. As know some of their secrets. Thank you ❤️ very very much Sirji this is a very great help. God Bless You

  • @kuldeepsinghwani3293
    @kuldeepsinghwani3293 Рік тому +4

    I think so maximum partners are doing this to pull down the other one, any partner,,, really u explained very well sir feel disheartened that we didn't knew this earlier,all life being misused ,,,
    God bless you 🙏

  • @user-rm6rw9zd5s
    @user-rm6rw9zd5s Рік тому

    superb sir, kya oparation kiya hai, Gas lighter ka. thnks very much sir, ye knowledge ke liye.

  • @sumedhavaish532
    @sumedhavaish532 10 місяців тому +1

    Show perseverance, shed off fear , fight against them , try to come out of relationship at any cost. Yes but narcissists are always around you at home or at work place.

  • @MohammedAli-xe8wu
    @MohammedAli-xe8wu Рік тому

    Every topic absolutely 100% ryt.. 👌👌👌

  • @gouthamiyerra80
    @gouthamiyerra80 Рік тому +1

    Amazing sir thank you for the wisdom and eye opening video

  • @vimleshparihar4856
    @vimleshparihar4856 Рік тому +1

    Aaj first time suna .gajjab. mai khud positive se bhapur hu.

  • @upmaarya6568
    @upmaarya6568 11 місяців тому

    Bahutache se explain Kiya sir very true 👍 this vedio help a lot

  • @geetamehra902
    @geetamehra902 Рік тому

    Exactly.Each and every word of your's is wright.Such guys are v.v. complicated.

  • @shibkhan5870
    @shibkhan5870 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for sharing this information...i wish i would hav known this earlier..

  • @vandanaapatil8549
    @vandanaapatil8549 Рік тому +2

    Thank you sir....very informative

  • @rajyuva1871
    @rajyuva1871 Рік тому +7

    Sirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.....what an episode...
    I am. Victim of this. My entire family does this to me.....
    Now iam going through horrible panic attacks....
    I identified this pattern....but still iam unable to help myself because they are my family members.
    Literally it is like pouring hot oil on us..when they do this...
    You are doimg a great job and saving many lives....god bless you sir.🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @gulnaaz7625
      @gulnaaz7625 Рік тому +4

      how to protect yourself frome Gaslighting
      Use DEEP tool to protect your peace.
      D- Don't Defend
      E-Don't Engage
      E- Don't Explain
      P- Don't personalize

    • @pallavidixit7269
      @pallavidixit7269 Рік тому +2

      Run
      Go for no contact
      After a month
      You will be OK

    • @siddharyam9682
      @siddharyam9682 Рік тому

      Please keep a long distance from those. Live independently.

  • @shahzadhafeez9663
    @shahzadhafeez9663 Рік тому

    Exactly the same ... Well briefed

  • @thankuuniverse1115
    @thankuuniverse1115 Рік тому +1

    Sir me aise person se mil chuki hu oosne meri life naam ijjat sab kuch khatam kar diya mujhe dipression, baaloo ka girna ,motapa bahut si problem ho gayi hai me life me bahut kuch karna chaahti thii but aaj me career ko lekar stuck hu . 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭Aapki ek ek line mujhse resonate kar rahi hai 😭😭😭😭

  • @kanchanrupwate7263
    @kanchanrupwate7263 Рік тому +1

    बहोत अच्छा समझाया हैं 👍👍

  • @bhawnachandel3776
    @bhawnachandel3776 Рік тому +2

    Vey nice sir ji..esa lag raha h ap meri life ki bat kar rahe 😢..mere pati ne meri jindgi barbad kar di..😢

  • @ritusingh9808
    @ritusingh9808 Рік тому +1

    True.well explained

  • @ArvindKumar-zd7ty
    @ArvindKumar-zd7ty Рік тому

    Bahut hi badhiya advice thanks

  • @binamehta6981
    @binamehta6981 Рік тому +1

    Very very true u just opened my eyes.i will contact doctor.

  • @rajashreehiremath539
    @rajashreehiremath539 Рік тому

    Thank you so much sir, so many courages words, we honour you, for like these videos🎥 thanks a lot.

  • @ishratfirdose8223
    @ishratfirdose8223 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much sir...Aisa laga sun kar ke aap meri aapbeeti bata rahe ho.....😢... bohut sach kaha aapne ....

  • @dr.ajaykumar3622
    @dr.ajaykumar3622 Рік тому

    Very nice and eyes opener.
    Too much beneficial for me 👌

  • @RR-fw8nr
    @RR-fw8nr Рік тому +1

    Very true I have suffer all this deeply for 45 year. Not been able to live life.

  • @sweetygrover4456
    @sweetygrover4456 Рік тому

    Very informative.... thanks 🙏🏻

  • @deepanjalikamte2671
    @deepanjalikamte2671 Рік тому +18

    It's a very rare topic, and such a great explanation sir, you gave such an example ,it happens in real,my husband is 60percent same after 13 yrs of marriage I am not the same person once I was, now totally broken ,no confidence, faced depression ,Koi cheez ki ichcha Nahin Rah Gaye.sir can u plz discuss on the topic, how to know this type of person before marriage,is se bahut ladies ki life bach sakti hai,

  • @chandrakantshendge8065
    @chandrakantshendge8065 Рік тому +1

    Good information. Salute.

  • @sabitarijal1944
    @sabitarijal1944 Рік тому

    Amaging video sir thank you very much. 🤗🤗

  • @jaspalkaur5219
    @jaspalkaur5219 Рік тому

    Absolutely right explanation