This child-boy is still growing. He's confused "don't fall in love with your best friend?" Boy, you fell in love with someone's wife who happened to be your best friend. Don't confuse the two.
There were definitely red flags from her that he should’ve looked out for. One being that she has three kids by three different men. 2 being that she is married and is cheating on her husband. 3 being that she went on a rampage hating on her husband while being pregnant. 4 being that she lied on television that she was not pregnant, when she clearly was. All signs of a narcissist who doesn’t care who they hurt. You live and you learn.
You mentioned valuable points; however, a young man in his early 20s had No business putting himself in a situation where he was trying to date and "wife" a woman nearly a decade his senior and especially one with three (3) children by three (3) different men. He needs to work on himself spiritually, psychologically, mentally, financially etc. before he pursues females. There were RED FLAGS on both sides - the relationship appeared primed for failure.
Jaylan has a special kind spirit about him. Getting out of that toxic relationship was the best decision he ever made. I pray that he heals and is able to move on.
@@shirelledianashe’s literally allowed her 9 year old son Liam, to call THREE different men “Daddy” in the past (3 years Simon, then Jaylan and now the new guy) nothing about that gives off “good mother”
@@shirelledianahave you seen the news in the past 5 years? Boyfriend kill’s girlfriend kid. Yada yada yada. Yes a good mother doesn’t like a lot of people around her kids.
I don’t feel sorry for him. You slept with your friend’s wife and got her pregnant while they were married. Falynn might be a manipulator but Jaylyn is no angel.
I like how Josh listened and responded to Jaylen FROM A MAN’S POINT OF VIEW. I think more young men need to hear things from an experienced man perspective and the fact that he offered future support is commendable.
I don't think he's articulate enough to express himself just yet. You can really see how young he really is. He should'nt be doing anymore interviews at this time otherwise social media will rip him apart. Falynn should be ashamed for taking advantage of him.
He’s young and learning the motions of life, but the blessing of it all is he is learning how to self assess and tap into his real emotions to even begin to work through it, no matter how bad it feels..alot of people haven’t even started that part yet. So I send my prayers and well wishes to him to continue his journey of self love and that he soons find the peace and joy within himself.
I remember she tried to say Simon was a bad person cause he wouldn’t answer the little boy but Falynn was the one that probably had that little boy calling she’s a horrible person
Falynn is young only 34 years old, she might end up with more "Baby Daddies". It's very clear she's looking for a man to take care of her, her 4 children, including her mother & 2 sisters. Falynn needs professional help, ASAP!!!
@@michelej9496😂 🤦🏽♀️ y’all blame men for literally EVERYTHING. She’s is the child’s MOTHER -she should have her child’s best interest at heart and as a priority because that’s HER responsibility, not theirs! She’s not a good mom
In my opinion, this man should not be doing any interviews yet until he’s fully gone through his process and healed. He’s still hurt and it shows. Even in the way he speaks about her now. I mean come on, this woman was the love of your life and your twin flame as you once preached. She groomed you?! What do you even mean by that? The truth is, there is still a lot of growth and healing that needs to be done here. Regardless of what the outcome is now for both of you, you once loved that woman and though it was fast and you have now drifted apart. There is no one to blame here but yourselves. Both of you moved too fast on your emotions and the only lesson here is that emotions are deceiving but time is always a revealer! Jaylan needs to do his own work and work on his own self development because he is still very young and still immature. No disrespect just facts. There’s a lot he really doesn’t understand yet. Falyn needs help too and she needs it fast!
He is working through his mistakes. I can see how he could have gotten swept up in this relationship. A 23 yr old is very young. Most of us had missteps at that age. His frontal lobe isn't even fully developed at his current age. He is working on himself though. He will get there.
You lose them the same way you get them. Lesson learned for Jaylen. Don’t mess with a married woman. Anyway sent here from the shade room now subscribing.
Wow, this was a very powerful exchange of wisdom and challenges of relationships. Jalen I know it hurts, but the pain doesn't last always never also never allow yourself to become a third person in a marriage.
A lot of folks in the comments didn’t hear this young man saying the he is still finding himself. The comments are so quick to take sides and pass judgement on a relationship they weren’t involved in. Just pray for their healing. Stop condemning folks damn.
I dated a girl like that with so much trauma. That girl was a serial cheater and kept moving to the next man really quick and never took accountability never healed and kept blaming others
Honestly, take a look at Simon now compared to when he was with Falynn. Women can also have a negative impact on their spouse as well. The fact that she jumps the way she does tells you a lot about where she is at. Watch her have another baby. Some women really need mental help.
Ive always wondered what happened to them... They look soo good together and he seem like such a great man ,,, he was real with her u can tell he was all in,,, that's crazy to hear this he is so honest and sincere great man god bless him may he find love and peace
Yes Jaylan, you definitely lost your youth. I remember watching y'all on UA-cam and I was thinking "why did this guy sign-up for all of this at such a young age? I was routing for y'all and hoping it was real love. But it's not to late. You took a hard hit at such a young age, you can only go up from here and be stronger 💪🏽. Good luck to you and your future endeavors.
You're on your way by taking accountability and not letting anyone or anything away you from taking accountability to have higher character & morale. Be Better. Do Better.
He became his father. He is on something, I dont know what drugs but he is. He is a liar, you can tell he is abusive. He expressed FAKE ACOUNTIBILITY in this interview. "I lost my youth?" He is disingenuous
The relationship cost her a husband and a rich life. Rather she didn't love her husband or not she would still miss the perks and be mad because she got humiliated & ruined her oen life. Who wouldn't expect her to be mad at herself, you & everybody else in the world because she lost big. Of course she is going to direct her anger at the closest person to her, especially if theres blame there too. Like if it hadn't been for you! So yeah I never expected a happily ever after with them. It was just too impossible to imagine them surviving unless it was all on Jaylan bec where are Falynns skills, work experience etc?
Tish Tell built her entire channel on the back of lies about Porsha and Simon. She believed everything falynn said and tried to ruin Simons business and reputation. Jaylin had a chance to be mentored by Simon but he fell into falynn’s trap. Smh
@@deborahrandall6543exactly I remember her saying Simon would never be verified on ig cause he’s a lie umm he’s verified on ig 😂 I doubt she will say anything in her head Falynn is perfect
That crazy cock-eyed tarot card reading fool will never mention P and S again. Her credibility is gone. Now they should sue her for defamation. Even Sunday Omony. They are a sad bunch yes.
@@deborahrandall6543It was even worse than that. She made up more than half of what she reported. It was such rubbish and bull but she definitely built her whole channel off the backs of Porsha and Simon in the most malicious and vicious ways imaginable. And I'm every interview she staged with Falynn she literally lead the witness basically getting her to agree with what SHE wants to paint as the narrative which was what was best for her show, versus just letting Falynn tell her truth. She went from zero followers and only doing tarot cards to destroying Porsha and and becoming a UA-cam overnight success. Plus everything she ever said has been proven wrong. First Simon was broke broke. Then he didn't own the real estate, then they weren't actually going to get married and on and on and on. It was a bit much. But she def provided a safe haven for all Porsha haters and they dragged her until they couldn't anymore. I'm very appreciative that Jaylan is now telling the truth.
People should have boundaries before they start a relationship.. you didn’t love yourself first that’s the first mistake and therefore you shouldn’t have been in relationship with anyone.. I’m over men and women trying to justify their shit.. I’ve dealt with a true narcissist and what he’s describing is a hurt unhealed person and that’s his experience, but he’s also a person who was in love and is no longer. The courtesy he got I wish I got.. my ex still tries to manipulate
I’m going Thur it. Like my Ex still can gets everything from me. We been together 18yrs now she wants something different. But keeping me around because she loves me. But how can I move on
Falynn movess waay 2 fast.cant beleive she is in another relationship!!😢 this cant be good. She needs therapy and healing. Find herself. Theres a reason behind jumping from one relationship to another 4 kids by 4 men 4x4 aint it!
I really hope Falynn 🙏 heal n not be in any relationship to love her or go through total deliverance it's very serious.....#Falynn please 🙏 😢 ❤️, please 🙏 😢 ❤️ heal
What the hell is this man talking about?? You want this man dig deep with a man who said his mother deserved beating? Are you silly. This is why all the podcasts is dangerous. Because you have these untrained people giving advice. 😡😡😡
Wow. This is crazy first how was he talking care of anyone? He was her assistant what does he do for a living? This is falynn’s fault for taking up with a young man. She was a grown woman with 3 kids and an husband. What did she have in common with him? He talking bout that’s his best friend. How?
@@Babygirl_123 I’m a Taurus, and far from being narcissistic. I always put everyone before myself, to a fault. One thing about Tauruses is that we expect loyalty and trust, and once it’s broken we’re done! There’s no going back. That’s because we’re giving, and love hard. So when it’s not reciprocated, we just cut our losses and rarely give second chances. 🤷🏽♀️
This child-boy is still growing. He's confused "don't fall in love with your best friend?" Boy, you fell in love with someone's wife who happened to be your best friend. Don't confuse the two.
And how are you in assistant and you make your boss, a married woman with three kids, your best friend. It’s clearly due to childhood trauma.
Yeah you was right when you said he’s confused 🥴🥴🥴
Exactly! How about, don’t become “best friends” with a MARRIED woman? He’s slow just like Falynn
@@Arguewityamama🤨
Yes, he is waaay too young for a grown female and a family. He has not yet become a Man. He definitely needs therapy and counselling.
There were definitely red flags from her that he should’ve looked out for. One being that she has three kids by three different men. 2 being that she is married and is cheating on her husband. 3 being that she went on a rampage hating on her husband while being pregnant. 4 being that she lied on television that she was not pregnant, when she clearly was. All signs of a narcissist who doesn’t care who they hurt. You live and you learn.
Bingo!!
Big facts
I concur, but three children three dads, it takes two!
You mentioned valuable points; however, a young man in his early 20s had No business putting himself in a situation where he was trying to date and "wife" a woman nearly a decade his senior and especially one with three (3) children by three (3) different men. He needs to work on himself spiritually, psychologically, mentally, financially etc. before he pursues females. There were RED FLAGS on both sides - the relationship appeared primed for failure.
Came straight from the Shade Room... Sending much peace, love, and healing. You can tell he's still recovering 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Jaylan has a special kind spirit about him. Getting out of that toxic relationship was the best decision he ever made. I pray that he heals and is able to move on.
Falynn has too many men around her children. He should get custody of his daughter.
🙄🙄
Why? Just bcuz you have ppl around doesn’t mean she is a bad parent
@@shirelledianashe’s literally allowed her 9 year old son Liam, to call THREE different men “Daddy” in the past (3 years Simon, then Jaylan and now the new guy) nothing about that gives off “good mother”
Real talk!
@@shirelledianahave you seen the news in the past 5 years? Boyfriend kill’s girlfriend kid. Yada yada yada. Yes a good mother doesn’t like a lot of people around her kids.
I don’t feel sorry for him. You slept with your friend’s wife and got her pregnant while they were married. Falynn might be a manipulator but Jaylyn is no angel.
I like how Josh listened and responded to Jaylen FROM A MAN’S POINT OF VIEW. I think more young men need to hear things from an experienced man perspective and the fact that he offered future support is commendable.
Wow it was powerful when he said you lose em the way you get em. I pray healing for him. Hes still hurting.
Jalyn Pina. He changed his last name when he was with falynn. My heart goes out to that beautiful baby girl who's caught in the middle.
I don't think he's articulate enough to express himself just yet. You can really see how young he really is. He should'nt be doing anymore interviews at this time otherwise social media will rip him apart. Falynn should be ashamed for taking advantage of him.
He’s young and learning the motions of life, but the blessing of it all is he is learning how to self assess and tap into his real emotions to even begin to work through it, no matter how bad it feels..alot of people haven’t even started that part yet. So I send my prayers and well wishes to him to continue his journey of self love and that he soons find the peace and joy within himself.
💯
Praying for his healing.
Falynn is a psycho bro… she’s had that 9 year old call at least 4 different men “Daddy” since he’s been alive… 😢 I cannot believe this!
I remember she tried to say Simon was a bad person cause he wouldn’t answer the little boy but Falynn was the one that probably had that little boy calling she’s a horrible person
Falynn is young only 34 years old, she might end up with more "Baby Daddies". It's very clear she's looking for a man to take care of her, her 4 children, including her mother & 2 sisters. Falynn needs professional help, ASAP!!!
Then it was up to those males to correct her.
@@michelej9496😂 🤦🏽♀️ y’all blame men for literally EVERYTHING. She’s is the child’s MOTHER -she should have her child’s best interest at heart and as a priority because that’s HER responsibility, not theirs! She’s not a good mom
@@karlapeli5627 I agreed ,she said she has regrets ,she misses Simon now,especially the money ,cause she is tired of grinding everyday
In my opinion, this man should not be doing any interviews yet until he’s fully gone through his process and healed. He’s still hurt and it shows. Even in the way he speaks about her now. I mean come on, this woman was the love of your life and your twin flame as you once preached. She groomed you?! What do you even mean by that? The truth is, there is still a lot of growth and healing that needs to be done here. Regardless of what the outcome is now for both of you, you once loved that woman and though it was fast and you have now drifted apart. There is no one to blame here but yourselves. Both of you moved too fast on your emotions and the only lesson here is that emotions are deceiving but time is always a revealer! Jaylan needs to do his own work and work on his own self development because he is still very young and still immature. No disrespect just facts. There’s a lot he really doesn’t understand yet. Falyn needs help too and she needs it fast!
He is working through his mistakes. I can see how he could have gotten swept up in this relationship. A 23 yr old is very young. Most of us had missteps at that age. His frontal lobe isn't even fully developed at his current age. He is working on himself though. He will get there.
@nonyeo4919 you are so right. Which one be **She groomed me ** 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️,someone u claimed u loved 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️..
You lose them the same way you get them. Lesson learned for Jaylen. Don’t mess with a married woman. Anyway sent here from the shade room now subscribing.
Wow, this was a very powerful exchange of wisdom and challenges of relationships. Jalen I know it hurts, but the pain doesn't last always never also never allow yourself to become a third person in a marriage.
The host saying I Love You & his words of encouragement was so genuine & beautiful!!! Best to all of you.
Great interview. Jaylan seems like such a genuine person
A lot of folks in the comments didn’t hear this young man saying the he is still finding himself. The comments are so quick to take sides and pass judgement on a relationship they weren’t involved in. Just pray for their healing. Stop condemning folks damn.
I came here for the tea BUT I really enjoyed how the hosts handled this interview.
I dated a girl like that with so much trauma. That girl was a serial cheater and kept moving to the next man really quick and never took accountability never healed and kept blaming others
Hopefully she didn’t give you some thing you couldn’t get rid of
@@bookbag6432 thank gosh and I always protected myself
I love women like that
I like Falynn but seems like she is a serial cheater
I feel so bad for him. He seems like a really sweet hearted guy. And unfortunately this could impact him negatively.
Honestly, take a look at Simon now compared to when he was with Falynn. Women can also have a negative impact on their spouse as well. The fact that she jumps the way she does tells you a lot about where she is at. Watch her have another baby. Some women really need mental help.
Ive always wondered what happened to them... They look soo good together and he seem like such a great man ,,, he was real with her u can tell he was all in,,, that's crazy to hear this he is so honest and sincere great man god bless him may he find love and peace
Your partner isn’t your best friend. That’s you lover.
THISSS! I so hate when couples say thus urgh!
Yes Jaylan, you definitely lost your youth. I remember watching y'all on UA-cam and I was thinking "why did this guy sign-up for all of this at such a young age? I was routing for y'all and hoping it was real love. But it's not to late. You took a hard hit at such a young age, you can only go up from here and be stronger 💪🏽. Good luck to you and your future endeavors.
Falynn now has 4 kids by 4 dads smh
Excited to see this channel grow ❤❤
I knew that girl was horrible from day one when she gave that fake interview about her EX husband
Same here!!
That was an excellent episode
You're on your way by taking accountability and not letting anyone or anything away you from taking accountability to have higher character & morale. Be Better. Do Better.
New subscriber I enjoy the show and look forward to watching more , this podcast is definitely needed
The studio/set is tastefully decorated!
I feel Josh can really be a good support system for him
Jaylen have to be careful she will use his daughter to manipulate him more I pray God to give Jaylen that strong mind to be able to handle everything
This
He's hurting Cause there's no way in the world you can lose your youth in two years of dating at his age...
He became his father. He is on something, I dont know what drugs but he is. He is a liar, you can tell he is abusive. He expressed FAKE ACOUNTIBILITY in this interview. "I lost my youth?" He is disingenuous
I believe he is violent. Usually if they see it growing up that’s who he becomes. Violent men never admit to being violent.
@@marriejames01 Exactly 💯 well said, they never do. Its the quiet broken ones that are the worst too behind closed doors 💔
@ednaidatupote5602 I am shocked this man was abusive, he seemed so gentle and innocent, wow ,they are both damaged people
I agree. It don't know what accountability mean.
Falynn said he’s abusive and she paid for everything the entire relationship she lied to make him look good
The relationship cost her a husband and a rich life. Rather she didn't love her husband or not she would still miss the perks and be mad because she got humiliated & ruined her oen life.
Who wouldn't expect her to be mad at herself, you & everybody else in the world because she lost big.
Of course she is going to direct her anger at the closest person to her, especially if theres blame there too.
Like if it hadn't been for you!
So yeah I never expected a happily ever after with them. It was just too impossible to imagine them surviving unless it was all on Jaylan bec where are Falynns skills, work experience etc?
Yup she already said she misses her life with Simon
Falynn is a terrible person. I felt sorry for her when the situation happened with her and Simon but I can see she’s the problem
I wonder if Tisa Tells will cover this 🧐
Tish Tell built her entire channel on the back of lies about Porsha and Simon. She believed everything falynn said and tried to ruin Simons business and reputation. Jaylin had a chance to be mentored by Simon but he fell into falynn’s trap. Smh
@@deborahrandall6543exactly I remember her saying Simon would never be verified on ig cause he’s a lie umm he’s verified on ig 😂 I doubt she will say anything in her head Falynn is perfect
That crazy cock-eyed tarot card reading fool will never mention P and S again. Her credibility is gone.
Now they should sue her for defamation.
Even Sunday Omony. They are a sad bunch yes.
@@deborahrandall6543It was even worse than that. She made up more than half of what she reported. It was such rubbish and bull but she definitely built her whole channel off the backs of Porsha and Simon in the most malicious and vicious ways imaginable. And I'm every interview she staged with Falynn she literally lead the witness basically getting her to agree with what SHE wants to paint as the narrative which was what was best for her show, versus just letting Falynn tell her truth. She went from zero followers and only doing tarot cards to destroying Porsha and and becoming a UA-cam overnight success.
Plus everything she ever said has been proven wrong. First Simon was broke broke. Then he didn't own the real estate, then they weren't actually going to get married and on and on and on. It was a bit much. But she def provided a safe haven for all Porsha haters and they dragged her until they couldn't anymore. I'm very appreciative that Jaylan is now telling the truth.
@@shinebright2898all she covers now is those Kardashians
I feel she used him as a rebound and never healed from her ex
People should have boundaries before they start a relationship.. you didn’t love yourself first that’s the first mistake and therefore you shouldn’t have been in relationship with anyone.. I’m over men and women trying to justify their shit.. I’ve dealt with a true narcissist and what he’s describing is a hurt unhealed person and that’s his experience, but he’s also a person who was in love and is no longer. The courtesy he got I wish I got.. my ex still tries to manipulate
I’m going Thur it. Like my Ex still can gets everything from me. We been together 18yrs now she wants something different. But keeping me around because she loves me. But how can I move on
He Shoulda known What Time it was wit Her.
Regardless of Whether, or not She was much Older Than Him.
Now I wonder if the baby that she said she “lost” was Jaylen’s or the new man? 🤔🤔🤔
Same here
And I wonder if Simon decided to stay would she have said that was Simons child.
He need to go in a room play Can’t Be Friends by Trey Songz have good cry, release and come out and start focusing on his purpose
Falynn movess waay 2 fast.cant beleive she is in another relationship!!😢 this cant be good. She needs therapy and healing. Find herself. Theres a reason behind jumping from one relationship to another 4 kids by 4 men 4x4 aint it!
This man is so hurt. It's all in his voice
I really hope Falynn 🙏 heal n not be in any relationship to love her or go through total deliverance it's very serious.....#Falynn please 🙏 😢 ❤️, please 🙏 😢 ❤️ heal
Too late Falynn already has a boyfriend lol
You still have to have trust to even be friends.
Josh seems like awesome dude
They had a nice run.
What the hell is this man talking about?? You want this man dig deep with a man who said his mother deserved beating? Are you silly. This is why all the podcasts is dangerous. Because you have these untrained people giving advice. 😡😡😡
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Wow. This is crazy first how was he talking care of anyone? He was her assistant what does he do for a living? This is falynn’s fault for taking up with a young man. She was a grown woman with 3 kids and an husband. What did she have in common with him? He talking bout that’s his best friend. How?
How you lose your youth in two years. You must be kidding!
Didn't you listen he said he basically had to start taking care of not just himself his newborn but Flynn +3 kids and her 2 siblings like damn
Definitely didn't listen
Right! Get over yourself!! 😮geez
The Hurt is all in his voice. He need to find himself and get money
And she keeps having babies with different baby daddies
Well on couples retreat he admitted to alot of things dont just make it seem like its the women.
I’m embarrass for her, she is being exposed on a podcast.
She's not even embarrassed why should you be.
Which podcast?
She been exposed when she cheated with him now she cheated on him
They un subscribed me … UA-cam been acting Wonky 🤦🏾♀️😒
Hes way to soft. Hes no angel either
Yeah, side eyeing Dude based on DV accusations made by Falynn. I believe it based on his childhood. He said he saw his Mom get hit.
Why are you giving this man a platform.
He should have got a job and not sit on the couch playing video games
This is sad to see.
Taurus women yikes
Let’s not group all Taurus women 🥴 your other placements matter also 😂😮💨
@@precious5678 every Taurus female I’ve met is a narcissist & im surprised not many ppl talk abt how narcissistic Taurus women are
@@Babygirl_123 I’m a Taurus, and far from being narcissistic. I always put everyone before myself, to a fault. One thing about Tauruses is that we expect loyalty and trust, and once it’s broken we’re done! There’s no going back. That’s because we’re giving, and love hard. So when it’s not reciprocated, we just cut our losses and rarely give second chances. 🤷🏽♀️
@@mostlovely2cthat’s what’s y’all say but y’all are delusional & always play victim never accepting accountability
lol @@Babygirl_123
They’re both 🚮
This guy is still very confused…..
She seems controlling
She was they discussed it on couples retreat
I dislike this presentor off the jump..the lady...her energy is off putting...
Poor thing can only afford Vans tennis shoes 😩
WOW!
Rhoa? When..he was never on rhoa!
They both be lying,they just made Simon look good lol
If they’re willing to cheat with you…well