Seeking validation from others is a fundamental part of being a human. Don’t get it twisted. Self acceptance is powerful, but external validation is just as important.
Seeking validation from others is natural, but I love the presentation. He simply said "Act like..." he did not deny the underlying truth that everyone needs attention from others. The overall message I learned is how to win people attention without seeking it.
@@BabyLeeek lmao I get u though . Bcz when ur energy is to urself its bcz you genuinely just want to b in ur own energy not have people staring when ur just being .it’s something natural not forced
Act like you dont want anyone’s attention but at the same time actively put in the work to achieve your goals. Thats the part people dont understand Thats why neville says “act” act as though your wish is fulfilled. So go and ACT = requires action
@@Imastarintye how egotistical of you to make an assumption of a random person’s comment on the internet. That tells me enough of the lack of intelligence you have
@@Imastarintye how egotistical of you to make an assumption on a random person you dont even know on the internet. That tells me enough of the lack of intelligence you have
I'm an introvert but I socialise a lot. Being an introvert doesn't mean be stupid socially either. These days it's not about what you know. It's who you know and so if you don't socialise, get to know a lot of people, and the right people, don't start complaining "i'm broke, got no money, can't get a job, I applied to so many blah blah." It's because your options are tiny, so limited due to your own actions. Have balance.
Speaking as a 90th percentile intro, I still desire attention and validation, albeit in the intellectual sense whereas extros crave it in a sycophantic sense
For years without recognizing it I sought attention. One day it dawned on me that I needed to stop chasing ALL people. My rule now is that I absolutely will not chase another person for their attention or validation. When you STOP projecting your energy onto others (really to get their attention and validation), it is a complete game changer. It's all about putting your energy back to yourself that frees you from constantly seeking validation. I will never, I mean never seek another person's attention or validation. I validate myself 100%.
We are all still programmed from childhood, running from that wounded inner child place, unconsciously looking for validation and acceptance from our parents who never gave it to us who are easily disappointed or unhappy within themselves and withholding attention and affection because they were damaged from their own childhood, so when we learn that we don't need to seek it from anyone and we are the only one that measures who we are..... and we don't pedestalize anyone, not doctors or specialists, and not a family member...❤ then you're free. We are also all energy frequency and vibration first and foremost..... so when our energy is focused inward, that is what drives because energy flows where attention goes. And what we focus on will thrive. Always keep the focus Within❤
@@nishakuttyphoto ah I thought you meant detached as in avoidant, or pushing something away, but I see what you mean. A healthy amount of detachment is a good thing of course in that sense
I am convinced that mental wards are filled with needy, attached co-dependent people who are tormented with the addiction of needing validation. This is why many of these patients attract toxic people who take advantage of their neediness, and then literally abuse them, and they end up with serious mental issues that originally stemmed from their addiction to neediness.
@@Jesusisking235Convinced?? Girl, that’s the truth…it’s all facts! I was just saying this to someone! I believe that when 50/60s (sometimes) something year old individuals “are sick” in the hospital it’s due to being unhealed from sexual abuse. They like being poked and prodded with needles, catheters and bathed naked bc it makes them feel good like when they were sexually abused while young! Ijs, no disrespect, but it’s the truth!!
In essence, he’s teaching you how to be confident. When people are confident everyone wants to be around them. And because we are all just energy what you are energetically throwing out to the universe is that you’re GOOD. So the universe is forced to send you more situations where you feel good. Where you’re good. And round and round you go.
And yet you leave comment here. You get drained because of yourself. You didn't need to be here leaving comment for everyone now to know you exist and read, which you'll get notification for. You are putting yourself in that position. So stop it. Actions says a lot more than words.
@@TheMediaMachine there are a select few, very rare, people that are a joy to encounter. every once in a great while our paths cross and it’s rejuvenating. restoring a bit of faith. unfortunately, the vast majority tend to be exactly like You. to perpetually remind us why it would probably be better to just completely give up on the chance of an ever elusive moment with someone worth the sliver of hope. i knew You were coming instead. and i even knew exactly what You were going to say. You’re that common. You are the reason others feel drained. “so stop it.”
I feel like this happened to me naturally recently. Being single for the first time as an adult, eating healthy, going to the gym and respecting my body. I feel confident in myself and comfortable being on my own. People have been drawn to me lately, when I'm out on my bike, in the grocery store, everywhere. With the confidence I've been more social too.
Oh so you get more attention when you get comfortable with not wanting attention? Cos i always wondered why people give me so much attention cos deep down i don't want it
Those who seek love never find love, they only find their own lovelessness. Only the loving find love, and they never have to seek to find it. D.H. Lawrence
I did this for two weeks with a hot nurse from work when everyone would give her attention and validation except me. One day she couldn’t stop staring at me. It was unreal and a little unsettling that it actually worked. Nothing happened in the end…just wanted to see if it worked. It did.
Dying to the old self, the old perception- lead by the ego - and stepping into the new true identity of being complete and whole. Such a blessing, thank you for the video 😊
I've reachedd this point via pain and suffering, never knew it was an actual Neville Goddard teaching or anything really philosophical. But here we are...
Good lecture on detachment, not needing anyone's approval, and the use of an ai voice clone, but it's not a Neville Goddard lecture, nor his philosophy of the law of assumption. Neville taught that imagining creates reality and to "live in the end". That is, to assume the feelings, images, and inner talk of the new you. Think from this new state, not of it. If you didn't want to be noticed, his method would be to imagine that. Imagine no one notices you. If you wanted to BE noticed, then you should imagine that. In both situations you create in your minds eye a state that implies you already have achieved this. If you want to be famous and command attention, he would not say to act or pretend that's not the case. He would say to think and feel as if you were already the person that commands attention. And to imagine others addressing you in that manner. And then just allow that to happen, and not force it. He would not say to think one way on the inside, and yet behave the opposite on the outside. He was all about aligning your thoughts, feelings, inner conversations, and actions. He would agree on detaching from outcomes though, and not forcing others to behave in a certain way to you, but to allow it to naturally occur.
You just made the same point as the video: living in a state of not seeking attention equals humility and gratitude for already achieving your dreams or goals, and not wanting to fill any void with others' approval. Being in that state of total fulfillment is how you can begin to create the life of your dreams.
@@TathyHotel that’s not what he said at all. He said to align your actions with WHATEVER your ideal self happens to be for you. You could be someone who wants all the attention or none of the attention, as long as your actions align with your ideal self. You missed the point entirely.
To anyone defending AI generated Neville, the point is, if it was his actual words and not AI, nobody would need to try to figure out what he did or did not say.
There was a good saying I heard, in a dating context, that I feel is better applied here as a general life principle: "Focus on vetting, not on getting". For me this means that we choose to honestly restrict who has access to us, as opposed to acting with the hope that people will flock towards us. In doing so, we actively dictate who we associate with, which is an assertive act as opposed to a desperate one
I’ve only ever wanted my families validation and approval, but I’ve never cared for anyone else thought about me. Now I don’t care what my relatives think of me and never will again.
It’s not about not having empathy for those around you. It’s about not needing them to see you as you wish to be seen. Otherwise naturally people will think you’re an idiot with no respect for their existence which is quite sociopathic. Try just not needing anything from them but radiating warmth and love. It will make your life much more enjoyable.
This was written in a different time when socialization was life. Nowadays people don't have to pretend lol most people find eyes on them almost stressful--it's a bit sad really but reading this title, makes it feel like it's an accomplishment XD
Very important for people to understand. When Neville says "act" he doesn't mean "pretend". He means "take action" (do your genuine best) not to seek attention or seek validation. It's extremely empowering and liberating. It will also save you a fortune and time which is extremely useful to achieving your goals. Also, nothing beats being your authentic self. Nothing!!
If you’re reading this, do your due diligence to make sure these things were actually said by Neville. Do your due diligence. Some of these videos are not from Neville’s works. And they are doing the same with other authors who don’t have works with recorded audio which enables them to make fake recordings because no one knows what the real authors voice sounds like. Be Careful people.
The less validation you need from others, the more secure and confident you are within. Neediness, approval-seeking, and constantly seeking validation from others makes us a slave to them. We allow others to control our lives which is not good for your mental state.
This is also great advice for toxic corporate environments. Just focusing on your own productivity, absorb what you can, grow and focus on you. The best will come.
@@rbloch66 why are they putting it in his voice? If this is their interpretation of how the world works why aren’t they just doing it in another voice? It is deceitful and it is a lie. Because they know Neville is well-known and people will listen to it thinking this is actually a lecture from him and they will get more views. This is not Neville Goddard. So this channel is getting blocked.
This was the answer I’ve been waiting for all my life. I always thought i needed other validation for my success. Neediness tells the universe lack and you’ll get that lack back in return. Abundance people are drawn to and will help you. Stand strong and tall and others will join me to do the same
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
This comment is everywhere . The same thing I’ve seen many times in the comments of Abraham Hicks’ Joe dispenza’s and Neville Goddard’s. Looks like a scam or a bot comment.
I have experienced this, occasionally I seek validation but it's usually when I'm depressed or anxious. When I've done this naturally it's everything he described. I am surrounded by people who constantly seek attention, I notice it more in others than myself. Thank you good advice for everyone, I wish politicians behaved like this.
This worked for me so this is my GIFT to you and anyone reading this.. These suggestions have made me the person I am today. So take one or two or all of them and transform yourself to a super being. Thank me later. I personally did and do everything listed below and I got massive results. 1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper. 2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life. 3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins. 4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room. 5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF. 6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post. 7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water. 8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain. 9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other. 10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma. It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results. What have you got to lose, try some or ALL and see your results. Let me know know too. Have a great day... and thanks for reading.
This also makes a lot of sense like if you go to work in places with a lot of women they will right away look at your hand and assumed maybe he’s married but in reality your trying to escape any drama period makes sense now to ignore the world is to be complete
Oh my God, weirdly I just started doing this, and suddenly these men I used to cry over are chasing me like crazy. 😅 I don't even want their love anymore
You can get this from God if you didn’t get it from your family. I was not mirrored correctly as a child - my mother is a narcissist and always disliked me. I tried to get my mirroring elsewhere and all through my 20s and 30s. But God! Trust God to do it and to bring in the right people to do it.
Despite this being an imitation Neville Goddard, I must say his/its lecture really speaks out to me. Gonna focus on my goals and not on other's validation.
This was useful. The voice has a different sound then, Nevilles, oringinal sound. Im wondering if this is an actual recording or if it is a "created" "
Just what I need. Truth is simple. True charisma comes from security of what’s within not without. I see and feel this true charisma on a regular basis,and watch others become energized by the energy as well. I must assume instead of struggle. I had become enamored with the complexity of psychology leaving me without of what’s within.
I’ve always been like this but people always tried to destroy my light or copy it but with jealousy! I know that was a belief and I’m working on changing that and shining anyway 🙏
I'm doing this now. I'd prefer to be friendly but people take it as weakness. Especially the person I like. I pretty much ignore her too at all times unless we see each other and can say a quick hello. I don't even look at her. My head is down pretty much all the time.
I think you may have misunderstood the message here. Next time you’re around the person you like ( or anyone else at all) just be relaxed and happy within yourself. Be present with them but without wanting anything from them. Ignoring or avoiding eye contact is completely different and I would suggest, is not your natural state. It’s when you want something from another person that suffering happens. Enjoy practicing this really important life skill
I will never say I am a God of my own Universe. My God and father in heaven is God. But I do agree with being self-sufficient because we have the holy spirit/kingdom within us. I do not understand why I keep forgetting this fact. It's sad. But thank you brother for reminding, even tho this is Ai voice nerated.
As it states on the Home Page: " Disclaimer: This channel and its content are not officially affiliated with any motivational speaker or their estate. The videos are inspired by their teachings for educational and motivational purposes only, using a synthesized voice that does not belong to any motivational speaker. Our aim is to respectfully and inspiringly share timeless wisdom without any intention to mislead." !!
Please inform me what this lecture is and who it is by. I also detected that there was something not quite right about this talk, the accent isn't quite right and in Neville's day, they didn't use the word "ego" in that modern way yet. What's going on here, is this an a.i. voice?
@@SnipetsofTime thx, this was the first of more that came, and it became more obvious. i only ask that these vids put it in their description that it is an "a.i. interpretation" and not pretend it's real Neville.. Soon there will be guidelines that i bet will enforce stuff like that.
I’ve been acting & genuinely not been seeking anyone’s attention for 15 years & guess what!? I’ve been totally single for 15 years! Not even text a guy in the last 7 years ☺️
True connection with others is different from attention …. You may not want attention but have you connected with anyone and got to know them deeply beyond surface level conversations
@clairebiltcliffe821 Well, you can't have connection without attention...theyre not mutually exclusive. In order to form a connection, there must be an initial grab of attention, wether it be physical, or whatever the case. Usually it's a person's physical that captures your attention first and the rest follows. But I would also argue that even before attention and connection, there needs to be desire. That's a whole other topic...
Thank you for putting these speeches together to share Neville's knowledge and teachings with the world. I have been listening to him for years. Just the sound of his voice is soothing, self-assured, and filled with conviction 💚☺️🙏
@@charlotteprout-jones7257 I found Neville's actual books on Hoopla through my library. Audiobooks. His actual teachings are very rooted in Bible references. Listening to his authentic teachings is much better.
Letting go of results has been an effective way to get what you want. I'll take it a step further... create a state of abundance for yourself...live with the comfort that you already have what you want. If it's money..keep some around your space a little stash you take comfort in... if it's a relationship you want.. keep in touch with friends, go do stuff with them.. or make some new ones with little to no expectations... place images of what you desire in your space.. also.. keep things tidy and neat, this will reflect in your mind and clear the way for whats important. And.. Careful what you carry, this operation works in reverse and will bring negative results, be mindful. I hope this resonates with you, may you find love and happiness in all your endeavors. ❤
there’s truth in this. I think I’ve naturally leaned towards this behavior but not always, however in the past couple years I’ve been more intentional with focusing on myself and my purpose, less on what others are doing and what others think. I am at my most confident, productive, and purpose-driven self in this state. I believe there’s a level of detachment that must take place in order to operate at a “high level”. And to do so is freeing and empowering in my opinion. Thanks for sharing this - it has validated some thoughts I’d been having for quite some time.
@@ursulaansbach2244 for example … my old boss told me I came off dismissive towards her. She was a “boss boss” and liked ppl to kiss her 🍑. We talked about it and I told her that wasn’t my intention. But ppl always say I come off like I “don’t care” And I honestly …don’t …maybe I’m on the spectrum idk lol
People also treat u with alot more respect when you move like their validation means nothing to you,i practice this daily
This is so true, when I speak like idgaf people literally be up my ass tryna get me to talk. But when I talk passionately about things no one cares😂😂
I agree with this but also, at some point …ppl just stop caring for you lol
@@Daniel14-y1i😂
@@damxn7303That too, is true.
A lot is two words!
I remember when I used to seek validation from others. Now I am complete and whole within me
Seeking validation from others is a fundamental part of being a human. Don’t get it twisted. Self acceptance is powerful, but external validation is just as important.
Seeking validation from others is natural, but I love the presentation. He simply said "Act like..." he did not deny the underlying truth that everyone needs attention from others. The overall message I learned is how to win people attention without seeking it.
Best place to be
@@varneyholmes2603Yes. It is manipulation
Attention is the oxygen for women
When you pull back your energy from others outside and hone that attention and energy to yourself it’s like instantaneously you become magnetic .
And it’s annoying, like get away from me, stop staring at me
@@BabyLeeek lmao I get u though . Bcz when ur energy is to urself its bcz you genuinely just want to b in ur own energy not have people staring when ur just being .it’s something natural not forced
@@leth4_ul that’s it and that’s all, just want to be comfortable in my own skin
Which is ironic because you truly don't want it anymore.
It’s actually so true. This year has been a crazy magnetic year for me. I’ve attracted everything by needing nothing.
Act like you dont want anyone’s attention but at the same time actively put in the work to achieve your goals. Thats the part people dont understand
Thats why neville says “act” act as though your wish is fulfilled. So go and ACT = requires action
😂you’ll never manifest anything because you don’t know what manifesting is
@@Imastarintye how egotistical of you to make an assumption of a random person’s comment on the internet. That tells me enough of the lack of intelligence you have
@@Imastarintye how egotistical of you to make an assumption on a random person you dont even know on the internet. That tells me enough of the lack of intelligence you have
He imagined and it came to be... There is no puttng in the work
True
Being an introvert really helps with this 😂 It’s pretty effortless to be honest 🤣👍
😂
I'm an introvert but I socialise a lot. Being an introvert doesn't mean be stupid socially either. These days it's not about what you know. It's who you know and so if you don't socialise, get to know a lot of people, and the right people, don't start complaining "i'm broke, got no money, can't get a job, I applied to so many blah blah." It's because your options are tiny, so limited due to your own actions. Have balance.
True😂
Speaking as a 90th percentile intro, I still desire attention and validation, albeit in the intellectual sense whereas extros crave it in a sycophantic sense
@@eddieafterburner Intellectual stimulation is great 😌
For years without recognizing it I sought attention. One day it dawned on me that I needed to stop chasing ALL people. My rule now is that I absolutely will not chase another person for their attention or validation. When you STOP projecting your energy onto others (really to get their attention and validation), it is a complete game changer. It's all about putting your energy back to yourself that frees you from constantly seeking validation. I will never, I mean never seek another person's attention or validation. I validate myself 100%.
What if they stole your wallet? 😂
Then theyd get your attention@@RevealedFilms
Absolutely
Never say never. N while not seeked you got my attention.
We are all still programmed from childhood, running from that wounded inner child place, unconsciously looking for validation and acceptance from our parents who never gave it to us who are easily disappointed or unhappy within themselves and withholding attention and affection because they were damaged from their own childhood, so when we learn that we don't need to seek it from anyone and we are the only one that measures who we are..... and we don't pedestalize anyone, not doctors or specialists, and not a family member...❤ then you're free. We are also all energy frequency and vibration first and foremost..... so when our energy is focused inward, that is what drives because energy flows where attention goes. And what we focus on will thrive. Always keep the focus Within❤
Its always the detached one who has the power in any relationship.
Being detached or needy are both extremes, the best is to be a good communicator who is also centered and grounded in the middle
@@socratese5 detachment does not mean indifference. Its just an absence of those clingy tentacles of needing anything from anyone.
@@nishakuttyphoto ah I thought you meant detached as in avoidant, or pushing something away, but I see what you mean. A healthy amount of detachment is a good thing of course in that sense
I am convinced that mental wards are filled with needy, attached co-dependent people who are tormented with the addiction of needing validation. This is why many of these patients attract toxic people who take advantage of their neediness, and then literally abuse them, and they end up with serious mental issues that originally stemmed from their addiction to neediness.
@@Jesusisking235Convinced?? Girl, that’s the truth…it’s all facts! I was just saying this to someone! I believe that when 50/60s (sometimes) something year old individuals “are sick” in the hospital it’s due to being unhealed from sexual abuse. They like being poked and prodded with needles, catheters and bathed naked bc it makes them feel good like when they were sexually abused while young!
Ijs, no disrespect, but it’s the truth!!
In essence, he’s teaching you how to be confident. When people are confident everyone wants to be around them. And because we are all just energy what you are energetically throwing out to the universe is that you’re GOOD. So the universe is forced to send you more situations where you feel good. Where you’re good. And round and round you go.
I don't chase, I attract.
Ohhh
Don't attract or try to attract. Just chase your desires.
@@tongobong1facts
@@tongobong1Don’t attempt to fulfill your immediate desires until you align with your divine being.
@@Thatslove99-u8e Divine being in me wants my desires fulfilled.
The works in the dating world too. Stop begging, stop chasing. Chase excellence and excellence will chase you!
I do this effortlessly
@@SurgTechTutor yessss 💯💯💯💯 focus on you..change internally
“All sufferings comes from desires, seeking validation and attention from others.”
You have no free will and when you fight it and try to impose your will you get slapped.
The synchronicity of me finding this video is divine and shows me how powerful beings we are,
❤❤❤
Isn’t it amazing??
Wonderful stuff
I am not acting, I really do not want anyone's attention. I want to be left alone in peace, please I am drained.
That's totally different
i have felt that same way for decades.
not wanting attention from people who will only drain You even further is a permanent sentiment for me.
And yet you leave comment here. You get drained because of yourself. You didn't need to be here leaving comment for everyone now to know you exist and read, which you'll get notification for. You are putting yourself in that position. So stop it. Actions says a lot more than words.
@@TheMediaMachine there are a select few, very rare, people that are a joy to encounter. every once in a great while our paths cross and it’s rejuvenating. restoring a bit of faith. unfortunately, the vast majority tend to be exactly like You. to perpetually remind us why it would probably be better to just completely give up on the chance of an ever elusive moment with someone worth the sliver of hope. i knew You were coming instead. and i even knew exactly what You were going to say. You’re that common. You are the reason others feel drained.
“so stop it.”
@@TheMediaMachineSuburb point
I am complete, I am whole, I need nothing outside of myself💯
I feel like this happened to me naturally recently. Being single for the first time as an adult, eating healthy, going to the gym and respecting my body. I feel confident in myself and comfortable being on my own. People have been drawn to me lately, when I'm out on my bike, in the grocery store, everywhere. With the confidence I've been more social too.
Oh so you get more attention when you get comfortable with not wanting attention? Cos i always wondered why people give me so much attention cos deep down i don't want it
@nadineelizabeth195 it seems so. Maybe people are drawn to you because they want to be like you.
@@JasonValentineFL that's definitely true but it won't happen cos they didn't have same life as me
Those who seek love never find love, they only find their own lovelessness. Only the loving find love, and they never have to seek to find it.
D.H. Lawrence
❤
@@Mauitaoist how do you interpret this quote?? Neville repeated ti frequently..
I did this for two weeks with a hot nurse from work when everyone would give her attention and validation except me. One day she couldn’t stop staring at me. It was unreal and a little unsettling that it actually worked. Nothing happened in the end…just wanted to see if it worked. It did.
Dying to the old self, the old perception- lead by the ego - and stepping into the new true identity of being complete and whole. Such a blessing, thank you for the video 😊
I've reachedd this point via pain and suffering, never knew it was an actual Neville Goddard teaching or anything really philosophical. But here we are...
I get more attention when I pay attention to myself I get it now
Well said
Wanna dance?
You have a selfie on UA-cam. I’m not buying what you’re selling…
Good lecture on detachment, not needing anyone's approval, and the use of an ai voice clone, but it's not a Neville Goddard lecture, nor his philosophy of the law of assumption. Neville taught that imagining creates reality and to "live in the end". That is, to assume the feelings, images, and inner talk of the new you. Think from this new state, not of it. If you didn't want to be noticed, his method would be to imagine that. Imagine no one notices you. If you wanted to BE noticed, then you should imagine that. In both situations you create in your minds eye a state that implies you already have achieved this. If you want to be famous and command attention, he would not say to act or pretend that's not the case. He would say to think and feel as if you were already the person that commands attention. And to imagine others addressing you in that manner. And then just allow that to happen, and not force it. He would not say to think one way on the inside, and yet behave the opposite on the outside. He was all about aligning your thoughts, feelings, inner conversations, and actions. He would agree on detaching from outcomes though, and not forcing others to behave in a certain way to you, but to allow it to naturally occur.
You just made the same point as the video: living in a state of not seeking attention equals humility and gratitude for already achieving your dreams or goals, and not wanting to fill any void with others' approval.
Being in that state of total fulfillment is how you can begin to create the life of your dreams.
@@TathyHotel that’s not what he said at all. He said to align your actions with WHATEVER your ideal self happens to be for you. You could be someone who wants all the attention or none of the attention, as long as your actions align with your ideal self. You missed the point entirely.
100%🎉
If you had what you want, you would not seek it or think about it. That’s living in the end and the point of the video.
To anyone defending AI generated Neville, the point is, if it was his actual words and not AI, nobody would need to try to figure out what he did or did not say.
I AM calm I AM patient I AM love I AM kind I AM Christ conscious I AM God in my human expression
Not wanting attention allows me to be indifferent from, but not insensitive to.
Indifferent isn’t positive, actually.
@@DaphneMarina88 It is not positive nor negative but being neutral. No side is taken while both aspects are considered and examined.
I remember when I used to seek attention, but now I know that I am whole and complete within myself! ❤
There was a good saying I heard, in a dating context, that I feel is better applied here as a general life principle: "Focus on vetting, not on getting". For me this means that we choose to honestly restrict who has access to us, as opposed to acting with the hope that people will flock towards us. In doing so, we actively dictate who we associate with, which is an assertive act as opposed to a desperate one
I’ve only ever wanted my families validation and approval, but I’ve never cared for anyone else thought about me. Now I don’t care what my relatives think of me and never will again.
Amen ✝️
It’s not about not having empathy for those around you. It’s about not needing them to see you as you wish to be seen. Otherwise naturally people will think you’re an idiot with no respect for their existence which is quite sociopathic. Try just not needing anything from them but radiating warmth and love. It will make your life much more enjoyable.
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Wtf you care what your family thinks of you ? So what
@@TheyCallMe_TC not anymore. But atleast my family and not some strangers.
I live this way. It's liberating. As Six-String Slim sang, "Compliments don't pay the rent they're only filled with vanity "
I don't want anyone's attention! I wish to be left alone. In peace.
This was written in a different time when socialization was life.
Nowadays people don't have to pretend lol most people find eyes on them almost stressful--it's a bit sad really but reading this title, makes it feel like it's an accomplishment XD
@user-wr2cd1wy3b what you mean when people find eyes on them it's stressful
@@Nephesh1440 going out in public when people are staring at you gives a lot of people anxiety
@@skye_belle888 so the reason people stare is cause you walk around without seeking attention
@@Nephesh1440Yep I don’t seek attention from anyone. I am complete. But if folks were cool then it would be a party! But they ain’t. Lol
Because when you need someone then you make them a star in your own light projection.
Very important for people to understand. When Neville says "act" he doesn't mean "pretend". He means "take action" (do your genuine best) not to seek attention or seek validation. It's extremely empowering and liberating. It will also save you a fortune and time which is extremely useful to achieving your goals. Also, nothing beats being your authentic self. Nothing!!
Stay away from certain animal themed "hobby groups"... Chocked full of narcs trying to get validation.
If you’re reading this, do your due diligence to make sure these things were actually said by Neville. Do your due diligence. Some of these videos are not from Neville’s works.
And they are doing the same with other authors who don’t have works with recorded audio which enables them to make fake recordings because no one knows what the real authors voice sounds like. Be Careful people.
Regardless of whoever it’s from. The message is right.
Exactly @@oziomalinda1455
I’m more concerned with the message but good to know.
It doesn’t matter who’s doing them they make good sense.
The less validation you need from others, the more secure and confident you are within. Neediness, approval-seeking, and constantly seeking validation from others makes us a slave to them. We allow others to control our lives which is not good for your mental state.
This is also great advice for toxic corporate environments. Just focusing on your own productivity, absorb what you can, grow and focus on you. The best will come.
This is an imitator of Neville Goddard. Just be honest. His teachings are truly special. Wishing him to be honored.
Thought so
It is not honest to lie to people they are listening Godard (however good the lie is)
The comment I was looking for
@@DomOfNarnia It's not a lie. In their description they state that it's a simulated voice.
@@rbloch66 why are they putting it in his voice? If this is their interpretation of how the world works why aren’t they just doing it in another voice? It is deceitful and it is a lie. Because they know Neville is well-known and people will listen to it thinking this is actually a lecture from him and they will get more views. This is not Neville Goddard. So this channel is getting blocked.
I am whole. I am complete. I am sufficient unto myself. Affirming this!
This was the answer I’ve been waiting for all my life. I always thought i needed other validation for my success. Neediness tells the universe lack and you’ll get that lack back in return. Abundance people are drawn to and will help you. Stand strong and tall and others will join me to do the same
You are already everything.
I was like this to begin with but people knocked the stuffing and confidence out of me. I'm starting to get it back. I love listening to Neville.
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
What's that law it suggests?
Where can you find it?
This comment is everywhere . The same thing I’ve seen many times in the comments of Abraham Hicks’ Joe dispenza’s and Neville Goddard’s.
Looks like a scam or a bot comment.
Reply or you’re lying
It's a spam, ignore such comments
I have experienced this, occasionally I seek validation but it's usually when I'm depressed or anxious. When I've done this naturally it's everything he described. I am surrounded by people who constantly seek attention, I notice it more in others than myself. Thank you good advice for everyone, I wish politicians behaved like this.
This is gold! Thank you so much for sharing this particular Neville's teaching. 🙏🏻🌺
Now with AI we don't know if this lecture is really Neville
Honestly I’m not sure, I think this is ai
Every single word is true that I learned after lot of pain and suffering. But results are great for the mental effort taken to learn it.
It's deffo not Neville speaking! And parts of the lecture are his but its bits cobbled together.
That does not sound like him
This definitely sounds like AI. Not cool spreading false teachings
This worked for me so this is my GIFT to you and anyone reading this.. These suggestions have made me the person I am today. So take one or two or all of them and transform yourself to a super being. Thank me later. I personally did and do everything listed below and I got massive results.
1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper.
2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life.
3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins.
4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room.
5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF.
6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post.
7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water.
8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain.
9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other.
10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma.
It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results.
What have you got to lose, try some or ALL and see your results. Let me know know too.
Have a great day... and thanks for reading.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience! ❤️
The people I don't like very much always chase me and vice versa.
I remember who I used to seek attention and validation from others.
Now I am complete and whole within me. 🤲🏽💎
How do i stop seeking money if i need money? Should i start acting like i don’t want money
Yes it would be great to interact with the world like this again, when I was 27 or 28. Nice facsimile of Neville Godard.
This also makes a lot of sense like if you go to work in places with a lot of women they will right away look at your hand and assumed maybe he’s married but in reality your trying to escape any drama period makes sense now to ignore the world is to be complete
Not me who cares?
I don’t think the message is to ignore the world.
@@Frugal637 obviously 🙄 you’re not comprehending it the right way my friend
Oh my God, weirdly I just started doing this, and suddenly these men I used to cry over are chasing me like crazy. 😅 I don't even want their love anymore
All I've gotten from this in my life is men disliking me and coming off mysterious to women and sometimes also being disliked by women.
I can affirm I was divinely guided to this message. ❤
As human beings we really need validation from other people. Sometimes we don't know who we are unless other people confirmed to us.
the greatest need a human person has is the need for approval..
unless, you are a real sociopath..
You can get this from God if you didn’t get it from your family. I was not mirrored correctly as a child - my mother is a narcissist and always disliked me. I tried to get my mirroring elsewhere and all through my 20s and 30s. But God! Trust God to do it and to bring in the right people to do it.
Yes... I confirm this is true.
Despite this being an imitation Neville Goddard, I must say his/its lecture really speaks out to me. Gonna focus on my goals and not on other's validation.
Why say it's? He's a man
This video is exactly what I needed to hear on Tuesday afternoon, August 20, 2024. 🙏
What is the name of the original lecture this is from?
*act* is the key work, I would work on myself until i dont have to act. Then that energy will actually authentically exist
This was useful. The voice has a different sound then, Nevilles, oringinal sound. Im wondering if this is an actual recording or if it is a "created"
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1:02 Not validation, but also liberty from invalidation
1:45 I don't mind anyone's tension
2:24 feeling out of whack
Just what I need.
Truth is simple.
True charisma comes from security of what’s within not without.
I see and feel this true charisma on a regular basis,and watch others become energized by the energy as well.
I must assume instead of struggle.
I had become enamored with the complexity of psychology leaving me without of what’s within.
I’ve always been like this but people always tried to destroy my light or copy it but with jealousy! I know that was a belief and I’m working on changing that and shining anyway 🙏
I do not want anyone’s attention ❤
I'm doing this now. I'd prefer to be friendly but people take it as weakness. Especially the person I like. I pretty much ignore her too at all times unless we see each other and can say a quick hello. I don't even look at her. My head is down pretty much all the time.
I think you may have misunderstood the message here. Next time you’re around the person you like ( or anyone else at all) just be relaxed and happy within yourself. Be present with them but without wanting anything from them. Ignoring or avoiding eye contact is completely different and I would suggest, is not your natural state. It’s when you want something from another person that suffering happens. Enjoy practicing this really important life skill
I will never say I am a God of my own Universe. My God and father in heaven is God. But I do agree with being self-sufficient because we have the holy spirit/kingdom within us. I do not understand why I keep forgetting this fact. It's sad. But thank you brother for reminding, even tho this is Ai voice nerated.
I act like I don’t want anyone’s attention. It’s easy, because I don’t. What results is … no attention.
Beautiful ❤️" with faith all things are possible " 🙏🏻✨
It's called anger!!! When you're angry and actually hate everyone.
Such truth. Will listen over & over. Thank you❤
I just ingested artificial intelligence subconsciously AI is ruining my personal development experience🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
A Master Teacher 🌞
As it states on the Home Page:
" Disclaimer: This channel and its content are not officially affiliated with any motivational speaker or their estate. The videos are inspired by their teachings for educational and motivational purposes only, using a synthesized voice that does not belong to any motivational speaker. Our aim is to respectfully and inspiringly share timeless wisdom without any intention to mislead." !!
It's still incredibly misleading it literally says by neville goddard in the title. Having it in the small print is still deceiving
I love you Neville. Thank you thank you thank you ❤
I spend all my time subj3cting myself to others attention, and being sweet to them, while secretly getting annoyed that they are talking to me.
Seeking excellence and success. 🎊
This may not be Neville’s lecture but man this is good
It's the best Neville content on this platform by far 👏
Please inform me what this lecture is and who it is by. I also detected that there was something not quite right about this talk, the accent isn't quite right and in Neville's day, they didn't use the word "ego" in that modern way yet.
What's going on here, is this an a.i. voice?
@@reicrystalline2506 yea I believe it's Ai
@@SnipetsofTime thx, this was the first of more that came, and it became more obvious.
i only ask that these vids put it in their description that it is an "a.i. interpretation"
and not pretend it's real Neville..
Soon there will be guidelines that i bet will enforce stuff like that.
This is not Neville Goddard this is AI it's a shame about the dishonesty
You need a purpose so solid that engrosses oneself that the mind doesn’t need anyone else attention.
I’ve been acting & genuinely not been seeking anyone’s attention for 15 years & guess what!? I’ve been totally single for 15 years! Not even text a guy in the last 7 years ☺️
Do you consider that a good thing? Not making a judgement just wanting to understand,
Sounds sad, actually.
True connection with others is different from attention ….
You may not want attention but have you connected with anyone and got to know them deeply beyond surface level conversations
Loss of seeking attention is the gain of connection, which every spiritual leaders implemented and achieved
@clairebiltcliffe821 Well, you can't have connection without attention...theyre not mutually exclusive. In order to form a connection, there must be an initial grab of attention, wether it be physical, or whatever the case. Usually it's a person's physical that captures your attention first and the rest follows. But I would also argue that even before attention and connection, there needs to be desire. That's a whole other topic...
That’s been the plan. I’ve even said those exact words. The trick is putting it into practice.
Thank you for putting these speeches together to share Neville's knowledge and teachings with the world. I have been listening to him for years. Just the sound of his voice is soothing, self-assured, and filled with conviction 💚☺️🙏
You’re very welcome. 🙏❤
Are the words actually his speech?
I believe they are
@FullPotentialMastermind a lot of it is changed.
@@charlotteprout-jones7257 I found Neville's actual books on Hoopla through my library. Audiobooks. His actual teachings are very rooted in Bible references. Listening to his authentic teachings is much better.
Letting go of results has been an effective way to get what you want. I'll take it a step further... create a state of abundance for yourself...live with the comfort that you already have what you want. If it's money..keep some around your space a little stash you take comfort in... if it's a relationship you want.. keep in touch with friends, go do stuff with them.. or make some new ones with little to no expectations... place images of what you desire in your space.. also.. keep things tidy and neat, this will reflect in your mind and clear the way for whats important.
And..
Careful what you carry, this operation works in reverse and will bring negative results, be mindful.
I hope this resonates with you, may you find love and happiness in all your endeavors. ❤
I don't act I really don't want it
What lecture is this? Or did you make it up?
What is the source of this recording? It doesn't sound like Neville...it sounds almost digital, and not because it's an old recording.
Ai
@@kbeautician that should be indicated somewhere in description or at beginning of the video
Using Ai this way should be illegal
@@JessAnonymous
Agree with you 100% !
there’s truth in this. I think I’ve naturally leaned towards this behavior but not always, however in the past couple years I’ve been more intentional with focusing on myself and my purpose, less on what others are doing and what others think. I am at my most confident, productive, and purpose-driven self in this state. I believe there’s a level of detachment that must take place in order to operate at a “high level”. And to do so is freeing and empowering in my opinion. Thanks for sharing this - it has validated some thoughts I’d been having for quite some time.
Thank you for these videos ❤
0:43 this is not Neville voice it's AI
Yup someone speaking through a mic but with an ai generated voice of Neville. That’s pretty bad.
I may have an idea of who ;)@@pharllslim4544
🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Ok and?
@@IAMUbani-wb7bq have some one narrate it not pretend to be his voice
It's creepy
As an introvert I need this.
3:12 when he pronounces it ‘shoon’ instead of ‘shun’ was a dead giveaway that this is AI text to speech
Not only that, I don’t even think this Neville. It’s not his vocabulary
Wow this was really really hard to distinguish. I’m so tired of content like this.
That sound is so clean.
It is a random text with an AI voice. Read the disclaimer in the description.
its ai
This comes naturally to me.
Me too it gets better the wiser I get
Likewise, years of discipline and connection to source......
nah this was a banger. one of the best talks i’ve heard from him in a while. great audio quality too. well done. 👏🏾
Neville resurrected 😊. ❤
You got me cracking with that comment. Love your sense of humour. There must be laughter it makes the soul happy. Thank you ♥️
Thankyou forr a. wonderful message. God bless you.
This isn’t Mr. Goddard, but great speech
Such a great speech!
Who wrote this then? Putting it out with is voice is highly deceptive it isn't him.
Exactly.
@@Danthehorse It isn't even Neville's voice. The text appears to be an AI amalgamation of Neville and Jopseh Murphy.
I know it's not Neville,but it is valuable info for my growth.
I LEGIT don’t want anyone’s attention. I get told this a lot by ppl (co workers and friends). This attitude has gotten me in trouble
Check your attitude towards them in the process. Is there unspiken anger or hostility or arrogance?
@@ursulaansbach2244 for example … my old boss told me I came off dismissive towards her. She was a “boss boss” and liked ppl to kiss her 🍑. We talked about it and I told her that wasn’t my intention.
But ppl always say I come off like I “don’t care”
And I honestly …don’t …maybe I’m on the spectrum idk lol
Thanks for Neville teaching ❤❤
Good point t about the SUN.
I don't want anyone's attention.
You got it.
Thanks for this wonderful and insightful speech.
Great speach and talk and still felt like Neville delivered this message. Great work ❤