The Positive Side of Breakup - By Sandeep Maheshwari I Hindi

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  • @Sanasharma3
    @Sanasharma3 4 роки тому +7546

    Today's break-up is much better than future divorce And cheating...💔

  • @mangleshmishra1412
    @mangleshmishra1412 2 роки тому +717

    That line changes my life_"pyar karo to Puri tarike se karo aur alag ho jao to Puri tarah se ho jao"_

    • @meghnasharma1388
      @meghnasharma1388 2 роки тому +29

      Yeah , some people wants to be friends after break up and that hurts the most to the person who has some feelings left in him/her !!

    • @manish7869
      @manish7869 Рік тому +4

      Insecure bf blocked me without any big reason but that's hurt because my friendship is gone.

    • @shouryapundir4896
      @shouryapundir4896 Рік тому

      👍

    • @bebikumari754
      @bebikumari754 Рік тому

      Agar o family ki wajah se na hi o family ko chor raha hai or na hi hume to wese me kya kare na hi sadi kar sakta hai or na hi chor raha hai wese me kya kare 😔😔

    • @shouryapundir4896
      @shouryapundir4896 Рік тому

      @@bebikumari754 mre sath bi same

  • @singhkushal4308
    @singhkushal4308 2 роки тому +401

    losing someone who doesn't value you , who doesn't deserve you is not a loss . its a gain , let them go

    • @rajeshbarman6654
      @rajeshbarman6654 Рік тому +11

      Yes bro but practically it kills from inside, when u dont get the person u love so much

    • @kritirani7503
      @kritirani7503 Рік тому

      Thanku bro

    • @sanamthapa7240
      @sanamthapa7240 Рік тому +1

      ​@@rajeshbarman6654yeah bro 😢😢

    • @djamankpofficial5819
      @djamankpofficial5819 Рік тому +1

      Yea are right bro ,
      But it's a bit hard to let someone go...
      And set a positive mindset ❤

    • @diplomashorts
      @diplomashorts Рік тому +1

      It’s not easy ,

  • @Jaydev_mohanty
    @Jaydev_mohanty Рік тому +432

    Breakup feels like someone ...has kicked you right on your chest .... Only the left alone can feel this

    • @3004atul
      @3004atul Рік тому

      Yes

    • @DroxOG
      @DroxOG Рік тому

      😭😭

    • @Priyaa_1155
      @Priyaa_1155 Рік тому

      Yes...😔

    • @Akhand2207
      @Akhand2207 Рік тому +1

      @@motivationalgyan1980 bro wo care kai karan nahi hua hai..yadi ush insaan ko tumse thora ve pyar hota to block kar he nahi sakti thi.. impossible tum khud soch kar dheko..tum gussa mai block kar dete..usko..tum gussa mai block ushko karte jisee tumko koi mtlb nahi

    • @Akhand2207
      @Akhand2207 Рік тому

      @@motivationalgyan1980 bro koi help jarur comment karna hum help jarur karenge..mere time mera koi help nahi keya..

  • @dollypandey08
    @dollypandey08 3 роки тому +2524

    Unse kya narajgi ......jinhe humari Parwah hi nhi.....☺️💔👍

  • @soumenrouth9143
    @soumenrouth9143 5 років тому +1618

    Exactly..
    Pyar, Mohabbat Dhoka Hain
    Padhai Karlo, Abhi Bhi Mauka Hain..

    • @neha2872
      @neha2872 5 років тому +3

      👌🏻

    • @chamarbhau4678
      @chamarbhau4678 5 років тому +2

      Sahi aa

    • @madhavithakur7158
      @madhavithakur7158 5 років тому +16

      Hmm, bt study bhi mind sey hota hai, mind mey baat chly, bat bar rona aa jaye.. Toh

    • @mayank5154
      @mayank5154 5 років тому +11

      @@madhavithakur7158 apne parivar future k bare me socho aur padho 😂😀

    • @jiwansangha3060
      @jiwansangha3060 5 років тому +4

      @@madhavithakur7158 then listen dino James unstoppable 😀

  • @aradhyachauhan3330
    @aradhyachauhan3330 4 роки тому +1316

    Dont cry for someone ...who kill ur smile.....😎😥

  • @DevansH_Saraswat
    @DevansH_Saraswat Рік тому +92

    Maa Baap Aur God Bas Yahi Sath Dete H

  • @avinashroy2101
    @avinashroy2101 4 роки тому +2135

    Dealing with breakup..... Struggling for carrier..... Worst start of 2020

    • @gouse1629
      @gouse1629 4 роки тому +11

      Same yarr

    • @gouse1629
      @gouse1629 4 роки тому +22

      Start accha nahi hai...hoping end accha hoga...is 2020 me

    • @dawateworld
      @dawateworld 4 роки тому +8

      Going through the same! 😔

    • @kanangoyal2321
      @kanangoyal2321 4 роки тому +14

      Dude!!!! Same...! 😱😱😱 m9 life well explained in 2 sentences only..! 😓😓 God! Help us to get over this breakup shit.! 😭

    • @RahulRaj-or2jn
      @RahulRaj-or2jn 4 роки тому +3

      i had it on valentines yesterday 😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @yawarqasim3354
    @yawarqasim3354 3 роки тому +731

    When Your Heart Breaks💔
    Your Mind Start Working
    It's very deep everybody can't understand

  • @sukantasarkar6705
    @sukantasarkar6705 4 роки тому +354

    She left me just 10 days before without explaining any reason.
    But I couldn't forget her, but from now I will focus my life💪💪💪.
    Thanks sir.

    • @WardhaR1
      @WardhaR1 4 роки тому +1

      bhai mers aj ho gya 😖🥺

    • @dattapendam3310
      @dattapendam3310 4 роки тому +5

      Usne chhoda lekin 2 din baad me double khush hu...qki vo rehke me kya ukhad leta...

    • @ayazahamed6479
      @ayazahamed6479 4 роки тому +4

      She left me yesterday only.... but career first..so i am also trying to forget her....i hope i forget her earlier...

    • @addivlogs9779
      @addivlogs9779 4 роки тому +3

      More strength to you bro

    • @lioness9025
      @lioness9025 4 роки тому +1

      please see this video on youtube-(examination in life never give up mufti menk by merciful servant)

  • @Girlgamer014
    @Girlgamer014 2 роки тому +738

    No pain is bigger than a broken heart 💔😥

  • @iamrakshu398
    @iamrakshu398 4 роки тому +2620

    Lockdown + breakup hurts more🙋

  • @parinitaroy2272
    @parinitaroy2272 4 роки тому +2323

    Breakup helps a person think practically not emotionally

    • @lioness9025
      @lioness9025 4 роки тому +12

      Watch this video on youtube to remove your sadness-(feeling sad mufti menk full length by merciful servant)

    • @Priyagupta_95
      @Priyagupta_95 4 роки тому +23

      Right that's time change. everyone become practical no space remain for emotions.

    • @XtraTerrestrial
      @XtraTerrestrial 4 роки тому +5

      Kya khub kaha hai bhai👌

    • @xspidygamer7237
      @xspidygamer7237 4 роки тому

      😭

    • @tanmayeevishwanath8121
      @tanmayeevishwanath8121 3 роки тому +1

      True true 🙂🙂

  • @LiveLifeWithAlisha
    @LiveLifeWithAlisha 3 роки тому +90

    Breakup is better than divorce. You are so motivating 👍

  • @worldofathena2242
    @worldofathena2242 Рік тому +38

    Started crying by the end of this, not out of loss but out of self worth, thanks sir

  • @sunnykhajuria2620
    @sunnykhajuria2620 5 років тому +377

    Newly broke up, was feeling so bad, just saw this video, now feeling something better. Thank you so much sir.

  • @learners_zone007
    @learners_zone007 2 роки тому +75

    I cried after 2 years of my breakup while watching this video..sometimes some people are very sensitive that they hold their feelings in their heart for long and waiting for the day to vent out..thanks sir for this video

  • @priyapandey9219
    @priyapandey9219 6 років тому +2422

    aisa kyu hota hai ki jise aap poori siddhat se chahte ho use us pyaar ki kdr nai hoti hai...

    • @shubhamkushwah3875
      @shubhamkushwah3875 6 років тому +309

      priya pandey life me hadd se jda importance kab nhi dena wrna app bewkoof ban jaoge ..........i have seen it 🙏

    • @suchanasain1425
      @suchanasain1425 6 років тому +60

      priya pandey hard reality hai yeh.. Lyf slaps us hard here!

    • @shubhamkushwah3875
      @shubhamkushwah3875 6 років тому +15

      priya pandey well said priya

    • @sanjaymcd6250
      @sanjaymcd6250 6 років тому +60

      mere sth hua h ye mene jyada imprtnc di thi or ab vo apne prnts ki vjh se chhod gya..

    • @lovevox9807
      @lovevox9807 6 років тому +10

      pyar k har sawal ka jawab pane k liye subscrbe love vox

  • @nuzhatfatma2119
    @nuzhatfatma2119 2 роки тому +51

    I had a breakup recently. Never in my 2 years of relationship I’ve Ever thought that we will be apart,but it happened.I thought that I’ll not be able to move on but I did and trust me it gets better with time. The moment you stop waiting for him or her to come back again once there is the time where you grow,Breakup is part of life without which life’s incomplete.

    • @ttanyapp675
      @ttanyapp675 2 роки тому +9

      Exactly I had a breakup in sept 2021....I loved him a lot or somewhere I still love him.....bt ab insbka koe mtlb ni h ar time k sth sb better hote jata.....I had a 2 year relationship bt I feel like now I'm more happy than I used to be phle to m depressed rhti thi😂!!!!! first I thought that I m unlucky that this happened with me bt now I feel like that breakup was actually a blessing for me!! ❤😌..

    • @thinkonceagain5180
      @thinkonceagain5180 Рік тому

      ​@@ttanyapp675😊yes ,I was going through same , jo bhi h avi jyda khush hu ,pehle to bina btt k rote rhti thi aur mujhe aisa lgta h ,jb samne wla ye smjh leta h n ki aaj uski kitni fikr krte ho to wo ( not everyone) but kuch log , wo chte h aap fikr kro ,aap ro ,unhe syd unki importance feel hoti h ,wo jaan bhuj k aisa krenge , fir bolenge why crying ,they don't look upon their actions ,aise relationships se nikl jana behtr h ,😊I am happy for myself I walked out from there for my peace of mind.

  • @sahilkumar.15
    @sahilkumar.15 5 років тому +184

    Yes sir!!!!..... 💔Break-up in love is wake-up in life.

  • @rohitchhetri4097
    @rohitchhetri4097 4 роки тому +138

    Wow seeing so many people breaking up makes me feel a bit better

    • @richardralte4250
      @richardralte4250 3 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂😂 me too

    • @dristishekhawat3441
      @dristishekhawat3441 2 роки тому +1

      Matlab dusro k dukh me khushi dhundna

    • @rohitchhetri4097
      @rohitchhetri4097 2 роки тому +2

      @@dristishekhawat3441 sirji matlab searching for somebody who is in the same boat and sharing each other’s feeling makes you not happy as such but u feel a bit relived

    • @dristishekhawat3441
      @dristishekhawat3441 2 роки тому

      @@rohitchhetri4097 sir ji nhi hu me

    • @rohitchhetri4097
      @rohitchhetri4097 2 роки тому +1

      @@dristishekhawat3441 sorry madam Ji hope everything goes well and I will pray Sab thik ho

  • @anujraj3248
    @anujraj3248 4 роки тому +26

    Na kisi se nafrat karo na bhulne ki koshish karo maaf karo or aage badho or ek baar apne girewan mein jhaako 👍

  • @adarshsaurav8087
    @adarshsaurav8087 2 роки тому +56

    It's very easy to say that start working constructively keep yourself busy don't think about that person but it's not possible because they always remain somewhere inside your heart and how hard you try to forget them you end up remembering them more

    • @madhavinadimpally9099
      @madhavinadimpally9099 2 роки тому +6

      Very true but at the end we need to stand for ourselves and life will not stop for anyone so we always need to realise the fact and go ahead instead of wasting time on unnecessary people.

  • @shivangisrivastava3152
    @shivangisrivastava3152 6 років тому +1426

    I was going to die after my break up, but ur session really helped me a lot sir. I will fight.

  • @aaranshajaiswal294
    @aaranshajaiswal294 3 роки тому +120

    When he said pyar m ek alag energy hai
    It melted my heart 🥺

    • @aiwankhan85
      @aiwankhan85 3 роки тому

      If anyone reading this! Need your help guys my social circle is zero! Plz reach me out on insta for help my insta is; 'misterkhan982'

  • @RaviRanjan-sep30am
    @RaviRanjan-sep30am 4 роки тому +351

    Heartbreak = Grand Success in life 😍

  • @howrubro6012
    @howrubro6012 2 роки тому +98

    If breakup is taken positively then we can realize that we take a lot of learnings from the other person which will be useful later in life.

  • @naveenpal6579
    @naveenpal6579 3 роки тому +1454

    Pyar karo to puri tarah se karo or alag ho jao to puri tarah se alag ho jao. Bich mein mat atko! 🍻

  • @abmishra4379
    @abmishra4379 4 роки тому +82

    After watching this video , I've started crying for 1 & 1/2 hours .
    After that I feel complete relaxed.
    Thank you.

  • @serialroaster3968
    @serialroaster3968 3 роки тому +206

    "Breakup means the breaking of heart."
    Agreed so much!!!

  • @profantassy1089
    @profantassy1089 Рік тому +8

    I watched this session before my breakup, i wasn't attached much bt now she brokeup with me 😞. Now every words are attached to me😞😢 Every words defines my situation 😢and feeling better and relief after watching it. Thank u so much SM sir♥️♥️😊

  • @vortexaccessories8531
    @vortexaccessories8531 7 років тому +46

    5 years and then she went - how timeless i was with her - how true this guy is, its amazing that sandeep sir can relate things so accurately.
    iam over i guess but i wish if she could have believed me and given a second chance. i would have brought down mountains for her :) .... i wish she is all happy though :)

  • @GossipCorner8
    @GossipCorner8 4 роки тому +868

    In this generation there is no word like LOVE there is only attraction!!!

    • @vsvhardik8408
      @vsvhardik8408 4 роки тому +8

      Most of relationship is like this.

    • @tiptop3385
      @tiptop3385 4 роки тому +8

      Seriously
      I love him too much

    • @shashankbhatt9154
      @shashankbhatt9154 4 роки тому +1

      Kayezogu orewa naru !

    • @ijazahmed6430
      @ijazahmed6430 4 роки тому +9

      No , this is not true
      Look at your mother u feel it

    • @vsvhardik8408
      @vsvhardik8408 4 роки тому +7

      @@ijazahmed6430 he is talking about bf gf relationship

  • @spstore_24
    @spstore_24 5 років тому +1293

    I'm watching this after my breakup
    I know I should handle myself but it's too difficult it's too painful 😭😭😔😭😞
    Edit: Thankyou everyone for your kind reply and concern just let u know we patchup after 5 days it was just misunderstanding we are very happy with each other 😊❤

    • @manasjessel5241
      @manasjessel5241 5 років тому +34

      God has a plan for u trust and try to be good in ur surrounding s

    • @missafghanistan6103
      @missafghanistan6103 5 років тому +15

      How ru now did u forget him?😓

    • @spstore_24
      @spstore_24 5 років тому +13

      He came back and don't know what to do he is asking for second chance

    • @spstore_24
      @spstore_24 5 років тому +11

      @@missafghanistan6103 no I didn't... 3 years of relationship it's not that easy

    • @yogeshmankar4837
      @yogeshmankar4837 5 років тому +9

      @@spstore_24 dnt give a shit man to him stay single 🔥🔥

  • @akhilck791
    @akhilck791 2 роки тому +13

    With the wrong person the break up is not the tragedy having to live your life with that person is the greater tragedy.
    What I’ve learnt is that all this pain and suffering is the small price we pay for better things to come.

  • @prashantgaura96
    @prashantgaura96 4 роки тому +608

    Breakup in love is wake up in life

  • @itsvaruun
    @itsvaruun 4 роки тому +150

    What I learnt from my breakup is that, if you stuck with the breakup you ruining your own life. But if you focus on yourself and look at where you did mistake, just improve it, become the best version of yourself. Just because that person breakups with you doesn't mean all are the same, but when you know yourself better, then nothing can hurt you and after that you don't take the wrong step in it.

  • @SabbirAhmedSibli
    @SabbirAhmedSibli 4 роки тому +541

    My four years of a serious relationship (both of our first love also) has ended up 4 days ago. She agreed with her family and is marrying someone else. I also convinced my family but she declared she can't be able to go against her family. In the end, she told me that she doesn't want me anymore. So I have nothing to fight for anything as she herself is not on my side. I am upset, very upset. She did many things for me in the last four years. She sacrificed many for me. But in the end, she left me behind. Maybe my fault, but I tried from my side also. She is very special to me. I tried, but can't bring hatred for her. I feel so lonely thinking that my love will be someone else's for the rest of the life, in the same home sharing the same bed. And here, I am sitting alone, listening to these speeches to gain some confidence to overcome the unbearable pain of loss. Maybe I'll overcome, maybe I'll not, but I always pray for her. She is already happy, I hope she will be happier.....

    • @TheKatEye
      @TheKatEye 4 роки тому +10

      May Allah bless you 🙏

    • @Chinki2023
      @Chinki2023 4 роки тому +11

      same happening with me

    • @AnilCharle
      @AnilCharle 4 роки тому +12

      Bhai same to same situation

    • @AnilCharle
      @AnilCharle 4 роки тому +10

      All the best for ahead journey i pray you get very good girl in future who will never live you

    • @SabbirAhmedSibli
      @SabbirAhmedSibli 4 роки тому +86

      Update: I am recovering on time. Trust me, time is the greatest healer. Those who are in the same situation as mine, just wait and be confident, all will be ok one day...

  • @bhimgaihre1375
    @bhimgaihre1375 2 роки тому +82

    Its hard to forget someone...
    experiencing break up of 12 years of relationship without marriage...during the period, my priority was her happiness, i forget my aim and passion. Focused in her study, her growth and development...later on she started nursing career and choosed to marry with dr... now i am lonely and empty at the age of 30... i have no direction of my own life today...it hurts the most. It painful...its very difficult ....where to go?..hi everyone please dont leave your beloved one in a small reasons.

    • @mohinder4chd
      @mohinder4chd 2 роки тому +6

      Brother just try to live for today then weeks.this will pass eventuslly.i can fully understand what you are going through but trust me there is always hope

    • @himis265
      @himis265 Рік тому

      Mere sath bhi esa hi hua.mene uske liye khudko kho di.ab Usko doctor mil gayi aur ek hi din me chala gya. Koyi regret hi nhi. Mujhe khone ka koyi dukh nhi h usko

    • @aishakhan5969
      @aishakhan5969 Рік тому +1

      Oooooo no I feel so sad for you, I wish you have the better one from her 😊. Forget her and move on...... Everything will be alright.

    • @bugathanani8849
      @bugathanani8849 Рік тому +1

      Dont worry brother all is well give some time every thing will be alright

    • @nikitapatil116
      @nikitapatil116 Рік тому +1

      You have beautiful heart ❤️ God is watching Don't worry stay strong

  • @wabi-sabi4605
    @wabi-sabi4605 7 років тому +466

    My first break up... :( I won't say he left me...I have left him.. because I don't want to date an onion...who made me cry again and again...
    So.. yeah cheers to my first break up..
    One thing to say.."love important hai...but self respect usse b jyada.."

    • @amrapalimore2730
      @amrapalimore2730 6 років тому +6

      sanjana singh i liked ur thought tht i dnt want to date onion who made u cry again n again same fact wid me

    • @kakanmondal9387
      @kakanmondal9387 6 років тому

      Same here 😣

    • @tas1773
      @tas1773 6 років тому +3

      sanjana singh ..good Sanjana.u made a great decision.self respect is above all.👍gud luck fr ur life💐

    • @khushiichoudhary07
      @khushiichoudhary07 6 років тому +1

      I have done the same 😊 👍

    • @rimpybillo4645
      @rimpybillo4645 6 років тому

      sanjana singh u r right bby i hv also an onion who made mee cry again and again but i lov him... thats my problm not his

  • @sandipsarkar1059
    @sandipsarkar1059 7 років тому +48

    I am nothing to judge anyone but what I feel is SANDEEP MAHESHWARI is our generation's BUDDHA. Just like BUDDHA'S awareness not just changed his own life but everyone's life in the form of direct or indirect in minor way or major way. As it is SANDEEP'S awareness not just changed his own life but everyone's life in the form of direct or indirect in minor way or major way. Love you sir, "YOU ARE THAT" the source of my inspiration... :)

  • @shikha2835
    @shikha2835 4 роки тому +32

    I did all what I could and still stands for him taking his stand ,I left my friends,family almost everything to make him feel that he is the only one whom I loved ,but he broke me up ,he left me saying it's your fault to love me , it's really hard to move on ,but I'm trying my best to forgive and forget him......
    Why people fall in love with the one who don't love back the exact way 💔💔💔

    • @divyapanday5281
      @divyapanday5281 4 роки тому +2

      Its okk dear❤️ same happen with me

    • @foodieengineer799
      @foodieengineer799 4 роки тому +2

      It's okay. I have left so many things for her. Was there with her in my worst. Still koi nahi 🙂

    • @shikha2835
      @shikha2835 4 роки тому +1

      @@pallabiroy5538 see if we loose something better it means we are on the way to get best at its best level ,
      Trust me move on every thing will be okay ☺️ that guy don't deserve your love.....

    • @ankitayadav9064
      @ankitayadav9064 4 роки тому +2

      Love is not there if we are lefting all our friends, families..for it we don't have to change anything...but very sadly this all happening..

    • @pujanag2690
      @pujanag2690 4 роки тому +3

      Same here mere sath v aisa hi hua Maine apne mummy Papa ko v chodne l liye ready this but now im happy

  • @sherinkhan1731
    @sherinkhan1731 Рік тому +1

    This line had change my life jo chiz dimag se bani hai usse dimag tod deta hai but jo cheer dil se bani hai usse koi tod nahi sakta dusra Taj mahal kabhi dekha hai nahi ban hi nahi sakta painting dimag se kiye hui painting ki keemat hai but dil se ki hui painting ki koi keemat nahi......it changed my life🙂thank you sir means a lot....

  • @AbhishekSharma0069
    @AbhishekSharma0069 4 роки тому +716

    Pehla pyar hota hai ek reason ke liye
    Taki akal aa jaye 😂

  • @R.Puchku
    @R.Puchku 5 років тому +306

    एक बात तो जाना है ,,,,,कोई लड़की अच्छी होती है तो उसको लड़का गलत मिल जाता हैं ,,,, और कोई लड़का अच्छा होता है तो उसको लड़की सही नहीं मिलती ,,,,😔

    • @abhishekpathak4446
      @abhishekpathak4446 4 роки тому +5

      Bhai Mai sahmat ho

    • @Pragya-f7i
      @Pragya-f7i 4 роки тому +12

      रवि जी आपकी बातों से मैं जरा भी सहमत नहीं हूँ क्योंकि कभी भी अच्छे इंसान के साथ बुरा नहीं होता है।जब हमें कोई छोड़कर चला जाता है तब हमें ऐसा लगने लगता है कि मेरे साथ ही सब बुरा हो रहा है लेकिन जब भगवान जी किसी की ज़िन्दगी में कुछ करते हैं तो वो बहुत सोच-समझकर करते हैं और हमें अपने आने वाले कल में खुद महसूस होता है कि जो हुआ अच्छे के लिए हुआ।ब्रेकअप के बाद अगर इंसान उस इंसान के लिए गलत न फील न करे ना ही अपने में कमियाँ खोजे तो कभी डिप्रेशन होगा ही नहीं।प्यार-ब्रेकअप सब फेज होता है लाइफ का जब जो मिले जी लो।

    • @vaishalisatish2404
      @vaishalisatish2404 4 роки тому +2

      It's true bro

    • @ishajha39
      @ishajha39 4 роки тому

      😥😥

    • @xyamdada1790
      @xyamdada1790 4 роки тому

      😭

  • @monujsinha1707
    @monujsinha1707 3 роки тому +614

    After breakup, the energy developed in our body is call
    Thukra Ke Mere Payar Mera Inteqam Dekhegi 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @aryanviresh
    @aryanviresh Рік тому +12

    You can't overcome breakup soon, admit it. Let me tell you from my experience, if you truly loved someone and suddenly had to split up for whatever reason the process of healing will begin with negative consequences first. For the next 6 months you will be in hell, you will start avoiding people and stop putting yourself into public places. Your mind and body will lose hunger and thirst which will eventually make you weak. The memories of that person will keep reminding you how happy your life would've been if they were still here which will add more pain to your thoughts which is already killing you every single moment. You'll start losing your confidence and get more lonelier inside and nobody will understand your mood swings/mixed weird feelings except you. This will change your way of behaving/socializing drastically. Please don't take any wrong step during this time I know it's damn hard but please hold on to yourself. After you've gone through this period of 6 months the second chapter of healing will begin which is actually better, here you'll slowly begin to make efforts to get back to your senses as you'll realise that accepting the fate is the last option for you. The memories of that person won't fade out but it won't cause you no more pain. You will start looking at things in a completely different way. At the end of this process you will be a completely changed person, way more different than you were before. A person who doesn't care about losing someone! This phase will be a ride of emotions for you where you will learn about the worth of your life. I assure you that you will overcome this thing, only it will take time. 🙂
    Tip:-You can't avoid this phase and atleast you can speed up this healing process. Whenever you start missing that person cry as hard as you can and suffer alone as for now. This will help you throw your emotions out quickly and make your mind empty and help you heal fast. May god bless you with strength to cope with this! ❤️

  • @aqsaali2670
    @aqsaali2670 3 роки тому +65

    I found a lot of pontential in me after breakup, n now I think that i m much happier than before. Actually I m laughing now that I watched this session at that time, thank u so much for ur healing words.

    • @ilyasali8450
      @ilyasali8450 2 роки тому

      Hello aqsa asslamalikum
      My name is ilyas ali♥
      U from ???
      And kya such m apka b dil toota tha

  • @factai24
    @factai24 5 років тому +119

    Jo Tume Kushi Me Yaad Aye, Smajho Vo Tumse Mohabbat Krta Hai...Or
    Jo Tume Gum Me Yaad Aye, Samjho Tum Usse Mohabbat krte Ho.............."Ali Maula" (Ra).

  • @emma.k434
    @emma.k434 4 роки тому +184

    "See love doesn't hurt you, someone who doesn't know how to love hurt you"

    • @lioness9025
      @lioness9025 4 роки тому

      Watch this video on youtube to remove your sadness-(feeling sad mufti menk full length by merciful servant)

    • @abduladil7332
      @abduladil7332 4 роки тому +3

      I was left because she loved bts not me

    • @zaingame7190
      @zaingame7190 4 роки тому

      @@abduladil7332 hahaha

    • @abduladil7332
      @abduladil7332 4 роки тому

      @@zaingame7190 I was serious btw!

    • @vishalsrivastava8895
      @vishalsrivastava8895 4 роки тому

      Very deep words ❤️.

  • @redeyegaming4216
    @redeyegaming4216 2 роки тому +4

    Aj ke breakup ke bad aap ka motivational video dekhle bohot acha aur sookon mehesoos ho raha he.

  • @devrajporichha1028
    @devrajporichha1028 7 років тому +15

    Break up gives u new dimension.Nicely said sir. And this breakup definitely leads to your destined success

  • @Santosh_nikam_vlog
    @Santosh_nikam_vlog 5 років тому +22

    I was in love with someone from. 8yrs everything i have given her but today she getting something from. Other today morning only i have seen her with someone, was very sad moment for me but thankyou sir after your video i am feeling better, ki kya tha joh gaya, na mera na tera, its jusy life enjoy by own rules

  • @SatishKumar-fh1sr
    @SatishKumar-fh1sr 4 роки тому +53

    Breakup is good for career... 👍

    • @hindurashtravadi2563
      @hindurashtravadi2563 3 роки тому +3

      It's easy to said

    • @Ambeaziz22
      @Ambeaziz22 3 роки тому

      Agree me nei b kia isilieeeee love b utna he us sei abi b 🙈😇

  • @lostvalley7463
    @lostvalley7463 2 роки тому +7

    The intense love you are talking about.. And Peace of it. I felt it before, yeah it’s really something else

  • @BAbaYaga0709
    @BAbaYaga0709 5 років тому +272

    Hey I just been dumped by my ex after 8 years of relationship but one good thing I did was I always wanted to marry her so I always work hard to secure my career it doesn't matter now she left me but I am happy I focused on my career too...
    Do love but keeping yourself in priority first it won't hurt you more ..
    Thanks

    • @BAbaYaga0709
      @BAbaYaga0709 5 років тому +8

      Let's create a group share our sorrow
      +919354703720

    • @abhijeetsingh9585
      @abhijeetsingh9585 5 років тому +5

      9337800170 add me in that group bro

    • @dilissonei2166
      @dilissonei2166 5 років тому +4

      Kya mai v us group m reh skti hu kya..... 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @PriyankaMadaan
      @PriyankaMadaan 4 роки тому +2

      Etna easy b ni hota.. 8 sal bhot jada the kese bhule use😣😣😣

    • @nehatharwani6953
      @nehatharwani6953 4 роки тому +1

      Right

  • @sarthakrawat393
    @sarthakrawat393 3 роки тому +19

    When ever any person have breakup....
    He or she....gains energy.....
    And after sometime he or she became more motivated ....and silent and he focuses on his goals ...❤️❤️❤️😞

  • @ahmadtauseefraza7333
    @ahmadtauseefraza7333 3 роки тому +91

    4.2M people handling last 3 years how to control breakup congrats buddy you're mature enough😍❣♥️ learn and go ahead 🤍🙏

  • @hasibahmad-r9k
    @hasibahmad-r9k 7 місяців тому +1

    If you love someone and you try all possible way to convince him/her and after that also she/he is not willing to stop … let him/her go .. and don’t hurt yourself and him/her because every thing changes with time , your own faces changes with time ..mh frineds

  • @pihusingh332
    @pihusingh332 6 років тому +848

    Pyar hmesha galat ensaan se hi hota h .......Jo kDr nhi krta

    • @lovevox9807
      @lovevox9807 6 років тому +9

      ye sahi hai.. par kafi hadd tak ye bhi sahi hai ki sache pyar ko sirf wo hi samajh sakta hai kiska pyar adhura raha ho. aise hi sache pyar karne walon ko dedicated hai chanell LoVe vox. pls sub.. just trying to explore to true love

    • @adityanarayanpandeyt.s.cha4359
      @adityanarayanpandeyt.s.cha4359 6 років тому +3

      Bahut sahi boli Hain aap

    • @KrishnaKumar-bb1bj
      @KrishnaKumar-bb1bj 6 років тому

      lv u 8809573726 PayPal c me

    • @surajbhavre4309
      @surajbhavre4309 6 років тому +1

      payal singh sacha mai yar

    • @surajbhavre4309
      @surajbhavre4309 6 років тому

      payal singh

  • @RahulSahu-ox1zi
    @RahulSahu-ox1zi 4 роки тому +4704

    lockdown me jiska break up hua like karo😂❤

  • @shohanasweety1371
    @shohanasweety1371 3 роки тому +182

    After my breakup, i focused to my passion & carrier🎯

  • @samreacts3585
    @samreacts3585 2 роки тому +5

    I’m broken and sad and scattered after this devastating breakup 😢😢😢

  • @zubybanu
    @zubybanu 4 роки тому +228

    My husband left me he break my heart right now I'm very much in pain please pray for me thx but I'm trying to stay positive 💗

    • @PB91XX
      @PB91XX 4 роки тому +7

      Don't worry sis God has always another plan for us☺️

    • @lioness9025
      @lioness9025 4 роки тому +1

      Watch this video on youtube to remove your sadness-(feeling sad mufti menk full length by merciful servant)

    • @sandeshwithfun4649
      @sandeshwithfun4649 4 роки тому +1

      Sis don't worry apne ap ko banayo vo khud aayega

    • @Wifeyytalks
      @Wifeyytalks 4 роки тому +1

      how are you doing?

    • @gouravthind6430
      @gouravthind6430 4 роки тому +2

      Mare sath bhi aisa hi hua hai kush din pehle

  • @vinayvij8266
    @vinayvij8266 7 років тому +6

    Break Up changed my life completely! I really want to thanks her for that precious time!

  • @rakhishrivastava2649
    @rakhishrivastava2649 4 роки тому +49

    It hurts when we consider someone to very special but he shows too much ego

    • @amankumarjaiswal1721
      @amankumarjaiswal1721 4 роки тому +1

      @Rakhi Shrivastava it even more hurts when there is breakup with someone whom u have loved the most

    • @_kat_350
      @_kat_350 3 роки тому

      Yes u r right 😌

  • @sobiausman374
    @sobiausman374 Рік тому +18

    Sir you are really great I have same situation iam hopeless when my hubby cheat on me I'm become destructive with my hard now I feel better watch ur videos you are inspired me I have to do something for my self and my family and children thanks sir.

    • @indianboy7496
      @indianboy7496 Рік тому +1

      Wait and watch, usko saza jarur milegi

  • @Adventure721
    @Adventure721 4 роки тому +59

    Thanks for motivation sir ... pr bitter truth is ... sun k decide toh sb kr lete ab esa ni krenge khud ko stong bnana but actually ho ni pata

  • @mohammadidrish7451
    @mohammadidrish7451 3 роки тому +5

    I came here as I faced an immense break up yesterday. But now I have understood that I had already faced a immense break up back in 2016, as I was selected to be one of the greatest child actor of theatre. Now, I think I still have that energy of break up in 2016 and I shall try to use both the powers at a time. If, Sandeep sir, you are reading this comment, I am hoping for a reply.

    • @souravmahajan7272
      @souravmahajan7272 3 роки тому +1

      Same here bro I think there is no true love exist in this world

    • @mohammadidrish7451
      @mohammadidrish7451 3 роки тому

      @@souravmahajan7272 no it exists, you have to just feel it. Its feeling is amazing. Literally amazing.

  • @careersscwalla520
    @careersscwalla520 2 роки тому +7

    The best thing to do is forget her and move on.. time will heal almost everything so don't worry u will find a better person for sure

  • @suhani.48.
    @suhani.48. 2 роки тому +10

    I hope this kind of mentality was in our parents too ♥️

  • @GameOver-lx1ow
    @GameOver-lx1ow 3 роки тому +17

    Thankyou sir . I was depressed from last 3 days..but now after watching..I m feeling relaxed ❤️

  • @Satluj
    @Satluj 7 років тому +66

    True. 4 years ago, I diverted my energy in a positive direction. That worst phase made me a poet.

  • @shravanitambe9312
    @shravanitambe9312 2 роки тому +181

    Beautiful session ❤️
    Yesterday I had my breakup
    And I am trying to move as soon as possible.

    • @sansumaboro1011
      @sansumaboro1011 2 роки тому +4

      N I got break up today

    • @anushika0210
      @anushika0210 2 роки тому +4

      Same my state trying to move on

    • @SanjeevKumar-ls7ip
      @SanjeevKumar-ls7ip 2 роки тому +1

      Ho Jaya ga don't very

    • @akberahamad3139
      @akberahamad3139 2 роки тому +1

      Same howa mere saat kya aap mere friend ban sakte ho 😇😇😇

    • @viveksahane1314
      @viveksahane1314 2 роки тому

      Mera bhi kal hua aur mujhe vishavas nahi baith rha tha ki vo mujhe chod kr ja skti he isliye Aaj bhi hua

  • @samrageegaming3439
    @samrageegaming3439 Рік тому +63

    Today my bf admitted he never loved me .....he has someone else in his heart after 3 yrs of relationship.....

    • @riyagupta9065
      @riyagupta9065 Рік тому +5

      I can feel you samething happened with me tommrow

    • @himis265
      @himis265 Рік тому +2

      Same

    • @akkyakky984
      @akkyakky984 Рік тому +4

      Same happened with me

    • @Mineworld00001
      @Mineworld00001 Рік тому +3

      Same with me ...
      But opposite, my girl broken up today after 1 year of love and affection...
      She said we have no future together...😥🥺🥲😣

    • @poojamogia6895
      @poojamogia6895 Рік тому +3

      Exactly same thing happened with me, After three years of passionate relationship he said that he never loved me just liked me. It's been a month but still has a lot of pain and the best part is I can't even ignore him because the workplace is same.. I have to face him everyday.. It's really easy to say that channelise your energy in a positive way but it's hard to do. I've read a bunch of articles on post breakup depression but nothing is working , I counsel with iCall but failed.. If anyone here who can help me to get over from him and the depression I am going through please help me...

  • @Theinnnerchild44
    @Theinnnerchild44 2 роки тому +26

    Just had a breakup 2 hours ago... This video helped me a lot

  • @sumitmehta633
    @sumitmehta633 4 роки тому +3035

    2020 me breakup 💔 wale like kare 💔

  • @ajiteshthawait4771
    @ajiteshthawait4771 6 років тому +244

    Pyar mohabat sabh dokha h padlo beta yahi ek mauka h ✌🏻

  • @studyjunkie2546
    @studyjunkie2546 2 роки тому +1

    That peace U r Talking about is With our parents

  • @tusharmeshram1089
    @tusharmeshram1089 4 роки тому +61

    Dealing with break up and struggling for career that too in lockdown trust me hurts more. Especially for someone like me who has limited friends the void she created is unexplainable. 😞

    • @tusharmeshram1089
      @tusharmeshram1089 4 роки тому +4

      @Milan Basnet life is mean bro i understand. She wasn't the best i am way better but it's been 8 years we were together and suddenly it's ended that i can't bear. But time heals everything mate let's be strong ☺

    • @tusharmeshram1089
      @tusharmeshram1089 2 роки тому

      @@ajay29chandLife ka maksad change kar liya bro. Successful hona hai ye than lia. New place me move hua hu just aur bhot help ki hai iss chiz ne.

    • @DrasmaBaig
      @DrasmaBaig 2 роки тому +1

      I understand yr situation

    • @tusharmeshram1089
      @tusharmeshram1089 2 роки тому

      @@DrasmaBaig Everything is fine now.

  • @ProAdvisors
    @ProAdvisors 7 років тому +112

    *Heartbreak = Grand Success*

  • @akashkaustubh2571
    @akashkaustubh2571 5 років тому +6

    This guy really makes u feel good... always makes us realize that this is not the end..

  • @swapnilsahare5811
    @swapnilsahare5811 2 роки тому

    Sandip sir ka ye video dekh k hi himmat mili.
    Ek bandi k saat tin saal se reletionship me tha or is bandi ne sirf college k doo mahino me ek ladka fasa liya or humare tin saal bhul gyi.ye video dekha accha feel hua

  • @amanpreet2947
    @amanpreet2947 6 років тому +71

    i lovedsomeone so much it was 10 yers ong realtionship it did evrything for him evrything i fought with my parents left my freinds evryone we were about to get married and he refused just 5 days before marriage this was his love he left me weeping for whole life!!!!!

    • @lovevox9807
      @lovevox9807 6 років тому +1

      but why he refused.??? love vox channel is truely dedicated to all true lover. pls comment in any of our video so that we can discuss in detail

    • @yeahme6403
      @yeahme6403 6 років тому

      no new girls always do this accuse her family

    • @manvendersingh2791
      @manvendersingh2791 6 років тому +4

      sorry but its not your true love may be god have decided for u even more better then this

    • @rekhakarush7079
      @rekhakarush7079 6 років тому

      kaise overcome kiya

    • @Rashmi_Chauhan
      @Rashmi_Chauhan 5 років тому +1

      Same scenario with me ..

  • @bee6374
    @bee6374 4 роки тому +26

    I gave him my time..i was always there when he need me..i never say No to him..but after trying so much to make him happy..he left..not even without any explanation what went wrong..when i try to confront him he play the victim card..as if I'm the one who did wrong..what ever maybe the reason He Left that is what hurt the most😔

    • @riteshmishra3740
      @riteshmishra3740 4 роки тому +2

      I can understand this, when you do more but don't get anything, have trust on you, just love yourself, it will help you to heal.

    • @nireeksharao5608
      @nireeksharao5608 4 роки тому +3

      Same thing hapnd to me.. Hel left me for no reason .. As I used to do evrythng for him. And now he is acting like it was my mistake😖

    • @manishasandhurollno6750
      @manishasandhurollno6750 4 роки тому +1

      @@nireeksharao5608 same

    • @nireeksharao5608
      @nireeksharao5608 4 роки тому +1

      @@manishasandhurollno6750 😓😓

    • @manishasandhurollno6750
      @manishasandhurollno6750 4 роки тому +2

      @@nireeksharao5608 us jaisa besharm insaan koi ho ni skta

  • @divyanshisrivastav5627
    @divyanshisrivastav5627 3 роки тому +4

    Yuppppp....... Bhut takleef hoti h jb sccha pyar khud se door ho jaye wo bhi sirf ak choti si misunderstanding ki wajah se..... Aur hum chah kr bhi use door na kr paye
    .
    .
    . Kaash ye aashan hota kisi ko bhul jana

    • @exoticamit
      @exoticamit 3 роки тому

      Just got broked up today ... By giving everything. To her....

  • @siddharthparabofficials...4314
    @siddharthparabofficials...4314 7 місяців тому +1

    True Sir❤🤗 Pyaar mein sabh kuch kar jana isiko pyar karte hai..Behintha unlimited ❤

  • @ABHINAVKUMAR-rv2wo
    @ABHINAVKUMAR-rv2wo 4 роки тому +12

    If you wanna be somewhere give your hundread percent,if you wanna be out just be out don't hang in between

  • @reetikishatrends6717
    @reetikishatrends6717 4 роки тому +32

    I really loved a person with whole heart ..did everything for him ..but suddenly he blocked me from everywhere without telling anything as he was depressed due to the loss of his job ...still i am not able to forget it after ten days ...how to deal with this situation ..i dont understand ..my mind is stuck only in him.😔😔

  • @mahen4708
    @mahen4708 4 роки тому +15

    Maine breakup kiya fir bhi mera dill tuta h...she was changed..she had no time for me anymore...I just miss the old her,with whome I fell in love

  • @chaitanya162
    @chaitanya162 2 роки тому +4

    The more we love someone the more we get hurt... At the end we lose faith from love
    Sometimes I remember this line "khete hai khuda ne iss jaha main sabhi ke liye kisi na kisiko hai banya har kisi ke liye"...
    My heart- quite
    My mind - is it so?

  • @shashankjain7253
    @shashankjain7253 5 років тому +19

    Ek dum sahi kaha aapne.... Mene bhi apni energy writing me laga di....

  • @Banjara_Safar
    @Banjara_Safar 3 роки тому +5

    Going through the phase...loved someone intensely..just like you mentioned sir..still got my heart broken badly

  • @tamosibanerjee4059
    @tamosibanerjee4059 4 роки тому +51

    I am very much thankful for this video.... Actually our own expectations hurt most. Positive mind always give us positive energy.

  • @kabitapoudel6418
    @kabitapoudel6418 Рік тому +5

    I'm just remembering why he cheated with me ? Why I was totally blind with him? I feel I'm mad on him and believe blindly. But he left me making depressed.

  • @riyashil3408
    @riyashil3408 5 років тому +72

    🤗Sir hamare dil tutne ke ek din pehle apne, yeh video publish kia...., Thank you very much.... 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂☺

  • @fictionalcharacterr
    @fictionalcharacterr 6 років тому +28

    After breakup I'm here watching this. Thank you sir ❤

  • @kazimbahlooli5246
    @kazimbahlooli5246 6 років тому +6

    Your videos are like meditation so positive, couldn't cope up with my breakup since months, but since past 2days after watching your videos I am feeling relaxed, I have started staying Happy again, focusing on myself and goals again, thanks sir

  • @passbhu2651
    @passbhu2651 Рік тому +13

    Sometimes it's hard one sided n expectations.