Getting out of a slump-Finding discipline | back in the gym, pumpkin picking, NEW KITTEN + fall days

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  • Опубліковано 25 гру 2024

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  • @AnneJolievDijken
    @AnneJolievDijken 2 роки тому +117

    I can relate to your introvert stuff so much. Its good to see you getting out of your slump, keep thriving queen, we love you ❤

    • @e4mi
      @e4mi 2 роки тому +2

      This. I feel it and never *expect* an answer, just a comment left for her to read ❤ In general I think it is a "reply back when/if you can!"

    • @AnneJolievDijken
      @AnneJolievDijken 2 роки тому +1

      @@e4mi it really is!

  • @arploverfda
    @arploverfda 2 роки тому +13

    I just want to say that I’m glad to have found a fellow hispanic influencer. We all know it’s hard to be represented and seeing you thriving def gives us that role model and motivation we need. Thank you!!❤

    • @spiritualaesthetic
      @spiritualaesthetic 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah! it's funny I was just thinking this yesterday. I like cozy blogs and stuff but they're all blonde girls (nothing wrong with that tho) and I was thinking "I'd like to find a channel like that with a Spanish chick" and then voila! UA-cam gives me this!

  • @sofi7571
    @sofi7571 2 роки тому +60

    never clicked faster lmao

  • @titinerma460
    @titinerma460 2 роки тому +32

    Mel you are one of the few UA-camrs that provides 30+ minute videos and I love them. I watch your videos like they are tv episodes

  • @rmaria95
    @rmaria95 2 роки тому +3

    1. Your side profile with a sleek bun is QUEEN VIBES. Your jawline 😍 you should do it more often!
    2. I honestly appreciate you being transparent about your social battery. I’ve wanted to share my fitness journey on social but my personality is the same way and never thought those two could be possible.
    Thank you for being you. Love you ❤

  • @kmbranca
    @kmbranca 2 роки тому +25

    Don't push yourself to respond to everyone if that's not you. Your real support loves you for you and that means allowing and accepting. One time I heard the phrase "introverts are living in an extrovert's world" and it honestly makes so much sense. The standard acceptable behavior is a social butterfly's and everyone else has to apologize. I can hardly stomach looking at my missed texts from 4 or 5 people, I can't imagine how stressful thousands of comments a week must feel. I applaud you girl, y estoy muy orgulloso de ti💕

  • @Eva-oi4qq
    @Eva-oi4qq 2 роки тому +31

    I love how real you are. Mel makes me feel like a human and gives me so much motivation. We appreciate you so much Mel

  • @faithbenedict7823
    @faithbenedict7823 2 роки тому +10

    I don't have internet/service in my house, so typically I like to watch your videos when I go for a walk. I like that they are longer because then I accidentally walk longer. I actually started working out because of your videos, so thankssssss 💋

  • @irizarryclari
    @irizarryclari 2 роки тому +8

    For me the people that just do them and try not to please everyone or their viewers are the people I enjoy watching the most. You can't please everyone so you might as well just do what makes you happy and that is how you show your most authentic self!

  • @mphoyalefatse
    @mphoyalefatse 2 роки тому +32

    Love you from South Africa ❤️I am literally obsessed with you. I watch your videos daily to feel much more motivated about life because to be honest, life is a kick in the ass. You literally inspire me to be a better person, do well in school and work on my goals. Your pictures are literally the on the cover on every single school book I have and I always brag about having you as the bestest role model ❤️ thank you so much for changing a whole lot of people's lives

    • @choccymono
      @choccymono 2 роки тому +3

      I’m also from SA and I watch her videos daily for motivation 😭❤️

  • @iamsheunleashed
    @iamsheunleashed 2 роки тому +19

    Thank you for your vulnerability. It’s appreciated more than you know. Your vlog today was perfect. It wasn’t all over the place at all. It was chef’s kiss boo!

  • @lazyellie1299
    @lazyellie1299 2 роки тому +11

    Definitely feel inspired to get out of my slump. But I love how this vid is more chill about it. Like it’s getting out of a slump but at a comfortable realistic manner. Love ur vids btw & Deja is SUPER ADORABLE

  • @paulajohnston7518
    @paulajohnston7518 2 роки тому +2

    Black cats are the most special and perfect little fluffs! I hope everyone gets along!!

    • @CindyRussi.
      @CindyRussi. 2 роки тому

      They are!!🐈‍⬛💕🐈‍⬛💕

  • @sharmika04
    @sharmika04 2 роки тому +15

    Holy cow, you hit 200k subbies! Congrats! I have no complaints about video length. I'm usually just happy to see you, your man's and the kittens! I enjoy all the content you share with us. Deja is so freaking cute! Hopefully you are having a good spooky month so far 😄

  • @carinaaulis4118
    @carinaaulis4118 2 роки тому +6

    I feel like I'm in a constant battle between I wanna be alone and I wanna be with people and be in contact with people. Introvert issues 😅 I love your content no matter what it is or how long or short the videos are. Hang in there ❤️
    Déjà is adorable 🥰

  • @aussie_fun
    @aussie_fun 2 роки тому +3

    I usually don't comment on your videos, but I really think your inspiring, motivating and very real. I'm a introvert/extrovert, I get you don't feel comfortable to talk to us sometimes. I was vlogging at one stage but I don't really like the spot light, I was very awkward in my videos whilst speaking. I started my health routine 3 weeks ago, because of your personality and motivation in your videos. I have mostly stayed on track through it. You deserve a beautiful and prosperous life. Congratulations on the new kitty. Love from Australia 💗💖

  • @Account14973
    @Account14973 2 роки тому +2

    I always appreciate how honest you are about being in gym slumps or slumps in general. I think it says a lot about how you value transparency or the lack of need to bullshit people which makes watching your videos so refreshing!

  • @AshleyIvelisse89
    @AshleyIvelisse89 2 роки тому +5

    I really love how long your videos are... You can actually chill and watch without scrolling after 15 min.❤️

  • @tyrahayes218
    @tyrahayes218 2 роки тому

    Hey. Our household has 7 cats. They keep each other busy. We hardly see them, mostly in the morning for breakfast. Good luck. You’re gonna fall in love with them all.

  • @sarah-s9y8b
    @sarah-s9y8b 2 роки тому

    Girl I have three cats. I don't find it any different from two outside of the slightly faster rate I go through food/litter. Thanks for taking in that kitty! I'm happy she's found a home!

  • @jdtrainingco
    @jdtrainingco 2 роки тому

    I love it when youur videos are longer, it's like watvhing a movie. I can sit and relate and enjoy your content

  • @gabriellareyes0716
    @gabriellareyes0716 2 роки тому +8

    I’m so happy you posted I really needed one of your videos my week has been so bad and this just makes me so much happier i love you Mel thank you

  • @missleeeenx3
    @missleeeenx3 2 роки тому +1

    You are the only UA-camr that I will sit and watching 30-40 min vlogs for!!!! Keep being your authentic self Mel! 🧡

  • @makenawinter2222
    @makenawinter2222 2 роки тому +1

    my breaks are 30 minutes so i like when your videos are longer, and i feel like i can relax and get cozy when i watch your videos. but really, it's what you're happy with at the end of the day♡

  • @LBB511
    @LBB511 2 роки тому +2

    Girl, we love what you put out! I personally love the long videos. I also love everything you put out and how you communicate with your audience even if it’s in the video and not the comments. Keep it up girl ❤

  • @manuxx7024
    @manuxx7024 2 роки тому +4

    Eu amo a vibes calma e relaxante que seus vídeos trazem, sua edição é impecável 🤍🇧🇷

  • @Austin-go3bs
    @Austin-go3bs 2 роки тому +3

    Love the longer videos too! And all of your looks in this video were STUNNING! You always say you don’t like your buns but I think they look awesome 😂 we’re our own worst critics as they say haha! Keep it up girl, I love these cozy fall videos!

  • @nathaliem3423
    @nathaliem3423 2 роки тому +3

    Perfect timing...I have been in a slump for the past 2 weeks and your videos are perfect motivation. Thank you mamas

  • @dariansockey5985
    @dariansockey5985 2 роки тому

    Watching your vlogs is self care 💕

  • @paolagonzalez-pb4zw
    @paolagonzalez-pb4zw 2 роки тому

    I’ve been struggling with my routines and sticking to what I KNOW I SHOULD be doing and never do.
    It’s so reassuring to know that other people go through this as well. I’ve felt so ashamed about not doing the things I intend to do, after watching your video I don’t feel as alone. ❤

  • @kaiwonbradburn
    @kaiwonbradburn 2 роки тому +2

    I'm so happy you're back!👻🍂🤎🎃

  • @irizarryclari
    @irizarryclari 2 роки тому +1

    The kitty is so cute!

  • @Jess-le7fc
    @Jess-le7fc 2 роки тому

    Insecurities is such a unique topic, u mentioned not liking ur face shape tho that’s a feature I’ve always admired of yours

  • @Sarahmelody123
    @Sarahmelody123 2 роки тому

    I watch every single video of your and I've never commented but today I just cannot you've complained about your eyebrows in some of your videos but in this video your eyebrows look dammn Good I'm just jealous 🥺 love u from all my heart ♥ do never stop giving us your beautiful energy because we need it nah we're addicted to it ...

  • @wrld-in-blue5184
    @wrld-in-blue5184 2 роки тому

    The aesthetic of your channel is just 👌💕 all your videos are so good and well edited !

  • @dawnfisher3860
    @dawnfisher3860 2 роки тому

    I love ur long videos of yours. I look forward to them and I love your authentic self. Keep doing you girl you’re awesome don’t question it just keep bringing them videos, you’re loved and supported.❤

  • @nailedbyshina
    @nailedbyshina 2 роки тому +2

    Hey hey! I recently discovered your channel as i’m in love with you and your vibe! Your videos are so relaxing and I can watch them while I work around the house myself!

  • @rosebirdessentialsllc9368
    @rosebirdessentialsllc9368 2 роки тому

    I just started watching your videos and I’m hooked lol keep going I’m here for everything love you girl! ❤

  • @carriecoutino1015
    @carriecoutino1015 2 роки тому

    I love love love your beautiful talk’s I don’t feel alone but love also that you like Japan so peaceful right and those cherry blossoms I feel like so much peace I want to visit Japan I get your vibes and I’m there you ain’t alone either we all struggling no body can front we all going through it as a country as humans and in our private lives you are doing well Mel you inspire me to get up and fight again for another blessed day much love mel

  • @g.e.t.w.e.l.l.s.o.o.n
    @g.e.t.w.e.l.l.s.o.o.n 2 роки тому

    That person left a rude comment. your videos are your communications with us and we are grateful.

  • @jadasmif5010
    @jadasmif5010 2 роки тому

    Oh the Brazilian bum bum cream is a must have…. Every time I wear it I get asked what I’m wearing, also makes u soft

  • @snehhaaaa
    @snehhaaaa 2 роки тому

    hey mel can do you a video solely on all the juices you make , from healthy shots to fruity margaritas and smoothies please . i love your drinks but i can’t seem to find the recipe for it all

  • @vivianchoi12
    @vivianchoi12 2 роки тому

    Mel!! Don't think about it, just do it!! because I would just watch it!! I literally feel so excited when I see your video showing up on my UA-cam homepage and it says thirty something minute because I get my right dose of your content after not seeing you for a week or something haha. I watch it like I watch TV. Love and support!! Hope you have a great weekend

    • @vivianchoi12
      @vivianchoi12 2 роки тому

      I was responding to the thoughts you were sharing in the last portion of the video

  • @EatMyTweets13
    @EatMyTweets13 2 роки тому

    Yea I need friends like this…. It’s just vibey asf ❤️

  • @angieisa6045
    @angieisa6045 2 роки тому

    I feel you I’m so introvert sometimes and it’s not that I’m not social, just me being shy or not confident sometimes but this girl rocks.

  • @annazuzu.
    @annazuzu. 2 роки тому

    i feel like we're living as doubles ahah, i love your content and it makes me feel so seen and heard. i love your routines, the improving yourself for you, and ofc doing things for you. its so inspiring and seeing how others are spending their time and it reminds me that each day is precious and its okay to have slow days! just wanted to say that i absolutely appreciate you!!

  • @amanisquad593
    @amanisquad593 2 роки тому +2

    i love the videos!! and i love how your being motivated and motivating at the same time. Also love the mix video ideas and long vids

  • @alphamindset3866
    @alphamindset3866 2 роки тому

    I love these longer vlogs please make more!

  • @tammyjones6779
    @tammyjones6779 2 роки тому

    Love you and everything u do. I so understand how you feel. Same days I have lots of motivation and then there other days no motivation for life. We all have up and down. I just need to be patient with myself. I do love video. You did a great job on it. Keep up great work. U are a rock star. Lot's if love.

  • @ShayyButter
    @ShayyButter 2 роки тому

    the spooky decor is so cute!! I get it, as a content creator myself, its hard to take the time to answer comments when you social battery is already low. maybe try hearting the comments? either way - love your content, it always inspires me!

  • @elijonze
    @elijonze 2 роки тому

    You literally don’t owe anyone a response. I’d rather have an authentic response than one that feels like an obligation. Do you 💕

  • @taylornapior2099
    @taylornapior2099 2 роки тому

    It took a full month for my cats to get along. And that was with proper introduction and separating them for about a couple weeks. Now my two younger cats are best friends. They will get there. It does take time. There is a lot of hissing. It is a process. Just make sure you are always watching them and if you are leaving to separate them. It’ll pay off though. They will soon be friends since they are all so young and playful.

  • @NanciSamayoa8023
    @NanciSamayoa8023 2 роки тому

    Girl, I really missed your videos and you as well. Cause help me a lot , to want to work hard for having the lifestyle that I want. love u Babe.💖You inspire me to keep going. The best , that happened to me was , to find your channel.

  • @gabb.j
    @gabb.j 2 роки тому

    Hi melll I love long videos so feel free to go as long as you want lol I've been watching for a while and love seeing you talk more and putting more authenticity in your videos

  • @authenticallyadhd
    @authenticallyadhd 2 роки тому

    THOSE PULL UPS ARE GOALLLLLLS. Get ittttt

  • @Divinely.Diamond
    @Divinely.Diamond 2 роки тому +1

    Love the vibe of your videos. Very calming 😊

  • @ChapmanProductionsX
    @ChapmanProductionsX 2 роки тому

    I literally just got done watching your last video and I was trying to figure out what I was going to watch next. Perfect timing 🥲

  • @thaliasena8612
    @thaliasena8612 2 роки тому

    sincerely you have helped me so much mentally. thank you for everything. ❤

  • @_Jojomarie
    @_Jojomarie 2 роки тому +1

    you keep doing you boos. whatever keeps you happy is all that should matter.. love your new edition. stay safe from the hurricane 🤟

  • @poongieshroomie
    @poongieshroomie 2 роки тому +1

    YESSS!! loving these fall vlogs

  • @salishakhan595
    @salishakhan595 2 роки тому

    I loveevevevveve your videos so much. It’s so crazy I used to only want a pet doggie but watching your videos made me grew a love for kittens 😩

  • @logynswain
    @logynswain 2 роки тому

    love the long vlogs Mel! also loving the unfiltered chats at the end

  • @candacecarrasco4774
    @candacecarrasco4774 2 роки тому

    I always watch your videos with my morning ☕.

  • @chantellaa
    @chantellaa 2 роки тому

    watching you after school>>>>

  • @annavee16
    @annavee16 2 роки тому

    I love when your videos are long ! ❤️

  • @brandyswanson6200
    @brandyswanson6200 2 роки тому

    I like the long videos! Helps keep me entertained while I type numbers into a computer all day 😂😅

  • @nikki..k
    @nikki..k 2 роки тому

    I love your videos 30 mins or longer would be great even an hour 😁❤ when I'm having a stressful day and I see your video pop up I click right away. Very inspiring

  • @janellewebster8747
    @janellewebster8747 2 роки тому

    Girrlll you’re always killin it. I love your videos and get so excited when you upload. I literally be waiting for them. I’ve also been in a slump so it’s so helpful to watch your videos. Deja is super cuteeee and I’m sure they’ll all get along soon. Love the length and your aesthetics. Keep doin you boo 💖

  • @Kontreledaughterofaking
    @Kontreledaughterofaking 2 роки тому

    I am going to use that for my 6mouth isolation thanks mel

  • @choccymono
    @choccymono 2 роки тому

    I’ve been rewatching this vlog🙌🏽 I love it please make more like this one❤️ including the talking

  • @raphaelatyler
    @raphaelatyler 2 роки тому

    I like 30 min cuz it helps me when I do my own self care

  • @Vanessa-ge4eh
    @Vanessa-ge4eh 2 роки тому

    Ah I can relate to the social battery being on low. I find it strange that people feel entitled to a response under every comment... you communicate plenty through your uploads, which are pretty regular. I'm just happy to see your uploads, they are VERY motivating and so fun to watch. And knowing that you are reading our replies is pretty cool! I can imagine how very overwhelming that can be though, with so many uploads and so many comments.
    Just do your best, but if your battery gets low, then it's time to shut off the social world and rest.

  • @ashleyrose4376
    @ashleyrose4376 2 роки тому

    i absolutely LOVE your long vlogs

  • @jaidaowens3962
    @jaidaowens3962 2 роки тому

    Personally I love your long vlogs, but if it's too much for you, no worries at all ❤. We all support you either way!

  • @angelicamendez4975
    @angelicamendez4975 2 роки тому

    Mel love the music! So relaxing and you are an inspiration with my old ass!

  • @Dulcedeletii
    @Dulcedeletii 2 роки тому

    You should definitely look into a cruelty free lifestyle you’re perfect for it! Cats are tested on too :( and brands like now using loopholes saying they don’t test etc. I’d also maybe look into more meatless meals, all animal friendly things! Sending you so much love.

  • @michellerodriguez6416
    @michellerodriguez6416 2 роки тому

    I just got my eyebrows microbladed, and I love them. I totally recommend

  • @melenalloyd2329
    @melenalloyd2329 2 роки тому

    Commenting again lol
    I usually watch you videos twice because they’re so soothing ❤️❤️❤️

  • @loulou4599
    @loulou4599 2 роки тому

    Easiest my favorite UA-camr and I just started watching your videos ❤️😍🤗

  • @PinkJG619
    @PinkJG619 2 роки тому +1

    I love that you responded to that comment. I read that too and it discouraged me from
    Commenting. I felt like it meant you never read comments. It might help if you just liked peoples comments so they know you’re active in the section… idk my two cents. That way you don’t have to be as social. I love your realness though. Means a lot to me ♥️

  • @KeianaByfield
    @KeianaByfield 2 роки тому

    omg i haven't watched your vids in a while, so proudd to see you at 200k!!

  • @emmamullazahi131
    @emmamullazahi131 2 роки тому

    i love this vlog sm!!

  • @SparkleBoom2023
    @SparkleBoom2023 2 роки тому

    Deja's a perfect name🖤

  • @hibaahmed5234
    @hibaahmed5234 2 роки тому +1

    l really love your videos that make me energetic ❤❤

  • @carlie5850
    @carlie5850 2 роки тому

    Love your videos Mel!! This was great don’t be so hard on yourself 💕. You are so beautiful and your hair looks great when you wear it completely tied back it shows your Beautiful features. This video was amazing 🤩. Thank you Mel ✨💕

  • @mariavillanueva4815
    @mariavillanueva4815 2 роки тому +1

    Omg needed this so bad. ☹️🥰

  • @TreeHugginT
    @TreeHugginT 2 роки тому

    I feel like this video we got to see a more authentic you and I’m here for it! 💜

  • @onwednesdayswewearpink4912
    @onwednesdayswewearpink4912 2 роки тому

    u look sooooo good with the slick back bun babe

  • @CatEyedGoddess
    @CatEyedGoddess 2 роки тому

    Glad to see you’re doing well after Ian. I’m on the East Coast too.

  • @rhondasmith6117
    @rhondasmith6117 2 роки тому

    Girrllllllllllll, I have turned into such an introvert since the pandemic started. I use to be Miss Social and always going somewhere, but not I do now i dont want to leave my house.....ever. Anyway, I loved this vlog, especially the NEW KITTEN!!! Deja is the cutest ever. Hopefully the other 2 babies will bond with Deja soon. You have also inspired me to re-vamp my make-up look. I have done the same thing for 25 years. Ya think its time for a change?? hahaha. And again, I dont think you need to worry about not talking enough in your vlogs. Either way WE ALL LOVE YOU!!!

  • @mahletadamu2602
    @mahletadamu2602 2 роки тому

    This was so therapeutic

  • @nadia_ash3250
    @nadia_ash3250 2 роки тому

    We got hit bad with the hurricane here in SWFL! You got lucky living in Central west

  • @pizzacoffeesatan
    @pizzacoffeesatan 2 роки тому

    Baddest cat mom in the neighborhood haha I love it.

  • @ninanegedu
    @ninanegedu 2 роки тому

    Congratulations on 200k, Melanie❤️

  • @timothyespinoza5051
    @timothyespinoza5051 2 роки тому +1

    I want to do the same for cats! 🥺 Can't explain my heart for them✨

  • @yuqiaojiang8697
    @yuqiaojiang8697 2 роки тому

    Love this video 💓🫐 so relaxing, thank you !

  • @courtneychambersmusic
    @courtneychambersmusic 2 роки тому

    I just love your videos, they. are so inspiring and relaxing

  • @Jbpeake90
    @Jbpeake90 2 роки тому

    I LOVE when u put out long videos!!! Also, have u noticed any damage to ur regular lashes from using lash extensions for so long? I wanna do lash extensions but I’m hesitant bc I don’t want them to mess up my natural lashes 😬

  • @ashleywessel780
    @ashleywessel780 2 роки тому

    I love the Ordinary! I use it for Gua Sha. I also totally rrespect that you don't want to be overly social. I am so the same way. Need to just do things in my own way. I feel such a drive to be constantly productive or in meditation. It is hard to pull off all the sh*t you wanna do and have a packed social life. Love and respect. Your channel is is great(:

  • @josephcrawford7922
    @josephcrawford7922 2 роки тому +1

    The way she dances 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣