The only Gift you give your EX to make them miss you

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  • @justqueenie1480
    @justqueenie1480 3 роки тому +267

    Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot..

    • @purple1402
      @purple1402 3 роки тому +6

      So true

    • @chistability5405
      @chistability5405 3 роки тому +1

      I like that and Facts 👍

    • @AuthorJanaeMarie
      @AuthorJanaeMarie 3 роки тому +6

      Yes it is. Sometimes we withhold our own blessings by holding on to the past.

    • @vernondelancy6281
      @vernondelancy6281 3 роки тому +2

      Real talk

    • @wisdom2578
      @wisdom2578 3 роки тому

      Im gonna start just this. I waited for her to change, 3 months after i broke up wit her. But she just partying it up. Oh well

  • @itreciastrachan1111
    @itreciastrachan1111 3 роки тому +195

    The best gift anyone can give their exes is complete silence. Nothing more. Warren, you are a blessing. Thank you

  • @ArashiKazama33
    @ArashiKazama33 3 роки тому +136

    your silence and absence communicates more than your words ever could to a narc

    • @jonesfredrick94
      @jonesfredrick94 3 роки тому

      Yes indeed

    • @thomasegbah4328
      @thomasegbah4328 3 роки тому

      Facts

    • @Tony-dh
      @Tony-dh 3 роки тому +4

      My ex keeps saying if it doesn’t work out with her new boyfriend she doesn’t want me back. I know that’s exactly what she wants.
      I say good, I don’t want you back either.
      Restarted no contact, two weeks in. Thats it for me. No narc zone.

    • @ricobarbosa2858
      @ricobarbosa2858 2 роки тому +7

      because their thoughts run wild and essentially what you do is haunt them especially if they know they did you wrong and you were genuine with them.

  • @jayjayob5825
    @jayjayob5825 3 роки тому +65

    Never take back your ex no matter what. Let them collect stones in the end they always reach back! Silence is the most powerful weapon. Know your worth! Thanks for your advice coach and God bless you!

  • @toviaclayton
    @toviaclayton 3 роки тому +180

    Something’s are not meant to be. Everything gots a expiration date.

  • @tonymbaya9403
    @tonymbaya9403 2 роки тому +16

    It's easy to move on if you value yourself

  • @geneyumang9554
    @geneyumang9554 3 роки тому +83

    Once u stop caring she starts caring its called no contact rule...

  • @CorporateQueen
    @CorporateQueen 3 роки тому +163

    Work on yourself. He saw me in town the other week and he did a double take. Enjoy that. 😁

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 3 роки тому +16

      Whew I can't wait for that to happen to me.

    • @yournotdatguypal
      @yournotdatguypal 3 роки тому +5

      I luhh this shit!! Haha

    • @stephanieleonard7415
      @stephanieleonard7415 3 роки тому

      Coach gotta always give big ups to what you say bc its facts 💯💯💯🎆🎇✨ HAPPY HEALTHY SAFE AND BLESSED LABOR DAY WKND .... BTW SOMETIMES I HAVE TO FALL OFF A MINUTE BUT JUST LIKE YOU AND EVERY HUMAN, I GOTTA DO WHAT I GOTTA DO, I KNOW YOU KNOW AND IM JUST GONNA HAVE TO EMAIL YOU BC WHAT I GOTTA ASK YOU IS MY BUSINESS AND PPLS BE NOSEY A/F ALLLL UP IN YA BIZ....YOU KNOW HOW IT IS BUT THANK YOU COACH N I LOVED THE DIAPER PART... LMAO......AWHOLE LOTTA PPL AINT EVEN MAKIN MY EAGLES ROSTER OR SOME BENCHIN OUT ALLLL SEASON SO IVE BEEN BUSY WITH THAT AS WELL🏈🏈🏈🏈🏈🏈💯💯💯.....GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS COACH.. ILL E/M YOU SOON... 🎆🎇✨⛱

    • @CorporateQueen
      @CorporateQueen 3 роки тому

      @James St Patrick nope.

    • @purple1402
      @purple1402 3 роки тому +4

      Yup !stay looking good 💄👠👜💅👗👢it kills them...😁😂

  • @shawandabeasley142
    @shawandabeasley142 3 роки тому +90

    I have learn to focus on God and myself and pray for my ex husband, praying for him is a form of forgiveness, and God sees and knows everything....

    • @tlashai9902
      @tlashai9902 3 роки тому +1

      Yes that’s good, I’m starting to implement them in my prayers daily.

    • @shawandabeasley142
      @shawandabeasley142 3 роки тому +1

      @@tlashai9902 Yes and I will continue to pray for his soul and salvation and for her to, God will not be mocked, you will reap what you sow in this life 🙏

  • @blessedchildofgod9112
    @blessedchildofgod9112 3 роки тому +70

    If you don't appreciate my present ...then appreciate my absences 💦🤔 thanks coach

  • @j-tenn226
    @j-tenn226 3 роки тому +140

    Once I managed to move past him mentally, after months of stalking and venting and entertaining his texts, good things started happening. I got my dream job a month ago, and I truly believe life gave that to me because my mind got right. My confidence is up and I'm glowing. I wish I would have done this months ago, but I realize I wasn't ready.

    • @alizeetaylor847
      @alizeetaylor847 3 роки тому +4

      J-Tenn : Congratulations stay positive put your higher power in everything you seek

    • @lovemeorlovemenot744
      @lovemeorlovemenot744 3 роки тому +3

      I’m going through this right now

    • @davidcoppotelli3957
      @davidcoppotelli3957 3 роки тому +1

      Hey Girl you were ready. You just didn't know it. POW

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 3 роки тому

      @@davidcoppotelli3957 lol that dream job turned out to be a bust, but everything else is good.

    • @colclarke7017
      @colclarke7017 3 роки тому

      Congrats sister

  • @niccivictorious5594
    @niccivictorious5594 3 роки тому +52

    Right what they doing is non of my business and what I am doing is none of theirs. ✌

  • @jessicakothenbeutel7291
    @jessicakothenbeutel7291 3 роки тому +66

    They just aren't worth it. Im hurting. I miss what he pretended to be, but its definitely not worth my mental/physical health.

    • @davidcoppotelli3957
      @davidcoppotelli3957 3 роки тому +1

      Hey Girl that's how I feel about her. See your not alone in that boat I'm sitting right next to you. Just Saying.

    • @davidcoppotelli3957
      @davidcoppotelli3957 3 роки тому +2

      Jessica, Key word Pretended. Let him walk just don't let them walk back in.

  • @OshaneC92
    @OshaneC92 3 роки тому +70

    Just work on yourself and be great they always comeback when they see you doing good for yourself.

  • @ladynita7329
    @ladynita7329 3 роки тому +50

    You’re absolutely right. I thought I forgave but I didn’t accept the fact he’s in another relationship with who he betrayed me with. I just accepted it and it is so freeing. Thank you

  • @BlueBerryBronzer
    @BlueBerryBronzer 3 роки тому +92

    “Im living in the future so the present is my past, my presence is a present kiss my a**” -Kanye West👑

  • @latoyahodges4962
    @latoyahodges4962 3 роки тому +31

    Its easier said than done. You have to discipline yourself.

  • @tru2608
    @tru2608 3 роки тому +60

    Some pain, u just have to run away from it. Because, if u run towards it. It will hurt u even more and maybe drive u insane. Protect ur enemy and guard ur love from worthless individuals.

    • @donna2693
      @donna2693 3 роки тому +9

      Running from pain just weighs you down until your a shell of a person with no feeling at all...embrace the pain and deal with the healing and you come out twice as strong as you went in....i high percentage of sucides is through people who try to push stuff down and bury it but its go no where to go and eventually errupts like a volcano....never run from what hurts you let it hurt and grieve it then start over again not making the same mistakes xo

    • @Oliver12K
      @Oliver12K 3 роки тому +5

      @@donna2693 Spot on! Let it hurt then let it go...😉

  • @sunshinet398
    @sunshinet398 3 роки тому +14

    Letting go is best focus on God healing love urself more don't let your emotions fool u silence is golden like Warren stated not your business let them be and never look back focus on having a relationship with God watch how your life change but you've to be patient best thing u can do is work on you

  • @G20T
    @G20T 3 роки тому +41

    Off brand ass relationships😂😂

    • @EButta71
      @EButta71 3 роки тому

      Yesssss ☺️😂

  • @Ishejones
    @Ishejones 3 роки тому +18

    "Taking a break off the street of hoeing"
    - Classic!!

  • @bregettewashington4669
    @bregettewashington4669 3 роки тому +52

    Just move on and do you, they always come back

  • @britshanesmom
    @britshanesmom 3 роки тому +10

    I'm glad I saw this video and I need to wake up. I have to just let him go and leave him alone. He left me for another woman, but still calls me every other day and still wants to sleep with me. It's hard when you have a child with the person 😔

  • @criz7228
    @criz7228 3 роки тому +63

    I was the Rebound, & do you know, She Went back to her ex?😂😂.. Lol I just laugh, because it's been a year, and my Exs Facebook status still says Single , even though Shes back with her ex & she still has photos of me on Facebook.. lol... Now my Exs Girlfriend "Stalks" my Instagram... I'm like but I thought yall were happy?.. 😂😂 Silence does work.. I've lost weight, got into shape, looking good & financially good... They both stuck... 😁🙏

    • @assainscreed1234
      @assainscreed1234 3 роки тому +1

      Did she ever reach out?

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 3 роки тому +4

      Block her don't let her have any access to you.. she at her low vibrations .. it's self esteem issue

    • @hanishgiga7775
      @hanishgiga7775 3 роки тому +5

      @@assainscreed1234 my ex left me..
      I'm 5 stone lighter
      Look in best shape in years
      And she reached out to me after 9 months two days ago
      I ignored it

    • @vfarnadise1352
      @vfarnadise1352 3 роки тому

      😉

    • @chistability5405
      @chistability5405 3 роки тому

      Same thing happened to me I was the rebound but allegedly she didn't go back to her ex she won't back to her thug fuxx buddy before HIM. Wanted to have me as a fuxx buddy to but I was like nah. Too old for games but it was a blessing 🙏

  • @MerroG
    @MerroG 3 роки тому +10

    I'm goin through this right now and I'm givin her the silent treatment in hopes that she misses me cause shes already moved on and it feels like shes living her best life and it sucks cause I tried my best...

  • @moneyvationreg6593
    @moneyvationreg6593 3 роки тому +40

    I needed to here this I’m hurt I can’t lie

    • @terrilee734
      @terrilee734 3 роки тому +11

      We all hurting..

    • @moneyvationreg6593
      @moneyvationreg6593 3 роки тому +9

      @@terrilee734 let’s make it thru it we got this we will be better with time

    • @mutterma
      @mutterma 3 роки тому +3

      I'm right there with you... this verbal slap is good for us, I think, even though it's hard to hear, it's truth.

    • @mcheel1480
      @mcheel1480 3 роки тому +2

      Right here with you people, bless your hearts

    • @tylawthecreator1306
      @tylawthecreator1306 3 роки тому +3

      Work on yourself focus on yourself love yourself stay busy doing things you enjoy this raises you to a higher vibration

  • @bregettewashington4669
    @bregettewashington4669 3 роки тому +3

    I don't like sloppy seconds and loss all trust and respect for them it's hard to lose it

  • @MrHADouble
    @MrHADouble 3 роки тому +2

    This video was super spot on Coach Warren. please keep these videos coming for those that have experienced this evil behavior or currently experiencing it. God bless you Champ!🙏🏾

  • @marcusadams1572
    @marcusadams1572 3 роки тому +7

    That's some real shit bruh, keep speaking truth to power.

  • @Captaincobalt
    @Captaincobalt 3 роки тому +6

    That’s badass coach. I’ve hurt a long time about a year and a half after getting abused by a chick. I still hurt but I made sure to completely cut her off. The pain has been pretty intense for a long time but I never let the hurt stop me from putting in the effort to level myself up. However, since she left every aspect in my life has become far more abundant. For all the broken hearted people out there that have been hurt just keep pushing forward !

  • @faithtemitope-babatunde9901
    @faithtemitope-babatunde9901 3 роки тому +12

    Warren and his sense of humor...jeez😄😄

  • @sparkle9482
    @sparkle9482 3 роки тому +8

    AWESOME COACH WARREN!! YOU HAVE TO TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT YOU.IF THE CAN'T GET ON BOARD THEY GOT TO GO!!!!#❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @blessedchildofgod9112
    @blessedchildofgod9112 3 роки тому +60

    He just want to come back in my life to finish me off cause he couldn't bring me down

    • @zonywest3166
      @zonywest3166 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂.

    • @dhaniblacrose6720
      @dhaniblacrose6720 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly! same here he keep coming back like drugs is like a condom. Use it and toss it .

  • @delladugger244
    @delladugger244 3 роки тому +13

    This is so so true :) My ex always hollering at me to come back now. But I'm staying focused on MYSELF :)

  • @renatelewis538
    @renatelewis538 3 роки тому

    You're a good person Coach. I'm watching you. Just want you to know I'm finally over the Narc. Thank you for helping me by listening to you. Take care.

  • @pattyboss5619
    @pattyboss5619 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for the words of encouragement I myself as a motivational speaker for domestic violence every word you says is true and you giving me more courage and motivating me to continue reach out to people n to motivate them and let them know self 💕 is the best 💕 work on your personal growth let it go know your worth n your place Patty Bossss period

  • @alizeetaylor847
    @alizeetaylor847 3 роки тому +10

    God’s so good my focus is on God myself my family. When you grow god is helping you your thought patters change your life change. God Bless 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿. God gave us a brain lets use it wisely.....

  • @terrilee734
    @terrilee734 3 роки тому +29

    A lot of people are stuck on the DREAM. Thats all they were was a dream of what you wanted and now they gone. Just move on

    • @jonesfredrick94
      @jonesfredrick94 3 роки тому +1

      That's right pretty girl

    • @nikkif9873
      @nikkif9873 3 роки тому +2

      Right!!! That was the hardest part for me.... letting go of the fantasy!!

    • @terrilee734
      @terrilee734 3 роки тому

      @@nikkif9873 yes

    • @Dckalel
      @Dckalel 3 роки тому

      That’s so true

  • @michaelking9818
    @michaelking9818 3 роки тому +2

    Great message,it’s about self respect

  • @yvettevazquez3561
    @yvettevazquez3561 3 роки тому +6

    I need to resist, I haven't given myself the love and respect I deserve.

  • @brownhornet1975
    @brownhornet1975 3 роки тому +4

    COACH✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

  • @h22sparkle
    @h22sparkle 3 роки тому +5

    This is a1 content everytime

  • @joycesexton2495
    @joycesexton2495 3 роки тому +1

    Warren u are something else

  • @joycesexton2495
    @joycesexton2495 3 роки тому +5

    Stay alone I'm gonna keep say that love you brother Warren God bless people are not right need Jesus

  • @rbell277
    @rbell277 3 роки тому +2

    That statement is what helped me move on what they did or done was no longer my business, I left Ed my ex narc praise God for deliverance and healing : On Point. 💕

  • @twannie1225
    @twannie1225 3 роки тому +1

    that’s right bro real talk 💯🙌🏿

  • @av8rixusa255
    @av8rixusa255 3 роки тому +7

    OMG i laughed so hard, THANK YOU!!!!! ❤️

  • @lynnaedavis645
    @lynnaedavis645 3 роки тому +8

    Realist video he made! 💯 No lies told! This video gets u into a boss mentality!

  • @deborahalston7472
    @deborahalston7472 3 роки тому +5

    What kind of man don't no the different between a penny and a dime?

  • @bernesemuir8022
    @bernesemuir8022 3 роки тому +3

    This Gunnar be on re run for me thank you Warren❤

  • @beautyamor9797
    @beautyamor9797 3 роки тому

    I get it!! GREAT message!!!💖❤️💖

  • @latoyamason3059
    @latoyamason3059 3 роки тому +11

    You are so dope! Blessed to have found you!

  • @melinarojas6816
    @melinarojas6816 3 роки тому +3

    Just found you on here your awesome and tell it like it is THANK YOU!

  • @jeezymay
    @jeezymay 3 роки тому

    Nice job with the tribute at the intro.

  • @pattyboss5619
    @pattyboss5619 3 роки тому +1

    ❤️ your self and work on your personal growth Block delete change your n Be happy with your self ❤️is the best

  • @sheilawilson2014
    @sheilawilson2014 3 роки тому

    Very well spoken lov

  • @feefsmanuel9106
    @feefsmanuel9106 3 роки тому +3

    Ur giving us jewels 💎

  • @michelleyates1584
    @michelleyates1584 3 роки тому +1

    Damn! You make everything make sense.Some of which we already know but to hear you tell it makes me understand how my self centered girlfriend is the only fish in the tank with teeth!

  • @lisakaler4121
    @lisakaler4121 3 роки тому +8

    Give them the gift of your absence, which is actually a gift you give to yourself, peace and no drama. Your presence is a present that they didn't appreciate anyway. Go give your time to someone that needs help! I'm gonna do that for Thanksgiving at a food pantry and serve others and get outta my head. That's what Jesus did. Great points Warren, thank you and God Bless you!!

  • @vernondelancy6281
    @vernondelancy6281 3 роки тому

    Good content I appreciate this

  • @RRr-ku5bn
    @RRr-ku5bn 3 роки тому +2

    I love you coach 💖

  • @abdulahiibrahim926
    @abdulahiibrahim926 3 роки тому +3

    thnks warren the best presence i can give my ex is my absence

  • @dcpfa7214
    @dcpfa7214 3 роки тому +1

    Your funniest most common sense video yet!!

  • @zobella8392
    @zobella8392 3 роки тому +2

    All facts❤💯

  • @amentastar7637
    @amentastar7637 Рік тому

    Your amazing, thank you

  • @andrewoldacre2940
    @andrewoldacre2940 3 роки тому +1

    Keeping it real

  • @farkitupdaklaker9288
    @farkitupdaklaker9288 2 роки тому +2

    Pain is your teacher... listen and learn.

  • @loretaallen7952
    @loretaallen7952 3 роки тому

    You are so wise

  • @dnewt3551
    @dnewt3551 3 роки тому +8

    Coach I like your response to this question! Please, please put God first in your life.Pain gives you strength and growth.

  • @dhaniblacrose6720
    @dhaniblacrose6720 3 роки тому

    100% FACTZ

  • @Cat-sx6ep
    @Cat-sx6ep 3 роки тому

    i love your videos

  • @Medehaneyalem27
    @Medehaneyalem27 3 роки тому

    Thank you!❤

  • @phillipwright7326
    @phillipwright7326 3 роки тому +2

    Always the co worker

  • @carrellmitchell1335
    @carrellmitchell1335 3 роки тому

    Love the beat it is riding

  • @pattyboss5619
    @pattyboss5619 3 роки тому +3

    You teach people how to treat you

  • @BUKAANWAH
    @BUKAANWAH 2 роки тому +1

    Literally what else can you do without going to jail lmaooo it’s the truth though man

  • @zoraidacastro5403
    @zoraidacastro5403 3 роки тому

    Word!!!!

  • @j-tenn226
    @j-tenn226 3 роки тому +5

    Lmfao Warren you said without going to jail 🤣🤣

  • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
    @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 3 роки тому +1

    This is so accurate red pill. For the ladies out there you need to get on with your shit and divine purpose and purposes that God has given you, stop replying on other people to take care of your responsibilitites and priorities .. get your money up and finance up do you.. stop replying for a man to take care of you ..
    Alpha all day.. for the ladies I am real Alpha Young Woman. . You got to get your shit together at some point of your life like really .. Mindest

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
    @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 7 місяців тому

    On behalf of us grown woman here to actually get help ill be the one to admit that everything he is saying is true. I am the covience woman! 😢trying to get the hell out this position and so much more!

  • @NicoleLoves
    @NicoleLoves 9 місяців тому +1

    Your jokes be making me weak man like in public and all you funny af

  • @zohaibsarvana
    @zohaibsarvana 3 роки тому

    Love u g

  • @mariebronte5308
    @mariebronte5308 3 роки тому +6

    I like to laugh at mine and when he added my new mans ex/baby momma on Facebook I told him I could introduce them if he’d like 😏 fool really think he being slick 😬😬😬 it just solidified my decision to leave his weird narcissist self.

  • @Onibocho11
    @Onibocho11 3 роки тому

    💯!

  • @Cutzbymyke
    @Cutzbymyke 3 роки тому

    I respect what you are saying and what you say is true. But my problem is that I'm trying to prepare my mind when I start listening to my emotional thoughts.

  • @zoraidacastro5403
    @zoraidacastro5403 3 роки тому

    Tell us why you are coaching on this subject. Sounds like you have dealt with a lot of experience.

  • @theconsciousmovement9669
    @theconsciousmovement9669 3 роки тому +7

    just stop talking to them for about 60 days.

  • @MsLo-in5sr
    @MsLo-in5sr 3 роки тому +7

    These sessions truly get me through my day. Its reassurance for my soul because everything I've wanted to ask, or had thoughts of others are witnessing as well. And honestly your a gift from God because this is the growth you need along with prayer to walk successfully with god. Let go and let God🙌. Thanks coach appreciated ❤🙏

  • @JohnWilson-et9xn
    @JohnWilson-et9xn 2 роки тому +2

    I am dying over here!!! Duck tape on their asshole!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @JamesWilliams-xf6ix
    @JamesWilliams-xf6ix 3 роки тому

    💯💯💯

  • @therryandpaol3430
    @therryandpaol3430 3 роки тому +1

    Is this random girl that was following me around the school today, what’s you think made her do that

  • @blessedchildofgod9112
    @blessedchildofgod9112 3 роки тому +4

    What I do I focus on me and not him

  • @tracylanders9672
    @tracylanders9672 3 роки тому

    Will absence work if I've stayed on contact for 8 months?

  • @Jabbare90
    @Jabbare90 3 роки тому +2

    Shout out to "The 700 Club"💯

  • @sheilawilson2014
    @sheilawilson2014 3 роки тому

    Yes u are a different category bt great words to the right one that listen listen

  • @paulinezirkle1250
    @paulinezirkle1250 3 роки тому

    Thank you 😊

  • @gregoryjwhite7
    @gregoryjwhite7 3 роки тому +1

    Ho-ing - street of ho-ing! Hilarious.

  • @timgilly6746
    @timgilly6746 3 роки тому

    What’s the name of the beat playing in this video?

  • @czeythiabailey5246
    @czeythiabailey5246 2 роки тому

    You right I had to learn this now he chasing but I’m gone

  • @80sbaby90
    @80sbaby90 3 роки тому +3

    Ha fuck that don't take no ex back that rebounds and then it fails that makes you second best to them!!