Alone in Paradise: Life Without Friends in Costa Rica

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  • Опубліковано 16 гру 2024

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  • @britishcomedybroncorothschild
    @britishcomedybroncorothschild Рік тому +3

    Your dog is a quality friend…

  • @reinadelmar11
    @reinadelmar11 Рік тому +4

    I hear you about living alone in paradise. I feel I've spent so many years living like that. It is so different from the life we are used to in the States, although the town I grew up in is also a summer resort and in the winter "they roll up the sidewalks" as we say. So I grew up with a lot of solitude, being on the winter beach alone, in the wood etc with my dog or dogs and a handful of good friends who became increasingly busy with jobs, marriage, kids or moved away. In the Islands there is even greater turnover and the people you meet and bond with are often gone in a year or two as you say, just mostly leaving you and the locals, or married couples or older people, who you don't always have that much common with and are also busy doing their own thing. When you're travelling or living on the road, the experience of meeting and connecting with people intensely and then having them gone is even greater. At the end of the day, I guess I like solitude but there is absolutely something great about having a handful of amazing friends or community, which I hope to find when I move down there. I have found I that I tend to create a new family of sorts when living so far from my actual family and friends. I want to find somewhere I love and make that home and really make a comfortable life that does include some good friends, also be able to travel and keep seeing some of the world. I really want to go to Jamaica, Brazil, back to Belize and also to Colombia and maybe even back to Bali. But one step at a time, I guess. I know it's attainable if I stay clear about what I want and on my goals and of course keep the cash somehow flowing in. Great, thoughtful video that people will appreciate, I am sure!! :)

  • @patriciaberrocal258
    @patriciaberrocal258 Рік тому +1

    I loved your video.
    I think it's a good idea to comment on these details about Costa Rica so that people who come don't get discouraged by some fantasy.
    You have two beautiful companies: your beautiful dog and yourself. There are many different situations and some are more difficult than others. The best of all is that our life is not like a book that we can see the last page of. It's a surprise! So, I hope you meet people from the town who will stay to give you their company and friendship.

  • @eduardodiaz1017
    @eduardodiaz1017 Рік тому +1

    HEY BROTHER PURA VIDA, MISS YOUR VIDEOS, from Nandayure CARMONA Guanacaste,

    • @Chenzaloon
      @Chenzaloon  Рік тому

      Thank you my bro! More to come.. starting a business right now, not much time for editing

  • @victoralfaro1657
    @victoralfaro1657 Рік тому +1

    Gracias por visitar mi pais

    • @Chenzaloon
      @Chenzaloon  Рік тому

      🤘🇨🇷❤️💛💚 Gracias por mirar Mae! ☀️

  • @kellyslade6505
    @kellyslade6505 Рік тому +1

    That's why I'm so grateful for the permanent residences in my village. Always have someone to hangout with, if you want.

  • @jaime8317
    @jaime8317 Рік тому +1

    123 days til I arrive in paradise for good. Can't wait, so much to do . Ill be up near Tamarindo . Maybe we can grab a beer sometime 🍻 Cheers mate

  • @chelseahall5427
    @chelseahall5427 3 місяці тому +1

    Love it dawg 🎉

  • @aintmanyofusleft
    @aintmanyofusleft Рік тому +2

    Chenz, don't forget the "friends you had that:
    always cost you money.
    never reciprocate your help
    try to f your girl
    spread bs rumors
    dont let you know what "people" are saying
    less friends is more for sure.
    that little dog you got loves you more than half the people you've known. don't discount alone time
    it helps you grow!
    people who need too many people wont make it when shit hits the fan, take care of yourself, learn what your capable of and dont sweat the small shiiiittte....pura vida bro.

  • @bombietours
    @bombietours Рік тому +2

    Ya Chanz. It's going to be my 28th year here in a few weeks and I have seen my share of people come and go but I try and stay in touch with some of them and it's kinda cool to have friends living all over the world. Peace, Love, and Happiness to you on your journey. Pura Vida 🌴

  • @marcelv3268
    @marcelv3268 Рік тому +1

    I really appreciate the realism in this video. I haven’t moved there yet and I will gradually spend bigger blocks of time there in the future. But what you describe is a transient population unless you are completely immersed in the tico culture. Makes you think about what kind of social network to seek when and if you decide to relocate.

  • @fishtropiccanada4747
    @fishtropiccanada4747 Рік тому +1

    So a place for extroverts and adventures 🎉 cheers , maybe during winter ill come down and see ya chenzo … maybe start lining up viewers and places to stay .

  • @PDingenen65
    @PDingenen65 Рік тому +1

    Hey, we are moving to San Isidro in a few weeks. We love Costa Rica, but... They need a Medical Cannibus Program in CR. Other than that, we are confident that we made a great choice in moving there. We will be in country on Sept. 8th.

    • @Chenzaloon
      @Chenzaloon  Рік тому

      I think they will skip medical and go recreational, it’s just going to take the right person to make it happen

    • @PDingenen65
      @PDingenen65 Рік тому

      @@Chenzaloon Chenza!!! How are you? Thanks for responding. It is an issue that we had even in Jaco. We lucked up and someone hooked us up on our last day. A good Samaritan! He was right on time. We were visiting, but we are moving this trip, and we smoke so we are concerned.

  • @cristinapinzon1298
    @cristinapinzon1298 Рік тому

    Love paradise and been here for 19 years, hace long term friends. Locals. And so trustworthy!

  • @TheyCallMeJTK
    @TheyCallMeJTK Рік тому

    Your videos are legit ❤

    • @Chenzaloon
      @Chenzaloon  Рік тому

      ❤️💛💚 share with your friends to help the channel grow!!

  • @rogercocco5309
    @rogercocco5309 Рік тому

    thanks chenz!!!! i live in a tourist town! people come and go here also for various reasons .mainly because of the high cost of living !!!

  • @tylerstallmann8803
    @tylerstallmann8803 Рік тому

    I was there for only 90 days and I noticed the same thing. Unless they buy a place your always on the move! Keep doing your thing!

  • @lauriewinestock4195
    @lauriewinestock4195 Рік тому +1

    Enjoying your videos always, Chenzaloon -- suddenly today watching this video the thought occured to me, if you are there alone, who is the CAMERA PERSON ??? Or do you use a drone for the 'long shots' etc. I have noticed you now have aeriel shots (drone ? ) -- all GOOD ... just curious ... there is so much technology available these days.

  • @DreamTeamSvcs
    @DreamTeamSvcs Рік тому +2

    i like your apt! how much rent is that?

    • @Chenzaloon
      @Chenzaloon  Рік тому +1

      Its more like a house sitting job for 6 months, its cheap but wouldnt normally be cheap lol Im helping him, hes helping me

  • @Jalapeno_Chorizo
    @Jalapeno_Chorizo Рік тому

    Sounds Amazing!

  • @MMAnimalSanctuary_Rhonda
    @MMAnimalSanctuary_Rhonda Рік тому +4

    I'm laughing because Michel and I came here to get AWAY from people. 😄😄😄 Mission accomplished! Couldn't be happier...but yeah, I do see how it could be problematic for some folks.

    • @HistoricMetals
      @HistoricMetals Рік тому +1

      I've added my comment to this video. Didn't call you out, but did mention you anonymously. And here you are of course.

    • @MMAnimalSanctuary_Rhonda
      @MMAnimalSanctuary_Rhonda Рік тому

      @@HistoricMetals that's too funny! LOL!

    • @MMAnimalSanctuary_Rhonda
      @MMAnimalSanctuary_Rhonda Рік тому

      @@HistoricMetals but now I"m looking for your other comment and don't see it. Maybe the bots ate it....

    • @HistoricMetals
      @HistoricMetals Рік тому

      @@MMAnimalSanctuary_Rhonda Its in there, use the sort by newest or ctrl-f "historicmetals"

  • @britishcomedybroncorothschild

    The local women are warm and friendly I thought. Just keep trying your doing well. Seriously your in the top 1%. Be happy.

  • @andremaheux5986
    @andremaheux5986 Рік тому +1

    I will go live there if you need a coloc for a bit of time

  • @timroney8200
    @timroney8200 Рік тому

    I live near Carrizal on the border of Heredia & Alajuela .... if you are ever near here , please remember you have a friend to visit that you haven't met in person yet :)

  • @davidbarajas530
    @davidbarajas530 Рік тому

    Hell ya your travel videos would be dope

  • @Jim10082
    @Jim10082 Рік тому

    Great video Chenz. Thanks for keeping it real

  • @noreenlookshire3675
    @noreenlookshire3675 Рік тому +1

    Chenz thank you for the info. I will be fine with not having too many friends. When we were there I guess because I’m Hispanic, we met a lot of Tico’s and they were very friendly. One friend or two will be fine.
    BTW- great video, definitely a subject for which I’d never thought or heard about from anyone else. Appreciate you and what you do!

  • @hookedontube
    @hookedontube Рік тому

    Yeeew! I guess it's more or less everywhere you live 'cause people move, friends get older and get married, others are in your live just for a small time but always there is someone, maybe just one friend your's forever.
    Pura Vida and love from Puerto Rico.

  • @iivanov22
    @iivanov22 Рік тому

    Very helpful video bro, thank you for doing it, I have a kid and what you have said is definitely something to consider.

  • @lindsayrollin4291
    @lindsayrollin4291 Рік тому +1

    WOW Chenz that was some hike. I was worried you would get dehydrated ? You didn`t bring any water with you ? Why did you move from the beach ? I see your still smoking joints I`d do less of that if I were you . Your still very young but smoking joints or smoking anything is very bad for your lungs. How is the lady doing back at the beach the one you so generously help build and repair her home ? I`m sure she will be a life long forever friend. You had a girlfriend or two too back at the beach do you still get in touch with them ? Friends are golden .

    • @Chenzaloon
      @Chenzaloon  Рік тому

      All is good my friend 😎 I still live at the beach just taking a break from down there for a bit 🤘🤘

  • @jimboslice4623
    @jimboslice4623 Рік тому

    Great video . Is there a gym near there?

  • @kamyareshraghi4244
    @kamyareshraghi4244 Рік тому +1

    all you need is weed and your dog!
    but I understand what your talking about
    after a while you can feel very disconnected
    peace out Chenz!

  • @tpxrp6244
    @tpxrp6244 Рік тому

    I go to Costa Rica 4-5 times year. Wanted to live there, however no way. Better to vacation there and travel throughout because it is amazing. Beach and mountains in every trip. Plus like Chenz just said, many other Central and South American places to visit. Cant hit them all, but gonna try. Matter of fact, I just talked myself into a quick trip. Ha

  • @dougdileo4727
    @dougdileo4727 Рік тому

    nice chat on the topic of ending up alone at times.....need to keep occupied with some hobbies like your road kikes and river hikes...enjoy

  • @normabillington6174
    @normabillington6174 Рік тому

    Chenzalon is okay to alone you have peace enyoy while last until you go back to beach. San Isidro may be the place for me I would like to buy land hight ground with view of the beach even faraway just a view of the ocean , will be nice, i I have to sell the land in here in AZ so i can in CR i just thinking out loud must provable my family would go with me i cannot leave by myself, iam tica.. ..thank you Chenzaloon for your info.

  • @matthewb9692
    @matthewb9692 Рік тому

    Man if I could make money online I’d be living there ! The beaches and the people are the best

  • @AdamGordon1977
    @AdamGordon1977 Рік тому

    It’s hard to make friends living in a big city too. Everyone is so busy and the traffic is so bad, it’s hard to go anywhere.

  • @tracyehogan9591
    @tracyehogan9591 Рік тому

    Hey hey ❤ being alone would be no problem for me . I've spent most of my life alone just seeing people here and there for short periods of time. I'm cool with that I'm happy although I would like to travel more have a go😊d evening

  • @donr2352
    @donr2352 Рік тому

    👍👍

  • @logandaniels9474
    @logandaniels9474 Рік тому +1

    i live like 20 mins from the airport if you ever want to smoke and grab food just let me know

    • @HistoricMetals
      @HistoricMetals Рік тому

      Hey, stranger who also smokes and uses airports here, moving to Bijagua on New Years day. Which airport? Liberia or San Jose or one I don't know about yet? :) Always down to comment-connect with smoka buds in other countries, especially ones I am moving to ;)

  • @FLAKO1982
    @FLAKO1982 Рік тому +1

    ✌🏻🤟🏻✊🏻

  • @jennylane2498
    @jennylane2498 Рік тому +1

    What do u mean alone u have ur dog!

  • @frankgallo2946
    @frankgallo2946 5 місяців тому

    🤙🏼🤙🏼

  • @DreamTeamSvcs
    @DreamTeamSvcs Рік тому +1

    My name is Henry, from 2001 to 2010 i lived in CR i had to leave after Obama Great Recession killed tourism, i have developed an online income and i am moving back in a few months, it took so long to get my ducks in a row. I am going straight to san Isidro PZ and will hang out at Dominical Beach on the weekends. i am not leaving that area lol it is the greatest place i have ever lived. if you are still there when i move we can hang out and have a casada every now and then and maybe bbq!!

  • @underthesunventures2730
    @underthesunventures2730 Рік тому

    Hey brother, my wife and I are here in San Isidro and would love to hook up for a coffee.

    • @underthesunventures2730
      @underthesunventures2730 Рік тому

      I would like to add two my husbands comment. We traveled from northern canada in your 1979 vanguard motorhome. We arrived in costa rica in February . we explored many places, we went back to canada in april for two months. We are now back in the San Isidro area house sitting. We follow you and its would be great if we could connect. We aren't planning on leaving costa rica, we plan on making costa rica our home. I am working on our youtube videos, will be posting one this week about our rental car experience, getting out motor home out of federal compound amd our adventure in la Fortuna lake arenal area.

  • @laurasherman6614
    @laurasherman6614 Рік тому +1

    Dude, I loved your channel until you said you hate hippies……I am a hippie from the 70’s. I chose you to learn about Costa Rica from you because you reminded me most of an authentic person. Either hippie means something different these days or you don’t know wtf you’re talking about. In either case…..looking for a new channel now. PS…this was a response to your July 4 video, which I couldn’t respond to.

    • @Chenzaloon
      @Chenzaloon  Рік тому +2

      I think i mean a different hippie, lets talk

    • @laurasherman6614
      @laurasherman6614 Рік тому

      Ok then ….I’m always willing to be educated…..what is your definition of a hippie? ☮️

    • @laurasherman6614
      @laurasherman6614 Рік тому

      @EricKirkland533❤ Been a hippie since they were the real deal…..now call myself an “aging hippie” in my 60’s.

    • @HistoricMetals
      @HistoricMetals Рік тому +1

      " hippie means something different these days" - 55 year old here. In the 80s and 90s you'd find me in the grateful dead tour lots. Nowadays, there is no "love" in the "hippie" scene, in fact there is no "hippie" scene. The new "hippie" is the "hipster" and its not what it was. Now its about a certain look, a certain lifestyle lived for photographic effect on Instagram, not substance.
      So yeah, I formerly was identified by anyone who saw me as a "hippie" and now I do everything I can to avoid that moniker. It's NOT 1970 anymore and the modern "hippie" is just cliche and not even a good shadow of it's former self. In the USA anyway... They lost the "love" and just want to do MDMA at burning man now so that they can flex later on social media about how "hippy" they are. It went from non conforming, non-combatant to a full on popularity war and ego contest.

    • @laurasherman6614
      @laurasherman6614 Рік тому +1

      Hi there, thank you! I had no idea……but, it shouldn’t surprise me. So I apologize Chaz, I didn’t know. Everything is something different, everything has changed and definitely not for the better. This world is in serious trouble and they can’t even see it. Thank you for clarification…I’ll stick with sex, drugs and rock and roll that being the case! Peace….

  • @salvaje20
    @salvaje20 Рік тому

    I am an American who has lived in CR for over 20 years. When I first started working here, one of my co-workers (a Tico) said that I would never have a true Tico friend here. He said that he doesn't even have one and he's lived here his whole life. True friends. The ones that you would trust to watch your kids, your house, lend your car, etc.
    And he was right. I have a lot of people I know and some are close to friends but I don't trust them enough to be friends with them. I have seen so many "friends" here in CR that will sleep with their best friends wife, steal money from them if they have a chance, double cross them, borrow money and not pay it back. I have real friends back in the U.S that I trust with my life. Not many but I thank God for them.
    This is not a shot at CR or its people. I am married to a Tica for over 15 years. I live here because I love CR and it's culture and way of life. But Friendship in CR has a low bar. Prepare to be disappointed and not be surprised if you are taken advantage of

    • @joules_sw
      @joules_sw Рік тому

      That's why I stick just to few people