I can´t help but think that those who say being minimal ruins the economy is using that as an excuse for over shopping! Having less stuff makes life easier and yourself happier. You cannot buy happiness - except for books ;)
Especially if it's the Bible ♡♡♡♡ One of my favorite verses is: 1 Timothy 6: 6-8 -8 It gives us this principle: "But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out."
Spending your way to economic success either individually or as a national pastime is not sustainable. 27 trillion in national debt and 16.7 trillion in consumer debt is not a healthy economy. (Under $tatement of the year.)
AND I could not afford guitar lessons for my son and dancing for both kids if we were not very concious about our purchases. And, tbh, the enterprise producing cheap nick-nack toys in terrible working conditions is not something I want to support financially - our local music school IS. I hope the can pay their teachers a good salary, replace broken things and go on to teach generations of kids and adults. It's about priorities.
So true about Christmas Shannon. The best Christmas we had when my boys were little was the one before we moved into our new home. I usually got them each a book , a toy and some special clothing. My in-laws ruined it for us all for years by purchasing literally piles of meaningless gifts. Not what Christmas is really all about. I also filled their stockings with little things that they opened first and loved the most!
There are so many different levels and versions on minimalism. I see myself as a warm or cozy minimalist. And you’re right about it being an ongoing pursuit. When I look in a drawer or closet, and feel it needs to be “weeded” (like a garden), I’ll take five mins (for a drawer) or thirty minutes (for a closet) to quietly, smoothly go through what’s in there. If a closet, I’ll turn on some music. It’s an easy, quick way to get a sense of accomplishment.
Love this! I consider myself a ‘Moderate minimalist’ or ‘Minimalish’. I love our more simple home. An economy based on massive waste is not a good sustainable model. It is a process too, it took a bit of experimenting to find our level of minimalism, and you are right, it is always changing. Your videos and perspective have been so helpful on my journey Shannon. I also love your mom’s input. I’m more her age, so can relate to both of you. ☮️🌸
Thank you so much for correcting these misconceptions! ❤ Some of them are really silly 🤭 Re: economy I'd like to add that because I don't waste money on useless junk anymore I can afford more expensive and sturdy items (preferably made in my home country Germany or at least in Europe instead of made in China). So if I decide to spend money, I actually tend to spend more than many people which of course is good for the economy AND for local manufacturers. Also, in purchasing things that last longer and/or can repaired I'm helping the environment as well (less waste). For me, all this is a big part of why minimalism is so very appealing to me.
Everything you mentioned about the economy is exactly what I think about when it comes to minimalism too. Avoiding all the junk items that just fall apart.
Shannon, you are sooooo right! Being a minimalist has enriched my life so much because I need simplicity and a clean home and it is easy to achieve that with less. Nothing more boring than living with stuff that doesn’t serve me and gets in my way of having relaxation, fun and interesting experiences. Thanks for your wisdom and thanks for doing the great videos with your Mom. Everyone should try minimalism. It saves tons of money, time and stress and who wouldn’t want that? ❤️
We are not a minimalist family, but when it comes to Christmas gifts, they only get 3. I have experienced that the more toys they get, the lest they play with them. I prefer 3 good presents that a bunch that they don't play with.
I still consider my life a “work in progress.” But I have come SO far in just one year of watching you and Josh Becker. I’m loving my life more than ever …. And I’m never bored by having less. Btw, your house looks great Shannon. I especially love the room w/ 2 chairs and the TV in the beautifully designed wall space. Would really like to emulate that look in my living room.
Love your channel and your way of presenting minimalism. I like the term moderate minimalism as I think that fits me as well. Clutter hurts people by increasing stress and depression and over consumption hurts the environment and your finances. I choose to have a home that is calm, restful and makes me (and my family) happy to come home. After decluttering for several years now, I am focusing on the concept of ‘enough’. I have enough of everything to make me happy but no more than that.
I SO agree! I’ve used numbers as challenges to see what I like in my closet & kitchen and get a feel for living with less as I set aside the extras. I ended up letting go most of the stuff I set aside over time as I got more comfortable with less. 2 years ago I cleared my bathroom and kitchen counters and that improved our life so much my husband and I have extended that into the bedrooms and living room and dining room.
Yes, this! We are a working on it and in progress. I like the term 'moderate.' That is basically where we are too. I am more cognizant of what we buy now, and my life is more freeing.
you guys are in a great place in your lives - don't let anyone deter you from your goals.....in the end your family will benefit from your frugality and desire to live a simpler but abundant lifestyle! ♥
I have binge watched your declutter videos for the past 7 days. I read On Walden Pond at age 21 and I have always tried to live a simplified life. But, you have given me that extra boost I needed to go through clothing that I have held onto for 20 years! I rooted out 50% of my wardrobe. Now, I'm only keeping items that are up to date and flattering. Thank you so much, Shannon and Mom , for your inspiring and entertaining stories!
Hi Shannon. Greetings from the uk. I totally agree with you on what you are saying on so many counts. I think children have much more imagination by having less toys. Children don’t need these all singing and dancing toys they try to put pressure on us to buy. I became a minimalist at the start of the pandemic and have cleared tons of stuff from my house. My house is certainly not bland in colour and I have paintings and things around my house that I enjoy. I just don’t have the clutter any more. There are things that I buy and, like you, something goes out if I bring something in. I have been motivated by watching your videos and thank you wholeheartedly for your encouragement. My best wishes to you as always. Pamela ❤
As for minimalism hurting the economy, over consumption has lessened full time work and increased part time work, which often doesn't offer things like medical or dental coverage. It has made more working poor. Buying less makes us less dependent on other countries and keeps more money in the US.
We believe less is actually more, because living a simple life that's not cluttered with junk. Junk gives us anxiety.....what we use on our Retirement Ranch on a daily basis is absolutely wonderful, having more than what's needed ends up to be clutter 🙋♀️♥️ Fantastic video
Good job! I never believe any of the comments. You stress that you need to do what works for your family. I like moderate minimalist. I’m not there (like your Mom at the beginning) but working on it. 😊
So true Shannon! I find myself telling friends and family that my family have a simplified home and lifestyle. Seems to be better understood and accepted. When we entertain others in our home, we always get comments about how wonderful our place looks 😊
Less is definitely more in a lot of different ways and not only makes our lives less complicated but helps the environment too. I can't help thinking that people who say minimalist don't help the economy are also those people that are contributing to the overconsumption of goods that are contributing to damaging the environment, it's all about mindfulness and balance.
This was an excellent video! I have followed you since I became a "moderate minimalist" in 2017. Some think my house is bare, but I have one or two things on the wall in most rooms which is an area I decluttered a lot, as well as with decor. Two tables only have a lamp, but other have a little decor. But I only have 3 things stored to switch out if I want which is FAR few than before. Christmas I do have a lot more than you, but my daughter thinks its very minimal! As you said, we all have different levels. I don't decorate for spring, Easter, 4th of July, Valentines Day, St. Patrick's Day or Halloween. I do struggle with clothing as you said, wanting less but then I got hooked this past summer on the Coastal Grandmother style and started buying a bunch of things in linen, beige and white to coordinate in a sort of capsule. I'm sure as I wear them, Ill find which really suit me and which don't. Sorry this is so long!
One way I’ve found to weed out your closet is to turn all your hangers backwards. As you wear something, put it back in with the hanger facing the right way. At the end of the season, you’ll see clearly what you haven’t worn.
I just love your videos! Your home is so beautiful, and I love that you have such a close relationship with your mom. I have been watching your videos for a while now, and I always get excited when I see that there is a new one! I have nine children, eight still at home, so it’s a challenge to keep the inventory as low as I’d like--but I’m always decluttering and find such great advice and inspiration from you. 😊 Thank you, and God bless you and your lovely family. ❤
You have inspired many people to decide what type of minimalism works for them. I like your husbands idea of moderate minimalism. I have had a cleaner and better organized household without the time I use to spend. More time for the family is appreciated by all. Thanks for your help
Great video! There are so many misconceptions out there about being minimal. The one that puts me off that I see many influencers feed into is that choosing minimalism will allow you to travel so much more. That is not the case with our financial situation, the $50 we spend on each of our kids at Christmas or a birthday is not going to free up enough funds for a big trip across the country or around the world. Minimalism helps us live within our means, with most of that living being normal life in our community (and kids not even in expensive activities). But we’re happy with our life and simple home and minimalism has grown our contentment in so many ways.
I have also seen that! When I was first looking for ways to save money (that is how I found minimalism) I would see all these articles of what to cut out of your budget to "get rich" well sadly we already lived on a really tight budget. So none of the tips applied to us because we were already doing all of them. What it came down to for us is we had to find a way to make more. I can completely relate to what you are saying here.
Hey, Shannon. 🌞 This vid cracked me up. 😄 But, at the same, time these misconceptions made me sad... And then I understood: minimalism is not for everyone. Am I right?
I believe when people hear the word minimalist, they always think about the EXTREME minimalist. Or, in magazines/media, they show too often the extreme. That's why people get these misconceptions. There are different levels. I don't know if I'd call myself a minimalist, but I like a heck of a lot less than I use to! As I've aged (I'm 52), I just don't want so much crap in my life. I don't have the energy or a need. Also, who wants to dust and clean more or even take care of it? Nope! As far as the economy goes....take a look back in history. People only use to have what they needed and not any more than that. I sure wish I had a different thought system when I was in my 20's, 30's and most of my 40's. I could have saved so much money, time, and energy. At least I have it mostly together now. Thank you, Shannon, for another great video! I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
You are so right about people thinking minimalism has to be extreme. With every philosophy out there I feel we can just take what works for us. I have also seen so many benefits from adopting minimalism which I guess is why I like to talk about it on here. I also wish I found out about it in my 20's, just to know back then there is a different way to live. I hope you have a great weekend too =)
I'm a bit older than you but can relate. When I was younger I had the space, money, and the desire to accumulate lots of things. It was what I was into at the time and there is nothing wrong with that. However after a divorce, dealing with the death of my parents and their stuff, and downsizing, I have a completely different perspective now. Less is more-at least for me. So it's definitely been a progression for me. Looking back, I don't know how I dealt with all that crap. 😂
My kids actually thrive in a more minimalist environment and love decluttering with me. I agree with this list of misconceptions! And I love colour too! I'm a minimalist for function rather than drawn to the minimalist aesthetic.
I agree, we'd be moderate minalmists too in that we only have what we truly want, need, use and value and buy mindfully. We prefer quality over cheap as it lasts longer. I've gotten rid of all the extras and clutter of stuff and though I love to keep my home decorated with a cosy feel...cushions, rugs, decor pieces etc it's everything that's displayed or used. Even our finances are kept in check in that we are sacrificing a vacation this year, so we can be mortgage free by the end of this year. We'll just go next year instead. I think minimalists prioritise on what's important to them and focus on less stress in life with stuff and finances.
I laughed so hard when you said minimalist children have beige toys. It's hilarious what people come up with. Me and my hubby are not minimal. I watch your videos for help with decluttering and organizing. You and your Mom are great together. So much laughing whenever you're with her. Also, I enjoy seeing the little ones. My little sons are now 23 and 26. Have a wonderful weekend.
I genuinely believe that kids who live in a minimalist home are actually happier, bc they live in an environment that is calmer and less kaos. They don't get overwhelmed as children living in a nonminimalist home, who deal with too many choices & too much stimuli. I also think that kids living with minimalism, tend to be more content in their life & are more likely to appreciate things that really matter, which is people & experiences, instead of belongings. ☺️
All wonderful points here. I understand about the shoes! I have to have good support ( I wear indoor sneakers ) to feel comfortable and energized. Recently decluttered one pr of shoes but bought two new pr to accomplish this :) All of your points affirm the definition of minimalism that Joshua Becker describes as : "The intentional promotion of the things we most value and the removal of anything that distracts from it." Your life is a wonderful example and encouragement of this ♡
@shannontorrens1 I am having a great Friday and Thank You for the well wishes! I wish the same back to you! We are missing the unseasonably warm 68ﾟ temps that we had 2 days ago bc now it is back to about 40 degrees..that is MO weather for you. 70 degrees one day, 30 degrees the next!
It's funny how everyone complains when you do something different. I've never heard people complain with the American norm; kid's toys strewn on bedroom floors and the kids are walking all over them. Or alternatively the kid's toys have takng over every room in the house.
Hi Shannon, I am new to your channel. (I think it was Noemi that mentioned you) I LOVE the last thing you had on the screen - "a home that functions well". That's it!! There can be various levels of minimalism but how your home functions for efficient, happy living is what matters. Thanks for a great video!
Great video Shannon you hit the nail on the head with this one. There are no rules 👍🏼 Your home looks lovely & your children extremely happy ❤ Good for you & so happy that your channel is growing - you deserve 100K 🙏 Have a great week ❤
You sound very realistic about how this has to work in real life. I have a lot of dishes. They are organized, and I love and use them. Maybe I'm not disqualified from the term yet.
Hey I just wanted to let you know that vintage Pyrex bowls contain an obscene amount of lead in the paint, which can leech into the actual white part of the bowl. There’s some articles on it if you’re interested, it’s not a sure thing that it’s in the inside of the bowl but in case you don’t want to take the risk
Loved how you explained each point. Every families level of minimal living will look different as it should according to your needs and lifestyle. Some of the misconceptions are so silly. I like Grants "Moderate Minimalism".
I don't have a single white wall in my entire house. To me, they do look boring and look like someone hasn't gotten around to painting them yet 😆 There are so many beautiful colors in this world!
I don't agree that white homes are boring, they just compliment the people and the life they live. I'd rather focus on my family in a space, for me they are "the colour" I need, than some kind of bright decor around. I am saying this because, there are people who find peace in white spaces and we hear "boring" or "like in a hospital" all the time.... It just makes me sad, because I se my home like a cloud I can live on 🥰😉
I love that way of thinking and I also love white lol. It's just so bright and clean looking. For every comment I get that my home is boring I get a comment about how nice and calm my home looks. Really our homes are meant for us and no one else we have to make them comfortable and that is different for everyone =)
How could anyone think that minimalists’ children are sad? That is so ridiculous and I’d like to know how they researched that.😂😂😂 If anything their parents would be less stressed and probably more financially stable. Most children these days have too many toys. Sometimes they are even overwhelmed with what they have. Children become more creative when they have less to play with. Years ago children didn’t have as many toys or opportunities but they learned how to amuse themselves. I just can’t believe people would say they are sad.😂😂😂
The people who are saying that are people who are drowning their kids in toys, creating a lot of stress in their children’s lives. They don’t understand the excellent point you’re making and they don’t care to try to educate themselves for the well-being of their kids.
Sad beige toys, lol that cracked me up. I think I’m a moderate minimalist too. I like to emphasize high quality art supplies and experiences over stuff but my kids still have plenty of toys ❤
No matter what you put out there someone will tell you you’re doing it wrong. You’re too extreme for some people but I’m sure you get plenty of “you’re not a real minimalist because you have xyz” messages. It’s weird that people are so threatened by someone offering a different way of living. BTW the Sad Beige clothes for sad beige children parody account is hilarious. She pokes fun at the people selling beige stuff to “crunchy” mamas who have banished primary colors from their kids lives. I love her videos so much that IG has now mistaken me for someone who loves “beige aesthetic” 😂
Maybe instead of calling it a minmalist home we should call it a simplified home!😁 As for ruining the economy, I see many people buying stuff they don't need with money they don't have. I don't see how that helps anyone.
No, there is a huge difference. I read a book about essentialism and that is having even less than minimalism. It's really living with almost nothing, only the very essential things to stay alive. We are definitely more of a moderate minimalist family although when we travel I try to think along the lines of essentialism because I hate hauling around items that I won't need. =)
I can´t help but think that those who say being minimal ruins the economy is using that as an excuse for over shopping! Having less stuff makes life easier and yourself happier. You cannot buy happiness - except for books ;)
Especially if it's the Bible ♡♡♡♡ One of my favorite verses is:
1 Timothy 6: 6-8 -8
It gives us this principle: "But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out."
And chocolate... 😉😋
@@jeanettekvinlaug2772 😆😍😆
Spending your way to economic success either individually or as a national pastime is not sustainable. 27 trillion in national debt and 16.7 trillion in consumer debt is not a healthy economy. (Under $tatement of the year.)
AND I could not afford guitar lessons for my son and dancing for both kids if we were not very concious about our purchases. And, tbh, the enterprise producing cheap nick-nack toys in terrible working conditions is not something I want to support financially - our local music school IS. I hope the can pay their teachers a good salary, replace broken things and go on to teach generations of kids and adults. It's about priorities.
So true about Christmas Shannon. The best Christmas we had when my boys were little was the one before we moved into our new home. I usually got them each a book , a toy and some special clothing. My in-laws ruined it for us all for years by purchasing literally piles of meaningless gifts. Not what Christmas is really all about. I also filled their stockings with little things that they opened first and loved the most!
There are so many different levels and versions on minimalism. I see myself as a warm or cozy minimalist.
And you’re right about it being an ongoing pursuit. When I look in a drawer or closet, and feel it needs to be “weeded” (like a garden), I’ll take five mins (for a drawer) or thirty minutes (for a closet) to quietly, smoothly go through what’s in there. If a closet, I’ll turn on some music. It’s an easy, quick way to get a sense of accomplishment.
It is not any one human being's responsibility to "help the economy."
Rather, it is the economy's responsibility to work for all human beings.
Exactly what I think too. =)
Love this! I consider myself a ‘Moderate minimalist’ or ‘Minimalish’. I love our more simple home. An economy based on massive waste is not a good sustainable model. It is a process too, it took a bit of experimenting to find our level of minimalism, and you are right, it is always changing. Your videos and perspective have been so helpful on my journey Shannon. I also love your mom’s input. I’m more her age, so can relate to both of you. ☮️🌸
Hi Sally, it really is a process. I hope you have a wonderful weekend =)
Thank you so much for correcting these misconceptions! ❤
Some of them are really silly 🤭
Re: economy I'd like to add that because I don't waste money on useless junk anymore I can afford more expensive and sturdy items (preferably made in my home country Germany or at least in Europe instead of made in China).
So if I decide to spend money, I actually tend to spend more than many people which of course is good for the economy AND for local manufacturers.
Also, in purchasing things that last longer and/or can repaired I'm helping the environment as well (less waste).
For me, all this is a big part of why minimalism is so very appealing to me.
Everything you mentioned about the economy is exactly what I think about when it comes to minimalism too. Avoiding all the junk items that just fall apart.
Shannon, you are sooooo right! Being a minimalist has enriched my life so much because I need simplicity and a clean home and it is easy to achieve that with less. Nothing more boring than living with stuff that doesn’t serve me and gets in my way of having relaxation, fun and interesting experiences. Thanks for your wisdom and thanks for doing the great videos with your Mom. Everyone should try minimalism. It saves tons of money, time and stress and who wouldn’t want that? ❤️
Simplicity and a clean home....so true!!
Hi Sandra, I agree it really does help with stress and money.
We are not a minimalist family, but when it comes to Christmas gifts, they only get 3. I have experienced that the more toys they get, the lest they play with them. I prefer 3 good presents that a bunch that they don't play with.
I still consider my life a “work in progress.” But I have come SO far in just one year of watching you and Josh Becker. I’m loving my life more than ever …. And I’m never bored by having less. Btw, your house looks great Shannon. I especially love the room w/ 2 chairs and the TV in the beautifully designed wall space. Would really like to emulate that look in my living room.
I’m enjoying less shopping and more money in my savings. Our goal is to travel more! Also it’s nice to not have so much inventory to manage.
Love your channel and your way of presenting minimalism. I like the term moderate minimalism as I think that fits me as well. Clutter hurts people by increasing stress and depression and over consumption hurts the environment and your finances. I choose to have a home that is calm, restful and makes me (and my family) happy to come home. After decluttering for several years now, I am focusing on the concept of ‘enough’. I have enough of everything to make me happy but no more than that.
I love that concept 'enough' and I think a lot of us for sure have enough. =)
I SO agree! I’ve used numbers as challenges to see what I like in my closet & kitchen and get a feel for living with less as I set aside the extras. I ended up letting go most of the stuff I set aside over time as I got more comfortable with less. 2 years ago I cleared my bathroom and kitchen counters and that improved our life so much my husband and I have extended that into the bedrooms and living room and dining room.
I love hearing that, I agree the cleared counters especially in the bathroom makes a huge difference.=)
Yes, this! We are a working on it and in progress. I like the term 'moderate.' That is basically where we are too. I am more cognizant of what we buy now, and my life is more freeing.
I really like the term moderate too, I was shocked when my husband came up with that because it is spot on for us.
you guys are in a great place in your lives - don't let anyone deter you from your goals.....in the end your family will benefit from your frugality and desire to live a simpler but abundant lifestyle! ♥
I have binge watched your declutter videos for the past 7 days.
I read On Walden Pond at age 21 and I have always tried to live a simplified life. But, you have given me that extra boost I needed to go through clothing that I have held onto for 20 years! I rooted out 50% of my wardrobe. Now, I'm only keeping items that are up to date and flattering. Thank you so much, Shannon and Mom , for your inspiring and entertaining stories!
Thank you Eleanor for watching my videos and I am so happy that they have inspired you =)
Hi Shannon. Greetings from the uk.
I totally agree with you on what you are saying on so many counts. I think children have much more imagination by having less toys. Children don’t need these all singing and dancing toys they try to put pressure on us to buy. I became a minimalist at the start of the pandemic and have cleared tons of stuff from my house. My house is certainly not bland in colour and I have paintings and things around my house that I enjoy. I just don’t have the clutter any more. There are things that I buy and, like you, something goes out if I bring something in. I have been motivated by watching your videos and thank you wholeheartedly for your encouragement. My best wishes to you as always. Pamela ❤
Hi Pamela, that is great to hear and your home sounds wonderful.
As for minimalism hurting the economy, over consumption has lessened full time work and increased part time work, which often doesn't offer things like medical or dental coverage. It has made more working poor. Buying less makes us less dependent on other countries and keeps more money in the US.
Hi Michele, I completely agree. That is why whenever I hear this comment I always roll my eyes. I know a lot of people that can't get full time hours.
Love the moderate minimalist idea. I think that's where I fall.
We believe less is actually more, because living a simple life that's not cluttered with junk. Junk gives us anxiety.....what we use on our Retirement Ranch on a daily basis is absolutely wonderful, having more than what's needed ends up to be clutter 🙋♀️♥️
Fantastic video
Good job! I never believe any of the comments. You stress that you need to do what works for your family. I like moderate minimalist. I’m not there (like your Mom at the beginning) but working on it. 😊
Hi Nancy, sounds like you are doing a good job. =)
I agreed with all you said about being minimalist. Your family gets more love and attention because you have less to manage. Less is more.
So true Shannon! I find myself telling friends and family that my family have a simplified home and lifestyle. Seems to be better understood and accepted. When we entertain others in our home, we always get comments about how wonderful our place looks 😊
Less is definitely more in a lot of different ways and not only makes our lives less complicated but helps the environment too. I can't help thinking that people who say minimalist don't help the economy are also those people that are contributing to the overconsumption of goods that are contributing to damaging the environment, it's all about mindfulness and balance.
This was an excellent video! I have followed you since I became a "moderate minimalist" in 2017. Some think my house is bare, but I have one or two things on the wall in most rooms which is an area I decluttered a lot, as well as with decor. Two tables only have a lamp, but other have a little decor. But I only have 3 things stored to switch out if I want which is FAR few than before. Christmas I do have a lot more than you, but my daughter thinks its very minimal! As you said, we all have different levels. I don't decorate for spring, Easter, 4th of July, Valentines Day, St. Patrick's Day or Halloween. I do struggle with clothing as you said, wanting less but then I got hooked this past summer on the Coastal Grandmother style and started buying a bunch of things in linen, beige and white to coordinate in a sort of capsule. I'm sure as I wear them, Ill find which really suit me and which don't. Sorry this is so long!
I love that! Also Coastal Grandmother style sounds really stylish =)
One way I’ve found to weed out your closet is to turn all your hangers backwards. As you wear something, put it back in with the hanger facing the right way. At the end of the season, you’ll see clearly what you haven’t worn.
I just love your videos! Your home is so beautiful, and I love that you have such a close relationship with your mom. I have been watching your videos for a while now, and I always get excited when I see that there is a new one! I have nine children, eight still at home, so it’s a challenge to keep the inventory as low as I’d like--but I’m always decluttering and find such great advice and inspiration from you. 😊 Thank you, and God bless you and your lovely family. ❤
Thank you so much Kerry, I am so happy to have you here. =)
You have inspired many people to decide what type of minimalism works for them. I like your husbands idea of moderate minimalism. I have had a cleaner and better organized household without the time I use to spend. More time for the family is appreciated by all. Thanks for your help
Thank you so much! I hope you have a great Friday =)
Great video! There are so many misconceptions out there about being minimal. The one that puts me off that I see many influencers feed into is that choosing minimalism will allow you to travel so much more. That is not the case with our financial situation, the $50 we spend on each of our kids at Christmas or a birthday is not going to free up enough funds for a big trip across the country or around the world. Minimalism helps us live within our means, with most of that living being normal life in our community (and kids not even in expensive activities). But we’re happy with our life and simple home and minimalism has grown our contentment in so many ways.
I have also seen that! When I was first looking for ways to save money (that is how I found minimalism) I would see all these articles of what to cut out of your budget to "get rich" well sadly we already lived on a really tight budget. So none of the tips applied to us because we were already doing all of them. What it came down to for us is we had to find a way to make more. I can completely relate to what you are saying here.
Hey, Shannon. 🌞 This vid cracked me up. 😄 But, at the same, time these misconceptions made me sad... And then I understood: minimalism is not for everyone. Am I right?
I believe when people hear the word minimalist, they always think about the EXTREME minimalist. Or, in magazines/media, they show too often the extreme. That's why people get these misconceptions. There are different levels. I don't know if I'd call myself a minimalist, but I like a heck of a lot less than I use to! As I've aged (I'm 52), I just don't want so much crap in my life. I don't have the energy or a need. Also, who wants to dust and clean more or even take care of it? Nope! As far as the economy goes....take a look back in history. People only use to have what they needed and not any more than that. I sure wish I had a different thought system when I was in my 20's, 30's and most of my 40's. I could have saved so much money, time, and energy. At least I have it mostly together now. Thank you, Shannon, for another great video! I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
You are so right about people thinking minimalism has to be extreme. With every philosophy out there I feel we can just take what works for us. I have also seen so many benefits from adopting minimalism which I guess is why I like to talk about it on here. I also wish I found out about it in my 20's, just to know back then there is a different way to live. I hope you have a great weekend too =)
I'm a bit older than you but can relate. When I was younger I had the space, money, and the desire to accumulate lots of things. It was what I was into at the time and there is nothing wrong with that. However after a divorce, dealing with the death of my parents and their stuff, and downsizing, I have a completely different perspective now. Less is more-at least for me. So it's definitely been a progression for me. Looking back, I don't know how I dealt with all that crap. 😂
My kids actually thrive in a more minimalist environment and love decluttering with me. I agree with this list of misconceptions! And I love colour too! I'm a minimalist for function rather than drawn to the minimalist aesthetic.
I agree that minimalism looks different for everybody! Thanks, Shannon for another great video 👍👍
Thanks for watching!
I agree, we'd be moderate minalmists too in that we only have what we truly want, need, use and value and buy mindfully. We prefer quality over cheap as it lasts longer. I've gotten rid of all the extras and clutter of stuff and though I love to keep my home decorated with a cosy feel...cushions, rugs, decor pieces etc it's everything that's displayed or used. Even our finances are kept in check in that we are sacrificing a vacation this year, so we can be mortgage free by the end of this year. We'll just go next year instead. I think minimalists prioritise on what's important to them and focus on less stress in life with stuff and finances.
That is exactly us too! =)
I laughed so hard when you said minimalist children have beige toys. It's hilarious what people come up with. Me and my hubby are not minimal. I watch your videos for help with decluttering and organizing. You and your Mom are great together. So much laughing whenever you're with her. Also, I enjoy seeing the little ones. My little sons are now 23 and 26. Have a wonderful weekend.
I genuinely believe that kids who live in a minimalist home are actually happier, bc they live in an environment that is calmer and less kaos. They don't get overwhelmed as children living in a nonminimalist home, who deal with too many choices & too much stimuli. I also think that kids living with minimalism, tend to be more content in their life & are more likely to appreciate things that really matter, which is people & experiences, instead of belongings. ☺️
All wonderful points here. I understand about the shoes! I have to have good support ( I wear indoor sneakers ) to feel comfortable and energized. Recently decluttered one pr of shoes but bought two new pr to accomplish this :)
All of your points affirm the definition of minimalism that Joshua Becker describes as : "The intentional promotion of the things we most value and the removal of anything that distracts from it."
Your life is a wonderful example and encouragement of this ♡
Hi Julia, Yes it's so important to have supported feet. I hope you are having a good Friday. =)
@shannontorrens1 I am having a great Friday and Thank You for the well wishes! I wish the same back to you! We are missing the unseasonably warm 68ﾟ temps that we had 2 days ago bc now it is back to about 40 degrees..that is MO weather for you. 70 degrees one day, 30 degrees the next!
Interesting that people think it will hurt the economy....mass consumption and "shopping as a hobby" wasn't always the norm but somehow we managed.
It's funny how everyone complains when you do something different. I've never heard people complain with the American norm; kid's toys strewn on bedroom floors and the kids are walking all over them. Or alternatively the kid's toys have takng over every room in the house.
Hi Shannon, I am new to your channel. (I think it was Noemi that mentioned you) I LOVE the last thing you had on the screen - "a home that functions well". That's it!! There can be various levels of minimalism but how your home functions for efficient, happy living is what matters. Thanks for a great video!
Welcome!! I love Noemi =) Thank you for being here.
Great video Shannon you hit the nail on the head with this one. There are no rules 👍🏼 Your home looks lovely & your children extremely happy ❤ Good for you & so happy that your channel is growing - you deserve 100K 🙏 Have a great week ❤
Thanks so much! 😊
This are all TRUE
thank you for all the motivation Shannon
Now me and my family are all on board ❤
Love your channel ❤
Thank you Jona! I hope you are having a good day.
You sound very realistic about how this has to work in real life. I have a lot of dishes. They are organized, and I love and use them. Maybe I'm not disqualified from the term yet.
I love that! I think each of us have more of certain items and less of others.
Bobbi at Mindful Midlife used the term simplest instead of minimalist and I thought that term captured the sentiment perfectly!!
Hey I just wanted to let you know that vintage Pyrex bowls contain an obscene amount of lead in the paint, which can leech into the actual white part of the bowl. There’s some articles on it if you’re interested, it’s not a sure thing that it’s in the inside of the bowl but in case you don’t want to take the risk
Thank you I will look that up. These aren't that old, they just look it.
Great points. Love ur home n family n all that u share.
Thank you so much 😊
Loved how you explained each point. Every families level of minimal living will look different as it should according to your needs and lifestyle. Some of the misconceptions are so silly. I like Grants "Moderate Minimalism".
Yes 100% to all of this!
I use color through my decor, I feel that cuts that sterile look. So my accessories tend to have color versus my walls and furniture.
I don't have a single white wall in my entire house. To me, they do look boring and look like someone hasn't gotten around to painting them yet 😆 There are so many beautiful colors in this world!
I consider myself a colorful minimalist.
I don't agree that white homes are boring, they just compliment the people and the life they live. I'd rather focus on my family in a space, for me they are "the colour" I need, than some kind of bright decor around. I am saying this because, there are people who find peace in white spaces and we hear "boring" or "like in a hospital" all the time.... It just makes me sad, because I se my home like a cloud I can live on 🥰😉
I love that way of thinking and I also love white lol. It's just so bright and clean looking. For every comment I get that my home is boring I get a comment about how nice and calm my home looks. Really our homes are meant for us and no one else we have to make them comfortable and that is different for everyone =)
I’m paraphrasing Joshua Becker:
“Minimalism is about identifying what’s important in life, and removing the things that are distracting us from them.”
I really like Joshua Becker's definitions of minimalism too.
@@shannontorrens1 I’ve learned so much from him.
How could anyone think that minimalists’ children are sad? That is so ridiculous and I’d like to know how they researched that.😂😂😂 If anything their parents would be less stressed and probably more financially stable. Most children these days have too many toys. Sometimes they are even overwhelmed with what they have. Children become more creative when they have less to play with. Years ago children didn’t have as many toys or opportunities but they learned how to amuse themselves. I just can’t believe people would say they are sad.😂😂😂
The people who are saying that are people who are drowning their kids in toys, creating a lot of stress in their children’s lives. They don’t understand the excellent point you’re making and they don’t care to try to educate themselves for the well-being of their kids.
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Sad beige toys, lol that cracked me up. I think I’m a moderate minimalist too. I like to emphasize high quality art supplies and experiences over stuff but my kids still have plenty of toys ❤
That comment cracked me up too, I thought where do people come up with this stuff LOL. I hope you are having a good Friday =)
No matter what you put out there someone will tell you you’re doing it wrong. You’re too extreme for some people but I’m sure you get plenty of “you’re not a real minimalist because you have xyz” messages. It’s weird that people are so threatened by someone offering a different way of living. BTW the Sad Beige clothes for sad beige children parody account is hilarious. She pokes fun at the people selling beige stuff to “crunchy” mamas who have banished primary colors from their kids lives. I love her videos so much that IG has now mistaken me for someone who loves “beige aesthetic” 😂
Haha that us so funny! I didn't know about that account maybe that is where people are getting that from 😂
Maybe instead of calling it a minmalist home we should call it a simplified home!😁 As for ruining the economy, I see many people buying stuff they don't need with money they don't have. I don't see how that helps anyone.
Hi Iris, I also don't know how that helps the economy, it's perplexing.
Well said!
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I think what you are talking about is ESSENTIALISM and not Minimalism...
No, there is a huge difference. I read a book about essentialism and that is having even less than minimalism. It's really living with almost nothing, only the very essential things to stay alive. We are definitely more of a moderate minimalist family although when we travel I try to think along the lines of essentialism because I hate hauling around items that I won't need. =)
Those are two completely different things. Lots of resources to read to learn more about both of them.