Where are all the women? (Interviews with Pakistani Girls)
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- Опубліковано 20 січ 2020
- "The feeling of freedom should have no gender".
I loved my time in Pakistan and made many positive videos (feel free to check them out). But I did feel the need to make at least one video addressing the inequality in not only Pakistan, but the entire region. And while there is inequality all around the world, the women of Pakistan (and regionally) are facing a lot of unique challenges.
So, what can we do about it?
If you're a parent, make sure your daughters have the same access to opportunities, freedoms, travel, and education as your sons.
If you're a politician, enforce laws and punishments against people who harass or hurt women.
If you're an educator, make sure girls in your community have access to education. Teach their parents that educated girls = more income for the family and a better community.
If you're a man, make sure you respect the women in your life. Make sure you believe them when they say something happened. Make sure you don't allow your male friends to objectify women behind their backs.
If you're just a kid or teenager, do your best at school, and become a leader, politician, or anything with influence. Become a lawyer, and change these laws. Prosecute the people who make this world unsafe.
Thanks for watching!
IG and Facebook: @dearalyne
I am a girl but I am very young
My father helped me exercise so that I would be a strong woman so I could go out and fight with any bad person
That's nice..I'm 12 and I am learning swimming and taekwondo
Your father is a good man.
I am 10year old and I am learning Taekwondo 🥋 and karate and I am learning volleyball for fun but I learn the combat sports so I can be protected from dangerous people
@静かな thank you :)
Everybody called me a drumstick
The only way to stop this is to teach men how to respect women... if we all come together our generation can change the world 💯
Yes, Lack of education in these countries lt's becoming bad nowadays. But we can change.
Well given that most women bring up children in single parent environments, I suggest you women do a much much better job of it, don’t you?
Yes men should be teaches welll so that women feel comfortable to work with them
@@zubabahmad6255 they need to mind their own business
We're an Islamic country
@@AyanAli-py7ci nope, discrimination against women is not "your bussiness". Its the world's bussiness. Its fucking 2021, discriminating against 50% of all humans because they happen to have a vagina is completely unacceptable in any part of the world.
Such a beautiful video . Being a Pakistani girl I know how hard it can be just to do simple things like going out alone for grocery shopping or a run. We really need to bring that change faster that Alyne talked about
The same thing happens in india too...
@@abigailadriel9061 I think all conservative conutries would have the same issues
@@mubasherchaudhary5223 men who would just chase an abaya clad woman
@@mubasherchaudhary5223 I'm an NCA grad. Im not from primitive times. You can't feel what a woman goes through. Harassment is a norm here.
@@abigailadriel9061 are u kidding with me dude? U can say same thing happened in india but mostly in muslim religion and that's fact.
Here take my like 👍
Haha thank you Usman!!!
Mine too !!!
Here
Lol
Lmao I thought it said take my life 😂
Yep...... I know their pain. If you stay out late in my country, you will be the talk of you neighborhood.....😑😑😑😑😑
Yea ikr -_-
I don't understand why this even exists in the first place? Freedom is everyone's birth right. Being a conservative society is the biggest setback for the whole world. Live and let others live too. Life is too short to be little.
@Pashtun Boy Okay? This is the reality and mindset of the people like you. I see what she is talking about. Drunk Swanker, I don't wanna insult you right now. 😂😂😂
😂😂 funny
Their excuse comes afterwards
If we even talk about freedom of females , they will roam naked on streets like western ladies
Don't know which western ladies they are talking about
As a man, I find equality very important and I don't understand many men who still think as if they are above women
Yeah, many of them are hypocrites they should learn to respect Women. we gave Birth to them, but seems like they forgot it. l'm sure this world will change someday.
i don't believe that You are not men but half man and half woman = you are transgender now
Most women want to above men nowdays search it up on google
@@Ok-bk5xx ummm 😒
men and women are not equal. men and women are given separate roles by Allah. Allah has made men the protectors and maintainers of women and the women must be obedient to their husband/father. we will never be equal. even physically our differences are too far apart.
Feminism is cancer to Islam and is slowly trying to get into the Muslim communities of different nations like Pakistan and corrupt them. they have already messed up Muslim communities in the west. feminism goes against Islam and rejects the teachings of Islam. That is kufr
I agree Alyne I'm from Pakistan and I'm ten years old and ive still seen what is happening we should fight for our rights and thank you for supporting our country ❤️💗
Once a girl asked my friend "why men are given so much freedom, but not given to women?"
My friend smartly replied "Because men are given so much freedom, that's why not given to women"
Who gave freedom to men??
That does't make any sense, we are NOT living in the past anymore. 😐😐 Both genders deserve freedom and safety. Educate yourself, and don't forget you're born by a woman, your mom, lt's not only men
@@greenpolitics9926 society and culture.
@@EzequielMartin55vf True
Their excuse comes afterwards
If we even talk about freedom of females , they will roam naked on streets like western ladies
Don't know which western ladies they are talking about
Thank you so much for this video. Today, I needed it...
We don't want freedom actually. We want "Safety".
Martial arts!!
No we want freedom
No we want freedom
Yass
@@evilzpowers not martial arts men self control
Fantastic highlight, thank you.
This video is amazing ✨💕happy to see you here Dear Alyne💕 This message is so important all the world ✨ Women deserve to feel safety, free, happy just like men ✨💕✨
Am from Pakistan and I think your right ♥️♥️♥️
I Am From Pakistan Aswell And Everyone Thank You For Supporting Our Great Country
PAKISTAN!! All Pakistanis Are So Happy!! ;D
Pashtun Boy nope. Pakistan's law is not sharia law. The people follow it but the law of Pakistan isn't sharia law
@Pashtun Boy sir sub ke apni apni rahaye hoti hai
@Pashtun Boy and your no one to say anyone a yahoodi because apnay giriban Mai ghanko ok before you say anything to anyone else
@@khanandsomaya3315 exactly
And as a matter of fact I am a research student. It pains me to see all these comments appreciating this whole agenda against Pakistan.
😂😂
Everything is agenda according to u
Reality of islami jamhuria porkistan
Continue your great work, Alyne!
I am a Pakistani woman who broke all stereotypes personally and professionally but I could not agree more with this video.
@Dany Isolate Yourself I m pakistani man ,I left Islam cause I m gay and there is no way I m following a religion that want me to be killed.
Same i also disagree with this shiiiitttt!!!!
@@zubabahmad6255 I agree 100% with this
Pakistanis are Muslims not western
From Somalia Living in America, I do not agree with some statements from this video!!
Madge? This is realty keep cry
Thank you for helping women. We need to do more and actively help and communicate this to everybody
I am an indian..our parents love us and give freedom to us..but only after considering our safety...it is so horrible that just bcoz of my gender I cant live my dreams😞
I am so sad 😞😞
Thanks for this video. I wanted to get more of a view of what Pakistan is like. And I see tourists having a nice time but I couldnt help but see mostly men on the streets and wondered where the women were.
Omg i love how this turned out!!
Thank you for letting me be a part of it💘
:OOO
thats so sad i never thought this was a problem in my country hopefully its getting fixed
Shut up that not equility that's shamelessness and crime
Equility when you talk about women basic rights
This content is so great . We really hope people can see the message.
Thank you for inspiring us.
Yes i agree
Iam just a young girl (10 years old) and I hope when I’m older this change will happen to every country, love from Pakistan 🇵🇰
2:15 I expected the same when I was a kid
Yup it's still happening
I am also I am from Pakistan and I agree
Stfu it's haram
Love to Pakistanis and regards to Alyne from Bangladeshis around the world.
AlviTVBD same
Here in Bangladesh i Don't think late night parties are available.. For both boys & girls.. I Don't know i may wrong.. If a boy stays for late night out of home Bangladeshi parents got angry.. Maybe that restriction not apply equally but it also apply for both gender.. ☹️ outing at late night considered bad for both man & woman in this country.. Otherwise we can go to grocery, school, College, office alone.. Actually fact is in festival time like Eid there hardly seen any man in the market..that time only shopkeepers are man.. Situation in Bangladesh Isn't that bad right??... For safety we can't go out late night.. Most of the men also avoid outing late at night for Being afraid of robing.. Otherwise situation Isn't that bad that woman can't go alone.. It's simple here.. ☹️
Thankyou Alyne for making our voices heard :")
so nobody listens to you in Pakistan?
@@mubasherchaudhary5223 lol obviously
@@minahilsher7997 just say it, I am listening, lol
"Girls are considered to be a burden"
That doesn't happen in my family. If you did something. I grew up like that and will teach my kids like how my parents teached me
If i was a president i would give justice to women
A Muslim woman is the purest woman in the world. No other religion has or can have such a pure virtuous woman. Pakistani women have been treated like fairies by Islam so that they do not get any heat and do not have to work hard. The people of Pakistan who are Muslims respect their daughters and sisters and mothers and do not leave them helpless like other religions. The woman of Islam is a princess who rules in her house. The only problem with other religions is why Muslim women live with such dignity. And we are grateful to our men for giving us whatever we ask for. As a Muslim, a woman's dignity is great. And as far as freedom is concerned, Our Lord has commanded us that O! muslim women. Stay at home and do not walk around without a viel. Like the women of ignorance used to walk around۔
I'm a Pakistani
And proud to be a muslim.
who else is in pakistan
I am a Hindu Indian my grandfather expected me to be a boy And not a girl he gave all his properties to my brother on his name for future next 20 years I fell terrible
Love you Alyne your fan Kusuma
this is literally most muslim countries. i have been to north africa where they are muslims, i saw mostly men, like 85%. i have a feeling that there are only men in middle east and north africa sometimes haha
I am a Pakistani and this is the truth here, the only thing i hate is old people's sayings who didnt have freedom or awareness in their time and try to limit ours so we might not change the world and thoughts of many but we have started raising awareness and with the help of many we will succeed InshAllah
I’m a Pakistani and I can understand why all dis happens
Someone understands. A pure woman is better than a free woman.
Hi Miss Alyne
Loved the message I also live in Pakistan and by watching this video you made me realize how lucky I am that I dont live like most girls in Pakistan .
Same I also feel lucky , but I wish that the other girls would live with a life with freedom and access to education.
@@roshaankhan4616 education is from dajjal
men and women are not equal. men and women are given separate roles by Allah. Allah has made men the protectors and maintainers of women and the women must be obedient to their husband/father. we will never be equal. even physically our differences are too far apart.
Feminism is cancer to Islam and is slowly trying to get into the Muslim communities of different nations like Pakistan and corrupt them. they have already messed up Muslim communities in the west. feminism goes against Islam and rejects the teachings of Islam. That is kufr
@@roshaankhan4616 this freedom you have in mind likely goes against the teachings of Islam
@@shadowstorm5261 It doesn't. Your mindset is telling what kind of person you are.😑
Being a girl, If you're not out of your house at night and if you take permission from your parents before stepping out of house because you respect them (from deep inside of your heart because you understand how difficult it is to raise children ) and you cover your body properly before stepping out of your house then sorry to say but you're not free....just do opposite of this and you'll gain freedom....
No offense, but everyone ask permission to the parents to go out. In the netherlands we do that too as long as you live with them. In the UK and the US too. And don't tell me it's not true. Telling people not to listen to their parents doesn't make any sense. You want to tell me that you just did everything without asking. I don't believe that. Everyone ask if you can go outside, or play at your friends place, or stay at the school playground a bit longer. Don't act like we in the west don't ask our parents for things.
@@slimaine9392 Thats westerners for you. They think that life is about doing whatever you please, being slack and being a wh0re. I love and appreciate you for being respectful and obedient! 😉
Thank you for being our voice!
آپ کو کیا پتا ی لوگ کون ھے
Be proud of who you are
I’m an nine year old girl and I’m Pakistani when here’d this message I flashed back and saw in the past what my parents said that don’t go out don’t do this don’t do that and when here’d alynes message and happy of what gender is
No offense but a 9 year old shouldn't be outside by her self, in the dark, in any place in the world. You're 9!!!
I went pakistan last year and I mean I dident worry at all but when it was time to leave I was so scared cause its was about 3am or 2am and it was so dark and we were waiting for the van to take us to the airport with my uncle.
2:17
My parents are Pakistani but they really I was a girl (and I am a girl)
I am a Pakistani and a muslim,this video made me feel so better,my mom is also Pakistani,but she is very independent!she drives care!walks at streets!and she does told me that all women should be independent!!
Girls are not burden! Our religion,Islam also says that girls are not burden,girls are luck!my parents never made me feel shame for being a girl! And that is how things should be!
Know that in the beginning of the video, it mentioned that not all of the information said are true, just saying.
As a Pakistani woman, I feel safer here than in many western countries.
Yea i m a pakistani i can defenity relate but my family won't change now i m just 13 we r 5 sister in my family they used to pray to get a boy now i have 2 brothers my mom supports us girls to be independent and be successful whereas my dad family is agianst all of this i hope we all girls will prove our family's wrong we are strong we can do this
Islam says women need to stay indoors
O bahi.muslim women even fought battles .sick mentality.,
Engaging women Is very Important!
Research has proven that *if Pakistani women can contribute to the economy of Pakistan its overall GDP can easily double! - And that’s not a light message* 🤍🇵🇰✨
We are Muslims
We're not interested in the economy
She’s wearing traditional Afghan clothes
Maybe is pasthun
I live in Pakistan 🇵🇰 and I am a girl and I stay out after dark and my friends too
Another interesting thing is that the 'lucky' women who can live in European countries or in the US, generally in first world countries, like for example in the UK, many of them are still continuing to live the same way as back home in their homelands, maybe they force themselves or they are forced by their husbands and family or both. It would be great that only those women and men could come to Europe etc. who understand this type of lifestyle and want to live this way, who can think out of the box. They should have given the chance to move to another countries and to travel the world to see and experience that they can live differently. People who move to first world countries and want to live the same way as they lived in their homelands probably are going to transform their new home counties into something very similar as their birth countries. I've been living in London, and some parts look like the streets of Pakistan or Bangladesh. And the same is going on in German cities, too.
As a woman in Holland I got respect from the Dutch guys. A Dutch guy will never annoy you on the streets. However, from other countries guys they can disrespect you in Holland. Like Turkey, Morocco, African countries, Antillians, Arabs, and so on... they don't know our culture and can treat a woman without respect!
I have been to Bradford. They're more religious than people in Pakistan
I have several Pakistani friends and they are all men, even their social media is men. I asked him where the women are there, what do they do and what is their daily life like? and he answered "women here are not like in other country".
Compact and meaningful
I'm a Pakistani my mom and sister said it is not shameful At All
This video made me cry. I can't even go out for a walk even tho I'm an adult. Hope things will change. 😔
no different than single women who wander at night in streets of New York City then get raped and robbed (one was even killed a few months ago in chinatown). you are asking for trouble as a single girl all alone at night on the street. doesn't matter the country.
I cant believe Alyne came to my country
I am 13 years old girl but my family doesn't allow me to go outside
They are overprotective and I really want to explore the world 😒😒
But I will never give up on my dream
Totally agreed
I can relate to all this but my family would never understand 😟
Same in india too , mostly rural areas
I live in Pakistan and i kinda agree
Yeah same in my country if a girl leaves her home at night parents be like : dont talk to her she is not a good girl and everyone keeps talking bout her?! Like she has her own life why do u care? Im from 🇹🇷 btw
Also alyne,
Yes, i agree that there needs to be education for women, people are now getting a hold of this necessity but after getting education for a certain time they leave it to become a houswive (in rural areas this IS a bigger problem as they get no education). I don't like it when even mothers ask for a son rather than a daughter but this doesn't only happen in Pakistan but this problem is worldwide (as far as i can think).
You are just an ultralight beam of positive energy Alyne! Keep up the great content and truthful messages ✌😍👍
I'm just saying the picture on thumbnail is not copyright free
Keep going girls...love and support from india
I think what happened in Pakistan is just a legacy from the past that is indeed a dangerous area. Same here in Indonesia but It's an old culture many parents don't practice anymore now. In the past, the Indonesian archipelago had many pirates.
When it’s 5 pm and it’s dark YOUR NOT ALOUD TO GO OUT but it’s 5 YOUR NOT GOING BUT ITS 5 pm
I can totally relate to this cause I belong to a religious Muslim family in India😞
Being a Pakistani girls I 💯agree with ur content 🙂I want to change these rules in this country!!!
Its for your safety? I agree that yall should have the rights to education and a career. But I don’t see a need for women traveling alone nor roaming the streets at night. I agree with some of the rules and I disagree with some.
come on i love my daughter more than anything anything.
@Euphoria - Love Yourself起 hi army
Nice to hear that God bless your beautiful daughter 😊😊🙏🏻❤
And? What does that have to do with this video and the oppression of Pakistani women?
When you’re on streets ITS ALL MEN in classes OMG THATS A LOT OF GIRLS
Why did SO MANY people dislike....
I was just watching this video where this woman talked about how she had to run for her life and three men stood staring and did nothing. This is what happens when you cry for equality! Men has to fend for themselves. If you are a woman and think that you are equal to a man, don’t look for our help when you are in a damning situation. YOU ARE EQUAL TO US!
I am 12, when I was 8 my father told me no more going outside simply because I was not a male
I CRIED and I am still sad about it
He said it for ur own safety
@@na-zt4hj yeah sure, why not keep all women at home because men can't control themselves
what i most hate is the honor kiling , domestic abuse , no right to choose marriage partner. which all against islam. Yet there are many horror story there.
I'm in India and mostly where I go I see women on the streets and they are not really restricted in place around me.
In Pakistan, very few women are employed .
In Pakistan, 95% of women make shoping on their husbands and fathers income.
60 percent Women shopping at jewelry and clothing stores in Pakistan.
Wait, in Pakistan, women can be employed just if they want, don't tell they cannot, lol. Just many women don't want to bcz men take their responsibilities. So, it is women's nfault
Thats my family from Bangladesh. Thats why i will leave my toxic family 😑😏
There's a reason why u do good so you know what's not good. You can't blame families for keeping their daughters safe, because everyone knows someone telling you to do good is thinking the best for you in the long term not for the moment. And saying certain things like your parents should do this or that will make people turn against parents so I don't think that's a good thing. We all know if u stay to yourself you will stay good but once u go out more sooner or later u will get led astray because people naturally don't like to see u doing good. Its proof how many people do you see saying if u do good you be good nobody follows the way of Islam so we all should do better in this lost world. Look at people who do go out every single day and night they don't usually do anything that makes a good a future person man or woman. BALANCING THINGS IS KEY 🗝 NOT BECOMING A WILD OUT PERSON AND STARTING TO DO BAD THINGS AND LEARNING BAD HABITS CLUBBING SMOKING DRINKING ETC. WE MUSLIMS DON'T HAVE MANY GOOD PLACES OR GOOD THINGS TO TEACH US AND THE PEOPLE AFTER US SO I DON'T WANT TO SUPPORT THEM, WE WILL GO TO THE CINEMA, RESTAURANT, SHOPPING AND OTHER PLACES WHICH DON'T LEAD US AWAY FROM WHO WE ARE WHY OUR OLDERS DONE GOOD. LOOK AT THE BIGGER PICTURE NOT THE EASIEST OPTION. A Man and woman working together make a good home. I'M NOT WITH ANY SIDES ONLY ALLAH GOOD LUCK INSHAALLAH. YOU DO GOOD AND GET GOOD 🙏🏼
Time to like 👍
You're a soul that is amazing
I am Pakistani and constantly follow the Dear Alyne, but believe me this video is based on misconception and not depicting the truth. You are great Traveller and Vlogger, but disappointed us.
what is the misconception?
As a Pakistani i do faces this everyday!!please do something ,,i dont want to live like this..
Come to 🇮🇳
I live in Pakistan but it's kinda different. Women do go out alone Alot of times like whenever they want but it doesn't mean that harassment doesn't happen in Pakistan
It varies from family to family and area. I never had such issues. But sadly many women literally have to beg their parents to even get permission to go on a school trip or to their friends house. It's weird.
I find it really odd when someone ask me to see if my parents allow something.
@@aimanrani7278 Islam doesn't allow women to walk the streets.
@@AyanAli-py7ci buy each woman a helicopter to go other places then because that's how they used to travel back in the prophet's pbuh era. Lol
It also happens in Bangladesh, but not this much
Because It's small country zuairia
@@yourdad7432 Um....if you think about the percentage, than it happens less.
Hi! I'm from Pakistan too😁thank you for making this video , it was educational and interesting as well as a matter that should be looked on upon so thank u again
I Live in Pakistan and this is true
I am Pakistani and girl.
I'm Pakistani 😃
On what basis do you say that Pakistani women do not have access to Education? Have you seen our state universities with higher number of male students? Or have you just visited a tiny village of Pakistan and judging the whole country. P.s poverty is a problem of Pakistan due to which both men and women are facing issues but there’s nothing like the daughters are not allowed to go to school
Yeah, i don’t get why most ppl try to forward their agenda by saying that pakistani women don’t get education. The pakistani females in the video should have at least pointed out that that certain fact is incorrect. Abb app koi gaaon mai jaakay education status of women dhoondo gay tou obviously its gonna be low, that is a problem, but thats not the whole of pakistan. This video is gross representation of pakistan. Yes women need more safety, but please appreciate the fact that were trying instead of bashing our country and comparing it to the western norm.
@@fizzasyed70 sorry but education is from dajjal
In Islam, women should be protected and controlled by men
I'm a Pakistani girl I completely agree
Such a Shame for Pakistan. But that's the reality. I'm sorry for your bad experiences here.
YOU RE GREAT GRL
im Muslim so I am proud to be.
You beat your kids?
I like the idea
I love you alyne you talked about my country
Thank you so much Alyne for visiting Pakistan i live there i am very thankful to you for spreading the message because i am a woman too and woman have rights i loved the video thanks again
hmm i live in lahore pakistan and my friend sister and alot of woman ride bike and drive cars you should see the citys first accpet straight going into a remote vilage in kpk
Hi Alyne,I would like to explain a few things. I always have believed that Pakistan is still around 50 years behind the world when it comes to women. However,The reason u wont find many women on the streets is because usually u would find people on the streets are those who are students ( male) and people leaving home to buying some house items ( males) specially during day time. Female students usually come home on vans or busses. If you go to food streets you will find less women because there are so many men there women feel uncomfortable there. The women in my own family who are not forbidden or are stopped for going anywhere wont go there and they usually send us the men because they dont want to go where so many men are ( so many men are there because they are chilling there with friends and all). You would find more women than men in markets selling cloths because thats what apparently appeals to most pakistani women and thats not what men are known here to be good at. Also u would see alot of women if you visit a university. So in short here in Pakistan some jobs are in a household are for women and some for men. However i agree Pakistan needs to do alot to improve. My country is so progressive in some laws and so regressive in some parts. Like do u know that in 1988 we elected a women prime minister Benazir bhutto who became the first female to lead a muslim country after 770 years. We also have health insurance for Transgenders and they are allowed to identify as third sex. Abortions are legal. Every political party who contests election has to field atleast 10% women candidates otherwise they cant contest elections. There are job quotas for women in all government jobs. There are 60 reserved seats for women in parliament. Pakistans current information ministers,Defense production minister,Enviornment ministers are women. So yes Pakistan has alot to imrpove but we are not that bad. Cheers.Adios
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Wow...!!Sensible Reply..If these are true I am so happy..Love from India😍
Are you Pakistani like me?
Health insurance for the people with gender dysphoria? Good idea, if it means that these people can have acces to really good therapists who help for them accept what they are, instesd of affirming their confusion.
As you should remember from elementary school, male means somebody has xy sex chromosomes and female means somebody has xx sex chromosomes. They cannot be changed, it's physically impossible.
So no one is "trans". Being a woman/man is not an identity.
And how the hecko could they even be a third gender when they think they are the OPPOSITE gender? Not a NEW one.
I have a male friend there and every video he sends me in public there’s like zero women. So I definitely had this question
Their excuse comes afterwards
If we even talk about freedom of females , they will roam naked on streets like western ladies
Don't know which western ladies they are talking about
I agree as a Pakistani,but yes,some men or families can be wrong about us women.