romanticizing my life alone

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  • @brookethompson197
    @brookethompson197 2 роки тому +7139

    i am around the age of 22, never been in a relationship, never been close to falling in love and i find it really hard to have genuine feelings for people. i feel like i am the only person in the world who feels like this. i found this video to be so comforting, thank you kennedy.

    • @naeco1602
      @naeco1602 2 роки тому +106

      Same feeling.

    • @lilgrogu1187
      @lilgrogu1187 2 роки тому +126

      you're not alone in those feelings!

    • @R1209-s7y
      @R1209-s7y 2 роки тому +103

      Nope, I’m 20 turning 21 in December and I feel exactly like this :)

    • @Niyousha99
      @Niyousha99 2 роки тому +103

      23 and feeling exactly the same way. You’re not alone!

    • @preciousmay2407
      @preciousmay2407 2 роки тому +57

      I'm also 22 and I feel the same way you're not alone :)

  • @ClaudiaMarieWalsh
    @ClaudiaMarieWalsh 2 роки тому +7089

    This was very calming and cute

  • @chesschessable
    @chesschessable 2 роки тому +415

    I'm in my 30s and I see alot of younger people commenting, and I'll say this: take your time and get to know a person. Don't let them take advantage of you, and establish what kind of relationship you want with the person in the beginning of the friendship, so there's no confusion down the road.

  • @ca4997
    @ca4997 2 роки тому +3027

    every single time you talk about your struggle with liking men/ being scared of them/ being single and your perspective on relationships… it all makes me feel genuinely less alone because I feel the exact same way and I really appreciate you for that😭❤️

  • @maddiganmarie
    @maddiganmarie 2 роки тому +2721

    kennedy is just so angelic. there’s this soft and warm pull to her that makes these videos and her content so special. she is truly one of a kind and i’m so happy to see how she is just so herself. she truly reminds me of the princesses i watched as a child and grew to love 🫶🥹

    • @filipa8626
      @filipa8626 2 роки тому +13

      Omg yes the perfect description

    • @MSkp4wo
      @MSkp4wo 2 роки тому +9

      was just thinking this!! like how does she manage to look like a disney princess even doing normal household chores and things

    • @melekbn2033
      @melekbn2033 2 роки тому +5

      facts has been said. ❤

    • @Rc1023
      @Rc1023 2 роки тому +4

      The more that I watch Kennedy's video I come to realize that I'm just the male version of her but with less clout and talents lol.

    • @haythe-u3m
      @haythe-u3m 2 роки тому +6

      If I read this about myself I think I'd start sobbing lol

  • @FabledFajar
    @FabledFajar 2 роки тому +965

    The first 2ish minutes of this video were so beautiful there were so many good shots 🧎🏽‍♀️

    • @Casey_Chaos
      @Casey_Chaos Рік тому +15

      All she did was talk down on men. Not all men are the same. Crazy, I know.

    • @Catthepunk
      @Catthepunk Рік тому +12

      @@Casey_Chaos I'm glad you gave me the heads up. Ig she's speaking from trauma so its understandable, but I don't wanna watch the vid no more cause I don't need that energy.

    • @vantagepoint3563
      @vantagepoint3563 Рік тому +4

      @@Catthepunk fr i thought I was being a dick for not messing with her vibe

    • @cloud6501
      @cloud6501 Рік тому +4

      ​@VantagePoint if she did have a traumatic experience than what she said is understandable.
      But i think she's just blaming her social anxiety on men, so she doesn't take feel any responsibility of having to work on it.

    • @gostavoadolfos2023
      @gostavoadolfos2023 Рік тому +9

      ​@@Casey_Chaos let's be honest here bro, most men under the age of 26 don't know what they want from a relationship other than sex, and even more behave awkwardly around girls and sometimes aggressively.. some girls can handle that but others can't and prefer to be alone.

  • @mariyaazeem8585
    @mariyaazeem8585 2 роки тому +1441

    when somebody asks me what kind of life i want to have in the future, it’s THIS. just a simple, normal life where i’m content with my own company. eating better, having cute kittens, reading in the daylight daylight, making art, sharing meals with loved ones.
    makes me happy for you kennedy. makes me hope that i’ll one day have it too.
    - from a fellow lost infp

    • @Maria-dd4zf
      @Maria-dd4zf 2 роки тому +31

      so all INFPs we feel the same way? :,(

    • @aliyah_drake
      @aliyah_drake 2 роки тому +4

      this

    • @maddiganmarie
      @maddiganmarie 2 роки тому +5

      @@Maria-dd4zf yes! Infp gang 🤭

    • @yuvan6499
      @yuvan6499 2 роки тому +10

      I used to think this is all I need but once I've stepped into my 30's. Honestly I regret living in my head instead of out there. The older I get, the harder the loneliness feels so I'm doing everything I can to break my system and to reprogram myself to seek after what really makes me happy. Fellow INFP as well.

    • @aayeshatarique2393
      @aayeshatarique2393 2 роки тому

      Hello fellow INFPs, I’m an ISFJ and can relate to y’all, all I want to do is just curl up in a cozy corner with a cup of coffee and a good book ❤

  • @livelaughlovejeff
    @livelaughlovejeff 2 роки тому +2019

    kennedy never fails to bring me comfort

  • @JustNicole6400
    @JustNicole6400 2 роки тому +718

    Girl I’m 26 and I literally see myself in you from a few years ago. You are a gorgeous girl and unfortunately we live in a society lmao. I’m sorry some men can be trash sometimes. But don’t dim your light because of these experiences. Focus on your career, friends, family. Your love will come in time. There is so much to learn and experience in the meantime trust me 💜

    • @paulogaspar8295
      @paulogaspar8295 2 роки тому

      don't worry as a young men i can say many women are trash too. And I know many young men who are terrified of women.

  • @evelyngottita
    @evelyngottita 2 роки тому +890

    Literally 27 years old and still have this mindset. I feel like I deserve better than what men (that I've met so far) can offer me, and also scared of the psychopaths.

    • @madwez
      @madwez 2 роки тому

      like what a superhero? another delusional spoiled brat.

    • @alexandersupertrump9445
      @alexandersupertrump9445 2 роки тому

      That is natural woman behavour/feeling. . woman have been scared/cautius of men throughout history. .and thats a good thing. ..some dudes are just animal instict driven(~10%). . . world's fked up

    • @a.a2126
      @a.a2126 2 роки тому +48

      It's very good to know your own value. I'm 26 and just came out of an unhealthy relationship. Besides the physical closeness, I was giving more than I was getting back and I got tired of not being treated the way I think I deserve to be treated.

    • @ftftyffghfvghfcht6701
      @ftftyffghfvghfcht6701 2 роки тому +22

      'Im a paranoid schizophrenic and its societies fault'

    • @mishterkhalid3117
      @mishterkhalid3117 2 роки тому

      what do you have to offer the men that you have met? its always one sided, girls expecting high standards from boys but not willing to live up to the standards of men.

  • @amidreaming333
    @amidreaming333 2 роки тому +536

    Yes I am in the exact same situation. I'm 22, never had a boyfriend/girlfriend, never really did much. I spent my life in daydreams, mental simulations, tv shows, films, book, observing other people's failures...
    Now I'm at a point where I think life at it's best is food for fantasy; inspiration for my dreams. I don't really want to experience bland things and pretend to feel excited. I'd rather experience real excitement in my inner world and try to share life with people who look to make the most of life and add touches of beauty here and there, rather than aiming for material goals.
    When I see your videos you feel like a friend and I think it would be good if our kind of people find each other and simply share a mutual understanding that we are choosing everyday to create the beauty we want to experience; whether it is through cooking nice meals, aesthetisizing our life, creating art or anything.

    • @LuckyLaure
      @LuckyLaure 2 роки тому +2

      I feel you!

    • @stormshadowoffire
      @stormshadowoffire 2 роки тому +34

      Yep. I'm 26 and in a similar position. I used to fixate so much on "i need a gf" or "i need to go out and drink like everyone else!". Slowly coming to terms with the fact that we're not all meant for the life that movies, tv, and books like to portray as being the norm.
      Now I just focus on achieving my dreams and self-improvement.

    • @amidreaming333
      @amidreaming333 2 роки тому +4

      @@stormshadowoffire love that for you :)

    • @muskanarora2521
      @muskanarora2521 2 роки тому +3

      “Life at it’s best is food for fantasy; inspiration for my dream”.
      That’s very profound.

    • @amidreaming333
      @amidreaming333 2 роки тому

      @@muskanarora2521 hahaha thank you Mushka 😊

  • @kessa892
    @kessa892 Рік тому +241

    I'm 27 and have just left an 8 year relationship. Just realised that I've never spent my adult life alone and I'm pretty nervous about it. I'll be moving out next week. Doing things alone and having to take care of everything myself is also a huge fear of mine. So thank you for uploading this! It shows me that not only may I survive this, but I might even enjoy being single and living on my own :-)

    • @enjoymystyle2406
      @enjoymystyle2406 Рік тому +5

      it’s a lot easier than you think.. i suggest taking this time grow with maturity over failing a few times and running right back into a relationship that could and/or will be toxic. that is what some of my close friends still continue to do, instead of learning from the failures and small pains from that, they relapse back to the first relationship they can get even when it’s obvious that they are not compatible. life is fun alone and you will learn that if you truly want to do so. when some time has went by you can slowly work your way back with someone that you meet along the way!

    • @IconVlog.
      @IconVlog. Рік тому +8

      Mine was 9 years and I was 24 when I left and I can say now that at 26 it was a struggle but I got there!
      I use to cry in my car everytime I had to eat alone but it was so worth it.
      I literally walk through the city to eat by myself like I own the world.
      I know it’s only been two months since this comment but I hope you’re doing okay 🤍✨

    • @sifrancesca
      @sifrancesca Рік тому +1

      Im the opposie. I have been single for like 6 years and I am meeting someone (possible relationship but not there yet) and Im having a hard time trying to live now that I have another one that I have to consider about things. Like its hard to compromise being that I have always been alone and just consider myself for my decisions and not think about another one. Because of this, im starting to loose interest and start to weigh in if I really want or need to be in a relationship.

    • @Jocelyn_Lara
      @Jocelyn_Lara Рік тому

      I hope you enjoy your time alone, you'll do great and find out a ton about yourself!

  • @3ofcabin6
    @3ofcabin6 2 роки тому +2055

    there really are so many people in the world because right up until this second, i thought i was the only 22-year-old who has never been in a relationship, never been in love, and quite frankly thinks will never genuinely be in the future. what's funny is that despite all this cynicism and doubt, i cant deny those little moments i catch myself being a hopeless romantic and even having those dreams similar to yours. anyways, thank you kennedy and everybody in the comment section for making me feel less alone. i hope we find the happiness we deserve, whatever form it will take :)

    • @aayeshatarique2393
      @aayeshatarique2393 2 роки тому +26

      I am in the same boat as you are, I’m 23 and still haven’t found “the one” and don’t know if i ever will but I feel like the only way to be happy is to hope that better things are coming, so until then just keep doing what you love and hope for the best ❤

    • @jakairamedina
      @jakairamedina 2 роки тому +2

      You have stolen my words girl…

    • @bitachocho
      @bitachocho Рік тому +1

      Relate 100%

    • @vdebbiejrs6437
      @vdebbiejrs6437 Рік тому

      could be aromantic :

    • @jellafaith9511
      @jellafaith9511 Рік тому +1

      dear, I'm 26

  • @nija2106
    @nija2106 2 роки тому +649

    Currently trying to find the beauty in being lonely. I’ve chosen it bc I saw my self being to dependent on others and it just made me realize I don’t know myself or what I like or who I am. It’s been hard no one tells you how scary it is to be in your own head with no distractions or people to bring you happiness. You have to find it in yourself . This gave me some ideas to fill my time ❤️ thank you ken💕,

    • @Eli-le8em
      @Eli-le8em 2 роки тому +7

      hey, I also just went to the process of realizing that being alone can be very hard. I just saw your comment and I hope it gets easier for both of us. It's going to be worth it, because if you can really depend on yourself, you are so much stronger. I hope you know you made the right choice :)

    • @orangegeusee
      @orangegeusee 2 роки тому +2

      I really relate to this, I need to be more independent, BUT ITS SO SCARYYYY 🥹

    • @nija2106
      @nija2106 2 роки тому +1

      @@Eli-le8em sending so much love to you for your journey 💓💓 we got this! Day by day its been getting easier .

  • @bitterbonita
    @bitterbonita 2 роки тому +168

    hey Kennedy, thank you for brightening up my day, and showing me that I am not alone.

  • @sophiaisabelle027
    @sophiaisabelle027 2 роки тому +590

    Kennedy Walsh is a pretty grounded and self-sufficient individual with a handful of interests and hobbies. She's an inspiration to many young folks who watch her videos. I believe she can make it even farther in life. She seems deserving of every single recognition there is.

    • @Emily-du3sk
      @Emily-du3sk 2 роки тому +5

      that’s so cute

    • @radix2830
      @radix2830 2 роки тому +3

      Totally agree. Sometimes it is hard to fathom that she is just 22.

  • @xoMrsWentzxo
    @xoMrsWentzxo 2 роки тому +866

    22 is sooooo young even if it doesn’t feel like it. It sucks to feel lonely and see everyone in relationships. But there is still time in your 20’s to explore who you are as a person and what you really want.

    • @DA-wg5cz
      @DA-wg5cz 2 роки тому +2

      some men, the same with women.

  • @annamadunovic8038
    @annamadunovic8038 2 роки тому +59

    I just wanna say, as someone who also believed the EXACT same things as you about love; the love you want is definitely out there. I never thought I would find or feel true, deep, head-over-heels, storybook type love with someone, but I did. Never settle for less, you're amazing and there is a love like that out there for you. Also, you're only 22 my love, time is going by so slow, you still have so much more of it

    • @Kaelyn99
      @Kaelyn99 11 місяців тому +2

      you have no idea how much hope this comment gave me. and i’m so happy for you

  • @lindseysmith1330
    @lindseysmith1330 2 роки тому +380

    kennedy i cannot express to you how much these videos have been helping me, ive struggled for a while with having to do things alone and feeling lonely and scared and I felt like I had to force myself to be around ppl that I dont even enjoy being around bc I felt like a failure for wanting to be alone most of the time but now that im 25 im starting to realize the beauty of enjoying your own company and being patient for the right people to come into your life instead of trying to force it.

    • @ornella09
      @ornella09 2 роки тому +1

      True but the only way of getting better is putting yourself out there and face your fears. Being alone always in your own bubble is dangerous.

    • @lindseysmith1330
      @lindseysmith1330 2 роки тому +5

      @@ornella09 I meant more in the sense of going out in public or running errands alone and not being scared and also being able to fully appreciate myself in the times that it is just me, but I definitely make sure to spend enough time with friends and family but there are a lot of times where you want to do something and you have no one to go with you so you have to either be ok going alone and having that experience or staying home out of fear and im trying to break free of that fear to do those things

    • @madwez
      @madwez 2 роки тому

      you need a D* too. she´s not helping you, she´s destroying you and you are blindfolded

  • @Vostro-
    @Vostro- 2 роки тому +266

    I fall in love in my dreams too, and I've felt emotions in my dreams that I have never even come close to feeling in real life. You're right that it's hard to move on with your day when it feels so dull in comparison. I've asked other people if they've ever felt this and all of them have said no, so it's nice to know that this does in fact happen to other people as well.

    • @vanish_6064
      @vanish_6064 2 роки тому

      What dreams are you having? Cause I have terrifying dreams where I’m like “damn glad I woke up. Let me go make some pancakes.”

    • @zainebhidoussi1498
      @zainebhidoussi1498 2 роки тому +1

      oww same ..like u feel so passionate about ur love with that person in ur dream that when u wake up u wanna experience it again and feel like ..u miss that beautiful strange feeling ..i am currently in love in reaal life ..but the feeling i felt in my dream was deeper and felt so suureal to feel it irl

    • @zainebhidoussi1498
      @zainebhidoussi1498 2 роки тому

      @@vanish_6064 ye sure we all have those dreams sometimes..they're called nightmares xDD..and ye when u wake up u feel so relieved that none of that happened irl

  • @Void-pm4zw
    @Void-pm4zw 18 днів тому

    wow, i haven't seen you since your earlier vlogs. i'm much older(28 now) and i used to watch you but i stopped going on youtube for years unless it was for a quick search. it's like seeing your baby cousin and then not seeing them again until years later and now they're all grown up. i love that you're the same charming, silly, genuine person i loved watching but matured(in a good way!) now. even your outro is the same but matured! it's like you're you but a higher elevated you :)

  • @user-ju6gr9oz1k
    @user-ju6gr9oz1k 2 роки тому +169

    genuinely there's no one's videos i'm more excited to see than yours. they're so comforting.

  • @cherryblossom7761
    @cherryblossom7761 2 роки тому +95

    I wonder what it feels like to live on your own, have a place you can call home, earn a sustainable income and just be generally independent.
    Currently I live with my parents and they are the best ❤️ but I want to experience that kind of independence one day ❤️

  • @Diyaraghav12
    @Diyaraghav12 2 роки тому +72

    hey Kennedy, considering I've watched your videos for years also rewatched them whenever I needed comfort and calmness, i noticed that you haven't posted in a very long time. I hope you are doing well, just want to say that I am really happy and proud of you to take a break from UA-cam, you definitely deserved it after all that you have been through in the recent past. We really miss you, hoping that whenever you come back, we will see you genuinely happy. Much love xoxo.

  • @chellymac16
    @chellymac16 2 роки тому +187

    "I don't really get UTIs because... haha... nobody's touching me" I relate and I fucking love you Ken

  • @laurenpravidur1653
    @laurenpravidur1653 2 роки тому +96

    you literally articulate the thoughts and feelings i have, and struggle to describe myself, SO well. i’m almost 22 and never been remotely close to being in love/a relationship either and you bring me extreme comfort, ily

  • @wewe4260
    @wewe4260 2 роки тому +51

    I haven't watched your videos for a long time, and now I watched the scene when you were with your family, which brought me many feelings and a desire to cry! I don't know why but I haven't seen you for a while

  • @khushiansari22
    @khushiansari22 2 роки тому +198

    It feels like a movie. There uh go Kennedy you have your own, where you're the director,producer & actress.

  • @folklore9783
    @folklore9783 2 роки тому +58

    this was one of the most comforting videos i’ve ever seen

  • @nutela4u
    @nutela4u 2 роки тому +27

    I feel like this is starting to become a trend, and that social media are to blame.. at least in my case I think they skew my expectations that I have on myself and on other people. Perhaps we all just need a pretty long digital detox to be able to fall in love in real life again?
    Also, seeing you grow up and do all of these things by yourself, the cleaning, chores, cooking for your family, diy, don't know why but it makes me so proud of you Kennedy! Sending lots of love. We are all lost, beautifully so, in our own ways, on this magical planet. I also feel lost at times but there is no other place I would rather be (lost)! =DD

  • @ana4923
    @ana4923 2 роки тому +196

    16:20 I don’t think I’ve ever related soooo much with anyone ever in my life lol. I’d rather be alone that not having the kind of love I imagine in my head, which probably doesn’t exist in the real world, as you said. It’s fine, I guess. We’ll find love in books and cats and Taylor swifts music

  • @hannahr8224
    @hannahr8224 2 роки тому +86

    I´m forever grateful that you decided to start a UA-cam channel. I liked your old videos, but these new ones are just so perfect in every way. I love that you feel so real and honest and still make your life seem so beautiful without faking it. I just feel so connected to you and sometimes I can't believe I don't even know you in real life. Your are such a blessing and im so glad I found your videos, because you comfort and still inspire me so much. I just want you to know that I appreciate everything you share 🫶

  • @lynniepenera1298
    @lynniepenera1298 Рік тому +3

    i know i'm like three months late to this video but i resonated SOOOO much with your little ramble about love at the end, and also just learning to appreciate your own company! Ur so relatable and i love you!

  • @LexxiieForeverLove
    @LexxiieForeverLove 2 роки тому +63

    This video helped my anxiety so much holy crap. You're home feels so comforting and safe.

  • @sbaker93
    @sbaker93 2 роки тому +102

    Hey Kennedy, I felt basically the same way you did when I was 22. (i'm almost 30) Didn't have my first serious relationship until I was 27, and was basically single my whole life because #1 had unrealistic expectations of what love is and #2 was attracted to people until they actually liked me (look up fearful avoidant attachment style).
    Everything really does get better with age. You realize what you want and what you don't want. Infatuation/obsession aka limerence is not real love and it's also not something you want to experience for the rest of your life; it's exhausting.
    Your 20s are for figuring yourself out, so you're doing exactly what you're supposed to be doing :)

    • @sarahli0609
      @sarahli0609 2 роки тому

      how do you stop experiencing limerence :/

    • @madalinaanton3253
      @madalinaanton3253 2 роки тому +3

      The thing is I've never experienced limerence, just general frustration about how incompetent men are and disgust towards their characters and frankly the male sexual instincts all while being attracted to them but viewing my sexuality as being only mine.

    • @sbaker93
      @sbaker93 2 роки тому +1

      ​@@sarahli0609 I think it helps if you don't put value in it. It's okay to have crushes on someone, that could lead to a real connection, but if it always stays as an obsession/idealizing then it's not worth your time. I would try focusing on trying to really get to know these people, and once you do the illusion fades.

  • @ja5397
    @ja5397 2 роки тому +12

    Please keep up this style of filming!! It’s healing in some way ❤

  • @reanluimstra6960
    @reanluimstra6960 2 роки тому +68

    im so glad you talked about how hard it is to find love and that it maybe never will be how you want... thats exactly how I feel and it made me feel less alone

  • @moon.maiden
    @moon.maiden 2 роки тому +51

    I'm 25 and recently came across your page and it brings me so much comfort. Remember, you're 22. chill and focus on loving yourself, because what's within will shine outward ❤ (i'm teaching myself that lesson too lol)

  • @isabellwilson6705
    @isabellwilson6705 Рік тому +2

    you’ve helped me through so much ur so real and ily 🫀

  • @syastaystay
    @syastaystay 2 роки тому +76

    I was feeling so lonely, people around me always one step in front of me they seems like hold a better life than me. And its hard not to compare but watching this vlogs Made me think that its okay to walk slowly.

    • @helenchill7488
      @helenchill7488 2 роки тому +2

      I feel like that too in terms of relationship, career and just life in general. It's really frustrating honestly.

  • @natjun7504
    @natjun7504 2 роки тому +129

    i'm the type of person who never leaves comments on youtube videos, but after hearing what you said in the last 3 minutes, i just had to. i've been watching your videos for a while now because we're really similar. my friends aren't like me and that makes me feel a bit alone sometimes. but when i see people like you on youtube, it gives me some sort of comfort, so thank you. the way i feel about men, about never finding love, about not believing in it, about wanting to run away from it, but at the same time wanting it (lol), is the exact way you described it. i felt understood, so thank you again! i also have anxiety of going out, panic attacks etc, i understand you, it's truly exhausting. hoping we both can feel better about it all some day! ❤ oh also, you're really talented

    • @sydney5585
      @sydney5585 2 роки тому +2

      I came here to say the exact words you just said. Thank you, and seeing all these comments make me feel less lonely

  • @xlxll1068
    @xlxll1068 2 роки тому +30

    I feel it’s better for you to be around your family. I’m like you i lost so easily in my thoughts and complicated feelings. And being alone most of the time make it even harder. I wish you could go back to live with your mom ♥️

  • @pratibhasoren8105
    @pratibhasoren8105 2 роки тому +31

    I'm 24 and right now I'm watching your video on my bed with my cozy blanket and it feels like your videos give me so much comfort...
    It makes me so happy that you've come a long way. Love you Kennedy 💖

  • @arianah7730
    @arianah7730 2 роки тому +142

    Seeing Kennedy articulate my exact feelings and us being the same age and then seeing everyone in the comments relate makes me feels less alone

  • @sugafani852
    @sugafani852 Рік тому +3

    book+studying+coffee+my pet+candle+AUTUMN=ROMANTICIZING

  • @baejoohyun5970
    @baejoohyun5970 2 роки тому +116

    Kennedy, I started following your channel in 2019 when I was 16, today I'm 19 and I haven't changed much. What made me like you is that unlike other youtubers, you don't force your personality just to be "reletable". You are just the way you are, and it's a relief to watch someone who has a personality so similar to mine. Whenever I see how you've been overcoming your fears and growing as a person, I feel inspired and I feel like maybe I can be that way too. I admire you very much! LOVE FROM BRAZILLL

    • @viktorija.s3056
      @viktorija.s3056 2 роки тому +2

      Samee. People usually tell me I should be more easygoing, less shy...

  • @ridamansur8754
    @ridamansur8754 2 роки тому +55

    i cannot bring into words just how much calm and joy this video brought me. thank you kennedy. btw those pants you made took my breath away.

  • @alanym5325
    @alanym5325 2 роки тому +1

    i’ve been watching you for years and your videos always make me feel so at peace but you’re funny so it’s also super entertaining all at the same time!!

  • @nia.k304
    @nia.k304 2 роки тому +27

    that intro was disney original movie worthy🥺♥️

  • @leahfide
    @leahfide 2 роки тому +61

    Watching you clean motivated me so much. I really love when young women are so independent. Its so empowering. I cant wait for the day i have my own place. I know its not all perfect but these type of videos make me so excited for that day. Cleaning, grocery shopping, and maybe even cooking is so simple but i just love seeing women like you or Avrey do it. Not because you guys have to for someone else but because its for you. I love it. Its really a form of self-care i think. Its so beautiful.

  • @rmannayr2129
    @rmannayr2129 Рік тому +2

    THIS WAS SO CALMING!

  • @akidult
    @akidult 2 роки тому +26

    Kennedy is so real for showing her true self any chance she gets

  • @annazenker6562
    @annazenker6562 2 роки тому +41

    Literally feel the EXACT same way about love and I'm in the same situation. It's so refreshing to hear that there are other girls out there going through the same experiences

  • @worldsaprt4335
    @worldsaprt4335 2 роки тому +1

    this was the best video i could’ve watched right now. i resonate a lot with what you said about your encounters with men & being alone in general so this really made me feel less alone. love you kennedy ♥️♥️

  • @natalielor4355
    @natalielor4355 2 роки тому +14

    i love the recent shift that kennedys content has had in the past few months. its so warm and lovely

  • @libbyt2581
    @libbyt2581 2 роки тому +19

    I just spent a whole year on my own and it was the best thing I have ever done for my mental health and personal growth. It was horrible at times because I did get very lonely but now I've returned back to the world I've realised how much I enjoy my own company and how many people are scared to be alone or do things alone. I feel much calmer and more secure in myself. I would recommend to everyone to integrate a little more alone time into their lives.

  • @peaceandquiet7137
    @peaceandquiet7137 2 роки тому +5

    it is not healthy to be scared of other people - in any form. i hope you can work on this fear you have so you will be happier. change comes from within. you cannot control the outer world.

  • @lauren306
    @lauren306 2 роки тому +66

    I haven’t been in a very good place these last few weeks and this video literally saved me from unaliving myself.

  • @marishomakhia3056
    @marishomakhia3056 2 роки тому +24

    nobody has ever explained chaos of my emotions like you did...Sometimes I think it's quite normal but sometimes it seems tough...just so you know you aren't the only one

  • @damo1329
    @damo1329 2 роки тому +4

    You overthink things, that never ends well, I was just living life, date whoever, enjoy, relax, and if it goes well, it's great, if it goes wrong to something else, it's no big deal. or how difficult it is to relate to someone.

    • @mellilyyy6427
      @mellilyyy6427 Рік тому

      i think it’s not about “overthink” some people just realize or feel things more than others. they have more awareness so they have no tolerance for fakeness

  • @mayshasingla
    @mayshasingla 2 роки тому +69

    kennedy just wanted to let you know your videos are comforting to so many including me so thank you for always being yourself with us and making so many people feel seen. you are special ❤

  • @Belmah
    @Belmah 2 роки тому +53

    Her videos are so calm and asthethic at same time.

  • @rmannayr2129
    @rmannayr2129 Рік тому +6

    GOOD TO SEE HER FAMILY AND CLAUDIA!

  • @HeySonia
    @HeySonia 2 роки тому +18

    21 and i feel the same way as you! So glad to find people here in the comments that feel the same way about love/relationships!

  • @nyankitty4000
    @nyankitty4000 2 роки тому +7

    thank you for speaking about that fear, it's strangely comforting because it reminds me that we as women can help eachother feel safer, in an always unsafe world

  • @josephinelovefrenchtt
    @josephinelovefrenchtt Рік тому +1

    This video is so freaking insane like I've been on youtube for years and this is the first time a vlog matches so well with my aesthetic. Like literally every thing, the way you talk, the way you film, the thoughts of you, and the apartment... I'm so thankful that this video popped on my fyp, this is the BEST VLOG I've ever seen. I've been trying to find vlogs like those IG girls but after watching this vlog, I understood that there's no need to be like them, girls like you are way 100000% cooler. Thank you so much for making this video, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, you have no idea how much comfort they had brought and how I am in tears when I found out I'm not alone. Hope you have a good day!!

  • @almi457
    @almi457 2 роки тому +39

    Kennedy i don’t even think you’ll see this but the last part where you talked about love really hit me. as someone who’s 19 and never really had genuine feelings for someone and now trying to work it out with a guy i struggle a lot. Because for my whole life i was obsessed with the idea of love just like you and never really thought I could find what i wanted (thats why i gave up on being in a relationship and completely isolated myself from men). But now for the first time something serious might happen and it made me realize that i never believed in love cause i was trying to find someone perfect. So when they did something little it would disgust me because now in my eyes they were not perfect. Accepting the fact that perfection doesn’t exist helped me a lot. Seeing people like you also makes me feel less awkward lol

    • @mintubania6006
      @mintubania6006 2 роки тому

      This type scenarios occurs when you get raised by a single mom.

  • @lolad7645
    @lolad7645 2 роки тому +125

    I feel you I'm 23 and never been in a relationship and also terrified of men. I'm an introvert living in my daydreams so I completely feel you but our time will come

    • @jillm9165
      @jillm9165 2 роки тому

      Sane I'm 21 and have never been in a relationship and I struggle to develop romantic feelings :/

    • @maaggiiiiiii
      @maaggiiiiiii 2 роки тому

      same

    • @adalispatricia
      @adalispatricia 2 роки тому +8

      @@supersugarysweetgirl I am 23 as well and every job I’ve had has been terribly painful because of having to force myself just because I need to. So if you ever find the perfect job for us introverts lmk🥲 sending hugs🤍

    • @dfd4397
      @dfd4397 2 роки тому +1

      26, never been romantically validated and I feel like shit but I’m working on it sooo

    • @Hannah_96
      @Hannah_96 2 роки тому +3

      same but im 25

  • @arianaswh0r330
    @arianaswh0r330 2 роки тому +2

    i’m going trough a depressive episode and your videos make me happy and bring me sm comfort. it feels like you are my friend even. ty ily

    • @Lauren_brodauf
      @Lauren_brodauf 2 роки тому

      ☝️🎁☝️ Thank you for watching and commenting. Congratulations you have been selected in my draw and you are among the lucky winners 🎊🎉✨🎉
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  • @what3v347
    @what3v347 2 роки тому +12

    I couldn’t relate more to what you said at the end,eventhough I’m not living alone,I’m still alone in a sense.Everything you said at the end was so relatable about love etc.Literally the best video I’ve watched lately.you’re so real and I love watching your videos

  • @hannahgabriela140
    @hannahgabriela140 2 роки тому +23

    Don´t know if you know this but the simply fact of you just speaking your mind on your videos is like therapy for me. Your videos really make me feel better and less alone. Never stop doing videos just because you have "not content". This is exactly what we love, thank you

  • @valeriappd
    @valeriappd Рік тому +1

    I'll be 21 in a few months and everyone close to my age always seems to be so mature, experienced, and put together like they know what they want in their lives and all of that, at least when you look at it from the side, thanks for sharing bits of your life and thoughts here, it really helps me feel much calmer

  • @lourdesboullhesen9400
    @lourdesboullhesen9400 2 роки тому +178

    Girl... I'm 22, never been in a relationship and cold as fuck with men but hopelessly in love with the idea of being in love. I feel you 🙃

    • @thestrengthreport7517
      @thestrengthreport7517 2 роки тому

      Sounds like you're delusional.

    • @paulogaspar8295
      @paulogaspar8295 2 роки тому +6

      you get what you give others.

    • @morganrooke3104
      @morganrooke3104 Рік тому +17

      @@paulogaspar8295 unfortunately for women we often give a lot more than we recieve

    • @Daniel-fn6tj
      @Daniel-fn6tj Рік тому +1

      @@morganrooke3104 how so?

    • @naazahs9045
      @naazahs9045 Рік тому +3

      @@morganrooke3104 That's what I hear all the time but actually that's not "often" true but only sometimes true.

  • @emily-yn6ny
    @emily-yn6ny 2 роки тому +18

    the weird thing is that i’m 22, in a loving relationship and have a 10 month old son. i watch you to relive the time i spent living alone before my met my boyfriend. yes i love my boyfriend and would choose him over the world. not every second is a fantasy, but you do have those fairytale moments no matter how long you’ve been together. im happy but i do miss living alone, not being somebodys mom and having literally all the time in the world. the grass really is greener on the other side ❤

  • @kiraz7471
    @kiraz7471 2 роки тому +2

    I hope this living through youtube doesn't become a habit. I don't want to lose myself.

  • @user-sf8tv7dd5h
    @user-sf8tv7dd5h 2 роки тому +8

    we need more videos like this, i rarely like videos but this one deserves it because of how calming it is. one of your best yet

  • @goingoverboard9915
    @goingoverboard9915 2 роки тому +6

    KENNEDY! I’ve been watching you since your asmr video (one of my absolute faves) and I remember when you were first moving out with your brother!! Watching this made me actually so emotional, I am so proud of you. We share a lot of the same anxieties, especially about being and doing things alone. I am so glad that you have managed to find who you are in the process of being alone, and I can’t wait to do that for myself soon, too. Keep at it, my love xxx

  • @emmarose7273
    @emmarose7273 2 роки тому +1

    kennedy ive been watching for years and your videos are always such a comfort to me

  • @mariahlamb2983
    @mariahlamb2983 2 роки тому +6

    I cried watching this. My brain is just so numb and tired and fuzzy at this point that all I could stand to watch was this.
    Idk why, but I felt comfy and relieved to watch you dance with kitties, draw on pants, clean up your space, cook a meal with love. You're just wonderful, thank you for the 20 minutes of peace my brain so desperately needed.

  • @maddieg136
    @maddieg136 2 роки тому +10

    Thank you so much for sharing this, I’m dealing with doing things alone for the first time recently and it’s so hard to get the motivation even when I know I would be happier outside. The world can be so scary! Especially for women:(

  • @HilarySamanthaAJosol
    @HilarySamanthaAJosol Рік тому +1

    I'm starting to rewatch all your videos now, cuz I miss it so much and I have always been waiting for your videos everytime you upload since 2020, i luv em so much

  • @isabella3413
    @isabella3413 2 роки тому +55

    The love life situation: YES
    On top of that I also don’t like the idea of being in love just falling in love. The infatuation the obsession and “the chase” is what I love.
    Especially in tv shows or books, once the characters get together (eg. Daphne and Simon in Bridgerton) I lose interest and want to stop watching.
    I can’t do that to a real man

    • @trishyacarameimanuelmaglat9250
      @trishyacarameimanuelmaglat9250 2 роки тому

      I can totally relate on the chase thing! I half-assed watched the remaining episodes in hopes of knowing who Lady Whistledown is.

  • @cordelial8495
    @cordelial8495 2 роки тому +11

    You literally take the words out of my mouth. Your videos are so comforting to me because it makes me look at my life in a positive light! I struggle with anxiety and watching you is like "Okay if Kennedy can do that then I can do it and I'll be fine". Thank you for being honest and sharing your thoughts! I've been watching your videos since 2019 and just feel very parasocial when you talk about stuff like this, I'm like GO BESTIE!

  • @izzy-wu9dl
    @izzy-wu9dl 2 роки тому +4

    words cant describe how much i love you

  • @333x-b8p
    @333x-b8p 2 роки тому +5

    I’ve had an awful two weeks and for the first time my mind was quiet during the cleaning bits.. thank you (your mum raised a perfect daughter !!)

  • @dominika7160
    @dominika7160 2 роки тому +22

    kennedy brings me so much happiness and comfort

  • @Vladyyy
    @Vladyyy Рік тому +6

    The irony in countless women fearing men, while desperately craving love yet taking absolutely 0 accountability for their lives and secretly hoping that a man will come along and “save” them from their sorrows.
    Being the 3000th person to say “OMG this is so relatable” is the exact kind of energy that keeps people wallowing in the same place.
    Instead of working towards growth and improvement women (tend to) just gather around and pat each other on the back.

    • @LymphaticSystem-of3vn
      @LymphaticSystem-of3vn Рік тому +3

      stfu and stop invalidating her experiences and the experiences of many women across the globe.

    • @buggirl400
      @buggirl400 Рік тому +1

      Why does it offend you so much?

    • @Vladyyy
      @Vladyyy Рік тому

      @@buggirl400 Offended? I don't know what there is to be offended by in that. I'm stating an observation of a behavior I see a lot and is markedly evident in this comment section.

    • @buggirl400
      @buggirl400 Рік тому +1

      @@Vladyyy Tell men to stop being creeps and abusers instead 😂 but no, always blame women.

  • @valia5250
    @valia5250 2 роки тому +8

    thank you Kennedy again for a healing vlog and self-care routine. Even ordinary and simple life should be celebrated and spoken for. Little things do matter and can make life into something beautiful and worth living for. love u girl

  • @dae_07
    @dae_07 2 роки тому +7

    this is one of the most comforting and safe video I've ever watched

  • @shruteeh07
    @shruteeh07 11 місяців тому

    this is my most fav video on the whole internet 🪶🤍🪽

  • @dunphy1238
    @dunphy1238 2 роки тому +59

    Im turning 20 next month and I feel so under accomplished. The fear of the unknown is all too real.

    • @SilverstreamPJ28
      @SilverstreamPJ28 2 роки тому +15

      Girl nineteen is literally still a teenager. You haven't even had the TIME to accomplish things, how tf can you be under accomplished? Please don't worry that much about it, you're fine, I swear.

    • @dunphy1238
      @dunphy1238 2 роки тому +4

      @@SilverstreamPJ28 thank you so much It means a lot, also im 20 now 😒

    • @bellamaxwell4310
      @bellamaxwell4310 Рік тому +2

      Bro I’m 17 and I feel this way and I don’t what to do

    • @SilverstreamPJ28
      @SilverstreamPJ28 Рік тому +2

      @@dunphy1238 still ridiculously young girl! I turn 25 next month, feel like a child and a grandma at the same time, but I'm definitely closer to the former xD

    • @bellamaxwell4310
      @bellamaxwell4310 Рік тому

      @@SilverstreamPJ28 how do I deal with these feelings

  • @idontlikekiwi
    @idontlikekiwi 2 роки тому +7

    I love that you make me love my introversion, for years I have been trying to get comfortable with the fact that I am indeed an introvert and love spending time by myself and it is fine, some people understand, others don't, I have been watching you for so many years, you are my comfort youtuber and nobody has ever managed to take that title

  • @haylexxli2969
    @haylexxli2969 2 роки тому +1

    when you use a cutting board, and its slipping and sliding like that, you should try putting a kitchen towel underneath it! prevents it from sliding and causing a potential threat to your fingers:)

  • @creid976
    @creid976 2 роки тому +33

    Can we seriously be friends?! We are like the same person basically. I struggle with the same issues you mentioned in the video. I’m 22, I have not had my first kiss or anything beyond that, I literally have not had anyone pursue me romantically, nor have I been seen other than a friend, and I literally have never held hands with someone romantically either. Now, I literally cannot take myself seriously when it comes to wanting a relationship because I cannot see myself in one due to the lack of experience for so long. Regardless, I love you, I love your videos. Watching mundane activities, like cleaning, are so relaxing and entertaining I really enjoyed your video! ❤❤❤❤

  • @Lalabooey
    @Lalabooey 2 роки тому +10

    Your explanation of love sounds so much like what I feel towards it. Your description sounds to me like you might be aromantic, so just know that you aren’t alone in feeling that way. There are a lot of us out there

  • @madeline4116
    @madeline4116 2 роки тому +2

    it’s so strange to say but your video really really changed how i view my life. i started spending so much time appreciating everything i do and have and how beautiful it is. crazy how some videos can do that for people! anyways thank u xoxo

    • @Lauren_brodauf
      @Lauren_brodauf 2 роки тому

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  • @ririnwen
    @ririnwen 2 роки тому +13

    I love your growth and how you seem much more pressureless about making videos than before. I was wondering, when you look at your old videos such as the one where in you die your hair pink, do you feel nostalgic? or happy to be over this period of your life?
    I wish you the best,
    Rachel

  • @filipa8626
    @filipa8626 2 роки тому +22

    Kennedy you're making everyone's day when you post love you hope you're doing amazing love!! The intro alone looks like a movie such a masterpiece you're editing skills are everything you're everything thanks for inspiring me to be my creative self

  • @iSynops
    @iSynops 2 роки тому +1

    Kennedy, you are very talented and your videos are perfect. They make me feel relaxed, soothed and welcomed. Love you.

  • @yamelfarjat8296
    @yamelfarjat8296 2 роки тому +4

    you're videos always calm me and make me feel better, because I feel like im in a similar situation than you are so it makes me feel less alone :) you really made my day today and I really appreciate u being here and sharing your life with us, cause it's very relatable.