"Dating With Purpose" | Mercedes & Nonso

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  • Опубліковано 15 гру 2024

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  • @SuperBlessmore
    @SuperBlessmore 9 років тому +34

    thank you hey... I love that point she said , your partner cant be celibate for u, they gotta be for God.

  • @L.Anderson
    @L.Anderson 10 років тому +43

    Went to school with Mercedes. Hiiiiiii lol she's always been light in a dark world. Such a beautiful person as well as inspiration. Amazing interview you guys!*

  • @MochaRoses
    @MochaRoses 10 років тому +18

    I love how they were so open and honest. Especially about sex because that's an issue some Christians have a hard time talking about.

  • @Tebbles07
    @Tebbles07 9 років тому +45

    That elderly gentleman though!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL I cracked up when he walked by during the interview. So hilarious. But back to the interview, awesome couple, and as always wonderful, encouraging and inspiring message you have here. Keep sharing and we will keep watching, and sharing..

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  9 років тому +3

      LOL IKR! Thank you so much for your support! xo

    • @DanielMMutuku
      @DanielMMutuku 9 років тому

      +T Kabambe LOL! Seen him as well! But good job Ashley. Thanks a bunch for this initiative.

  • @B_4_PTALKS
    @B_4_PTALKS 7 років тому +9

    Yesssss, I love the fact she said, "she never learned how to play church" but live this thing for real....that is one of the best statements I have heard today.

  • @heir_born4108
    @heir_born4108 9 років тому +11

    This is a beautiful testimony. You can really see Christ in them both.
    God is faithful and merciful

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  9 років тому

      Honey Kissed I know right! They are phenomenal! Thanks for watching! :-)

  • @adrianewilliams8711
    @adrianewilliams8711 7 років тому +4

    Dating with purpose is a great segment but it would also be nice to see women and men prepare themselves BEFORE marriage, like working on self finishing goals education and dreams, fixing that credit score. Many want to be married but have no idea of how to be an ideal mate. Patience kindness all of it.

  • @Serendipity989
    @Serendipity989 10 років тому +30

    Was trying not to go to the gym...saw this...*car screeches off into the night*

  • @sheis2complicated
    @sheis2complicated 9 років тому +58

    They are great and all but lets be real most people don't find their spouse until late 20's or 30's. Waiting on god is a completely different ball game when you have been waiting for 6-10 years. Would love to see videos with successful ladies how are completely honest about the struggle of waiting. Would also love practical tips to help women navigate the dating scene.

    • @jacqulene
      @jacqulene 9 років тому

      This.

    • @ANGELSLVME
      @ANGELSLVME 7 років тому

      sheis2powerful yessss, did u ever get an awesome

    • @mariaelda6271
      @mariaelda6271 7 років тому +6

      Exactly! And I've been waiting forever and I'm 41!!

  • @Dr.Nellah
    @Dr.Nellah 10 років тому +31

    These guys are probably my favourite couple so far. They are soo real and I can relate to them alot. Thanks again Ashley for another great episode :)

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  10 років тому +4

      You are welcome! Thank you for watching. :-)

  • @willowandvine
    @willowandvine 7 років тому +4

    Watching this in 2017 is still SOOOO impactful!!!! Thank you so much for this! What a blessing. So thankful God put this series on your heart! And this couple is absolutely lovely😊

  • @1k2thewhy
    @1k2thewhy 9 років тому +6

    I appreciate how real they are in listing specifics. I appreciate the boundaries and the honor for God they have. Wow! So helpful they really seem devoted to The Lord. I do believe emotions are wasted along with time as he was saying a lot about time wasted.

  • @deoanfer
    @deoanfer 8 років тому +13

    Really enjoyed the interview! You should do follow ups with some couples and see how there mindset has evolved in Christ. Would really love to see them again and shed light on relationships in general.

  • @ChOsEn7VeSSeL
    @ChOsEn7VeSSeL 8 років тому +8

    THIS INTERVIEW 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Very mature perspective and transparent interview!

  • @tessalala272
    @tessalala272 9 років тому +11

    Wow. I love the story about their wedding date. To God be all the Glory!!
    They're such a beautiful, Godly couple. Definitely my favourite in the series.
    Thank You Ashley for your vids and may God continue to Bless your ministry.

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  9 років тому +1

      Patricia Laban Amen! Thank you for watching & taking time to comment! :-)

  • @TheWholeBits
    @TheWholeBits 9 років тому +6

    Well done Ashley, thank you for revealing to the world a couple of those 7000 'prophets' who have not bowed to 'Baal'. It is a breath of fresh air to see couples doing it right for Jesus. God bless you and all the featured couples.

  • @OshTashBGosh22
    @OshTashBGosh22 10 років тому +2

    I get bits and pieces from all of the couples, but this one spoke to me! Right now I'm in the process of learning who I am. I love how much they stressed that!

  • @mesly100
    @mesly100 10 років тому +2

    Woow i really love this series and this couple inspired me. I was one of the sisters crying that i need a man but this video encouraged to just focus on what is important (God) and not to idolise marriage.
    Suggestion: Can you do interviews for people who are divorced aswel so we can learn from what they did wrong.
    Love from Birmingham, England

  • @brianabrumfield6884
    @brianabrumfield6884 9 років тому +8

    amen , amen ,amen !! both are so wise and you can tell that they have a REAL relationship with god !! and they just feed off each other perfectly :) god is good

  • @latishaaaa
    @latishaaaa 10 років тому +25

    I absolutely love this couple! It's encouraged me to stay close to God and to embrace my single season.I'd like to suggest Brandon and Sheretta from the worth the wait channel! They are such an inspirational couple!
    Thank you for all your efforts to upload this series!!!
    Sending love from London England xxx

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  10 років тому +1

      London!?! How awesome! Thank you for watching & I will check out their channel! God bless :-)

    • @ghanaianbeauty
      @ghanaianbeauty 10 років тому +3

      Yes!! to Brandon and Sheretta!

    • @bdoti1822
      @bdoti1822 9 років тому +3

      I've just subscribed and I'm from London too. I'd love to see Brandon and Sheretta do this as well.. Pleasee:)! Love your channel Ashley x

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  9 років тому +1

      Bdoti Absolutely! Thank you!

  • @DaiLa727
    @DaiLa727 9 років тому +1

    Thank you so much for doing this series! It's so inspirational to me! I love "Single, Saved, and Secure" too! I feel much more confident to keep walking this walk!

  • @dorothymatthews6690
    @dorothymatthews6690 3 роки тому

    What a beautiful testimony to the glory of God! This encouraged me so much! Been celebrate for 7 years now and waiting for God to connect me to my kingdom spouse.

  • @BlueJeanLove36
    @BlueJeanLove36 10 років тому +1

    This was Awesome!!! Them speaking on what to do to prepare for marriage was so Key. Living for God everyday and in that knowing your purpose and why you were created. I agree, that you cant become one with someone if you don't your contribution to you all's destiny. The only way you will know that is by finding your individual purpose. God Bless You All!!!

  • @Volleyball_Chess_and_Geoguessr
    @Volleyball_Chess_and_Geoguessr 10 років тому +9

    Another great interview! I think it's great that you also remind people not to make marriage an idol especially since all your videos show such great relationships and might make people envious. I enjoy this series so much. Keep them coming!

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  10 років тому +1

      Thank you so much for continued support! :-)

  • @MrAndisdandy
    @MrAndisdandy 8 років тому +1

    Where two or more are gathered, wow never thought about that in a marriage perspective, Amen to everything this couple went through.

  • @Tanya-vw9xj
    @Tanya-vw9xj 4 роки тому +1

    The guy that walked in the background tho...🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣

  • @yvonnemonde4268
    @yvonnemonde4268 4 роки тому +3

    This is helping us ; keep going! #dating with purpose.

  • @mdongo6413
    @mdongo6413 9 років тому +3

    thanks guys for this awesome video!many a times we overlook idolising marriage and its good to always remember God comes first. thank you for pointing this out.

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  9 років тому

      M Dongo Priase God! Thank you for watching!

  • @aaronw5652
    @aaronw5652 9 років тому +8

    This series is so inspiring and cool!

  • @milenak.e5191
    @milenak.e5191 4 роки тому

    Thanks for this episode! It was very helpful and inspiring. I pray for finding THE man who already committed to God just like i did. Be all blessed !

  • @martinl9108
    @martinl9108 8 років тому +2

    very inspirational. I dig the practical tips and stories. One thing's that's resonated is that both individuals need to be in line spiritually and on a similar mindset, especially on celibacy. great interview. God bless! "the best time to prepare for your marriage is before your marriage"

  • @Risse14
    @Risse14 7 років тому +2

    I like them. Very chilled and funny couple !

  • @kossynzeagwu4848
    @kossynzeagwu4848 7 років тому +1

    Oh my God!! I love this
    Thanks so much Ashley 🙏🏽

  • @candacedawn357
    @candacedawn357 10 років тому +6

    I thought the picture behind the couple was odd of the man and woman getting it on, lol! Also, the sound was much better in this video.

  • @ChosenDeeDee
    @ChosenDeeDee 5 років тому +1

    Wow she is so deep. I love this! Learned a lot from this episode.

  • @faridaweegman5425
    @faridaweegman5425 7 років тому +2

    its so true, the more you grow towards Jesus, the more people flee from you.

  • @DiscoverAcademy
    @DiscoverAcademy 5 років тому +1

    This was an amazing interview that truly blessed me to watch! Thank you.

  • @NYCAppl3
    @NYCAppl3 4 роки тому

    This is one of my favorites. They're transparent and real and so full of wisdom ❤

  • @yasminayanna
    @yasminayanna 5 років тому

    This was amazing! Purity while waiting is attainable......👊 Hold on singles we got this. 🙌🙆🙏💓

  • @Crystal.Adamma
    @Crystal.Adamma 7 років тому

    This was a great one Ashely!! I LOVED their response to the last question!!!! AWSOME!!

  • @omolaraoyedeji2516
    @omolaraoyedeji2516 10 років тому +2

    i love this series ! its so inspiring, what you are doing is awesome ! God bless you

  • @ghanaianbeauty
    @ghanaianbeauty 10 років тому +1

    Ashley. God bless you for this series! Absolutely loved this couple and I pray God blesses their marriage. Please keep these vids coming!

  • @wofaiujong4662
    @wofaiujong4662 4 роки тому +1

    So encouraging and beautiful. God bless you all

  • @lovemore099
    @lovemore099 10 років тому +1

    really love this show. it give me hope to just avoid randoms. thank you!!

  • @nubianmaxuk5345
    @nubianmaxuk5345 9 років тому +3

    Beautiful Blessed Couple.

  • @amao7600
    @amao7600 9 років тому +14

    i loved this soooooo much, may God continue to bless your union, wisdom at such a young age

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  9 років тому +1

      +Ama O Amen! Thank you so much for watching! :-)

  • @yoruba21
    @yoruba21 7 років тому

    I really enjoyed listening to this couple and thier transparency is much appreciated! They are definitely my fav interview in this series. I saved this so I can come back and listen again for encouragement! Thank you!

  • @lavernebrown8865
    @lavernebrown8865 4 роки тому

    Hi Ashley, I want to know if you will ever have couples or do a show of men and women that choose to marry later on in life.

  • @lavenderflowers1075
    @lavenderflowers1075 Рік тому

    I used to watch these videos at some point. I can't believe it's been 8 years. Time passes really fast

  • @pinkandblack29
    @pinkandblack29 7 років тому +1

    that vest is tough!! 🌸 Dope Couple 🌸 Great Interview 🌸

  • @synthiawebster2611
    @synthiawebster2611 5 років тому

    Just viewed this. Loved seeing these young people sold out for God. And I loved the man walking through🤣.🤣🤣. Hilarious!! Who was that??? 🤣 Ya gotta love him. Bless his heart.

  • @nyshiapereira
    @nyshiapereira 6 років тому

    😂😂 the poster in the back though. “Thou shalt Not” Didn’t even notice until the middle of the interview.

  • @MzChosenByGrace
    @MzChosenByGrace 9 років тому +1

    I just found this page and I LOVE IT!!!!! Thank you so much for being a blessing! I'm sharing with everybody!

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  9 років тому

      MzChosenByGrace HUGS! Thanks so much for watching & taking time to comment! :-)

  • @SwaggMos16
    @SwaggMos16 8 років тому +2

    Thank you for these videos
    So motivational
    God bless

  • @JuleneFleurmond
    @JuleneFleurmond 10 років тому +4

    This is an inspiring interview! I especialy love the advice on preparing for marriage way before you get married and to know your purpose. A few months back started using a hashtag #dateonpurpose for my blog and did my first interview of a couple on my channel for a similar series which was what drew me to find yours. Will spread the word about it because it's a topic I believe God sowed in our hearts at this time for a greater reason - to emphasis how marriage and our desire for love points to His heart for us!

  • @LosehinasTocaLife
    @LosehinasTocaLife 6 років тому +1

    Such a beautiful couple

  • @MsBdoll87
    @MsBdoll87 4 роки тому

    This was soooooooo good!!! Definitely confirmation for me!! 💗💗

  • @blessingajogwu4350
    @blessingajogwu4350 7 років тому +2

    beautiful couple

  • @charmingcharlie011
    @charmingcharlie011 10 років тому

    I love these episodes! Each one is so inspiring and right on time. It's just great to see examples of people, young people, living for Christ. The encouragement is amazing. And watching these helps me to seek God more and grow even closer to Him in my single season! Stay blessed and thanks for all you do! :)

  • @TheCourt2000
    @TheCourt2000 10 років тому +1

    Great interview!! Can't wait for the next one.

  • @erikamcdade9928
    @erikamcdade9928 7 років тому

    Beautiful couple and beautiful story, very inspiring

  • @rossshopaholic9560
    @rossshopaholic9560 7 років тому +10

    Beautiful couple. She looks like Alicia keys.

  • @1EmpressMia
    @1EmpressMia 8 років тому

    Awesome couple. I feel blessed just listening to you guys. God Bless your union.

  • @Renee4christ
    @Renee4christ 10 років тому

    Living your channel Ashley! Keep up the good work!

  • @secretplace44
    @secretplace44 5 років тому +1

    So inspiring!!! ❤️❤️

  • @kalliemacdonald380
    @kalliemacdonald380 10 років тому

    Great couple and inspiring story! It did indeed bless me!

  • @RealEstatemarie
    @RealEstatemarie 10 років тому +1

    Love these two!! Wonderful interview ;)

  • @rosariovarela1551
    @rosariovarela1551 3 роки тому

    Beautiful love story 🙏

  • @MadameBeautiful777
    @MadameBeautiful777 10 років тому

    Love it! This is my fav interview so far

  • @ifyify9245
    @ifyify9245 8 років тому +31

    O God Almighty , please help me . It hasn't been easy. I haven't dated anyone and I am a virgin , I am 22 . The pressure to be in a relationship and be in love is so much on me these days . I am struggling , I don't want to fall into sin, I want to do it God's way but it has been extremely difficult . I want to meet my God ordained husband at the right time and get married . I am surrounded by the wrong people , people are just having careless sex, sex buddies , living together . God help me , the temptation and desperation is having a toll on me. Please pray for me . I want God to send me my Divine compensation, a man after his own heart and tgat truly loves him, a man that will love, honor and treat me like a queen , a man that will be responsible an have all the good qualities. God have mercy on me , come to my rescue !!! I don't want to do the chasing . Oh Lord God Almighty please send me my Boaz, I am tired of waiting !!

    • @akasbaakop3md502
      @akasbaakop3md502 8 років тому +7

      dont give up, sis
      God does reward faithfulness with blessings...even if your circumstances and emotions want to say otherwise.
      don't give in to despair
      know that you are already loved.
      bless you!

    • @DevineLoved
      @DevineLoved 8 років тому +2

      Your too young anyways

    • @royalsistas4963
      @royalsistas4963 8 років тому +3

      Tecla Joaquina hang in there sista. it's not easy by far but it's definitely not worth falling into temptation and sin. I've been there. smh anybody i have been with this far was not worth the most precious thing i gave away. which was just not my virginity. it's a part of you, your mind, your soul. and lets not talk about the other horrible things that can come with sex and the people you deal with. i am now celibate. i got a beautiful baby girl, but that lifestyle is not for me anymore. i am also waiting for my boaz. be strong. pray through it, remove yourself from those temptations. if you need someone to talk to, email me. if you want some great videos & advice. i have that coming soon so subscribe!...best wishes 💕
      devinerestructure.tochrist@gmail.com

    • @LifewithMiriam
      @LifewithMiriam 8 років тому +8

      I was in the same boat last year (20 and never been in a relationship) where I was close to giving up because it felt like everyone is having sex or in and out of relationships in college. 1 thing that has helped me resist the temptation is spending more time with friends who are on a walk with Jesus. I believe that God writes the greatest love story and surrendering that aspect to him while you pursue a deeper relationship helped me. Stay strong, you are God's daughter and he has your best interest at heart.

    • @heytherekaela
      @heytherekaela 7 років тому +5

      It makes ALL THE DIFFERENCE when you surround yourself with Christ-like people. I'm entirely in the same boat and really really understand. Just be patient because he does have a plan for your good! Praying for you now. Stand strong in the Lord! 😊🖤

  • @timekastevens7477
    @timekastevens7477 4 роки тому

    Great story ❤️

  • @yolandaphungwayo2263
    @yolandaphungwayo2263 3 роки тому

    Loved this♥️

  • @jsnow07grad
    @jsnow07grad 10 років тому

    Thank you for being Real!

  • @nubianmaxuk5345
    @nubianmaxuk5345 9 років тому +1

    Also love his wit.

  • @zimbabweenhle2244
    @zimbabweenhle2244 10 років тому

    Thanks a lot Ashley for another great and inspiring episode..May God bless you

  • @Naptcurls
    @Naptcurls 7 років тому

    You made me happy, inspires and give me strength to continue waiting. Such a young and powerful couple, everything I wish, you deserve a lot of thumbs ups and thank you for inspiring me once again. May lord bless you lives and marriage! Discovering this amazing channel I'm going to subscribe to. 😊😊🌼🌼🌼

  • @HannahEstherRuth
    @HannahEstherRuth 10 років тому

    Awesome interview!

  • @danielkazeze737
    @danielkazeze737 7 років тому

    very inspirational could you schedule another interview with mercedes and Nonso on anoher topic

  • @kshelly17
    @kshelly17 10 років тому +10

    heather and cornelius lindsey!

  • @towninc
    @towninc 9 років тому +5

    play church and look like a church goer! Yes Mercedes. get off of our toes. lol

  • @Jackson-pf5jb
    @Jackson-pf5jb 4 роки тому

    i LOVE THIS STORY!!!!!!!!!

  • @ohsochinkyy
    @ohsochinkyy 10 років тому +2

    Love your videos !

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  10 років тому

      Thank you love! I appreciate you watching them :-)

  • @AS-xj9yw
    @AS-xj9yw 4 роки тому

    I love them!!!!

  • @diamondhill4225
    @diamondhill4225 9 років тому +1

    awesome!

  • @naturallysaundra1887
    @naturallysaundra1887 4 роки тому

    Awesome!!!

  • @fortunatenankunda3547
    @fortunatenankunda3547 9 років тому +1

    God bless you,am blessed

  • @simoneyuille8161
    @simoneyuille8161 9 років тому

    This is great

  • @DevineLoved
    @DevineLoved 8 років тому +10

    Anybody seen that old man walking past? It scared me I thought that was creepy cause I was thinking that was your living room lmbo

  • @simplyrickeeta
    @simplyrickeeta 10 років тому +1

    loving watching the episodes! LOL, I was so confused just now...where did the older man come from?

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  10 років тому

      GIRL! Me too! smh....Im still confused :-/

  • @nikkichristinar
    @nikkichristinar 5 років тому

    What's the difference between dating waiting till marriage and when your not waiting. Either way you could be a match or not .

    • @seekinghimdaily92
      @seekinghimdaily92 5 років тому

      Difference between waiting until marriage and not?

  • @xxavierlavell2180
    @xxavierlavell2180 4 роки тому

    I've eatch this a few times and I NEVER saw that old man walk past till now hahahahahaha 18:56

  • @passionatereader77
    @passionatereader77 9 років тому +1

    nice video.

  • @DestinyTheBeautiful
    @DestinyTheBeautiful 9 років тому

    lol @ the way Ashley looked at that old dude

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics 9 років тому +3

    lol side note: where did this background come from what is this "thou shalt not" production?!?!

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  9 років тому +4

      ***** GIRL! I know!....We were at an art studio and I didnt even notice it until watching the playback...smh.

    • @Mindsetolympics
      @Mindsetolympics 9 років тому

      Ashley Empowers it gave me a good laugh that you didn't notice while filming. >.< Can I ask, what school did you attend if you went to college and what did you major in?

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics 9 років тому +1

    btw p.s. love this show i wanna do stuff like this and film this type of stuff!!

  • @darrenpeterson5741
    @darrenpeterson5741 7 років тому

    love it

  • @TK-vu5ny
    @TK-vu5ny 5 років тому

    OMG where are these men? When I try to wait with purpose , the men that I came across in the past triesd to Change my mind with purpose

  • @prettygirlrock195
    @prettygirlrock195 10 років тому +4

    I don't usually really xomment a lot.I just wanna say that I really really love and appreciate this series!! Thx so much Ashley!! I praise God for allowing you to do this on UA-cam.... so I have a suggestion, if you could get in touch with Bronzegodess01 that'll be great!! She is a UA-camr just like, she's a Christian and married with 3 beautiful daughters... maybe you could interview her and her lovely husband. She's all for dating with purpose, she even has her own show (series) where she encourages and help single and married folks. Maybe you could do some kind of Skype/Google+ interview lol I don't know...

    • @AshleyEmpowers
      @AshleyEmpowers  10 років тому +2

      Well I appreciate you taking the time to comment! lol And thank you for your suggestion I will definitely look in to it! :-)

  • @Renee4christ
    @Renee4christ 10 років тому

    * Loving

  • @caribbeanmermaid5535
    @caribbeanmermaid5535 6 років тому

    Just found your channel and loving it. Will you ever interview gay/lesbian Christian couples? It would make it more relatable to have some diversity. 🤓

    • @seekinghimdaily92
      @seekinghimdaily92 5 років тому +4

      Hopefully not because that is not of God. He doesn’t ordain those relationships.