cowgirls of Nebraska Isn't it the worst?!?!? Mine are HORRIBLE! If I try to ride off property with one, the other is neighing, snorting, and running around the pasture like a crazy person, well you know what mean LOL! But it's not funny it's embarrassing and I can literally hear them for a full block down the street. When I get back, the other one is so sweaty, huffing and puffing like he was the one who was ridden!😳
@@suheilsouto8497 I just rode my horse up our dirt road almost every day or every other day, now he will go pretty much anywhere without darting or stopping, I was able to just ride him bareback galloping/cantering and he didn't try to stop and turn around!! He really has improved!!
A horse I bought came with this problem. She will go over top of you and even climb the walls. No respect at all. Shes 20 and I tell ya it's so dangerous to even handle her when shes not near her buddies. What would you suggest for this? I can't get her to leave the yard is another problem.
I know this is an old post, but this a brand new problem for me. My mare always had excellent manners, liked going for walks (she's retired due to dsld, and can only do light walks). Now that we added another mare to her paddock, she's an absolute nightmare if I take her out (rearing on the lead, snapping her head, then bolting back to the paddock leaving me in her dust). It's truly awful, and I'm now afraid to take her out. 😢
My horse isn't particularly attached to a certain horse, but he has problems going out on their alone (he's barn sour) so will the same thing work or do you have a different video/suggestion on how to fix this?
@abbykelly802 Yes do the exact same concept as with buddy sour. Make it hard at the barn (or trailer if they get attached to the trailer away from home) and make it fun and easy away from the barn. Hope this helps!
@@RidingWithHope Haha this was actually from about 3 years ago now and we actually got it all figured out! I'm now able take the horse mentioned on solo trails bareback in just a halter, but thank you haha
Need help! When I try to ride my horse off she fights me to get back to the horses/barn. This includes rearing and sideways action (she runs into anything around her). Not sure how to discipline this behavior. I use a Jr Cowhorse bit and she's very sensitive to that bit, seems to like it. I've used a tie down and that's helping me about 60%. We do lots of groundwork also (Clinton Anderson)
If she's rushing/trying to get back to the barn I suggest taking her back and lunging her lots to let her know that the barn will be just as much work as being out and about. You will have to keep this process up until it clicks in her head. I know I'm not who you asked but I figured I'd give some advice that worked with my mare.
Maybe just try to build a trusting relationship with her first. A relationship where she looks to you as a trusted leader... and you look at her as your *friend* and partner rather than an order taking push button machine...Using painful/forceful aides/ devices just sets you back further and further every time you use them. I prefer my horses to be trusting and willing partners who enjoy working *with* me and accomplishing what I ask us to do together, not slaves being forced into everything I tell them to do, “or else”. I mean what lessons are those “tools” and tactics actually teaching her? You can plainly see what they teach. To hate work and dislike humans. To only find comfort in other horses and the barn. Those “aides” are scary and extremely uncomfortable, even damaging. (More often than not, permanently...) Just go have some fun with your horse. Hang out with her. Sit in the pasture and read a book. Take her for a walk. (Leading her) Go to the arena and let her go and just walk around allowing her the option to follow you or explore. Eventually she will start to follow you. Make your time together constructive and pleasing! Help her get to LIKE seeing you arrive and enjoy being in your presence 😊
Yep, make the wrong thing hard & the right thing easy....
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really needed this lesson thnx bro .... love your teaching
Thanks so much I'm going to see if this works with my extremely buddy sour horse!!
cowgirls of Nebraska Isn't it the worst?!?!? Mine are HORRIBLE! If I try to ride off property with one, the other is neighing, snorting, and running around the pasture like a crazy person, well you know what mean LOL! But it's not funny it's embarrassing and I can literally hear them for a full block down the street. When I get back, the other one is so sweaty, huffing and puffing like he was the one who was ridden!😳
@@equestriannewbies889 Lols you would think it would be the other way around lols
Equestrian Newbies did you try this on them? And did it work ? The same thing happens with mine
@@suheilsouto8497 I just rode my horse up our dirt road almost every day or every other day, now he will go pretty much anywhere without darting or stopping, I was able to just ride him bareback galloping/cantering and he didn't try to stop and turn around!! He really has improved!!
A horse I bought came with this problem. She will go over top of you and even climb the walls. No respect at all. Shes 20 and I tell ya it's so dangerous to even handle her when shes not near her buddies. What would you suggest for this? I can't get her to leave the yard is another problem.
Ginger is starting to get like that kind of, she was never like that before.
I know this is an old post, but this a brand new problem for me. My mare always had excellent manners, liked going for walks (she's retired due to dsld, and can only do light walks). Now that we added another mare to her paddock, she's an absolute nightmare if I take her out (rearing on the lead, snapping her head, then bolting back to the paddock leaving me in her dust). It's truly awful, and I'm now afraid to take her out. 😢
I’ve got this issue with my mare right now, It’ll be a process but i’m looking forward to start working her out of her buddy-sourness
Can I turn out my mare with the buddy she is attached after this exercise? Or should I keep them in separate turn outs?
What do you do with the horses after the session if they are pasture mates? Keep them separate or let them back in the pasture?
Thanks Carson
Straight up I can see that changed
My horse isn't particularly attached to a certain horse, but he has problems going out on their alone (he's barn sour) so will the same thing work or do you have a different video/suggestion on how to fix this?
@abbykelly802 Yes do the exact same concept as with buddy sour. Make it hard at the barn (or trailer if they get attached to the trailer away from home) and make it fun and easy away from the barn. Hope this helps!
@@RidingWithHope Haha this was actually from about 3 years ago now and we actually got it all figured out! I'm now able take the horse mentioned on solo trails bareback in just a halter, but thank you haha
@@abbykelly802 Yes I know sorry, I just figured that if you still needed help, I’d just say it anyhow! Glad to hear!
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Need help! When I try to ride my horse off she fights me to get back to the horses/barn. This includes rearing and sideways action (she runs into anything around her). Not sure how to discipline this behavior. I use a Jr Cowhorse bit and she's very sensitive to that bit, seems to like it. I've used a tie down and that's helping me about 60%. We do lots of groundwork also (Clinton Anderson)
If she's rushing/trying to get back to the barn I suggest taking her back and lunging her lots to let her know that the barn will be just as much work as being out and about. You will have to keep this process up until it clicks in her head.
I know I'm not who you asked but I figured I'd give some advice that worked with my mare.
Maybe just try to build a trusting relationship with her first. A relationship where she looks to you as a trusted leader... and you look at her as your *friend* and partner rather than an order taking push button machine...Using painful/forceful aides/ devices just sets you back further and further every time you use them. I prefer my horses to be trusting and willing partners who enjoy working *with* me and accomplishing what I ask us to do together, not slaves being forced into everything I tell them to do, “or else”. I mean what lessons are those “tools” and tactics actually teaching her? You can plainly see what they teach. To hate work and dislike humans. To only find comfort in other horses and the barn. Those “aides” are scary and extremely uncomfortable, even damaging. (More often than not, permanently...) Just go have some fun with your horse. Hang out with her. Sit in the pasture and read a book. Take her for a walk. (Leading her) Go to the arena and let her go and just walk around allowing her the option to follow you or explore. Eventually she will start to follow you. Make your time together constructive and pleasing! Help her get to LIKE seeing you arrive and enjoy being in your presence 😊
I’m really hoping this works
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