Zach Choi Leaks DMs After Seeing What Nikocado Avocado Did to Stephanie Soo

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  • Nikocado Avocado defends himself after Stephanie Soo’s video, and people aren’t happy with his response. Then, Zach Choi comes forward on Twitter.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 8 тис.

  • @SpillTea
    @SpillTea  4 роки тому +25695

    The kettle is boiling! 🍵

  • @fennec2397
    @fennec2397 4 роки тому +5215

    “I didn’t really like her” yet you got emotionally attached to her. You got emotionally attached to someone you ‘didn’t like’ and ‘didn’t really know’.

    • @saash_rbx
      @saash_rbx 4 роки тому +78

      He has an attachment disorder.

    • @caitlinsworld706
      @caitlinsworld706 4 роки тому +71

      I mean I guess it proves you don't have to like somebody to be obsessed with them

    • @steviestevie9938
      @steviestevie9938 4 роки тому +64

      @@saash_rbx Just another excuse of his. He has an excuse for everything.

    • @rein2430
      @rein2430 4 роки тому +39

      I like how he tried to make the looks him and Trish were giving eachother were the same as wat he was doing with stephanie 😆😆🤦‍♂️, trish and nick were looking at eachother smiling.....nick was watching stephanie eat, in a very creepy way hahaha not the same time.

    • @sanine2545
      @sanine2545 4 роки тому +3

      Agust D it’s just business you rat.

  • @nineteen1996
    @nineteen1996 4 роки тому +4843

    u know he said "an unidentified man on top while she was crying" when she said it was her fiancee comforting her and shaking her out of nightmares/panic attack

    • @alisonrawbone6752
      @alisonrawbone6752 4 роки тому +298

      Nineteen 19 yep. His defenders now see it as if she implied that it was him when she clearly didn’t state it was him and it clearly isn’t him.

    • @theriseoftony
      @theriseoftony 4 роки тому +35

      Nineteen 19 I would of drag him out of the house

    • @vidyavachhani9023
      @vidyavachhani9023 4 роки тому +22

      All be cuz of shookbang! Shookbang should not make jokes like this next time!! Sorry shookbang for being rude!

    • @nineteen1996
      @nineteen1996 4 роки тому +18

      @@vidyavachhani9023 ehhh yeah but it was just a joke, its still up to the og people to copystrike and i prob woulda too.

    • @crimson5627
      @crimson5627 4 роки тому +5

      Nineteen 19 exactly

  • @chawleh8358
    @chawleh8358 3 роки тому +4254

    The way he joke about the 'in and out'. Told all of his friends. And they all laughed. Kinda reminds me of a time that I got bullied back then.

    • @mahevalepage
      @mahevalepage 2 роки тому +62

      Yeah… I’m sorry for what happened I hope you’re better now, I totally understand you. Hope they have stopped

    • @childofgod1521
      @childofgod1521 2 роки тому +22

      I hope you are ok now sending lots of love and hugs 💕💗♥️💓

    • @chawleh8358
      @chawleh8358 2 роки тому +16

      @@childofgod1521 yepyep I'm okay now :). It traumatized me a bit. But imokay

    • @childofgod1521
      @childofgod1521 2 роки тому +6

      @@chawleh8358 that's good

    • @tuenununiversoalternativo3666
      @tuenununiversoalternativo3666 2 роки тому +4

      Ok

  • @cozycrash4773
    @cozycrash4773 3 роки тому +8170

    Zach hearing about all of this: ...
    Zach: **slowly backing away**

    • @ElliotteStar
      @ElliotteStar 3 роки тому +87

      Im tha mid child and well.. im more quieter then my sisters-

    • @simpers4635
      @simpers4635 3 роки тому +32

      I notice that lol

    • @MrCat-we1vy
      @MrCat-we1vy 2 роки тому +46

      Mah friend just wanted to eat

    • @SS-vq9ou
      @SS-vq9ou 2 роки тому +5

      I would too 🥲😂

    • @crystallized_crow
      @crystallized_crow 2 роки тому +32

      He just kinda went
      ✋😬

  • @abyz9774
    @abyz9774 4 роки тому +7127

    “I didn’t really like her, I didn’t really know her” that doesn’t make sense.

    • @TheNamelessNarrator
      @TheNamelessNarrator 4 роки тому +301

      kobe jones I think he doesn’t like most women

    • @ForsakenArchAngel
      @ForsakenArchAngel 4 роки тому +21

      I agree!

    • @cherryixing4372
      @cherryixing4372 4 роки тому +261

      And he also said she was really nice in a previous video. Make up your mind, Nik, can you?

    • @kellbear23
      @kellbear23 4 роки тому +101

      @@TheNamelessNarrator yeah, before him trying to drag zach, all of his issues with youtubers were with women

    • @sinandcyanide7505
      @sinandcyanide7505 4 роки тому +26

      @@cherryixing4372 I don't watch or like either of them, but you can definitely have an impression that someone seems nice without having decided if you like the person. It sounded to me like he was trying to say he didn't have an opinion of her one way or the other at that time because he didn't know her. He definitely could have worded it much better than he did. I think they both could have said what they were trying to say in better ways, really.

  • @ellieb5938
    @ellieb5938 4 роки тому +9048

    EVERYONE SAY IT WITH ME
    JUST BECAUSE SHE WAS IN THE ROOM DOES NOT MEAN SHE CONSENTED TO PICTURES.

    • @miiniimiiniijpeg
      @miiniimiiniijpeg 4 роки тому +173

      Ellie B This should be pinned!

    • @Jiminie53421
      @Jiminie53421 4 роки тому +487

      And that doesn’t meant he can post said pictures WITHOUT blurring put her security monitors

    • @rein2430
      @rein2430 4 роки тому +36

      You go girl!!

    • @Deadlable
      @Deadlable 4 роки тому +419

      She consented to A PHOTO of her lighting setup, which he did not take lol. She also didnt consent to those photos being posted. I dont understand why it's so hard for his fans to grasp that concept.

    • @lostinthelookingglas
      @lostinthelookingglas 4 роки тому +206

      Also look at her face. She looks really uncomfortable

  • @Starisuki
    @Starisuki 3 роки тому +6256

    Can't believe Zach was disturbed, all he wanted to do is just wants to make eating sounds.

  • @kaays00
    @kaays00 3 роки тому +2721

    she does look like shes about to cry while you're glaring at her

    • @godofpigeons4747
      @godofpigeons4747 3 роки тому +109

      @@sazsha they're basically saying that she was holding back her tears

    • @sazsha
      @sazsha 3 роки тому +15

      @@godofpigeons4747 oh yeah right! Sorry

    • @godofpigeons4747
      @godofpigeons4747 3 роки тому +17

      @@sazsha its aight dont worry :]

    • @savag3_orang387
      @savag3_orang387 2 роки тому +20

      Was the Food not supposed to be spicy

    • @theadventuresofsmurk2265
      @theadventuresofsmurk2265 2 роки тому +11

      @@godofpigeons4747 poor Stephanie it also made me uncomfortable

  • @katyoung5344
    @katyoung5344 4 роки тому +9234

    Are we going to ignore him saying "I was literally just playing with her" when he was talking about asking her to reschedule knowing she wouldn't want to?

    • @user-nm1hs2zr3z
      @user-nm1hs2zr3z 4 роки тому +205

      I was thingking exactly the same thing!!!

    • @sarahhh_e
      @sarahhh_e 4 роки тому +117

      Yep, i noticed this as soon as I saw that video.

    • @Kat_eyyyyy
      @Kat_eyyyyy 4 роки тому +59

      Ughhh omg 🤢🤢🤢

    • @user-gu8ic3eb1x
      @user-gu8ic3eb1x 4 роки тому +64

      Seems like what someone manipulative says

    • @frozenyogurth
      @frozenyogurth 4 роки тому +48

      Nick is a snake, who doesn't like being called out for it.

  • @hyejinmoon4882
    @hyejinmoon4882 4 роки тому +14887

    "She never told me she was sexually abused, or that I reminded her of a predator." Because...no one just brings that up randomly to some stranger.

    • @marymorby7240
      @marymorby7240 3 роки тому +780

      IKR? I have been sexually assaulted within this past year, and I’m a minor, you feel ashamed and frightened that they’ll never stop, and you feel like it’s your fault ,

    • @astragamerx6203
      @astragamerx6203 3 роки тому +187

      Mary Morby what happened? Are you ok? ( don’t have to tell me)

    • @esmeislame6179
      @esmeislame6179 3 роки тому +284

      Mary Morby just know that’s never your fault. That person who did that to you is to blame. It might take a while to open up but if you can please get some therapy.

    • @marymorby7240
      @marymorby7240 3 роки тому +219

      tulsha bhattarai while I was at school, there was a boy that I had feelings for, but they were quickly lost when he started touching me inappropriately, and I didn’t know how to say no, and when things escalated, my best friend was there to save me, but I felt so guilty because I felt that if she wasn’t there, something much worse could’ve happened to me because I didn’t say no

    • @marymorby7240
      @marymorby7240 3 роки тому +107

      esme is lame I think I’m ok now, and am not as depressed as I was, but thank you for your concern

  • @harleyjade7236
    @harleyjade7236 3 роки тому +6700

    how u gonna try to secretly manipulate a girl who is obsessed with true crime and knows all the signs lol

    • @vange_lol6825
      @vange_lol6825 2 роки тому +263

      thats what i was thinking

    • @AnonExistence
      @AnonExistence 2 роки тому +66

      Ikr

    • @yung_freaks
      @yung_freaks 2 роки тому +169

      She listens to a _lotta true crime_ (that's a song reference I'm sorry if I offended anyone i just wanna lighten the mood a bit)

    • @miewmiew4447
      @miewmiew4447 2 роки тому +45

      exactly biss 😌💅✨

    • @stfunowlamebtch
      @stfunowlamebtch 2 роки тому +13

      Sorry for laughing

  • @aril5444
    @aril5444 3 роки тому +1047

    The more I watch this video, the more I am convinced that the beef between Stephanie and Verona wasn't that deep. 💀

  • @cynthiasalas7651
    @cynthiasalas7651 4 роки тому +3258

    Wait, so....he felt hurt by her "standing him up" because he has a detachment disorder...but claims he never liked her from the start??? Maybe it's just me but I wouldn't be too attached to a person who I didn't like 😶

    • @chynachyna3865
      @chynachyna3865 4 роки тому +106

      Nik is a piece of work.

    • @rhyliemasons7957
      @rhyliemasons7957 4 роки тому +86

      Not backing him up, but attachment disorders do strange things to people. Any point where the person feels like the other person tolerates them and gives them attention (even negative attention) they can form an attachment. My mom handles kids like this all of the time in her work, it's super sad to see.

    • @sinandcyanide7505
      @sinandcyanide7505 4 роки тому +48

      Attachment* disorders manifest in a variety of ways. It can make a person either have a hard time bonding with people OR it can do the opposite, making someone excessively clingy. His may manifest as feeling like everyone he meets is his best friend and because of that he could feel disproportionately hurt any time someone cancels on him or says something small that he wildly overreacts to. People with that type of attachment disorder can have a lack of social boundaries with people and unintentionally use too much physical affection with people and be extremely emotionally needy.

    • @Jiminie53421
      @Jiminie53421 4 роки тому +105

      He’s being so hypocritical. Stephanie has ptsd but he says that has nothing to do with him but ptsd is also a disorder just like attachment disorders

    • @cynthiasalas7651
      @cynthiasalas7651 4 роки тому +7

      @@rhyliemasons7957 I did not know that actually! Thanks for informing me on that, does better help understand the situation a little more!

  • @potatotoast4975
    @potatotoast4975 4 роки тому +5619

    His “apologies” arent even apologies. He keeps defending his actions as he apologizes like “Im sorry for...but I just...”

    • @sc00terrat77
      @sc00terrat77 4 роки тому +87

      Potato Toast Exactly if you say sorry and say but after it just cancels out the sorry

    • @faceofantasy1194
      @faceofantasy1194 4 роки тому +5

      Doing exactly what he grilled eat with que for doing ?

    • @QuincyBringerSterloidDoogan
      @QuincyBringerSterloidDoogan 4 роки тому +1

      Nic is the new keemstar

    • @memesimulater3486
      @memesimulater3486 4 роки тому +16

      What actions? They were in a totally normal situation (as far as normal for youtubers go) and she freaked. That's not his problem. she can't handle being in a normal situation without feeling what she felt. She turned a seemingly normal you tube situation and compared it to the one where she was sexually assaulted...don't get me wrong i'm not saying it's her fault she feels the way she does. It's not her fault AT ALL. but she made him seem like some monster. She barely even tried to communicate her feelings towards him and you guys expect him to know exactly how she's feeling in each situation she's in. She didn't have to paint him the way she did knowing she never communicating her feelings and has past trauma.

    • @lexiwexiwoo
      @lexiwexiwoo 4 роки тому +11

      As Dr. Phil says, "but" means forget everything that I said before, now I'm going to say how I really feel.

  • @spider7023
    @spider7023 3 роки тому +838

    The fact that he joked about “in and out of sleep”. Like that is BEYOND inconsiderate.

    • @webtoon.crumblchar
      @webtoon.crumblchar 2 роки тому +3

      BEYOND HUMAN

    • @Itsastrangeday
      @Itsastrangeday 2 роки тому +7

      I did not understand the joke, will yuo please explain to me?

    • @Theoneandonly._.
      @Theoneandonly._. 2 роки тому +3

      What is "in and out"?
      Please forgive my ignorance.

    • @uniplays847
      @uniplays847 2 роки тому +5

      Yeah like sleep is important if she can’t sleep it’s a problem not a joke

    • @TheGamingCanadian
      @TheGamingCanadian 2 роки тому

      Did you even watch the full video?

  • @randomuser8574
    @randomuser8574 3 роки тому +1635

    I feel..so bad. Home is where your supposed to feel safe. Secure. A feeling of protection. I’m..so sorry for her.

    • @Kookie-zc3gt
      @Kookie-zc3gt 2 роки тому +12

      How is that his fault?she invited him?

    • @NxtActxallyLxna
      @NxtActxallyLxna 2 роки тому +74

      @@Kookie-zc3gt i don't think you understand.. That was literally before she was unsafe around him.

    • @Noursinette_
      @Noursinette_ Рік тому +2

      699th like

    • @lukeiamyourfather666
      @lukeiamyourfather666 Рік тому +33

      @@Kookie-zc3gt no that wasn't the only case, He took pictures of the security cameras or many just looked and took pictures of the things around it without letting her know ir anyone. Imagine you're inviting your new friend over for the first time and this is what they do. you won't feel the most comfortable either.

    • @alijanolino5127
      @alijanolino5127 6 місяців тому +15

      ​@@_akiangelgirl, she's simply explaining where she's coming from - her fear or sudden elusive attitude. As someone who's also in therapy for yrs now i know it's very very difficult for steph to open up smth like this - to leave youself in a vulnerable state for others to pry. She just had to make a choice for her own story to be heard

  • @princessaria
    @princessaria 4 роки тому +21364

    He doesn’t seem to understand what she’s saying. She’s saying his pushy behavior was triggering, she has PTSD and he wouldn’t take “no” for an answer.

    • @oggielive_
      @oggielive_ 4 роки тому +648

      I do agree that he should have been less pushy about everything but if he really does has a attachment disorder then it makes more sense. With attachment disorders people tend to be extremely paranoid about being ignored and not know why. I know people with this disorder and their is always a mental health aspect to it

    • @Gaengar
      @Gaengar 4 роки тому +217

      Tbh she never straight up told him “no” though...

    • @chynachyna3865
      @chynachyna3865 4 роки тому +630

      @@Gaengar Stephanie said no during a car ride.

    • @supteareadbooks1654
      @supteareadbooks1654 4 роки тому +574

      TBH, there's no legitimate reason to take photos of a high-end security system, which he'd know if he'd been researching them, and he *had* to have known he'd be on the security footage taking his creepy photos while she was in the bathroom. So why take them? Spoilers for part 2, but the more I've thought about it the last couple of weeks, the more I'm sure that making her feel violated was part of his overall plan to add her to his list of female mukbangers he's taken down. The alternative is that he waited until he was alone, and then immediately pulled his phone out and started snapping without thinking "hey, isn't this a bit of a weird thing to do?"

    • @gabrielmichael3701
      @gabrielmichael3701 4 роки тому +90

      Linda Thai She’s a grown woman, she has to take responsibility, he didn’t take away her agency. She’s tearing up, because the long and short of it is she gossiped about somebody, I was afraid it would get out.

  • @kuromilvr1013
    @kuromilvr1013 4 роки тому +4393

    “She would only wanna do a collab if Zach was there too” “she just wants views”
    Or she’s just scared to be with you alone 😐

    • @onyx4482
      @onyx4482 4 роки тому +257

      I WAS GONNA SAY THAT like how can he be so daft, to not even think that she's maybe just afraid of being alone with him, esp after she's already said she's afraid of him

    • @shadowsightliker
      @shadowsightliker 4 роки тому +26

      exactly!

    • @casey5683
      @casey5683 4 роки тому +11

      SAME

    • @arielsnow1130
      @arielsnow1130 4 роки тому +7

      「 Kake Popers 」 if she didn't want to be alone with him then that means she didn't want to be around him but the thing is she inserted herself into the video of him and the other dude if she did not like him for views or no she should have not done that

    • @someonefrommars6422
      @someonefrommars6422 4 роки тому +30

      Yeah like why would she want views she already have them

  • @rvonniee1007
    @rvonniee1007 2 роки тому +1116

    “I’m not manipulative”
    PROCEEDS TO TELL HER THAT SHE CANT BRING UP HER *OWN* SA.

    • @Kookie-zc3gt
      @Kookie-zc3gt 2 роки тому +11

      But what is the context? What that have to do with him? Doesn't that also sounds a little manipulative of her?

    • @rvonniee1007
      @rvonniee1007 2 роки тому +52

      @@Kookie-zc3gt its not manipulative to talk abt something that traumatized you ..

    • @Kookie-zc3gt
      @Kookie-zc3gt 2 роки тому +11

      @@rvonniee1007 it's manipulative the way she's making it seem like her trauma is his fault, literally calling him a predator for what ? Talking a picture in her house?

    • @rvonniee1007
      @rvonniee1007 2 роки тому +77

      @@Kookie-zc3gt did you watch the entire series, or just the parts you wanted to watch? 🤨

    • @icesl-983
      @icesl-983 2 роки тому

      @@Kookie-zc3gt
      Shut up

  • @bekahjoy6600
    @bekahjoy6600 2 роки тому +692

    The wording in this video is borderline victim blaming.
    7:18 She didn't insinuate that her breakdown was worse than the one she had after she was assaulted, which is a wild claim to make. What she said was "this was unlike any other".
    I've had multiple breakdowns that were different from each other, but expressed themselves in different ways.
    Also, 10:35 "scaring herself even more". When feeling threatened, the best thing to do is to research before making any assumptions. She didn't scare herself, she found a evidence that backed up her concerns.
    The video he made where he complained about not getting laid was too coincidental and telling for her to make it up.
    There's other things that bug me about this, but I'll let it be.

    • @yes9064
      @yes9064 2 роки тому +24

      I agree tbh.

    • @cindybenforever7647
      @cindybenforever7647 2 роки тому +41

      He's so good at manipulating and twisting words.

    • @karlacastanares3084
      @karlacastanares3084 Рік тому +3

      @@cindybenforever7647 He's really good at it, tbh. Making people see his way... Hmm... It sounds like he's kinda... Machiavellian... Or it's just me?

    • @Noursinette_
      @Noursinette_ Рік тому

      fr ong

  • @ElocinEve
    @ElocinEve 4 роки тому +13305

    "but when Zach was involved, she agreed" yeah, because she didn't feel safe around Nick. As long as Zach was there she knew nothing was gunna happen to her.

    • @sarangjams9721
      @sarangjams9721 4 роки тому +281

      Or because Zach revenues more views cause he has more subscribers. No one can be sure

    • @jochumm6099
      @jochumm6099 4 роки тому +376

      Zach the chill man 😎

    • @shadowwolfie1376
      @shadowwolfie1376 3 роки тому +162

      Why do i kinda ship them...

    • @evydae1208
      @evydae1208 3 роки тому +49

      Shadow wolfie 1 maybe not on this video lol

    • @jhenika309
      @jhenika309 3 роки тому +18

      @@shadowwolfie1376 AU ship

  • @beeleg
    @beeleg 4 роки тому +28777

    He’s not being passive aggressive he’s being straight up aggressive.

    • @laurentiare
      @laurentiare 4 роки тому +1127

      Manipulative too. He shouldn't just go off making exposing videos just because someone says NO to him. All he cares about is himself and NOBODY else.

    • @beeleg
      @beeleg 4 роки тому +482

      LaurenTiare literally!! I can absolutely see why she was scared, he doesn’t get to say what should and shouldn’t trigger her omg! My heart just breaks watching this because she’s clearly hurting and this clearly took a lot for her to talk about you know? If you’ve ever been around someone manipulative (I am so sorry if you have) he’s literally the embodiment of the word.

    • @Kirayni
      @Kirayni 4 роки тому +258

      And let's not forget his video is one hour and half an hour long (hers, 40~ minutes) and has multiple ads through it... And he says she was the one doing it for clout omg

    • @annyuli2556
      @annyuli2556 4 роки тому +65

      jenna bruh Stephanie could Legit be doing it for clout,cuz basically everything Nick said and her wearing her merch and promoting it in a Emotional video doesn’t make any sense at all

    • @tinapaytinapay
      @tinapaytinapay 4 роки тому +51

      What's funny is the attempt to be passive aggressive but we arent blind lol

  • @sm4raa
    @sm4raa 2 роки тому +880

    I actually watched this whole thing without skipping, wow....

    • @-randomkid-446
      @-randomkid-446 2 роки тому +8

      same-

    • @bymwithlucifer
      @bymwithlucifer 2 роки тому +8

      Official pog champ 🏆

    • @ethanyt8770
      @ethanyt8770 2 роки тому +1

      @@-randomkid-446 ok then whos faulth is it then

    • @Ariel-gv7qm
      @Ariel-gv7qm 2 роки тому +6

      Same I sometimes don’t have patience for long videos but surprisingly this was entertaining

    • @webtoon.crumblchar
      @webtoon.crumblchar 2 роки тому

      Not me though

  • @steviasativa9803
    @steviasativa9803 3 роки тому +627

    His refusal to believe that people can be triggered, is just disgusting

  • @bhavyag.3386
    @bhavyag.3386 4 роки тому +5031

    Ok the part where he talks about his attachment disorder made me especially furious. So he can use his trauma to justify his actions and feelings but she can’t use her trauma to justify her actions and feelings? Un-freaking-believable! What a hypocrite!!!

    • @lissaC.W.
      @lissaC.W. 4 роки тому +252

      Exactly!! Also It’s something I can absolutely sympathize with however it doesn’t give him a pass to go on threatening and harassing others because of it.

    • @gertskook
      @gertskook 4 роки тому +127

      Is nik even telling the truth about his disorder he says he has ? Cause this is the first time I’ve heard him saying that.

    • @heidikay
      @heidikay 4 роки тому +125

      Jae Lou it very well could be true, especially given the circumstances during his childhood, but is very hypocritical the way he handled things.

    • @mansiashley
      @mansiashley 4 роки тому +43

      YES. YES. EXACTLY.

    • @HexusoftheSheep
      @HexusoftheSheep 4 роки тому +40

      Right? The only thing he has going for him is that Stephanie is too nice to say that she thinks his trauma is made up. She's too nice of a person to go down the road that he did.

  • @bethanykpop6740
    @bethanykpop6740 4 роки тому +2106

    “Mystery man” that’s her fiancé -

    • @k3l5h9
      @k3l5h9 4 роки тому +78

      Stephiance

    • @frozonessupersuit8536
      @frozonessupersuit8536 4 роки тому +59

      everyone who supports her knows it's Stephiance

    • @reesebutterfly8028
      @reesebutterfly8028 4 роки тому +10

      I like your username 😂

    • @bethanykpop6740
      @bethanykpop6740 4 роки тому +8

      yOuR dOg sPeakS cHiNesE?? I’m confusion

    • @joosclues
      @joosclues 4 роки тому +16

      @yOuR dOg sPeakS cHiNesE?? Chill out you're overreacting

  • @strbwerri
    @strbwerri 2 роки тому +215

    I've been bullied MULTIPLE times before, and I always have trouble sleeping. Sometimes, I cry myself to sleep, because I don't want to live that experience again. I feel you Stephanie.

  • @scrollingdownaswespeak
    @scrollingdownaswespeak 2 роки тому +376

    He was so self absorbed he didn't even think that she felt unsafe and uncomfortable around him and was not willing to be left alone with him t without a trusted friend along.

  • @moxygirl5636
    @moxygirl5636 4 роки тому +18658

    In and out of sleep isnt an inside joke, it's a joke at her expense and she was being too nice about it. She couldn't sleep because she was so upset and reliving trauma. How dare he mock that situation

    • @xbubbleteaaa
      @xbubbleteaaa 4 роки тому +1078

      Also how was it okay for him to “turn the situation into something to laugh about” to make him feel better but she couldn’t turn it into something positive for herself too? Like she’s donating the proceeds and not screaming it in a club... but yknow, Mr. Avocado “isn’t wrong” 🙄

    • @pishwa
      @pishwa 4 роки тому +456

      vclinh and the “why not tell people to donate directly?” because people are more likely to buy something than donate- they buy something and their money is going to a charity.

    • @julzwhalz
      @julzwhalz 4 роки тому +107

      ok but she literally made merch on it.

    • @54kitten
      @54kitten 4 роки тому +292

      @@julzwhalz actually she didn't make it. On her last video on the situation she addresses that.

    • @supteareadbooks1654
      @supteareadbooks1654 4 роки тому +385

      @@julzwhalz Yeah, boo, when fanjoy reached out to her she felt a spark of defiance whilst traumatised and followed it through to doing something positive, which helped her to recover her poise. That's an intrinsic part of human behaviour.

  • @Shenan-again
    @Shenan-again 4 роки тому +3017

    Notice how all his “receipts” are text messages between other people and him and how he says everyone doesn’t like her. It almost seems as if he’s trying to make her feel small. 🙄

    • @steviestevie9938
      @steviestevie9938 4 роки тому +77

      Of course that's what he was trying to do but I'm sure Stephanie is smart enough to know those people were responding to something Nik said about her.

    • @crimson5627
      @crimson5627 4 роки тому +2

      Christina Luu omg true

  • @a_bird2.0
    @a_bird2.0 3 роки тому +190

    I keep switching sides but then the 'man' bit was her HUSBAND making her feel better

    • @limerance7773
      @limerance7773 3 роки тому +5

      Ye-

    • @YukonYuki
      @YukonYuki 2 роки тому +7

      She even stated the man was her husband but he took it out of context

  • @_Hani
    @_Hani 2 роки тому +120

    I don’t know if it’s just me but that video of Stephanie having a breakdown hurts my heart like imagine putting that much pressure on someone to make them acc cry like that and feel that way

    • @danielleee6533
      @danielleee6533 2 роки тому +5

      It 100% made my heart hurt too! I could feel the anguish through the screen

  • @miss_ghost141
    @miss_ghost141 4 роки тому +4704

    “A unidentifiable man over top of you touching you while your screaming and crying out” Dude that’s her husband that comforting her while she’s having a break down

    • @cassandralee7236
      @cassandralee7236 4 роки тому +472

      ikr it so frustrating to hear him say that

    • @vryepiclime1812
      @vryepiclime1812 4 роки тому +243

      that is what it looks like to people who don’t know stephanie soo

    • @aizukimaude
      @aizukimaude 3 роки тому +57

      wait she's married now?

    • @unodos1316
      @unodos1316 3 роки тому +52

      @@aizukimaude not yet

    • @MaxBrianJung
      @MaxBrianJung 3 роки тому +16

      uno dos isn’t she married though?

  • @ienjoysubwayproducts9900
    @ienjoysubwayproducts9900 4 роки тому +8643

    If Zach talks about this, you know it’s serious

    • @marymorby7240
      @marymorby7240 3 роки тому +265

      Yes I love Zach Sm it makes me sad he was pulled in

    • @natan8481
      @natan8481 3 роки тому +174

      Alina N nah bro😭my man just vibes and eats food relax🤣

    • @karen2018
      @karen2018 3 роки тому +47

      @@Noahhhhh1 No he isnt he just make videos about food alot of people do that ;-;

    • @Noahhhhh1
      @Noahhhhh1 3 роки тому +12

      @@karen2018 ya sure about that? Haven't you seen the videos about him...?

    • @lisalawrence3769
      @lisalawrence3769 3 роки тому +24

      @@Noahhhhh1 shud up

  • @rec7481
    @rec7481 2 роки тому +213

    The fact that he cares more about his ‘reputation’ he never had in the first place more than someone’s trauma, someone’s assault, someone he claimed to be nice to just showcases what a disgusting sluggish excuse of a man he is

  • @angelwluv9683
    @angelwluv9683 2 роки тому +126

    Stephanie is just..Awesome for going through that. She’s very strong and I would NEVER be able to go through That. I feel bad for her.

  • @vinhasenteredthechat2555
    @vinhasenteredthechat2555 4 роки тому +7018

    Nik: *she's using her trauma to sway and manipulate the audience!*
    Also Nik: *uses his trauma to sway and manipulate the audience*

  • @s4nri0gir14
    @s4nri0gir14 4 роки тому +5740

    the "in-n-out of sleep" at the club was the most disgusting thing I have ever seen. Who says things like that to publicly humiliate somebody?

    • @freyamcgiffen3162
      @freyamcgiffen3162 3 роки тому +24

      He said he didn’t know she was sexually traumatised

    • @Axyd4nt
      @Axyd4nt 3 роки тому +379

      @@freyamcgiffen3162 what does that have to do with making fun of her for having trouble sleeping

    • @micheledibella
      @micheledibella 3 роки тому +8

      S_ 69 don’t tell me that you never make fun of everyone. And if you say: he shouldn’t have made it public”, he already apologized

    • @GplusGains
      @GplusGains 3 роки тому +257

      @@micheledibella You've humiliated people then post it online for everyone to see? That's the point here.

    • @sakuraogami6885
      @sakuraogami6885 3 роки тому +139

      Michele Di Bella wow there’s stans here? Yikes

  • @boiboi3308
    @boiboi3308 2 роки тому +76

    “I didn’t sexually harass Stephanie soo.” None of us would believe his words even tho he already harassed her earlier

  • @yourleftkidney6105
    @yourleftkidney6105 2 роки тому +80

    "I feel like most people would act the same way I did when left hanging for 7 hours" ive been left hanging for 7 hours before and just waited... just be patient my dude

  • @katierose1773
    @katierose1773 4 роки тому +3365

    I don’t understand how the “in and out” of sleep joke is funny. If you find that funny you need new friends. Come across as straight up mocking to me.

    • @fml3131
      @fml3131 4 роки тому +34

      Of cos its no joke, bcos "in & out" has became her merchandise and she's very delighted with that

    • @memesimulater3486
      @memesimulater3486 4 роки тому +18

      It's a coping mechanism. People joke about things their struggling with to get through it.

    • @Amy-rv8xr
      @Amy-rv8xr 4 роки тому +39

      meme simulater coping mechanism for what exactly? did her rejection affect him that much??

    • @Fickets
      @Fickets 4 роки тому +4

      Just going to ignore the fact he didn’t know what the statement meant?

    • @tumamacasse
      @tumamacasse 4 роки тому +6

      @Phickets and that makes it so much better

  • @vesmiya5638
    @vesmiya5638 4 роки тому +2720

    i feel like nick doesn’t *understand* PTSD. he blows it off as if it isn’t a valid reason to be scared. that is not okay.

    • @jcardosa02
      @jcardosa02 4 роки тому +7

      Oyu Tuvshintugs no, he’s saying it’s not his problem

    • @Acidfunkish
      @Acidfunkish 4 роки тому +26

      It's a false understanding that everyone should walk on eggshells around people with PTSD, as if that's going to help them.
      The therapeutic way to treat PTSD and severe trauma is controlled, safe exposure of things that trigger them. Eventually, if done in a controlled and safe way, they will become desensitised.
      It's up to people when and if they decide to be treated, but avoidance is not treatment. Avoidance doesn't help.
      And he's right - it's nobody else's responsibility to walk on eggshells around people. It's up to the people to decide to be treated or not. It's not the world's responsibility to take it easy on them. It doesn't help them; if anything, it makes their triggers worse, gives them more triggers, and causes complex avoidance routines that only dig them deeper into their trauma.

    • @frozenyogurth
      @frozenyogurth 4 роки тому +97

      @@jcardosa02 But his attachment issues should be hers now? No matter on wich side you are, Nick is a snake.

    • @foreverloving5565
      @foreverloving5565 4 роки тому +1

      He said he was unaware that he triggered her ptsd

    • @xtonibx5770
      @xtonibx5770 4 роки тому +24

      @@foreverloving5565 But he clearly doesn't care that he did

  • @cherrry9262
    @cherrry9262 3 роки тому +134

    She agrees to collaborate with zach bc she feels safe with him

  • @meaniesing
    @meaniesing 2 роки тому +27

    You never know what will trigger you when you experienced that kind of fear. Sometimes it's just sounds, smell or even small things that people thinks that you're over reacting but you're not.

  • @willowashe
    @willowashe 4 роки тому +3641

    Nik makes the “in and out of sleep” thing seem like all of his friends and everyone around him thought it was hilarious. His friends seem over it, and there is no one else in the video cheering them on in the second....

    • @miiniimiiniijpeg
      @miiniimiiniijpeg 4 роки тому +53

      Dani Wood Glad I wasn’t the only one who went “whaaaaat”

    • @supteareadbooks1654
      @supteareadbooks1654 4 роки тому +199

      "The entire club was chanting!" Sure, Jan.

    • @Beatbod
      @Beatbod 4 роки тому +61

      Dani Wood it was kinda cringe

    • @tobikms1709
      @tobikms1709 4 роки тому +30

      Even then, if they thought it was funny doesn't make it right

    • @justapanpirate
      @justapanpirate 4 роки тому +68

      The only thing missing was “and then everyone clapped”.

  • @user-rk8kt6zu5q
    @user-rk8kt6zu5q 4 роки тому +8622

    “If Stephanie was uncomfortable, she should’ve told me.”
    Ohhh boy, buddy boo, that isn’t how it works.

    • @ryanfowler8864
      @ryanfowler8864 4 роки тому +129

      DerpsTheKitten how it should work, we made language a thing for a reason

    • @user-rk8kt6zu5q
      @user-rk8kt6zu5q 4 роки тому +728

      You’ve never been in a situation so uncomfortable you can’t talk about it? Then, good for you, but it does happen. In situations like Stephanie’s she felt so uncomfortable she couldn’t speak about it, especially with Zach’s presence. It’s not as simple as “just telling him.”

    • @Lee.M.D
      @Lee.M.D 4 роки тому +58

      Communication is key

    • @silverwasp3895
      @silverwasp3895 4 роки тому +32

      Facts

    • @xlxmxn6792
      @xlxmxn6792 4 роки тому +231

      Little Mx Duckling The Pikachu Fan for some people its hard to get their voice heard. maybe you’re not meek but a lot of people cant say something because they feel like they’d be troublesome or needy.

  • @denizzky
    @denizzky 3 роки тому +54

    The views thing..She said “no” because she wasn’t comfortable ONLY with Nikokado.

  • @michellepennell8484
    @michellepennell8484 3 роки тому +60

    The “man on top of her is here husband “

  • @laurentiare
    @laurentiare 4 роки тому +14146

    Zach: Leave me out of it
    Nick: *Involves Zach anyway*
    Also Zach: So you have chosen death?

    • @honeygrace2747
      @honeygrace2747 4 роки тому +293

      This. 👌

    • @rexsleezy9402
      @rexsleezy9402 4 роки тому +150

      Nice! 👏🏻

    • @hh.hxiiiley131
      @hh.hxiiiley131 4 роки тому +667

      Right, NEVER MESS WITH THE QUIET KID

    • @jordynisboredyn
      @jordynisboredyn 4 роки тому +343

      This was the tipping point, the reason people came back to Stephanie’s side. Started on Stephanie’s side and always stayed. Trashacado is and always will be a bad person.

    • @adobeartist8141
      @adobeartist8141 4 роки тому +14

      LaurenTiare 1000th like

  • @jamireed4258
    @jamireed4258 4 роки тому +2115

    He takes screenshots of a FaceTime. He says he didn’t really like her but has a video saying how much she likes her. Didn’t Trisha “ghost” Nik too? Umm

    • @samanthalevenson7912
      @samanthalevenson7912 4 роки тому +34

      Felisha Wagaga though I do agree with everything else, I did hear from multiple people that the thing between Nik and Trisha was actually staged

    • @jamireed4258
      @jamireed4258 4 роки тому +7

      Samantha Levenson I can believe that lol

    • @dd12exe
      @dd12exe 4 роки тому

      Also there was a video named Stephanie vs nick and he said that "stephanie wons ofcc!!" If im not wrong

    • @audrajanco744
      @audrajanco744 4 роки тому +1

      Trisha and Nik are still close

    • @neonsoda4884
      @neonsoda4884 4 роки тому +1

      Trisha didn’t do anything wrong In the situation. If nick was fan he should of saw the post she had post.

  • @briannavaldivieso5639
    @briannavaldivieso5639 3 роки тому +35

    I just wanna say this, JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE APOLOGIZED DOES NOT MEAN THAT THEIR ACTIONS WERE ANY LESS HORRIBLE. People have the choice to accept apologies, and sometimes no matter what someone does to “make up” for their actions the victim does not need to forgive them.

  • @velvetvixen3001
    @velvetvixen3001 3 роки тому +249

    Personally, just one minute of him speaking sends shivers down my spine. He's very manipulative... like the snake that made Eve eat the fruit.

    • @gidol1469
      @gidol1469 2 роки тому +2

      Well actually its Adam who did eat the apple

    • @judychaihlung
      @judychaihlung 2 роки тому +2

      @@gidol1469 Eve ate the apple first

    • @kathy99123
      @kathy99123 2 роки тому +2

      @@judychaihlung it's different in every religion so all versions r valid :)

    • @judychaihlung
      @judychaihlung 2 роки тому +1

      @@kathy99123 well didn’t Eve eat it in all of the versions???

    • @kathy99123
      @kathy99123 2 роки тому +3

      @@judychaihlung nope. Some ppl from other religions don't believe that. In mine it's Adam's fault. He ate it first and Eve ate it after. XD

  • @user-uj3fu2el2m
    @user-uj3fu2el2m 4 роки тому +22929

    zach's like the friend that doesn't want to get involved in a fight

  • @aerongrimm3162
    @aerongrimm3162 4 роки тому +2353

    This poor woman was sexually assaulted in her own home and then hardcore gaslighted. I can relate. It's horrifying, and listening to all of this is triggering my own PTSD. I feel so much empathy with her...

    • @deelish22
      @deelish22 4 роки тому +47

      Same here. The cringe factor is wayyyyyy too high with this guy.

    • @desireedriver6390
      @desireedriver6390 4 роки тому +41

      Adrienne Hagen same 😕 but the way she talks about her emotions after the trauma makes me realize i’m not the only one feeling like this and helps me know i’m not alone

    • @officiallilsisi2671
      @officiallilsisi2671 4 роки тому +2

      He didnt know

    • @mr.bowtie3451
      @mr.bowtie3451 4 роки тому +6

      She wasn’t sexually assaulted.. he was trying to shake and comfort her out of her nightmares and panic attacks

    • @aerongrimm3162
      @aerongrimm3162 4 роки тому +43

      @@mr.bowtie3451 ...how did you miss every part where they said a man sexually assaulted her in her own home

  • @isobuhatake1255
    @isobuhatake1255 3 роки тому +58

    The fact that the rest of youtubers actually laugh at this just shows how people care for you. Lesson learned not everyone you see you should be kind to. Some people are the way they are for a reason they can't deal with their own problems.

  • @iya9047
    @iya9047 3 роки тому +63

    his response video and apology is so insincere. he completely does not care about what stephanie feels and only cares about saving face.

  • @_raqi4133
    @_raqi4133 4 роки тому +2011

    Yeah, I’d be kind of mad is someone ghosts me for 7 hours, but when they explain the reason, A VALID REASON mind you, (such as being sick, not feeling well and not having been able to sleep) I would understand and wish them well. Did anybody notice that Nick didn’t even say “get well” or “you should rest, let’s talk another day”? No, he just went straight to complaining and insisting that they do the video without any thought to how Stephanie was feeling at the moment. Ok, maybe you didn’t know she was having PTSD, but you DID know she wasn’t feeling well.

    • @leehana979
      @leehana979 4 роки тому +81

      @@amatsukiko it's so disturbing. I don't know why people can't see that. Its literally out there in his video.

    • @rosxjun
      @rosxjun 4 роки тому +62

      I literally saw red at "You just now realized?" That really took me aback how can a person be so apathetic?

    • @leehana979
      @leehana979 4 роки тому +3

      @@rosxjun by red. Are you mentioning the red t shirt?

    • @shadowsightliker
      @shadowsightliker 4 роки тому +33

      even if i had plans with them, i would still say 'hope you feel better, maybe another time'. and if they say no, still respect it?? i had a friend who we had plans once after school to go to the dance and then have a sleepover, but she got sick, and that's a valid excuse! i was in the 5th grade and i still had some common courtesy. what nick is doing is the only thing that seems manipulative here.

    • @jjkowsr
      @jjkowsr 4 роки тому +12

      Raquel and it wasn’t even 7 hours, she ghosted him for 15 minutes..

  • @Nevouti.x
    @Nevouti.x 2 роки тому +35

    As a Zach, nice to see him being a king and reacting so well

  • @tianamunford5209
    @tianamunford5209 Рік тому +10

    If someone was 'ghosting me' for hours and then messages the group that they've been busy or on and out of sleep I would be privately messaging them asking if they were ok, or if there was anything I could do to help. Not mention anything about how annoyed I got or try to reschedule, would literally be like are you ok, is there anything I can do to help? Take all the time you need and catch some sleep

  • @SpoonieCreates
    @SpoonieCreates 4 роки тому +3718

    Hold up. Did he really say “I’m sorry for reminding her of a time when someone convinced her not to say no”!? Who refers to r*pe as being “convinced not to say no”!?
    That’s a rhetorical question. We all know what kind of person Nikocado is
    -_-

    • @Acidfunkish
      @Acidfunkish 4 роки тому +37

      He mentioned it that way because she had been talking about her inability to say no to people.

    • @1412kidsps
      @1412kidsps 4 роки тому +154

      @@Acidfunkish she said it made her feel similar to a time when someone took away her ability to say no.

    • @SpoonieCreates
      @SpoonieCreates 4 роки тому +17

      taedalus same

    • @helenaque3100
      @helenaque3100 4 роки тому

      Spoonie_the_Rogue W/Has

    • @Michelle-vs1ci
      @Michelle-vs1ci 4 роки тому +45

      This makes me so mad (what Nik said) since I was also sexually harassed. I feel so bad for Stephanie.

  • @jessjess3495
    @jessjess3495 4 роки тому +1652

    Nikocado is just trying to play victim because he knows he's wrong, Stephanie and Zach have involved their attorneys.

    • @miiniimiiniijpeg
      @miiniimiiniijpeg 4 роки тому +4

      Jess Jess Yesssss

    • @endokuken1678
      @endokuken1678 4 роки тому +14

      And have no case lol

    • @bobbyxsoxer
      @bobbyxsoxer 4 роки тому +98

      @@endokuken1678 stephanie does since nick publicly showed her security footage

    • @endokuken1678
      @endokuken1678 4 роки тому +22

      @@bobbyxsoxer She still has no case, if she's suing him she has to prove his picture caused her monetary damages. Her security system is in many of her videos, so it's already been shown to the public prior to this mess. She'd be wasting money on attorney fees trust me. She only talked about getting attorneys involved as either a scare tactic, or to sway her audience

    • @ouranhshc100
      @ouranhshc100 4 роки тому +146

      @@endokuken1678 she does have a case. Him showing where all her cameras are, someone could hack into her system or show up at her house and break in and steal. That's dangerous for anyone.
      You clearly were already on Niks side when you comnented

  • @jinglebelldrawz7580
    @jinglebelldrawz7580 Рік тому +52

    As a person who’s been manipulated so many times and has trouble saying no and speaking up, this situation sickens me. The fact that some people don’t even realize how manipulative-

    • @rashi4553
      @rashi4553 7 місяців тому +2

      Ikr! Manipulative people truly leave you feeling frustrated at yourself. It's such a vile thing to do as a person

  • @s3nor1ta
    @s3nor1ta 2 роки тому +44

    You really gotta feel bad for Zach Choi he just wanted to do a collab with his friends and just wanted food but this had to happen

  • @siralbed044
    @siralbed044 3 роки тому +11676

    For someone who has PTSD, The In-N-Out of sleep joke is disgusting, It’s a horrible thing to do. :/

    • @aelan2226
      @aelan2226 3 роки тому +1103

      ^ also to mention, he said "i didnt know she was having ptsd and was sexually traumatized there was no communication" like?? dude? as a SA victim it is NOT easy to just out right tell people that im not close with "hey!! i was assaulted!" idk why he got mad at her for not telling him that when in her video she SAID she was scared of him. did it not cross his mind that, maybe thats why she didnt tell him? 💀

    • @siralbed044
      @siralbed044 3 роки тому +384

      @@aelan2226 ikr. It’s a horrible thing to do in general even without having PTSD it’s still Disgusting.

    • @maite_cerv276
      @maite_cerv276 3 роки тому +226

      ik as someone who had PTSD i was dissgusted cause i would had a metal break down too i feel so bad for stephaine

    • @deadchannel5557
      @deadchannel5557 3 роки тому +80

      Can someone explain the In-n out sleep thing?

    • @levih-achoo3990
      @levih-achoo3990 3 роки тому +13

      Ikr

  • @fries8248
    @fries8248 4 роки тому +8938

    2020: Hey everyone, this year is gonna b-
    2019: *eh-hem.*

  • @ashbie1461
    @ashbie1461 3 роки тому +80

    I feel SO incredibly bad for Stephanie. No one should ever have to feel like that.

  • @Rexorazor
    @Rexorazor Рік тому +21

    Stephanie is a kind of person you just wanna adopt and keep them safe.

  • @gerrykeay1100
    @gerrykeay1100 4 роки тому +615

    the amount of gaslighting in his response is almost painful to listen to

    • @Lurkerlady
      @Lurkerlady 4 роки тому +46

      His clips made me so uncomfortable. For some reason the look in his eyes bothered me to no end.

    • @faris7765
      @faris7765 4 роки тому +4

      But a lot of his points make sense

  • @hannahmeeker3406
    @hannahmeeker3406 4 роки тому +2524

    Nikocado Avocado does not realize that she has PTSD and that sometimes people are scared of standing up for their selves and he’s being very rude about everything and he needs to realize that people do have feelings and emotions and he never said sorry about anything when stephanie apologized many times when she did not do anything

    • @lmekanade7111
      @lmekanade7111 4 роки тому +28

      Wait Stephanie soo has PTSD??? I never heard about that...

    • @laurenjacobs5120
      @laurenjacobs5120 4 роки тому +77

      xXZya the Gacha gamerXx she was sadly sexually assaulted. That would cause anyone to have ptsd

    • @jinx5673
      @jinx5673 4 роки тому +3

      Lauren Jacobs not for me...

    • @jinx5673
      @jinx5673 4 роки тому

      Lauren Jacobs I would be happy to get a little action but I would be weirded out if it was a man tho

    • @elzyk4148
      @elzyk4148 4 роки тому +19

      @@jinx5673 would u be happy if u didn't consent?

  • @blackbangtan8943
    @blackbangtan8943 3 роки тому +38

    As someone who has insomnia I know the feeling of not being able to sleep and it is horrible it may sound easy but it's not. That sounded disgusting.

  • @joshandollyplays1049
    @joshandollyplays1049 2 роки тому +22

    Stephanie: I dont know if I can trust him.
    Zack: god them noodles look good!!

  • @lizbazzy5
    @lizbazzy5 4 роки тому +37552

    man, i feel bad for Zach Choi. he just wanted to eat.

  • @kxtvd7105
    @kxtvd7105 4 роки тому +3879

    Poor Zach, he so nice about this just trying to vibe but nick won’t let him.

    • @sunnywind6264
      @sunnywind6264 4 роки тому +75

      Sydney Warren I know right, I support Zach and Steph way better than Nick

    • @adah7060
      @adah7060 4 роки тому +26

      Yeah Zach dont even do anything

    • @ssssaaaaiiiirrraaa
      @ssssaaaaiiiirrraaa 4 роки тому +17

      Yeah Zack didn’t do anything

    • @temidolaakinyode353
      @temidolaakinyode353 4 роки тому +1

      Please

    • @lishagirl4040
      @lishagirl4040 4 роки тому

      X s a i r a X cuz he doesn’t talk 🤪😂🤐

  • @andriie1
    @andriie1 2 роки тому +13

    Seeing Stephanie having a breakdown at 6:51 almost made me cry😢

  • @MatthewF-up4rj
    @MatthewF-up4rj 3 роки тому +3

    WOW!!! WOW!!! WOW!!! This video is so brilliantly made!!! Giving both sides so honestly from both sides and the way the inserts help us who haven't seen the videos and posts some background and where it came from. Excellent job on this video! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @dream5592
    @dream5592 4 роки тому +975

    I don’t understand why anyone liked him in the first place. His mukbangs are disturbing and very obnoxious, especially the ones when he’s crying on camera. I’ve always found him odd and I’m not surprised about this whole situation.

  • @adaliia
    @adaliia 4 роки тому +4024

    2020: Let me introdu-
    2019: I AM NOT FINISHED SPEAKING YET

  • @zeyneportakoyluoglu111
    @zeyneportakoyluoglu111 3 роки тому +13

    I would have never imagined that someone could say things like that about a woman who was assoulted and has gone through so much

  • @lemin-lyme8807
    @lemin-lyme8807 3 роки тому +42

    Zach is like the friend that gets pushed around and he finally snaps and hits hard.

  • @tomie3222
    @tomie3222 4 роки тому +7243

    nikocado avocado
    more like
    *psychocado avocado.*

  • @megangreen5851
    @megangreen5851 4 роки тому +2918

    When he said any normal person would react like he did. No. No one would send passive aggressive texts after someone try’s to get out of a situation. To everyone it you are uncomfortable leave don’t stay don’t go along with it. Leave if the person is a good person they would understand. If they aren’t they will send passive aggressive messages. Like nick did

    • @willowashe
      @willowashe 4 роки тому +57

      No one would wait around for 5 hours either-you’d wait a while and send a message saying that you can’t wait any longer. That is on him.

    • @rodsaghosh7208
      @rodsaghosh7208 4 роки тому +38

      Ikr? Like sure if I were him, I'd get mad but obviously I would never take that out on someone out of my family. The farthest I'd go is just tell her to be sure about rescheduling.

    • @mywingsareyours
      @mywingsareyours 4 роки тому +22

      He's got an attachment disorder. It heavily affects how you perceive rejection. He was genuinely triggered and that affected his reaction

    • @Jiminie53421
      @Jiminie53421 4 роки тому +46

      But he also kept changing the hours. First he said 5 hours, then he told hyunee 6 hours, then he said he waited for 7 hours?? He just keeps exaggerating

    • @Jiminie53421
      @Jiminie53421 4 роки тому +68

      mywingsareyours
      But isn’t that hypocritical of him? Stephanie’s past trauma affected her reaction to his actions and it retraumatized her. He blames her saying it has nothing to do with him but he is allowed to use his attachment disorder?

  • @jayplayz9402
    @jayplayz9402 Рік тому +11

    at 23:10 Stephanie said that it was her boyfriend or smth in the footage that was helping her though her night terrors or smth. not some unidentified man over top of her right?

  • @basudeomotee456
    @basudeomotee456 10 місяців тому +5

    IM SO SORRY FOR HER POOR GIRL poor Stephanie protect her...

  • @stephanielopez84
    @stephanielopez84 4 роки тому +5026

    Zach is like the middle child when the younger sibling got in a fight with the older sibling

  • @hoxgjoong
    @hoxgjoong 4 роки тому +3323

    I'm pretty sure the reason she accepted collabs when Zach was there is because she feels unsave around nick...id honestly do the same

  • @Amiraa42422
    @Amiraa42422 3 роки тому +19

    20:31
    (I hope I don’t seem rude)
    Me personally I think that you can tell if someone is uncomfortable or not,if they are giving hints and based on their expressions then yeah,he is trying to act like the victim

  • @l0via359
    @l0via359 2 роки тому +27

    Poor Zach my mans just wanted to eat, like just leave him alone 😟

  • @m1c4ela14
    @m1c4ela14 3 роки тому +6302

    “People are so rude, self serving, and inconsiderate”
    *flashbacks to him wasting is food*

    • @jennie9579
      @jennie9579 3 роки тому +18

      😂😂😂😂

    • @sussybacka2323
      @sussybacka2323 3 роки тому +19

      I'm not finished this video yet, who said that? -pardon my english

    • @regen5993
      @regen5993 3 роки тому +10

      u shouldn't make fun of him just bcuz ur not on his side 😐

    • @jaysbooger400yearsago6
      @jaysbooger400yearsago6 2 роки тому +5

      Truee

    • @SaintCharlos
      @SaintCharlos 2 роки тому +36

      *_flashbacks to him eating himself to death and ruining his health for internet clout (yes, he and Orlin are trolls but they're still ruining their physical and mental health)_*

  • @ruth-ff1rl
    @ruth-ff1rl 3 роки тому +3906

    He said "that could ruin my reputation" sweety you ruined your reputation by yourself.

    • @kun4529
      @kun4529 3 роки тому +24

      Truth

    • @levih-achoo3990
      @levih-achoo3990 3 роки тому +18

      Truee

    • @joonkook3842
      @joonkook3842 3 роки тому +12

      Facts

    • @Leoprincess3038
      @Leoprincess3038 3 роки тому +32

      I mean that's true.....like him or not implying that he sexually harassed her, and he didnt? Could very well give him a label he doesnt deserve 🙄😒

    • @love23music1
      @love23music1 3 роки тому +3

      True

  • @Waffles2009
    @Waffles2009 2 місяці тому +1

    My heart hurts for Mrs Stephanie. This whole time, i was holding back tears. Her videos always make me emotional. But words can't describe how much i feel for her. Knowing that i could have, at one point, experienced SA when i was little, very narrowly. Whenever i hear about people less fortunate, I can't help but reflect. I can't believe this world.

  • @TheAngryYumm
    @TheAngryYumm 2 роки тому +10

    "Someone convinced her not to say no." Yup. That right there solidifies you as the bad guy.

  • @wondercat2144
    @wondercat2144 4 роки тому +2298

    Nick really grosses me out.. his personality is gross the way he acts it’s just so gross like how can he be like this and not realize how dysfunctional he is.

    • @crose536
      @crose536 4 роки тому +81

      Wonder Cat he makes me so uncomfortable. actually makes my skin crawl

    • @wondercat2144
      @wondercat2144 4 роки тому +79

      C rose yes, it’s like he’s a big baby, the way he talks everything, his breakdowns are so weird like a kid throwing a tantrum in the grocery store.

    • @dearjwoo
      @dearjwoo 4 роки тому +19

      Wonder Cat He needs to grow up and act his age :/

    • @wondercat2144
      @wondercat2144 4 роки тому +23

      Nícole yes he does, he does come out as manipulative like a lot.

    • @inadeki__3325
      @inadeki__3325 4 роки тому +8

      Wonder Cat ikr he literally makes me so uncomfortable I can't explain it.

  • @BOLTShalomNG
    @BOLTShalomNG 4 роки тому +1965

    I just watched the whole thing and then realised it was 40 mins
    I have no life..

  • @YourBoo
    @YourBoo Рік тому +5

    when she said 'i was scared of myself' i truly felt that .

  • @TheRealSlimJunky
    @TheRealSlimJunky Рік тому +1

    Aww the little brew with merch on at the end is literally adorable 🥰☺🥰
    Poor Zach, he really wasn’t trying to be in this I feel so bad for him 😭😭

  • @cathharr08
    @cathharr08 4 роки тому +1359

    He didn’t take any responsibility for what has transpired. He wasn’t apologetic at all.

    • @Tyrosine0910
      @Tyrosine0910 4 роки тому +37

      Nope. He just made a childish video of himself having a complete tantrum over it.

    • @chynachyna3865
      @chynachyna3865 4 роки тому +21

      he seriously believes he is right. UGH

    • @CHOKOHAYS
      @CHOKOHAYS 4 роки тому +10

      @@chynachyna3865 he literally has done nothing wrong he got manipulated lol that female is a 1st class actor/manipulator .. im unbiased as i don't like either haha

    • @mommyanddaughterwilkerson220
      @mommyanddaughterwilkerson220 4 роки тому +19

      Am I really out of the loop here or what. This girl seems whiny and making things out of nothing. And fear of what really. Can he come in your home? She brought up her past, she used it I am a woman and have been abuse and I will say this is all just crazy

    • @chynachyna3865
      @chynachyna3865 4 роки тому +23

      he has done nothing wrong? just wow! you ain't too smart, are you?

  • @asu-ha
    @asu-ha 4 роки тому +1826

    nick: "when she doesn't respond to me I take it as a clear indication that she's not interested"
    also nick: *calls Stephanie like 8 times*

  • @tamarahoward6409
    @tamarahoward6409 10 місяців тому +6

    Fight flight responses, your body cannot tell the difference between being SAed or running from a bear, or stress from being interrogated by someone. The response is the same. Poor Stephanie

  • @carlagoulbourne976
    @carlagoulbourne976 3 роки тому +40

    I feel sorry for zach Choi he was just there wanting to eat and heard all tea