You, Mihlali Ndamase and Snikiwe Mhlongo make me so proud. You are bold and unapologetically stand up for yourself in assertion of your boundaries. Never even for once allow to be shamed. Someone once said "you teach people how to treat you" - never shy from teaching us (your audience) and anyone else in your lives who tries to shame you. Stay strong and courageous.
"I am the biggest vlogger in the country ". Thank you for owning that in a world that encourages timidity in the name of being humble . It's true you are🥰
@@tshegofatsomabena6294I love Xoli neh but please let's not even start comparing! Kay Yarms is not just a preference for many but literally the best .
"I DON'T WANT TO BE LIKED AT THE COST OF BEING QUIET" ❤️🥵that's so powerful Kay. You spoke for all people that struggle with standing up for themselves.
Bonang once said.."They have to talk about you cause when they talk about themselves nobody listens"....you are the Blueprint, you are everything they wish they were...thank you for standing up for yourself and taking your power back . There are many people that love you Kay.. focus on that. Let your work speak for you as its been doing. Continue to do you. Love whoever that you want to love, be with whoever that you want to be . Live your life ke my dhiye..😘😘💞
I have followed you from the days you started growing your Kay Yarms brand, from when you started doing make up and I have always been clapping for you because you gave us one thing most influencers lack AUTHENTICITY. We got to watch ypu morph fully into who and what you are( even though we do not know you on a personal level), for some of us you gave us nothing but healing and wisdom on days we struggled to find a sense of living and self. You have continuously made sure that you are a brand that encourages women to pride themselves in who and what they are not just beauty wise but in relationship with God too. I am so glad you are not allowing yourself to be silenced anymore, that you are finally developing a voice and putting things into PERSPECTIVE for people who do not understand YOUR BRAND(EMPHASIS ON THE YOUR!!!!!). Please SHINE BRIGHTER, KEEP BEING WHO YOU ARE .... KEEP BEING AS AMAZING AND AUTHENTIC AS YOU ARE!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ma'am if I'd tell you the impact you have brought in my life ever since I started consuming your content 🥺! Please keep your head up kay, we absolutely love and adore you 🌹
i think youtube is the safest space than other social media platforms, saying that because on youtube , you choose to show us what you show us , we see what you choose to show us . Other social media platforms are so toxic and full of hate in my pov. But man i hope you know how much we love you and we love seeing a black young woman do everything for herself, love and light .💗💗💗💗
From me to you: Job 22;28 "you will succeed in whatever you choose to do, and light will shine on the road ahead of you". The Lord you serve will never let you down and that's why you are always standing and achieving so many things from all your hard work. Kay you are blessed, you are a QUEEN, you do great things for yourself, and people hate to see that. You are a good person (a person who has watched all your vlogs and life updates, they will know this because that's the brand that all your videos carry) and that's why you will always enjoy the fruits of your seeds. as I have said before, I will always be your supporter. Stay blessed.
Yoh bruv, as a day 1, I'm so glad you're standing up for yourself 👏🏾 you're genuinely a beautiful soul and people envy that about you... I wish you strength, peace and light 🙏🏾❤️
I feel like for most of us that subscribed to tour content is because we fell in love with how much you were soo in love with yourself and how much effort you put in your craft. The fact that those negative comment have affected the good Kay yarms we know hurts... And l happy you're choosing to address that because thina sizodlala sikusupporter nomatter what because wena uzohlala ungu Kay yarms wethu ozisebenzelayo 😂❤ and lm happy l get to see that... And other people will some day get that
I wanted to cry watching this, I recently followed her on this app after tik tok and now I can loudly say I'm such a fan. Bless your heart Kethokuhle you carry so much grace and power within you. THE DEVIL CAN NEVER WIN !!!!
I’m so sorry mama ❤ I know it’s hard to let the positive outshine the negative. Just know those causing you misery are definitely not those who are fond of you and your work❤ bitter people will always find a way to bring others down to their level and I hope and pray that you pay them no mind and keep leaning on the positive and the love ❤ I can’t begin to tell you how much hope & love you’ve given me from your creative expression. I’m so grateful for you letting me into your life to see the bits and pieces 🫂
The make-up came out perfectly. So happy that you launching your dream project. I'm proud of the bold and God fearing lady you are. At the end of the day creators are also human❤
No one should be shamed about their reaction to a situation that made them upset, it's how you felt at that moment wether it be good or bad, it shouldn't be invalidated and it shouldn't be used to judge your overall character. I hope God forever grants you the strength and courage to move pass all the negativity ❤ and yes you are in control, you control the narrative because it's your life therefore your story , you tell it not random people from that blue app 💞
14:53 no girl, it's not the same people. The people that love you are not the same people spewing hate. We definitely don't expect perfection of you and I think that's what your real subscribers love the most about you - your relatability, vulnerability, realness and then your success and ability to bring your dreams to life. ❤❤❤ Proud of you too. This is only the beginning
We had a conversation with some ladies a few weeks ago about how influencers and celebrities have it the harderst, people hide behind their phone and say the most hurtful things. As I'm listening to you, you sound so hurt but I love that you have a strong relationship with God. ❤
I refused to click on this video for the past few weeks because I'm deliberate about separating myself from negativity & drama. Decided to watch today and what I came across is an assertive, self-aware force to be reckoned with. I am so proud of your growth, for owning your story and for always running back to God. May He forever send his angels to watch over you, even in the midst of vile humans who are unknowingly pledging allegiance to be a device of the enemy. I tap into the anointing that is on your life and I marvel at how God shows off with you. Thank you for being a beacon of hope & possibility. I love you so so much, Khetho. 💕
I’m such a Kay Yarms girlie! and I can only imagine how much strength it took for you to not only decide you need to film this video but to reach to a point where you share it. 🥺 Firstly thank you for sharing how Khethokuhle feels, because there is no Kay Yarms without Khethokuhle. I despise the hatred that’s being spewed at Kay Yarms because AGAIN, Khethokuhle becomes collateral damage in the midst of it all. Troll’s and these self appointed ‘God’s and Juries’ of the internet towards creatives who just trying to put bread and butter on the table is appalling, taking to note that it’s through their passion which is by the way the most liberating thing to do as a black women in South Africa in this day. The psychological and emotional impact is so severe, the scrutiny is so damaging. Not only to them but their personal lives and relations too, it hurts when y’all need to make the disclaimer “Fine I get that a part of it comes with being a public figure” NO! What happened to KNOWING YOUR BOUNDARIES. The entitlement towards your lives that people on the socials have crowned themselves with is a huge problem…
shame Kay, it’s so inspiring to see you keep your head up even when people try and drag you through the mud. You literally make me want to just keep moving forward in spite of what’s happening in my life. You’re so beautiful inside & out and I pray you never lose your fighting spirit 🤍
Iam glad that in all this … darlings know where you come from and we’re lucky to have seen you grow right in front of our us. We working hard because you work hard. You’ve set an example of how good it is to just work hard. You inspire me (us) darlings to work hard . For people that are in the same space of beauty, you have really inspired us to just work hard because we know the results of someone that’s put their all in into something. I love you.
This was absolutely necessary because people have become too much. I feel most of the hate stems from jealousy, their own insecurities and how miserable their own lives are. You do you Kay, let no one but God and yourself dictate the life you get to live. Take care ❤
People are disrespectful and I love her standing up for herself. I absolutely hate this narrative that women cant be happy in relationships. Just because a lot of us have been hurt by guys doesnt mean there arent faithful guys out there. Let's just stop it. The same people saying we are quick to throw away Bffs, over man are the same people who wont stand up for us when we go through crap.
You are such a gentle and calm person, you deserve to be at peace and be surrounded by those who cherish and love you, which are your true Kay Yarms subscribers who respect your boundaries and support you through this beautiful journey. You deserve love mama, keep shining! 🥹 we will be here cheering you on
Shed a tear listing to this😢you are an amazing human being, this season will pass, you are stronger than you think more especially being able to handle all that has happened over the years 👏🏻👏🏻 as much as it was difficult but you made it, you did it, and you served us, tears and all we are proud of you... Yeeessss wena Kay Yarms😁
One thing i love about Kay is,when she speaks her truth she doesn't shake.She owns her truth and thus on prrr. Bona girl we love you and we don't care what this gossip channels say about you.The makeup is on point.I actually loved the first lip combo more,please plug us.What did you use?
Proud of you baby ! ❤️ you are doing super well and you really speak to the wholesome, grounded huns. Don’t let trolls who are projecting their insecurities stop you ❤️ people are damn evil
I'm so Happy that you did this diary session...people need to know where to fucken draw the line.......love you kay❤❤❤ Keep thriving and shinning mama👑👑
I’m so sorry that you felt you had to explain yourself when it was well within your right to just live life. You are so filled with grace and class, some things are really just beneath you. We love you and can’t wait to see you flourish beyond what you have and even beyond what your mind could even Fathom.
I'm so happy that you chose or choosing not to leave UA-cam because honestly some of us are here to learn and we are learning a lot from you. To some of us you are a Blessing and God chose you for this platform for a reason, I don't know how to explain this but I'm grateful that I came across your channel and I have learnt a lot from you. NOBODY IS PERFECT. You are right no job is easy, oh the 9-5s girl they are hell I tell you, it's just that it's not happening in public. Never let people destroy what God has Blessed you with. I like that you are a praying woman. I love you sweetheart ❤ Stay Blessed.
You are doing well Kay and yes you are right, not everyone here is out to get you. You do have a community that loves you and understands that no one is perfect and I am one of those people. I love and appreciate your work and what you share with us. Keep shining 💫❤❤❤❤❤
This breaks my heart, at the same time I’m so proud of you for reaching this stage. You deserve to own your space and never to apologise for what you’ve accomplished. No one watches you closer than your haters, the best thing you can do for yourself is to monetize their interest. Please leave this up and never explain yourself to anyone who doesn’t deserve your attention again. Love and light 🫶🏽🕯️
19 minutes nor yet finished the video so far I love what I am hearing from your lips of positive vibes through everything. I cling for positive attitude until I die. Keep doing that sisi the world is cruel and one person who might love you more than you is God. Thank you for standing up for yourself. WE LOVE YOU ❤️
😭I feel so bad cause I don’t know about all the people in this video apart from Kay and her man cause I started following last year . But I’m proud that you standing your ground and we (I) will keep on supporting whatever you do ❤️
“ my man , my man , my man , my man “ yes Kay. Super proud of you. You inspire me so much. Thank you for standing up for yourself. This did something to me. Bless up. 🙏🏾🌹❤️🔥
love that you cleared the air. also, a lot of us come here for the sole purpose of consuming the content you create, forget the nitpicking trolls. its never about you babes! we love you and absolutely adore your content! ❤
This video reminds me of how Jackie Aina would never allow anybody to silence her. Baby girl would address the trolls n hate on her videos, confidently so. I love this for you mama. Stay strong ❤
Oh Kay, i'm so glad you have finally stood up for yourself. YOU are the biggest vlogger in SA PERIODT. we love you, stay shining girl. cant wait to see what Saxx Beauty has in store for us.❤❤️
At the end of the day, we’re with you, supporting you, loving you. My mom once said people will talk till the day you die, so we should focus on the laughter, the wins, the everything good. Yes it’s painful and I don’t know how I could do it, but you’re doing well, you’re winning this race. Just like how you started strong, move strong and finish strong.❤❤ People are mean, even God at some detested them, and that’s His own creation. And yes shame the devil, he knows he’ll never win. I found healing through you and I wish that paying it forward is awarded to you fully for the impact you’ve already made ❤
You have no idea how much of an impact you’ve had on my life Kay. I’ve been watching since the very first video. Keep your head up and keep going mama ❤️🥺
Thank you for shaming the devil and standing up for yourself. You've not only offloaded what you had to buy you opened up doors for people like me who've always known standing up for myself means drama and giving away my power. Thank you so much for this, may God continue to bless you, keep you and guide you. Love you so much ❤️❤️❤️😭
Love you long time bestie. ❤ And I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself as Khethokuhle and for your brand as Kay Yarms. You are doing so well and we love to see it. Trolls will always be trolls but it’s only because they hate seeing you do so great for yourself. It’s a pain in the *ss. It’s really so heartbreaking to see how someone’s success pains so many people like why ?? but for better or worse? You have been chosen! The crown has landed on your head! 👑And you are One of the Best Content Creators in the Country!!! LET IT BE KNOWN!!! ❤️
And I love you and your content so much and to me you cannot do any wrong in my eyes.❤❤You share so much integrity and very spiritual. You deserve everything you have now and more the devil just doesn’t attack an empty house. Your work is to die for 👌🏾 Love and light mama ❤❤
Kay, I fell in love with you because you were authentic. You started with what you had and where you were. To watch your brand build, one brick at a time is why you’ll always be loved. Your base is authentic hence you’re influential. You’re the girl next door that made it to the top.
So proud you sis for taking the step of shaming the devil! Some of us genuinely love you and your content so much❤️ I’m so glad you not leaving UA-cam🥹🤍
You are sooo loved, you are sooo blessed, your vulnerability is sooo admirable also hurts that you have to open yourself this way because it’s come to that, but your vulnerability is truly admirable. Every single thing happens for reason, absolutely everything. There’s always a reason. “if he dresses the lilies, with beauty and splendor. How much more will he clothe(cover) you” you are covered with love Kay.
Exactly💯it's sad that she considered suicide 😢😢I really think that the gossip channels should be canceled, especially those who created absolute lies😢😢
You got them girl !!!!! YOU GOT THEM sis & YOU DEFINITELY SHAMED THEM....love the receipts towards the end !!! okkkrrrrr Said with so much grace,definitely a high-value women
Our brain is naturally wired to amplify the negative, well atleast that's what the scientists say , but I cannot over emphasize the positive impact you've had on me, especially learning how to love on myself and i hope that you know and remember that people are just projecting their hurt on you , you represent a part of themselves that wishes that things were great for them❤ I love you and Most importantly God loves you, I love that you're shaming the devil , there is nothing cute about being quiet and letting your name be tarnished, infact I appluad for speaking your truth😘
As I was watching this I had so much to say but there is nothing I could say that would comfort you more than Gods words can so let this verse rather speak for me. Numbers 6 vs 24-26.❤
Hey Kay. Thank you for sharing this, and being vulnerable and putting the enemy right where he belongs. I've been following you for quite some time now and your content is unmatched; impeccable to be honest! It has been such a pleasure watching you evolve into the lady that you are today. A few of my friends always ask me why I'm so drawn to your content given that I'm not particularly a make up person or too much into the fashion and beauty space and I've always said that it's because I see beyond Kay Yarms when I watch your videos. I see uKhethokuhle that I think I relate to. I'm glad you also mentioned the distinction between Kay Yarms the brand and Khethokuhle ❤. Lol it's funny how different we are and yet so similar in certain respects! Anyways, you are truly inspiring! Praying for God's covering over your life and your career and relationships. Praying that you ALWAYS remain in Him because truly we are nothing without Him. He's got your back too 🙂. And praying that God destroys whatever negative thoughts that the enemy has planted in your mind. Stay blessed sis. We love love you!
I don’t even know what to say, this video left me so emotional. I’m so sorry Kay. You really don’t deserve this, no one deserves this. We love you so much mama. It’s sad to even say this but then that’s life. I’m so sorry mama 😢🥺
People tend to be too comfortable and start to put influencial ppl in a box and that's not on It's high time you spoke up about these things Kay super proud of you for this ❤❤❤ Love and light to you 🌸🌸🌸
Sometimes you just need to put a stop to all the bull**** that people say and put you through. I am so sorry for everything babe, keep speaking your truth and don't let anyone or the notion that you're a public figure stop you❤️❤️
This is so heartbreaking to watch, that’s why I fear to put my self out there bc of how people tend to be so entitled over others, I like content creation so much but having to sit and explain myself like this will be so much to take in. I love u for this Kay …. It’s important to stand up for ourselves ❤love and light doll😊
Arg Kay, I love this so much. Thank you for standing up for yourself, long overdue my darling!! We’re proud of everything you’ve accomplished, you’re loved babe❤️❤️❤️
IM SO GLAD THAT YOU MADE THIS VIDEO N NOW THEY KNOW WHERE TO GET OFF.... PERSONAL YOU ARE MY INSPIRATION AND I LOVE LOVE EVERYTHING YOU DO ,EVERYTHING YOU TOUCH TURNS INTO GOLD N I ASPIRE TO BE AND TO DO THINGS LIKE THAT.... I LOVE YOU YOU KAY YARMS MAY GOD KEEP ON BLESSING YOU ABUNDANTLY YOUR WORK SPEAKS FOR ITSELF N YOU THE MOST KINDEST PERSON I KNOW ❤❤❤❤❤❤...
Hi Kay🌸 Honestly, I hope you never have to speak on your personal life again because who the hell are we?? The vile things on the internet right now are crazy and no one deserves to see or hear things like that about themselves. Anyway, you’re doing great professionally mama and that’s all you really owe anyone that is rooting for you. I wish you love and light🌸❤️
Creators need to stop keeping quite and pretending like they are immune to pain on public platforms.If anything bad happens don’t feel the need to blind side your feelings and come on social media posting happy posts cause for us as your fans we start questioning and believing everything we read.I hope you’re doing fine and I am proud of you for standing up for yourself,and addressing a whole lot of issues especially the Naledi and Mbali one.
You will know them by their fruits. God operates in love, light & truth. Main character syndrome and walking with our noses up ,always being the victim will end us! I pray healing on everyone.
Thank you for this, people are accustomed to you keeping quiet, something has to give. You are destined for greatness, don't let them stop you!!! They are also not perfect, no one is!!
🤍my little sister once said this to my mom “don’t let the world change your good heart,dont be a bad person for the world because those who know your heart will forever remember it” and some of us really love you Kay and we know you have the goldest heart filled with love, we also know you are human and make mistakes🤍dont let the bad people change who you are darling🥺God loves you and so does some of us🤍
I’m glad you addressed all the “shame” at your time and your way. I hope you find comfort and peace in creating content again. It’s saddening that your passion has turned into something that scares you. ❤
I wish all parties in situations would learn to be accountable. You will find that they are always the victim in ALL situations they get into. Never accountable, they never speak on the role they play.
You are such a lady Kay!😍 I love how you take care of you and how you hold yourself with so much grace🥰 Love it for you, I'm definitely influenced to do the same to myself at all times💗
It's sad to see someone go through such a painful phase. As for having to prove 😞 Praying for love and light in your life. May God give you comfort. The toughest battles are for the biggest hunns. Stay gorgeous hunnay❤
You, Mihlali Ndamase and Snikiwe Mhlongo make me so proud. You are bold and unapologetically stand up for yourself in assertion of your boundaries. Never even for once allow to be shamed. Someone once said "you teach people how to treat you" - never shy from teaching us (your audience) and anyone else in your lives who tries to shame you. Stay strong and courageous.
"I am the biggest vlogger in the country ". Thank you for owning that in a world that encourages timidity in the name of being humble . It's true you are🥰
Yep!❤
Yeah she’s the best ❤
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When did Miss Xo die?
@@tshegofatsomabena6294I love Xoli neh but please let's not even start comparing! Kay Yarms is not just a preference for many but literally the best .
"I DON'T WANT TO BE LIKED AT THE COST OF BEING QUIET" ❤️🥵that's so powerful Kay. You spoke for all people that struggle with standing up for themselves.
Truely ❤️❤️
Bonang once said.."They have to talk about you cause when they talk about themselves nobody listens"....you are the Blueprint, you are everything they wish they were...thank you for standing up for yourself and taking your power back . There are many people that love you Kay.. focus on that. Let your work speak for you as its been doing. Continue to do you. Love whoever that you want to love, be with whoever that you want to be . Live your life ke my dhiye..😘😘💞
Well said❤
I can’t imagine how much strength it took for you to actually get up and decide to share your heart out , thank you for standing up for yourself. ❤️
I have followed you from the days you started growing your Kay Yarms brand, from when you started doing make up and I have always been clapping for you because you gave us one thing most influencers lack AUTHENTICITY. We got to watch ypu morph fully into who and what you are( even though we do not know you on a personal level), for some of us you gave us nothing but healing and wisdom on days we struggled to find a sense of living and self. You have continuously made sure that you are a brand that encourages women to pride themselves in who and what they are not just beauty wise but in relationship with God too. I am so glad you are not allowing yourself to be silenced anymore, that you are finally developing a voice and putting things into PERSPECTIVE for people who do not understand YOUR BRAND(EMPHASIS ON THE YOUR!!!!!). Please SHINE BRIGHTER, KEEP BEING WHO YOU ARE .... KEEP BEING AS AMAZING AND AUTHENTIC AS YOU ARE!❤❤❤❤❤❤
“I am the biggest vlogger in the country” YEBOOOOO🕺🏽🥂I’ve been PREACHING this for monthssssss
Ma'am if I'd tell you the impact you have brought in my life ever since I started consuming your content 🥺! Please keep your head up kay, we absolutely love and adore you 🌹
i think youtube is the safest space than other social media platforms, saying that because on youtube , you choose to show us what you show us , we see what you choose to show us . Other social media platforms are so toxic and full of hate in my pov. But man i hope you know how much we love you and we love seeing a black young woman do everything for herself, love and light .💗💗💗💗
From me to you: Job 22;28 "you will succeed in whatever you choose to do, and light will shine on the road ahead of you". The Lord you serve will never let you down and that's why you are always standing and achieving so many things from all your hard work. Kay you are blessed, you are a QUEEN, you do great things for yourself, and people hate to see that. You are a good person (a person who has watched all your vlogs and life updates, they will know this because that's the brand that all your videos carry) and that's why you will always enjoy the fruits of your seeds. as I have said before, I will always be your supporter. Stay blessed.
Eyy! 🙌🏼
It breaks my heart that you had to even explain yourself, people can be so cruel! 💔
Sending you love and light ✨🙏🏾
Yoh bruv, as a day 1, I'm so glad you're standing up for yourself 👏🏾 you're genuinely a beautiful soul and people envy that about you... I wish you strength, peace and light 🙏🏾❤️
Super Proud of you !!! I’m gonna thank YOU for standing up for Kay Yarms!!!
I love this unapologetic side of you, you've been through enough. Standup for yourself hun😘❤️
I feel like for most of us that subscribed to tour content is because we fell in love with how much you were soo in love with yourself and how much effort you put in your craft. The fact that those negative comment have affected the good Kay yarms we know hurts... And l happy you're choosing to address that because thina sizodlala sikusupporter nomatter what because wena uzohlala ungu Kay yarms wethu ozisebenzelayo 😂❤ and lm happy l get to see that... And other people will some day get that
You could have went on about your rant without mentioning names. That's where you went wrong. Now, you have created unnecessary drama for yourself
You’re right. I shouldn’t have mentioned names. I should’ve thought further.
I wanted to cry watching this, I recently followed her on this app after tik tok and now I can loudly say I'm such a fan. Bless your heart Kethokuhle you carry so much grace and power within you. THE DEVIL CAN NEVER WIN !!!!
Kay is literally saying all things I wish I did (empilweni yam). Standing up for myself, disassociating myself and being in my forever yena era 🥺❤️
I’m so sorry mama ❤ I know it’s hard to let the positive outshine the negative. Just know those causing you misery are definitely not those who are fond of you and your work❤ bitter people will always find a way to bring others down to their level and I hope and pray that you pay them no mind and keep leaning on the positive and the love ❤ I can’t begin to tell you how much hope & love you’ve given me from your creative expression. I’m so grateful for you letting me into your life to see the bits and pieces 🫂
The make-up came out perfectly. So happy that you launching your dream project. I'm proud of the bold and God fearing lady you are. At the end of the day creators are also human❤
No one should be shamed about their reaction to a situation that made them upset, it's how you felt at that moment wether it be good or bad, it shouldn't be invalidated and it shouldn't be used to judge your overall character.
I hope God forever grants you the strength and courage to move pass all the negativity ❤ and yes you are in control, you control the narrative because it's your life therefore your story , you tell it not random people from that blue app 💞
14:53 no girl, it's not the same people. The people that love you are not the same people spewing hate. We definitely don't expect perfection of you and I think that's what your real subscribers love the most about you - your relatability, vulnerability, realness and then your success and ability to bring your dreams to life. ❤❤❤ Proud of you too. This is only the beginning
This is so beautiful🫶🏻🥺. I love how you addressed everything so calmly and so boldly, you’re amazing❤️. So much positivity wow👏
We had a conversation with some ladies a few weeks ago about how influencers and celebrities have it the harderst, people hide behind their phone and say the most hurtful things. As I'm listening to you, you sound so hurt but I love that you have a strong relationship with God. ❤
I refused to click on this video for the past few weeks because I'm deliberate about separating myself from negativity & drama. Decided to watch today and what I came across is an assertive, self-aware force to be reckoned with. I am so proud of your growth, for owning your story and for always running back to God. May He forever send his angels to watch over you, even in the midst of vile humans who are unknowingly pledging allegiance to be a device of the enemy. I tap into the anointing that is on your life and I marvel at how God shows off with you. Thank you for being a beacon of hope & possibility. I love you so so much, Khetho. 💕
I’m such a Kay Yarms girlie! and I can only imagine how much strength it took for you to not only decide you need to film this video but to reach to a point where you share it. 🥺 Firstly thank you for sharing how Khethokuhle feels, because there is no Kay Yarms without Khethokuhle. I despise the hatred that’s being spewed at Kay Yarms because AGAIN, Khethokuhle becomes collateral damage in the midst of it all. Troll’s and these self appointed ‘God’s and Juries’ of the internet towards creatives who just trying to put bread and butter on the table is appalling, taking to note that it’s through their passion which is by the way the most liberating thing to do as a black women in South Africa in this day. The psychological and emotional impact is so severe, the scrutiny is so damaging. Not only to them but their personal lives and relations too, it hurts when y’all need to make the disclaimer “Fine I get that a part of it comes with being a public figure” NO! What happened to KNOWING YOUR BOUNDARIES. The entitlement towards your lives that people on the socials have crowned themselves with is a huge problem…
shame Kay, it’s so inspiring to see you keep your head up even when people try and drag you through the mud. You literally make me want to just keep moving forward in spite of what’s happening in my life. You’re so beautiful inside & out and I pray you never lose your fighting spirit 🤍
OMG, so sorry about everything. You absolutely amazing, never forget that. Sending you so much love ❤
Iam glad that in all this … darlings know where you come from and we’re lucky to have seen you grow right in front of our us. We working hard because you work hard. You’ve set an example of how good it is to just work hard. You inspire me (us) darlings to work hard . For people that are in the same space of beauty, you have really inspired us to just work hard because we know the results of someone that’s put their all in into something. I love you.
This was absolutely necessary because people have become too much.
I feel most of the hate stems from jealousy, their own insecurities and how miserable their own lives are.
You do you Kay, let no one but God and yourself dictate the life you get to live. Take care ❤
People are disrespectful and I love her standing up for herself. I absolutely hate this narrative that women cant be happy in relationships. Just because a lot of us have been hurt by guys doesnt mean there arent faithful guys out there. Let's just stop it.
The same people saying we are quick to throw away Bffs, over man are the same people who wont stand up for us when we go through crap.
You are such a gentle and calm person, you deserve to be at peace and be surrounded by those who cherish and love you, which are your true Kay Yarms subscribers who respect your boundaries and support you through this beautiful journey. You deserve love mama, keep shining! 🥹 we will be here cheering you on
Shed a tear listing to this😢you are an amazing human being, this season will pass, you are stronger than you think more especially being able to handle all that has happened over the years 👏🏻👏🏻 as much as it was difficult but you made it, you did it, and you served us, tears and all we are proud of you... Yeeessss wena Kay Yarms😁
One thing i love about Kay is,when she speaks her truth she doesn't shake.She owns her truth and thus on prrr. Bona girl we love you and we don't care what this gossip channels say about you.The makeup is on point.I actually loved the first lip combo more,please plug us.What did you use?
So proud of you for standing up for yourself ❤️
You didn't have to drag our fave naledi in this.Its so distasteful.Anyways do you
Proud of you baby ! ❤️ you are doing super well and you really speak to the wholesome, grounded huns. Don’t let trolls who are projecting their insecurities stop you ❤️ people are damn evil
“Not a single person can get in the way of Gods plan for your life” ❤
I'm so Happy that you did this diary session...people need to know where to fucken draw the line.......love you kay❤❤❤
Keep thriving and shinning mama👑👑
I’m so sorry that you felt you had to explain yourself when it was well within your right to just live life. You are so filled with grace and class, some things are really just beneath you. We love you and can’t wait to see you flourish beyond what you have and even beyond what your mind could even Fathom.
I'm so happy that you chose or choosing not to leave UA-cam because honestly some of us are here to learn and we are learning a lot from you. To some of us you are a Blessing and God chose you for this platform for a reason, I don't know how to explain this but I'm grateful that I came across your channel and I have learnt a lot from you. NOBODY IS PERFECT. You are right no job is easy, oh the 9-5s girl they are hell I tell you, it's just that it's not happening in public. Never let people destroy what God has Blessed you with. I like that you are a praying woman. I love you sweetheart ❤ Stay Blessed.
"NOT A SINGLE PERSON CAN GET IN THE WAY OF GOD'S PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE" ❤ YESSS !! LOVE YOU KAY
I am so sorry Kay! Thank you for trusting God the way that you do. He's got you, always❤
You are doing well Kay and yes you are right, not everyone here is out to get you. You do have a community that loves you and understands that no one is perfect and I am one of those people. I love and appreciate your work and what you share with us. Keep shining
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This breaks my heart, at the same time I’m so proud of you for reaching this stage. You deserve to own your space and never to apologise for what you’ve accomplished. No one watches you closer than your haters, the best thing you can do for yourself is to monetize their interest. Please leave this up and never explain yourself to anyone who doesn’t deserve your attention again. Love and light 🫶🏽🕯️
We love you so much here on UA-cam, you’ve always inspired us ❤❤
19 minutes nor yet finished the video so far I love what I am hearing from your lips of positive vibes through everything. I cling for positive attitude until I die. Keep doing that sisi the world is cruel and one person who might love you more than you is God. Thank you for standing up for yourself. WE LOVE YOU ❤️
😭I feel so bad cause I don’t know about all the people in this video apart from Kay and her man cause I started following last year . But I’m proud that you standing your ground and we (I) will keep on supporting whatever you do ❤️
“ my man , my man , my man , my man “ yes Kay. Super proud of you. You inspire me so much. Thank you for standing up for yourself. This did something to me. Bless up. 🙏🏾🌹❤️🔥
love that you cleared the air. also, a lot of us come here for the sole purpose of consuming the content you create, forget the nitpicking trolls. its never about you babes! we love you and absolutely adore your content! ❤
I'm super proud of you for standing up for yourself ❤❤❤❤ Keep doing you 🥺
an updated makeup tutorial is what i’ve been waiting for. loved the look so much 😍
This video reminds me of how Jackie Aina would never allow anybody to silence her. Baby girl would address the trolls n hate on her videos, confidently so.
I love this for you mama. Stay strong ❤
Oh Kay, i'm so glad you have finally stood up for yourself. YOU are the biggest vlogger in SA PERIODT. we love you, stay shining girl. cant wait to see what Saxx Beauty has in store for us.❤❤️
We are soo proud of you Kay❤️
Sending hugs! You are genuinely loved 🥺❤️
At the end of the day, we’re with you, supporting you, loving you. My mom once said people will talk till the day you die, so we should focus on the laughter, the wins, the everything good. Yes it’s painful and I don’t know how I could do it, but you’re doing well, you’re winning this race. Just like how you started strong, move strong and finish strong.❤❤ People are mean, even God at some detested them, and that’s His own creation. And yes shame the devil, he knows he’ll never win.
I found healing through you and I wish that paying it forward is awarded to you fully for the impact you’ve already made ❤
I DID THAT 🥹🥹🥹🥹That “I DID THAT”I felt it 😢❤🙏Babygirl always do you🙏more blessings and blessings and blessings 🕯
You have no idea how much of an impact you’ve had on my life Kay. I’ve been watching since the very first video. Keep your head up and keep going mama ❤️🥺
Thank you for shaming the devil and standing up for yourself. You've not only offloaded what you had to buy you opened up doors for people like me who've always known standing up for myself means drama and giving away my power. Thank you so much for this, may God continue to bless you, keep you and guide you. Love you so much ❤️❤️❤️😭
so proud of you for speaking up, you deserve to love and be loved and your man makes you happy people should mind their own business
We love you ❤️, and thank you for standing up for yourself, THIS IS YOU TAKING YOUR POWER BACK May the grace of God continue to Cover you 🙏🏾❤
We love you mama, thank you for being so authentic ❤
Love you long time bestie. ❤ And I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself as Khethokuhle and for your brand as Kay Yarms. You are doing so well and we love to see it. Trolls will always be trolls but it’s only because they hate seeing you do so great for yourself. It’s a pain in the *ss. It’s really so heartbreaking to see how someone’s success pains so many people like why ?? but for better or worse? You have been chosen! The crown has landed on your head! 👑And you are One of the Best Content Creators in the Country!!! LET IT BE KNOWN!!! ❤️
And I love you and your content so much and to me you cannot do any wrong in my eyes.❤❤You share so much integrity and very spiritual.
You deserve everything you have now and more the devil just doesn’t attack an empty house.
Your work is to die for 👌🏾
Love and light mama ❤❤
Kay, I fell in love with you because you were authentic. You started with what you had and where you were. To watch your brand build, one brick at a time is why you’ll always be loved. Your base is authentic hence you’re influential. You’re the girl next door that made it to the top.
We love you mama ❤
off topic: Your foundation loooks so good!😍
So proud you sis for taking the step of shaming the devil! Some of us genuinely love you and your content so much❤️ I’m so glad you not leaving UA-cam🥹🤍
You are sooo loved, you are sooo blessed, your vulnerability is sooo admirable also hurts that you have to open yourself this way because it’s come to that, but your vulnerability is truly admirable. Every single thing happens for reason, absolutely everything. There’s always a reason. “if he dresses the lilies, with beauty and splendor. How much more will he clothe(cover) you” you are covered with love Kay.
You are strong
You are wise
You are important
You are a big deal ,I am older than you are and yet you inspire me❤
Exactly💯it's sad that she considered suicide 😢😢I really think that the gossip channels should be canceled, especially those who created absolute lies😢😢
You got them girl !!!!! YOU GOT THEM sis & YOU DEFINITELY SHAMED THEM....love the receipts towards the end !!! okkkrrrrr
Said with so much grace,definitely a high-value women
Girl I’m so proud of you ❤️, honestly I am.
Love and Light Kay.
Have not watched the video yet but seeing the notification and seeing this girl just makes my heart warm... Love you Kay Yarms Darrrlin♥️
Our brain is naturally wired to amplify the negative, well atleast that's what the scientists say , but I cannot over emphasize the positive impact you've had on me, especially learning how to love on myself and i hope that you know and remember that people are just projecting their hurt on you , you represent a part of themselves that wishes that things were great for them❤ I love you and Most importantly God loves you, I love that you're shaming the devil , there is nothing cute about being quiet and letting your name be tarnished, infact I appluad for speaking your truth😘
As I was watching this I had so much to say but there is nothing I could say that would comfort you more than Gods words can so let this verse rather speak for me. Numbers 6 vs 24-26.❤
Hey Kay. Thank you for sharing this, and being vulnerable and putting the enemy right where he belongs. I've been following you for quite some time now and your content is unmatched; impeccable to be honest! It has been such a pleasure watching you evolve into the lady that you are today. A few of my friends always ask me why I'm so drawn to your content given that I'm not particularly a make up person or too much into the fashion and beauty space and I've always said that it's because I see beyond Kay Yarms when I watch your videos. I see uKhethokuhle that I think I relate to. I'm glad you also mentioned the distinction between Kay Yarms the brand and Khethokuhle ❤. Lol it's funny how different we are and yet so similar in certain respects! Anyways, you are truly inspiring! Praying for God's covering over your life and your career and relationships. Praying that you ALWAYS remain in Him because truly we are nothing without Him. He's got your back too 🙂. And praying that God destroys whatever negative thoughts that the enemy has planted in your mind. Stay blessed sis. We love love you!
I don’t even know what to say, this video left me so emotional. I’m so sorry Kay. You really don’t deserve this, no one deserves this. We love you so much mama. It’s sad to even say this but then that’s life. I’m so sorry mama 😢🥺
People tend to be too comfortable and start to put influencial ppl in a box and that's not on
It's high time you spoke up about these things Kay super proud of you for this ❤❤❤
Love and light to you 🌸🌸🌸
All will be well Kay 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I am so sorry you have to go through all this man!
Sometimes you just need to put a stop to all the bull**** that people say and put you through. I am so sorry for everything babe, keep speaking your truth and don't let anyone or the notion that you're a public figure stop you❤️❤️
This is so heartbreaking to watch, that’s why I fear to put my self out there bc of how people tend to be so entitled over others, I like content creation so much but having to sit and explain myself like this will be so much to take in. I love u for this Kay …. It’s important to stand up for ourselves ❤love and light doll😊
I feel this way too,I want to be in that space but I would not be able to handle things like these
Arg Kay, I love this so much. Thank you for standing up for yourself, long overdue my darling!!
We’re proud of everything you’ve accomplished, you’re loved babe❤️❤️❤️
Keep your circle of friends small. It gives you a chance to centre yourself, your goals, your worth and your Glow!
IM SO GLAD THAT YOU MADE THIS VIDEO N NOW THEY KNOW WHERE TO GET OFF....
PERSONAL YOU ARE MY INSPIRATION AND I LOVE LOVE EVERYTHING YOU DO ,EVERYTHING YOU TOUCH TURNS INTO GOLD N I ASPIRE TO BE AND TO DO THINGS LIKE THAT....
I LOVE YOU YOU KAY YARMS MAY GOD KEEP ON BLESSING YOU ABUNDANTLY YOUR WORK SPEAKS FOR ITSELF N YOU THE MOST KINDEST PERSON I KNOW ❤❤❤❤❤❤...
People need to cleanse their hearts, because there is no way talking bad about others is normal. Love, love , love the growth you have❤
Hi Kay🌸
Honestly, I hope you never have to speak on your personal life again because who the hell are we??
The vile things on the internet right now are crazy and no one deserves to see or hear things like that about themselves.
Anyway, you’re doing great professionally mama and that’s all you really owe anyone that is rooting for you.
I wish you love and light🌸❤️
Creators need to stop keeping quite and pretending like they are immune to pain on public platforms.If anything bad happens don’t feel the need to blind side your feelings and come on social media posting happy posts cause for us as your fans we start questioning and believing everything we read.I hope you’re doing fine and I am proud of you for standing up for yourself,and addressing a whole lot of issues especially the Naledi and Mbali one.
You will know them by their fruits. God operates in love, light & truth.
Main character syndrome and walking with our noses up ,always being the victim will end us!
I pray healing on everyone.
So keen for the Saxx launch mama, you’re doing amazing❤
Thank you for this, people are accustomed to you keeping quiet, something has to give. You are destined for greatness, don't let them stop you!!! They are also not perfect, no one is!!
🤍my little sister once said this to my mom “don’t let the world change your good heart,dont be a bad person for the world because those who know your heart will forever remember it” and some of us really love you Kay and we know you have the goldest heart filled with love, we also know you are human and make mistakes🤍dont let the bad people change who you are darling🥺God loves you and so does some of us🤍
People have no boundaries. Bayabhora abantu mani. Stay strong sisi❤
This has motivated me in sooo many levels!!! May God's blessings for you overflow in your life and family.
I’m glad you addressed all the “shame” at your time and your way. I hope you find comfort and peace in creating content again. It’s saddening that your passion has turned into something that scares you. ❤
I wish all parties in situations would learn to be accountable. You will find that they are always the victim in ALL situations they get into. Never accountable, they never speak on the role they play.
So excited for Saxx beauty ❤️❤️ you got this
You are such a lady Kay!😍 I love how you take care of you and how you hold yourself with so much grace🥰 Love it for you, I'm definitely influenced to do the same to myself at all times💗
It's sad to see someone go through such a painful phase. As for having to prove 😞
Praying for love and light in your life. May God give you comfort.
The toughest battles are for the biggest hunns.
Stay gorgeous hunnay❤
“I don’t want to be liked at the cost of being quite “👏🏾👏🏾
quiet*
@@YameSA 💀
Something great is about to happen in your life sis 🤞🏽start celebrating
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Oh what a beautiful comment ❤️❤️❤️