it's been a crazy week as I am losing my salon business of 4.5 years by the end of next week. it's been a rollercoaster ride but I think I'm mentally ready to move on from it because it's been a cage for me trying to pay a weekly rent of $750 a week and I am glad that burden is about to be over. I held on struggling because I was worried where my clients would get their services. but now I see they are flourishing why I am just trying to keep my head above water all these years. now I have created passive income that can pay my bills and I've outgrown being a hairdresser. I do have a lot of financial loss from it but I have to heal and give myself room to rest and get back to me. lately the salon business has been getting in the way of my other side hustles that are actually promising and I really want to give that the attention they deserve...
Very tired… I actually woke up from a nap and clicked on your video. I was about to try to do work and you made me realize that I actually will work better in the morning. I’m going to go get that rest I need. I love u!!
*Sometimes when you are in a dark place, you think that you are buried but you have actually been planted...* If you are going through that hard time, *just know that I am cheering for you...* 🖤
We have been conditioned to ignore our spiritual selves in order to serve, to show up and be productive in an uncaring system and the backlash is really being felt today as we speak. Our collective conciousness as a generation are coming to terms that we have literally been lied to, put in a very unfair situation curated by people who walked before us, and are expected to just accept and compromise. We have to bear the burden of unlearning all the nonsense we have been taught while trying to navigate an inadequate system designed to swallow you and spit you out. Life is so much more simple than we think, it's like you said, there's good times and bad times, both are required for us to grow and to relay that information to the next person.
bingo. I took a year to live with my parents while i study to get into IT and i became depressed since i was not working. Like "dead beat. parasite. You should be out there being a productive member of society!" i wasn't playing video games and getting fat, but these thoughts of needing to grind and work kept popping up. like i was conditioned not working every day is evil
I've come to understand these days as like the body's last attempt to get myself to slow down and take care of myself, its usually fatigue or I "forgot to eat," too often in one week... "bad days" are just days where I need to reflect on how bad I've been treating myself.
It's you talking about off days on one of my off days for me 😩The duality of life is beautiful when you get the hang of it. There's no good without bad. Life isn't linear and that's okay. I appreciate your depth and insights on meaningful topics, Lynette!🥺
you're my safe space on youtube :) i totally feel that being inconsistent can make you feel blegh, because like you said it's a way to express yourself and move the blockages away. i'm struggling with finding myself and what kinds of content i want to make. i think the fear of not knowing what to produce also keeps me stagnant. but i like your dog analogy, can't keep running forever!
I'm so glad the vids resonate with you! I totally understand that feeling, I definitely felt the same way for the first few years I was making content. Have fun with it and enjoy this part of the journey! Wishing you the best!💕
Adrienne houghton recently said something she learned in her 20s was to “prepare to pivot”. Changed my perspective. Life is unexpected, ups and downs . But like you said, the sooner you learn to accept the lows and view them as learning experiences the more you can use them as tools to propel you. Prepare to pivot.
Thank you for this video…I believe this is something that needs to be talked about so much more. With this movement towards enlightenment, I feel so many people think we have to be positive and always “on”, but that’s so far from the truth. It’s to become self aware and find peace within ourselves for who we truly are, NOT becoming a perfect zen robot. There will always be ups and downs highs and lows within life and within ourselves, but that’s all apart of the journey.
It's really just a season! I had to take a step back and think about the last time I was down for an extended period and I always figured it out and came back. I think I gave myself more grace then because I was younger and I forgave myself for not knowing what I didn't know as a factor of age. To think that because I'm older now and I haven't figured things out enough to not even have to reach those lows again is adding more stress. Accepting that growth hurts and that's ok! 🙏🏾
Came to me in the Universe's perfect timing, it has been a tough month for me and things are starting to get better. I feel much better knowing that I got through those times + retrograde is over.
Yup i totally realized this too recently, Growth doesn't come easy and it definitely isnt always sexy! Still, we keep at it because it does eventually get better.
Girl, I keep saying again how you read my mind!! I yesterday just did a brain dump saying how slow life has become recently. On one hand things are moving when I take a step back and look, but looking at everyday level, everything feels same but I guess you can’t fast forward life. You have to live through it, savour it, do little things that make you happy and take small little consistent steps to you goals! I feel like this comment is also me reminding myself about this because trust me, I do too forget about it sometimes!!
Ok we stayyy on the same page lol! But yes I needed this reminder to bc it really is about baby steps and celebrating small wins. Life is always moving at the pace it needs to❤️
I’ve definitely been going through it for the past month or so! Haven’t really been feeling like myself lately so thank you so much for sharing this 🙏🏾
I really wish someone told me that growth was uncomfortable when I started rethinking some aspects of life. Growth is difficult and a long journey. I’m taking my time rethinking some things that I’ve been taught in life. Love you so much Lynette! ❤️ I really enjoy your content and I really wanna make content like yours. p.s. You look fine love. 😂
I don't have friends right now. Just one good one and relatives. But before I start making friends again, I intend for them to be like my best youtubers. Extremely relatable and valuable. Not only where they provide me with good info and support, but I do the same for them. Thanks for sharing Lynette!
yes this is so true im 6 months into my transitional stage and even though its a pretty dark place that im in of unlearning everything I've ever thought and believed and trying to figure out what I want to be I know there Is only balance and I know that if you hit rock bottom the only other way is up and believe me I hit a hardddd rock bottom
I need that break to just be, heal, and be with myself. Literally what I've been telling myself, but I'm afraid to express that due to being misunderstood. I hate being misunderstood.
Saturn went retrograde in may and just went back direct a few days ago. Hopefully that was another weight lifted from not feeling driven or your best. Lessons of growth. 🤞🏽❤️… love your content 🙌🏽
Wow that part about needing to have conflict not only in relationships but also with yourself blew my mind, never thought of it that way. Been going through it for the past few months and your perspective really helped!
Lynette. Wow. I'm you are truly a vessel of wisdom. An empathetic soul. I'm not to prideful to learn from someone younger. I'm watching this again to take notes.. What you said on fear? My God. Powerful. I have a fear that may be silly to many but I just faced it over the weekend. Long story short. Creating videos and being seen has been my fear. Watching myself. Facing myself. Someone asked me to be on their you tube show and it was uncomfortable but I knew I had to do it. It's calling me for some time I have all of this talent and I can't keep hiding it by playing the background. Time to step into the light. I see the dog. I'm looking at it and dealing with why it's been an issue. Hey, I did it though. No turning back.
holy moly - i was feeling down about feeling dumb at work and then I was like lynette vids will cheer me up - lol and then this is the video title !!! #blessed lol
I had really bad feelings these days and when your video’s notification comes on my cellphone, I told God, I want this video being one sign for me and God please talk to me.... and this video opened...🔮 And it was really really inspiring for this moments of mine and I appreciate it... it was like a miracle for me ...🧚🏼♀️👼🏻
Hi Lynette! I love this video, on my 'off' days where I'm not feeling my best I notice that sleep, prioritization, and a good laugh help me the best. When we're constantly going, we need time for our actions to marinate into life as patterns or completed steps. If we never take a breath to catch up with ourselves we will miss the beauty of what is already beginning to bloom within us. Sometimes flowers are closed focused on pulling water up their stems and sometimes they're open and pretty lol idk but thats my quote for the day
There would be no ups without lows 🙏🏻 we need to embrace all emotions - good and bad. Everything can an opportunity for a lesson, you just need to be open to receive
I am so genuinely grateful for your videos. They always help me deal with the emotions i am feeling and give me a fresh perspective of my situation. Thank you so much for what you do Lynn x
🥺 i just found your channel and i’m binging your videos! i love your energy and you are so relatable!! i just quit my 9-5 to follow my dreams and you’re exactly the voice i needed to hear during this moment of transformation. thank you 🦋
Full Moon tonight for those looking to let go of past feelings or people & manifest greater things. Let’s welcome new blessings, enter into our new chapter, and forgive ourselves & others in order to move forward🙏🏾
Well stated vlog Lynette. Most of what you covered in this narrative is what is termed life. Metaphorically speaking, we all have something "breaking out." We are not our skin, nor our eyelashes, or fingernails. I feel that most of your viewers like you because just you being you. Failure is not Failure unless one just quits. Setbacks are simply an integral part of success .
I love your message and thoughtful content. ❤️ BUT after an exhausting day I had to take a shot every time you said "right" lol. however, please keep up the good content. you're such a nice fresh breeze here beside all the clickbait bs content
I really love your videos, your so relatable. You stand out from a lot of other UA-cam channels because of your authenticity. I can sit through your videos without skipping a second. Keep it up girl! I know your going to continue to grow!
Needed to see this cause I’ve been procrastinating on publishing and writing my books and fulfilling my dreams as an author n creating a brand because of fear. Thank you so much!
Lynette you're extremely insightful! Thank you for always sharing ❤ I read the pilgrimage a couple of months ago by Paulo Coelho and he also references fear as a dog. It's an interesting read. Thanks again 🥰
Great video! Is it weird to say it’s felt good to feel the negative things lately? The time periods that feel a little darker than others are also necessary and I appreciate the experience
Thank you, cant wait for the next video! All the advice you give is so uplifting and encouraging.. and I'm trying to unlearn a lot of things and be more aware of myself, especially when I wake up every morning with anxiety 🥰
I can’t wait to watch your new video 💕 I clicked on it right away. you are such a big inspiration to me. thank you for all the wisdom you share each week. I appreciate you!
How is everyone feeling this week? ❤️
it's been a crazy week as I am losing my salon business of 4.5 years by the end of next week. it's been a rollercoaster ride but I think I'm mentally ready to move on from it because it's been a cage for me trying to pay a weekly rent of $750 a week and I am glad that burden is about to be over. I held on struggling because I was worried where my clients would get their services. but now I see they are flourishing why I am just trying to keep my head above water all these years. now I have created passive income that can pay my bills and I've outgrown being a hairdresser. I do have a lot of financial loss from it but I have to heal and give myself room to rest and get back to me. lately the salon business has been getting in the way of my other side hustles that are actually promising and I really want to give that the attention they deserve...
I needed to receive this. Gratitude sis 💜✨
On a emotional roller coaster in regards to finding balance.
Great. It’s always good to see your pretty face spit knowledge. Women are brilliant, too.
Very tired… I actually woke up from a nap and clicked on your video. I was about to try to do work and you made me realize that I actually will work better in the morning. I’m going to go get that rest I need. I love u!!
I have been learning to let myself be. I don't worry about anything, I don't stress about anything, I don't rush anything, I just let myself be.
This is importanttt
I need to learn this🥺
@@briannacassandra8707 just be patient with yourself.
@@briannacassandra8707 me too....I need this so bad
@@briannacassandra8707 me to girl
*Sometimes when you are in a dark place, you think that you are buried but you have actually been planted...*
If you are going through that hard time, *just know that I am cheering for you...* 🖤
We have been conditioned to ignore our spiritual selves in order to serve, to show up and be productive in an uncaring system and the backlash is really being felt today as we speak. Our collective conciousness as a generation are coming to terms that we have literally been lied to, put in a very unfair situation curated by people who walked before us, and are expected to just accept and compromise. We have to bear the burden of unlearning all the nonsense we have been taught while trying to navigate an inadequate system designed to swallow you and spit you out. Life is so much more simple than we think, it's like you said, there's good times and bad times, both are required for us to grow and to relay that information to the next person.
Could not have said it better
This!! We are really all being called to go inward and it gives me hope that things will change
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bingo. I took a year to live with my parents while i study to get into IT and i became depressed since i was not working. Like "dead beat. parasite. You should be out there being a productive member of society!" i wasn't playing video games and getting fat, but these thoughts of needing to grind and work kept popping up. like i was conditioned not working every day is evil
Growth is so uncomfortable! We are creatures of habit and do not like big changes but it's so worth it!
I've come to understand these days as like the body's last attempt to get myself to slow down and take care of myself, its usually fatigue or I "forgot to eat," too often in one week... "bad days" are just days where I need to reflect on how bad I've been treating myself.
*”However difficult life may seem, there is always something you can do and succeed at.” - Stephen Hawking*
Thank you, I needed to hear this message.
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I really appreciate when you consider its a privilege to be mindful because that awareness is so important to differentiate to me.
Yeah I think a lot of ppl who talk about spirituality online fail to recognize that and it bugs me
It's you talking about off days on one of my off days for me 😩The duality of life is beautiful when you get the hang of it. There's no good without bad. Life isn't linear and that's okay. I appreciate your depth and insights on meaningful topics, Lynette!🥺
I'm so glad this message came at the right time and hope you're enjoying your down time!!❤️
This is philosophy . I don’t know if u know that but it was a really good talk about perception and the reality of all of our lives . Thanks !
you're my safe space on youtube :) i totally feel that being inconsistent can make you feel blegh, because like you said it's a way to express yourself and move the blockages away. i'm struggling with finding myself and what kinds of content i want to make. i think the fear of not knowing what to produce also keeps me stagnant. but i like your dog analogy, can't keep running forever!
I'm so glad the vids resonate with you! I totally understand that feeling, I definitely felt the same way for the first few years I was making content. Have fun with it and enjoy this part of the journey! Wishing you the best!💕
*If you are reading this, never ever give up. We will succeed. I'm cheering for you!*
Have a great day! 🖤
Adrienne houghton recently said something she learned in her 20s was to “prepare to pivot”. Changed my perspective. Life is unexpected, ups and downs . But like you said, the sooner you learn to accept the lows and view them as learning experiences the more you can use them as tools to propel you. Prepare to pivot.
Thank you for this video…I believe this is something that needs to be talked about so much more. With this movement towards enlightenment, I feel so many people think we have to be positive and always “on”, but that’s so far from the truth. It’s to become self aware and find peace within ourselves for who we truly are, NOT becoming a perfect zen robot. There will always be ups and downs highs and lows within life and within ourselves, but that’s all apart of the journey.
Exactly!!
Great take! The more you try and fight those "down" moments, the longer they last and the harder they become to get out of them. Great video!!
It's really just a season! I had to take a step back and think about the last time I was down for an extended period and I always figured it out and came back. I think I gave myself more grace then because I was younger and I forgave myself for not knowing what I didn't know as a factor of age. To think that because I'm older now and I haven't figured things out enough to not even have to reach those lows again is adding more stress. Accepting that growth hurts and that's ok! 🙏🏾
Came to me in the Universe's perfect timing, it has been a tough month for me and things are starting to get better. I feel much better knowing that I got through those times + retrograde is over.
I'm so glad🥺❤️
Resting is so important, that is the only time we can hear our own voices 🌞
Just gotta go through the motions and believe that better days are coming 😅
Yup i totally realized this too recently, Growth doesn't come easy and it definitely isnt always sexy! Still, we keep at it because it does eventually get better.
Girl, I keep saying again how you read my mind!! I yesterday just did a brain dump saying how slow life has become recently. On one hand things are moving when I take a step back and look, but looking at everyday level, everything feels same but I guess you can’t fast forward life. You have to live through it, savour it, do little things that make you happy and take small little consistent steps to you goals! I feel like this comment is also me reminding myself about this because trust me, I do too forget about it sometimes!!
Ok we stayyy on the same page lol! But yes I needed this reminder to bc it really is about baby steps and celebrating small wins. Life is always moving at the pace it needs to❤️
You’re just everything we need. Literally.
I’ve definitely been going through it for the past month or so! Haven’t really been feeling like myself lately so thank you so much for sharing this 🙏🏾
I really wish someone told me that growth was uncomfortable when I started rethinking some aspects of life.
Growth is difficult and a long journey.
I’m taking my time rethinking some things that I’ve been taught in life.
Love you so much Lynette! ❤️ I really enjoy your content and I really wanna make content like yours.
p.s. You look fine love. 😂
I'm glad you are giving yourself time to go at the pace you need! Thank you so much for the support and sending love right back!!❤️
I don't have friends right now. Just one good one and relatives. But before I start making friends again, I intend for them to be like my best youtubers. Extremely relatable and valuable. Not only where they provide me with good info and support, but I do the same for them. Thanks for sharing Lynette!
this is beyond helpful my dear. maturity is a gift that I'll never trade for anything. thanks alot.
Thanks for your honesty and sincerity expressing the way you feel. It's very healing.
yes this is so true im 6 months into my transitional stage and even though its a pretty dark place that im in of unlearning everything I've ever thought and believed and trying to figure out what I want to be I know there Is only balance and I know that if you hit rock bottom the only other way is up and believe me I hit a hardddd rock bottom
When I was getting off birth control, my skin broke out soooooo badly. I definitely feel you! Thanks for sharing the not-so-great moments too!
I need that break to just be, heal, and be with myself. Literally what I've been telling myself, but I'm afraid to express that due to being misunderstood. I hate being misunderstood.
Saturn went retrograde in may and just went back direct a few days ago. Hopefully that was another weight lifted from not feeling driven or your best. Lessons of growth. 🤞🏽❤️… love your content 🙌🏽
Found this video right on time. Needed this reminder today. Thank you 🙏🏾
Wow that part about needing to have conflict not only in relationships but also with yourself blew my mind, never thought of it that way. Been going through it for the past few months and your perspective really helped!
It's so beautiful I relate with you so much now. I quit my career and have been enjoying the growth ❤️❤️🇵🇭
Omg congrats!!❤️
You should definitely go live sometime. That was a great talk ✨
I definitely want to soon!❤️
Lynette. Wow. I'm you are truly a vessel of wisdom. An empathetic soul. I'm not to prideful to learn from someone younger. I'm watching this again to take notes.. What you said on fear? My God. Powerful. I have a fear that may be silly to many but I just faced it over the weekend. Long story short. Creating videos and being seen has been my fear. Watching myself. Facing myself. Someone asked me to be on their you tube show and it was uncomfortable but I knew I had to do it. It's calling me for some time I have all of this talent and I can't keep hiding it by playing the background. Time to step into the light. I see the dog. I'm looking at it and dealing with why it's been an issue. Hey, I did it though. No turning back.
this is so true! retrograde is almost out of here so y’all stay up and stay present!
holy moly - i was feeling down about feeling dumb at work and then I was like lynette vids will cheer me up - lol and then this is the video title !!! #blessed lol
I absolutely ENJOY and LOVE ALL your videos. So realistic and relatable. God bless you♥️🙌🏽
I had really bad feelings these days and when your video’s notification comes on my cellphone, I told God, I want this video being one sign for me and God please talk to me.... and this video opened...🔮 And it was really really inspiring for this moments of mine and I appreciate it... it was like a miracle for me ...🧚🏼♀️👼🏻
This makes me so happy! Sending all my love❤️
You would be , are, a perfect therapist and motivational coach
Hi Lynette! I love this video, on my 'off' days where I'm not feeling my best I notice that sleep, prioritization, and a good laugh help me the best. When we're constantly going, we need time for our actions to marinate into life as patterns or completed steps. If we never take a breath to catch up with ourselves we will miss the beauty of what is already beginning to bloom within us.
Sometimes flowers are closed focused on pulling water up their stems and sometimes they're open and pretty lol idk but thats my quote for the day
lol I feel like I’m listening to myself! This is golden advice.
There would be no ups without lows 🙏🏻 we need to embrace all emotions - good and bad. Everything can an opportunity for a lesson, you just need to be open to receive
I am so genuinely grateful for your videos. They always help me deal with the emotions i am feeling and give me a fresh perspective of my situation.
Thank you so much for what you do Lynn x
YOU ARE SPEAKING!!! STRAIGHT GEMS💎💎
🥺 i just found your channel and i’m binging your videos! i love your energy and you are so relatable!! i just quit my 9-5 to follow my dreams and you’re exactly the voice i needed to hear during this moment of transformation. thank you 🦋
You provided a very good and valuable message for us all to try to remember when we are going through things. God bless you and thank you!❤️👌
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Full Moon tonight for those looking to let go of past feelings or people & manifest greater things. Let’s welcome new blessings, enter into our new chapter, and forgive ourselves & others in order to move forward🙏🏾
Yes❤️
Well stated vlog Lynette. Most of what you covered in this narrative is what is termed life. Metaphorically speaking, we all have something "breaking out." We are not our skin, nor our eyelashes, or fingernails. I feel that most of your viewers like you because just you being you.
Failure is not Failure unless one just quits. Setbacks are simply an integral part of success .
Loved this video, thanks Lynette!
For real its so hard to be present at my 9-5, can't wait to get out of it 😩
Girl, your content is thriving. Love it!
This was so helpful and shifted my mindest to a more positive space, thank you :) xx
Thank you so much for this video, I’ve been in a funk for a while. I love everything that you said.
I love your message and thoughtful content. ❤️
BUT after an exhausting day I had to take a shot every time you said "right" lol.
however, please keep up the good content. you're such a nice fresh breeze here beside all the clickbait bs content
I love your videos so much!!
I felt this deeply 😭
This is just what I needed right now 🤍 thank you
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I really love your videos, your so relatable. You stand out from a lot of other UA-cam channels because of your authenticity. I can sit through your videos without skipping a second. Keep it up girl! I know your going to continue to grow!
Yes. Everything you said yes. Thanks for bringing me back to reality ❤️
This video just popped up when I needed it
I'm so glad❤️
This is so on time 😭😭😭 love this about you
I'm so glad❤️
I've just came across your channel about a month ago. Thanks for your honesty in your videos, it's inspiring.
Your hair is growing so much !
Needed to see this cause I’ve been procrastinating on publishing and writing my books and fulfilling my dreams as an author n creating a brand because of fear. Thank you so much!
I needed this today. Thank you ❤
Right on muh effin time. Thank u!!!
Love your videos, always giving me a better perspective on life!!! Keep it up !!!
you are absolutely right
I feel so seen right now. Thank you.
❤️🥺
Thank you 🙏🏾 💚
I swear you can read my mind😭😭
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Lynette you're extremely insightful! Thank you for always sharing ❤ I read the pilgrimage a couple of months ago by Paulo Coelho and he also references fear as a dog. It's an interesting read. Thanks again 🥰
Thanks so much 💙 I love starting my day with your vids
I really enjoy you and your content. Very refreshing 💕
I relate to you so much. I was itching to make a video this week! Couldn’t do it so I pulled some old content to post. Thanks for sharing
Thank you for posting! I genuinely look forward to your videos 💕💕
This helped so so so much thank you!
This definitely came right on time. Thanks for making this video ❤️
I appreciate you and what you do
Needed to hear this thank you so much ✨
🤍💜 thank you for your content
Wonderful video!!!!!! very well explained
Thank you for this I needed to hear this ❤️❤️
Great message and SO specifically needed for me at this time! Thanks life saver ;-)
Thank you Lynette 🙏🏾 this came at the right time for me!
Just love that you're so transparent every time!🙌
Your videos are really helpful!Thank you!
Thank you so much for the much needed wisdom! I appreciate it so much. 🥺❤️
Thank you girl 🥰❤️
so good! thank you!
Great video! Is it weird to say it’s felt good to feel the negative things lately? The time periods that feel a little darker than others are also necessary and I appreciate the experience
Definitely not weird it's honestly a sign of growth I think to be able to sit and appreciate those times!
I really enjoyed of you speech and your energy and your soul vibes ...
Thank you!
The title! Thank you! 🤎
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Thank you, cant wait for the next video! All the advice you give is so uplifting and encouraging.. and I'm trying to unlearn a lot of things and be more aware of myself, especially when I wake up every morning with anxiety 🥰
I can’t wait to watch your new video 💕 I clicked on it right away. you are such a big inspiration to me. thank you for all the wisdom you share each week. I appreciate you!
Thank you so much for the constant support!!❤️
Thanks this was helpful
What a great word✨ needed to hear this fr✨🤝
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Thank you 🙏