I love this open discussion. It helps the kids to heal 😢 because ni muimu sana wakati wanaiyongea inawatoka and they feel relieved So Obina you are a great Dad keep it up
It's a sensitive topic but it's good to know what the kids think ,this are the conversations adult hide from there kids like they fear , discipline from a step mom tastes different my friend Proud of u obinna
Huku majority of women have gathered to shame because it's what happens in homes, wanaume remain silent, Thank you Obina for this clip, children should learn to speak out, people are here living vile lives..
If the mom now starts to ask the kids will answer the way the dad did bad to favour the interviewer... you heard obina raised the voice to the boy when he said amesahau... How many times as a child you saw your mom n dad do wrong! Their is a story to tell in every life
@@memijessy666have never heard mom shout ama wakiurgue na dad, Ata kukue na misunderstanding hatukuwai jua and the same thing ndio nafanya kwangu hakuna kuteta mbele ya watoi coz huwa hawasau jamani
These questions are from the children, so are the deliberations. I have gone through this and my feelings is, WACHA WATOTO WAONGEE ITS THERAPEUTIC, for us watching its a lesson or something you can relate with.
For those of you saying that Obinna did a wrong thing by letting the kids speak up just shut up! You dont know what children go through in the hands of those step mothers. I wish my dad was this extra with us maybe it could have saved alot.. I love the convo and Oga big up👏
In the hands of those mother's is true but the main reason for all that is oga Obinna came with issue , cz if you listen about mama ada still have a reason. And why did he come up with both we women.
As much as I enjoy Obinna, I have to disagree with this video. It’s not okay for one parent to paint a bad picture of the other parent to the children. These kids were not there when you parents met and fell in love , it’s unfortunate that they had to witness everything that happened between their parents. It’s important to remember that they only have one mother and it’s painful for any parent to watch such things being said by their kids in public. The adults should have sat down with the kids in private and had this talk. As a mom and a wife it would hurt me so bad if my husband was to ever do this to our girls. This is poisoning them. The adults you should sit down and solve your issues without involving the kids, kids should never watch you urge or fight. When you told them that their mother loves them very much and would never hurt them, you should have left it at that instead of adding ( I hope) that puts a doubt in them already. When you have the kids over focus on building a healthy environment without poisoning them and making their mother look like the devil. She might be bad but she will always be their mother and they are always going to need her.
I grew up in a broken family. Having such conversations with my dad helped me deal with the trauma of a step mum. When my dad eventually left to go to work for a few moths, she sent me out of the house na nikalala kwa vibanda. Having such conversations with my dad helped me realize that he had his weaknesses and my step mum also had her own. I also got to learn why my mum eventually left. Such conversations are extremely important. They put things in the children's perspective.
@@nancyauma3374 I’m so sorry you went through that hun, and that’s great for your dad. The conversation is good but in this case it’s their real mom and I think having both parents sit down with the kids and having the same conversation would be healthier.
Kudos obina atleast you are teaching the kids to be open minded,,, whichever trauma they faced before it will come out,and they will be great pple in society who can speak up...kudos❤❤❤lovely family.i hope mama ada and lola have learned something from this clip,.
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive..
@@carrymastori1945Must you reply on eaxh comment with same words, ama you copy pasting someones comment. When the said lady was tarnishing Obinnas name where were you.
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups.
Weh!! Obiz 😀 ok Pushkey speak baby doll. I agree Breezy is beautiful. They all are are. Good job Obinna as a seasoned health professional and a mom I love the safe space you create. love from the USA. ❤
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups.
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups.
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive..
In UGANDAN,it's against our culture...whether the mother or father is bad,as a parent,we are not supposed to sat down our kids and make the pareniin bracket a topic of conversation.
So you ignore your kids when they ask you why you breakup? Even kids needs closure and furthermore they experienced it themselves so they know what they saw. Let them be
Can you stop with the culture thing and blaming the father. The kids went through alot Single parents are going through alot and this videos helps many of them out here to understand situations coming up
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups.
Weuh, this was one year ago. I just wactched a clip of baby mama complaining and I thought Obina was a bad guy kumbe he is the best dad. before you judge somenone take your time coz you have no idea what they go through. Kudos Obii Obinnaaa!
From personal experience toxic men will do things to you privately that will drive you crazy to react in public and they will be very calm making you look like the bad one.
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups....
@@carrymastori1945this conversation is very healthy for the kids coz wengi uenda childhood traumas, tujifunze kuongea na watoto wetu,hii ni healing process pia
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive
Woooow i love the boys confidence like ada ata kama anakumbua haezi sema like she's on her mum's side which is ok hakuna shida and i know they love both parents 😊
You don't discuss your wife with kids coz they will tell you what you want to hear. According to what i saw you saying.....you are also very wrong.You lacked respect for her, and even though she could be having her flows too but don't play perfect.
He was trying to play victim using the kids innocence........that how foolish dad's do .. turning kids against their mum but women keep quiet yo protect kids from unnecessary things......it will backfire as soon as they grow up and learn the truth
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups.
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups....
Hizi Zote Lola Hujulia Wapi Yawa,Sasa Hadi Anajuwa Kucheat Ni Nini Wueeh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂,Obinna You're Such a Super Dad,Let Your Kids Grow Kama Wamejuwa The Open Truth Iliyoko ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤,Obinna Hyjaambia Biy Child Boy Poa,Eti Ana Umama 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ooh my God. Woiye obina just stay with your kids. I know you are still young. You need to get married but for now Lea watoi.Lol! If you need girl ufanyie uko inje. That was a toxic woman. Kids never forgets
my gal again Lola🤣🤣🤣🤣...matiti kombo broke my ribs..Obinna the love you have for your kids takes me way back for the love my dad had for us,you remind me of everything he would do to be there for us upto my teenage life but he rested at my forth form and i only live to celebrate the memories we shared in his presence..actually this is the reason that makes me a big fun of your babies and you cause i see myself and remember the kind of life i got from my dad at that age bracket...keep protecting those angels,i know what it feels as a child to hug you tight like breezy does,to cry when you want to leave as pushky does ,though unfortunate but God should keep blessing you for your kids, you are a very good father. wasalimie sana na tunawapenda
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups...
@@carrymastori1945peleka ujinga huko, ni nyinyi ndiyo hamwezi kaa na watoto chini muongee. Food si ni ya baba yao or you think they are starving like yours.
Many people have that one celeb they want to meet ,i must say mine is Lola AKA Pushkeeey❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Much love for this family ❤ Mad respect for You Obinna ❤❤
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive..
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive..
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups....
@@Joy_Ke-i4p an that stupid boy loreein read the comments for her laughing at her with Brianna...this useless man obinna hajui chuki anapanda kwa watoi ile siku huyo kijana yake ataambiwa Ada wewe sio wetu mamako ni maskini ndio atajua anavuna aliyoyapanda give him l8ke 5yrs from now he hates mama Ada na hajui amekua akipika akikula silly boy
I was looking for such a comment.Mimi pia ni fun wa Obinna lakini I can tell he is a true lier.Ukiskiza side ya Mathee utanotice Obinna anatumia fame yake kufanya mwenzake aonekane m baya.Man up young bro
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups...
Tuko wengi lbiina bro I enjoy your shows but didn't think tunapitia mm alikua anaslap mtltl wa six months and I hate women, aliharibu Kila kitu kwanyumba adi job yangu saai nko zero juu ya babymoma hivi ndo wanafaanya to bring someone down lkni hawajui we record 💯💯 they are just pain in our asses na akiona unamove on ama kuomoka anajileeta Akisema ulicheat to justify themselves I feel you bro
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups.
Imagine people are encouraging this conversation...I find it not appropriate...it's toxic ...children from different mum discussing one mum and her kids are there...
@@cookingsimplerecipeswithgracem you need to see from the children's perspective. All along it has been selfishly about adults.Let the children voice out our imperfections.
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive..
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive..
This is brain washing the babies, discussing the woman you sleep with your babies. Huyu kijana mkubwa ndiye spy wa Obina. Anything that Lillian says or correct is bad because he can’t be told anything by his step mum.
You need to understand what trauma does to a child? Obinna getting them to speak about their experience is the start of their healing journey Let’s talk to children, get them to open up about their feeling and start to heal
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups....
Dear parents, Those who are providing things only for the children and they do not have time with them, they kill their children psychologically without knowing. These video shows how you should risk your time to your children. congrats daddy, for what you have been doing to your family. Keep on giving them time/ attention/ love. That's good man. Your children are learning through practical life. ❤❤🎉🎉🎉
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive.
I have to be honest: I have never been your fan but this has brought out a person I never knew. You are a great dad.
Don't fall for a narcissist parent. They manipulate kids and use divide and rule game.
U are very right😢😢😢😢
Of course
Obinna you're a good Dad... And haters gonna hate. So be you do you,they complain ume-expose mtu... You were also exposed. So am happy for you..
I love this open discussion... It helps the kids heal..
You are doing well as a father
Very true
True
its not easy, the lady just made the worst move talking to Ali, the kids will never forget this
I love this open discussion. It helps the kids to heal 😢 because ni muimu sana wakati wanaiyongea inawatoka and they feel relieved
So Obina you are a great Dad keep it up
Kids see and remember. They have asked and given answers . What an eye opener. Why are people negating this important conversation. Bug up Obinna.
Infacts they are now clear about there parents breakup basing on there own answers
I love this small gal, she is courageous and so straight forward.
How old is she
It's a sensitive topic but it's good to know what the kids think ,this are the conversations adult hide from there kids like they fear , discipline from a step mom tastes different my friend
Proud of u obinna
Huku majority of women have gathered to shame because it's what happens in homes, wanaume remain silent, Thank you Obina for this clip, children should learn to speak out, people are here living vile lives..
If the mom now starts to ask the kids will answer the way the dad did bad to favour the interviewer... you heard obina raised the voice to the boy when he said amesahau...
How many times as a child you saw your mom n dad do wrong! Their is a story to tell in every life
@@memijessy666have never heard mom shout ama wakiurgue na dad, Ata kukue na misunderstanding hatukuwai jua and the same thing ndio nafanya kwangu hakuna kuteta mbele ya watoi coz huwa hawasau jamani
Little lola is my favorite ❤❤I love her curiosity and transparency she’s very smart🥰she’s obinnas duplicate the resemblance 😊
These questions are from the children, so are the deliberations. I have gone through this and my feelings is, WACHA WATOTO WAONGEE ITS THERAPEUTIC, for us watching its a lesson or something you can relate with.
Lesson learnt kids notice each n everything especially the negatives tuchunge sana.
Exactly
This break up thing is not something to hide anymore..generation has changed and kids knows everything today
For those of you saying that Obinna did a wrong thing by letting the kids speak up just shut up! You dont know what children go through in the hands of those step mothers. I wish my dad was this extra with us maybe it could have saved alot.. I love the convo and Oga big up👏
Thanks Gladys I support you
Kabisa, I love this
Ongeza volume they dont know the lasting effects which can lead to deep mental issues.
Thank you
In the hands of those mother's is true but the main reason for all that is oga Obinna came with issue , cz if you listen about mama ada still have a reason. And why did he come up with both we women.
Watching this like one year later(2024) and i can say Obinna is a good dad.Your raising your kids well well
As much as I enjoy Obinna, I have to disagree with this video. It’s not okay for one parent to paint a bad picture of the other parent to the children. These kids were not there when you parents met and fell in love , it’s unfortunate that they had to witness everything that happened between their parents. It’s important to remember that they only have one mother and it’s painful for any parent to watch such things being said by their kids in public. The adults should have sat down with the kids in private and had this talk. As a mom and a wife it would hurt me so bad if my husband was to ever do this to our girls. This is poisoning them. The adults you should sit down and solve your issues without involving the kids, kids should never watch you urge or fight. When you told them that their mother loves them very much and would never hurt them, you should have left it at that instead of adding ( I hope) that puts a doubt in them already. When you have the kids over focus on building a healthy environment without poisoning them and making their mother look like the devil. She might be bad but she will always be their mother and they are always going to need her.
Well said
Very very true.
The kids experienced it. They were not taught anything. They are talking about what they saw
I grew up in a broken family. Having such conversations with my dad helped me deal with the trauma of a step mum. When my dad eventually left to go to work for a few moths, she sent me out of the house na nikalala kwa vibanda. Having such conversations with my dad helped me realize that he had his weaknesses and my step mum also had her own. I also got to learn why my mum eventually left. Such conversations are extremely important. They put things in the children's perspective.
@@nancyauma3374 I’m so sorry you went through that hun, and that’s great for your dad. The conversation is good but in this case it’s their real mom and I think having both parents sit down with the kids and having the same conversation would be healthier.
I thank God i didn't hear from Lola 😮😂All is Respect She remains the Mother of your Children May God continue to protect you All as family 🙏
Hukuskia babake aligongwa na kiatu kwa mgongo. Good conversation Obinna.
Kudos obina atleast you are teaching the kids to be open minded,,, whichever trauma they faced before it will come out,and they will be great pple in society who can speak up...kudos❤❤❤lovely family.i hope mama ada and lola have learned something from this clip,.
Its a healthy conversation an open forum to speak out their minds.kudo good father obina.
Wow, the courteous black beauty Breezy, yaani she lifts her hand before she talks❤
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive..
@@carrymastori1945Must you reply on eaxh comment with same words, ama you copy pasting someones comment. When the said lady was tarnishing Obinnas name where were you.
I love the small girl full of her own thinking ❤obinna you're enjoying the company of your kids
Nitakua na pesa kama Saitan🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙄👌👌this kill me. Nice advice
If I do this with my kids,I guess am toxic wueeeeh. Kumbe this beings note the quarrels 🤦🙆. I promise to change through this.
Pr Obina uligogwa na kiatu mugongo😂😂😂😂😂pole
It's the boy keeping himself from trouble😂😂😂😂
I love the kalittle one, innocently speaking
Yea he is matured and he rarely talks alottt he is calm always
This little one can jail you innocently 😃😃😃
These Obina's Kids are smart...I like the girls😃😃😃they so bubbly 🔥🔥🔥
Wuuueeeh to any parent reading this Seperation is important than having traumatised kids. Obinna for Governorship😀😀
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups.
Absolutely true
Imgn Lola saying she felt like crying after her own mom threw a shoe at their dad..ikampiga
Weh!! Obiz 😀 ok Pushkey speak baby doll. I agree Breezy is beautiful. They all are are. Good job Obinna as a seasoned health professional and a mom I love the safe space you create. love from the USA. ❤
The kids got bad memories aki.l pray they grow up to be responsible and successful
They seem to be making such nice ones currently
brianna is such a beautiful girl. i love the way she talks so calm, she has such a beautiful smile. she is intelligent too.
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups.
She is vry pretty
Brianna is so calm and with a very passionate personality..She is kind
The best way to know whether u are a good person is how children react towards or around you....this means alot!!....
@ veroh james very true..
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups.
Very true
Thank you ,this is the comment I was looking for
This is very healthy children undergo depression this is a healing process
Well said
.I second ❤
And all this kids will one day get back to their mothers...believe me you.
True@@catherinenjeri4980
Hio story ya kiatu ni sad but funny venye Lola anaexplain.😂😂
😅😅😅😅lastborns never lie😂😂😂😂😂
Have watched this over and over but not getting enough of it,the kids are so sharp luv them
crying when watching this...obiba this is so beautiful and real
I love how this children cooperate .they don't even side with any of their parent.
I don't know why I'm depressed on behalf of the children 😔
😢me too
Endelea @@user-sz42jw5up9m
Endelea kuwa depressed. Obinna kudos.
Pushky is just hillarious😂and innocent.May the Lord guide you Obina in raising up the kids.
Obina Yaya! Your kids made me be happy for you. Kwanza just kaspere to hug their bro. Love them
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive..
@@carrymastori1945 lea wako wachana na wa wenyewe
Did you try to make things work, ooohh this question it waz so fire... My prayers is this kids love each other kama umevyo wafuza
F word ya hiyo kidole😂😂😂
Matiti kombo🤭🤭 aki huyu mtoto
Watoi wanajua kila kitu😮 kuhusu maparo waaah children never 4get
In UGANDAN,it's against our culture...whether the mother or father is bad,as a parent,we are not supposed to sat down our kids and make the pareniin bracket a topic of conversation.
This has nothing to do with nationality. This is just wrong!
So you ignore your kids when they ask you why you breakup? Even kids needs closure and furthermore they experienced it themselves so they know what they saw. Let them be
Can you stop with the culture thing and blaming the father.
The kids went through alot
Single parents are going through alot and this videos helps many of them out here to understand situations coming up
But this kids are the one who ask their father why they apart with their mother
Being a single parent is not easy in this generation surely, let the grace be sufficient to all single parents
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups.
Weuh, this was one year ago. I just wactched a clip of baby mama complaining and I thought Obina was a bad guy kumbe he is the best dad. before you judge somenone take your time coz you have no idea what they go through. Kudos Obii Obinnaaa!
Waaoo!! I salute that little one Ada.she is very keen in everything.
From personal experience toxic men will do things to you privately that will drive you crazy to react in public and they will be very calm making you look like the bad one.
Narcissism it is
@@joyceachiengandago9765absolutely at its best
Aki Lola ati mtu asimshike wapi😂😂😂 any way I love the way you talk and be open to your children ❤
The lastborn girl is just a vibe🤣🤣🤣
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups....
@@carrymastori1945this conversation is very healthy for the kids coz wengi uenda childhood traumas, tujifunze kuongea na watoto wetu,hii ni healing process pia
This is a very healthy and honest conversation with kids
Luronne the best big bro everyone would wish to have ....lots of love son...
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive
Woooow i love the boys confidence like ada ata kama anakumbua haezi sema like she's on her mum's side which is ok hakuna shida and i know they love both parents 😊
This is a very noble conversation helps the children work with their trauma n heal the inner self
Correct ❤
I knew Obbina is funny, happy soul but didn't know he is such a good dad too. Now i know . Beautiful family 💞
You don't discuss your wife with kids coz they will tell you what you want to hear. According to what i saw you saying.....you are also very wrong.You lacked respect for her, and even though she could be having her flows too but don't play perfect.
He was trying to play victim using the kids innocence........that how foolish dad's do .. turning kids against their mum but women keep quiet yo protect kids from unnecessary things......it will backfire as soon as they grow up and learn the truth
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups.
A good dad doesn't discuss flaws of his wife to underaged children I don't support these it's wrong period!!
And you can get the truth here from an innocent child the small one
this kids are lovely..how can one hate them.
surely.
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups....
Hizi Zote Lola Hujulia Wapi Yawa,Sasa Hadi Anajuwa Kucheat Ni Nini Wueeh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂,Obinna You're Such a Super Dad,Let Your Kids Grow Kama Wamejuwa The Open Truth Iliyoko ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤,Obinna Hyjaambia Biy Child Boy Poa,Eti Ana Umama 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ooh my God. Woiye obina just stay with your kids. I know you are still young. You need to get married but for now Lea watoi.Lol! If you need girl ufanyie uko inje. That was a toxic woman. Kids never forgets
I really don't understand was the mother really for this kids or step mother
@@Janet-mg2llni mama ya watoi 2 alipata 2
Breezy is really cute and glowing eyes.... Obi you are a good dad haubagui your kids ❤❤
Wueeeeh hii ni hard....... anyway usiwai fanyia mtoi kitu ukidhani atasahau......oga OBINNA ukona kazi apo......😲
True
True tena kubwa sana obinna kuowa apa itakuwa ngumu sana
Men are going through alot and it is sad how some stay in toxic marriages to avoid society victimization Obinna you are a great father
my gal again Lola🤣🤣🤣🤣...matiti kombo broke my ribs..Obinna the love you have for your kids takes me way back for the love my dad had for us,you remind me of everything he would do to be there for us upto my teenage life but he rested at my forth form and i only live to celebrate the memories we shared in his presence..actually this is the reason that makes me a big fun of your babies and you cause i see myself and remember the kind of life i got from my dad at that age bracket...keep protecting those angels,i know what it feels as a child to hug you tight like breezy does,to cry when you want to leave as pushky does ,though unfortunate but God should keep blessing you for your kids, you are a very good father. wasalimie sana na tunawapenda
😊😊😊
@@hillarykibet6141 😊
Hugs🤗🤗
@eve it's must be nice 🙂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I went back to listen again. Ati matiti kombo 🤭🤭
I am just praying that my daughter never asks me about her father in the near future.
But daaamn your kids are sumn else.
Salute to Oga Obinna🔥🔥
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups...
@@carrymastori1945peleka ujinga huko, ni nyinyi ndiyo hamwezi kaa na watoto chini muongee. Food si ni ya baba yao or you think they are starving like yours.
After Watching mama Ada story on nairobi gossip club uyu mama ako na drama zake good job Obinna
Kabisaa clearly the kids wanasema ukweli watoto hawajawai sahau
@@winniemangala4176 true watoto wawezi danganya ata kwa birthday ya Ada tulijionea ako na raho chafu
She might be beautiful but she has a bad heart
Hahahah Obina you thought they had forgotten until they reminded you,,
I love this conversation,big up obinna you're a great father
Many people have that one celeb they want to meet ,i must say mine is Lola AKA Pushkeeey❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Much love for this family ❤
Mad respect for You Obinna ❤❤
Brianna is soo classy...
Hatakangi Lugha ya ghetto...
Always correcting the Dad..🤔
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive..
I actually find her to be very pretty
I love everything about this family ❤
So realistic conversation. I like the kids
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive..
Nitakuwa na pesa kama saitan.. 😅😅😅😅 this made my daybest dad to your kids
Wow obina you are a living testimony, feel encouraged following your vedios
Very informative. The small girl is amazingly brilliant
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups....
Sorry for the innocent souls 👋👋 to big boss😂😂😂 i love these babies
This is a very healthy conversation. I love it. I wanna be this free with my kids and I want them to be open with me.
Let obbina tell them so that wakue wakubwa wakijua kuliko wagrow waje kujua apo mbele it will hurt them
Thank you my brother..let them grow knowing..na pia it will help them..not to find themselves kwa situation kama hio
Great advice......men protect their women, and women show respect to their men
I honestly feel bad for Ada...you can honestly tell she isn't comfortable with the Convo on her
Mum
The gal will live to hate the man trust me kuna siku ataelewa kila kitu
My thoughts too 😔
Woiii the girl requested the dad not to post the video but he went ahead to do so. I can only imagine what the girl felt after the video was posted.
@@Joy_Ke-i4p an that stupid boy loreein read the comments for her laughing at her with Brianna...this useless man obinna hajui chuki anapanda kwa watoi ile siku huyo kijana yake ataambiwa Ada wewe sio wetu mamako ni maskini ndio atajua anavuna aliyoyapanda give him l8ke 5yrs from now he hates mama Ada na hajui amekua akipika akikula silly boy
The kids have confirmed Obinna has been truthfull all along, raising kids the right way
This little girl Lola is brilliant
Just watched the baby Mama's side of story at Presenter Ali .Obinna wewe,sijui mbona nakushuku bro
I was looking for such a comment.Mimi pia ni fun wa Obinna lakini I can tell he is a true lier.Ukiskiza side ya Mathee utanotice Obinna anatumia fame yake kufanya mwenzake aonekane m baya.Man up young bro
Kufunza watoto chuki sio poa.Sio kila kitu ni ya social media
I think Ada is a mummy’s Girl 👧,Lola ,Breezy-and Luoron are daddy’s kids,Ada is really protective towards the Mum ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My thoughts too. Naona always kama her mum like unaeza ona tu.
I think the reason is bcoz she doesn't want to be beaten
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups...
Veeery protective
Exactly
Obina what kind of adults would you like these kids to be? May God remember these wonderful children
This is amazing woooow guys thumbs up obinna
Tuko wengi lbiina bro I enjoy your shows but didn't think tunapitia mm alikua anaslap mtltl wa six months and I hate women, aliharibu Kila kitu kwanyumba adi job yangu saai nko zero juu ya babymoma hivi ndo wanafaanya to bring someone down lkni hawajui we record 💯💯 they are just pain in our asses na akiona unamove on ama kuomoka anajileeta Akisema ulicheat to justify themselves I feel you bro
Briana is so beautiful ❤️ I like the way she is collected
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups.
Regardless of the challenges of that mum, amefanya kazi bw. Hawa watoto wote, she deserves some hug..
My heart wrecked, I would have been this mother. I walked away instead. Children are innocent 😭 we need not leave them in such memories.
Imagine people are encouraging this conversation...I find it not appropriate...it's toxic ...children from different mum discussing one mum and her kids are there...
@@cookingsimplerecipeswithgracem you need to see from the children's perspective. All along it has been selfishly about adults.Let the children voice out our imperfections.
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive..
Tupitiane please ❤
.....why are you doing this....Ada is so comfortable ☺️☺️☺️☺️
The fact is that oga relationship and the kids is beyond boundaries,, the kids love you sana continue been nice daddy to them,,,I love it
Love this Family God's blessings, Obinna and your beautiful, handsome, kid's they make my day.😂😂😂❤🎉
This is a lovely family Obinna..keep it maan..they depend on you Kiongos
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive..
So nice 🤩
Mtoto anajua kucheat😂😂😂wazazi kelele zenu ondoeni watoto,,,wacha watoto wajue mama ni mzuri na baba ni mzuri piganeni chini ya maji
It's fun but si poa kuongea abt mama yao na watoto plz
bt ukweli usemwe
This is brain washing the babies, discussing the woman you sleep with your babies.
Huyu kijana mkubwa ndiye spy wa Obina. Anything that Lillian says or correct is bad because he can’t be told anything by his step mum.
You are spoiling these innocent kids.
You have a very big problem man
You two need to heal. Nyinyi ndio some of the people mlikua mnasema hata watu wakienda maandamano nothing will change.
You need to understand what trauma does to a child? Obinna getting them to speak about their experience is the start of their healing journey
Let’s talk to children, get them to open up about their feeling and start to heal
Whenever I see Lola ......I get baby fever.Shes full of vibes.Nampenda tu bure 🥰
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups....
Waaah you have bright n straight forward children. Woow love your videos with this great children
Breezy such a cutie,black beauty 💞💞💞
Dear parents,
Those who are providing things only for the children and they do not have time with them, they kill their children psychologically without knowing. These video shows how you should risk your time to your children. congrats daddy, for what you have been doing to your family. Keep on giving them time/ attention/ love. That's good man. Your children are learning through practical life. ❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Obbina is just wise on how to handle his kids questions positively...there questions needs wisdom especially lolla🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
a very bad thing oga you are doing. kids can say anything when you buy and give them food, thats what is motivating them, but what i know for sure is that even if mama lola did that there was a motivating factor behind that which is you, oga you wil buy this kid and use them to pacify, but when they grow up, prepare because when they grow up they will be against you. reason being they will be guilt of this convo when they are grown ups., and the fact you recording this, it shows you have a motive.
@@carrymastori1945@Obina block this fool. He is annoying.