Part 2 How I contracted HIV / Confronting him / My delivery

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024

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  • @OnilUribes
    @OnilUribes 10 місяців тому +37

    I know he was lying because he isn't even upset that he's been exposed to HIV. That animal passed it to you with full knowledge. He's utterly despicable.

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 Місяць тому

      black women have the highest rates of transmission with hispanic second these men have sex with other men and street walkers these men will have sex with the women from my residence that clearly look sick..your putting yourself at risk dating these men go to the clinic together and trust no one

  • @playghurl_dymund
    @playghurl_dymund Рік тому +29

    Women stay in these types of situations/relationships after finding out that the man has a STD because of low self-esteem. I hope that women will learn from this story. It happens all the time.

    • @Faceplant-hl5yn
      @Faceplant-hl5yn Рік тому +5

      Same goes for men who hare with these types of women

    • @playghurl_dymund
      @playghurl_dymund Рік тому +3

      @@Faceplant-hl5yn True!!

    • @beatricedevarenne2621
      @beatricedevarenne2621 2 місяці тому

      @@Faceplant-hl5ynmost of the time it’s their guilt. Those trash keep sleeping with anything.

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 Місяць тому

      the black community in a nutshell, these men dont like kids at all...everything is sex and more sex no clinic no dates just meeting up for unprotected sex

  • @janetnicholas9291
    @janetnicholas9291 Рік тому +66

    I do not understand how you could continue the relationship with someone that has given you such an awful disease. He did not even deserved to be at the hospital when you were having your daughter and what he did is illegal you could have him arrested for knowingly giving you HIV.

    • @user-hz9ch9pm7s
      @user-hz9ch9pm7s 10 місяців тому +12

      She’s probably insecure definitely at that time and she has hiv probably feel like nobody would want her it’s sad fr

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 10 місяців тому +10

      This is what happen when you don’t love yourself.

    • @andrec4639
      @andrec4639 10 місяців тому

      @@staceywilliams1863 Yeah this definitely happens when people feel like they have no other options after contracting it, I have a very close friend who contracted from someone who KNOWINGLY had it and it took me and her family arguing with her to pursue charges.

    • @immealldayeveryday9425
      @immealldayeveryday9425 10 місяців тому +3

      She was at her lowest and unfortunately people are afraid to press charges because they don’t want anyone to kno that they have it so they try to rationalize and say well no one will want me I should just stay with them, it’s really sad

    • @LynnTanner-hb7sh
      @LynnTanner-hb7sh 10 місяців тому +5

      I know a couple people who stayed with the partner who knowingly infected them and it's because they feel noone else will love and accept them So they figure they mise well stay When she gets mentally stronger with her situation she'll most likely find the courage to leave the arse wipe,he definitely doesn't deserve her and should be in Jail!

  • @magali19
    @magali19 10 місяців тому +15

    All that these people care about is their pleasure, because sex allegedly feels better without a condom. They would rather put someone's life on the line than wearing a condom. That's why I've never had sex and I never will

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 Місяць тому

      whenyou thinking abour sex you need to do a full cbc and std panel...working in healthcare we would have to see your test results together at the doctor its not worth it to date its scary to date

  • @stroop3666
    @stroop3666 Рік тому +32

    People are soooooooo EVIL!!!

  • @kirstykirsty5706
    @kirstykirsty5706 Рік тому +23

    You should get him arrested

  • @brandysmith9596
    @brandysmith9596 2 роки тому +22

    Your story is truly inspiring, to see your strength and resilience that is inspiring. Thank you for sharing.

    • @tamishahenderson
      @tamishahenderson  Рік тому +2

      Thank you, all I can say it's nobody but God

    • @kinggirllyde1751
      @kinggirllyde1751 Рік тому

      Are you still with him? Is he a good dad?

    • @bladebrown4341
      @bladebrown4341 Рік тому +2

      @@tamishahenderson I'm also HIV+ I was infected in November 2020. A guy seated behind on a bus poked my back, and I hate myself for not going to hospital. I also let that guy get away with doing this to me. My situation is different in that after 27 months I still tesr negative, but have had all HIV symptoms an been really sick. Symptoms are sore throat, oral ulcers, thrush, white tongue, headache, night sweats, chills, diarrhea, dizziness, numbness, severe back pain, dry cough, fatigue, chest pain, shortness of breath, mind confusion, bumpy skin,

    • @user-xk4lq3ll8l
      @user-xk4lq3ll8l 10 місяців тому

      ​@@tamishahendersonAre you single now??? And that SUCKS what ole boy did to you. Hopefully 🙏 you're feeling better now.

  • @stroop3666
    @stroop3666 Рік тому +13

    I hope u NEVER leave him ALONE with your kids!!!

  • @stroop3666
    @stroop3666 Рік тому +26

    WhEN I TELL YOU TRUST NO MAN!!!! GIRL WE JUST KEEP TRYING TO FOOL WITH THEM!!!

    • @lavender123u
      @lavender123u Рік тому +6

      Yes I'm never dating or getting married either. I've seen enough

    • @Faceplant-hl5yn
      @Faceplant-hl5yn Рік тому

      I met a woman some years ago who gave me an STD.. She kept denying on all fronts that she had that. But she was my only partner I had IN YEARS. Forced her to go to the doctor to get medical treatment because she refused and kept lying.. Doctor told her what's up with that shit

  • @lastdays7855
    @lastdays7855 Рік тому +18

    Bless the Lord you’re doing well and your daughter is negative. ❤😊

  • @melvinbaldwin9830
    @melvinbaldwin9830 Рік тому +10

    So sorry you had to go through this my sista! May God bless ur soul.

  • @casebycase7750
    @casebycase7750 11 місяців тому +5

    You didn't deserve that, I'm sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @andrec4639
    @andrec4639 10 місяців тому +9

    I know I'm late to this but please pursue charges against him, he gave you NO option you could've protected yourself from catching it but he did not give you the choice. If he was willing to do that to you, he is definitely willing to give it to someone else. There's so many options for him to suppress his viral load yet he didn't do it and gave it to you. He is dangerous.

    • @kizzyrichards593
      @kizzyrichards593 8 днів тому

      People need to protect themselves and stop relying on others protect to them and care for their health. You need to love yourself more than you expect anyone else to love you.

  • @stroop3666
    @stroop3666 Рік тому +12

    You are such a sweetheart!!!!

  • @natalieldarden
    @natalieldarden 10 місяців тому +3

    You are so well spoken and intelligent. So sorry this happened to you. He’s wrong and psychologically off. Move forward and get the help you need so you can raise your children. And there are many who find true love after contraction. 🙏🏿

  • @deshanericks5790
    @deshanericks5790 Рік тому +6

    Only thing I can say is Wow.....will there be a part 3. What happen with the father? How did you explain your situation to your daughters especially the second one? How has life been for you your mom and kids? Are you in a relationship now? Good vlog very brave of you.

  • @user-tj4ks3uh6f
    @user-tj4ks3uh6f 3 місяці тому +2

    He didn't give you options but you've given him all options because you stayed with him.

  • @TruthbetoldYouraliar
    @TruthbetoldYouraliar 5 місяців тому +1

    😢 im here for you if you need anything queen, you story just made me break down out the blue.

  • @barbarajohnson6026
    @barbarajohnson6026 10 місяців тому +4

    You are a great mother. May God bless you and your children.😊😊😊😊❤

  • @BlackBubblesJblack
    @BlackBubblesJblack 10 місяців тому +2

    I really hope you press charges on the young man who gave it to you Because if not He'll just continue doing it over. This is a lot more common than people think in the black community

  • @travelingdude1621
    @travelingdude1621 8 місяців тому +2

    I feel sad for you. He gave you a death sentence but you don’t seem angry or upset about it. Just an interesting observation. You should legally prosecute him.

  • @kdtennis1
    @kdtennis1 4 місяці тому +1

    Truvada / prep has to be used by males and females! People have to get tested with their partners and review their test results!

    • @Clarrissaharrison
      @Clarrissaharrison 4 місяці тому +1

      I’m on prep thank god I used my head

    • @Zee-ob1pe
      @Zee-ob1pe 3 місяці тому

      Keep in mind, her story is from 22years ago. Prep did not exist .

    • @tamishahenderson
      @tamishahenderson  2 місяці тому +1

      You are absolutely right. But I thank God through it all. Hopefully my videos will make people think before being sexually active with your partner when coming into a new relationship.

  • @LashusJourney
    @LashusJourney 2 роки тому +6

    You're an inspiration sis

  • @LTOTHEMFNBz
    @LTOTHEMFNBz 2 роки тому +5

    So brave I’m so sorry that happened to you

  • @Clarrissaharrison
    @Clarrissaharrison 4 місяці тому +2

    I’m glad I’m on prep thank god my friend told me about prep

  • @stroop3666
    @stroop3666 Рік тому +7

    Life is scary!!!

  • @EatPrayShop
    @EatPrayShop 10 місяців тому +1

    Your bravery is remarkable thanks for sharing ur story you are a beautiful person and wish u all the best and sending u prayers

  • @ChristianCaliberNetwork
    @ChristianCaliberNetwork 10 місяців тому +2

    Exodus 22:18 - Thou shalt not suffer a witch to live.

  • @mashondaknight9132
    @mashondaknight9132 Рік тому +4

    Hi I wanted to ask you what happened to your daughter's father? Did you ever think to have him arrested, how are your kids doing how do you manage , do you work please do more videos.

    • @brightleo958
      @brightleo958 10 днів тому

      I believe he ended up in the news for spreading HIV to multiple women. I believe he went to prison for those crimes. That story is also on youtube.

  • @hazelsandstrom9721
    @hazelsandstrom9721 6 місяців тому +1

    How can you stay with him ? He should have been honest with you ! You do not deserve this girl !

  • @takeishacarter3037
    @takeishacarter3037 6 місяців тому +1

    Should of press charges. You didn't deserve to get this terrible disease.

  • @Tbaby9361
    @Tbaby9361 10 місяців тому +2

    U seem like such a sweet person.

  • @Bythebartalk
    @Bythebartalk 10 місяців тому +3

    Why would you want to keep the baby, I just don’t understand

    • @tamishahenderson
      @tamishahenderson  2 місяці тому +3

      I couldn’t bring myself to do it. She is negative and so smart, beautiful, amazing. I thank God for her each and every day.

  • @LagailGreen-me3wu
    @LagailGreen-me3wu 9 місяців тому

    Thank you again for sharing your story and I hope you have a pleasant life And you gonna be alright❤

  • @stroop3666
    @stroop3666 Рік тому +3

    I am getting MAD!!!!! YOU SO DONT DESERVE THIS!!!

  • @maheshshetty5847
    @maheshshetty5847 Рік тому +1

    Very good dear friend I am hiv positive good health care safe journey for..

  • @brendaeaster8874
    @brendaeaster8874 10 місяців тому +4

    Men

  • @beverlyhandy623
    @beverlyhandy623 Рік тому +3

    Stay strong

  • @stroop3666
    @stroop3666 Рік тому +10

    How did HE contract hiv dl?

    • @elisasbroadcast4889
      @elisasbroadcast4889 10 місяців тому +3

      Most likely or sex workers

    • @OTM984
      @OTM984 10 місяців тому +3

      Yes most of these men mess with other men that the only a woman can catch it

    • @OTM984
      @OTM984 10 місяців тому

      ​@@elisasbroadcast4889pretty

    • @Pheneria-dv6zw
      @Pheneria-dv6zw 9 місяців тому

      ​@@OTM984That's a lie sleeping all so with women with out condems on just don't blame it on men women all so

    • @kdtennis1
      @kdtennis1 4 місяці тому +1

      It takes a trifling person to give someone hiv! A person with HIV, can get on medicines to be positive undetectaable!
      People can trust no one! Some people in relationships secretly sleep with others. The smart ones use condoms and or truvada/ prep! You cannot trust anyone 100%.

  • @Meta-morphisis
    @Meta-morphisis 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤ You are an amazing woman and mother…

  • @thechic-chat
    @thechic-chat 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing, God bless you & your kids sis...

  • @maureencampbell3615
    @maureencampbell3615 11 місяців тому +2

    God is god

  • @nikicarrie4071
    @nikicarrie4071 8 місяців тому +3

    You are with a downlow

  • @therealsongstress
    @therealsongstress Рік тому +1

    🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @bellaeman4669
    @bellaeman4669 10 місяців тому

    There is no timeline

  • @melvinbaldwin9830
    @melvinbaldwin9830 Рік тому +1

    Damn

  • @adrianmelton4732
    @adrianmelton4732 10 місяців тому

    What medicine to take

  • @come_on_barbie_123
    @come_on_barbie_123 Рік тому

    U thought it was wrong for u to tell him u had an abortion, he says u lied, and he gave I the "pack"? Wooow

  • @Clarrissaharrison
    @Clarrissaharrison 4 місяці тому

    Did you had symptoms when you had hiv

  • @babydii3487
    @babydii3487 Місяць тому

    Codependency

  • @lepanhman
    @lepanhman 10 місяців тому

    You didn’t contract by sharing needles that’s for sure

    • @tamishahenderson
      @tamishahenderson  2 місяці тому

      No at all. Never done a drug in my life and I don’t drink either.