Why Women Can Never Tell Men How To Attract Them
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Romance is magic.
You're a magician.
Never explain the trick.
Rollo nailed it
After my divorce and discovered the red pill
I told a girl what I was reading (Rational male and Alpha male books)
and she reacted just like Rollo said
I don’t talk about my self improvement with women
The change in my life post red pill is to help men I see struggling with women
I will tell them go to the gym, get your money right and talk with more women
In my opinion this is what makes me confident and in control of my life
I can’t understand why I didn’t see these things earlier in life
Thanks guys!
What does it mean “struggling with women”
Similar experience over the last 5 years, not the same but still. Best single piece of advice that resonates with me now, watch their actions not their words. It's not only an old adage for most people but definitely women. They'll say things just to sounds politically correct and agreeable but you can truly understand them but watching what they actually do.
When I meet women today, they want to know quickly what life style you have, career and money you have. They could care less about you as a loving partner. They think, would knowing his guy help me ? It's all about them. They will do this their complete life.
As a 30 year old man I know this been play out I call it the matrix.
Men greet other men with insults; but they don't mean it.
Women greet other women with compliments; but they don't mean it.
Both genders can do these things regardless. Its not all black and white
I agree, in general it is true, Men like to banter, woman often get offended on their behalf, why a feminin socirity crack down on free speech, it is more important to not offend then to tell the truth, it is more important to think of peoples feelings then to use logic and common sense.
It's pretty black and white. @@apatheticxmindsetx3549
Very true. And we're often not aware we're doing it, it comes naturally. The reason I see is that a man who is less confident then he should be is less competition (maybe he can date 7's, but won't approach them), whereas the woman who is over confident is less competition (could lock down a 7, but thinks she can lock down a 9).
"men must become, women just are" last 25 seconds sums it
men must become, but they have to display that they always have been great effortlessly.
@@brahmoney7507Camille Paglia said that
@@brahmoney7507 I literally saw a study about dating apps today that said women are judged by their looks (women just are) and men are judged by not just their looks (to a lesser degree) but their ambition, intelligence, and career or career trajectory (men must become). A feminist came up with it and there’s truth to it
Ive simply understood women aren't wired to think outside their own POV
That's called solipsism.
That narcissism
"The first rule of Fight Club is you do not talk about Fight Club."
2nd rule of fight club is you don't talk about fight club.
@@xDyslexicRobotx❤❤❤❤❤
Ask a woman how to date women...then do the exact opposite.
Not quite. I’d say listen to them but reflect on whether listening to them makes you lose your self respect in the process or if the things being done gets you what you want in return
Don't believe what women say lol their actions don't align with what they are saying
Theres a pimp called Jhonny dollar and he said "Mess with the chik that likes You not the one You like" if You want to be treated like a king...
The thing is that most of men cant tell if a girl sends them choosing signals. Totally oblivious.
Don’t listen to pimps they are some of the worst people in society and they are basically human traffickers.
@@SrbendaNo1most women’s choosing signal is a blank stare. I don’t think it’s oblivious, it’s more like women need to be more clear and use better communication skills. Women are lazy even in their choosing skills and even lazier in dating.
@@SrbendaNo1True porn is sedating that mating instinct in men
great advice to be miserable
Agree 100 percent , the problem is society has made men now fear women so makes them weak and think if they tell there girl things they will be labeled a jerk or she will leave when that isn't the case at all ....Also too many men fear if they lose there girl they will never find another one so they try to be nice and say the right things when actually is has the opposite affect ...
Super happy that The Weeknd is finally talking about these issues.
😂😂😂
This dude 😂
7:40 - Women can't conceive self improvement because that's not on their personal experience. Most of them get their value for free from 15 to 20 y/o and look for men that already have developed value.
When you ask they will talk about small tweaks and refinements similar to using make up or fake eyelashes.
If you can't or have never told your girl/wife to stfu then you're not the head of your household.
Women are supposedly better at communicating but also do it in a covert manner? To use Rollo's own favorite word against him, that's cognitive dissonance. 😂
Women may be more social and talk more. But they are horrible communicators because they never say what they mean and want men to decipher codes/signals.
I have always said this. Women are actually terrible communicators. They use words less effectively than men do and as a result have to use far more words to convey meaning. Therefore also creating greater misunderstandings than men do as they are very rarely direct. And its not just men who misunderstand women but other women as well. I see this all the time with women in my life. They are constantly trying to guess the hidden meaning behind other womens words. And half the time they get it wrong as well.
Age old saying, don't take relationship advice from women...
How to attract women.... Be the epitome of the bad boy; treat her like sh*t, and bring her flowers the next day.
Nah. Its individual. Anything can give a pass or a no go. For me... I have a certain guy in mind for long term. Someone comfortable sober, fun energy, passionate and reliable. I want to be the same person for him.
Attraction is subjective. It can be a handsome smile, speech pattern, smells good... etc. I also favor metal head/ punk fans because I want someone I can go to shows with and jam guitar with.
Its still a particular person I am attracted to and when I find them... I have to prove myself to be a reliable and caring girlfriend to keep them. I also have to be confident in myself to knowing what I should not tolerate and if the guy is not into me to pass him off.
@@vsmith6109Describe your last few boyfriends and or sexual partners.
@vsmith6109 Yes, these are comfort traits that women will typically say they're ATTRACTED to; especially around age 30+ and are, "ready to settle down". As you said, "long term". They are not however AROUSAL traits. These are nearly instantaneous and have zero to do with the comfort traits. You know immediately you WANT this guy and you know nothing about any of his comfort traits.
@rawmail102171 key word is sober. Drinking and doing drugs is the main reason women hook up with men. Sober men are boring and don't get any female attention until women are 30+ and looking to get married.
Al these dang rules, anybody else like get money, fuq h👀kers 😂🤷🏽♂️
Which goes to show: women really just play themselves..
Pff, the disrespect women generation, it's impossible to find a non bullshitter.
What I gained she wanted for herself, divorce rape is fucked up. Good luck with the chameleons.
@rollo @sartain Excellent to-the-point video. This is the video that the veterans go back to remind yourself to stay the course or the video to reference to explain to the fellas who are looking for a foundation to work off of. Well done gents.🍻
Do not ask the fish how to catch fish, ask the fisherMAN.
all this is coming from Patrice Oneal ...all of it ...
They can’t tell us because then we’ll know without a doubt THEY really don’t know what they want.
For me i think the only way a man can have a coffee experience like women do at Starbucks is if you and your buddy stopped at dunk n doughnuts for coffee heading to work and you hit a bump and he spills coffee on his balls.
I spit my beer through my nose. Thanks asshole. 🤣😂
Do the opposite of whatever a women tells you to if she's single and not married, since she's not in a position of authority to know what can earn a man's commitment and ring. If she says be nice, buy her flowers, give her compliments and take her out all the time, that doesn't work for modern women as they find that boring, predictable and not wildly fun enough.
8:00 Nothing like watching Michael cook 🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡
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Man I hate when rollo interrupts Michael.
Imagine caring so much about women
Imagine being 99% of the male population.
More about the state men are in
Imagine caring so much about what your working towards. Why on earth would I grind my life away for a family, just to unknowingly pick the wrong woman and lose it all?
Imagine not understanding the whole purpose of walking this earth to procreate.
@@Lovlee33161imagine just going overseas with your piece of s*** remote job and you can make enough money to go around and sleep with all the women you want. No condom, Tell them you got snipped, and blast inside. Then about 8 years later you do the DNA test and you try to locate them. Find them, have them come visit you in the States, and never let them leave.
It depends on the environment. I find that men that don't find interest in women, seem to get the most of them 😅
Its sad times when The Bachelor is in season 28.
That junk is still airring. People have no lives.
bro I went to this food truck place at a brewery and they were airing it. Packed to the gills with women LOL
@@ebecerra85 I've only ever seen women watch that and the simps that get dragged along
They even added the golden bachelor. Think dude is like 72. The women range from a few in their early 40s to early 70s.
If you haven't learn something then where have you got it? If it's "genetics, then your ancestors had to learn it for you to possess it.
Disagree.
In a study where men were asked to choose women by OVERALL attractiveness.......
These women were asked what they wanted in men? The answer was: EVERYTHING !
However, the LEAST desired were: intelligence, be loyal, kind and understanding. 😱 Guys, let that sink in......... 🤔
These attractive women are spoiled ? 😮
If you marry her, you better have a backup plan on where your going to live after she files for divorce. She will always get the house. Don't think your going to get 50% of the home equity, you won't. The lawyers take whatever the judge gives you. Self insure yourself, get a pre nup and keep 50% of your money out of your marriage.
But a CEO or Owner had to work his way to the top…this is confusing. So we have to be a “NATURAL” with the women but work hard for the resources to survive(to keep her)…
Twice divorced man here , he’s so correct the mean has to be LESS into the woman that she is him for it to work long term , totally agree, unfortunately men always want the 10 when he himself is a 7 , and now your screwed
‘Be kind’ on the picture is enough for me to turn off, woke
Dont listen to guys like these either
6:40 this is it. 11:30 I understand what you mean, but its not always the case, I have improved my self a lot while having a girlfriend and she has improved with me due to my leadership. She actually values it, and thanks me for showing her a deeper degree of self improvement. Obviously she knows a lot of female and male psycology thanks to me and loves that she understands, for example, she knows that she wants and gets happy when other women desire me, or fuck with me/us. She didnt know it before meeting me. Self awareness in both individuals in the relationship is needed. And a wish of Self discovery and Self improvement.
Your full of it lol
Not needed but if it works it can definitely be useful.
I've come to an epiphany that seems so obvious but just never occurred to me before: Evolution had no incentive to make men and women mutually compatible and/or beneficial for each other(other than to being able to physically sexual reproduce). The vast majority of human evolution occurred in a basically totally animalistic way and the interaction between males and females was one of brutal rape and subjugation. Spoken language didn't exist, therefore few if any forms of higher level thought didn't even exist.
adam listened to eve... nuff said.................................
guy with snow cap is right. Married with 3 kids and thats how my daughters and wife talked
1:00 wouldnt that make mans communication pretty boring for woman ? lol
Waiting for that guy to say
“Because I’m heartless”
True
Mob and the earth is flat
Do you guys where any other color than black?! Haha
I like what he says, but it’s hard for my to take advice from dude wearing the Danny Coker headband!
Rolo gave no advice whatsoever!!!!
Good Shit
Its funny listening to alpha males talk like being a man is one solid path of expression. My male friend and I talk about our relationships in a way that these guys would call talking like a bitch. I get good info from these guys because I will listen to anyone, but there is more than one way to be masculine. If they are saying to be a man is to never express your emotions to a mentor or to a close friend then that's toxic. I get men shouldn't whine to everyone and not be weak, but there's nothing wrong with confiding in other men. Joe Rogan is alpha, but he sees benefit in the talking relationship stuff with other men.
Where did they say anything you are talking about in your comment?
The problem I have with those arguments is that it literally treats woman like an animal. Wild animal that cannot escape it's own programming. Which is ridiculous. If a person does not have some evolutionary ability to work against base impulses that person do not deserve to be called a human.
That is why the question is still standing. Why can't we be more truthful to each other for the sake of future generations ?
It would be easier and better for both sides to abide by "no BS" attitude.
EDIT. and cheating ? Dude - that is simply being a monster to the other person.
I refuse to believe woman are Machiavellian sociopaths in terms of dating.
Unfortunately some of us find out too late about women’s behavior. I hope that’s not the case for you
@@emiliorebenga443
Do you really have such a low expectation from a woman ?
Because I expect any human being to do better than described in the vid.
@@nc956as much hate as men get for acting on our biology women are actually ALOT more vulnerable to theirs. Can you have a successful relationship with a women if you don’t treat her like an animal? Sure but she has to be a minority of all women
You obviously have had very little experience with women, and most guys like you are still deluded. I’ve had somewhere around 70-80 bodies, I’m only 32. Most women I hooked up with, were in a relationship, and came on to me.
Why do you think patriarchal societies shunned from women from public and veiled them? They understood woman was a creature, and for safety of the family and herself, protected her from her own impulses which she cannot control.
I’m not advocating a return to patriarchy, but an adaptation to the modern jungle
I hear you, but what we are trying to explain here is why the world is as damaged as it is right now. Modern feminism has ruined today's women EXACTLY because it tells them to live out their inner animal, to let go of any boundaries and confinement that "patriarchal" society used to put on them. It is this "liberation" that leads most women NOT to some new place of self-awareness but to fall back into old pre-programmed patterns that are instinctual and animalistic. That's the point.
So, asking you guys…how does a man get women?
Treat em like crap. Job done.
The sad truth it yep treat them like crap, be mysterious etc.. be a bum to.. women seem to love bums as well 😂
@@updaterequired1173such a mystery why people like you are so alone
Simple, by getting another vvomen first.
How to you get that vvoman ? Well... by getting another vvoman beforehand.
Figure out what makes them happy and do the exact opposite
Sartain are you interested in debating Austin Witsit Getsit on heliocentrism vs geocentrism?
Argentina, South Africa and Australia all see the same southernly sky. End of debate, the earth is a ball.
@@meltingintoair7581 oh my apologies, is your name Sartain as well? I’ll let you know if we need a room temperature IQ heliocentrist for a coloring book debate or something.
@@WillSmith63957 LOL
Someone been listening to ALOT of Casey Zanders
Ok. Sound good. But these days that advise is out dated.