Dr. Gabor Maté - Compassionate Inquiry

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 30 бер 2018
  • Help support these programs to be free for all. Donate to Banyen Books here: www.banyen.com/events/donate
    Dr. Gabor Maté discusses Compassionate Inquiry with @BanyenBooksSoundVancouver .
    Help support these programs to be free for all by donating to Banyen Books here: www.banyen.com/events/donate
    Dr. Gabor Maté, renowned addiction expert and international speaker, discusses Compassionate Inquiry, a psycho-therapeutic method for facilitating physical, mental and emotional healing. Born out of necessity and rooted in the inseparability of mind and body, Dr. Maté highlights the importance of processing unresolved pain within ourselves as the foundation of helping others free themselves from the past, release trauma, and connect to a healing power within. Gabor Maté's books are available from Banyen Books: banyen.com/mate
    IN CONVERSATION is a series of captivating & insightful dialogues with leading writers, artists, and spiritual teachers. Listen to other episodes here: podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...
    And follow @BanyenBooksSoundVancouver for more videos.
    IN CONVERSATION is a production of Banyen Books & Sound, Canada’s most comprehensive body-mind-spirit bookstore. Visit us at 3608 West 4th Avenue, Vancouver, BC, or online at www.banyen.com.
    Credits:
    Interview Host: Farah Nazarali
    Video Production: Vitantonio Spinelli
    Production Manager: Jacob Steele
    Music: Laura Reznek

КОМЕНТАРІ • 45

  • @MelanieSakowski
    @MelanieSakowski 5 років тому +97

    “You’re not there to make someone feel better, but to make them better at feeling.” Boom 🙌🏻

    • @mariobragaiii4763
      @mariobragaiii4763 4 роки тому +2

      That is a great way to put it !

    • @jarijansma2207
      @jarijansma2207 3 роки тому +1

      I'm so glad of this western-eastern cocktail that is brewing within our collective hearts and minds. Everywhere I look I see interesting synthesizing of all levels of truth, kick-started by the katalysator of technology.. I have faith

    • @saskiazieltjens
      @saskiazieltjens 3 роки тому

      Well said..! And so true..!

  • @doreenlarose590
    @doreenlarose590 4 роки тому +29

    I love to listen to Gabor and his honesty and ability to just be real. Many in our society have lost this.

    • @michaelboyd8933
      @michaelboyd8933 5 місяців тому

      The more real we allow ourselves to be the more real people we happen to meet.

    • @tesskennedy4959
      @tesskennedy4959 2 місяці тому

      That’s often true.
      Being real enables being real

  • @elisemeola6375
    @elisemeola6375 Місяць тому

    This is brilliant!!! First time hearing about this. Love Dr Mate!!!!

  • @denise2169
    @denise2169 2 роки тому +9

    19:51 “Fierce compassion means that you’re not afraid of the pain that comes up….”
    25:09 “There’s a reason for everything…”
    Being able to compassionately reconnect with my childhood pain has helped me immensely to understand myself and to love my inner child, one who always felt abandoned and put down. I am finally letting go…. Thanks, Dr Maté!

    • @jameswarrren2545
      @jameswarrren2545 3 місяці тому

      Good for you. Don't stop loving that sweet little kid!

  • @beerbread
    @beerbread 3 роки тому +4

    I listen to Dr. Matė, it's like someone turning up the dimmer switch. TY.

  • @jarijansma2207
    @jarijansma2207 3 роки тому +7

    I'm so glad of this western-eastern cocktail that is brewing within our collective hearts and minds. Everywhere I look I see interesting synthesizing of all levels of truth, kick-started by the katalysator of technology.. I have faith

    • @aceslizeski1882
      @aceslizeski1882 3 роки тому

      Well said. I've been feeling something similar.

  • @Be1More
    @Be1More 5 років тому +13

    you are there to help someone see the truth of self, and that migt come w pain but you have to pace yourself by listening to cues of patient.... he's great and hope his personal life is in peace after figuring out his own workacholism etc

  • @willyjhopuky
    @willyjhopuky 4 роки тому +6

    I’m glad I discovered dr mate’ on you tube he is a great person and doctor

  • @SelfImageStylist
    @SelfImageStylist 5 років тому +11

    24:07 Compassionate listening vs. compassionate inquiry.
    25:30 How to respond to "the tragic communication of a need" : see the need underneath the words and the behavior, see them more clearly than they see themselves.
    [Next edit: .25 GAB-or]

  • @sj2024sj
    @sj2024sj Місяць тому

    Dr. Mate's voice is also relaxing! He is amazing!! Thank you 🙏

  • @kevinmaher397
    @kevinmaher397 4 роки тому +8

    A brilliant compassionate man. Thank God I came across his work

  • @TomTom-df9ph
    @TomTom-df9ph 5 років тому +26

    An incredible man. But with such pain in his eyes.

    • @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138
      @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138 5 років тому +13

      life experience. our society is truly savage (gain wealth forget all but self) and inflicts misery on millions of people

    • @lorenzovillegas2457
      @lorenzovillegas2457 2 роки тому

      Yeah… it takes one to know one… so to speak.🙏🏾

    • @Jyeah89
      @Jyeah89 2 роки тому

      his dad was in a concentration camp and his grandparents were killed by nazism.

    • @jameswarrren2545
      @jameswarrren2545 3 місяці тому

      The "Wounded Healer." Look it up!

    • @tesskennedy4959
      @tesskennedy4959 2 місяці тому

      Unfortunately and sadly

  • @shellyjohnson7964
    @shellyjohnson7964 4 місяці тому +1

    He is just so lovely 🫶

  • @yayangtapir4130
    @yayangtapir4130 2 роки тому +1

    I love listening to him. His accent is so soothing!

  • @aminahrolsdorph8551
    @aminahrolsdorph8551 4 роки тому +4

    I Love The Host 💚
    & A Student of Dr Gabor ..
    Such Generous Ray of Genuine Compassion Educating Us In A Very Powerful Beneficial to Me..
    Also The Blend of Intellectual & Spiritual Human Nature Observations...
    I Love It.
    It's Beneficial for Any Age With Different Ethnic Background.
    Seeking Growth..
    Thanks ☀️

  • @jennytaylor3324
    @jennytaylor3324 4 роки тому +4

    Lovely Gabor.

  • @svetlanalevinzon884
    @svetlanalevinzon884 3 роки тому +3

    You are the Best of The Best 👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️, thank you soooo much for your help and your wonderful work !!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @cgenoversa
    @cgenoversa 5 років тому +5

    Love this guy. Clearly he’s on the beam

  • @nabilc1667
    @nabilc1667 2 роки тому +1

    "Not to feel better, but make better with feeling"

  • @joy96815
    @joy96815 6 років тому +9

    Thanks for the upload, good interview.

  • @CynthiaSchoenbauer
    @CynthiaSchoenbauer 6 років тому +6

    Yay!

  • @saxongreen78
    @saxongreen78 4 роки тому +1

    I saw the jump cut near 'what revolves around what?' 😊

  • @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138
    @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138 5 років тому +6

    hey! love to know all the facts... why was the video edited at 11:52? does the lady believe the sun revolved around the earth? that's alright ;)

  • @AnnaPoli800
    @AnnaPoli800 Місяць тому

    What does it mean being held emotionally? Being connected through feelings right?

  • @roberthiggins2252
    @roberthiggins2252 3 роки тому

    Anyone know what it means to "Mirror back to someone their true self" like was mentioned in the video? Please respond with a Mate' quote or video so I can learn more about that. I found that interesting and wanted to follow up on that.

    • @denise2169
      @denise2169 2 роки тому

      16:30 “Compassion simply means the willingness to accept someone for exactly as they are.” And I would add that this includes compassion for ourselves and what we have been living. Such warmth and understanding in a world that sometimes seems so devoid of these.

    • @lorenzovillegas2457
      @lorenzovillegas2457 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/MYJqW00220k/v-deo.html

  • @sandyzappa840
    @sandyzappa840 4 роки тому +1

    Volume!!

  • @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138
    @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138 5 років тому +3

    16:20