Ending a conversation with an extrovert be like...
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- Опубліковано 17 тра 2021
- When you just can't get away
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K... bye...
Uh that reminds me, remember that guy...? 🤓
Byeeeee
Adiós
Extroverted Frank looks fine.
Wow, me trying to spend more time with my sister before she isolates herself in her room
When they tell you they're having the best conversation ever but you haven't said a word for 40 min
"you're a pretty good listener" 😔
Keep it for next time when "remember when you said this? I can't speak a word. so...:
@travis Rm because that's why you are a good listener. They want to talk all the time and feel validated without the other person also needing to talk too. We become the perfect target for this.
Brings me back to my Sixth Form days (Collage), when a girl I sat with in Law class came up to me one time and talked for about half an hour while I'm pretty sure I never said more than a sentence back.
Some people say that I'd be a great psychologist. I do not say the faintest word apart from "ok, really and see ya lat(nev)er"
Every introverts in a conversation: "Beginning is the end"
Every extrovert in a conversation : "End is the beginning"...
No the 2nd one is for my mom
OMG yes! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
The end is never the end is never the end is never the end is never the end....
Gee, that’s really DARK. 😏
DARK Reference!
"he's an extrovert"
"okay, so.."
"an _insecure_ extrovert"
"OH CRAP"
LOL
The most draining ones for sure. 😂
Nooooo anything but that.
my friend is one of those and this happens when i try to end a conversation with her
Why? 🥺
This is me and my sister, she follows me around all the time while she's talking non-stop 😂😂
I do this to people too 😂😂😂😂😂
Same here!
Adorable 😂
Your sister follows u😳😳😳
My husby 🤣💯💯🤣
It's amazing how introverts become extroverts when you actually share a topic that they are interested in.
But that's a rare case.
That's me! If it's something I find really interesting, I end up having to shut myself up so I don't become the one holding someone conversationally hostage...but most times that doesn't happen and I'm just awkwardly standing there wanting the talking to stop.
Oooh, so true! (Unfortunately.) We should get credit for pretending to act interested, though. It's a lot of work to not hurt people's feelings.
Introverts don't 'become extraverts'. They just use their rare blast mode that extraverts use all the time.
The inaccuracy of your statement shows a fundamental lack of understanding of the subject.
@@justinwhite2725 She just meant "act like extroverts." Chill.
@@pocahontas5145 that's just as bad.
Introvert: "I've got stuff to do"
The "stuff" in question: 😴🍽️📺🛋️
that stuff is underrated and necessaryyyy
I actually thought that's how it was going to end
Who gave you my schedule?! 🤣🤣🤣
exactly
@L Cam a couch and lamp 🛋
When he said "Call?" I really felt that
Deeply.
Like my phone getting attacked along with my precious time going wasted in someone's Uber driver story😂😂
You can put it on a reject list,
That's better than talking face to face tbh
Avoiding is much easier then
My excuse: I'm going to study.
Also me: Watches UA-cam for 7 hrs straight-
You described me.
How are you me though?
I feel called out
Exactly i just brought my book out, then i saw my phone and immediately watch this video.
FUCK RIGHT I NEED TO STUDY PHILOSOPHY BYE-
As an infj, I would not be able to say no to listening someone else's back story. So, yeah, never-ending conversation forever 😅
As an ENTP, I'd gladly share with you my backstory, until 2 seconds in where I realize you are uncomfortable, and ask you about your feelings which leads to you willingly telling me your backstory instead. It always happens.
As an INTP, we like to collect a sh*t ton of data on people. Like give me everything you can say about yourself, and i mean all of it. So, i prefer conversations where people talk 95% of the time, and the other 5% is either me asking for clarification or nodding and saying "u-hum"/"yes"/"ok"
As an INFJ myself, sometimes one part of me want to listen to them cause their experience is interesting to me and I want them to feel listened. But the other part want to be efficient and not losing time. So I'm happy they can talk about their problems but I'm angry for my personal case. It's always a terrible dilemma.
@@NerdyCatCoffeeee I love doing that too. I find that the fastest way to make a friend is specifically asking them about what they are passionate about, then sit back while they talk about it for an hour or so.
@@sharingheart13 an ENTP with feels?! Let me go find a ring to propose to you real quick.
As an introvert that’s how I believe everybody in the room feels whenever I explain my opinion on the topic
I SWEAR
Yeah
Me too 😁
( but for me that "everybody" is my family or my close friend.)
“I don’t... have a phone...”
“Oh...” lmao that would be my excuse at that point
oh, then we should go together and get you one, if you don't have money, I can buy you it instead of a birthday present, you know, it's like 21 century, you won't survive without a phone. Oo that's remind me about my cousin who lives in the countryside. I was there last summer. He's a real cool guy, he has so many stories to tell, like that funny one about..
just kidding, I'm an introvert too, i hate when people call me lol
I just avoid calls. And at that moment I would give my number anyway and avoid a call as usually, saying that I was sleeping.
I actually don’t own a cellphone… I’m an extrovert though oops! ^^’
That's what I said lol
I was laughing up until he said “I’ll call tonight... What’s your number?”
Then it turned into an introverts horror story!!!
I ask people for there numbers so I can text them. I'm still an introvert though
True that
My excuse: I don't have a number... I don't even have a phone...
I actually laughed when he said that 😃
I always ask introverts for their phone numbers, emails, youtube, viber, even minecraft usernames so I can always find them, then I see them turning white from fear and I burst in laughter
I am extrovert
I literally felt guilty when he said ''you're gonna run away just like everyone'' 😂 but the ''i will call you'' made me want to commit a crime 😂😂
Same (INFP here)
@@Sheseasyouthere no i'm an INFJ 😛
Fax :) , I’m actually terrified more of phone calls than actual meetings... dunno if its just me... idk I feel like I’m mentally ill :
@@Vero-di1wm hey! Everyone's different! I'm an extreme extrovert(ENFP) but since I try to think of people all the time, I run into this problem. I'll explain a little here....I think to myself, 'I should call my friend. Haven't talked in awhile. See they're doing. But wait, it's noon. They're probably having lunch. If I call now, I may get too excited and talk too much off the hop and if they are out with friends or just trying to chew, they won't appreciate it. I better not call. They may not feel like they can say they need to go. Maybe I'll call them after lunch, yah, that'd be good. Oh wait, sometimes they like to have quiet time after lunch and that won't be good. They might not like me barging in to their world right then....but she said call anytime....?? Did she mean it? Does she really want to talk to me that much or is she being polite? But then if I don't call, she might think I don't care!! But I care so much I just want to tell her that! Oh that'd be weird. I should just talk about normal stuff....like, um....whats going on that's interesting? Oh yah that weird thing with my toe? I guess? Nothing else?! How dumb!!! I have nothing to say anyway. I won't call her. She'd just be annoyed I would call to say nothing and talk too much. I HATE THIS!!!! Stupid phones anyway!! If I just saw her in person, I would see the cues and hints, and maybe I could just enjoy a good convo with my best bud, but in the meantime, I may not ever call her because that stupid phone is so stressful!! ....spoken like a true extrovert, no?! Lol sorry I just extroverted you, but I hope this helps you see that everyone has their hangups:)
@@juanitaglenn9042 same- estp
When they tell me we have the best conversation ever, but in reality it is a free psychotherapy (they talk for hours and I don't say a word)
If I ever host a party I'll introduce the "Introvert recharge station", where my introvert/ambivert friends have the chance to chill at a nearby area with lofi beats, candles, fairy lights and books to take a breather.
Omg. That is such a BRILLIANT idea!!!💡
That’s a great idea!!!
I love you! Such a station is needed EVERYWHERE :D
Thanks for including the ambiverts, appreciate that a lot as an ENFP😁
If you do, please invite me. I would love to do what I do at home alone together for once.
Nowadays all I do in a conversation is nod.
I’m 70 yrs old., and that’s mostly all I’ve ever done.,
My whole life...
Nod and listen.
I thought for a while , years ago, I could get into counseling...
But then I realized it would drive me crazy,
Lol
Me too!
and awkward smiles
Too bad if that’s happening during a conversation by phone
@@helshayou can always say "mhm, yeah," throw an awkward giggles, trust me it works
Once the word "CALL" occurs, you can see in his eyes how he already visualizes yeeting his phone out the window
😂😂😂
I just filled up with rage after saying call, imean isnt it obvious that the guy wants to leave, end of conversation!
I hate calls that have this eerie long pause of silence, it gives me the chills just thinking about it
I even nearly had a heart attack when he said phone call lol. We hate phone calls 😂
I'd tell him, "My number is 1800 STFU."
The accuracy of this video is scaring me.
As an ENFP, the extrovert in this video truly resonate with me. During occasional hangouts, usually it is me talking non-stop about random things and my introverts friends are just sitting and listening and providing little feedbacks. WKWKWKWK
Sorry introverts, but sometimes we just have so much to talk about and we're just too eager to spend all of our energies with you all. WKWWKWKWK
''They figured out I'm not Tom Cruise …too tall'' 😂 really good beginning lol!
😂😂😂
I don't know how Frank has time to read all of the comments but I am loving the hilarious response to audience participation
I swear franks eyes get greener the more uncomfortable he gets😆
They do! Lol
They don’t know the difference between a monologue and a conversation
They simply don't, fucking tired!
I have a friend who won’t stop talking about her problems. I try to interject occasionally and tell her how my life is going - but no - she doesn’t want to know. Straight back to her and her life. Ugh 😑 I’m an INFJ and I listened and was supportive for at least a whole year but I’m over it now!!
That always sucks. It could be what therapists call the trauma pull. It can be hard not to get stuck in the story of the drama/trauma when there hasn't been any real emotional processing around it. But always talking about it, complaining etc. just builds those neuropathways and makes it even harder to stop. As a fellow introvert and someone with a counseling background, it's not your job to save your friend or fix them or put up with a one sided relationship. You could have a heart to heart with them or move on.
@@AndreaCrisp My usual go to response is to move on as I don’t really like getting into all out arguments which is what seems to happen if I try to point out the truth. But I probably need to attempt to do that as being an introvert it doesn’t take much to run out of friends.
That sounds annoying af!
Maybe you should just tell her the truth? I mean, sometimes it is the best solution. I can almost picture one of my friends typing the same comment about me - sometimes I do similar things, but I'm trying to fight with it. I imagine, that it would help, if one of my friends just told me: Okay, now SHUT UP and listen to me please.
@@poprostuja8223 yes I probably should have done that. I’m wary of people reacting badly to the truth and then I get cast as the villain. But I probably need practice in stating the truth and not caving to the emotional backlash that comes after it. It would be good if you did try to ask how your friends are more as eventually it can drive them away if you forget to.
Lol, some people just cannot take the hint.
And as an introvert, that got me really scared especially the ending! 😆
For me it was like reoccurring deja vu. Basically every time my sister calls :(
Yeppp
It's not just you. I'm an extrovert, and even I'm creeped out by that ending.
Imagine having a cousin like that, you will feel my pain😶
My mother is one of those people, and I don't know if she can't see the cues or just chooses to ignore them.
I love how the introvert looks like a kitty peeking out behind a corner
Exactly
That is a nice image. Introverted guys are so cute!
When you straight up tell someone “Okay, I’m gonna LEAVE now!” and they will start talking to your back. 🤣🤣🤣
"I'll let you go now" is my go-to. Always. Desperately. Even as my inner voice is screaming, "Do you not recognize that I'm actually in physical pain trying to maintain consciousness under the barrage of your unintelligible verbiage?"
Every time it happens to you just ask him to play hide and seek! So go hide and never comeback!
What if he is the one to hide?
@@adjaaja8960 just go don't seek!
*It's a joke btw, don't do irl tho😀
@@tikaardhany7568 I actually gave it around 2 hours of thought and i think if i hate the person enough, it might work, but then you said not to use it in real life
@@NerdyCatCoffeeee me too
Or go to buy milk....
I kind of feel a bit of compassion for the extroverted just wanting to talk more, he seems so lonely XD
Yeah, i did the same. With a "friend" from somewhere in my neighborhood, whom i don't even know
I can act a tiny bit like this when I haven't spoken to anyone for a few months. It is the flip side of INTP
Yea he's so lonely man XD
People like that are definitely lonely.
I don't know why extroverts don't just talk to a mirror. They're not interested in anything anyone else has to say anyway.
That conflicting moment of genuine concern for the extrovert mixed with the dread of continued social interaction was so perfectly portrayed. XD
I'm an extrovert with social anxiety, you don't know the pain, craving for a social life while also being afraid to be out there.
that kinda sounds like me sometimes lol
@DULA PEEP I remember that before I had it there were no invisible eyes watching me, waiting for me to do wrong and then judge me. It really is in your mind but you can't just get rid of it.
This is the most relatable thing I've seen all day
This was such a scary horror movie! The scariest part was definitely when the extrovert character asked for the introvert character's phone number!
Although the first ominous occurrence was the extravert suddenly appearing when the introvert thought they got away 🤣
@@charitysbizarre4365 umm... ok... whatever that means-
@@violet3430 when the introvert turns around thinking they were leaving the extravert in the other room but the extravert suddenly appears in front of them.
@Bonnie on the side they can say they if they want lol
This made my laugh so hard. Thank you
"You strike me as a pisces" "No im actually a sagittarius" LMAO
Lol
Is he really a sagittarius? now I'm confused
@@gabrielamariela I’m sagittaires and being even more introverted than him.
Yeah, I'm Sagittarius too and supposedly we're the life of the party.. not me, so introverted..
@@erikadavis21 exactly same thing with Leos, we're expected to be extroverted, but I'm an introvert, and people confused me with a Scorpio.🤣
I am INFP but I have to recognise I can be the extrovert guy in this video when I'm excited and talking about something I like so much 😂🙈 especially when he says "this story is very crazy and extremely long" 😂😂😂 but that's me talking about a story I created about my fictional characters. It's a neverending conversation because I create so many things at the same time and get lost on my thoughts hahah
But I have to be really comfortable with the person I'm talking to or I'll be the one trying to end the conversation but not having the boldness to go away worried about the possibility of hurt their feelings. And I would NEVER take calls or call anyone. Just watching this video I felt desperate because of the person wanting his phone number
We INFP writers can be terrible like that.
Yo, INFP here talking about his worldbuilding creation to a couple of friends.... for years now.
@@traum4rei959 hi guysss im an ENFP and i started writing stories too, wanna share them together cus i need feedback and i also love ready others stories😁😁😁
Its a satire, of course introverts can be like that too! I often act like this too and Im an introvert
Just..not for long 😅
@@doveskyler9021 Yeah, I am not sure if I'm the best critic for writings. My stories are more into building a world and some plots here & there, but I haven't done like a page by page book.
My ideas revolves around history, mythology, etc.
This really hits when your friends have been talking to you for 3 hours and you want to be
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Extrovert: I'll call you tonight. What's your number?
Introvert: It's 911, and you can just continue the conversation where we left without asking me when I answer the phone
I legit thought he'd say 911, but didn't 😂
Lol 😆🤣
😭
I'm mildly introverted but I like to sit back and listen to an extrovert talk to his heart's content. It's oddly relaxing. Like I'm listening to the radio or something.
I could see that; some people have a lot of extra energy to share
Agreed as long as there’s no unspoken expectation or pressure to contribute.
that's a great way of thinking i'll try that too haha
I can only do that if they’re interesting. Otherwise, I’m annoyed.
oh my god!! same with me!!! I am just relieved he or she is taking the lead, and ALL the attention away from me! its actually life saving!! except when he or she in question turns his or her attention to you and betrays you (i.e. ask you a surprise attack question, while every one just turn their gaze to you at the same time waiting , urging you to say something and hunting every mistake!!!) oh my god ! I think I scared my self by imagining that!!!!
😂 this is me when im trying to get off the phone with my mom
I cried with laughter all the way through this 🤣
So relatable! 😂 Oh, and we should appreciate the subtle attention to detail (the two characters’ differently trimmed beards).👍
And hair too! He got the slicked style 😎 vs. the slightly askew! 🤓 This is a gem.💎😂
Hello bro
How r u
@@csaron6868 Hi CSARON
@@Carol_65 how are u doing brother
I just don’t know how to end a conversation in general.
-some random infj
Omg same! I get so awkward at the end of a conversation.
I write exit lines on my palm so i can cheat, “Ok, thanks for the chat. I have to go now”
If that’s not enough,
You “have plans” and you “can’t be late” even if the plan is to lie in bed and examine the ceiling.
I have learned to use ...I gotta go the bathroom, I need to go eat, or I am exhausted and need a nap. No one can argue with taking care of bodily functions, and as an infj who routinely neglects my upkeep, it's usually true. We infjs sacrifice our needs to be there for others...but my body will tell me when my time is up. I even have gotten headaches from too much socializing.
@@ccverdera6298 same it's like:
"Um so I think I will go now"
"Ok"
"Um"
*awkward silence*
"Bye O-O"
"Bye meet u later"
"Ok I guess"
*some more awkward silence*
As an Infj, I just say I have plans elsewhere and I'm already late. Easy and effective.
“When I call...” 😰😰😰the dread that went through my body just hearing that phrase.
This dude teleported to finish the story?!?!? 😂
as a extrovert i feel exposed
i just have NO IDEA on how to end a conversation without making things weird
then i just keep talking trying to find the right moment ... after with 30 minutes babbling i regret not ending the convo earlier 😭😭😭
When you get to that point, force the ending of the conversation by suddenly saying that you've talked so much and aren't good at ending conversations. Then say that since you've been talking so much, you want to hear if the other person wants to say anything. If they do, good. Now it's their turn to talk. If they don't, then thank them for their time and say your goodbye before walking away.
People will appreciate your awareness of your own flaw. And by openly mentioning your own flaw with that timing, you'll become more aware of it too, which leads to you becoming better and managing it.
Yo!! I thought it was just me. You feel the awkward kind of silence... "well have you ever thought about why we have pinky toes"? No well here's my running theory -entj
That's how a few of my extroverted friends are 😂. I'm used to it now.
you have to get blatant and just say "my back hurts, i have to go, talk later"....
Just get extroverted friends (or introverted friends who enjoy your company much) and then ypu can end every conversation with "fuck i really have to go to bed..."
This is so accurate. Usually when I'm in a conversation with extroverts, they tell me they like to talk with me cause it's easy...but bro, I often barely say anything.
They can get a flow going. Plus they feel listened to.
Sure they can with a monologue.
This is why I have enjoyed working from home so much the last 15 months.
I love these types. They carry the entire conversation, means I don’t have to say a world.
Now we'd need a "Starting conversation with an introvert be like..."
Oh wait, extroverts don't have a problem with that.
Haha
Btw, you like dubstep? :)
But as an introvert with mostly introverted friends I still need that video😂😂 the first 15-30 minutes of our group video calls we just say so what's up... that's hard on everyone honestly but because we miss each other we don't have another choice 🥲
But my crush is an introvert and so am I. TEACH ME HOW
Introvert listening to an extravert saying literally anything:
« It’s a 🎶NEVER-ENDING STOOOOOORYYYYY🎶 »
😂
Why is this so real???! It makes me want to cry sometimes.
introverts can have friends too ight....
we just appreciate someone who's there for us who will also leave us alone *most* of the time
“I got stuff to do”
My number one excuse.
This happens literally all the time. I even try avoiding people I know in public just so I don't have to talk to anyone. Then you get home and see "Hey did I just see you at Wal-Mart? How are you??".
So true! I don't shop anymore (except food). I don't even like going out in my own front yard anymore. It's not agoraphobia. Not afraid of being outside. I just don't want to be cornered by neighbors. It used to be a friendly wave and a nod. Now it's like, "Let's have a long conversation. You be my therapist and life coach. Oh, and by the way could you do something for me like house sit my pets so I can have a fabulous vacation?" No, I really don't want to do any of those things!! I even wait until 2am to take out my garbage cans. I think it's because all the extraverts have been cooped up so long in isolation that their need for human contact has reached an insatiable level. And we introverts are being bombarded.
@@ua2381 I thought it was just me!!!
ROFL!!! Oh, that is SO like trying to get away from *that* bubbly extrovert...who...won't...stop...! Your expressions are priceless! 💖💖💖
This is hilarious, Frank!! 😅🤣 Trouble is us introverts are like the extrovert once we get going too... can’t shut up! 🤓
The main difference is that the extroverts have had to wait an entire day for an audience, and we introverts have had to wait 7-9 months for one! 😂
Listen, as an extrovert, I love to talk, but if you want to leave, y’all can tell me to shut up I don’t wanna trap you, okay, I just like conversation-
What if you feel bad tho- 😶
It's only a conversation if both people get to talk and be listened to .
@Martha H I'm an introvert but I have no problem being assertive and ending conversations abruptly with people who can't stop talking.
I guess it's because even though I'm an introvert I'm not shy, I've also started working as a teacher so I guess I've been practicing telling people what to do lmao.
@@lauragoreni3020 I also noticed that I go a lot less shy after I started teaching. Social interactions (and teaching itself) still drain me, but untill I ran out of energy I have no problem being assertive in conversations.
Right? I laughed at this but I'm extra aware if I've been talking for way too long and I try to let everyone be as comfortable as they can if they just want to not talk anymore, not talk at all, or change the conversation
I got accidentally pulled into a conversation in a parking lot. With a crazy person. It was just. Like. This. 😩
This is literally a representation of my ENFP friend trying to befriend me for the first time. She thought i was new when we literally have been living in the same dorm for 2 years. I just don't talk to anyone
You are lucky enfp was talking to you, enfps are lovely people
@@chaitanyajain3127 she was too much for me to handle at the beginning to the point i'd turn off the light at night so she'd think i was out when i actually was just lying in my bed in complete darkness
@@kimj7645 then you and enfp have major differences in personality
This gives me goosebumps, I had a person in my life who did that to me again and again, each of her stories took 3 hours, and she kept saying how she enjoyed conversations with me. For me it felt like emotional violence. You think she was an extrovert? No, an INFP.
The amount of times I’ve had to create fake teams meetings to avoid people’s phone calls 😂
Hey that's brilliant!😃
I WAS JUST IN THIS EXACT SITUATION WITH MY DAD😭 HE WOULDN'T LET ME LEAVE😭
OMG, my dad died in 2009, but I got all his genes. My mom is insane,
Huh, I just watched this again and the advert was you!! Go Frank! Massive congratulations on 700k, you worked hard for this! Been amazing to watch you grow. Thanks, Frank. 🙏🏻😊
This one really hit home. Thanks, FJ.
I have a friend whose more of an introvert than I am and when he's done talking he just leaves, it's pretty funny. He likes talking to me, but when he's done he's done XD. I need to be like that more.
Ohhh I'm also like that, sorry but no actual regrets lmao. At least you know that when they're with you they're really interested!
@@lauragoreni3020 ya basically, I completely get how he is, when the conversation has no where to go he just bounces, and I can read people pretty well, so it doesn't really bother me.
I can't imagine that but when I try it's so funny lmao😂😂
I'm like that. If my sister and I are out shopping and she meets a friend, I try to be polite, but if they stick around, she knows she will find me in the nearest bookshop when she has ditched her friend.
@@lauragoreni3020 Exactly, optimal.
700K Congrats Frank!
You deserve more 🤩🎊
thanks ♥
Fj does deserve more indeed. I mean cmon hes so likable
@@FrankJames I am Algerian I love to watch your videos, I am intj LOL
@@smhm7771 same
@@crwth001 ok
This is comedic gold! And as an extrovert, I know I do this a lot to introverts. Hahaha.
"so long story short"
Reader, it was not short. It never was going to be.
Bahaha! The extrovert is definitely my mom, the introvert definitely me.
same same samee
That’s exactly who I thought of 😂 my mom.
Ending a conversation with an Extrovert when you're an Introvert is bad,
_but not knowing how to start a conversation is worse._
Agree to disagree. How to end one is worse. Not knowing how to start one is awkward but not have the possibility of end one is way worse. I can handle awkward but not the other one.
No not really, I'm not really that interested in starting a conversation in the first place, that way I don't get stuck in a conversation I can't end!
@@joanneginever1890 You may have a point.
I can start a convo, but once I'm done, I want to disengage but people are drawn to talking to me...it is hard to escape a conversation because I do like philosophizing, but when Ive made my point I want out.
@@Jjj6212 that's literally the definition of selfish
It all hurt because it was soooo true. Damn dude, on point. They....they won't let you leave!! 🤣
Lol. Extroverts keep talking,talking,talking,talking, and never stop lol😂😂
I fondly remember when I was a child and my mom would come to pick me up from a friend's house (or vice versa) and we'd get an extra hour of playtime while she's constantly telling us "We're gonna leave soon, get your stuff together".
This is why conversations with my Animal Crossing villagers are the best. Short and sweet (but sometimes sassy)
"why dont we save that for another tah,,,"🤣
The pressure was too much that the introvert just...KABOOM!!
Never to be seen again
1:24 Hey, that's my move! 🤣
the video was downloaded 2 hours ago and your comment was 15 hours ago !!!
Becky, that also my move. Can you believe people don't get the meaning when I do that?
@@user-zs5tp9zi6n I thought it was the obvious, universal, "I give up" sign. There are people on this earth who don't get it?
@@BeckyPhelps Yes, sadly there are 😔
@@user-zs5tp9zi6n That's terrible. Just out of morbid curiosity, have you considered communicating through interpretive dance? 🤣 The way I see it, they'll either 1) Look at you like you're from Mars and leave...problem solved or
2) Ask what you're doing which gives you an opening to ask them what THEY think you were trying to say, which will probably make them feel uncomfortable and swing back to option 1.
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this is because we find connections w everything u say and we just cant help but get excited and say it wE LIKE TALKING TO U😭
As an introvert I also love connecting with people, but actual connections take both sides, while I feel some people who keep talking are just connected on their side, if you know what I mean.
OMG !!! The face offs are epic! 🤣🤣🤣
I felt this in my soul. Especially the gradual trying to walk away but they don't stop thing. lol
Did anyone see his first YT vid? He was depressed at that time and it was probably 4 am, on new yr....nd look at him now. He's a great guy. I'm an INFJ nd I know what it takes to transform...hats off to you man :)
Yep, I agree!😄
@@StephanieJeanne haha I really like this dude now. He's so cool
@@suraloveshoon He is!😊
Yes! He's seems so much better. I'm happy for him. 😁
A typical conversation between my ESFP mom and INTJ aunt 😂 Imagine what it was like for them to grow up together...
Absolute hell for both perhaps lol
Bro they're the literal opposite.
this kind of conversation flow also happens between INFP me and my ESTJ sister daily 🤣 after talking for quite some time and i'm ready to go to my room, my sister just goes, "and you know what? bla bla bla." And i ended up staying and listening cuz i wanna show respect to her talking. Everytime i go out of my room to the kitchen, my sister often goes out of her room at the same time i'm in the kitchen, then strike a conversation. I'm glad that the conversation isn't as bleak and scary as depicted in the video, talking with my sister is actually quite nice! It's just unfortunate that my social interaction stamina can't keep up with her
@@soraeverblue Oh wow! And yes, we extroverts crave social interaction badly, and can imprison introverts in never ending conversations, but I swear, we mean no harm 😅
@@effiethefey yes! Talking with my sister is quite nice, i don't hate it at all! She might miss connecting with people she usually meets in normal situation since she has to do her activities from home now due to the pandemic, and she seems to be comfortable talking to me about various topics. So sometimes i wish my social interaction capacity can last longer cuz i want to listen to my sister and i want her to feel listened to
2:08 Sounds like extrovert’s about to cry
That's when you pull the all times saver "it got stolen... so sorry. K, bye"🤣
I do not have this problem as an INTJ, I just walk the fuck away often even saying anything at all 😂😂
Same. It's actually energy vampirism when someone makes you pay attention to them like this. It's right in line with the ideas that extroverts gain energy socially and introverts lose energy socially. Learn assertiveness or definitely walk the f away if you wanna keep your energy!
also: you can't set a boundary and take care of someone else's feelings at the same time!
I was looking for this comment 🤣
As an INFJ, I do the same damn thing.
I'm an INFP and the same.
so accurate it hurts...I've taken to just leaving after the second time I make the slow shuffle towards the door, otherwise they'd keep me there talking forever.
So relatable. It's like a nightmare when you can't escape.
Introverts like me can relate everytime with James ....Lol 😂😂
When you're trying to watch this but are interrupted by the family extrovert
LOL! I had a friend who used to just say, "Well, bye!" on the phone when she wanted to hang up. We should just do that!
I say that to people who say they need to go. “Ok, bye”. Click. Some people scramble to add more nonsense.
Watching this was so realistic it gave me flashback anxiety to past “escape attempts”, while also reminding me there are many more to come.
Same feeling when someone says they ll call me later when we were just talking!
They literally make it impossible for you to make a graceful exit by never stopping for breath, or picking up on any social cues whatsoever. This video... NAILED it!
Well first, congratulations on 700k!🎊 And second, that was hilarious!! Laughed all the way through! I loved how glasses guy was closer and closer to the door every time you cut back to him!!😂🤣😂👍
thanks!!
That first shot halfway behind the door was hysterical.😂 I wasn‘t expecting it. The shot itself is brilliant-wide shot from a distance. He looked so small and far away.😂
@@Carol_65 😭Yes it was! Excellent execution!
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@@FrankJames Why are you didn’t put emoji Maybe
you are angry now
Dear God.. it's torture when this happens..every time you try to leave..they keep pulling you back in..
I SO look forward to your videos!! It’s alway spot on and your acting is awesome 😂.
I know, people do not know how to stop. It's like the moment is supposed to end, I'm 'bout to leave, but suddenly they again start talking and I'm like..
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This is making me feel so guilty for all the times I did something similar
I was already thankful for the super patient introvert friends of mine, but now even more!
I am an extrovert and I still feel like this is exhausting 😂 these people wear ME out hardcore
As an INFP I'm incredibly grateful for all your videos about Introverts!!