Colourism Part 1- Fair & Lovely (EXPOSED)
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- Опубліковано 21 сер 2024
- In this eye-opening episode, a brave South-Asian women of darker skin tone opens up about the lifetime of abuse she has endured; because she is darker!
Communities, Families, societal structures are all brought to the fore.
EXPOSED……. Not to be missed!
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I’m Somali and a Bengali guy called me a black b*stard during a road rage incident. He was darker than me 🤣🤣🤣
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Ya mabood 🤭
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@@shakur8918 obviously he's colour blind 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Be nice people, please dnt belittle or leave nasty comments.
Takes alot of courage to speak in public / podcast.
Respect to both sisters and also the host as this is a great format and i hope it grows tremendously.
Highly agree! Jzk both Rupina and I took our time to raise awareness around this topic. It takes a lot so thank you for acknowledging 🎉
I agree, its always the ones that follow up using "Allah" after they have left nasty comments to back themselves up. disgusting
The sister said “You know” 1111 times.
Now I know 🤣
You counted??
Put me off! Sorry couldn’t listen anymore.
so what
Rupina is an amazing speaker! Love her confidence
The Host himself is of darker skin tone , but still good looking.
Why is it that Girls have to be Fair skin tone to be considered Pretty.
Double standards once Again !!.
Women do it too. Don't think it's a man only thing. Women of all races prefer whites because they find them more attractive. Just look at ok-cupid dating appa data that backs me up.
Coz men’s eyes are different to women’s.. you'd rarely see a good looking man with an ugly woman but you'll often find beautiful women with ugly men. Women go for money and personality and are hypergamous by nature whereas men don't really care about that stuff as much
You sure his good looking…or you need to go specsavers
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Exactly! It’s even his skin tone that makes him more attractive. Even the sister, unfortunately Asians standard of beauty is different. In India they use Eastern European models for their saris/ Asian fashion! 🥴
So sad this still exists within communities who should be united and not divided just because of 'skin tone'. Beautifully said Samia, that the Lord made us the way we are. Love yourself as you are and be strong and confident against people who have this mindset. Its the heart❤ and what's inside that really matters.....
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The host- massive respect for you & your team for covering another important taboo issue in the south Asian community 🙌🏼
This platform needs to be praised & appreciated for bringing these huge topics that no one is talking about to the forefront.
To Samia: you are insanely beautiful, and I am sorry you weren’t appreciated for your kindness , qualities and intellect (and I’m sure much more!)
Keep fighting the good fight everyone 🩷
Hello, I see my no.1 fan has arrived. How is your mother, sister, daughter, auntie, Nani, niece and ex wife doing?
@understandingprophetsI’m a divorced single mum, thanks and I pray your daughter, sisters or mum or even wife doesn’t end up a single mum … cos no sane sister would choose to experience the pain of divorce. Even worst, to raise small children single handedly as they ask where there dad is… 🥴 but Alhamdulillah
Living in your bubble sounds like so much fun ☺️ enjoy
This thing is a troll sis. A potty mouthed, unloved and unsatisfied little 💩 and leaves nasty messages on all their videos because they don’t get attention at home. Protect your energy from this one sis ❤️
JZK Thank you so much really appreciate your kind words ❤
I am baffled watching this episode. The majority of people in Whitechapel have a similar or darker skin tone than the sister in the yellow jacket. She is not darker than the average Bangladeshi. The people who were bullying her were 🤡🤡.
You would be surprised that my friends who are slightly ‘lighter’ in skin tone than myself also get classed as ‘dark’ the society likes to compare to “whose the fairest of them all” Alhamdulillah that it’s much better now but there is a significant amount of people who still sing this tune
Thank you to the SM team for such a warm welcome into the Silent Majority Family! Really appreciate it!
Gotta say, this episode was hard hitting and what was once and for a long time treated as a taboo topic has been touched on and touched on well I feel. We all have our anecdotal experiences in facing and/or experiencing colourism within the South Asian community. Really brave of Sister Samiya to open up and give us an insight into what she has faced and good luck to all that you guys endeavour to do to tackle such a disgusting issue within our community!
Love the content, love the channel & love all that is up and coming from the SM Team & we are proud & excited to continue to support this.
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Absolutely, a lot of people to this day are facing abuse in our communities because of the tone of their skin. A massive thank you to Samia for being brave!
Glad you enjoyed it Ahyaan estate!
SM Team
Another amazing piece 👏👏👏👏 this show should and would with the grace of Allah subhanatallah grow massive insha’Allah
The host and guests are just spot on and bringing up topics of taboo in our community is the way forward and is your niche
Well done 👏
Thank you. Insha’Allah, Ameen ❤️🙏
SM Admin Team
THANK YOU 🙏 for the excellent presentation and very good topic you shared.
growing up as a pakistani we had the same complexity. my younger cousin got it a lot! I'm quite fair and even I bleached my face in school and used fair and lovely. Alhamdulillah that faze has passed now. our parents generation like the brother said had that village mentality.
I can't believe you are saying this. You are beautiful and your skin tone is beautiful.
The people who are telling you this are the wrong type to be around. It definitely needs to change. We need to embrace our skin. We do need to change this.
Never go for a lighter foundation as it makes you look ashy & worse.
Ameen JZK for stating this but sadly there are people who think this. Although a lot has changed there are lots needed to be changed going forward
23:43 wow even the host is doing it. “She’s not dark”!!!! Mad he’s doing this podcast and then falling into same thing
It’s a western ideology that fair skin = beauty. Darker skin people are beautiful as well
its also darker peoples ideology, that what shes saying.aunties picking on her for being darker
The guest is absolutely gorgeous..You stand proud of your skin colour..
JZK that’s kind of you to say
us bengalis need to stop comparing ourselves to lighter or "conventionally more beautiful" asians like the pakistanis(who arent even all that tbh i will never date a pakistani guy again who are arrogant just coz they're more handsome and beautiful!),we should be proud to be bengalis,even though we are darker,so what?allah made us all beautiful!we are all allahs creation,self love is key
Top man, top pod
I definitely relate to this sister who suffered mentally cause of darker complexion. This is a true and still exist in this day and age amongst our Asian community it is so nasty
I wonder what with Iqbal think about this topic
Iqbal what’re you doing here!
How did the host sit through that lady saying “you know, you know you know” you know 😂
Try talking in a similar setting yourself I bet you melt
YH you know, maybe so you know, you just might know
Be nice to your sisters and brothers. Please dnt leave nasty comments.
Be strong sister, every one has been tested. May Allah bless you
Ameen JZK for your kind words
I’m the youngest and I’m the fairest. I’m very light skinned. Yet I was bullied and called names by family members as by I was so pale with yellowish undertone. I was called Chinese and a yellow frog, lifeless etc etc. but I believe this bullying by family was more gender based being a girl. Being a girl is much worse than being dark skinned. Please cover gender based abuse - it’s much more relevant
Thank you sister. Please reach out to us. Happy to hear you out 🙏.
SM admin team
@understandingprophets im too beautiful, its a threat to a bunch of dark skinned people so they have to bring you down, but thats just not going to happen :) and Chinese/Thai women are gorgeous
@understandingprophets I've never seen Allah, have no idea what he looks like, if his beautiful or what his preference in women is?
I wonder what Allah would think of you slandering random women online and mocking peoples skin tone and race, do you think he be proud of you and find your personality, behaviour, morals and ethics "beautiful" I think NOT
@understandingprophets Don't mock Muslims and Islam. Total disgusting
I'm so sorry you were called those names
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This is quite light for a bengali they are much darker on average, and they are darker than africzns sometimes.
That is outrageous, come to east London, I will show you tens of thousands that are olive skinned. To be fair there’s a mixture of tones. But, for a darker south Asian girl in the Indian sub-continent, unfortunately, there is undue and unjust criticism, it’s wrong and potentially oppression. Hence the episode 🙏
However, there is an argument that those south Asian women that may be perceived a little darker (Shemla) but are very good looking, don’t face any criticism.
Thanks,
Host
@@Silentmajority-podcast true
This is not Islam in islam the only it matters is good deeds and pure heart regardless skin color and gender I hope muslim community will change for better because skin color has to be irrelevant seriously it’s so sad and unfortunate
This lady in yelliw is not dark atcall shes quite light dir a bengali Asians can be delusional sometimes I'd say the majority are darker . I've grown up with bengalis they are some of my nearest and dearest friends.
You know…?
Felt sorry for Rupina because you practically ignored her for the most part of the podcast. If you are going to invite someone on then have them engage
I find all that what colours your skin it .that is not important to the colour of the person skin. to me it the person who is a good quality person that's is very important .Allah Ta'allah have created us that shows to me they are not happy with our Allmighty Allah. That is unislamic to judge a person of their skin.
I think this is a difficult topic to navigate because at the end of the day any man or woman has the choice to accept or reject a person for marriage based on their looks, and this includes skin tone. At the same time a person shouldn't be shamed because of their skin tone and treatedly badly for no reason other than this.
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You contradict yourself. How is it you believe that one shouldn’t be shamed for the colour of their skin yet also believe that a person can be rejected or accepted based on it. And isn’t it generally true that women of lighter skin are preferred to women of darker skin in most settings.
@@Aniieee034 one is a preference, same with any other attribute. The other is baseless shaming.
@@abumaalik9272 That’s valid. However, these preferences you speak of are sometimes, and more often than not, rooted in societal and cultural influences and reflect implicit biases or ingrained prejudices.
The fair lady is only fair because she used fair and lovely
The woman in yellow is not even dark 🤷🏻♀️
The host looking dashing as always...and that SEXY voice 🥵
Steady
You might need to get your ears tested
@@Xxxx2025. His voice is like music to my ears 💯 I hve a friend who's an audiologist if you want help diagnosing your hearing issue 😊 lmk yeah? Xx
@@chrbx13 good for you
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I hope this Samia married or marries a black brother 😂. That will show them lol
Bloody hell they should see ny eyebrows
Sister in yellow. Seen lots of bengali women ljke you. Allah huma barik you are very pretty
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